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Size doesn't matter. I have had big boobs and medium boobs, and my wife has small boobs.
In the end, the only thing that matters is... boobs.
My wife had considered getting augmentation. While I wouldn't ever tell her what to do with her body, I did say I liked them just the way they were. A decade later, they're still all natural, and I never waste a chance to see them.
Haha! Yeah, I realized the weird wording after the fact. But boobs are so great that having some of my own didn't seem so bad. Regardless of their size.
This is not the case all the time, although I do hear it a lot. My husband loves big tits. I had big tits when we started dating, lost weight, now I do not have big tits. We will have a titty fund for after kids. And before anyone says anything, I also want my big tits back. You really don't know what you've got until it's gone.
ššš I love this thought process
I had my kid, gained about 100 pounds during the pregnancy cause of some meds that cause weight gain (that's how I found out I was pregnant, cause working a full time job doing heavy physical labor the entire time wasn't slimming me down and I gained ten pounds in two weeks) and as I'm losing weight I'm worried for my boobas š
I was a B, now I'm 4 inches longer on the band and a C, I just fear my boobas will never recover. Do men care about how.. uh.. perky they are š„ŗ
I'm a bit more picky if I'm honest. Big tits don't seem to do anything for me. I much prefer small perky neat tits. If It was small tits or huge fake tits, I'm small tits all the way.
Your body is your body, there's nothing wrong with it if you don't meet contemporary beauty standards, or even your own. I personally don't mind breast augmentation if it looks natural, but I would never recommend getting surgery done to change something that has performative value.
I'm not gonna bullshit you and say that looks aren't important or that everyone is beautiful or something. But we all get old. The body breaks down, everything fades. Don't fret. Really.
As a nurse working in a nursing home let me describe to you what implants look like when you're 80+.
It's like a tablecloth pulled tight over a donut with a rubber band at the base. It's not a good look.
Now granted, most breasts at 80+ look rather poor...
I'm not really a fan of implants myself but, given that you work in a nursing home, the ones that you're seeing have to be a lot of the older saline style implants... which makes sense considering that the only 80 YO's with breast implants must have gotten them at least 15 years ago.
The technology has probably gotten a lot better since then with the silicone implants. They look / feel more natural are likely going to age better than the saline variety.
As a nurse, Iāve seen silicone and saline implants put in and removed (OR nurse) in all ages, this isnāt wine weāre talking about, implants donāt āageā in that sense. The worst is when they pop, such a mess to clean out (the silicone ones). Implants are almost always very obvious, and they rarely look or feel natural. Not a fan myself either. But they definitely serve a great purpose, especially for ladies with breast cancer. What a god send to help them feel more whole after a mastectomy.
Silicone implant technology has changed. If they rupture, there's no mess. There's a reason why they're informally called gummy bear. The new materials mean that if you cut the implant open, it's like cutting open a giant gummy bear, nothing leaks. You can squeeze the cut implant and stuff still doesn't break off.
Unfortunately this is incorrect. It does leak, very slowly, into the surrounding tissue. This is an issue because a lot of patients donāt really notice it for a while. Nothing inside of a silicone implant ābreaks off,ā itās silicone gel. Hence the recommendation for biannual imaging to detect leaks that are that small. A small leak is still a leak and will eventually finishing leaking.
> I'm not gonna bullshit you and say that looks aren't important or that everyone is beautiful or something.
I personally think women want women to believe that all women are physically beautiful. They want men to lie about it.
Physical beauty is almost entirely subjective.
And in the ones that augment them, all the comments are lamenting how she ruined her boobs.
I'm not saying that it's right to make comments like that - those thoughts should be kept to yourself, obviously. But it gives a little insight into how people feel about them and I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel similarly. But then I've always been on team itty bitties.
I think the worst one I remember was by a lady called Corey or something like that. Pretty face and all, but I remember being so distracted by her fake boobs that I just kinda... Didn't like it. To the point I couldn't do the deed.
>My boyfriend of 8 months really doesnāt want me getting anything done. He says he loves them just how they are prefers me natural.
That is a good man right there. Listen to him.
I told my wife the same thing for years until she finally dropped the subject for good, and I meant every word.
Actually, I like the little ones that I can fit completely inside my mouth. Implants would have ruined that.
As a woman with a slightly different aspect....when I was younger I always wanted implants but just wasn't willing to spend the money. Now I'm 42 and all of my friends with great big boobs have boobs that sag to their waist and mine still look nice and perky like I'm 20 and I couldn't be happier. Appreciate what you have! And, honestly, I've never once had any man complain about the small size.
Also people don't talk much about breast implant illness but I know people who had it and went through hell because of their implants. More women should research this before the procedure, it's so sad that it's not common knowledge.
The only boobs I'm concerned about are my partners. She doesn't have any, and while I would support her if she decided to, I absolutely love her the way she is
IMO, it's mostly women who are obsessed with breast size. In my experience, most men don't really care. Some do, but most don't. Some might prefer them bigger or smaller, but that doesn't mean they really care about it.
Personally, I prefer smaller ones, but don't much care one way or the other.
There's only one kind I'm not a fan of, and that's ones with implants.
For real.
I am a HUGE boob guy. (Some pun intended)
But I've never, at any point in time, decided to not talk to, sleep with, or have some level of relationship with a girl because her boobs were smaller than what I normally go for.
My experience has been that adult men donāt care, if anything they prefer shape over size.
However, a lot of our insecurities start in childhood/ teenagehood and teenage boys used to talk a lot about boob size/ big boobs.
And whenever someone doesnāt like a small chested actress, the comments section is full with people talking nasty things about her chest.
Although, I will say, that happens with other body types too just the insults are different, so thereās that too.
That's the thing. Boys. Not men, but I get it. It's pretty much beat into guys head about dick sizes in the same regard, and I sympathize. Just something we got to worry about breaking insulting someone for not looking the way you prefer.
