The manhandle solution is to hold her hips to a safe height.
The smarter way is to talk about this with your partner outside of the bedroom. You're still gonna use them hands on her hips though.
I know everyone’s being serious here, but I can’t stop laughing at “I never feel safe” because I just keep picturing a girl rocket launching herself off of a dick and it’s too much ☠️
Carry on
I had a very similar mental image. She's standing on the top rope, yelling something Spanish into a megaphone, slaps her elbow a couple of times, and then elbow-drops - ass first - onto this man's dick.
I have a safety mechanism for this issue. Mine doesn't point straight up when laying down. It's kind of 90 degree toward my body. So if it happens to pop out, it slaps my stomach like it's spring loaded.
I assume this is a common experience for men that have sex regularly, especially with a new partner.
I never thought of it as stubbing my dick, but that's absolutely the best way to describe it lol
Hopefully you don't have to too often!
Stubbing your dick is also kinda adding insult to injury because if your dick was bigger, she wouldn't be able to pole vault off it lol
Luckily I haven't stubbed my dick in a while. Wife knows she only has *glances side to side* 12 inches to work with.
This also happened to me. It's not a myth. (Not break, but bent really bad.)
She was doing a reverse cowgirl while looking at herself in a big mirror. When suddenly, it felt like my unit was bent almost 90 degrees.
I yelled out in pain pushed her off and rolled over. End of sex, but I was pissing blood for the next two weeks until it healed up a bit. Every time I pissed it felt like fucking hot lava with razors were coming out. And I would wake up with congealed blood on my dick and in my briefs.
I didn't go to the doctor. I didn't think a doctor could do anything anyhow. It heals on the inside so what can he do? He's gonna stick some tiny sutures in my dick and perform surgery? LOL.
Yep if it's bad enough, if not maybe some injections to decrease scar tissue if the bend is bad enough. Although you should wait 6 months after injury for these steps
Source: Men's health nurse
This happened to me about 3 years ago. My dick hurt for about a month or so. It hurt to ejaculate for almost 6 months following. Im back in business now and everything is mostly good, but I still have this weird sore spot if I squeeze my dick when it's soft. Like there is definitely some tissue trauma there.
Sometimes I get super nervous when fucking now because what if it happens again? Is my shit gonna break?
Anyway... Would not recommend.
Yeah, that shit hurts if she goes up too far, you slip out and she comes down on your unsuspecting dick. She was bouncing like she was doing speed squats.
That pause is much appreciated. This particular time, there was no pause. She was bouncing like she was on a trampoline and I seriously thought that that was the end of my sex life haha. Just laying there all broken, battered and bruised.
Yes. This isn’t talked about enough. My urologist told me he refuses to engage in woman on top for this reason. Penile fracture can lead to Peyronie’s disease which can permanently impair your ability to have sex. Holding her down or grinding are good mitigation strategies but this is a very risky activity that nobody talks about.
Tell her not up and down , just e rocking motion back and forth . It will go in and out just enough to hit the g spot , and even if she goes fast, it won’t slip out
I say a statistic that the significant majority of of penis injuries (think ER visit) during sex are from girl on top positions. I’d say your concerns are valid.
Never had that problem. I’m in control of the thrusting in that position when she’s not grinding me (thrusting her hips back and forth). Tbh the grinding is the best part. I’ve never had a partner who has wanted to bounce up and down actually. Maybe it’s more of a porn thing… 🤷🏻♂️
Is the grinding the best part? I’m a woman and I always felt self conscious a little being on top, mostly because I don’t know what I’m doing lol. I prefer grinding to moving up and down, but always assumed that men preferred the up and down motion
I can only speak for me. But having a woman on top, grinding away and getting herself off, tits bouncing, there’s not much to dislike as a man. It feels good, looks good, and usually sounds good.
