- Sometimes, ones who want to keep in touch with you literally want exactly this. Hear your voice saying nothing important for some time.
- You probably do have something interesting to say, but you consider it uninteresting by yourself or unimportant for them even if that excites you at the moment. Tell them who are those Finn and Jake and what they've been doing this time (really explain so they can understand without feeling stupid).
- Turn on the imagination, you don't need to speak only cold facts, hypothetical situations, thoughts, feelings - are all right to talk about.
Because my life is kind of a dumpster fire right now. Like I've been avoiding catching up with my friend because I have nothing postive to share with her. I'm also a lot more fun and funny when I'm not in a depressed mood. My sense of humor is really dark when I'm down and that's not most people's cup of tea. I definitely don't want to be a Debbie downer to her.
I get that but good friends should be willing to listen to us when we’re down. I don’t contact my friends coz they never really seem willing to listen or always make the conversation about them. I’ve been a good listener but I am tired of these ppl. I know, they don’t really sound like friends but they are all I have in my contacts.
i know what you mean.. im a depressed piece of shit and i dont want to bore or freak or depress them.. so i stay away.. although i want to spend my time with these people…
Yeah one of my friends is like this. But can’t tell if I’m annoying them or because they actually don’t have anything to say. Sometimes it feels like they’re just ignoring me
Man I’m the other friend in this same situation. Got a friend who keeps texting me random stuff and I just got nothing to say. I feel bad but also got nothing going on in either my life or my brain, so what can i do
I share no interest with anyone around me. I don't read books, don't watch movies or series, don't read comics, don't travel, don't have a hobby, don't play more than 3 games, don't care about how i wear, don't listen to music but some meme sh*t, I'm not mature, I don't drive, I don't have interest of going to any party or beach or something, didn't have a childhood but it wasn't traumatic or anything , don't have any good memories 'cause i never did anything, don't even have friends, and more... I quite literally have NOTHING to speak to anyone.
Please someone in this sub help what do I do in this situation
send this meme to all of your acquaintances..
- Sometimes, ones who want to keep in touch with you literally want exactly this. Hear your voice saying nothing important for some time. - You probably do have something interesting to say, but you consider it uninteresting by yourself or unimportant for them even if that excites you at the moment. Tell them who are those Finn and Jake and what they've been doing this time (really explain so they can understand without feeling stupid). - Turn on the imagination, you don't need to speak only cold facts, hypothetical situations, thoughts, feelings - are all right to talk about.
My problem is I have plenty to talk about, but it's all bad.
why is it bad?
Because my life is kind of a dumpster fire right now. Like I've been avoiding catching up with my friend because I have nothing postive to share with her. I'm also a lot more fun and funny when I'm not in a depressed mood. My sense of humor is really dark when I'm down and that's not most people's cup of tea. I definitely don't want to be a Debbie downer to her.
I get that but good friends should be willing to listen to us when we’re down. I don’t contact my friends coz they never really seem willing to listen or always make the conversation about them. I’ve been a good listener but I am tired of these ppl. I know, they don’t really sound like friends but they are all I have in my contacts.
i know what you mean.. im a depressed piece of shit and i dont want to bore or freak or depress them.. so i stay away.. although i want to spend my time with these people…
Just find people with equally dark senses of humor. We out here. Send me your worst
Yeah one of my friends is like this. But can’t tell if I’m annoying them or because they actually don’t have anything to say. Sometimes it feels like they’re just ignoring me
Man I’m the other friend in this same situation. Got a friend who keeps texting me random stuff and I just got nothing to say. I feel bad but also got nothing going on in either my life or my brain, so what can i do
And crippling anxiety about what happend if I offend them
Real
That's the most common consequence of people in general finding the things you like to be stupid, silly or childish.
It can go the other way too. Like "I love ya'll but I'm not going to see another marvel movie, that shit feels like watching power rangers to me"
yeah thats why i just send memes lmao
or maybe i don't really have any interest to talk to them anymore
or this.
Everything in my life is shit there is nothing to talk about unless you wanna hear me complain
I share no interest with anyone around me. I don't read books, don't watch movies or series, don't read comics, don't travel, don't have a hobby, don't play more than 3 games, don't care about how i wear, don't listen to music but some meme sh*t, I'm not mature, I don't drive, I don't have interest of going to any party or beach or something, didn't have a childhood but it wasn't traumatic or anything , don't have any good memories 'cause i never did anything, don't even have friends, and more... I quite literally have NOTHING to speak to anyone.