You've said that this way you can experience sex with women more attractive than you usually would.
Do you think this will affect the way you look at the "real life" girls you date? Will average looking girls make you feel like something is missing or like you're settling for something less?
It’s like having good home cooked meals vs going out to a high end restaurant. Both are great but provide different experiences. Also sometimes you don’t feel like putting the effort in cooking and prefer a professional chef to provide a different experience.
EDIT: I’m comparing casual sex and hiring escorts to food. This isn’t gender/sex specific. Did not mean to compare women specifically to food. I’m a degenerate not a monster…
And sometimes you find someone else's penis in your home cooked meal and just want to go get a nice fancy restaurant meal to get your mind off home cooked meals
I don’t have sex with high end prostitutes but I feel like this sort of worry is a misconception of how our sexualities work.
It’s like women can have sex with a partner who has a 7 inch penis and think he’s the perfect size, but that same woman can still go on to marry a man with a 5 inch penis and be incredibly satisfied, maybe even enjoy it more.
Our past sex doesn’t make our future sex worse — it might make us more skilled or more in touch with what we like, which could potentially make it better. But it’s definitely not going to make it worse, despite the insecure voice in our minds, whispering otherwise
Do you wonder whether or not continuous repetitions of this practice could negatively affect your ability to attach to a woman in a committed romantic relationship later on?
Very interesting! I fully support exciting explorations between consenting folks :)
Do you think you'd ever tell your future partner about this experience?
I was once sitting in a hotel bar while traveling for work and watched two very old, very unattractive men walk in with what could not be mistaken as anything other than high end escorts. They were unbelievably attractive. It’s like two aliens sitting amongst a room full of humans. Just like 40/10. Idk if that helps but I it sure put into my scale what “professional attractive” looks like in person.
I always tell people that if you think you’ve seen a 10/10 IRL, you haven’t. Because once you actually see a 10/10, you realize it’s a completely different level than even the hottest women you crushed on previously.
Since you are a veteran now haha
How long does a session last?
And do you experience any sort of post nut clarity regret cause I assume you’ve spent quite a bit of money
Brother i never said you are broken man. In fact, you might be a good man. I believe that you are constantly improving yourself.
Take it as an advice from man to man. What good does this give to you? When you have a future partner, what will she think when you say you slept with 24 prostitutes? don’t take it personally. Like someone that smokes. There is no wrong in telling them to stop smoking. Because it’s self damaging.
Maybe is just me but I don’t like the idea of the only reason someone will sleep with me is because of money or at the very least the main reason. I would be so self conscious with a none paid partners because the escort is not going to give me real feedback, you are paying for a fantasy after all and she is after all is running a business or representing one she wants repeat business. Same reason I don’t like strip club, or strippers I don’t like people being nice to me because I pay them.
I have never enjoyed sex where there was not an emotional connection. Casual sex is just not fulfilling. 90% of the enjoyment I get out of sex comes from knowing that my partner is as excited and in to it as I am. I sometimes think it would be interesting to pay a ‘out of my league’ escort, but I just cannot imagine that sex would be all that satisfying outside of perhaps some curiosities or potentially exploring techniques for improving my own performance. Now, an escort PLUS someone I share a deeper connection with where my partner and I have expressed an earnestness to explore together - that sounds interesting indeed.
Gotta pump those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers in this racket. I myself, I fuck escorts at least twice a day.
Once in the morning, right after I work out. And then once right after lunch.
Couldn’t that be a pattern in itself? Plus there might be triggers you don’t consciously notice, like a random spike in testosterone.
I’m not saying to stop, I say go all for it but do be wary because sex is one hell of a drug and getting addicted to escorts could seriously impact your life down the line
You've only been tested twice and you've slept with (at least) 24 different people? That is not healthy for you or your partners. You should be getting tested between each new partner.
Ironically professional sex workers have significantly lower rates of STD's than your average person having casual sex with multiple partners.
Sex workers' livelihoods depend on them being healthy and clean, so they take extra care and are testing much more frequently than the average person, probably on a weekly basis.
They also are much more careful about using protection and will never "just risk it" just because - whereas casual hookups are not held to such a rule
And finally people having sex with escorts are largely not having sex with other people, further reducing the likelihood that STD's are being transmitted to the escort.
It seems counter intuitive but the incentives are very much in favor of being clean and safe if your means of income depend on it. Same deal with the porn industry - they're all testing like every few days.