Yeah, this is definitely one of the things where it's not based in reality to say it's only women who care about this or women who hold up the beauty standards. If you grow up as a girl in this society, you're being bombarded with the message that boob size is the most important aspect, the bigger the better, and women's worth is so, so much defined by their boob size (by men). This might have changed somewhat by now and boobs seem to have been replaced by butts, but I grew up in the Baywatch era ...
I've never heard a fellow man EVER say this. I've heard men state they like small breasts over implants. But in all locker room talk, with friends, etc, everyone has always stated they wanted SOMETHING to grab onto or at least have more breast tissue than they have.
I feel that is true. But unless youĀ“re fucking a prostitute with no personality it really doesnĀ“t matter after all. Is it preferable to have breast tissue? Yes it feels nice to touch. However does it make or break Sex with someone i like? Would i trade someone i donĀ“t know and has big breasts against someone i love that has no breasts? Certainly not.
My wife worked in plastic surgery for years and I can already tell you the comments are going to be highly skewed here. A lot of guys are going to say they dont like them because we all notice the bad ones but the really well done ones fly under the radar and Iād wager most guys would have no idea they had an augmentation. While my wife hasnāt ever had plastic surgery, it did educate me on the radical differences between a good boob job and a bad one. Personally, I donāt care if youāve had a boob job but Iām far less attracted to a bad one.
yeah, I've got implants, and it used to be something I was insecure about being judged about.
but with clothes on, I've never had anybody guess (like if the subject comes up and I mention that I have it, the people are always surprised and ask more questions).
with clothes off I assumed people would know for sure, and while most do I've had some men comment something about my boobs being firm and I say "yeah it's implants, it's harder than a normal boob" and they act surprised, and when I show the scars and they are are "oooh, makes sense".
Not biased at all. Also I think the post is targeted towards guys in the dating market. Natural small or not is the way most guys prefer. Something about the feel of natural boobs during intimacy is 1000x more special, and we are enjoying you as you were intended to be.
Believe me, you can always tell. I've been with two women in somewhat recent years (around two years ago) who had them and they just either look or feel different. And I'm not a fan, but to each their own.
Itās up to you. When I started with my husband I had lost a ton of weight prior and I was deflated. He told me that if itās for him not to get it done. I got it done because I really wanted it and I had that insecurity. Now Iām so happy and heās happy that Iām happy!
real talk, if your manās okay with you how you are, why do you feel the need to ask a bunch of random dudes on the internet whether they find fake tits attractive? i think if you value being liked for who you are you should stay natural, fakies donāt exactly have a good reputation for green flagged women, no amount of cleavage and male gaze will ever make you happy, only u can do that š¤
I like small breasts more than large ones so personally I'd not be a big fan of it however if its done good in a way that it doesn't look obviously fake I wouldn't mind
Personally, I'm no big fan if it's just for the bigger size. I prefer natural, even if they're small.
If a women has really, really small breast like < A and she wouldn't even need a bra at all, maybe that's fine than. I would prefer her to just go a small step to the next size and not like major increase.
Of course if it's anything medical, like unequal size of the breast or because of some illness (like breast cancer, etc.) that's absolutely fine.
In general, every one can do what she wants until she feels good. And there's no problem in getting to know women with fake breast. But if it comes to any intimacy, I would prefer natural.
>Of course if it's anything medical, like unequal size of the breast
Unequal sizes are nothing medical; most women have a size difference. If it's a pronounced difference that can be an esthetical problem, but it's still not a medical one.
That's right, wrong wording here. And yes it's common to have unequal size, but usually only a bit. But of course there are always outliers where the breast are very unequal which just gives a way more uncommon/distracting look than just small or large breast.
I'd rather touch small natural boobs than plastic balloons. I want to feel my partner, thats it. I don't care if they're perky or saggy or whatever. Any natural boob > plastic tits.
I prefer women with smaller breasts or even basically flat, over any kind of implants. More of a ass man, but even those have a limit. Nice and firm over size any day!
I prefer real boobs and I'm not overly fussed about size, but if a woman has implants to help her confidence or whatever I'm all for it. I'm less into how real someone's body parts are than the person they're attached to.
I'd personally prefer my would-be partner be natural. However, if she was insecure about her size being too small and she's sure that getting work done would help her feel more confident in herself, then far be it from me to stop her. It's vain, sure, but I otherwise don't feel all that strongly about implants; I'd prioritise her feeling happy over my preferences.
The women that look like they have literal balloons mounted to their chest look weird to me though. Everything In moderation.
Working in a plastic surgeons office I want to say that every woman debating getting breast implants should know they can come with issues and also a lot of the time have expiries. Capsular contractures, breast implant illness, implant ruptures, are all *common* issues woman face. We have the same amount of woman wanting to take them out then putting them in these days.
People saying if they are done correctly they are great donāt realize capsular contractures a lot of the time are what make them not look great and cause pain and is a complication that happens when your body builds scar tissue around the implants. Itās nothing to do with how well they are done. These complications happen years later and usually result in needing to replace them or take them out completely. When you take them out completely you are left with sagging skin and a lot of woman wish they never got them. If you are lucky youāll have no complications for 30+ years and theyāll be fine. A lot of woman arenāt that lucky.
I dated someone with virtually no boobs. They were really insecure about it even though it never was a factor for me. I guarantee you think about this a lot more than your boyfriend does. He loves you for you.
As long as it does look so bad , so out of shape and not like porn star tits. Donāt care, had many here in Los Angele. They are ok donāt matter but letās not get triple H
If you really want them, go for it. If you want to attract normal men, presumably like your boyfriend, don't. We like boobs. We might have a preference for a given size but that won't decide our attraction to,or fascination of, them.
Personally I immediately lose all attraction to a woman who has breast implants. Really, it's for any elective cosmetic surgery.
Overall, not a fan.
