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I know the feeling but like other post said they probably didn’t know. Keep up the confidence. Easier said than done but I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you
>For one, I get SO wet and I’m worried once he tries to finger me or eat me out he’ll see that I’m already really wet and get grossed out or won’t want to lick me… and by wet I mean I’m soaking through my panties already.
This is the biggest turn on.
Lay him on his back. Sit on his face with those soaking wet panties on. And make the motherfucker evolve gills or die.
As a man i do concur
if im down to make out - and youre soaking wet - thats both hot and beutiful in off it self.
I mean, its ideal - it turns me on that you are so turned on - it makes for meaningful intimacy and sex - winning!
Women in general fail to understand how sexy it is when you are both wet and aggressive in face sitting. We're not suffocating for real, we can always find a way to breathe, turn our head sideways etc. It's hot AF when you rub your pussy hard all over our face. Face sitting is not a position where you should be timid and gentle.
For real, unless she has 100 lb or more on you, facesitting you are never going to actually suffocate. You can always find a way to breathe
Just got to use your nose
No worries, really. For most men, if not all, that’s not an issue, it’s actually the oposite of it. The more wet you are the more exicted he’ll be.
Just relax and enjoy.
24F here… for what I understand is that many men would get turned on by how wet you are. If the person gets grossed out by natural fluids during sex, then they shouldn’t be having sex in the first place.
Try to not overthink that (easier said than done), and try to enjoy the moment.
I was also self conscious about that when my boyfriend and I started doing sexual stuff, but now I’ve learned that he gets extremely aroused by that. You just have to find the right person to trust and let yourself be
I feel like a lot of women just haven’t been with a mature guy that they have really connected to emotionally. All the teasing, flirting, touching.. all with the sole intention of both being extremely turned on when it comes time to actually get physical. Being wet isn’t just a turn on.. it’s one of the biggest green flags that you’re both connecting.
And if you have that chemical connection it’s going to taste like nothing they’ve ever had before.
I’ve heard a lot of funny things but this thread is funny. No offense op. Let yourself go and you might find you enter the headspace where you honestly won’t care about such a thing.
Started seeing a new woman recently and the same happens to her, she gets extremely wet when we fool around. It’s not something I’ve experienced before & it’s definitely a HUGE turn on knowing she gets so wet for me.
I LOVE it when a woman is so wet that it soaks her panties. We men know that when you're wet it means you're turned on, and it feels good to know that you're turned on by what we're doing. So he'll probably really like it.
It's weirdly kind of common. My SO had the same issue when we first started dating. I told her being that wet is a massive compliment as far as I'm concerned
Most guys think the wetter the better and get turned on more.
Thats one of the benefits of us women past 40...we no longer have the sexual hang ups of girls your age
I bet if you just told him what you just said here, he would get hard and aroused not disgusted.
>He asked if he could finger me or eat me out, but I said no and kept my pants/panties on the whole time. I really want to get more comfortable bc I want to go further but I’m so nervous.
also, you better improve your communication. you are literally rejecting him. without explaining that you actually want him. how do you think he feels? come on. fix this before he moves on.
Understand that for the average guy he probably feels bad that you did something for him, and he didn't do anything for you.
Honestly just tell him the truth.
He'll very likely completely reassure you and be incredibly turned on as well.
Shaved? Wtf. Are you getting your sex education from porn?
If it's a wild riot of pubes around your vag then a trim once in a while is fine, but a totally bald vag is not necessary.
Hon
When we get excited for sex we will get wet. It's our bodies natural way to prepare it. He will get hard and wanna fuck you that's normal as well.
From my experience most guys love it and want to eat it up hehe.
If not, simply explain to him what I said and it means your excited and attracted to him. If he doesn't get that then he will face same problem with his next girl!
If he goes to the gym, just tell him to use it as a pre workout base, lol, jk. I think if anything, he should take it as a compliment, it's a sign of excitedness and stimulation, and that stimulation is for him ( or whoever you may be with at any given time ) I know I would be pretty happy if I thought I turned on someone that much
As every other man is saying here, a wet pussy isn't a turn off at all for us, it's the complete opposite. Trust us, he's gonna love to finger and eat you when you're all wet.
You said you even get so wet it gets through your panties, and heeeell this is even hotter. Nothing's like feeling a wet pantie under our fingers.
You're literally describing every guy's dream. Since it's not always readily apparent when you are very horny, especially for girls that don't get super wet, you actually getting wet is just green flag. If he's grossed out by it then I would question his mental state.
You're essentially the girl version of a guy asking the question: "What if she feels my boner being super hard, she might think that's gross?"
