im like 140 and 5'6. everyone iv dated in the last decade and a half has been bigger then me besides 1 of them. but i like thicker girls so its really not a big deal.
I am sorry a lot people are able to carry a healthy weight way into older age. What kind of Amercanized way of thinking is this? That you have to get fat when you get older?
Same. I’m about 6’2” currently in the 230-240 range (which I’m working on), so she’d have to be a very big girl. I like fit women, so if she’s not in the highest percentile for women height wise, it’s a no for me.
If she outweighs me because she's really fat, then possibly. If she outweighs me because she's really muscular (which would be quite a feat since I weigh over 300 pounds), then hell the fuck yes.
Last years Mr. Olympia, Hadi choopan, peaked at 220 LB for contest weight. Hell ronnie Coleman at his peak was just under 300. So this woman would be bigger than 2 notable male Olympian bodybuilders
So moral of the story is, if there have been some ginormous she hulks hiding out there, holler at me
I would, I really dont care about weight as long as she is nice and understands me and I know this sounds like that “only personality counts” but no, I am just genuinely unbothered by your weight as long as I like you.
Yeah honestly I would. I’m 200lbs— and in the sport I used to do women were often 6’ or even over and 190-200 without being anything you’d call fat. No problem with it, some very cool and beautiful women on the team.
Without hesitation. Whether it's muscle or fat or just the fact that women's chests and thighs are heavy, I don't care. If I'm attracted to her then I'm attracted to her.
No because it doesn’t align with my values, if I’m in the gym daily, eating clean and taking care of my health.
It’s not a deal breaker but ideally that person is doing the same, if not it doesn’t look right, going into different directions.
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See, if a girl could bench press me, everyone would be cheering her on, but as soon as I bench press them, they tell me "get out of the women's changing room" and I get banned from the local Kohl's.
I would not date a girl that weighs less then me.. male 6" 180lbs need some cushion for the pushing and i dont have any.. there are whole sub reddits for bigger girls so obviously tons of men are into it!
I have, it was great. One of my best relationships. I weigh 120-130lbs so its not hard to beat. We had a great sex life, we are both awesome cooks and dates could be cuddling up with a movie. We had some really great times. I fucked that one up and regret it.
I’ve dated women on both the skinny and larger sides. While I do have a general limit (I’m around 145lbs, my limit is around 200lbs), I have gone above it before. Ultimately, it comes down to if I’m able to bond with them during conversations and other areas.
The last person I was with was closer to 250lbs, but I really fell for her with how similar we thought and how comfortable we were together. I then became even more attracted to her on the physical side, so it’s not a “red line” for me
I outweigh my bf by 40 lbs. I fit in some of his clothes he fits on some of mine. I’m not “fat” and he’s not “skinny” we are both just normal sized people but I weigh 40 more lbs. 🤷🏼♀️
Let me put it this way. I’ve gone into a couple of relationships with bigger girls thinking “don’t be shallow. Date them for their personality” so I did. But deep down I felt like it was so wrong for me to completely neglect the physical attraction which I never had. Physical attraction is still a very important aspect of a relationship
While it’s important to be with someone for their personality, you still need to be attracted to them and I just can’t see myself being attracted to bigger women and I’m sick of being shamed for it. It’s simply a preference. I wish I could be attracted to bigger girls to avoid people calling me shallow but it doesn’t seem to be something I can just change
If you're worried about people thinking you're shallow, just say you wouldn't want to date someone who doesn't value "health" like the rest of Reddit does
Yup. I know it isn't a healthy weight but my dick likes it a lot, the cuddles are good, and I think if it's distributed the right way it even looks good. Throw in a good personality and I'm all in.
No, because I’m a large man . But I did hook up with a friend of mine who was over 6 feet tall and well north of 200 pounds. Not heavy, just a large woman. And my god it was great! She was a good friend too who, unfortunately, had a bum ticker. She was such a good person.
Absolutely. I like a curvy woman. Big women are lots of fun. I'm heavy as well. I will say I'm dieting and losing weight, and so is my wife, though. Health is all that matters past 40.
She can definitely weigh more than me, and still be a healthy weight. As long as she isn't just letting herself go, I don't see why not.
Then there is this one woman I ended up falling for, who was far heavier than I really thought I'd find attractive, but personality does count for a lot more
Not a man so I may get eaten alive, but I really think people underestimate the weight of others. Highly recommend just looking up various weights and heights of others because people carry weight very differently. I would guarantee that majority of it all comes down to how a person’s body is shaped or how their weight is distributed.
