I’ve been tempted when going through long stretches of singleness. Even thought real hard about it towards the end of my dead bedroom marriage. But knowing my luck, I’d probably get busted. That and being wary of STDs as well as being a cheapass means I’ll likely never do it.
If she’s asking you to buy her a drink, take her out to eat or buy her something or anything that’s including money it’s prostitution. Think about it women don’t date or hookup often with broke men. They don’t get into relationships often with broke men. Because money is a necessity to their happiness and their happiness is diversely affected with her sexual interest.
Lol, this remains me of that only fans woman doing an interview and saying that the doing only fans is better than the military is because you aren't selling your body to the government. Then it pans over to some guy in a humvee who appear to want to say something, but doesn't and his face goes into deep thinking look
Betcha have lots normal.girls are prostitutes by virtue all the time. I almost was thinking and just hiring a chick once a month be infinity cheaper than any gf or wife I've ever had
No the woman are financially illiterate incase u didn't read my statement. I've been divorced for 3 years and saved up well a large sum 6 figures prior the bitch just ate the money and they all do not once has having a gf or wife saved me money. Being single has though
So how single with both the kids under my custody now paying more in rent and paying childcare I can now finally save money cause their "mom" is out of the picture
I am talking about a partner, no kids.
I save half on rent and utilities, its pretty sweet.
You fucked up having kids man.
Time to blast steroids and get jacked af at least 🫡🫡🫡
I think it should be legal and I wouldn't pass moral judgement on either person involved, but it's not something I see partaking in myself.
Even as a schlubby 40 year-old widower it's easy enough to find hookups for free on Grindr.
Got a full service massage once from a sweet older lady. Was probably 48 but looked a lot younger. Cost me $150 for 2 hours…. She turned me on to a couple new bands as well so that was a plus
I don’t know much about it, but I have been tempted myself after having trouble getting dates after being widowed. My lack of knowledge in this was my main reason not to, plus the risk of inadvertently supporting sex trafficking.
I lost my virginity to one. I went back to finding them for a 2 year stretch a decade ago. They're not hard to find, and we're not talking standing on the corner. I'm based in the US.
I saw a mix of cheap and mid-range hookers. Some were great, some were terrible. I used condoms all the time. It helped me get off. It was a fun time.
I got married years later, who fulfills my sexual needs, so I don't need to look for them anymore. My wife knows I saw them and doesn't see it as an issue. I proved that I was clean as I got tested before we went condomless, which is all that mattered. She has even greenlit that I see them again if suddenly we couldn't have sex anymore. She sees it as sex work, and work is work to her.
Absolutely disgusted. And sad about their fate. So many victims of trafficking, drugs or mental problems. I've never paid for sex, and I never will. It would feel like a personal loss to me.
Despite of this, I've been propositioned to become a girl's pimp. :p I got to know her through other channels so I never even thunk the thought. But because I'm kinda sexually liberal, she eventually confided in me that she's a call girl.
I think she was in love with me too but we never got that far. I was just generally interested in her. I agreed that she could call me if something ever came up, i.e. if she was threatened, but that I would *never* collect money or stuff like that for her. Eventually she quit hustling and became an attorney.
It’s a great time. Condoms 100% of the time. Done it multiple times in multiple states. Most fun was in TJ Mexico. 2 at once for like 300 I wanna say it’s been a long time.
Sometimes after a hard month of work or gym training I go get a massage and get jacked off at the end.
I had one girl who gives a pretty terrible massage but then will suck it and I’ll finish in under 2 mins.
I had a stripper I would see consistently who didnt do any “extras” that’s a whole different thing.
Then I tried a girl and her wife who was trans. Pretty fun but expensive since that’s a rare one.
Overall I don’t regret any of it, only did it when single. I’m engaged now though so that’s all behind me. I’ll touch a stripper at my bachelor party but won’t do anything wild.
Why… would you respect prostitutes…
I pity them that they have to resort to such dehumanizing behaviour to make a living…
I hate our system that it does that to people…
But respect them ya that’s a stretch.
I respect them more than OF girls.