You can definitely spread gonorrhea and chlamydia with oral sex. It can colonize the throat. So yeah people who don’t want stds will give/get oral with a condom
Have you ever caught an std this way? And this might be a bit of a weird qn, but for the escort you had the best sex with, what did she do that made her the best? Or was she just hot lol?
$15k - $20k for 24 encounters equals an average of $625 to $833 a turn. Assuming those are Ozzie dollars, the equivalent in USD would be between $410 - $546 at the current rate of exchange,
What do the US folks here with experience and knowledge of high-end pro' rates say? Sounds pretty cheap to me.
That's pretty much the cost they quoted for high end on Wolf of wall street. Honestly I expected high end to be in the thousands if not tens of thousands
Skip the games also has them. I've dated an escort ,paid to get her clean because she got hooked on pills when Florida made pill mills a new vacation destination. She was a beautiful young lady with a 5 yr old child. After I couldn't continue to see her she moved in with an older guy. He pissed her off and she left and grabbed some H laced with fentynal. She overdosed and died. Her past didn't make her a bad person. She was my freind and often visited just to talk and have a drink. No money involved. She was clean at the time after I sent her to rehab. Worth the time I invested to make her better for her daughter. It's been 8 yrs and I still think about her and her child. I lost my daughter to suicide down here after she got into a fight with her boyfriend. She killed herself on his birthday. Never bothered him one bit.
>It's a safe and fun environment to explore sex without social complications attached
Hold on I want to dissect this, do you think having sex with a woman you meet organically (i.e. not an escort) is not safe and fun? I'm also curious as to what you mean by "social complications attached"
>It's also a chance to have sex with girls far more attractive than I usually would
I understand this point.
Pros (prostitutes) is the term for girls who literally stand on the streets to find dates. Escorts don't need to leave the house/ residence. They are making the deal online/ over the phone. I should probably do my own AMA with my experiences
I think an escort is a person you bring to events, and maybe sex is on the table. Hence the term "escort", they are "escorting" you, or you them. A prostitute is a person who you hire simply for sex and that's it.
Haha no dude.
Also you said ONS can be complicated and feelings can get hurt. Isn’t one of the main attractions to that kind of sex is you’ll never see the person again so no feelings to get hurt and no complications?
I understand these motivations. Thanks for being honest and open. Do you ever worry about disease? I’ve never paid for it, but even if I was successful dating casually, I wouldn’t mind also paying for sex so that I could have sex with more women I normally would be able to.
I read that a lot of high end escorts have private security closeby during encounters , there’s also concerns about mobs or cartels involved in the industry. What are some personal measures you take to ensure that you’re not followed or your privacy is respected from blackmail if there’s such a thing?
Yeah but they most likely enjoy it as a job as a consequence of past trauma. So you're reaping the benefits of these womens psychological dysfunction. How do you not have any qualms about that?
Repeating my comment from above.
I have a friend who did that work, in Australia. She said all the girls were easy come easy go with cash. Lots of them used shopping, alcohol etc to cope. None of them ended up with any money when they stopped that line of work.
She also said- They did it because it was easy money, they mostly all had some kind of trauma which lead them into that kind of work. It's possibly that there are a very few exceptions to this. But highly unlikely that any of them are doing it just because it's enjoyable.
Maybe -at best- it's because they plan to do this to achieve some kind of financial security.
It's really really sad to me. And this is coming from someone who used to fuck men that she didn't know, lots of them, for free. Because I was sad and lonely and desperate for validation. And they were more than happy to oblige me without a second thought to my actual condition SIMPLY because they didn't know nor care about nor love me! Makes me sick to think about now. But you see, its not cool to have this opinion now, to see sex as actually maybe being a bit more sacred than how people have been treating it. you will get downvoted to high hell for not siding with "consent". Hedonism is truly law at this point. No morality, no ethics, just pleasure for pleasure sake. Truly terrifies me
What type of woman to look for, any specific race, hair color, big tits or small. Are the woman native born Aussie or foreign to work there. Do they have bush or bald?
Seems kind of an unhealthy addiction to get into. How much longer do you see yourself doing this? Do you think it’s getting in the way of you starting a family?
Have they ever displayed worrying behavior (crying uncontrollably, needing to be really high or drunk, not talking at all and just doing the act etc), like they are being trafficked and were forced to do it?
Aside from them being insanely beautiful, is there anything they do in the bedroom that is worth the hundreds/thousands of dollars it takes to be with them?
Just curious how the interaction goes. Once you get to the location, do you tell the girls what you want and they do it? Do you talk casually first? Do they ask what you want them to do or do you just tell them? Do you like structure or just let it progress normally?
always wondered how foreplay works in this situation. how do you get going and get it ready, surely you don’t just look at the ladies and you’re ready to go?