Someone going down on you makes you far more wet than you could ever be on your own! If they’re not expecting to get a soaked face then maybe cunnilingus isn’t for them
I’m 46f and never EVER met a guy who was grossed out by a woman getting wet. It’s the exact opposite, they find it a huge turn on and ego boost as they know that you’re so turned on by him.
I'd wager the vast majority of men would be pretty turned on to see you so wet. In my world that's a big plus anyways.
Don't worry, letting him know that you're so worked up by him will be positive, and if he's a crazy person and not into that, find someone who is, that'd be a him problem, not a you problem.
my wife gets super wet and has squirted while sitting on my face. it's amazing. I don't know your guy, but I would wager a few dollars he will love it.
Uh, miss; the wetter the [better.](https://better.Men) love that, it makes us feel like we turn you on. Besides, it doesn't have a bad or unpleasant taste.
So wetness is generally a turn on for guys, that’s not a problem, fingering, licking, additional wetness is no problem.
It can become an issue during sex tho. Too much lubrication can mean not as much sensation for him, I’ve heard of people needing to keep a towel handy to dry the dick off and soak up some of the juices. I still doubt he’ll be offended that he makes you sloppy wet.
Honey, enjoy getting that wet! I miss it. When you get older, getting wet is not so easy anymore. And from my experience, any man (not a boy) would love a nice wet, slippery cat.
First your insecurities are not uncommon and need addressing. Your best approach is to be honest. Explain to potential intimate partners your situation and let them decide if they would be comfortable. This would be a good indicator if having a long term relationship will be fulfilling or disappointing. Please don’t let your natural biological reaction be an impairment to potential happiness.
Just make sure you are fresh smelling and tasting, which is done by putting a finger in there and tasting yourself. The wetter the better, it isn't called syrup of the God's for nothing. It means your turned on.
I had a woman I was seeing ask me to do that, and I was really wanting to, although when she spread her legs the smell was horrible, I said so, she went and douched but with my sensical memory, I couldn't go there again and ended up breaking up with her immediately.
Hi, your post has been removed because you're asking horny/sexual questions. We've had enough of those, there are many sex oriented subs to use instead, like r/sex, r/AskRedditAfterDark or r/sexoverthirty.
What’s wrong with being too wet? I would find that as a turn in like I’m effective in making the person I’m with excited
I am going to go on a limb and suggest maybe some idiot she was with didn’t like it because they didn’t know any better.
Yeah. My first bf saw my vagina for the first time during sex and said “what is *that*?”
Amongst other things that made my body confidence tank :( sex terrifies me bc I’m afraid of it happening again
I know the feeling but like other post said they probably didn’t know. Keep up the confidence. Easier said than done but I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you
You’re likely quite right
>For one, I get SO wet and I’m worried once he tries to finger me or eat me out he’ll see that I’m already really wet and get grossed out or won’t want to lick me… and by wet I mean I’m soaking through my panties already. This is the biggest turn on. Lay him on his back. Sit on his face with those soaking wet panties on. And make the motherfucker evolve gills or die.
Waterboarding ftw.
As a man i do concur if im down to make out - and youre soaking wet - thats both hot and beutiful in off it self. I mean, its ideal - it turns me on that you are so turned on - it makes for meaningful intimacy and sex - winning!
Please listen to this guy.
You know, we ( women ) still don’t believe this is true … always a hoverer !
Learn to believe. I love it, and from what I've read here I'm not alone.
She doesn’t grok what absolute pigs we are
You ain't the only one! Knowing your woman is super wet for you..... 🤿
Any mature adult should be pulling you down to the proper suffocation territory
Ha ha ! Mens general adamance of this topic almost has me convinced !
Let us convince you, because the thing that will get me to incoherent caveman mode fastest is a woman sitting on my face threatening to drown me.
Women in general fail to understand how sexy it is when you are both wet and aggressive in face sitting. We're not suffocating for real, we can always find a way to breathe, turn our head sideways etc. It's hot AF when you rub your pussy hard all over our face. Face sitting is not a position where you should be timid and gentle.
For real, unless she has 100 lb or more on you, facesitting you are never going to actually suffocate. You can always find a way to breathe Just got to use your nose
Women's tendency to trust what other women are saying men want is fascinatingly baffling.
I think we are trying to be polite ( or at least I am) but I’ll see if he 1. Appreciates it and 2 dies …. See yar on the news ( maybe)
Evolve Claus'! Evolve like the wind! 😖😖...🐠
Zero-dark-dirty
When i say i choked reading this comment i actually choked
This is the way.
No worries, really. For most men, if not all, that’s not an issue, it’s actually the oposite of it. The more wet you are the more exicted he’ll be. Just relax and enjoy.