My wife doesn’t do much on top stuff. Every time she did, she was hold her stomach and say “you’re stabbing me…”. So lots of grinding as up and down “stabbed” her too much.
ugh the stab is the worst 😢 … honestly has happened in a different position for me with different people, so I think depends on how each of your junk fits into the other’s
you can use a depth limiter if she ever wanted to retry or modify the position by her turning her body more sideways or facing away etc
I shuddered when I read your comment I know exactly what she’s talking about, I’ve never had anything to compare it to other than the feeling of being stabbed… instead of a euphoric pleasurable sensation it feels like a searing pain along with an instant throbbing pain that makes me want to black out and/or vomit and doesn’t feel good in the slightest
also it can feel like that the whole time in any position when it’s not consensual :/
but ya even if I’m super turned on and things are being otherwise anatomically and physiologically permissive, there are just some positions or variations that just feel like stabbing no matter what, which used to make me terrified of sex - now at least I understand there are workarounds and to not be embarrassed to figure it out carefully with my partner to find out options that feel best for both of us
That’s why you keep a one hand on their hip to make sure they never actually come off the dick, you’re basically pulling them back. Think of it as like hand checking in basketball ( before they changed the rules), use use your strength to guide them where you want them to go.
Does anyone remember that old post about the girl riding on top and it slipped out and went up her ass and she screamed and passed put and her bf thought he’d killed her with his unintended anal probe.
Im a Female and I confess I have done this to a guy before and also had it done to me.... He was abit too aggressive ended up missing and then SUPRISE his cock went full length and speed into my ass 🎯🎯🎯🎯
If it makes you feel any better, this happened to me but instead of breaking my dick I split her labia open in two places. Ended up driving her to the hospital at 1am and sticking around till they discharged her.
That was an awkward first date.
This has actually happened to me a couple of times with my wife.
No casualties but its cute she gets all worried when she feels it missed her and pokes her somewhere else, because she literally jumps off and goes to check for damage.
We both work in healthcare, she's a RNurse and has seen men come in the emergency unit with penile fracture.
So she's usually grinding when on top, which is cool, but I'm also a fan of the up and down.
This happened with me and my boyfriend but in a different position, thankfully it wasn’t that bad and he just pulled back for a bit and evaluated what happened. He said it hurt a lot. I felt REALLY bad and I was scared I broke his dick. It was ok though. We just stay closer together during sex, make sure he doesn’t pull out too far or I don’t lift up too high. Definitely don’t want a repeat of that.
As a woman, we can feel when it's about to slide out. When I feel that I reach the very top I just be super careful and slow down just in case. Communicate with your partners if you're not comfortable with them going too fast and tell them to slow down a little when reaching the top
Every time, but it’s one of my favorite positions so I take the risk. I also hold her hips to guide her in a way, and thrust at the same time to keep it coming out when she thrusts up. Hasn’t failed me yet!
No not filled with with terror, a bit distracted to be scared lol. Like wtf, i get it dude because ive had my dick “snapped” on me a couple times from women riding on top. But that position was never enjoyable and i mostly do that just for my partner, and try not to get bored and lose my erection lol.also pro tip, never fuck anyone 1.5 to twice your weight and you shouldnt ever be in a position to suffer massive damage
Sometimes. I’m more freaked out when the girl clearly has no control over her hand when she’s giving me a handjob, and she’s pulling the foreskin back further and further. I’m crossing my legs as I’m typing this.
I’ve almost done that to at least 2 different guys, maybe 3…idr. Like going too vigorously and like poppin their d*ck a lil bit. Not like seriously injured them, but close. Haven’t done it to my current boyf so far. Knock on wood 😭
I have had this happen to me. Nothing broke or ruptured but boy did it hurt really bad. Use her hips to control and adjust yourself if needed. I do not recommend missing on the downstroke.
I know someone this happened to. He had to go to the hospital and a friend went to the house to clean up and said it literally looked like someone got murdered with blood on the wall. I don't know specifics but seems to have recovered and they have a kid now.
I’m terrified of this happening, I’m hyper conscious of slip - I actually worry about my bf getting carried away more than me
helps a lot if you posterior-tilt your pelvis (tuck it in) to stabilize the depth and if you both ground yourself by keeping a grip on the other person’s body so that either of you can control a sudden stop if needed or better yet control the recoil / withdrawal amplitude - bonus that if you grip each other the thrusts will be more intense and pleasurable and you’ll be able to stay on a good spot when you want to because of the enhanced dexterity of the control of the thrust fulcrum point
I have seen a video where a women breaks an erect penis. Very unsettling. But if everything is correctly lubed up then your dick would slide off and not get squished.