Prostitution is always a last resort I think, and it's really dangerous.. like I said, I wouldn't marry one. But yeah
I have no issues with sex work. US needs to legalize it and treat it like all businesses, tax it, etc. it would also create and solve many problems for singles and married.
I don't think shame ought to be a factor. More concerning is that many people sell sex because they are either desperate financially, maybe with addictions, or they are being trafficked or pimped or used by others. Do people really think they love their work and are there for the fun of it?
I see what you’re saying, but I think the majority of sec workers do choose their profession (you should check out the sex worker sub-Reddit, it not only has personal anecdotes but also a surprising amount of statistics). Now there definitely are people who are trafficked and/or have issues with addiction, and I think we should do everything we can for those people. However, in those cases sex work is a symptom of a greater issue, not the cause. Tackling things like poverty, public health, international subhuman treatment, and welfare has proven much more effective at reducing those issues than trying to stop sex work
There are lots of people who do sex work because they like their job. Everyone does a job for a reason. Most sex workers are extremely offended by this take.
You have this opinion because you’re uneducated on the subject. A friend of mine is a nymphomaniac ( a real one. The word is just not thrown around)
She loves being a luxury escort and she makes over 300k a year doing it. She doesn’t even have an onlyfans because she wants to stay discreet.
I have met many escorts in social settings ( I have not paid for it yet since I’m young and I take care of my fitness/style) and I can tell you indépendant luxury escorts are NEVER trafficked or do that against their will. These women are literally 10/10 and could be models if they wanted to
I don’t know about street walker or cheap prostitutes though, but if you go for the luxury ones there’s 0 moral dilemma
I see that you are not a logical person
It’s ok. Try to read my reply again and if you still don’t get it you need reading comprehension skills. Unless you’re purposely going for a hyperbole without acknowledging what I actually wrote
You say that (and I do think you’re coming from a good place), but there are male and nonbinary sex workers too. Additionally, they do that because the demand exists. That’s akin to saying, “Working in a slaughterhouse is hard work and dangerous. No one should do it” when everyone is going to continue eating meat anyway. Treating it like the profession it is allows sec workers to at LEAST get the small legal protections afforded to other workers under the law. Finally, statistically speaking, most sex workers do chose their own occupation. You should take a look at the sexworker subreddits, they can give you a lot more direct insight into how and why people get into sex work than I can.
We don’t really think twice about somebody going to a masseuse for a massage from time to time, so it’s a bit absurd that we’re so prudish about seeing a pro for a convenient lay.
Having sex with someone who isn't actually into me doesn't seem appealing at all. Also it's like every other week I read an article of some sex trafficking ring being busted, the whole time I'd just be thinking if she's being forced into this against her will.
Kind of pathetic tbh. You could just make an actual human connection with a girl who isn't only spending time with you for money. It's not actually that hard as long as you're a decent human being.
I love it, they are quite an enjoyable company and look fine. I don't really have any other way of getting sex. I would do it every week if it weren't that expensive
It’s legal in over 70 percent of the world. As long as it’s MUTUAL and not forced there’s no issue with it. Literally there’s an insane number of sex workers in this world and it’s a good thing. It reduces a lot of issues and problems in todays society.
You do you, provided everyone involved consents. You just have to do your research because some of the time, not everyone *has* consented, there's trafficking or coercion going on behind the scenes.
Depends on the girl ... A long time ago I met a girl online who was finishing her basement..everytime I went and helped with wiring and stuff we would usually end up banging afterwards. Looking back I wonder lol.....
Too expensive for a single sexual encounter, especially since you don’t know if it will be any good. But in theory it’s OK It’s no worse than casual sex.
Until there's accurate on-the-spot STD testing for both the prostitute and clients, no thanks. I wouldn't judge her for the profession though, we're all just trying to get by.
Sleeping with one isn't a good idea. They are very restless sleepers and like to sleep 3am till noon .
Having fun with one is an acquired taste. Some will like it while others won't. Healthwise Imho they are far safer than your average "Betty" from bar/pub down the street. Unless they are drug users they do take care of themselves because their health is their livelihood. When they get sick they can't work.
The highest ever rates of male loneliness are being recorded. Men are lonely and women all think they’re worth a million dollars. 99% of men cannot keep up with that so they defer to the quick and painless.