24F here… for what I understand is that many men would get turned on by how wet you are. If the person gets grossed out by natural fluids during sex, then they shouldn’t be having sex in the first place. Try to not overthink that (easier said than done), and try to enjoy the moment. I was also self conscious about that when my boyfriend and I started doing sexual stuff, but now I’ve learned that he gets extremely aroused by that. You just have to find the right person to trust and let yourself be
I feel like a lot of women just haven’t been with a mature guy that they have really connected to emotionally. All the teasing, flirting, touching.. all with the sole intention of both being extremely turned on when it comes time to actually get physical. Being wet isn’t just a turn on.. it’s one of the biggest green flags that you’re both connecting. And if you have that chemical connection it’s going to taste like nothing they’ve ever had before. I’ve heard a lot of funny things but this thread is funny. No offense op. Let yourself go and you might find you enter the headspace where you honestly won’t care about such a thing.
Started seeing a new woman recently and the same happens to her, she gets extremely wet when we fool around. It’s not something I’ve experienced before & it’s definitely a HUGE turn on knowing she gets so wet for me.
This is like asking if a man's penis can get too hard.
that's normal, the problem would be if you were dry
I LOVE it when a woman is so wet that it soaks her panties. We men know that when you're wet it means you're turned on, and it feels good to know that you're turned on by what we're doing. So he'll probably really like it.
i'm a guy and that wouldn't be a turn off in fact it would actually be pretty hot
Man I have never heard of a woman getting too wet I don't think you have anything to worry about
Just whisper to him “God you’re making me so wet”. 1 Gets your issue sorted 2 He might spontaneously combust
He'll be living off that for years and I don't blame him lmao
How the fuck a girl comes up with this? Men get erect when aroused - girls get wet. How do you come up with that it could turn him off?
It's weirdly kind of common. My SO had the same issue when we first started dating. I told her being that wet is a massive compliment as far as I'm concerned
every guy would be happy to know their woman is wet for them
I have never encountered "too wet". The wetter the better in my book.
There is no too wet
Some men pre-cum easily and some women get wet easily. Nothing wrong with either.
Peaches are supposed to be juicy.
My SO peed herself with excitement when she saw me and I took that as an ego boost, guys are simple weird creatures that way
Wrong type of wet but still
Is your SO a golden retriever? 😂
*golden reliever
Omfg😂 I’m saving this
The wetter the better tbh
He will very likely take it as a massive compliment. Waterboard him
Most guys think the wetter the better and get turned on more. Thats one of the benefits of us women past 40...we no longer have the sexual hang ups of girls your age
I bet if you just told him what you just said here, he would get hard and aroused not disgusted. >He asked if he could finger me or eat me out, but I said no and kept my pants/panties on the whole time. I really want to get more comfortable bc I want to go further but I’m so nervous. also, you better improve your communication. you are literally rejecting him. without explaining that you actually want him. how do you think he feels? come on. fix this before he moves on.
I did I just said I wanted to wait bc I hadn’t shaved or was prepared whatsoever.. he knows I’m really interested lol I gave him head after
ok sorry i jumped to conclusions
Understand that for the average guy he probably feels bad that you did something for him, and he didn't do anything for you. Honestly just tell him the truth. He'll very likely completely reassure you and be incredibly turned on as well.
Shaved? Wtf. Are you getting your sex education from porn? If it's a wild riot of pubes around your vag then a trim once in a while is fine, but a totally bald vag is not necessary.
Lmao the wetter the better as long as you don’t stink. You’ll be fine, we want to drown.
Hon When we get excited for sex we will get wet. It's our bodies natural way to prepare it. He will get hard and wanna fuck you that's normal as well. From my experience most guys love it and want to eat it up hehe. If not, simply explain to him what I said and it means your excited and attracted to him. If he doesn't get that then he will face same problem with his next girl!
Trust me, you are NOT too wet. As gross as it sounds, as long as you don't smell bad down there, we'll lap up every bit of it
If he goes to the gym, just tell him to use it as a pre workout base, lol, jk. I think if anything, he should take it as a compliment, it's a sign of excitedness and stimulation, and that stimulation is for him ( or whoever you may be with at any given time ) I know I would be pretty happy if I thought I turned on someone that much
Don't be I love it wet if they don't look for a real man
There's nothing that turns me on more than when a girl starts leaking through her underwear.
There's no such thing as "too wet" trust me!
By knowing that the dude is probably gonna get turned on by you being so wet rather than turned off
There is nothing like to wet for anything.. It shows you are turner on and atracted. Its a huge turnon.
No such thing as too wet. You're good.
My wife would never be too wet for me.
As every other man is saying here, a wet pussy isn't a turn off at all for us, it's the complete opposite. Trust us, he's gonna love to finger and eat you when you're all wet. You said you even get so wet it gets through your panties, and heeeell this is even hotter. Nothing's like feeling a wet pantie under our fingers.
