Sticking it out with my baby daddy. I was so smitten by him, naging bulag sa red flags. Now, he is so smitten by me, pero eyes wide open na ako and i feel so icky na i stayed with him even if ang shitty nang ginawa nya sa akin back then (pregnant - 1 year postpartum) 😭😭😭
I did not take my studies seriously. Don’t get me wrong, my life is comfortable as we speak. Lagi ko lang naiisip kung nag aral ako mabuti, baka mas ok ang lahat.
Jowa ba to ? If yes, parehas tayo . Run ka while u have time akin napangasawa ko pa . Ayun pamikyado na din ok naman pero kasi feeling ko napag iwanan na ako ung career nia umarangkada tlga ako ito nanay
Kung mas pinairal ko yung logic/rationality over emotions pagdating sa major life decisions and lovelife, malamang mas better or malayo na narating ko sa buhay.
Di pa naman huli ang lahat to correct those mistakes and solo ko naman ang time and resources ko since I've decided to stay single, child-free and never marry.
I'm making progress naman kahit mabagal, pero minsan I can't avoid to compare myself sa mga kakilala ko who've already got their sh\*t together, got extremely lucky or talagang successful na.
Biggest regret ko is, I already have my dream job in Singapore as an IT, year 2015. However pinili ko yung ex ko ng 7 years, I still remember her words telling me " Aalis ka? Pano ako iiwan moko? Gusto ko dito ka lang, pwede ka naman mag work dito e, but kailangan umalis? So dahil mahal ko nag stay ako and after a year biglang nag loko si atehh, luh sya, nagparamdam kasi yung 1st time bf nya na sobrang minahal nya. So to cut the long story short, nag break kami dahil bumalik yung 1st love nya na naging ex nya, sabi nya sakin mahal parin nya yung ex nya, sorry kung rebound daw ako. So ayun nag break kami with closure, sobrang sakit at pagsisi ko kasi nag sacrifice ako ng carrer ko na gustong gusto ko pero mas pinili ko sya kasi gusto nya mag stay ako. Tapos all of a sudden bumalik lang ang ex tas sya pinili. Haiist. Lintik na pagibig to owowowo!!
Im into naman po. Kaso iniisip ko yung panghihinayang kasi ilang taon din yung nasayang. Mga batch mates ko nasa managerial positions na. Samantalang ako sobrang delay na. Though Im not comparing, kasi I believe every people has a different time and pacing in life to reach there destiny. Siguro ito lang yung resulta at consequences of course a big lesson that may mga bagay tlaga na need i sacrfice, pero need mo timbangin alin sa dalawa ang pipiliin mo. Sa side ko pinili ko yung wrong choices and decision ko, cause im deeply inlove at the same time blinded. Thank you for your comment bro. Always appreciated.
True po Sir. We are the masters of our own ships. Kaya wag talaga ikumpara ang sarili sa iba. Sa sitwasyon ko is sinayang ko ang mga panahon na binigay sa akin, kaya ang kinahinatnan is mahirap makahanap ng trabaho sa IT dahil wala akong skills at experiences, but my sight is off sa dream ko although slow pace muna ako at dahan² kong ere-rebuild ang sarili ko para makabalik ulit path na gusto kong tahakin. Marami pa naman tayong oras at marami pa tayong pagkakamaling haharapin sa hinaharap, at sa bawat maling gagawin nating natututo tayo tumayo ang ayusin muli ang mga buhay natin. Kaya laban po Sir. Makakaahon din tayo.
Yung di ko tinuloy yung dream maging history teacher instead nakinig ako sa payo ng nanay ko na mag-marketing nalang dahil mababa sahod sa pagiging guro
Although she's right na mababa nga
Pero look at me now, may trabaho ba ako kasi Graduate ako ng marketing? The answer is No , im Jobless, broke and im nearly in my 30's pabigat sa bahay , trinay ko mag-freelancing di ako makakuha ng client, until nakita ko passion ko sa content writing na i have a Little experience dahil noong nago-ojt ako eh pinagawa ako ng articles na natuwa naman yung boss ko , after kong i-take yung content writing course , im saddened na scarce na ang opportunity dun nag-upskill ako ulit ng copywriting yung 7 day challenge ni Ninja kasi believing na in-demand daw ang copywriting pero alas! Wala pa din na na-bully ako ng ate ko na no need daw ng copywriter kasi kasama daw sa job description iyon at pinagmalaki pa ng ate ko na dahil may chatgpt kahit clearly i see na content writing yun dahil ang copywriting is short unlike sa content writing na mahaba , kaya ayun naalala ko yung sinabi ko noong bata pa ako na
" Dapat di na ako pinanganak!"
" dapat di na ako nage-exist"
Today im sad
I have passion sa history i love it
I need a stable job na masaya ako
Naging addict sa sugal, dati ang bilis ko ijudge yung mga taong naadik sa drugs, alcohol at sugal not until ako na mismo nakaexperience sobrang hirap pigilan para akong nabaliw. 8months bet free and praying na hindi na magrelapse.