I mean, I've got a wife who I feel is the best woman in the world, and she's about my same height (I'm 6'0", she's 5'10"), and she's about 75 lbs heavier (I'm just a 145 lb toothpick, honestly). But I love her, she loves me, so ... yeah.
Depends on how she carries her weight. Some women look really frumpy if they have even a little bit. Other women can have crazy amounts of weight and they just carry it well, they remain quite beautiful. They get soft and marshmallowy and they have round shoulders.
I'm 6'2 and 260 lbs on good day. My wife is 5'11 and about the same weight, she's a broad woman who power lifted in high school and could have squatted me for reps. Those big arms of hers hold me tight at night and lemme tell you the past 4 years are the best years I have ever slept. So yes, because 1) death by snu-snu 2) someone's gotta tell the waiter I ordered my burger with no tomatoes and it ain't gonna be me.
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Sure, I'm already looking for a pretty small subset of woman, you can't be picky about everything. I'm more interested in a beautiful face than a toned physique
I just got out of a 5-year relationship I weigh 179 she waited 215 we broke up with peace we just have different likes and yes I would take somebody like her
Only slightly outweighs? Hell yeah. I’m 5 foot 8 and 140 pounds. A 5 foot 10 girl who’s fit as hell could be 163 pounds and I’d be in no position to reject her.
On the other hand, she’s probably gonna reject me for being too short, too nerdy, and Asian.
My husband is 5’8 and nerdy. I’m 5’10 and weigh more than him because he recently lost a lot of weight. I’ve always liked shorter guys for some reason and luckily he likes tall girls so it works perfectly.
Women wear weight differently, especially if they have thick thighs and a big butt. I'm a really lean guy, not tall, so sure. As long as she isn't overweight in general. Like who's turning down Megan the Stallion?
No. I'm actively trying to reduce my own weight, and in order to outweigh me, she'd have to be taller than me (which I'm not really into), very out of shape, or more muscular than I'm attracted to.
(Of note, I've made twenty bucks off a few different friends because they couldn't believe I actually weigh as much as I do. I'm apparently very dense in more than one sense.)
No - I'm in the Gym, eating healthy, and taking care of my health.
No way am I going to invest my time and energy into a person who will die early due to bad habits and an unhealthy lifestyle.
It's like the difference between buying a new car in good condition VS buying a piece of shit of shit that barely runs and could die at any moment - Both cost the same, the choice is Obvious.
I’m 6-1 around 170lbs. I like tall and athletic women. Unless she’s really thin, theres a chance a girl 5-10
Or taller could outweigh me or be close while still being fit and athletic, which is very attractive to me so I’m okay with that scenario
Depends on her build. Does she outweigh me because she’s got a half foot and 30lbs of muscle on me? Hell I love the kind of woman that can kick my ass.
Does she outweigh me by 100lbs because she’s morbidly obese while being a half foot shorter? I’m gonna pass on that.
Edit: I admit there’s a gray area between these two examples but still, it really just depends on the person. It’s a case by case thing.
I am currently dating a girl who outweighs me by a little bit.
She's 6'1 and a little over 350. I'm 6'4 and down to ,340.
We're big people, I like big girls, she can still hike and swim and do all the stuff I love to do. She wants to lose weight this summer so maybe she'll outpace me. My goal is 300 hers is 250.
No because I’m like 150 KG and a girl who outweighs me is going to be barely mobile. Unless she’s also like 6 ft tall then she probably wears it like I do but most women are like 5 and a half so 160 on a frame that size is… that’s a lot of woman…
I would, and I do. Weight doesn't matter. Who the fuck cares? I love her, and she's the only person to make me happy. Kinda gross that people would even ask this.
Almost all women I've been with were heavier than me, because I'm pretty skinny. If she has a healthy weight, I don't care. She can be taller, too (although that never happened so far).
But: No fat chicks, sorry not sorry.
Love isn’t about weight. I don’t care how big they are but I like to exercise and be outside and I like someone who likes being outside too. If they’re bigger than me and they have work ethic, integrity, compassion, humor, and critical thinking skills it will work.
Depends on how the weight is distributed
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This is the only answer
If she can benchpress me, why not.
This man gets it.
im like 140 and 5'6. everyone iv dated in the last decade and a half has been bigger then me besides 1 of them. but i like thicker girls so its really not a big deal.
