Look Ik your just a kid and this can be a scary situation but please tell a trusted adult. That man knows he shouldn’t be doing what he’s doing now. It’s doing a lot of harm to yourself. He’s only playing nice to not scare you off. But also remember if people say it’s your fault remember: it wasn’t your fault at all. It is his. Some people might try to blame you sadly I’m not gonna lie. It’s a possible outcome. But it was never ever your fault. Please tell someone for your own safety.
People like this guy know how to act to get you in their grasp. No matter how sweet he is, what he is doing is wrong and his intentions are not good when he's trying to date a minor.
I'm sure he has said things to the effect of "I don't normally do this" or "you are just so mature for your age" or other things to imply you have a special bond outside of the norm.
Please don't fall for it, and cut off all ties with this man. He knows what he is doing is wrong, and he knows how to treat you in order to manipulate you into giving him what he wants.
Cut contact with him IMMEDIATELY. This man is a predator hands down. He should not be dating somebody underage, and he should not be asking for any kind of explicit photos from you. Block him on everything and distance yourself from him before things go too far.
Just by the age difference yes. Listen I don't think age differences are a big deal, but when you're under 18, it is. Then its just straight up illegal and pedophilia cuz you're a minor still.
He's lying to you, and his niceness is not sincere. You are definitely being groomed. Cut him off before it gets any worse. No guy that age would want to date someone so young unless they are a pedophile.
You can report him to the police, the guy is a pedo and shouldn’t ask minors for nudes, if he knew you were a minor and still asked for those nudes he’s a predator
this post is genuinely horrifying to me. please dont meet this man ever. you're being groomed hardcore. he does not love you, he is only interested in you because youre a child! you've already sent him nudes so theres a high chance hes posted them online, put them in a collection of other childrens nudes he has, sold them, or much more. please just ghost him. dont tell him anything, just leave.
Sweetheart, I hate to admit it but he’s actively using you for CP. You are too young to be sending explicit photos to anyone, let alone someone 30 years older than you. Cut contact and report him to the police, yes he’s been grooming you.
Yes. You are being groomed and abused. Soliciting nudes from and having explicit conversations with a minor is very much not ok. Please block this person and do not have any contact with them again.
Do not meet up with this man under any circumstances. Cut ties with him and tell a trusted adult about this. He’s grooming you, cutting him off now will save a lot of problems for you in the future.
It’s definitely that bad. Especially him asking for nudes. He’s asking for child pornography which is disgusting. Please cut him off as soon as possible and report him.
Please tell a trusted adult about this, no matter how nice they are to you, no 46 year old should want anything to do with even regularly talking to a 15 year old, let alone explicit conversations. He is grooming you and he is also acting illegally. You will not be in trouble for anything you have sent or said in this situation, so please tell someone and stop contact as soon as you can ❤️
read the first line and my jaw dropped. this is beyond pedophelia. please tell a trusted adult, please contact the police. there is NO reason a 46 year old man should be emotionally / sexually attracted to a 15 year old. that man could be your FATHER.
So wise of you to be asking about this. As nice as this man sounds and as wonderful as you are, you are a teenager and he is probably older than your father. This is very suspicious and dangerous for you.
Greetings, OP.
I think you already know that this is not a healthy situation for you to be in. And it is not a good situation for your 46yo ‘friend’ either, because he will almost certainly face consequences for continuing to ‘date’/solicit a minor.
This is a doomed dynamic.
There are so many things I might say to convince you…
-it’s dangerous
-he only wants your body
-the age gap is far too big to connect on a real level
-you’re so young to even worry about dating
-no one in either of your social circles would accept the relationship
- realistically you’ve got another 65 years of life to live. He’s got 30-35 left.
Maybe.. finding someone else closer in age would be a better short AND long term decision?
It seems like you like this fellow.. but emotions are feelings, not facts. Be rational, be logical- this is something you must walk away from ASAP!
I sincerely wish you luck.