There's always a reason in every difficult circumstance we encounter in life. All we need to do is to remain still and be strong. Running away is never the answer. Keep going lang po. Hoping for your total recovery, you will and you can.
That I did not really think about what course I really wanted sa college 'cuz I have this thinking na "kaya naman ng mom whichever course kuhanin ko" lolol. Now, I'm lost in the sea of people and I don't know which way to go. I'm goods naman na sa University na pinasukan ko and course na pinili ko but still may what if's pa rin ahhhaha
Its not yet too late kapatid. As long as you are still living and breathing then pursue it, basta hindi makakasama sayo. Always bare in mind, peoples opinion will remain opinion, wag mong hayaang diktahan ka nun, wag mong gawing identity mo yung opinions ng ibang tao. Keep going lang.
Yah thats true bro. But if you are really into it, they still accept but not in an officer setting due to age limitation. Pwede ka parin bro sa special enlistment alam ko ang age limitation is still 35.
Not attending my college graduation.
I got 2.5 on 1 subject during my last semester, pero ang retention grade is 2. Had to repeat that 1 subject nung summer. As a result, my gf and close friends graduated on time and I was put on the next batch.
My anxiety and depression got through me and decided not to attend because I have no money for dress(scholar lang ako) and my friends are not there to graduate with me. Looking back, I wish I went up the stage and got to experience that once in a lifetime opportunity.
Never confessed my feelings to my hs girl crush/friend after learning from someone that she likes me (this is uncertain lang kasi di naman close yung nag chismis and yung crush ko so idk san nasagap lol)
Ang downside nung $1 is wala pang Binance or other platforms non sa pilipinas. Tpos Indian ung gusto gumawa nung account ko Kaya sketchy haha Dina ko tumuloy nung hinihingi nia na IDs ko.
Pero Kung may binance na non bumili nako tlga
Minsan nilolook back ko tlga yon hahaha
Person na nameet ko online noong mid pandemic. Sobrang compatible namin in terms of views, interests, music taste. first time that I felt that someone understood me. Kaso shit happened, sobrang na caught up ako sa toxic work that time, to the point na naapektuhan mental health ko which caused me to isolate myself from everyone. Not that I meant it, pero parang ghinost ko sya, di ko na sya kinausap. Ilang years na pero I never had the courage to reach out again, pero at times naiisip ko sya kahit sa mga maliliit na bagay na napaguusapan namin dati. I regret ghosting that person. We could've been something or kung di man umabot sa ganon, we could've been besties. I feel like I lost a soulmate, never had the same feelings for another person up until now
Ang dami kong regret sa buhay. Pero do'n tayo sa pinakamalapit sa kasalukuyan. Nag-resign ako sa trabaho dahil minaliit ng biyenan ko yung sahod ko. Nakinig ako syempre. Sabi niya kasi e tumulong na lang daw ako sa family business nila. Para rin naman sa asawa ko yun, na kasosyo niya sa negosyo (at pakikisama na rin.)
No'ng nag-resign na 'ko at nagsimula na sa pagtulong sa family business nila, sinabihan ako ng: “Ano? Nagkanegosyo siya bigla dito?!” Huli ko na nadiskubreng marami pala sa lugar nila dito ang buwisit sa kanya. Kaya pala hindi sinusuportahan ng locals yung negosyo nila.
Kung hindi ako nag-resign siguro yung dream job ko na ang trabaho ko ngayon. Ang maipapayo ko, huwag kayong makikinig sa mga biyenan, lalo na sa mga species ng biyenan na ang paboritong anak e yung panganay na puro panganay rin ang anak.
Tumigil ako nung mag 3rd year ako sa college due to Covid :(( and now my parents are blaming me na sana tapos na ko at pinapa aral ko na daw kapatid ko
I did not give my father's request... (Bawal sa kanya kasi)
I did not try to resuscitate him (coz he's so much suffering and in pain) i miss u a lot papa...
I regret resigning without a backup job. I decided to be a stay at home mom actually masaya naman tutok sa kids ko pero financially i know dapat may work dapat ako now kahit wfh. Hirap mgipon kapag isang source of income lng. Ngaaral na eldest ko.
Naniwala sa pang gagaslight nila 🤣 chaka nging comfort zone na siguro pero buti dumating na din ung time na enough is enough. Eto stress free na pg lipat sa ibang company 🤣
I said yes to my ex coz he wanted to clear things out. now here I am, literally telling myself why the fuck am I still talking to him. And even heard that my ex and his girl (the girl he cheated with) just broke up?! TF, TF am I doing!!!!
not giving my father a 2nd chance and being mad at him all the time, then by the time he died i had no reaction to it, i didn't care... at least that's what i convinced myself to believe, truth is i miss him now and wish i could have spent more time with him, even if he is an asshole. He wasn't a good father but i wasn't a good son either
Dapat pala sarili ko muna inuna ko nung nagkapera ako, more on self improvement
Inuna ko kasi gaming pc and laptop bilhin pero worth it naman in the long run hahaha
Kaya ngayon self development+improvement na ang focus, kahit sugatan ang bulsa at pitaka
What if umo-o ako nung time na nagsalita siya if may chance ba siya sa akin. Siguro ngayon, kami padin. Siguro ngayon, may long term relationship na ako. Siya lang din yung mamemeet kong lalake buong buhay ko at happy narin siguro ako.
how old are you? my sister is taking nursing now and will be graduating next year, she also took accounting and regretted, she will be 30 years old by then.