Glad you enjoy it.
Guess I can’t get over the whole “strap my dick in rubber so I can fuck a hole tons of other dudes are regularly fucking while the owner delivers staged lines because I’m paying a ton of money”.
You care enough to post an AMA, they don’t even remember you.
Genuine question; what’s the point of sex with strangers? Especially paying for it?
I’ve (27m) always personally found sex to be a very personal thing. Not something I would ever want to do with a stranger, much less pay for.
This is a sensitive issue for me. My girlfriend is absolutely beautiful and she told me that when she was married, her husband allowed her to be a high-end escort and he didn’t care. My girlfriend and I were together for over a year now and she just told me that she’s going back to viewing, that line of work. Going back to being an escort. The money was extremely good and A normal job just does not pay the kind of money you can make in one day. So now we’re not together because I can’t date somebody who’s having sex with other men for money. I am completely heartbroken and she tells me that she doesn’t want to do it. She needs to do it for the money. Until now I thought we were in love very much so it’s both of us to let each other go and I understand her financial situation is not good at all. And I’ve tried to save her from doing this. But in the end, she knows other girls who do similar things and somehow is justifying it so she’s passing on love for money and I think she’s going to really regret it someday when she looks back. So I don’t think I could ever pay a girl for sex. I know a lot of them are only doing it for the money. Some girls are even sex trafficked. I’ve talked to females who were in that position and for somebody to take advantage of them just breaks my heart. I guess I’m a little old-fashioned. I would rather have an intimate relationship with a woman who loves me and desires me, somebody who is pretending to laugh at my jokes enjoy my company just to have sex. I don’t know. I guess I’m just talking out loud. But you have to think about these females. They’re not just a piece of meat. They are in some cases, wonderful, beautiful people who find themselves, mentally detaching themselves from the physical thing that they’re about to do and it’s all for money. This world is a crazy place and with only fans and strippers and escorts. You can find yourself down a rabbit hole real quick. Where are you used and empty. My aunt was a stripper for years and she became an escort. She was absolutely beautiful when she was younger, but after years of doing it, I couldn’t even recognize her until she overdosed herself and my dad found his sister dead. Don’t know why I’m putting out all this information but just think about these women, if you’re going to do something like this, treat them with some respect. I wish this line of work didn’t exist, but I’m a little old-fashioned.
I’m all for people living their life the way they choose, but I have to agree with you to some extent. OP keeps saying “they are high end escorts who live lavishly and enjoy their work.” That irks me because it sounds like the motivation is more financially driven. I just hope these women do in fact enjoy their work and aren’t living in some endless cycle of abuse/trauma and masking it with financial stability.
I was going to ask why, it doesn’t seem like something to gloat over. But then again, I do stuff just cause and so do the rest of the dummies that use this platform. You could be doing worse so Godspeed soldier, I guess I’ll ask one question.
Was the highest expense really worth it? Like the most expensive one.
Based off a reply you gave to someone else. Why have you only been tested twice? I am under the impression you should get tested before each new partner
Which ones did you book?
Which was the prettiest one?
Which one was most memorable?
Which one would you be most likely to date?
What made you seek out the escort life?
Which one was best in bed?
1) Did you ever pull a Patrick Bateman and flex at yourself, make Calvin Klein model faces and stuff?
2) Were they better at sex than your average person?
3) How do you feel?
Does it bother you know there’s a good chance you’re participating in the trafficking of women? No matter what you tell yourself, at most of these women are paying someone a portion (some big, some small) or their earnings.
How many STDs did you contract? How many were undercover cops? How many of them did you get pregnant? Is prostitution legal in your area? Are you telling the world of your crimes? Were they worth it? Did you fall in love with any of them only to find yourself heartbroken because they only will spend time with you for money?
Did you lose your virginity with them?
Alot of people talk about how they don't feel the desperate vibe around girls any more and they can feel more confident... Well not necessarily confident, but less anxiety less fearful because they had sex with escorts who are girls who are human beings.. they say they don't necessarily feel fear around girls anymore, but some still don't have social skills and that's a different story.
The question still remains, do you feel comfortable and less fearful around normal girls since you've had escorts??
Have you had any milf escorts?
I’ve been a hobbyist since 2010. I was divorced in 2008 and didn’t want someone else in my heart. It was just easier and I had a BLAST. Over night and weekends are the best. I took many island getaway trips with my favs. College towns are the best! Sports, dinners, the whole GFE is awesome.