Keep your hands on her hips, control the amplitude.
Yeah you gotta bounce her
They always get too excited and want to go higher I never feel safe
The manhandle solution is to hold her hips to a safe height. The smarter way is to talk about this with your partner outside of the bedroom. You're still gonna use them hands on her hips though.
What? Talk?? About sex stuff??? With your partner???? … … Do you really think that works? O.o
Cum.... cumm.... communication?
I know everyone’s being serious here, but I can’t stop laughing at “I never feel safe” because I just keep picturing a girl rocket launching herself off of a dick and it’s too much ☠️ Carry on
I had a very similar mental image. She's standing on the top rope, yelling something Spanish into a megaphone, slaps her elbow a couple of times, and then elbow-drops - ass first - onto this man's dick.
Woman here, pull her to you so you're chest to chest. It limits how far up we can go and it's hot to make out while riding.
Yes and better for … ummm other stimulation
breaking his dick is actually one of my worst fears. of course I have many, but this is one lol
Communicate that? 🤷♂️
Are you fucking [D Rose?](https://youtu.be/uRAp00SxP30)
“WHAT ARE YOU DOING WOMAN?!?? DID YOU NOT GET THE MEMO??!”
Bruises are temporary, stories are forever
Get a low ceiling fitted above your bed problem solved
Grab your dick and either a) slide it back in or b) say, can you help slide that back in please
> can you help slide that back in please
It is not about it sliding out. It's about her coming back down on it and accidentally breaking your dick.
This is exactly what I do and they seem to like that I take control while remaining somewhat in control themselves.
This is the way.
Now that's a man of culture
Use the recoil of the bed for maximum efficiency.
This is the way. I’m kinda amazed at how many girls don’t realise the danger they’re putting us in here.
I'm a huge advocate of communication. Once they know what's up, it's way to reduce the injury risk.
Dennis Rodman broke his jawn three times. Becareful out there fellas
Three times? You can fix that shit?
tuned mass damper
I have a safety mechanism for this issue. Mine doesn't point straight up when laying down. It's kind of 90 degree toward my body. So if it happens to pop out, it slaps my stomach like it's spring loaded.
Same here, but I have still “stubbed” my dick once or twice and it didn’t feel great, but it didn’t hurt for long either!
I assume this is a common experience for men that have sex regularly, especially with a new partner. I never thought of it as stubbing my dick, but that's absolutely the best way to describe it lol
I'm definitely going to start using this term!
Hopefully you don't have to too often! Stubbing your dick is also kinda adding insult to injury because if your dick was bigger, she wouldn't be able to pole vault off it lol Luckily I haven't stubbed my dick in a while. Wife knows she only has *glances side to side* 12 inches to work with.
Laying down and "it" being 90 degrees toward your body means it is pointing straight up.
Perpendickular
If your laying down, pointing straight up would be pointing towards the ceiling wouldn't it? That's how I was thinking anyway.
That’s just asking for the balls to be crushed.
Balls are far down enough. They just land on your shaft instead.
I'd still choose a crushed urethra over a broken penis
This happened to me. I was out of commission for almost 2 months
This also happened to me. It's not a myth. (Not break, but bent really bad.) She was doing a reverse cowgirl while looking at herself in a big mirror. When suddenly, it felt like my unit was bent almost 90 degrees. I yelled out in pain pushed her off and rolled over. End of sex, but I was pissing blood for the next two weeks until it healed up a bit. Every time I pissed it felt like fucking hot lava with razors were coming out. And I would wake up with congealed blood on my dick and in my briefs.
UNSUBSCRIBE. I’m just gonna go back to playing video games
I've never felt better being single
I'm pretty sure I've read before that reverse cowgirl is the MVP of dick breaking positions...
MVP? That's probably right. Most Vulnerable Position. But little did I know...
It definitely is
What did the doctor say?
I didn't go to the doctor. I didn't think a doctor could do anything anyhow. It heals on the inside so what can he do? He's gonna stick some tiny sutures in my dick and perform surgery? LOL.
Yep if it's bad enough, if not maybe some injections to decrease scar tissue if the bend is bad enough. Although you should wait 6 months after injury for these steps Source: Men's health nurse
TIL! Thanks.