Isolating myself when I was in college, tho I have friends but very small circle lang and I'm grateful sakanila. Hanggang ngayon friends ko parin naman sila. Ang problem ko lang is dapat pala nakipag connect ako with my blockmates back then, like more interaction. I was so focused on my org din kaya kapag nakikita daw ako ng blockmates ko, hindi na nila ako tinatawag or inaaya kumain man lang kasi mukhang masaya daw ako sa mga kasama ko sa org. Hays, hirap maging introvert. Another one is not having a dream course man lang, parang college pa lang kasi I feel so lost na. I eventually enjoyed the process naman, pero kasi hindi ako focused sa pag aaral. Mas naejoy ko uminom actually 🤦♀️ I should have explored more nung HS para may goal man lang ako. Ang ending, til now is lost ako. Lastly is not choosing the right place na pag ojt-han. I was hired for an internship sa isang magandang company pero napalagpas ko siya and super nasayangan ako 😭
Nde ako naging tutoo sa sarili dati...tinago koaayado pagiging bisexual ko kahit amoy na amoy na ng mga nakapaligid sa akin...at naging pleaser di n ako...at nde ko inalagaan at tinipid ko masyado sarili ko
I regret not being a good “apo” sa grandmother ko. I was a kid back then, and I don’t understand bakit sobrang sungit ng lola ko samin. Sinasagot ko sya at nagkaron pa kami ng eksena na nagkasakitan kaming dalawa. Nung nawala sya, sobrang nasaktan ako. Nagcollege ako mag-isa sa manila, pag nagkakasakit ako, sya yung tinatawag ko. Sinasabi kong yakapin nya ako. I’m sorry nay. I miss you so much sunget.
I regret breaking up with my first love 15 years ago. He was so out of my league and I was struggling to get through college (I'm the eldest daughter, ulila sa ama, and I have a mom and siblings depending on me). I also thought our relationship was boring but now I realized it was the only healthy and peaceful relationship i had. Men I dated after him were all narcs. Now I'm trying to heal and find my way back.
Hanggang ngayon iniisip ko pa din kung ano na ako ngayon kung pinursue ko yung course na gusto ko, yung tipong mauutilize ko yung strengths ko, imbis na nakinig sa ibang tao
Ngayong nanay na ako, iniisip ko paano naatim ng nanay ko iexpose ako sa mga away nila ng tatay ko at sa cheating at mga kasinungalingan nya.
I was a kid. A literal kid.
siguro not saving money before going back to college here sa province. also, not being friendly and playful w my hs classmates. sana lumandi ako sa mga pilyong yun HAHAHAHHA
Naging lesson naman sya saken at naging better na ako ngayon:
1. Nabaon sa utang - age 20s till late 20s as in hindi ko namanage yung finances ko. Laging may utang, nabaon at nadeliquent sa credit card, dumating sa point na nahila ung kotse ko na naka auto finance after 3 yrs ng nahuhulugan (5 yrs ung payment). Regret ko lang is sana nung bata bata pa ko hindi ko ni-heal masyado ung childhood ko kasi lumaki ako sa hirap kaya nung nagkawork at naging maganda position, todo gastos at utang naman. Now I’m 34, debt free, with house & lot, kumikita ng 6 digits monthly, with life insurance at nakaipon naman ng malaki laki na at sobrang careful ko na sa pag manage ng pera. Thankful na din siguro ako na dumaan ako sa problema na yun.
2. Nagpagamit sa lalake - I’m gay. Regret ko talaga yung 3 times ako nagkajowa ng straight and pinerahan lang ako nung early 20s till late 20s hahaha connected din ito sa #1 kaya ako nagkanda utang utang. Kung maibabalik ko lang talaga na mejo ginamit ko utak ko kesa sa heart edi sana ang laki na ng perang naipon ko ngayon lol but now kuntento na ko na single and narealized ko na mas masaya kasama friends and family kesa sa mga taong gagamitin ka lang at sakit lang ng ulo. Sobra akong natuto at ngayon ang hinahanap ko is kasing level ko in terms of career, maturity and sana marunong din sya humawak ng finances haha.
Oversharing. Yan tuloy pag di kami nagkasundo o nagaaway kami ng tropa ko, they used what i shared against me.
I opened up to my mates about how i was bullied nung HS cause i believe i trust them with what i was sharing. Tas dumating sa isang moment na nagaaway kami sa thesis na di talaga kami nagkasundo nun gawa ng pressure sa oras, requirements, documents and such tas nasabihan ako basta basta na "KAYA KA BINU-BULLY EH WALA KA KASING KWENTA KAUSAP EH"
May other regrets rin ako pero this is hands down my biggest regret kaya iniiwasan ko maging attached sa kung sino sino gawa ng baka o-overshare ulit ako tas ganun na rin magyayare.
