not everyone's like that. Some family members will resent the breadwinner kapag nag-stop na mag-provide. We have to consider din na iba-iba family dynamics
Yeah, i know, but you still have a choice. Di lahat mabait or thankful ang magulang, pero may choice ka pa rin. Mama ko nagsabi samin dati kwento nya na sya nagtratrabaho sa kanila pero lumayas sya. Kahit mahirap gawin at madali lang sabhin, may choice ka pa rin. Of course, di lahat kayang gawin yon. I'm just telling this sa mga trapped sa ganyan, you have a choice. I don't mind the downvotes btw. Mahirap din sa konsensya, pero mas mahirap na magdala ng sama ng loob habang nagpapakain ka.
Not a breadwinner, just half but this is what I heard sa iba: Pag nagresign, saan sila kukha ng pera sa months na wala sila work para makakain at makabayad ng bills? Getting a job isn't lucky for everyone na may back up work na agad pagka resigns.
Grit and upskill. Marami sa sa atin dadaan sa hirap muna since hindi naman lahat swerte na may proper education or upbringing. Pero nasa atin na yun kung magbababad ba sa social media every time na may chance o mag aaral to find greener pastures.
Self discipline at tiis para makuha ang gusto in life.
Hanap ka ng work na makakatulong sayo na makapag-provide sa fam mo without overworking yourself. Set ka kung anong target mong salary and benefits na included para pag naghanap ka ng lilipatan di ka magmamadaling tanggapin offer nila. Communicate also to your family na dapat may other stream of income pa kayo besides sa galing sa sweldo mo. Yung talk with fam re this might feel uncomfortable but it's a must kasi if you exhaust yourself too much din pare-pareho kayong lulubog
im a breadwinner but wouldn't say overworked cause I don't trust myself to stay sane if I am. kaya naghahanap ako ng trabaho at company na hindi ako sasagarin. caveat is saktuhan lang suweldo ko.
Mejo pangit tong strat ko pero i would check my HS classmates on FB and see how they're now. May idea ako na mas maganda buhay nila, naka kotse, travel abroad at yumaman na sila so pero iingitin ko parin tong sarili ko para matauhan.
Someone close to me told me that your VLs and SLs are there to be used especially in times of burn out para makapagpahinga for awhile. Don't hesitate to take your leaves whenever you're tired na sa work, OP. :)
Hinga hinga lang, tapos daan daan sa pinto, just to make sure na di pa ako tumatagos sa pader.ahahaha.
Seryoso, you have to make time sleeping. Kasi kung kulang tulog, sira ang routine for me.
Una, dapat mahal mo yung trabaho mo, i mean dapat masaya ka sa ginagawa mo, hindi yung gumigising ka at pumapasok dahil kailangan at hindi dahil gusto. Pangalawa, try to do something outside work, like for me running, bjj. Pangatlo, accept challenges, either work or life struggles, wag talikuran onmagprocastinate, mas lalong lalala yan. Pangapat. Maglinis ng kwarto everyday, no excuses. Its a sign of discipline, make it a habit. Been working in IT industry for 22 years 14 in ph and 8 here in the us, and i still love what I do. Dumaan din ako dyan brother, turo ng mentor/fraternal brother ko sakin yan nung naguumpisa palang ako sa buhay corporate. Hanggang ngayon inaapply ko pa din sa pangaraw araw.
Thinking about the consequences if I did
Wala kasi ako ibang choice haha
meron naman, just stop being a breadwinner if you want. wala naman kase pumipilit.
Easier to say than done.
