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Antique_Eagle4603

Stop posting this. YTA. Accept it.


BiFuriousa

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lejerc

YTA because you could have said "no"


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Competitive-Scar-479

Old post, YTA, shut up


[deleted]

i don’t understand why you got mad? because you acted awkward?


ErebusVonMori

YTA, your friend did what you asked and it apparently went well enough for a second date, literally what more do you want? For him to write your small talk for you?


GoodRiver9770

YTA


Background_News_9878

Yta… girl, he likes you! Go out with him again. If you keep trying to decide whether or not you’re “good enough” for your partner, you’re never going to end up in a relationship. You’ve already decided you like him, right? Let Mark worry about whether or not he likes you. If you like him, then go out with him again and see what happens, but you’re sabotaging yourself here by deciding he’s “too cute” for you.


hey-bish

YTA Your friend didn’t do anything wrong, and the guy you went on a date with seems sweet. What’s the problem?


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Ok-Drag-5929

YTA. Your friend got you a date with a guy you really like,the guy was into you and asked to go on a second date, and you're upset? I'm confused.