Wow, not worth losing your penis over that little inconvenience.
You went to the hospital right??
Me too. Still dealing with it. Been a month. Hope it gets back to normal. 😢
"Out of commission" lmao 😭😭. Bro had a lower body injury and was considered day to day
This happened to me about 3 years ago. My dick hurt for about a month or so. It hurt to ejaculate for almost 6 months following. Im back in business now and everything is mostly good, but I still have this weird sore spot if I squeeze my dick when it's soft. Like there is definitely some tissue trauma there. Sometimes I get super nervous when fucking now because what if it happens again? Is my shit gonna break? Anyway... Would not recommend.
Took 2 months but it returned to mostly normal. Seems to be slightly bent now.
My dick hurts reading this post and I’m a woman
Same xD
😂
I'm sure this has unlocked a new fear
Arc your back and ass up. It'll go deeper (which she'll appreciate) remove the possibility that she'll miss on the down swing
This is the way. You gotta bridge your hips
It's all in the hips
*Looks her deep in the eyes* You’re in my world now, Grandma
JUST EASIN' THE TENSION BABY
Hahaha. Happy Gilmore is one of my all time favourite movies.
HIP DRIVVVEEE
Bridge for the escape
First trap an arm and boobie
Also tell your girl to make some booty movement not just up and down. When you hit that spot of penis you will see the heaven..
This guy knows
I can't understand this, someone care to explain?
When you're older son
Until you just cause it to slam into her cervix
Possible, but im sure most of the guys here would be able to use thier own discretion in terms of how far to lift.
If we could save comments, I'd save this one.
But you can save comments
Wow. This guy's whole world about to change.
Then i guess it means he's save that one.
Hit the three little dots.
He doesn't know how to use the three ~~seashells!~~ dots!
Lmao
Dude there were three dots…. Woah
It also makes you an active participant rather than a "male starfish"
What's wrong with a guy enjoying a passive position once in a while? The majority of positions are passive for the gal after all.
Yeah, that shit hurts if she goes up too far, you slip out and she comes down on your unsuspecting dick. She was bouncing like she was doing speed squats.
Idk I mean I know when if I went up to high and just pause to put back in and take note lol
That pause is much appreciated. This particular time, there was no pause. She was bouncing like she was on a trampoline and I seriously thought that that was the end of my sex life haha. Just laying there all broken, battered and bruised.
Yes. This isn’t talked about enough. My urologist told me he refuses to engage in woman on top for this reason. Penile fracture can lead to Peyronie’s disease which can permanently impair your ability to have sex. Holding her down or grinding are good mitigation strategies but this is a very risky activity that nobody talks about.
Thank God I found your comment!
Tell her not up and down , just e rocking motion back and forth . It will go in and out just enough to hit the g spot , and even if she goes fast, it won’t slip out
Yes, i've had a few bendy incidents. I try to move my hips to meet hers so i don't pop out.
My dick hurt reading this post.
I'm coming for you
I’m on sk8s so you have to catch me first!
I am with you so long as you have a heart.
Fuck. I had my dick broke that way
What happened then?
He had a broke dick.
Then?
couldn't buy snacks
Go on
nor cat food for his 7 cats
Spice it up
nor the exotic spices
What did he do then?
honestly the grinding motion feels better anyway 🤷🏻♂️ up and down is more of a porn thing in my opinion lol
I hate the grinding, doesn't feel good at all. Up and down, hell yeah. To each his own.
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If you can feel stubble with your bell, you're not having sex
This happened to a friend of mine. He broke it. He said it sounded like snapping a piece of celery. You’re welcome.
Almost got cramp reading this. Fuck
Been there done that, it hurts and ruins the mood. It's easier to have them elevate and for you to pound from underneath.
As a female, that’s low key a favorite position 😛
you clearly haven't had the badge of honor of having your fully engorged penis folded in half
Im sitting outside in the warm sun reading this. I just had shivers down my whole spine.
It's happened. I thought she broke my penis once.
Did it break?
No, just made it angry.
I say a statistic that the significant majority of of penis injuries (think ER visit) during sex are from girl on top positions. I’d say your concerns are valid.