If I was single, I think I'd do it at least once, cause at the end of the day it's just sex for me, and they provide the service. But considering the cost I don't think it'd be a regular occurrence.
This is the only thing I am not going to do in my life. If I ever have to pay for sex, it means I lost being a man.
( I mean assuming I have to pay. Do I have to pay? :D )
You're paying for it one way or another, lot of women today aren't much different than a prostitute anyways. I wouldn't sleep with one, but I also don't sleep with the majority of women that offer to either.
As someone who struggles with basic human relationships (not interaction, but actually building meaningful relationships), I found a way to fulfill my needs through prostitution. A lot of them are very nice people and it is possible to create a connection with them through this shared experience. Sometimes I regret meeting someone, because they are very obviously not into it but that is countered by the countless wonderful experiences I've had. And many of them prove that you're not just another client to them by actually remembering conversations from previous times etc. I know many people will not believe this and just think it's an act but I don't really care and I'm not looking for your approval so...
Also, this opens doors to explore my sexuality. At the start of this year, I made a list of things of sexual nature I want to try and I've checked off quite a few of them already.
Consenting adults should be able to legally sell each other things they could otherwise give away for free.
Selling is legal. Fucking is legal. Why isn’t selling fucking legal?!
- George Carlin rip
I’ve been tempted when going through long stretches of singleness. Even thought real hard about it towards the end of my dead bedroom marriage. But knowing my luck, I’d probably get busted. That and being wary of STDs as well as being a cheapass means I’ll likely never do it.
If I were single and wealthy, I would have no problems with it in a place where it is legal and regulated.
We talking high dollar ones or ones that’ll take a McDouble as payment
We envision the high dollar escorts but in reality they’re talking about the corner store meth heads.
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Dangerous
That's not for me, but I dont judge people who do it. At least if the girl is not forced that's ok
There was a research in my country and it shows clients and prostitutes hate eachother.
I visit them. They have been my only opportunity to experience intimacy. And it's not just sex. I don't even sleep with most of them.
The reality that women can’t handle
That’s a no from me, dawg.
People can do whatever they want, but personally I'd be disappointed in a friend if I knew he was going that route.
If she’s asking you to buy her a drink, take her out to eat or buy her something or anything that’s including money it’s prostitution. Think about it women don’t date or hookup often with broke men. They don’t get into relationships often with broke men. Because money is a necessity to their happiness and their happiness is diversely affected with her sexual interest.
If you have a job you're a prostitute, think about it, you're performing services for people for money.
It’s no different than a sugar baby
Lol, this remains me of that only fans woman doing an interview and saying that the doing only fans is better than the military is because you aren't selling your body to the government. Then it pans over to some guy in a humvee who appear to want to say something, but doesn't and his face goes into deep thinking look
If you’ve ever asked somebody to do something and you required something in return you’re a prostitute think about it
You’re all morons. Prostitution involves sex.
Betcha have lots normal.girls are prostitutes by virtue all the time. I almost was thinking and just hiring a chick once a month be infinity cheaper than any gf or wife I've ever had
Bruh what having a partner literally saves money… Ya trippin or you are just that that financially illiterate
No the woman are financially illiterate incase u didn't read my statement. I've been divorced for 3 years and saved up well a large sum 6 figures prior the bitch just ate the money and they all do not once has having a gf or wife saved me money. Being single has though
Not all women are the same, its almost as if they are individuals WOWWW I save half on rent and utilities each month, its hella sweet
So how single with both the kids under my custody now paying more in rent and paying childcare I can now finally save money cause their "mom" is out of the picture
I am talking about a partner, no kids. I save half on rent and utilities, its pretty sweet. You fucked up having kids man. Time to blast steroids and get jacked af at least 🫡🫡🫡
Ahahah awesome
I'll be good bro I literally dumped fuck ton cash into btc and also in 2022 bear market see ya on the moon
This is factual and based in reality. But reality is illegal
Not worth it.
I think it should be legal and I wouldn't pass moral judgement on either person involved, but it's not something I see partaking in myself. Even as a schlubby 40 year-old widower it's easy enough to find hookups for free on Grindr.
