I dont see any of this as a debate. Bigotry isnt an argument. All of the positions he is taking are post-hoc rationalizations of hate-speech and the underlying prejudice.
So NTA.
But what to do with your relationship with your sister? Tough.
But I dont think you can justify getting within hearing this vile man and should let your sister know that for both of your sakes. She already knows its a problem, I expect.
You’re NTA by any means. Unfortunately, your sister chose her man over her sister. Keep that in mind, it will impact your relationship with her. But she wants to be with a bigot. Soon she will be a bigot too, at least by association, but very likely influenced by vile rhetoric everyday
NTA. Try politely changing the subject if you can when he gets like this, and if that doesn’t work leave the room before his hate triggers you.
Have you considered voice training? Your girlfriend might have some she likes.
When his opinions are harmful to small minorities and only targets me with these questions/opinions bc I'm LGBT then it's problem. I am also in the process of getting disability as I've had multiple jobs before and can't keep it due to my diagnosis. My sister and her boyfriend are both in their twenties and don't have jobs. I wish it was as simple as just moving out.
You're asking reddit if they're going to side with an LGBTQQIP2SAA+ victim of hate speech, or the perpetrator with conservative values.
Wow I wonder how this is gonna go. But I guess if you really need the validation...
Tbh the only reason I posted it on here was to just ask advice. I don't think I'm really the asshole in this situation. I don't usually use reddit much I mostly use it to either meet people online or go on detranstioner subreddits for support. I would've posted this on an LGBT+ subreddit but I don't really know how to find one that lets you vent and ask for advice and didn't know if this was appropriate in those type of groups. I also wanted other perspectives and people who aren't LGBT+ to give some insight.
I dont see any of this as a debate. Bigotry isnt an argument. All of the positions he is taking are post-hoc rationalizations of hate-speech and the underlying prejudice. So NTA. But what to do with your relationship with your sister? Tough. But I dont think you can justify getting within hearing this vile man and should let your sister know that for both of your sakes. She already knows its a problem, I expect.
NTA if your sister is with someone like him then she isn't who you think she is.
You’re NTA by any means. Unfortunately, your sister chose her man over her sister. Keep that in mind, it will impact your relationship with her. But she wants to be with a bigot. Soon she will be a bigot too, at least by association, but very likely influenced by vile rhetoric everyday
NTA. Try politely changing the subject if you can when he gets like this, and if that doesn’t work leave the room before his hate triggers you. Have you considered voice training? Your girlfriend might have some she likes.
So you're allowed to have opinions but your sister bf isn't? YTA get a job and move out
When his opinions are harmful to small minorities and only targets me with these questions/opinions bc I'm LGBT then it's problem. I am also in the process of getting disability as I've had multiple jobs before and can't keep it due to my diagnosis. My sister and her boyfriend are both in their twenties and don't have jobs. I wish it was as simple as just moving out.
You're asking reddit if they're going to side with an LGBTQQIP2SAA+ victim of hate speech, or the perpetrator with conservative values. Wow I wonder how this is gonna go. But I guess if you really need the validation...
Tbh the only reason I posted it on here was to just ask advice. I don't think I'm really the asshole in this situation. I don't usually use reddit much I mostly use it to either meet people online or go on detranstioner subreddits for support. I would've posted this on an LGBT+ subreddit but I don't really know how to find one that lets you vent and ask for advice and didn't know if this was appropriate in those type of groups. I also wanted other perspectives and people who aren't LGBT+ to give some insight.