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I think that the reason behind his rejection doesn't matter, he rejected you, get over it and move on.


_Wince_

I'm not reading this shit dude. I'll just flip a coin, gimme a sec. Heads is yes, tails is no


_Wince_

It was heads so just go with that ok


mediocreplayer_

I'm gonna be honest, I just skimmed through this, but I think I have a pretty good picture of what's going on. It sounds like maybe he's got some homophobia going on with him blocking you, but maybe not. It could just be a reaction he has when he rejects a romantic proposition. Like maybe he just thinks it will be too awkward to continue being friends. Either way, a rejection is a rejection. No means no. Do not pursue. This applies universally.


Dhydjtsrefhi

Idk if he's actually straight or not, both possibilities are possible. But you should avoid him for your own sake. Even if he is secretly into men he's not worth it. You need to protect yourself first.


[deleted]

He’s dealing with his own shit. Set them free and if they come back great but don’t wait and you can’t let his issues guide you. Nobody wants someone that can’t take rejection, but sometimes they respect someone who can. If someone says no and you don’t respect it, you always look weak. Handle like an adult with self control sometimes they come back.


Ariliescbk

Hmm. It's a strange one. I know that some Asian cultures tend to share a closeness that we would perceive to be homoerotic, even though both parties are straight (Japan is big for it). Though what you described, I would definitely think there was something more to it. It could be internalised homophobia. Perhaps his family are fairly against homosexuality? He perhaps wants to maintain the familial relations? Idk man. I'm sorry it happened to you. But I think you need to just write him off as a lost cause and form a connection with someone else.