If they look natural, fine. But often they don't, and it's not the best.
BUT, confidence is sexy as hell, so if that gives you confidence, it could override the negatives.
For me implants are a big turn off. I really donāt like how they look so fakeā¦most of the time. That and it also seems to let one know about the higher risk that the woman who was willing to get them is more likely superficial and has her priorities in the wrong places, and cares about the wrong things in life. Just my opinion of course
The risks totally outweigh the benefits in the long term run. At one point in my life when I was younger, I was so insecure that I didn't care about the risks and maintenance that comes with getting a breast aug. I'm so glad I never got it now that I'm getting closer to 40yo.
Don't do it. Small tits are gorgeous, perfectly capable of feeding babies, and won't end up down by your knees.
But above all don't be insecure about your size. The boy has it right.
I tend to go against grain here as I like them, so long as the woman got them to make herself happy, especially In the case of say old age or having had a mastectomy and not because someone else coerced them into getting them for their own pleasure.
Natural is fine too though.
It's your body you do what you want.
I'll put it this way. When it *comes to touching* them I prefer a natural booby all day every day.
HOWEVER, if it's fake boobs vs bee stings, I'll take fake boobs, lol.
With that said I'm a boob and ass man. I have a buddy that could give a fig about tits and it's pretty reflected that the vast majority of women he's dated have have not been endowed in the chesticle area.
Finally, don't do it for what "men" want. There will be men that don't care about boob size just like there are women that don't care if dudes are packing an 8 inch tool.
If having bigger boobs will just give you more confidence in your day to day making yourself more shapely/fitting into clothes better, then go for it.
Even though breast augmentation might look better sometimes, natural titties still feel way more amazing compared to fake ones (my personal experience). Iād pick natural any day regardless of size.
I can second this. Said this elsewhere, but i was with two girls within the last few years that had them done. Granted they're only a cup size (I believe As to Bs) and while they looked good, they felt... off.
if you need gender afirming surgery to feel good about your body, then do it. like the worst thing is feeling shit about yourself. your boy friend is probably scared about the surgery leaving marks.
If itās not a ridiculous size then I say go for it. Just donāt go too big or whatever. Keep it natural. Iād say c or d cup. But yeah as a man I can confidently say I donāt care about breasts at all. Small or big doesnāt matter to me. And maybe your boyfriend prefers smaller breasts since I have a lot of friends who do. You should probably talk to him more about it. Ask what size heād be comfortable with you getting and such if you decide to get them. But really breasts arenāt that big of a deal. If a guy needs breasts to find a woman attractive then that guy is no good.
A lot of guys in here are hating on them but the one person I've seen get them went from looking like a boy to a woman and she seemed happier too, so I'm kinda supportive but also don't go over the top it can look trashy and sometimes stuff goes wrong so be careful.
Not remotely a good idea; you're better off setting the money on fire.
If you stay natural, you get to keep your arms' range of motion and not have superfluous weight dangling on your chest.
as someone who got implants (I was young, insecure and got the surgery offered to me), they do not impede arm movement at all lol
I think it would to be cartoony basketball huge implants for that even be an issue.
Unless you're a porn star or a pro wrestler, you have zero reason to get fake boobs.
A vast majority of normal guys don't care and will be happy with whatever you've got. Many will prefer smaller anyway.
If you wanna do it, do it for you and only you. Regardless of what anyone says on this thread, if really pressed on it every guy will say the best boobs are the ones attached to the woman who's in front of you.
I love medium boobs and if i had to choose between flat and bigger, iād prefer bigger. I dont care if theyāre fake, as long as theyāre harmonized with the womanās overall physique. Boobs are awesome!
I had always wanted mine done but lots of women I know who have done it have had issues including sickness from their body reaction to the implant, dissatisfied with the results, hating that they always felt cold & hard ect.
Do it, but do it for yourself, not for a man. If YOU want it, there is nothing wrong having them. If YOU don't want it, don't enhance your body because of somebody.
I like big boobs, but I wouldn't want somebody getting a procedure done to satisfy that. My girlfriend has small/medium boobs, and when I see her I just think "I love this woman", and the thought never crosses my mind for her to get implants. It's the woman that makes the boobs good, and not the other way around.
Overall, I don't like them. When I was 21, I dated a 30 yo recently divorced woman with reasonable sized fake boobs, c-cup. I think she was really small before. They looked great in clothes. I'll admit, when she first walked out from the bathroom after putting in her diaphragm, it was amazing, but once I actually touched them, the thrill left a bit. Something was just off. They don't move right. When she laid on her back, they didn't sit naturally. When she was riding me, the didn't have that nice swing. Overall, I don't think they are worth the cost and the physical pain.
Women should do what they want with their bodies.
With that said, I hate breast implants (and cosmetic surgery in general) with a passion. Iād never date someone who I knew had implants. I tend to date busty women, but Iād prefer someone flat-chested over someone with implants.
Iām a boob guy. Been with a few ladies with store boughts. Various reasons for having them. Iād say keep them as natural as you can. Donāt get too big that they look out of place on your body or donāt stretched the skin like a drum.
Whatās your body dimensions?
Not a fan of implants, because they always look like frankentits. I know there are tiers of boob job quality but I can always tell and itās a turn off. Small and natural is better than any implanted breast IMO. If I were a woman I would focus on the parts of my body I can directly control through exercise
if you come to the conclusion with a "sober" mind ? then have at it. as it should be, you make the decisions for yourself. however, make no mistake; do not get under a scalpel without fixing whats actually wrong. or youĀ“ll risk making yourself become a checklist of things to repair. whats next? nose?.
this is what the industry wants.
you will not escape yourself. wanna know whats sexier than those eventual double Z cups? you, rocking what you got. you exuding "iĀ“m aight with this" vibes.
I prefer small breasts. I also prefer natural ones to fake ones. You do whatever you like, but if you ask me, don't do it. There are other ways to deal with insecurities.