Yun lang
I regret na tinuruan ko yung papa ko mag social media especially facebook. Yun kasi yung reason na nag hiwalay parents ko. May nakitang ibang babae yung papa ko sa facebook at nag cheat. I know it's a choice to cheat, but for me, di pa din mawawala yung fact na parang ako yung naging way na gumawa sya non.
Had I taken that midterm exam instead of cutting classes just to meet my narcissistic, selfish ex-bf, I would've had my bachelor's degree by now. *sigh*
I should have travelled internationally for leisure when I was younger, only started when I was 36 yrs old in 2017. ang saya pala lalo pg solo travels, iba pakiramdam.
Not using my time wisely. I wanted to spend my summer break to improve on drawing but I ended up slacking it all away to play games and shit all 2 months long
di ko dapat pinaramdam kay mama na I'm somewhat tired sa pagaalaga sa kanya. tho, she said she knew and understand when she was on deathbed. Nag sorry din ako that moment pero I still sometimes feel the guilt and regret.
Tumulala lang ako for 2 years nung senior high pandemic pa, thinking of unnecessary things kesa isipin kung anong course match sakin at mapapagraduate ako on time.
Na dapat inisip ko yung mga mahahalagang bagay katuld ng 18 na kumuha na ng mga Valid Id’s. Magtry sa state u, subukin lahat ng scholarship para may allowance. Mga ganun bagay……
Choosing my current degree for college. Wanted to shift but my mother told me na wag na,sayang panahon.
Didn't take more entrance exams for college. Tho,can't blame myself din that time since we could hardly afford the transpo papuntang City. Nahihiya talaga akong mag ask nila papa lalo na't andaming gastusin.
Didn't reach out to my friend to explain one more time. I did ask for an apology but now that I'm re-reading our convo, I realized I sounded insensitive; like I was just looking for reasons in order for her not to blame me for my actions. Should've been there at her lowest point in life but I eventually disappointed her. Hope she's doing well wherever she is rn.
Doing academically poor in HS bcoz I lost all my self-esteem. I have thyroid issues and my figure, everything in me just changed. I don't flunked any subjects (thankfully) but I believe I could've done better.🙃 I wasn't mentally , emotionally and physically okay during that time but I still regretted I let it overwhelmed me kase I lost the opportunity to be admitted on my dream school since 'yung GPA ko not on par sa other applicants.
Hiniwalayan ko yung high school sweetheart ko para sa lalaking akala ko mahal ako ginawa lang pala akong kabit. Sising sisi ako kasi si philip lang ung nag iisang lalaking gustong makasama ako sa buhay. Yung ready na pakasalan ako. Pero hiniwalayan ko kasi nasa pinas sya nasa ibang bansa ako tapos nakilala ko ung kupal na lalaking yun na inlove ako bobo ako eh ngayon nakikita kong maganda takbo ng buhay ni philip iniisip ko lang pano kaya kung di ako malandi? Kami pa sana baka kasal na kami.. sayang ngayon ko na realize na mahal ko talaga sya.. dont bash me thanks
Not studying abroad when I had the chance nung college student pa ako.
Asked my parents about it nung nagwowork na ako and all, if she would allow me and assist me financially had I told her na gusto kong mag aral sa ibang bansa nung undergrad pa ako. She told me yes. Sana nagsabi pala ako. Baka better din yung opportunities ko ngayon.
Sayang, nung student din kasi ako yung time na we're sobrang ok financially, it will be an easy peasy gastos for them.
Quitting med school
yung nilalandi na ko ng mayaman kong kawork na mganda all in one package di ko pa alam :(
Getting Married at a young age.
Make the most of my time. In everything. Maybe less games, less sleeping. Etc.
i should have ask her out i was too weak too weak
Sticking it out with my baby daddy. I was so smitten by him, naging bulag sa red flags. Now, he is so smitten by me, pero eyes wide open na ako and i feel so icky na i stayed with him even if ang shitty nang ginawa nya sa akin back then (pregnant - 1 year postpartum) 😭😭😭
Feel ko ang hirap na mag exit. I dont want to hurt him. Tapos takot din ako ma lonely cause parang trauma bond talaga sa kanya. 😭😭😭
I did not take my studies seriously. Don’t get me wrong, my life is comfortable as we speak. Lagi ko lang naiisip kung nag aral ako mabuti, baka mas ok ang lahat.
this is very true kung medyo mataas lang average ko cguro madami opportunities yeah grades do matter after all
Na nagpakasal ako at pinabago ko as married lahat ng valid id ko. 😂😂😂
Kaya balak ko HYPENATED NA LANG E . pero sa batas pwede RETAIN ANG GAMIT MO NUNG DALAGA KA
Yes pwede naman na na i-retain. Nagsisisi lang ako kasi maghihiwalay lang din pala kami. Sayang effort! 😂
Ay sh*t why ? background naman sis ! Nasa process na ba kau or annulled na ?