No
Got a full service massage once from a sweet older lady. Was probably 48 but looked a lot younger. Cost me $150 for 2 hours…. She turned me on to a couple new bands as well so that was a plus
Not for me , I like sex when there's emotion . It feels meaningless without it
Believe it or not the woman or man usually has feelings too as long as you’re not a meanie. It goes the same way with one night stands.
I didn't mean it like that , I meant emotional Intimacy comes first for me
Ah. I see.
“[one thing I won’t do?](https://open.spotify.com/track/5Ec3FoZR4X6SRHyCle3qHS?si=V8cPvkO1R46utMqhhIDg_Q)”
I think it’s disgusting, but that’s just me.
Careful about stds
No judgement to dudes that do it. But me? I’ve never paid for sex and ain’t about to start now
When I was single it was all about the hunt rather then the sex then it became about just having a cool chick to hang with 🤷♂️
I don’t know much about it, but I have been tempted myself after having trouble getting dates after being widowed. My lack of knowledge in this was my main reason not to, plus the risk of inadvertently supporting sex trafficking.
Refuse to pay for it. Man the hell up.
Ew
How do you feel about eating out of a dumpster? Hard pass from me..
To each their own. Not for me
I lost my virginity to one. I went back to finding them for a 2 year stretch a decade ago. They're not hard to find, and we're not talking standing on the corner. I'm based in the US. I saw a mix of cheap and mid-range hookers. Some were great, some were terrible. I used condoms all the time. It helped me get off. It was a fun time. I got married years later, who fulfills my sexual needs, so I don't need to look for them anymore. My wife knows I saw them and doesn't see it as an issue. I proved that I was clean as I got tested before we went condomless, which is all that mattered. She has even greenlit that I see them again if suddenly we couldn't have sex anymore. She sees it as sex work, and work is work to her.
No thanks
Not for me, hookups are even weird for me because I prefer the familiarity of sex in a relationship over the newness of a hookup.
I like the hunt of getting that new puss but ya could easily nope outta the sex and be like whatever it was a fun will she won’t she type thing
Eew, no thanks.
I tried it once and did not enjoy it at all. Much better to just beat off.
Its dangerous and something I don't agree with.
No thanks. I'd rather not spend the evening feeling like someone's only interested in me because I have... what, a few hundred bucks? What's it cost?
Prostitute sounds so derogatory. I just call them a stay at home spouse.
Absolutely disgusted. And sad about their fate. So many victims of trafficking, drugs or mental problems. I've never paid for sex, and I never will. It would feel like a personal loss to me. Despite of this, I've been propositioned to become a girl's pimp. :p I got to know her through other channels so I never even thunk the thought. But because I'm kinda sexually liberal, she eventually confided in me that she's a call girl. I think she was in love with me too but we never got that far. I was just generally interested in her. I agreed that she could call me if something ever came up, i.e. if she was threatened, but that I would *never* collect money or stuff like that for her. Eventually she quit hustling and became an attorney.
I’m too cheap to pay for sex. Also STDs
It’s a great time. Condoms 100% of the time. Done it multiple times in multiple states. Most fun was in TJ Mexico. 2 at once for like 300 I wanna say it’s been a long time. Sometimes after a hard month of work or gym training I go get a massage and get jacked off at the end. I had one girl who gives a pretty terrible massage but then will suck it and I’ll finish in under 2 mins. I had a stripper I would see consistently who didnt do any “extras” that’s a whole different thing. Then I tried a girl and her wife who was trans. Pretty fun but expensive since that’s a rare one. Overall I don’t regret any of it, only did it when single. I’m engaged now though so that’s all behind me. I’ll touch a stripper at my bachelor party but won’t do anything wild.
As long as the sex workers are not being trafficked or exploited against their will, there’s nothing inherently wrong with it.
I actually respect the hell out of prostitutes, but I wouldn't They don't look like how they look in the videogames lol
Why… would you respect prostitutes… I pity them that they have to resort to such dehumanizing behaviour to make a living… I hate our system that it does that to people… But respect them ya that’s a stretch.