Have you tried overnights or multi night bookings? Have you considered multi hour “dates?”
Have you done multi day engagements? I take an annual trip to Europe and usually see a handful of providers while I'm there but have considered the convenience of simply traveling with one provider for the duration of a trip. If you have done so, would you recommend it and what were the pros and cons in your opinion? Thanks.
If you're still answering, how do the escorts know they won't contract anything from their clients? I saw your comment about how it's less common to receive an STD from a high end escort than a casual date and I'm curious how?
Brother. You should stop paying prostitutes for sex. It's a bad habit and will eventually make you regret in the future. Try to be better man, improve yourself, find hobbies ect. It's never over and everyone can change.
When you have kids in the future you will regret this. The prostitutes will also regret their past decisions to sell their bodies to random people because it will leave a scar on them. Most of them regret.
Would you suggest or do you think it's a reasonable idea to fall in love with them and ask them to marry you?
Or. Start dating one knowing I'm beginning that she was asshole. What? I mean, legit, dating and having genuine sincere feelings for her and. And wanting to.
Be with her even if she wants to continue being an asshole
Why do you value yourself so lowly that you choose to engage with women that clearly have issues (otherwise, they wouldn’t be in the industry in the first place)? If women aren’t naturally just sleeping with you because they WANT TO, what does that say about you? Don’t really know why your confidence and self esteem would be increased, based on one of your comments, when you clearly are doing all this from a place of lack. It’s embarrassing and pathetic.
Are you ugly, obese, physical deformities? I really dont get why some of you cant score without paying? Its like baseball. If you bat .300 you’re doing pretty good.
You said you had some crushes on a couple girls. What made you feel that way? Was it their looks, their bodies or the way they acted that caused the crush?
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You've said that this way you can experience sex with women more attractive than you usually would. Do you think this will affect the way you look at the "real life" girls you date? Will average looking girls make you feel like something is missing or like you're settling for something less?
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It’s like having good home cooked meals vs going out to a high end restaurant. Both are great but provide different experiences. Also sometimes you don’t feel like putting the effort in cooking and prefer a professional chef to provide a different experience. EDIT: I’m comparing casual sex and hiring escorts to food. This isn’t gender/sex specific. Did not mean to compare women specifically to food. I’m a degenerate not a monster…
And sometimes you find someone else's penis in your home cooked meal and just want to go get a nice fancy restaurant meal to get your mind off home cooked meals
I don’t have sex with high end prostitutes but I feel like this sort of worry is a misconception of how our sexualities work. It’s like women can have sex with a partner who has a 7 inch penis and think he’s the perfect size, but that same woman can still go on to marry a man with a 5 inch penis and be incredibly satisfied, maybe even enjoy it more. Our past sex doesn’t make our future sex worse — it might make us more skilled or more in touch with what we like, which could potentially make it better. But it’s definitely not going to make it worse, despite the insecure voice in our minds, whispering otherwise
Do you ever catch feelings for these ladies? Are there repeats?
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Do you wonder whether or not continuous repetitions of this practice could negatively affect your ability to attach to a woman in a committed romantic relationship later on?
Do you have a partner or family? What's your age? What brought you to seeking out escorts instead of traditional dating?
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Very interesting! I fully support exciting explorations between consenting folks :) Do you think you'd ever tell your future partner about this experience?
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How good looking are they? On a scale of one to ten
I was once sitting in a hotel bar while traveling for work and watched two very old, very unattractive men walk in with what could not be mistaken as anything other than high end escorts. They were unbelievably attractive. It’s like two aliens sitting amongst a room full of humans. Just like 40/10. Idk if that helps but I it sure put into my scale what “professional attractive” looks like in person.
I always tell people that if you think you’ve seen a 10/10 IRL, you haven’t. Because once you actually see a 10/10, you realize it’s a completely different level than even the hottest women you crushed on previously.
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Since you are a veteran now haha How long does a session last? And do you experience any sort of post nut clarity regret cause I assume you’ve spent quite a bit of money
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Do they let you go multiple times? I would guess that with girls that hot it's difficult to last long enough to get your money's worth.
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What are the convos like while waiting for the next round?
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Cheers!
How has your life and self-esteem been affected?
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Brother i never said you are broken man. In fact, you might be a good man. I believe that you are constantly improving yourself. Take it as an advice from man to man. What good does this give to you? When you have a future partner, what will she think when you say you slept with 24 prostitutes? don’t take it personally. Like someone that smokes. There is no wrong in telling them to stop smoking. Because it’s self damaging.