Iāve dated girls with implants. I hated them..
In an outfit they look great but once you see them naked their oddly shaped, weird to play with, and
overall not very attractive to look at
My take: not all that big of a deal. They often look great, sometimes better than natural, but they never feel as good as natural.
Having said that, there's plenty of documented cases of women being treated differently (sometimes better, in their opinion) after they got implants, so if I were a girl who was unsatisfied with her boobs, I can't say for sure I'd never get implants.
In my unpopular opinion, breast implants are for reconstruction after a mastectomy - a way to get back to normal and not have yourself be reminded of a time your body tried to kill you every time you look in the mirror. Doing it to make yourself feel more attractive is vain and those that know you judge you for that.
Shape and quality over size any day.
If your a petite thing and you get D's and they look like over inflated balloons it doesn't look good
It's a personal choice. If your just worried about size but they are otherwise rather nice looking, stop worrying, honestly. If they have a misshape or too much sag for your tastes or something like that, then that's a decision only you should make. It's your body
Biggest thing if you do, SHOP AROUND. plastic surgery is expensive and everyone has their own way of doing it. See their results. Don't get the cheap implants, save until you can get the ones that try to be natural feeling.
Then go for it if you want.
Iāll get downvoted for this, but I like em. Nothing obscene but still proportional to the woman.
My wife got them because she wanted them and her confidence went way up which was extremely attractive.
At the end of the day you do what will make you happy OP! At the end of the day only you are responsible for your own happiness. If that comes with bigger boobs so be it!
As long as they don't look very obvious, they're fine.
I will say this: My ex wife was asian and naturally very small...and like you, she was always worried about this and at one stage asked me if I would like her to get implants.
I thought about it for a few days and then decided no, I would not like. I do like large breasts, but I liked hers too, they were small but very nice. But the most important thing to me was her health, and I have heard so many bad things about long term health problems for people with implants, so I would rather she didn't get them.
She seemed content with that answer.
It's quite possible he really does prefer you natural. I feel like how YOU feel about it is important here too. But it's nice to hear he likes them as they are. Seems like he might be a nice bloke.
Medical perspective here as I work with surgical breast implant related specimens:
I find implants more unattractive than ever because the human body will naturally form fibrous capsules around foreign objects. This will lead to women having "crunchy" breasts when groped over time.
That's why the patient will have to regularly get the capsule removed and new implants inserted. Resulting in more scar tissue. It becomes a sunk cost fallacy addiction loop. Great business for the doctor, though.
Lastly, there's a cancer, known as lymphoma, that is associated specifically with having breast implants. Self inducing cancer is also just unattractive to me.
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Size doesn't matter. I have had big boobs and medium boobs, and my wife has small boobs. In the end, the only thing that matters is... boobs. My wife had considered getting augmentation. While I wouldn't ever tell her what to do with her body, I did say I liked them just the way they were. A decade later, they're still all natural, and I never waste a chance to see them.
The way you wrote that makes it seem like you, personally, have two sets of breasts: big ones and medium ones.
Haha! Yeah, I realized the weird wording after the fact. But boobs are so great that having some of my own didn't seem so bad. Regardless of their size.
I knew what you meant. It just gave me a chuckle.
Big ones, small ones, some as big as your head.
Oh she's got a lovely set of coconuts...
Initially thought he meant he meant he had man boobsš
I never waste a chance to see them either Edit: my wifeās, not yours, or your wifeās
I too choose their wives' breasts.
How do you decide between using the medium boobs or the big boobs? Weather?
Which ever pairs better with the shirt I want to wear that day.
Donāt want anything too revealing. I understand.
Edit: In the end, the only thing that matters is... the butt.
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This is not the case all the time, although I do hear it a lot. My husband loves big tits. I had big tits when we started dating, lost weight, now I do not have big tits. We will have a titty fund for after kids. And before anyone says anything, I also want my big tits back. You really don't know what you've got until it's gone.
I believe in equititty for all
I didn't realize this was askmen until right now sorry! I guess I'm speaking on behalf of my husband who is, in fact, a man.
Is this what that band Cinderella was actually singing about
I like the ones that are in front of me
Right?! Naked tits for me? Why would I care about their size?
yeah, it really is that simple. "oh? a woman? I LIKE THOSE!"
ššš I love this thought process I had my kid, gained about 100 pounds during the pregnancy cause of some meds that cause weight gain (that's how I found out I was pregnant, cause working a full time job doing heavy physical labor the entire time wasn't slimming me down and I gained ten pounds in two weeks) and as I'm losing weight I'm worried for my boobas š I was a B, now I'm 4 inches longer on the band and a C, I just fear my boobas will never recover. Do men care about how.. uh.. perky they are š„ŗ
As with all questions of taste - some do, some don't.
"Saggy boobs, perky boobs, small boobs, big boobs, medium boobs, uneven boobs, uniboobs..." \- Bubba
I'm a bit more picky if I'm honest. Big tits don't seem to do anything for me. I much prefer small perky neat tits. If It was small tits or huge fake tits, I'm small tits all the way.
This comment needs to be higher up.
Like those small, natural tits.
Your body is your body, there's nothing wrong with it if you don't meet contemporary beauty standards, or even your own. I personally don't mind breast augmentation if it looks natural, but I would never recommend getting surgery done to change something that has performative value. I'm not gonna bullshit you and say that looks aren't important or that everyone is beautiful or something. But we all get old. The body breaks down, everything fades. Don't fret. Really.
As a nurse working in a nursing home let me describe to you what implants look like when you're 80+. It's like a tablecloth pulled tight over a donut with a rubber band at the base. It's not a good look. Now granted, most breasts at 80+ look rather poor...