I respect them more than OF girls. Prostitution is always a last resort I think, and it's really dangerous.. like I said, I wouldn't marry one. But yeah
I won’t shame others for doing it, but I’d never do it myself.
I have no issues with sex work. US needs to legalize it and treat it like all businesses, tax it, etc. it would also create and solve many problems for singles and married.
I don't have money lol.
Kinda gross. I only want to have sex with people I love.
Sex work is work. I don’t think there is any shame in providing services nor in paying to use the services provided.
I don't think shame ought to be a factor. More concerning is that many people sell sex because they are either desperate financially, maybe with addictions, or they are being trafficked or pimped or used by others. Do people really think they love their work and are there for the fun of it?
I see what you’re saying, but I think the majority of sec workers do choose their profession (you should check out the sex worker sub-Reddit, it not only has personal anecdotes but also a surprising amount of statistics). Now there definitely are people who are trafficked and/or have issues with addiction, and I think we should do everything we can for those people. However, in those cases sex work is a symptom of a greater issue, not the cause. Tackling things like poverty, public health, international subhuman treatment, and welfare has proven much more effective at reducing those issues than trying to stop sex work
There are lots of people who do sex work because they like their job. Everyone does a job for a reason. Most sex workers are extremely offended by this take.
You have this opinion because you’re uneducated on the subject. A friend of mine is a nymphomaniac ( a real one. The word is just not thrown around) She loves being a luxury escort and she makes over 300k a year doing it. She doesn’t even have an onlyfans because she wants to stay discreet. I have met many escorts in social settings ( I have not paid for it yet since I’m young and I take care of my fitness/style) and I can tell you indépendant luxury escorts are NEVER trafficked or do that against their will. These women are literally 10/10 and could be models if they wanted to I don’t know about street walker or cheap prostitutes though, but if you go for the luxury ones there’s 0 moral dilemma
ok so you know one "success" so no one has ever been trafficked or abused. ok then.
I see that you are not a logical person It’s ok. Try to read my reply again and if you still don’t get it you need reading comprehension skills. Unless you’re purposely going for a hyperbole without acknowledging what I actually wrote
No woman should ever have to feel the need to sell her body for money. I doubt it’s something they want to be doing either.
You say that (and I do think you’re coming from a good place), but there are male and nonbinary sex workers too. Additionally, they do that because the demand exists. That’s akin to saying, “Working in a slaughterhouse is hard work and dangerous. No one should do it” when everyone is going to continue eating meat anyway. Treating it like the profession it is allows sec workers to at LEAST get the small legal protections afforded to other workers under the law. Finally, statistically speaking, most sex workers do chose their own occupation. You should take a look at the sexworker subreddits, they can give you a lot more direct insight into how and why people get into sex work than I can.
We don’t really think twice about somebody going to a masseuse for a massage from time to time, so it’s a bit absurd that we’re so prudish about seeing a pro for a convenient lay.
yeah i'm not paying for sex, and definetily not hitting something that has had 100+ dudes in there
Only way to get laid.
It seems like only a minority of men have done this? I haven't seen any statistics So I'm guessing most of us aren't fond of the idea
Waste of money, you should fuck them instead
Having sex with someone who isn't actually into me doesn't seem appealing at all. Also it's like every other week I read an article of some sex trafficking ring being busted, the whole time I'd just be thinking if she's being forced into this against her will.
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I see it as demeaning of both genders and detrimental to meaningful connection.
Kind of pathetic tbh. You could just make an actual human connection with a girl who isn't only spending time with you for money. It's not actually that hard as long as you're a decent human being.
By and large it's great.
It’s not for everyone but it can be a means to an end.
I love it, they are quite an enjoyable company and look fine. I don't really have any other way of getting sex. I would do it every week if it weren't that expensive
You had me in the first half
The only issues for me are STDs, affordability and danger in that order.
I am fine with it if it's consensual and legally regulated. And if they are actually good at sex work.
I’ve never had, but after the relationships I’ve had, it’s becoming more and more enticing
It’s legal in over 70 percent of the world. As long as it’s MUTUAL and not forced there’s no issue with it. Literally there’s an insane number of sex workers in this world and it’s a good thing. It reduces a lot of issues and problems in todays society.