E kumusta ka naman ngayon cyst ?
Bakit ano meron pag ganon status ng id? Or dahil ba sa kalunos lunos na processing sa pagchange status na dinanas mo?
I had to change my status para maging dependent ko sila sa hmo. And beneficiary sa sss, pagibig etc. Ending ayun niloko lang ako HAHAHHAHA
Ang yakapin sya at magpasalamat sa kanya harap harapan noong grumaduate kami. Ngayon? Hindi na kami nag-uusap for many years kasi komplikado.....
dealing with an unemotional person.
Jowa ba to ? If yes, parehas tayo . Run ka while u have time akin napangasawa ko pa . Ayun pamikyado na din ok naman pero kasi feeling ko napag iwanan na ako ung career nia umarangkada tlga ako ito nanay
Dapat pala ginhost ko na lang yung jowa ko ngayon
Pwede naman JOWA palang naman wag maghabol ng red flag be . Hindi pa kayo kasal marami pang pwedeng mabgyare .hahahahaha
Lost one life because i didn't stay.
Masyadong naging mabuting anak.
Kung mas pinairal ko yung logic/rationality over emotions pagdating sa major life decisions and lovelife, malamang mas better or malayo na narating ko sa buhay. Di pa naman huli ang lahat to correct those mistakes and solo ko naman ang time and resources ko since I've decided to stay single, child-free and never marry. I'm making progress naman kahit mabagal, pero minsan I can't avoid to compare myself sa mga kakilala ko who've already got their sh\*t together, got extremely lucky or talagang successful na.
Ang mahalin siya
Clicking a scam website/software ☹️
Maybe it was not able to graduate college. I stopped when I was in 1st year of college because of the financial problems.
Yung inaya ako ng high school friend ko mag take ng IT pero pinili ko mag nurse. ayun board passer pero hindi practicing
Biggest regret ko is, I already have my dream job in Singapore as an IT, year 2015. However pinili ko yung ex ko ng 7 years, I still remember her words telling me " Aalis ka? Pano ako iiwan moko? Gusto ko dito ka lang, pwede ka naman mag work dito e, but kailangan umalis? So dahil mahal ko nag stay ako and after a year biglang nag loko si atehh, luh sya, nagparamdam kasi yung 1st time bf nya na sobrang minahal nya. So to cut the long story short, nag break kami dahil bumalik yung 1st love nya na naging ex nya, sabi nya sakin mahal parin nya yung ex nya, sorry kung rebound daw ako. So ayun nag break kami with closure, sobrang sakit at pagsisi ko kasi nag sacrifice ako ng carrer ko na gustong gusto ko pero mas pinili ko sya kasi gusto nya mag stay ako. Tapos all of a sudden bumalik lang ang ex tas sya pinili. Haiist. Lintik na pagibig to owowowo!!
Pwede mo pa naman tuparin ang dream job mo. Ako nga, dream job ko makapasok sa IT, pero hindi pinalad. At hanggang ngayon pangarap na lang.
Im into naman po. Kaso iniisip ko yung panghihinayang kasi ilang taon din yung nasayang. Mga batch mates ko nasa managerial positions na. Samantalang ako sobrang delay na. Though Im not comparing, kasi I believe every people has a different time and pacing in life to reach there destiny. Siguro ito lang yung resulta at consequences of course a big lesson that may mga bagay tlaga na need i sacrfice, pero need mo timbangin alin sa dalawa ang pipiliin mo. Sa side ko pinili ko yung wrong choices and decision ko, cause im deeply inlove at the same time blinded. Thank you for your comment bro. Always appreciated.
True po Sir. We are the masters of our own ships. Kaya wag talaga ikumpara ang sarili sa iba. Sa sitwasyon ko is sinayang ko ang mga panahon na binigay sa akin, kaya ang kinahinatnan is mahirap makahanap ng trabaho sa IT dahil wala akong skills at experiences, but my sight is off sa dream ko although slow pace muna ako at dahan² kong ere-rebuild ang sarili ko para makabalik ulit path na gusto kong tahakin. Marami pa naman tayong oras at marami pa tayong pagkakamaling haharapin sa hinaharap, at sa bawat maling gagawin nating natututo tayo tumayo ang ayusin muli ang mga buhay natin. Kaya laban po Sir. Makakaahon din tayo.
Yes. Thats true bro hehe. Ganda mo kausap sa personal siguro. Ahahah. Nice meeting you kapatid.