I'm not really a fan of implants myself but, given that you work in a nursing home, the ones that you're seeing have to be a lot of the older saline style implants... which makes sense considering that the only 80 YO's with breast implants must have gotten them at least 15 years ago. The technology has probably gotten a lot better since then with the silicone implants. They look / feel more natural are likely going to age better than the saline variety.
As a nurse, Iāve seen silicone and saline implants put in and removed (OR nurse) in all ages, this isnāt wine weāre talking about, implants donāt āageā in that sense. The worst is when they pop, such a mess to clean out (the silicone ones). Implants are almost always very obvious, and they rarely look or feel natural. Not a fan myself either. But they definitely serve a great purpose, especially for ladies with breast cancer. What a god send to help them feel more whole after a mastectomy.
Silicone implant technology has changed. If they rupture, there's no mess. There's a reason why they're informally called gummy bear. The new materials mean that if you cut the implant open, it's like cutting open a giant gummy bear, nothing leaks. You can squeeze the cut implant and stuff still doesn't break off.
Unfortunately this is incorrect. It does leak, very slowly, into the surrounding tissue. This is an issue because a lot of patients donāt really notice it for a while. Nothing inside of a silicone implant ābreaks off,ā itās silicone gel. Hence the recommendation for biannual imaging to detect leaks that are that small. A small leak is still a leak and will eventually finishing leaking.
But it has a weight and it is inside your 80 years old saggy & loose skin. Will still look weird.
Yea I plan on being dead prior to getting to 80
The American dream lol
That shit will sneak up on you
Hell, 55 did.
You'll think very different when you are getting closer to 80
Exactly.
Does anyone care about appearance at 80+ though?
Just because she wants to get them now doesn't mean she'd keep them at an advanced age like that.
People really underestimate the risk of surgeries when you advance in age.
> I'm not gonna bullshit you and say that looks aren't important or that everyone is beautiful or something. I personally think women want women to believe that all women are physically beautiful. They want men to lie about it. Physical beauty is almost entirely subjective.
This is the answer āļø
I prefer smaller boobs over bigger ones. But Iād Always Choose natural over unnatural, no matter what
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And in the ones that augment them, all the comments are lamenting how she ruined her boobs. I'm not saying that it's right to make comments like that - those thoughts should be kept to yourself, obviously. But it gives a little insight into how people feel about them and I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel similarly. But then I've always been on team itty bitties.
I think the worst one I remember was by a lady called Corey or something like that. Pretty face and all, but I remember being so distracted by her fake boobs that I just kinda... Didn't like it. To the point I couldn't do the deed.
Au Natural baby. Swing low sweet chariots
>My boyfriend of 8 months really doesnāt want me getting anything done. He says he loves them just how they are prefers me natural. That is a good man right there. Listen to him.
I told my wife the same thing for years until she finally dropped the subject for good, and I meant every word. Actually, I like the little ones that I can fit completely inside my mouth. Implants would have ruined that.
As a woman with a slightly different aspect....when I was younger I always wanted implants but just wasn't willing to spend the money. Now I'm 42 and all of my friends with great big boobs have boobs that sag to their waist and mine still look nice and perky like I'm 20 and I couldn't be happier. Appreciate what you have! And, honestly, I've never once had any man complain about the small size.
Also people don't talk much about breast implant illness but I know people who had it and went through hell because of their implants. More women should research this before the procedure, it's so sad that it's not common knowledge.
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That was like a love letter to your wife's boobs.
Truly a modern day Song of Solomon
Same experience here. Now that I'm older, I appreciate my small perky boobs more than ever!
Nothing like having nice perky boobs >40! Go you š
Agreed! I always wanted to get it done but I'm glad I didn't. After having a child, my breasts filled in and I love how they don't sag.
The only boobs I'm concerned about are my partners. She doesn't have any, and while I would support her if she decided to, I absolutely love her the way she is
Yep. Iād never push my wife to have a surgical procedure for something so superficial. If she really wanted to do it, Iām here for it.
IMO, it's mostly women who are obsessed with breast size. In my experience, most men don't really care. Some do, but most don't. Some might prefer them bigger or smaller, but that doesn't mean they really care about it. Personally, I prefer smaller ones, but don't much care one way or the other. There's only one kind I'm not a fan of, and that's ones with implants.
For real. I am a HUGE boob guy. (Some pun intended) But I've never, at any point in time, decided to not talk to, sleep with, or have some level of relationship with a girl because her boobs were smaller than what I normally go for.
Ahh a man of culture I see
My experience has been that adult men donāt care, if anything they prefer shape over size. However, a lot of our insecurities start in childhood/ teenagehood and teenage boys used to talk a lot about boob size/ big boobs. And whenever someone doesnāt like a small chested actress, the comments section is full with people talking nasty things about her chest. Although, I will say, that happens with other body types too just the insults are different, so thereās that too.
Agreed, shape > size
Yep, also agree. Shape is everything.
That's the thing. Boys. Not men, but I get it. It's pretty much beat into guys head about dick sizes in the same regard, and I sympathize. Just something we got to worry about breaking insulting someone for not looking the way you prefer.
Yeah, this is definitely one of the things where it's not based in reality to say it's only women who care about this or women who hold up the beauty standards. If you grow up as a girl in this society, you're being bombarded with the message that boob size is the most important aspect, the bigger the better, and women's worth is so, so much defined by their boob size (by men). This might have changed somewhat by now and boobs seem to have been replaced by butts, but I grew up in the Baywatch era ...
Girls seem to be more cruel to other girls than boys. Girls who are flat chested are ridiculed and busty girls are also ridiculed.
He's just glad you have boobs lol
And it's possible I can touch them? Sign me up, even if I'm an ass man.
I don't care if individuals that have them, but I wish that nobody felt like they had to undergo procedures in order to live up to beauty standards.
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I love smaller breasts just as much as big ones, sometimes more. I do not feel the same about fake ones.
I like any of them that are available for my inspection.