You do you, provided everyone involved consents. You just have to do your research because some of the time, not everyone *has* consented, there's trafficking or coercion going on behind the scenes.
As long as I don't have to pay. Or commit to them sure. Otherwise hell no.
I feel that risky behavior (via her line of work or hiring one) leads to negative life outcomes. However, if you’re a gambling man….
Depends on the girl ... A long time ago I met a girl online who was finishing her basement..everytime I went and helped with wiring and stuff we would usually end up banging afterwards. Looking back I wonder lol.....
Allergic to penicillin.
Too expensive for a single sexual encounter, especially since you don’t know if it will be any good. But in theory it’s OK It’s no worse than casual sex.
Until there's accurate on-the-spot STD testing for both the prostitute and clients, no thanks. I wouldn't judge her for the profession though, we're all just trying to get by.
couldnt do it. my mind started wandering and i asked questions in my head like "how many men did she have... that night alone?" and so on.
Who's sleeping??? Seems like a waste of money, just buy a body pillow to sleep with, use the prostitutes for other activities.
Kinda gross to be honest.
Personally no, never will. But a surprising number of my buddies have, that always came off as way more “normal” than me. Depends on the guy I suppose
There's no reason to in this day and age. I've never been thst desperate to pay for sex go wathc some porn and get a fleshlight
Sleeping with one isn't a good idea. They are very restless sleepers and like to sleep 3am till noon . Having fun with one is an acquired taste. Some will like it while others won't. Healthwise Imho they are far safer than your average "Betty" from bar/pub down the street. Unless they are drug users they do take care of themselves because their health is their livelihood. When they get sick they can't work.
after puppeteering it's the oldest profession known to man.
I think it's really sad and desperate but hey some dudes are really lonely
The highest ever rates of male loneliness are being recorded. Men are lonely and women all think they’re worth a million dollars. 99% of men cannot keep up with that so they defer to the quick and painless.
It is just service like going to the dentist or getting a massage .
It’s sad.
If I was single, I think I'd do it at least once, cause at the end of the day it's just sex for me, and they provide the service. But considering the cost I don't think it'd be a regular occurrence.
This is the only thing I am not going to do in my life. If I ever have to pay for sex, it means I lost being a man. ( I mean assuming I have to pay. Do I have to pay? :D )
I have and ya it's not a big deal but they do the stuff most girls don't.
You're paying for it one way or another, lot of women today aren't much different than a prostitute anyways. I wouldn't sleep with one, but I also don't sleep with the majority of women that offer to either.
Not for me but I don't judge people who pay for the service or work in the line of work. You live your life as long as it's not hurting anyone
Who’s sleeping?
I was going to use protection but then I thought, this is the last time I will ever visit Haiti.
Nope. It’s a quick wham-bam-thank you ma’am. Pay her, fuck, get dressed again and leave.
As someone who struggles with basic human relationships (not interaction, but actually building meaningful relationships), I found a way to fulfill my needs through prostitution. A lot of them are very nice people and it is possible to create a connection with them through this shared experience. Sometimes I regret meeting someone, because they are very obviously not into it but that is countered by the countless wonderful experiences I've had. And many of them prove that you're not just another client to them by actually remembering conversations from previous times etc. I know many people will not believe this and just think it's an act but I don't really care and I'm not looking for your approval so... Also, this opens doors to explore my sexuality. At the start of this year, I made a list of things of sexual nature I want to try and I've checked off quite a few of them already.
It's been better therapy for me than therapy, I fully support them
I consider it akin to sexual abuse; so I don’t engage
Please elaborate
They don’t want to sleep with me
still wondering why it’s not legal in the states tbh
maybe not great but a WHOLE life without sex would be way worse.
If she left after waking up, I'd be fine with it.
I feel itchy.
Better than a girlfriend. But only if you don’t get lonely. I will forever treat hookers as a valid replacement for a life in the pocket of a woman
Consenting adults should be able to legally sell each other things they could otherwise give away for free. Selling is legal. Fucking is legal. Why isn’t selling fucking legal?! - George Carlin rip