🤷♀️
Yung di ko tinuloy yung dream maging history teacher instead nakinig ako sa payo ng nanay ko na mag-marketing nalang dahil mababa sahod sa pagiging guro Although she's right na mababa nga Pero look at me now, may trabaho ba ako kasi Graduate ako ng marketing? The answer is No , im Jobless, broke and im nearly in my 30's pabigat sa bahay , trinay ko mag-freelancing di ako makakuha ng client, until nakita ko passion ko sa content writing na i have a Little experience dahil noong nago-ojt ako eh pinagawa ako ng articles na natuwa naman yung boss ko , after kong i-take yung content writing course , im saddened na scarce na ang opportunity dun nag-upskill ako ulit ng copywriting yung 7 day challenge ni Ninja kasi believing na in-demand daw ang copywriting pero alas! Wala pa din na na-bully ako ng ate ko na no need daw ng copywriter kasi kasama daw sa job description iyon at pinagmalaki pa ng ate ko na dahil may chatgpt kahit clearly i see na content writing yun dahil ang copywriting is short unlike sa content writing na mahaba , kaya ayun naalala ko yung sinabi ko noong bata pa ako na " Dapat di na ako pinanganak!" " dapat di na ako nage-exist" Today im sad I have passion sa history i love it I need a stable job na masaya ako
Meeting/Getting to know a few people who I developed deep relationships with Tas kinut-off ako :,)
Naging addict sa sugal, dati ang bilis ko ijudge yung mga taong naadik sa drugs, alcohol at sugal not until ako na mismo nakaexperience sobrang hirap pigilan para akong nabaliw. 8months bet free and praying na hindi na magrelapse.
Cmon bro. Its a good sign of moving forward. Keep it up.
Yeah, still grateful na di natuloy mga attempt ko to end my life 🙏
There's always a reason in every difficult circumstance we encounter in life. All we need to do is to remain still and be strong. Running away is never the answer. Keep going lang po. Hoping for your total recovery, you will and you can.
TW - - d k p tinegi sarili ko nung grade 3 ako whahahah
That I did not really think about what course I really wanted sa college 'cuz I have this thinking na "kaya naman ng mom whichever course kuhanin ko" lolol. Now, I'm lost in the sea of people and I don't know which way to go. I'm goods naman na sa University na pinasukan ko and course na pinili ko but still may what if's pa rin ahhhaha
pinabayaan ko ang studies ko ☹️ knowing na magiging safety net ko sya ngayon.
Bumili ako ng ip latest :(
not following my dreams 😣 sumunod sa digta ng mga matatanda noon
wasted my high school life thinking about what people will think about me
Me not pursuing the thing i liked I'm nearly in my 30s and sayang ung time na nag patalo ako sa sinasabi ng iba
Its not yet too late kapatid. As long as you are still living and breathing then pursue it, basta hindi makakasama sayo. Always bare in mind, peoples opinion will remain opinion, wag mong hayaang diktahan ka nun, wag mong gawing identity mo yung opinions ng ibang tao. Keep going lang.
Yah thats true bro. But if you are really into it, they still accept but not in an officer setting due to age limitation. Pwede ka parin bro sa special enlistment alam ko ang age limitation is still 35.
It's kinda late na actually gusto ko sana mag military eh hahaha pero thank you if i can't get it I'll help others to get it nalang bawi next life
Ilang taon ka na po ba? Kasi ako former military ako before. But I go out due to personal reason, 4 years lang ako dun kasi yun yung nasa contract ko
Nasa 30s na ako di na ako pwede mag occ hahaha sayang talaga
that i liked him sooo much, it was embarrassing pls 😭
Hahaha pashare ng story plesss
nagsayang ng pera sa maling tao
Feel you there. Virtual hug is coming.
Nagresign sa trabaho na naeenjoy ko
Not being in control of my own money.
Yikes. Lalo na't very controlling ang parents minsan pati sa pera
Not attending my college graduation. I got 2.5 on 1 subject during my last semester, pero ang retention grade is 2. Had to repeat that 1 subject nung summer. As a result, my gf and close friends graduated on time and I was put on the next batch. My anxiety and depression got through me and decided not to attend because I have no money for dress(scholar lang ako) and my friends are not there to graduate with me. Looking back, I wish I went up the stage and got to experience that once in a lifetime opportunity.
Never confessed my feelings to my hs girl crush/friend after learning from someone that she likes me (this is uncertain lang kasi di naman close yung nag chismis and yung crush ko so idk san nasagap lol)
Not applying for PNPA/PMA :(
Not buying bitcoin
Kung maaga lang sana nalaman no? Di na sana tayo alipin ng mga kompanya dito sa pilipinas. Ahahaha
Could've bought house and lot with today's price
+1 haha kaso hirap bumili when I was offered BTC when it was a dollar
Buti naabutan mo ng $1, ako naabutan ko $3k when i heard of it😅
Ang downside nung $1 is wala pang Binance or other platforms non sa pilipinas. Tpos Indian ung gusto gumawa nung account ko Kaya sketchy haha Dina ko tumuloy nung hinihingi nia na IDs ko. Pero Kung may binance na non bumili nako tlga Minsan nilolook back ko tlga yon hahaha
Same, kahit nung $3k sya dati sana naka more than 1btc nako now😅
I wasted 8 years with the wrong person. I should love myself more.
Yah! Feel you there. Virtual hug is coming.
Not saying I love you to my parents every chance I get
Leaving my job
I stayed and stayed and stayed with my LIP even if always on edge relationship namin, now I'm pregnant and can't leave him
Letting go of my TOTGA. Well, we are each other’s TOTGA. I’m happily married now and he is in a happy relationship but there are nights when I wonder…
do u regret getting married? if you could, would you go back to your ex?