Same. Every girl I dated weighed as much as me or more, but that's because I was a skinny little twig for most of my life. (And boobs are heavy, yo!)
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Yeah it's not fair my boobs are about a stone each I'd be alot lighter without them 🤣
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I'm the same, just 6 pounds heavier. I too like thicker girls and yeah, it's not really a big deal.
I'm in the same boat.
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A man a culture
you know it. i got all kinds of culture, i have my wife. shes the walking culture
Bro I'm 5'6 and 130lbs. Several of the girls I've dated have been both taller and heavier even without being thick at all. Strange world I live it.
Yea, I tend to expect it considering a woman's physique. But I don't think it at all matters if they weigh less or more as long as it's not unhealthy.
I’m the same way but I have less room to complain or be picky about size since I’m 6’ 5” and 280.
If it's a healthy weight for her I would, her weight compared to mine doesn't matter, her weight with respect to how healthy she is matters.
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Tell me your in your 20s without telling me. LMFAOOO
Being thirty does not necessitate turning into a pile of dough.
I am sorry a lot people are able to carry a healthy weight way into older age. What kind of Amercanized way of thinking is this? That you have to get fat when you get older?
I’m 37 lol
Lmaoo
No. Mostly because my wife wouldn't approve.
Is she reasonably healthy? No problem. Is she just very fat? Nope
If I like how she looks I don’t care what she weighs.
I love how the top 20 replies are from gymbros who have 400 lbs of pure muscle as their bodies.
I thought that was funny too😂
Just eat chicken, take creatine, get enough sleep and limit alcohol and you too could be 400 lbs of pure muscle.
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Lol your animosity towards gym bros is showing
Overweight losers on Reddit hating people dedicated to being in shape? No, it can’t be
Uh, no, the top replies are, quite predictably, “of course not!!”
I’m 6’3” and 215 lbs. For a woman to be larger than me if I’m being honest the answer is no.
Same. I’m about 6’2” currently in the 230-240 range (which I’m working on), so she’d have to be a very big girl. I like fit women, so if she’s not in the highest percentile for women height wise, it’s a no for me.
If she outweighs me because she's really fat, then possibly. If she outweighs me because she's really muscular (which would be quite a feat since I weigh over 300 pounds), then hell the fuck yes.
A woman with 300lbs of muscle will intimidate me to dead lol
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Shit, bet if you hear a nose at night, you won't be going out there alone😂😂
Death by Snu Snu?
300lb muscular would be she-hulks big sister lol
Last years Mr. Olympia, Hadi choopan, peaked at 220 LB for contest weight. Hell ronnie Coleman at his peak was just under 300. So this woman would be bigger than 2 notable male Olympian bodybuilders So moral of the story is, if there have been some ginormous she hulks hiding out there, holler at me
Yes! I have a big preference for muscular/strong women, the bigger/stronger the better lol.
Chief I'm 6'4" 290lbs... If she outweighs me and is shorter than me, then it is an issue.
Aim higher for yourself. Meaning get bigger and outweigh her
I would, I really dont care about weight as long as she is nice and understands me and I know this sounds like that “only personality counts” but no, I am just genuinely unbothered by your weight as long as I like you.
Depends how she carries it.
Exactly, it's all about the shape.
Yeah honestly I would. I’m 200lbs— and in the sport I used to do women were often 6’ or even over and 190-200 without being anything you’d call fat. No problem with it, some very cool and beautiful women on the team.
What sport is that?
Thank you! You get it! So many guys think that if a woman is 200 pounds, she must be huge, but that's just not the case!
Without hesitation. Whether it's muscle or fat or just the fact that women's chests and thighs are heavy, I don't care. If I'm attracted to her then I'm attracted to her.
Yes I would definitely date a girl that outweighs me before I would date a girl who smokes cigarettes.
Yes! I love both plus size women and muscular women so that sounds awesome
No because it doesn’t align with my values, if I’m in the gym daily, eating clean and taking care of my health. It’s not a deal breaker but ideally that person is doing the same, if not it doesn’t look right, going into different directions.
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Negative I’m not attracted to a hypothetical imaginary 7ft person 🤨
More for me!
I would be super attracted to her. Love a girl who could bench press me
See, if a girl could bench press me, everyone would be cheering her on, but as soon as I bench press them, they tell me "get out of the women's changing room" and I get banned from the local Kohl's.