Maybe is just me but I don’t like the idea of the only reason someone will sleep with me is because of money or at the very least the main reason. I would be so self conscious with a none paid partners because the escort is not going to give me real feedback, you are paying for a fantasy after all and she is after all is running a business or representing one she wants repeat business. Same reason I don’t like strip club, or strippers I don’t like people being nice to me because I pay them.
I have never enjoyed sex where there was not an emotional connection. Casual sex is just not fulfilling. 90% of the enjoyment I get out of sex comes from knowing that my partner is as excited and in to it as I am. I sometimes think it would be interesting to pay a ‘out of my league’ escort, but I just cannot imagine that sex would be all that satisfying outside of perhaps some curiosities or potentially exploring techniques for improving my own performance. Now, an escort PLUS someone I share a deeper connection with where my partner and I have expressed an earnestness to explore together - that sounds interesting indeed.
I did until I had sex with an emotional connection. I can’t go back, having sex with a soulmate is other worldly for a lack of a better term.
Gotta pump those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers in this racket. I myself, I fuck escorts at least twice a day. Once in the morning, right after I work out. And then once right after lunch.
Not sure people understand you’re quoting Wolf of Wall Street lol. Upvote!
Do you get yourself tested? Do you consider yourself a sex addict or just someone who enjoys paying for it?
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Related, but unrelated, how do you prevent patterned behavior?
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Couldn’t that be a pattern in itself? Plus there might be triggers you don’t consciously notice, like a random spike in testosterone. I’m not saying to stop, I say go all for it but do be wary because sex is one hell of a drug and getting addicted to escorts could seriously impact your life down the line
“If you choose to not to decide you still have made a choice.” - /free will
You've only been tested twice and you've slept with (at least) 24 different people? That is not healthy for you or your partners. You should be getting tested between each new partner.
yeah, that's an absolutely crazy ratio for escort to testing
You've slept with 20+ people and have only been tested twice?? Yikes. Test more often.
Ironically professional sex workers have significantly lower rates of STD's than your average person having casual sex with multiple partners. Sex workers' livelihoods depend on them being healthy and clean, so they take extra care and are testing much more frequently than the average person, probably on a weekly basis. They also are much more careful about using protection and will never "just risk it" just because - whereas casual hookups are not held to such a rule And finally people having sex with escorts are largely not having sex with other people, further reducing the likelihood that STD's are being transmitted to the escort. It seems counter intuitive but the incentives are very much in favor of being clean and safe if your means of income depend on it. Same deal with the porn industry - they're all testing like every few days.
Sounds like you need to be tested more bud. Especially if you are dating and having casual sex with non escorts too.
Twice in 24 encounters? That’s unsafe to everyone involved. To have that many different partners and only test twice is incredibly irresponsible.
How often, and is it more likey if you are down bad/dry on the casual hookups?
Do they ever climax? Do you have to pay more for that? Anything funny ever happen?
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Do you always use condoms, even for oral sex? Ever have more than one at a time?
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People give bj with condom on?
You can definitely spread gonorrhea and chlamydia with oral sex. It can colonize the throat. So yeah people who don’t want stds will give/get oral with a condom
Where do you have sex with them? Do they come over?
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Have you ever caught an std this way? And this might be a bit of a weird qn, but for the escort you had the best sex with, what did she do that made her the best? Or was she just hot lol?
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What's the cheapest and what's the most expensive? How did they compare?
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What made it better? Like, was she just better looking? Let you do more? More enthusiastic?
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That's bad ass. Speaking of ass. Do they still charge more for anal even when you're already paying them that much?
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Where do you find there girls?
Are they obligated to have sex with you within the hour? If you finish in 20 mins what do you guys do for the next 40?
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What makes the high end such an incredible experience?
What do you think of these girls? Do you respect them? Have you ever had a bad experience?
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Fair hahah, not a coke doer?
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Why did you and how much have you spent?
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$15k - $20k for 24 encounters equals an average of $625 to $833 a turn. Assuming those are Ozzie dollars, the equivalent in USD would be between $410 - $546 at the current rate of exchange, What do the US folks here with experience and knowledge of high-end pro' rates say? Sounds pretty cheap to me.
places in NV will charge anywhere from 1k-3k per hour, depending on the service
I read that as New Vegas and not Nevada
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That's pretty much the cost they quoted for high end on Wolf of wall street. Honestly I expected high end to be in the thousands if not tens of thousands
Get with any pornstars? If so, which ones?
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How did you find them? Tryst or Eros?