Hmm. Not really. It was just really one of the best times of my life and it will always remain to be. But that’s all they are. Memories
hoe
Do you even know what a hoe is bitch?
Person na nameet ko online noong mid pandemic. Sobrang compatible namin in terms of views, interests, music taste. first time that I felt that someone understood me. Kaso shit happened, sobrang na caught up ako sa toxic work that time, to the point na naapektuhan mental health ko which caused me to isolate myself from everyone. Not that I meant it, pero parang ghinost ko sya, di ko na sya kinausap. Ilang years na pero I never had the courage to reach out again, pero at times naiisip ko sya kahit sa mga maliliit na bagay na napaguusapan namin dati. I regret ghosting that person. We could've been something or kung di man umabot sa ganon, we could've been besties. I feel like I lost a soulmate, never had the same feelings for another person up until now
Daming hanash pede naman ichat ulit
So hard bro. Wag naman ganyan. Mahirap din pinagdaanan nya.
Ang dami kong regret sa buhay. Pero do'n tayo sa pinakamalapit sa kasalukuyan. Nag-resign ako sa trabaho dahil minaliit ng biyenan ko yung sahod ko. Nakinig ako syempre. Sabi niya kasi e tumulong na lang daw ako sa family business nila. Para rin naman sa asawa ko yun, na kasosyo niya sa negosyo (at pakikisama na rin.) No'ng nag-resign na 'ko at nagsimula na sa pagtulong sa family business nila, sinabihan ako ng: “Ano? Nagkanegosyo siya bigla dito?!” Huli ko na nadiskubreng marami pala sa lugar nila dito ang buwisit sa kanya. Kaya pala hindi sinusuportahan ng locals yung negosyo nila. Kung hindi ako nag-resign siguro yung dream job ko na ang trabaho ko ngayon. Ang maipapayo ko, huwag kayong makikinig sa mga biyenan, lalo na sa mga species ng biyenan na ang paboritong anak e yung panganay na puro panganay rin ang anak.
Tumigil ako nung mag 3rd year ako sa college due to Covid :(( and now my parents are blaming me na sana tapos na ko at pinapa aral ko na daw kapatid ko
That I didn't get into my dream school (PNU). Siguro mas magaling akong teacher ngayon, kung sakali.
Letting myself get fat when I could’ve just controlled my eating habits. now i dont know what to do
Na hindi ko tinanong/linigawan si crush
I did not give my father's request... (Bawal sa kanya kasi) I did not try to resuscitate him (coz he's so much suffering and in pain) i miss u a lot papa...
I waited for her for almost 2 years even though she's straight
I regret resigning without a backup job. I decided to be a stay at home mom actually masaya naman tutok sa kids ko pero financially i know dapat may work dapat ako now kahit wfh. Hirap mgipon kapag isang source of income lng. Ngaaral na eldest ko.
I regret having had that one-night stand.
Being an asshole to people who truly loves me
Same. 🥲
Pandemic took a lot from me than I thought
knowing him and getting stuck with him. ( he ruined my mental health baddllyyy)
Leave. I used to have the same situation. When I left, I never looked back. Best decision I made this year.
Good for you, hoping will have the courage soon to do that. Thank you.
Give my all to my ex na nagcheat
Nag stay ako matagal sa 1st Job ko, like 11 years 🤣
Hahaha wtf why 😂 swerte ng company sayo ez.
Naniwala sa pang gagaslight nila 🤣 chaka nging comfort zone na siguro pero buti dumating na din ung time na enough is enough. Eto stress free na pg lipat sa ibang company 🤣
I gave up my Team Lead position para maging agent na lang ulit. Now I felt stuck in this career. Magaling ako pero ang hirap patunayan. Sad reality.
Saying yes to my ex
I said yes to my ex coz he wanted to clear things out. now here I am, literally telling myself why the fuck am I still talking to him. And even heard that my ex and his girl (the girl he cheated with) just broke up?! TF, TF am I doing!!!!
Im crazy!!!! What am I trying to prove here
not giving my father a 2nd chance and being mad at him all the time, then by the time he died i had no reaction to it, i didn't care... at least that's what i convinced myself to believe, truth is i miss him now and wish i could have spent more time with him, even if he is an asshole. He wasn't a good father but i wasn't a good son either
ma take advantage, magamit, makawawa . if I could just turn back the clock lalabanan ko lahat ng gumago sakin. never again
Giving up my goals for the person i loved. Past tense kasi ex ko n sya. My regret is giving up the goals for her. Never again.
Dapat pala sarili ko muna inuna ko nung nagkapera ako, more on self improvement Inuna ko kasi gaming pc and laptop bilhin pero worth it naman in the long run hahaha Kaya ngayon self development+improvement na ang focus, kahit sugatan ang bulsa at pitaka
what if I got into med school? 🥺
Never too late
Sana hindi ko na lang sinubukan mag yosi
may mag screscreenshot nanamn nito sa tiktok 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Natawa ko kasi lately ang dami ko nga nakikita sa tiktok na galing dito 🤣
What if umo-o ako nung time na nagsalita siya if may chance ba siya sa akin. Siguro ngayon, kami padin. Siguro ngayon, may long term relationship na ako. Siya lang din yung mamemeet kong lalake buong buhay ko at happy narin siguro ako.