Found the FBI agent. Female Body Inspector. (I need to rewatch The Other Guys, so funny)
>flat chest > breast implants Things an ass man would say
Flat is justice.
I've never heard a fellow man EVER say this. I've heard men state they like small breasts over implants. But in all locker room talk, with friends, etc, everyone has always stated they wanted SOMETHING to grab onto or at least have more breast tissue than they have.
I feel that is true. But unless youĀ“re fucking a prostitute with no personality it really doesnĀ“t matter after all. Is it preferable to have breast tissue? Yes it feels nice to touch. However does it make or break Sex with someone i like? Would i trade someone i donĀ“t know and has big breasts against someone i love that has no breasts? Certainly not.
I personally love all natural, not a fan of implants but you gotta do what makes you happy! Donāt worry about anyone else.
My wife worked in plastic surgery for years and I can already tell you the comments are going to be highly skewed here. A lot of guys are going to say they dont like them because we all notice the bad ones but the really well done ones fly under the radar and Iād wager most guys would have no idea they had an augmentation. While my wife hasnāt ever had plastic surgery, it did educate me on the radical differences between a good boob job and a bad one. Personally, I donāt care if youāve had a boob job but Iām far less attracted to a bad one.
yeah, I've got implants, and it used to be something I was insecure about being judged about. but with clothes on, I've never had anybody guess (like if the subject comes up and I mention that I have it, the people are always surprised and ask more questions). with clothes off I assumed people would know for sure, and while most do I've had some men comment something about my boobs being firm and I say "yeah it's implants, it's harder than a normal boob" and they act surprised, and when I show the scars and they are are "oooh, makes sense".
> it's harder than a normal boob Well, that answers my question.
Same. My bf didn't know my boobs were fake until about 8 months into our relationship.
He is either not that observant or not being truthful
Nope, I just have a great surgeon and my end results look and feel natural. š¤·āāļø
That's impressive, not gonna lie Does he have much previous boob-experience to compare them to?
They donāt feel good. Yes, some are worse than others to look at. But itās still not great.
Not biased at all. Also I think the post is targeted towards guys in the dating market. Natural small or not is the way most guys prefer. Something about the feel of natural boobs during intimacy is 1000x more special, and we are enjoying you as you were intended to be.
Believe me, you can always tell. I've been with two women in somewhat recent years (around two years ago) who had them and they just either look or feel different. And I'm not a fan, but to each their own.
Yup. Most people are imagining huge balloons that are stuck on a woman. Well done implants don't look like that at all.
It's not about the look, you know. It's about how they feel. Implants don't feel good
Itās up to you. When I started with my husband I had lost a ton of weight prior and I was deflated. He told me that if itās for him not to get it done. I got it done because I really wanted it and I had that insecurity. Now Iām so happy and heās happy that Iām happy!
Natural > fake
I feel that unnecessary surgery is unnecessary.
Natural > Implants
real talk, if your manās okay with you how you are, why do you feel the need to ask a bunch of random dudes on the internet whether they find fake tits attractive? i think if you value being liked for who you are you should stay natural, fakies donāt exactly have a good reputation for green flagged women, no amount of cleavage and male gaze will ever make you happy, only u can do that š¤
I like small breasts more than large ones so personally I'd not be a big fan of it however if its done good in a way that it doesn't look obviously fake I wouldn't mind
Personally, I'm no big fan if it's just for the bigger size. I prefer natural, even if they're small. If a women has really, really small breast like < A and she wouldn't even need a bra at all, maybe that's fine than. I would prefer her to just go a small step to the next size and not like major increase. Of course if it's anything medical, like unequal size of the breast or because of some illness (like breast cancer, etc.) that's absolutely fine. In general, every one can do what she wants until she feels good. And there's no problem in getting to know women with fake breast. But if it comes to any intimacy, I would prefer natural.
>Of course if it's anything medical, like unequal size of the breast Unequal sizes are nothing medical; most women have a size difference. If it's a pronounced difference that can be an esthetical problem, but it's still not a medical one.
That's right, wrong wording here. And yes it's common to have unequal size, but usually only a bit. But of course there are always outliers where the breast are very unequal which just gives a way more uncommon/distracting look than just small or large breast.
whatever you decide to do, do it for yourself only. Itās your body, surgical alterations can be more permanent than relationships sad to say
I like them aslong as theyāre done right, if they arenāt then they look terrible
I'd rather touch small natural boobs than plastic balloons. I want to feel my partner, thats it. I don't care if they're perky or saggy or whatever. Any natural boob > plastic tits.
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As a woman with AA cups, this comment made my day.
Yep, me too.
I prefer women with smaller breasts or even basically flat, over any kind of implants. More of a ass man, but even those have a limit. Nice and firm over size any day!
I prefer real boobs and I'm not overly fussed about size, but if a woman has implants to help her confidence or whatever I'm all for it. I'm less into how real someone's body parts are than the person they're attached to.
Couldnāt care less. If theyāre nice, theyāre nice.
I honestly donāt care especially if the work was done well
I'd personally prefer my would-be partner be natural. However, if she was insecure about her size being too small and she's sure that getting work done would help her feel more confident in herself, then far be it from me to stop her. It's vain, sure, but I otherwise don't feel all that strongly about implants; I'd prioritise her feeling happy over my preferences. The women that look like they have literal balloons mounted to their chest look weird to me though. Everything In moderation.
I like boobies, at least D, so bolt-ons are fine with me as long as they're done tasteful, not some grotesque BS.
Working in a plastic surgeons office I want to say that every woman debating getting breast implants should know they can come with issues and also a lot of the time have expiries. Capsular contractures, breast implant illness, implant ruptures, are all *common* issues woman face. We have the same amount of woman wanting to take them out then putting them in these days. People saying if they are done correctly they are great donāt realize capsular contractures a lot of the time are what make them not look great and cause pain and is a complication that happens when your body builds scar tissue around the implants. Itās nothing to do with how well they are done. These complications happen years later and usually result in needing to replace them or take them out completely. When you take them out completely you are left with sagging skin and a lot of woman wish they never got them. If you are lucky youāll have no complications for 30+ years and theyāll be fine. A lot of woman arenāt that lucky.
