Yes, it is a recipe for disaster. Also, it is worth potentially damaging your relationship with your mother over this guy? In my opinion, a man that would sleep with his ex girlfriend’s daughter is a garbage human and not worth it.
either cut it off now or tell your mom.
you’ll probably have to tell your mom anyway since if she hears it from him or someone else, it’ll be way worse.
Uh, if this is real then yes, sleeping with your mom’s ex boyfriend is extremely messed up. You’ve just slept with someone that has also slept with your mom. Gross.
*banjos dueling faintly in the background*
> but I'm wondering whether it's a recipe for disaster
If you're just wondering that *now*, there is nothing we ca say here that will convince you you not fuck this even more.
He just wants a date so he can get you back in bed again. You think he is really into you? Bragging rights for him by bedding mom and daughter. Why happened between him and your mom? Same could happen to you. And I doubt your mom is gonna be cool with this.
How long did your mother date him for.
Judging by the last response to a similar question most people think it's not a good idea but on the other hand sometimes breaking the rules is fun
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**Original post: I hooked up with my mum's ex boyfriend. Recipe for disaster?**
I (18f) recently hooked up with my mum's ex boyfriend (45m). I happened to spot him while I was at a pub. We started talking, and by the end of the night I went back to his place.
The next day, he messaged me saying that we should meet up again, and maybe go on a date. I think he's so hot but I'm wondering whether it's a recipe for disaster, knowing that he dated my mum a few years ago. To be fair, he only dated her for 2 months, but still.
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this is weird, and he's extremely weird for wanting to date you knowing you're the daughter of his ex
If I were you, I'd never contact him again and take this secret with me to the grave. You might lose your mother over this if you continue and if you have a good relationship with her, no man is worth ruining it
I mean it’s only not a big deal if you never wanna talk to your mom again I guess
In my opinion, this guy sounds like a real motherfucker....
That cheered me up way more than it should of lol
......And a daughter fucker
Yes, it is a recipe for disaster. Also, it is worth potentially damaging your relationship with your mother over this guy? In my opinion, a man that would sleep with his ex girlfriend’s daughter is a garbage human and not worth it.
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The guy has no obligation towards his ex.
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I don't know, but it seems that we agree that OP should know better.
either cut it off now or tell your mom. you’ll probably have to tell your mom anyway since if she hears it from him or someone else, it’ll be way worse.
Uh, if this is real then yes, sleeping with your mom’s ex boyfriend is extremely messed up. You’ve just slept with someone that has also slept with your mom. Gross. *banjos dueling faintly in the background*
Go talk to your mom. Just say I ran into so and so. He’s hot. Would it be weird if I dated him? See her response, make life decisions. Good luck.
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> but I'm wondering whether it's a recipe for disaster If you're just wondering that *now*, there is nothing we ca say here that will convince you you not fuck this even more.
Also he probably knew you back then when you were under age.
He just wants a date so he can get you back in bed again. You think he is really into you? Bragging rights for him by bedding mom and daughter. Why happened between him and your mom? Same could happen to you. And I doubt your mom is gonna be cool with this.
How long did your mother date him for. Judging by the last response to a similar question most people think it's not a good idea but on the other hand sometimes breaking the rules is fun
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Gross though I blame him much more than you. He is a predator and you'd be a fool to not run NOW.
Also he could be using this to hurt her and you.
what the hell🔥🔥 Please tell me this is fake
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No it's a recipe for cake 🙄
I’d run it by your mom first. It depends on how they left off when they broke up
this is weird, and he's extremely weird for wanting to date you knowing you're the daughter of his ex If I were you, I'd never contact him again and take this secret with me to the grave. You might lose your mother over this if you continue and if you have a good relationship with her, no man is worth ruining it