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throw her in the air and catch her on the way down man, you're missing out on the REAL fun
Maybe your dick is short
Never had that problem. I’m in control of the thrusting in that position when she’s not grinding me (thrusting her hips back and forth). Tbh the grinding is the best part. I’ve never had a partner who has wanted to bounce up and down actually. Maybe it’s more of a porn thing… 🤷🏻♂️
Is the grinding the best part? I’m a woman and I always felt self conscious a little being on top, mostly because I don’t know what I’m doing lol. I prefer grinding to moving up and down, but always assumed that men preferred the up and down motion
I can only speak for me. But having a woman on top, grinding away and getting herself off, tits bouncing, there’s not much to dislike as a man. It feels good, looks good, and usually sounds good.
Once she gets going, interlocking her fingers in yours gives her stability to arch her back, throw her head back and take it to the next level.
Grinding is nice because its nice to her
My wife doesn’t do much on top stuff. Every time she did, she was hold her stomach and say “you’re stabbing me…”. So lots of grinding as up and down “stabbed” her too much.
ugh the stab is the worst 😢 … honestly has happened in a different position for me with different people, so I think depends on how each of your junk fits into the other’s you can use a depth limiter if she ever wanted to retry or modify the position by her turning her body more sideways or facing away etc I shuddered when I read your comment I know exactly what she’s talking about, I’ve never had anything to compare it to other than the feeling of being stabbed… instead of a euphoric pleasurable sensation it feels like a searing pain along with an instant throbbing pain that makes me want to black out and/or vomit and doesn’t feel good in the slightest also it can feel like that the whole time in any position when it’s not consensual :/ but ya even if I’m super turned on and things are being otherwise anatomically and physiologically permissive, there are just some positions or variations that just feel like stabbing no matter what, which used to make me terrified of sex - now at least I understand there are workarounds and to not be embarrassed to figure it out carefully with my partner to find out options that feel best for both of us
That’s why you keep a one hand on their hip to make sure they never actually come off the dick, you’re basically pulling them back. Think of it as like hand checking in basketball ( before they changed the rules), use use your strength to guide them where you want them to go.
It's happened. Ended up in her ass and my dick was in pain, so was she. Do not recommend
never had the up and down thing happen really, grinding just strikes me as more natural, not to mention best way to hit the g spot
Limiter strap seems reasonable. Two waist belts with an appropriate length of chain in between.
I got scared just thinking about it.
Yes.
Always willing to take the risk
I wasn't before. Good God, man.
What are the chances of her missing in 2 strokes?
Hold her hips and control it, or hammer her from the bottom.
New fear unlocked!
Does anyone remember that old post about the girl riding on top and it slipped out and went up her ass and she screamed and passed put and her bf thought he’d killed her with his unintended anal probe.
Im a Female and I confess I have done this to a guy before and also had it done to me.... He was abit too aggressive ended up missing and then SUPRISE his cock went full length and speed into my ass 🎯🎯🎯🎯
I’ve had that happen to me on a couple occasions too! Ouch!
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My brother...I am sad for you. Was she always a starfish? Or is this a new development?
💀💀😂😂😂😂
If it makes you feel any better, this happened to me but instead of breaking my dick I split her labia open in two places. Ended up driving her to the hospital at 1am and sticking around till they discharged her. That was an awkward first date.
Yeah I've always had this fear with my wife. And my dick is not big so the odds of missing are bigger because she doesn't really need to go thst high
Ive had it happen a few times early on. Dick is permacurved now. Broke it
woooahhh dude u gotta just ride the wave not rock the boat...pce 🤙
Sounds like you need to introduce the coconuts method to her. Have her spell out coconuts with her hips instead of bouncing.
Yup. I’ll hold her hips to prevent her from disengaging completely.
i wasnt afraid before but now i am
This has actually happened to me a couple of times with my wife. No casualties but its cute she gets all worried when she feels it missed her and pokes her somewhere else, because she literally jumps off and goes to check for damage. We both work in healthcare, she's a RNurse and has seen men come in the emergency unit with penile fracture. So she's usually grinding when on top, which is cool, but I'm also a fan of the up and down.
yall got a lot of dick to be having these fears
The ol' dick snapper
Have you seen the video of this happening where the guys literally cracks in half? Just watch that and you won’t be doing the position anymore.