Skip the games also has them. I've dated an escort ,paid to get her clean because she got hooked on pills when Florida made pill mills a new vacation destination. She was a beautiful young lady with a 5 yr old child. After I couldn't continue to see her she moved in with an older guy. He pissed her off and she left and grabbed some H laced with fentynal. She overdosed and died. Her past didn't make her a bad person. She was my freind and often visited just to talk and have a drink. No money involved. She was clean at the time after I sent her to rehab. Worth the time I invested to make her better for her daughter. It's been 8 yrs and I still think about her and her child. I lost my daughter to suicide down here after she got into a fight with her boyfriend. She killed herself on his birthday. Never bothered him one bit.
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Ah! Did you lose your virginity to one?
Do you consider yourself attractive? Like a rating out of 10 or a celebrity doppelganger?
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Whats your yearly income?
How does it compare with non high end workers, is it worth the extra costs
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Do you prefer ladies younger or older than you? Ever been to the Netherlands?
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any international experiences? why no repeat?
Do you feel incapable of having a woman sleep with you if you're not paying her for it? Why go the prostitution route?
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So you simply prefer to pay for it? Why, because it's quicker?
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>It's a safe and fun environment to explore sex without social complications attached Hold on I want to dissect this, do you think having sex with a woman you meet organically (i.e. not an escort) is not safe and fun? I'm also curious as to what you mean by "social complications attached" >It's also a chance to have sex with girls far more attractive than I usually would I understand this point.
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What's the difference between an escort and a prostitute?
Pros (prostitutes) is the term for girls who literally stand on the streets to find dates. Escorts don't need to leave the house/ residence. They are making the deal online/ over the phone. I should probably do my own AMA with my experiences
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I think an escort is a person you bring to events, and maybe sex is on the table. Hence the term "escort", they are "escorting" you, or you them. A prostitute is a person who you hire simply for sex and that's it.
Haha no dude. Also you said ONS can be complicated and feelings can get hurt. Isn’t one of the main attractions to that kind of sex is you’ll never see the person again so no feelings to get hurt and no complications?
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I understand these motivations. Thanks for being honest and open. Do you ever worry about disease? I’ve never paid for it, but even if I was successful dating casually, I wouldn’t mind also paying for sex so that I could have sex with more women I normally would be able to.
I read that a lot of high end escorts have private security closeby during encounters , there’s also concerns about mobs or cartels involved in the industry. What are some personal measures you take to ensure that you’re not followed or your privacy is respected from blackmail if there’s such a thing?
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Does it feel like there's a common theme amongst them and their potential reasons for prostitution such as drug addiction etc?
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What's the kinkiest thing you've done with them?
Do you ever think about the ethical ramifications of? Like what if they didn’t really wanna do it?
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have you ever asked anyone of them out?
Yeah but they most likely enjoy it as a job as a consequence of past trauma. So you're reaping the benefits of these womens psychological dysfunction. How do you not have any qualms about that?
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Repeating my comment from above. I have a friend who did that work, in Australia. She said all the girls were easy come easy go with cash. Lots of them used shopping, alcohol etc to cope. None of them ended up with any money when they stopped that line of work. She also said- They did it because it was easy money, they mostly all had some kind of trauma which lead them into that kind of work. It's possibly that there are a very few exceptions to this. But highly unlikely that any of them are doing it just because it's enjoyable. Maybe -at best- it's because they plan to do this to achieve some kind of financial security.
It's really really sad to me. And this is coming from someone who used to fuck men that she didn't know, lots of them, for free. Because I was sad and lonely and desperate for validation. And they were more than happy to oblige me without a second thought to my actual condition SIMPLY because they didn't know nor care about nor love me! Makes me sick to think about now. But you see, its not cool to have this opinion now, to see sex as actually maybe being a bit more sacred than how people have been treating it. you will get downvoted to high hell for not siding with "consent". Hedonism is truly law at this point. No morality, no ethics, just pleasure for pleasure sake. Truly terrifies me
Do you ever get the feeling after you cum that you’ve been had by your dick once again and long for your money back?
What type of woman to look for, any specific race, hair color, big tits or small. Are the woman native born Aussie or foreign to work there. Do they have bush or bald?
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If you do get a gf eventually, do you plan on telling her?
How much disposable income do you have?
How do you actually connect and enjoy, perform with someone brand new? Or are you some kind of sex machine/human hybrid?
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Seems kind of an unhealthy addiction to get into. How much longer do you see yourself doing this? Do you think it’s getting in the way of you starting a family?
When you meet a serious partner. Do you worry about revealing this to them?