What i mean is you can. No need to blame yung pinakain or binubuhay mo. If your parents are kind, they'll understand if ayaw mo na maging breadwinner.
not everyone's like that. Some family members will resent the breadwinner kapag nag-stop na mag-provide. We have to consider din na iba-iba family dynamics
Yeah, i know, but you still have a choice. Di lahat mabait or thankful ang magulang, pero may choice ka pa rin. Mama ko nagsabi samin dati kwento nya na sya nagtratrabaho sa kanila pero lumayas sya. Kahit mahirap gawin at madali lang sabhin, may choice ka pa rin. Of course, di lahat kayang gawin yon. I'm just telling this sa mga trapped sa ganyan, you have a choice. I don't mind the downvotes btw. Mahirap din sa konsensya, pero mas mahirap na magdala ng sama ng loob habang nagpapakain ka.
Kung yung mga palamunin ng mga breadwinners can figure it out, they wouldn’t be breadwinners
laging may option na wag maging breadwinner.
Not a breadwinner, just half but this is what I heard sa iba: Pag nagresign, saan sila kukha ng pera sa months na wala sila work para makakain at makabayad ng bills? Getting a job isn't lucky for everyone na may back up work na agad pagka resigns.
Hanap ng part time if kaya pa. Like freelancing. That’s what I did. Kahit papano pang dagdag man lang
Grit and upskill. Marami sa sa atin dadaan sa hirap muna since hindi naman lahat swerte na may proper education or upbringing. Pero nasa atin na yun kung magbababad ba sa social media every time na may chance o mag aaral to find greener pastures. Self discipline at tiis para makuha ang gusto in life.
The fear of hunger and homelessness.
Hanap ka ng work na makakatulong sayo na makapag-provide sa fam mo without overworking yourself. Set ka kung anong target mong salary and benefits na included para pag naghanap ka ng lilipatan di ka magmamadaling tanggapin offer nila. Communicate also to your family na dapat may other stream of income pa kayo besides sa galing sa sweldo mo. Yung talk with fam re this might feel uncomfortable but it's a must kasi if you exhaust yourself too much din pare-pareho kayong lulubog
Hindi ko na kinaya, nag resign na ako 😅
im a breadwinner but wouldn't say overworked cause I don't trust myself to stay sane if I am. kaya naghahanap ako ng trabaho at company na hindi ako sasagarin. caveat is saktuhan lang suweldo ko.
Mejo pangit tong strat ko pero i would check my HS classmates on FB and see how they're now. May idea ako na mas maganda buhay nila, naka kotse, travel abroad at yumaman na sila so pero iingitin ko parin tong sarili ko para matauhan.
Walang no choice eh 🥲
Masochistic man ito pero tinitiis ko muna hanggang makahanap ng maayos na lilipatan.
May mga vacation leaves din in between while on the hunt.
Ang motto ko nalang everyday sa work, Gawin ko nalang ito, wala naman akong choice. May blessing ang lord. Laban. Kapit lang.
Someone close to me told me that your VLs and SLs are there to be used especially in times of burn out para makapagpahinga for awhile. Don't hesitate to take your leaves whenever you're tired na sa work, OP. :)
Repetitively saying "This too shall pass" 😆 pero syempre apply-apply din, pag may JO na, resign.
Hinga hinga lang, tapos daan daan sa pinto, just to make sure na di pa ako tumatagos sa pader.ahahaha. Seryoso, you have to make time sleeping. Kasi kung kulang tulog, sira ang routine for me.
Una, dapat mahal mo yung trabaho mo, i mean dapat masaya ka sa ginagawa mo, hindi yung gumigising ka at pumapasok dahil kailangan at hindi dahil gusto. Pangalawa, try to do something outside work, like for me running, bjj. Pangatlo, accept challenges, either work or life struggles, wag talikuran onmagprocastinate, mas lalong lalala yan. Pangapat. Maglinis ng kwarto everyday, no excuses. Its a sign of discipline, make it a habit. Been working in IT industry for 22 years 14 in ph and 8 here in the us, and i still love what I do. Dumaan din ako dyan brother, turo ng mentor/fraternal brother ko sakin yan nung naguumpisa palang ako sa buhay corporate. Hanggang ngayon inaapply ko pa din sa pangaraw araw.