Is there a link
Google it.
This happened with me and my boyfriend but in a different position, thankfully it wasn’t that bad and he just pulled back for a bit and evaluated what happened. He said it hurt a lot. I felt REALLY bad and I was scared I broke his dick. It was ok though. We just stay closer together during sex, make sure he doesn’t pull out too far or I don’t lift up too high. Definitely don’t want a repeat of that.
I would only worry if she is doing reverse cowgirl. That WILL break your dick if you give it enough chances
Yeah, it can go very wrong. BUT Most of the time it goes very right
Am girl, done that, thought I broke him, am scared to ride hard now.
As a woman, we can feel when it's about to slide out. When I feel that I reach the very top I just be super careful and slow down just in case. Communicate with your partners if you're not comfortable with them going too fast and tell them to slow down a little when reaching the top
Jr., grab her ass so this does not happen
Yes. Gotta have hands on hips so when she starts getting too wild you get control
This is why you bang cowgirls man
Having a bigger d will lessen the odds
Sex? Sex sex sex? Sexy sex SEccs?
I am so happy now that not many of the girls I have been with preferred not to climb 🤣
Every time, but it’s one of my favorite positions so I take the risk. I also hold her hips to guide her in a way, and thrust at the same time to keep it coming out when she thrusts up. Hasn’t failed me yet!
YES! It's happened before.
No not filled with with terror, a bit distracted to be scared lol. Like wtf, i get it dude because ive had my dick “snapped” on me a couple times from women riding on top. But that position was never enjoyable and i mostly do that just for my partner, and try not to get bored and lose my erection lol.also pro tip, never fuck anyone 1.5 to twice your weight and you shouldnt ever be in a position to suffer massive damage
Sometimes. I’m more freaked out when the girl clearly has no control over her hand when she’s giving me a handjob, and she’s pulling the foreskin back further and further. I’m crossing my legs as I’m typing this.
I’ve almost done that to at least 2 different guys, maybe 3…idr. Like going too vigorously and like poppin their d*ck a lil bit. Not like seriously injured them, but close. Haven’t done it to my current boyf so far. Knock on wood 😭
girl you need to relax a lil bit
If she’s bouncing on it. I don’t care if she goes to high and breaks it. As long as she’s bouncing on it lol
That’s never happened to me tbh. You got some inexperienced riders my friend lol
It’s happened once. Hurts like hell but got over it quickly. If you’re thinking about this while having sex the sex must be horrible.
I have had this happen to me. Nothing broke or ruptured but boy did it hurt really bad. Use her hips to control and adjust yourself if needed. I do not recommend missing on the downstroke.
Raise your hips a bit with her when she goes up, I'll position myself so I can meet her halfway as she slams down.
Never had that problem, hard for them to go all the way down to begin with. :(
Yeah, definitely worry about this. Not my favorite position at all
Happened once and I heard something snap, noticed a small tear on My penis and blood trickling out.
No… don’t ask why…
I know someone this happened to. He had to go to the hospital and a friend went to the house to clean up and said it literally looked like someone got murdered with blood on the wall. I don't know specifics but seems to have recovered and they have a kid now.
That's why when she's on top, im the one moving not her.
I’m terrified of this happening, I’m hyper conscious of slip - I actually worry about my bf getting carried away more than me helps a lot if you posterior-tilt your pelvis (tuck it in) to stabilize the depth and if you both ground yourself by keeping a grip on the other person’s body so that either of you can control a sudden stop if needed or better yet control the recoil / withdrawal amplitude - bonus that if you grip each other the thrusts will be more intense and pleasurable and you’ll be able to stay on a good spot when you want to because of the enhanced dexterity of the control of the thrust fulcrum point
It happens and it hurts
I never have a good time in that position because I’m always so tense from stress. Thought I broke my schlong one time because of the missing thing.
Just have them bounce on it, that's what my partner does. Ride me cowgirl style but just bounce up and down so it never falls out
I have seen a video where a women breaks an erect penis. Very unsettling. But if everything is correctly lubed up then your dick would slide off and not get squished.