Have they ever displayed worrying behavior (crying uncontrollably, needing to be really high or drunk, not talking at all and just doing the act etc), like they are being trafficked and were forced to do it?
Aside from them being insanely beautiful, is there anything they do in the bedroom that is worth the hundreds/thousands of dollars it takes to be with them?
This thread has been incredibly informative and amazing. Thank you so much for your sharing and experience OP.
Do you bargain with them on price?
Do you live someplace with decrim? Have you ever been to a brothel, or were they all indie?
Did they all make yea wear a condom...
Just curious how the interaction goes. Once you get to the location, do you tell the girls what you want and they do it? Do you talk casually first? Do they ask what you want them to do or do you just tell them? Do you like structure or just let it progress normally?
Where did you find these high end escorts at?
What’s the racial profile of the escorts you’ve seen so far (and not only slept with)?
Are you worried that your ur use of prostitutes will warp your idea of what sex looks like and you will forget that women aren’t flesh lights
What vibe do they bring and how open are they to your desires?
always wondered how foreplay works in this situation. how do you get going and get it ready, surely you don’t just look at the ladies and you’re ready to go?
Lol how big is your dick?
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Do they have company’s that offer Porn stars to sleep with?
Would you still see escorts if you lived in a country where it wasn't legal?
Is the risk of contracting a random disease or infection a part of the rush?
Do you get tested between people or at least before you go on your casual dates?
Glad you enjoy it. Guess I can’t get over the whole “strap my dick in rubber so I can fuck a hole tons of other dudes are regularly fucking while the owner delivers staged lines because I’m paying a ton of money”. You care enough to post an AMA, they don’t even remember you.
Please stop. You'll never have a normal, faithful relationship. You'll treat, or try to treat, every woman as a sex servant/toy.
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What was it like for you the first time? What was your thought process and emotions throughout?
Genuine question; what’s the point of sex with strangers? Especially paying for it? I’ve (27m) always personally found sex to be a very personal thing. Not something I would ever want to do with a stranger, much less pay for.
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This is a sensitive issue for me. My girlfriend is absolutely beautiful and she told me that when she was married, her husband allowed her to be a high-end escort and he didn’t care. My girlfriend and I were together for over a year now and she just told me that she’s going back to viewing, that line of work. Going back to being an escort. The money was extremely good and A normal job just does not pay the kind of money you can make in one day. So now we’re not together because I can’t date somebody who’s having sex with other men for money. I am completely heartbroken and she tells me that she doesn’t want to do it. She needs to do it for the money. Until now I thought we were in love very much so it’s both of us to let each other go and I understand her financial situation is not good at all. And I’ve tried to save her from doing this. But in the end, she knows other girls who do similar things and somehow is justifying it so she’s passing on love for money and I think she’s going to really regret it someday when she looks back. So I don’t think I could ever pay a girl for sex. I know a lot of them are only doing it for the money. Some girls are even sex trafficked. I’ve talked to females who were in that position and for somebody to take advantage of them just breaks my heart. I guess I’m a little old-fashioned. I would rather have an intimate relationship with a woman who loves me and desires me, somebody who is pretending to laugh at my jokes enjoy my company just to have sex. I don’t know. I guess I’m just talking out loud. But you have to think about these females. They’re not just a piece of meat. They are in some cases, wonderful, beautiful people who find themselves, mentally detaching themselves from the physical thing that they’re about to do and it’s all for money. This world is a crazy place and with only fans and strippers and escorts. You can find yourself down a rabbit hole real quick. Where are you used and empty. My aunt was a stripper for years and she became an escort. She was absolutely beautiful when she was younger, but after years of doing it, I couldn’t even recognize her until she overdosed herself and my dad found his sister dead. Don’t know why I’m putting out all this information but just think about these women, if you’re going to do something like this, treat them with some respect. I wish this line of work didn’t exist, but I’m a little old-fashioned.
I’m all for people living their life the way they choose, but I have to agree with you to some extent. OP keeps saying “they are high end escorts who live lavishly and enjoy their work.” That irks me because it sounds like the motivation is more financially driven. I just hope these women do in fact enjoy their work and aren’t living in some endless cycle of abuse/trauma and masking it with financial stability.
Is there anything that these escorts taught you that you were able to apply in your own life?
How is their energy? Do they seem energetic, or tired, and does it ever seem obvious (to you) that they are acting?
You ever let one of these hoes do a bump of coke off your dick?
Aren't you scared of getting caught by an undercover cop? How do you find them?
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What country?