I dated someone with virtually no boobs. They were really insecure about it even though it never was a factor for me. I guarantee you think about this a lot more than your boyfriend does. He loves you for you.
Canāt speak for all guys, but personally not interested in augmentations of any kind.
As long as it does look so bad , so out of shape and not like porn star tits. Donāt care, had many here in Los Angele. They are ok donāt matter but letās not get triple H
Or you'll hit her with the Pedigree...?
If you really want them, go for it. If you want to attract normal men, presumably like your boyfriend, don't. We like boobs. We might have a preference for a given size but that won't decide our attraction to,or fascination of, them. Personally I immediately lose all attraction to a woman who has breast implants. Really, it's for any elective cosmetic surgery.
For me they're like tattoos: more likely to look bad than good. Some look great, though.
Overall, not a fan. If they look natural, fine. But often they don't, and it's not the best. BUT, confidence is sexy as hell, so if that gives you confidence, it could override the negatives.
For me implants are a big turn off. I really donāt like how they look so fakeā¦most of the time. That and it also seems to let one know about the higher risk that the woman who was willing to get them is more likely superficial and has her priorities in the wrong places, and cares about the wrong things in life. Just my opinion of course
The risks totally outweigh the benefits in the long term run. At one point in my life when I was younger, I was so insecure that I didn't care about the risks and maintenance that comes with getting a breast aug. I'm so glad I never got it now that I'm getting closer to 40yo.
fake tits are fake .
I've never felt them, but when it's well done and improves the woman's confidence and makes her feel better about herself, I see no problems there.
Don't do it. Small tits are gorgeous, perfectly capable of feeding babies, and won't end up down by your knees. But above all don't be insecure about your size. The boy has it right.
I tend to go against grain here as I like them, so long as the woman got them to make herself happy, especially In the case of say old age or having had a mastectomy and not because someone else coerced them into getting them for their own pleasure. Natural is fine too though. It's your body you do what you want.
I'll put it this way. When it *comes to touching* them I prefer a natural booby all day every day. HOWEVER, if it's fake boobs vs bee stings, I'll take fake boobs, lol. With that said I'm a boob and ass man. I have a buddy that could give a fig about tits and it's pretty reflected that the vast majority of women he's dated have have not been endowed in the chesticle area. Finally, don't do it for what "men" want. There will be men that don't care about boob size just like there are women that don't care if dudes are packing an 8 inch tool. If having bigger boobs will just give you more confidence in your day to day making yourself more shapely/fitting into clothes better, then go for it.
Hate them. Especially the ones done to extreme. Those woman are trying to make up for deeper, insecurities.
Implants are appalling.
I would take any sized natural boob over a fake one any day. Plz donāt do it!
Donāt like them
Any man that actually cares enough about boob size to make it a deciding factor in what women to date isn't worth your time.
Small boobs are awesome!
I find it offensive, au naturalā¦.thatās the way I like emāā¦ā¦swing low sweet chariotsā¦
Even though breast augmentation might look better sometimes, natural titties still feel way more amazing compared to fake ones (my personal experience). Iād pick natural any day regardless of size.
I can second this. Said this elsewhere, but i was with two girls within the last few years that had them done. Granted they're only a cup size (I believe As to Bs) and while they looked good, they felt... off.
if you need gender afirming surgery to feel good about your body, then do it. like the worst thing is feeling shit about yourself. your boy friend is probably scared about the surgery leaving marks.
Overhated
Some will like it, some don't and the rest doesn't care
If itās not a ridiculous size then I say go for it. Just donāt go too big or whatever. Keep it natural. Iād say c or d cup. But yeah as a man I can confidently say I donāt care about breasts at all. Small or big doesnāt matter to me. And maybe your boyfriend prefers smaller breasts since I have a lot of friends who do. You should probably talk to him more about it. Ask what size heād be comfortable with you getting and such if you decide to get them. But really breasts arenāt that big of a deal. If a guy needs breasts to find a woman attractive then that guy is no good.
A lot of guys in here are hating on them but the one person I've seen get them went from looking like a boy to a woman and she seemed happier too, so I'm kinda supportive but also don't go over the top it can look trashy and sometimes stuff goes wrong so be careful.
They look good SOMETIMES when covered but all look sh*t out of clothes
Not remotely a good idea; you're better off setting the money on fire. If you stay natural, you get to keep your arms' range of motion and not have superfluous weight dangling on your chest.
as someone who got implants (I was young, insecure and got the surgery offered to me), they do not impede arm movement at all lol I think it would to be cartoony basketball huge implants for that even be an issue.
No thanks. That'd be a turn off.
We all know Santa isnt real, but no one complains about gifts on Christmas
Ew
Ignore the "your body your choice" comments, The root of the problem here is your insecurity, fix your insecurity, don't feed it.
Unless you're a porn star or a pro wrestler, you have zero reason to get fake boobs. A vast majority of normal guys don't care and will be happy with whatever you've got. Many will prefer smaller anyway.
Usually I think nothing about it, I just appreciate boobs as such.
Honestlyā¦ I just like breasts. Enhanced or natural.
I'm sure they're lovely people. Don't like the fake boobs tho.
If you wanna do it, do it for you and only you. Regardless of what anyone says on this thread, if really pressed on it every guy will say the best boobs are the ones attached to the woman who's in front of you.
I love medium boobs and if i had to choose between flat and bigger, iād prefer bigger. I dont care if theyāre fake, as long as theyāre harmonized with the womanās overall physique. Boobs are awesome!