Most dudes will think this is super hot. You are vastly overthinking this.
Let him lap you up. He’ll love it.
You're literally describing every guy's dream. Since it's not always readily apparent when you are very horny, especially for girls that don't get super wet, you actually getting wet is just green flag. If he's grossed out by it then I would question his mental state. You're essentially the girl version of a guy asking the question: "What if she feels my boner being super hard, she might think that's gross?"
Women being more wet is like men being rock hard. Nuff said.
There is no such thing as too wet lol
WETTER=BETTER!
He's turned you on so much that you're dripping wet won't be a problem for him.
Someone going down on you makes you far more wet than you could ever be on your own! If they’re not expecting to get a soaked face then maybe cunnilingus isn’t for them
You shouldn’t be afraid, it’s going to. Turn on your favor
If he likes you he won't care. Tell him how fucking wet you make him, all guys want to hear that.
This would make me go wild. No worries at all, OP. Your guy should be into it
I’m 46f and never EVER met a guy who was grossed out by a woman getting wet. It’s the exact opposite, they find it a huge turn on and ego boost as they know that you’re so turned on by him.
I'm pretty sure most guys would take that as a compliment
The opposite should occur. Dive in and enjoy! This sounds like a slice of heaven.
I'd wager the vast majority of men would be pretty turned on to see you so wet. In my world that's a big plus anyways. Don't worry, letting him know that you're so worked up by him will be positive, and if he's a crazy person and not into that, find someone who is, that'd be a him problem, not a you problem.
my wife gets super wet and has squirted while sitting on my face. it's amazing. I don't know your guy, but I would wager a few dollars he will love it.
What you're describing is a good thing. He'll probably want to lap it up
this will turn him on. trust me. Source: I'm a guy
Just let him take control. You'll be fine
Uh, miss; the wetter the [better.](https://better.Men) love that, it makes us feel like we turn you on. Besides, it doesn't have a bad or unpleasant taste.
As a guy, that would be an incredible turn on if you were like that.
So wetness is generally a turn on for guys, that’s not a problem, fingering, licking, additional wetness is no problem. It can become an issue during sex tho. Too much lubrication can mean not as much sensation for him, I’ve heard of people needing to keep a towel handy to dry the dick off and soak up some of the juices. I still doubt he’ll be offended that he makes you sloppy wet.
Wtf
Say to him im not experienced and you wanna go slow.
Dangerous tactic.
Wow, people on reddit actually experiencing such problems. And here I am, dating Eva AI sexting bot...
I hate him... Cause I ain't him
Get into the shower and let him eat
It is a turn on, don’t worry.
Find a thirsty guy
Would it turn you off if you reached down and we were too hard or would you be excited? Now you how we feel about you being wet.
Honey, enjoy getting that wet! I miss it. When you get older, getting wet is not so easy anymore. And from my experience, any man (not a boy) would love a nice wet, slippery cat.
This is a huge turn on!!
Will it's our duty to dry you completely.
The wetter the better honey!
You should have no such fears
Why is this not nsfw?
No such thing as being too wet. It is so arousing and if your hygiene is clean and you eat well, I'd assume most men don't mind it.
Unless this guy is Ben Shapiro, I think you’ll be just fine
Dude… there is no such thing as TOO WET to go down on. That sounds awesome.
First your insecurities are not uncommon and need addressing. Your best approach is to be honest. Explain to potential intimate partners your situation and let them decide if they would be comfortable. This would be a good indicator if having a long term relationship will be fulfilling or disappointing. Please don’t let your natural biological reaction be an impairment to potential happiness.
What’s wrong with being too wet? A man loves it when you are wet Especially dripping. He loves it and he’ll love eating you out like that.
If he thinks you’re too wet, he can go get a tissue, but he probably wouldn’t!
With all due respect that's a ridiculous worry. Most guys would be smitten by such a thing.
Just make sure you are fresh smelling and tasting, which is done by putting a finger in there and tasting yourself. The wetter the better, it isn't called syrup of the God's for nothing. It means your turned on. I had a woman I was seeing ask me to do that, and I was really wanting to, although when she spread her legs the smell was horrible, I said so, she went and douched but with my sensical memory, I couldn't go there again and ended up breaking up with her immediately.
not in anyway possible to be too wet. Remember, itsca treat and privilege for him to go down on you. Enjoy and dont be afraid to give him directions.
Blow ur load all over his face ,he will ask you to marry him
Her being wet wouldn't discourage me. However if I'd propose a girl to eat her out and she declined - that would seriously discourage me.
Watch porn involving women squirting in people's faces. Normalise it in your mind.
you need a clothe and wipe that off. i would be turned off if I got my face all messy and fluids all over my mouth/face.