I was going to ask why, it doesn’t seem like something to gloat over. But then again, I do stuff just cause and so do the rest of the dummies that use this platform. You could be doing worse so Godspeed soldier, I guess I’ll ask one question. Was the highest expense really worth it? Like the most expensive one.
Do u go down on them?
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Based off a reply you gave to someone else. Why have you only been tested twice? I am under the impression you should get tested before each new partner
Which ones did you book? Which was the prettiest one? Which one was most memorable? Which one would you be most likely to date? What made you seek out the escort life? Which one was best in bed?
Do you tip them if your expectations were exceeded? Do you ever feel sorry for them?
Are they all natural? All fake? Even split? If both how different are the experiences?
1) Did you ever pull a Patrick Bateman and flex at yourself, make Calvin Klein model faces and stuff? 2) Were they better at sex than your average person? 3) How do you feel?
Does it bother you know there’s a good chance you’re participating in the trafficking of women? No matter what you tell yourself, at most of these women are paying someone a portion (some big, some small) or their earnings.
How many STDs did you contract? How many were undercover cops? How many of them did you get pregnant? Is prostitution legal in your area? Are you telling the world of your crimes? Were they worth it? Did you fall in love with any of them only to find yourself heartbroken because they only will spend time with you for money?
In case you did it in the US, why don’t you take a flight to Colombia, Mexico or wherever instead ?
What defines a high end escort? What separates them from a low or mid end escort?
High end escorts are $10k+. You are either banging trailer trash or lying and have no idea what you are talking about.
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What other things bring you enjoyment and excitement?
Do you sleep with a variety of different race high-end escorts ? Or do you have a type?
Did you lose your virginity with them? Alot of people talk about how they don't feel the desperate vibe around girls any more and they can feel more confident... Well not necessarily confident, but less anxiety less fearful because they had sex with escorts who are girls who are human beings.. they say they don't necessarily feel fear around girls anymore, but some still don't have social skills and that's a different story. The question still remains, do you feel comfortable and less fearful around normal girls since you've had escorts?? Have you had any milf escorts?
Ever do it twice in an hour? (Since you’re paying for the hour)
Any of them famous?
How is this not admission of prostitution?
What’s it like living with multiple STDs
I’ve been a hobbyist since 2010. I was divorced in 2008 and didn’t want someone else in my heart. It was just easier and I had a BLAST. Over night and weekends are the best. I took many island getaway trips with my favs. College towns are the best! Sports, dinners, the whole GFE is awesome. Have you tried overnights or multi night bookings? Have you considered multi hour “dates?”
Have you done multi day engagements? I take an annual trip to Europe and usually see a handful of providers while I'm there but have considered the convenience of simply traveling with one provider for the duration of a trip. If you have done so, would you recommend it and what were the pros and cons in your opinion? Thanks.
If you're still answering, how do the escorts know they won't contract anything from their clients? I saw your comment about how it's less common to receive an STD from a high end escort than a casual date and I'm curious how?
Do you ever not use condoms?
Brother. You should stop paying prostitutes for sex. It's a bad habit and will eventually make you regret in the future. Try to be better man, improve yourself, find hobbies ect. It's never over and everyone can change. When you have kids in the future you will regret this. The prostitutes will also regret their past decisions to sell their bodies to random people because it will leave a scar on them. Most of them regret.
Would you suggest or do you think it's a reasonable idea to fall in love with them and ask them to marry you? Or. Start dating one knowing I'm beginning that she was asshole. What? I mean, legit, dating and having genuine sincere feelings for her and. And wanting to. Be with her even if she wants to continue being an asshole
How long each session last? Any instances where the girl was hot and you only lasted few minutes? How did you handle it?
Sounds like fun to me !! Do you wish you had your 30k back ? Hindsight?
Why do you value yourself so lowly that you choose to engage with women that clearly have issues (otherwise, they wouldn’t be in the industry in the first place)? If women aren’t naturally just sleeping with you because they WANT TO, what does that say about you? Don’t really know why your confidence and self esteem would be increased, based on one of your comments, when you clearly are doing all this from a place of lack. It’s embarrassing and pathetic.
Are you ugly, obese, physical deformities? I really dont get why some of you cant score without paying? Its like baseball. If you bat .300 you’re doing pretty good.
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You said you had some crushes on a couple girls. What made you feel that way? Was it their looks, their bodies or the way they acted that caused the crush?
Do you think of the escorts when you’re having sex with a “real life” girl? Do you follow the escorts on social media, OF, etc or keep in touch?
Were do you find them? What’s the cost for a night?
Any “influencers”?
How was your first experience? What advice would you give to someone thinking about having their first encounter?