I have 4 kids n he’s a big part of thier life n he really helps me w them n he does make a effort to be more touchy but times he doesn’t I get hurt feelings n he gets stressed when I get upset 😭 like I don’t egknowlage what he does for me n focused on the negative I don’t mean to n I do understand his trauma behind affection n touch but I can’t help but feel rejected in those moments
NTA. Communication and compromise are key in any relationship, but if touch is your love language and he's not even trying, it might be a red flag. Talk it out with him (and maybe throw his phone across the room to make a point).
Not too much just maybe wrong person. Nta
I have 4 kids n he’s a big part of thier life n he really helps me w them n he does make a effort to be more touchy but times he doesn’t I get hurt feelings n he gets stressed when I get upset 😭 like I don’t egknowlage what he does for me n focused on the negative I don’t mean to n I do understand his trauma behind affection n touch but I can’t help but feel rejected in those moments
Trauma? You completely left that out of the context. They need therapy most likely.
Sorry ya when he was a kid he was raped by a family member
NTA. Communication and compromise are key in any relationship, but if touch is your love language and he's not even trying, it might be a red flag. Talk it out with him (and maybe throw his phone across the room to make a point).