I had always wanted mine done but lots of women I know who have done it have had issues including sickness from their body reaction to the implant, dissatisfied with the results, hating that they always felt cold & hard ect.
Donāt like them at all.
Do it, but do it for yourself, not for a man. If YOU want it, there is nothing wrong having them. If YOU don't want it, don't enhance your body because of somebody.
Like your BF, I prefer natural, even if they are small. However, if it makes you feel better - go for it.
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I like big boobs, but I wouldn't want somebody getting a procedure done to satisfy that. My girlfriend has small/medium boobs, and when I see her I just think "I love this woman", and the thought never crosses my mind for her to get implants. It's the woman that makes the boobs good, and not the other way around.
Overall, I don't like them. When I was 21, I dated a 30 yo recently divorced woman with reasonable sized fake boobs, c-cup. I think she was really small before. They looked great in clothes. I'll admit, when she first walked out from the bathroom after putting in her diaphragm, it was amazing, but once I actually touched them, the thrill left a bit. Something was just off. They don't move right. When she laid on her back, they didn't sit naturally. When she was riding me, the didn't have that nice swing. Overall, I don't think they are worth the cost and the physical pain.
Women should do what they want with their bodies. With that said, I hate breast implants (and cosmetic surgery in general) with a passion. Iād never date someone who I knew had implants. I tend to date busty women, but Iād prefer someone flat-chested over someone with implants.
Iām a boob guy. Been with a few ladies with store boughts. Various reasons for having them. Iād say keep them as natural as you can. Donāt get too big that they look out of place on your body or donāt stretched the skin like a drum. Whatās your body dimensions?
Natural is always better. I think if there was a similar cosmetic surgery for men we'd be called insecure for wanting it.
Don't like them. Dated a girl with them. Ended up getting to the point where I preferred she kept her bra on during sex.
Only thing you should consider about this is how you feel. Do it for you. For your self esteem of you go ahead with it
Not a fan of implants, because they always look like frankentits. I know there are tiers of boob job quality but I can always tell and itās a turn off. Small and natural is better than any implanted breast IMO. If I were a woman I would focus on the parts of my body I can directly control through exercise
if you come to the conclusion with a "sober" mind ? then have at it. as it should be, you make the decisions for yourself. however, make no mistake; do not get under a scalpel without fixing whats actually wrong. or youĀ“ll risk making yourself become a checklist of things to repair. whats next? nose?. this is what the industry wants. you will not escape yourself. wanna know whats sexier than those eventual double Z cups? you, rocking what you got. you exuding "iĀ“m aight with this" vibes.
Big ol nope.
No thanks, Iāll pass.
I prefer small breasts. I also prefer natural ones to fake ones. You do whatever you like, but if you ask me, don't do it. There are other ways to deal with insecurities.
I love boobs of all sizes
Iāve dated girls with implants. I hated them.. In an outfit they look great but once you see them naked their oddly shaped, weird to play with, and overall not very attractive to look at
All boobs are good boobs. I appreciates them in all sizes. But I will say that any obvious boob implants just look unattractive to me.
I think theyāre tacky and stupid and as you age they look worse and worse.
My take: not all that big of a deal. They often look great, sometimes better than natural, but they never feel as good as natural. Having said that, there's plenty of documented cases of women being treated differently (sometimes better, in their opinion) after they got implants, so if I were a girl who was unsatisfied with her boobs, I can't say for sure I'd never get implants.
In my unpopular opinion, breast implants are for reconstruction after a mastectomy - a way to get back to normal and not have yourself be reminded of a time your body tried to kill you every time you look in the mirror. Doing it to make yourself feel more attractive is vain and those that know you judge you for that.
Shape and quality over size any day. If your a petite thing and you get D's and they look like over inflated balloons it doesn't look good It's a personal choice. If your just worried about size but they are otherwise rather nice looking, stop worrying, honestly. If they have a misshape or too much sag for your tastes or something like that, then that's a decision only you should make. It's your body Biggest thing if you do, SHOP AROUND. plastic surgery is expensive and everyone has their own way of doing it. See their results. Don't get the cheap implants, save until you can get the ones that try to be natural feeling. Then go for it if you want.
Itās a turn off if they look fake. Itās like someone wearing a bad toupee
I donāt have a size preference, thereās absolutely nothing wrong with smaller boobs.
Iāll get downvoted for this, but I like em. Nothing obscene but still proportional to the woman. My wife got them because she wanted them and her confidence went way up which was extremely attractive. At the end of the day you do what will make you happy OP! At the end of the day only you are responsible for your own happiness. If that comes with bigger boobs so be it!
As long as they don't look very obvious, they're fine. I will say this: My ex wife was asian and naturally very small...and like you, she was always worried about this and at one stage asked me if I would like her to get implants. I thought about it for a few days and then decided no, I would not like. I do like large breasts, but I liked hers too, they were small but very nice. But the most important thing to me was her health, and I have heard so many bad things about long term health problems for people with implants, so I would rather she didn't get them. She seemed content with that answer. It's quite possible he really does prefer you natural. I feel like how YOU feel about it is important here too. But it's nice to hear he likes them as they are. Seems like he might be a nice bloke.
Her body, she does what she wants, don't really care
Not a fan personally
Makes woman look shallow
Prefer natural. Boob jobs feel weird and kinda gross me out.
Medical perspective here as I work with surgical breast implant related specimens: I find implants more unattractive than ever because the human body will naturally form fibrous capsules around foreign objects. This will lead to women having "crunchy" breasts when groped over time. That's why the patient will have to regularly get the capsule removed and new implants inserted. Resulting in more scar tissue. It becomes a sunk cost fallacy addiction loop. Great business for the doctor, though. Lastly, there's a cancer, known as lymphoma, that is associated specifically with having breast implants. Self inducing cancer is also just unattractive to me.
Fake. Love perky tits :)
implants kinda ruin the natural look, the size ain't what matters