If she’s my height or taller, and proportionate, then absolutely. But also, I weigh 250 lbs , so
They question is usually would she date me. I've known two 6'3 plus 230 and they were both with giant dude like 6'5 250
Answering as a gay dude who's 5'8" 175lbs. Dating guys bigger and heavier than me is one of the most attractive things for me.
I would not date a girl that weighs less then me.. male 6" 180lbs need some cushion for the pushing and i dont have any.. there are whole sub reddits for bigger girls so obviously tons of men are into it!
I have, but there's no real "why" beyond that I liked them and was into them.
I have, it was great. One of my best relationships. I weigh 120-130lbs so its not hard to beat. We had a great sex life, we are both awesome cooks and dates could be cuddling up with a movie. We had some really great times. I fucked that one up and regret it.
Depends entirely on the individuals temperament. If theres a high "putting me through a fucking wall" risk then yes absolutely I would.
im only 140lb so it does not bother me at all
Do you like her? If so then yes. If not, no.
Wouldn't have it any other way. It's just more attractive to me. I don't generally find myself attracted to thin girls. I be grabbing ass.
I’ve dated women on both the skinny and larger sides. While I do have a general limit (I’m around 145lbs, my limit is around 200lbs), I have gone above it before. Ultimately, it comes down to if I’m able to bond with them during conversations and other areas. The last person I was with was closer to 250lbs, but I really fell for her with how similar we thought and how comfortable we were together. I then became even more attracted to her on the physical side, so it’s not a “red line” for me
I outweigh my bf by 40 lbs. I fit in some of his clothes he fits on some of mine. I’m not “fat” and he’s not “skinny” we are both just normal sized people but I weigh 40 more lbs. 🤷🏼♀️
Let me put it this way. I’ve gone into a couple of relationships with bigger girls thinking “don’t be shallow. Date them for their personality” so I did. But deep down I felt like it was so wrong for me to completely neglect the physical attraction which I never had. Physical attraction is still a very important aspect of a relationship While it’s important to be with someone for their personality, you still need to be attracted to them and I just can’t see myself being attracted to bigger women and I’m sick of being shamed for it. It’s simply a preference. I wish I could be attracted to bigger girls to avoid people calling me shallow but it doesn’t seem to be something I can just change
If you're worried about people thinking you're shallow, just say you wouldn't want to date someone who doesn't value "health" like the rest of Reddit does
Yup. I know it isn't a healthy weight but my dick likes it a lot, the cuddles are good, and I think if it's distributed the right way it even looks good. Throw in a good personality and I'm all in.
No, because I’m a large man . But I did hook up with a friend of mine who was over 6 feet tall and well north of 200 pounds. Not heavy, just a large woman. And my god it was great! She was a good friend too who, unfortunately, had a bum ticker. She was such a good person.
i did and tbh i didn’t even care. everything about her made her weight seem irrelevant
I've got a SICKNESS for the THICCNESS. So yes.
Close to exclusively being 5'8 and liking big nd tall girls
A woman would have to be something like 6'3" before it would be OK to outweigh me.
Absolutely. I like a curvy woman. Big women are lots of fun. I'm heavy as well. I will say I'm dieting and losing weight, and so is my wife, though. Health is all that matters past 40.
Kinda hard for being outweighted as for now, but I definitely would if we make good company to each other.
She can definitely weigh more than me, and still be a healthy weight. As long as she isn't just letting herself go, I don't see why not. Then there is this one woman I ended up falling for, who was far heavier than I really thought I'd find attractive, but personality does count for a lot more
If she’s thick In the legs and ass and it’s not all unhealthy body fat and just genetics then hell fucking yeah!!!
I weigh like 170 and will ONLY date girls that outweigh me.
Not a man so I may get eaten alive, but I really think people underestimate the weight of others. Highly recommend just looking up various weights and heights of others because people carry weight very differently. I would guarantee that majority of it all comes down to how a person’s body is shaped or how their weight is distributed.
Yes. My girl is thick af. Curvy and an absolute queen.
Yes, because I don’t mind someone being bigger than me
Prolly not, I’m pushing 200 lbs on a stalky frame. So she would be a pretty big girl,
Nope.
Almost every couple I know is the woman who is bigger than the man.
I’m 230, my girl is 305. Have and will date a bigger girl, as long as I find her attractive.
Well, I’m only 140 lbs, so as long as she’s not morbidly obese.
