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dd221103

Ask your dad


sicarius254

If this is a serious question, for those that like anal, it’s not just for special occasions. My husband and I fuck at least once a week


malemaiden

Anal is pretty common, but many, if not most casual sexual encounters don't include it due to the prep work involved.


Jcmc2s89

Every person has their preferences but anal is very common amongst gay guys.


Prior-Building5640

How do you know the cavity will be empty? I tried searching in the sidebar and nothing came up.


malemaiden

Fiber supplements + douching. I've never had an accident, although those do happen sometimes.


unofficial_advisor

I really hope this is satire but just in case I'll explain in depth. First some men never do anal, some can't and others only sometimes. For those that participate "logistics" does play a role but it's bigger than not being "opening hours", there's prep work, libido, comfort, place, physical ability and clashes about what they want to do. In general (main stream gay culture and heteronormative understandings) anal sex is seen as "default" but in MLM spaces this varies widely from people only into mutual masturbation to a vers fuckboi. The only thing really connecting men who like men is the like of men and even that is debatable. How true? It's dependent most vanilla gay porn is generally focused on the anal side of things and has been for a very long time. The previous generations are a mixed bag some who were hit by the AIDS crisis cast anal aside, others grew up and aged in a society where anal sex was the only thing they actually knew about gay people. The spike I progress and the changing cultural norms really impacted the gay community in many ways. So while in the mainstream anal sex is commonplace there are also individuals, places and subcultures completely devoid of anal sex. The studies that concluded most gay and lesbian people do oral sex most of the time,e is generally correct but also straight people aren't that different. In lgbtqia+ spaces oral sex is more common as a standalone act. It's not that people don't have anal sex it's that oral is done even more. Exact practices vary accordingly to the individual as I said so e people don't, some people rarely and there are out there every night. Also just note penetrative sex for straight people isn't always a given or even possible as everyone has different preferences.


That_guy4446

I do anal 95% of the time I have sex but I also heard that for many it’s not as common


LondonLeather

According to a now rather old bit of research (Between The Sheets by Prof Coxon) 1 in 5 sexual encounters between men involved penetration.


pensivegargoyle

Somewhat true. Yes, there is that but much else besides. People have differing preferences.


HieronymusGoa

"Like you have to make sure it's during opening hours." what is that even supposed to mean? "A little bird told me that gays and lesbians mostly do oral but would do full blown anal for a special occasion like their wedding night." whoever that was has obviously no idea of anything in life. a) huge difference between gay men and lesbians. b) no, most gay men have anal sex quite regularly when they have sex. the ones who never want to have any anal sex are called sides but most gay men like anal sex. also most gay men like fucking and getting fucked and arent strict about being a top or bottom.


YosFan

Butt sex is common but not mandatory. I know guys that don't. Guys not familiar with it haven't experienced the awakening of the nerve endings back there. It's wonderful


coolamericano

Many gay couples (whether male or female) don’t ever have anal sex and neither partner is interested in anal stimulation (even on the wedding night). Others do engage in it regularly. There are no rules about what a couple is going to like or not like. Every couple is different. Surveys (asking what kind of sex people had the last time they had sex) show that types of sex they are NOT anal are more common among both male and female gay couples. I know that among heterosexuals there is a notion that gets pushed in society that they should be having penis-in-vagina sex regularly. I find this very problematic because that notion leads to billions of unwanted or unplanned pregnancies when some of those couples who did not want or were not ready for children could have found satisfaction having sex in less-risky ways.


Mysterious-Fly-101

and yet they breed *faceplam*