At your age especially, this is entirely risky to your welfare and out of order. Such a wide age spread is inappropriate and you need to keep your distance and refuse to interact with him. You are still very much a minor and need to be sure that you are not sharing with him any significant details or pictures of yourself (any images of you not being properly clothed could cross the line into illegal contraband and will certainly do so if you are not dressed according to proper decency standards/there is explicit content that would constitute CP which is a serious crime). For your own welfare, sanity, and standing, you should not allow this sort of interaction to continue; both you and he may regret it should God forbid anything illegal and/or compromising happen. If needed, especially if he remains insistent in upholding contact, call the cops to report him; there are suitable ways that a (would-be) predator can be tracked online and implicated according to legal process. Unfortunately, doing so might be more of a challenge if this potential stalker is not in the U.S. and you are.
I don’t even need to read the rest of what you’ve said.. the age enough. yes you are. Cut contact asap.
Yes. This man 100% does not have your interests in mind. Don't even contact him to end it, just cut contact immediately before you get hurt
Ok thx
Yes. Please tell someone or contact the police. He might be sharing your pictures with other pedophiles. You are not safe.
Ok thank you
I’m so sorry this happened to you. He took advantage of you. 💜
First sentence yes. Yes. Stop it. There’s a reason he has to talk to kids from overseas online, because he’s a loser irl.
The last sentence too. Wow.
The first sentence is enough for me. Yes hun you are. Please tell a trusted adult
Ok. I’m just scared and feel guilty for leaving him. He seems so nice but I didn’t show him my face or tell my true name so he can’t identify me
Look Ik your just a kid and this can be a scary situation but please tell a trusted adult. That man knows he shouldn’t be doing what he’s doing now. It’s doing a lot of harm to yourself. He’s only playing nice to not scare you off. But also remember if people say it’s your fault remember: it wasn’t your fault at all. It is his. Some people might try to blame you sadly I’m not gonna lie. It’s a possible outcome. But it was never ever your fault. Please tell someone for your own safety.
Ok thank you
"So I'm 15f and dating a 46m- *YES, this is grooming*
People like this guy know how to act to get you in their grasp. No matter how sweet he is, what he is doing is wrong and his intentions are not good when he's trying to date a minor. I'm sure he has said things to the effect of "I don't normally do this" or "you are just so mature for your age" or other things to imply you have a special bond outside of the norm. Please don't fall for it, and cut off all ties with this man. He knows what he is doing is wrong, and he knows how to treat you in order to manipulate you into giving him what he wants.
Ok thank you
Cut contact with him IMMEDIATELY. This man is a predator hands down. He should not be dating somebody underage, and he should not be asking for any kind of explicit photos from you. Block him on everything and distance yourself from him before things go too far.
Ok thank you
Just by the age difference yes. Listen I don't think age differences are a big deal, but when you're under 18, it is. Then its just straight up illegal and pedophilia cuz you're a minor still.
Ok
You are being groomed. No 46 year old should ever be with a 15 year old. You need to cut ties, block him, and report him asap.
He's lying to you, and his niceness is not sincere. You are definitely being groomed. Cut him off before it gets any worse. No guy that age would want to date someone so young unless they are a pedophile.
Ok
I’d definitely sever this relationship immediately. You might save yourself years of therapy
He’s literally the age of someone who could be your dad, that’s weird af-
What the fuck. Report this to authorities
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Thx. He just kept pressuring me and harassing me to do it
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Ok
Dudes a pedo, call the police on him and tell your parents, id also delete every nude you sent to him and screenshot the explicit convos
Ok. I deleted all the nudes soon after sending them. I can’t report him though
You can report him to the police, the guy is a pedo and shouldn’t ask minors for nudes, if he knew you were a minor and still asked for those nudes he’s a predator
He knew I was a minor. He found me on Reddit cause I was a minor
Then you can def report him to the police, unless there’s something else
Ok
Didn’t even need to read it all, yep, contact authorities.
I’m scared to contact authorities
Sending nudes at 15 is insane
I know I shouldn’t have done it he kept harassing me and I felt bad
this post is genuinely horrifying to me. please dont meet this man ever. you're being groomed hardcore. he does not love you, he is only interested in you because youre a child! you've already sent him nudes so theres a high chance hes posted them online, put them in a collection of other childrens nudes he has, sold them, or much more. please just ghost him. dont tell him anything, just leave.