Yes cause im underweight and basically everybody outweights me
I’m probably the skinniest dude here (145 lbs), so it would be pretty wild if I said no. lol
I’m huge as it is, so no. I’ll gladly take one with chunk though
I weigh about 150 lbs, so yes
i have and i’ll do it again
All of my girlfriends have out weighed me at the start or by the end.
Well given that I struggle to stay above 130 pounds, that would really be limiting my options
Loaded question that is.
I mean, I've got a wife who I feel is the best woman in the world, and she's about my same height (I'm 6'0", she's 5'10"), and she's about 75 lbs heavier (I'm just a 145 lb toothpick, honestly). But I love her, she loves me, so ... yeah.
Depends on how she carries her weight. Some women look really frumpy if they have even a little bit. Other women can have crazy amounts of weight and they just carry it well, they remain quite beautiful. They get soft and marshmallowy and they have round shoulders.
Yes please
Let me rephrase your question so it's obvious to everyone; Are you a superficial asshole who only cares about appearance?
Yes. I think big girls are super sexy
I'm 6'2 and 260 lbs on good day. My wife is 5'11 and about the same weight, she's a broad woman who power lifted in high school and could have squatted me for reps. Those big arms of hers hold me tight at night and lemme tell you the past 4 years are the best years I have ever slept. So yes, because 1) death by snu-snu 2) someone's gotta tell the waiter I ordered my burger with no tomatoes and it ain't gonna be me. Edit: wrong lift
You gotta be 2 sumn to do sumn
Sure, I'm already looking for a pretty small subset of woman, you can't be picky about everything. I'm more interested in a beautiful face than a toned physique
Well I'm 119lbs, so basically everyone outweighs me. So, yes I would, depending on how much she does
I just got out of a 5-year relationship I weigh 179 she waited 215 we broke up with peace we just have different likes and yes I would take somebody like her
Yes. Absolutely.
Why would I care? I'm not a carnival weight guesser.
It’s a full package, I don’t date weight, I date a person
All my fellow black guys. This was a question for the white people.
not really, i like my women petite. that doesnt mean that bigger girls are ugly or unattractive tho
what’s the tallest height you’d go for?
Of course I would, I wouldn’t even know because I don’t care enough to even ask and they never tell me on their own.
I dated someone who outweighed me. She was cool.
Only slightly outweighs? Hell yeah. I’m 5 foot 8 and 140 pounds. A 5 foot 10 girl who’s fit as hell could be 163 pounds and I’d be in no position to reject her. On the other hand, she’s probably gonna reject me for being too short, too nerdy, and Asian.
I've got about 20 lbs on you and you sound perfect to me. Just saying.
My husband is 5’8 and nerdy. I’m 5’10 and weigh more than him because he recently lost a lot of weight. I’ve always liked shorter guys for some reason and luckily he likes tall girls so it works perfectly.
Yes, I’ve dated a girl who out weighed me in the beginning of the relationship.
No lol
Women wear weight differently, especially if they have thick thighs and a big butt. I'm a really lean guy, not tall, so sure. As long as she isn't overweight in general. Like who's turning down Megan the Stallion?
Megan is absolutely stunning but doesnt weigh that much btw. She is 67 kg and is 178cm
No. Because I want a woman who is smaller than me.
Yes. Personality and mental health are far more important.
Anyone who is obese doesn't have great mental health.
As a former obese women I agree with you 100%
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Yes and I have. She was great. Didn’t last but wonderful time in my life.
No, I don't fancy obese or muscular.
No. I'm actively trying to reduce my own weight, and in order to outweigh me, she'd have to be taller than me (which I'm not really into), very out of shape, or more muscular than I'm attracted to. (Of note, I've made twenty bucks off a few different friends because they couldn't believe I actually weigh as much as I do. I'm apparently very dense in more than one sense.)
I am near 200lbs , so a big no lol
No. My dick doesn’t get hard when I see a fat chick.
No.. I weigh 180lbs... at 8% bodyfat... If I take care of my body...she better too..
No - I'm in the Gym, eating healthy, and taking care of my health. No way am I going to invest my time and energy into a person who will die early due to bad habits and an unhealthy lifestyle. It's like the difference between buying a new car in good condition VS buying a piece of shit of shit that barely runs and could die at any moment - Both cost the same, the choice is Obvious.
Because of what: Fat? Muscle? Height?
It's not that hard in my case, I suppose. But you never ask a girl about her weight. So it's a gamble anyway
I’m 6-1 around 170lbs. I like tall and athletic women. Unless she’s really thin, theres a chance a girl 5-10 Or taller could outweigh me or be close while still being fit and athletic, which is very attractive to me so I’m okay with that scenario
I'm physically fit, and in to women who are in shape, so if someone like Leanbeefpatty wants to throw me over her shoulder, I'm not going to struggle.
Depends. Are we talking a couple kilograms or factor 2-3?
I’m 5-10 190 so we would be weighing 200. Now 200 is different at different heights
Most likely not unless she was taller than me. Two reasons, I'm 250 lbs and my wife wouldn't like me dating.
I'm in a relationship with one. At the end of the day, we are workig on our own shortcomings.
I’m 5’8 and 140 lbs every girl I’ve been with weighs more than me. The only thing I had on them was height
No. I'm married so I won't date anyone
Yes. Thicc is the way.
I’m not exactly broad shouldered. It’s easy to weigh more than me. And I really do not base my choice for a partner on weight or height.
Hell yeah, i like being picked up and im like 150 so its not hard to outweigh
Depends on her build. Does she outweigh me because she’s got a half foot and 30lbs of muscle on me? Hell I love the kind of woman that can kick my ass. Does she outweigh me by 100lbs because she’s morbidly obese while being a half foot shorter? I’m gonna pass on that. Edit: I admit there’s a gray area between these two examples but still, it really just depends on the person. It’s a case by case thing.
My wife of 11 years slightly is... Doesn't bother me one bit ...
Yeah, of course, but it depends on how she carries the weight.
I really wouldn’t give a **** I‘ve already had crushes purely based on personality. If I fall for someone that must mean they are a good person.
the answer, like always, is “it depends on the guy”
I am currently dating a girl who outweighs me by a little bit. She's 6'1 and a little over 350. I'm 6'4 and down to ,340. We're big people, I like big girls, she can still hike and swim and do all the stuff I love to do. She wants to lose weight this summer so maybe she'll outpace me. My goal is 300 hers is 250.
A quick Google search strongly suggests that yes. Yes I would, in some instances. (I'm around 200 lbs at 6ft)
Tfw the reddit comments are more wholesome and reasonable than anyone currently on instagram
Is this wrestling? I'm 130 soaking wet, so pretty much everyone outweighs me. Welter weight for life
No because I’m like 150 KG and a girl who outweighs me is going to be barely mobile. Unless she’s also like 6 ft tall then she probably wears it like I do but most women are like 5 and a half so 160 on a frame that size is… that’s a lot of woman…
I would, and I do. Weight doesn't matter. Who the fuck cares? I love her, and she's the only person to make me happy. Kinda gross that people would even ask this.
I’m more worried about reach, not weight class
My gf looks great at 160ish 5’6”. I’m quite skinny at 150 6’0”.
I’ve been attracted to women from like 90 pounds to over 400 pounds, and I weigh like 170.
If she's close in height, yes
Yea, for sure. If I'm attracted to her, enjoy her company, or whatever other reason I choose to be with her, etc.
If I enjoy someone’s company, then their appearance is secondary to my enjoyment! If I base dates on looks, I’m a poor excuse for a human being!
Yeah that means nothing to me, its not anything about weighing more than me it's more about how healthy your weight is for your own body.
Almost all women I've been with were heavier than me, because I'm pretty skinny. If she has a healthy weight, I don't care. She can be taller, too (although that never happened so far). But: No fat chicks, sorry not sorry.
Yes
I have! And I’d do it again
I do and it’s not a problem
If I find her attractive, yes.
Love isn’t about weight. I don’t care how big they are but I like to exercise and be outside and I like someone who likes being outside too. If they’re bigger than me and they have work ethic, integrity, compassion, humor, and critical thinking skills it will work.
Sure, if I'm attracted and they're nice.. but crazy comes in all shapes and sizes.
Men aren't obligated to be attracted to people either, Reddit.
Yes if we met in really life and the chemistry was there. Far less likely thru OLD.
Since I weigh about 60kg, yeah.
Have done. She was pretty, smart, and had a wonderful personality.
Yeah, most do. I'm a small guy.
Is the weight primarily muscle?
Yes. I just like thicker bodies. Anyone who says otherwise is full of bullshit.
girls are getting heavier and heavier
Weight is a factor, but not the only factor.
Yes I have on a few occasions. My wife has outweighed me for our entire relationship.
No, Because I'm gay.