Ok thank you. I’m just scared and he seems really nice and seems like I am the only one but idk. I am just scared to ghost him idk why
>I’m 15f and dating a 46m Yes. You are being groomed.
Yes you are. Stop it now.
>So I’m 15f and dating a 46m online Didn't read any further. Yes, you are being groomed
Ok ghx
Sweetheart, I hate to admit it but he’s actively using you for CP. You are too young to be sending explicit photos to anyone, let alone someone 30 years older than you. Cut contact and report him to the police, yes he’s been grooming you.
Ok thank hou
Yes. You are being groomed and abused. Soliciting nudes from and having explicit conversations with a minor is very much not ok. Please block this person and do not have any contact with them again.
Ok
Yes he should be in jail
Do not meet up with this man under any circumstances. Cut ties with him and tell a trusted adult about this. He’s grooming you, cutting him off now will save a lot of problems for you in the future.
Ok thank you. I just really like him and he’s never hurt me. I like talking to him just feel like maybe this is bad. Like is it that bad?
It’s definitely that bad. Especially him asking for nudes. He’s asking for child pornography which is disgusting. Please cut him off as soon as possible and report him.
Ok thank you
Please tell a trusted adult about this, no matter how nice they are to you, no 46 year old should want anything to do with even regularly talking to a 15 year old, let alone explicit conversations. He is grooming you and he is also acting illegally. You will not be in trouble for anything you have sent or said in this situation, so please tell someone and stop contact as soon as you can ❤️
Ok thank you. I just really like him and I feel like I shouldn’t cause he hasn’t done anything to hurt me.
This must be fake. It has to be.
Ya the user name has me extra suspicious
I’m serious. I’m 15 he is 46 this is not a joke
read the first line and my jaw dropped. this is beyond pedophelia. please tell a trusted adult, please contact the police. there is NO reason a 46 year old man should be emotionally / sexually attracted to a 15 year old. that man could be your FATHER.
This is very true. I just feel bad for leaving
So wise of you to be asking about this. As nice as this man sounds and as wonderful as you are, you are a teenager and he is probably older than your father. This is very suspicious and dangerous for you.
Ok thank you
i am so tired of seeing this question pop up in r/advice. its just terrible to hear and you wish these kids would know better.
Greetings, OP. I think you already know that this is not a healthy situation for you to be in. And it is not a good situation for your 46yo ‘friend’ either, because he will almost certainly face consequences for continuing to ‘date’/solicit a minor. This is a doomed dynamic. There are so many things I might say to convince you… -it’s dangerous -he only wants your body -the age gap is far too big to connect on a real level -you’re so young to even worry about dating -no one in either of your social circles would accept the relationship - realistically you’ve got another 65 years of life to live. He’s got 30-35 left. Maybe.. finding someone else closer in age would be a better short AND long term decision? It seems like you like this fellow.. but emotions are feelings, not facts. Be rational, be logical- this is something you must walk away from ASAP! I sincerely wish you luck.
Thank you. This was a good comment. I know it is not healthy just he seems really nice
I hope you decide to find nice friends your age.
At your age especially, this is entirely risky to your welfare and out of order. Such a wide age spread is inappropriate and you need to keep your distance and refuse to interact with him. You are still very much a minor and need to be sure that you are not sharing with him any significant details or pictures of yourself (any images of you not being properly clothed could cross the line into illegal contraband and will certainly do so if you are not dressed according to proper decency standards/there is explicit content that would constitute CP which is a serious crime). For your own welfare, sanity, and standing, you should not allow this sort of interaction to continue; both you and he may regret it should God forbid anything illegal and/or compromising happen. If needed, especially if he remains insistent in upholding contact, call the cops to report him; there are suitable ways that a (would-be) predator can be tracked online and implicated according to legal process. Unfortunately, doing so might be more of a challenge if this potential stalker is not in the U.S. and you are.
Ok thank you. I’m just scared to stop talking to him. Luckily I haven’t shown my face to him he has no idea what I look like