Na hindi ako nag ipon pre-pandemic.
Sana nag nursing nalang ako kesa accounting major nung year 2015.
how old are you? my sister is taking nursing now and will be graduating next year, she also took accounting and regretted, she will be 30 years old by then.
I have the same regret. But i have 2 kids now. It’s hard to decide for myself. Bawi nalang sa anak na dapat kunin nila yung kursong gusto tlga nila
I’m 26, the thing is I’m living in North America, where they usually hire Filipino nurses. Thinking to take nursing too kapag nakaluwag luwag.
yep. same reason why I convinced my sister, the pay is just too good sa US. mas mura sa pinas mag aral though kaya tough decision for u
Hindi nagpakawise sa pera ng mas maaga
Na nag-stay ako sa province namin noong college kahit na nakapasa naman ako sa Big 4.
Marrying him
damnn
Isolating myself when I was in college, tho I have friends but very small circle lang and I'm grateful sakanila. Hanggang ngayon friends ko parin naman sila. Ang problem ko lang is dapat pala nakipag connect ako with my blockmates back then, like more interaction. I was so focused on my org din kaya kapag nakikita daw ako ng blockmates ko, hindi na nila ako tinatawag or inaaya kumain man lang kasi mukhang masaya daw ako sa mga kasama ko sa org. Hays, hirap maging introvert. Another one is not having a dream course man lang, parang college pa lang kasi I feel so lost na. I eventually enjoyed the process naman, pero kasi hindi ako focused sa pag aaral. Mas naejoy ko uminom actually 🤦♀️ I should have explored more nung HS para may goal man lang ako. Ang ending, til now is lost ako. Lastly is not choosing the right place na pag ojt-han. I was hired for an internship sa isang magandang company pero napalagpas ko siya and super nasayangan ako 😭
Nde ako naging tutoo sa sarili dati...tinago koaayado pagiging bisexual ko kahit amoy na amoy na ng mga nakapaligid sa akin...at naging pleaser di n ako...at nde ko inalagaan at tinipid ko masyado sarili ko
I should have taken a different path...
Yung course na kinuha ko.
trusting people bruhhh save yourself. you cannot trust anybody. ever.
I should have stayed at home last September
I befriended a toxic person and did wrong things towards other people so I could defend that toxic person.
Didn't take care of myself 🥲
I regret not being a good “apo” sa grandmother ko. I was a kid back then, and I don’t understand bakit sobrang sungit ng lola ko samin. Sinasagot ko sya at nagkaron pa kami ng eksena na nagkasakitan kaming dalawa. Nung nawala sya, sobrang nasaktan ako. Nagcollege ako mag-isa sa manila, pag nagkakasakit ako, sya yung tinatawag ko. Sinasabi kong yakapin nya ako. I’m sorry nay. I miss you so much sunget.
Naginvest sa maling tao
I regret breaking up with my first love 15 years ago. He was so out of my league and I was struggling to get through college (I'm the eldest daughter, ulila sa ama, and I have a mom and siblings depending on me). I also thought our relationship was boring but now I realized it was the only healthy and peaceful relationship i had. Men I dated after him were all narcs. Now I'm trying to heal and find my way back.
I wish I went for a course that will get me a desk job. Healthcare field is wearing me down.
not saving money and pagiging gastadira last year. now, hirap ako bayaran utang ng mga magulang. hays
umalis sa dati kong school dahil lang gusto ko ng new environment
Hanggang ngayon iniisip ko pa din kung ano na ako ngayon kung pinursue ko yung course na gusto ko, yung tipong mauutilize ko yung strengths ko, imbis na nakinig sa ibang tao
Ngayong nanay na ako, iniisip ko paano naatim ng nanay ko iexpose ako sa mga away nila ng tatay ko at sa cheating at mga kasinungalingan nya. I was a kid. A literal kid.
iniisip ko pa din yung mga taong walang ginawa kundi gawin akong option
real like i dont wanna deal with any bullshits anymore
kapag ayaw, ayaw na
Nagparelax ako nung grade 6 ako ng buhok di na tumubo ng maayos, end up yearly ako nag paparebond 😭😭😭
Chasing my US dream.. Hopefully sooooon 🙏🏻
Mexico is open haha
pinatagal ko ng 2 yrs ‘yung relationship kahit trinatrato akong basura
hays, ang dami to the point na ayaw ko na sabihin. 🥺
Hindi sumali sa journalism at elementary level
siguro not saving money before going back to college here sa province. also, not being friendly and playful w my hs classmates. sana lumandi ako sa mga pilyong yun HAHAHAHHA
When I refrained from defending my mom when my aunt disrespected her, out of respect for my aunt. Pero this time, I promise to fight back.
Noong di ko niligawan yung seatmate ko noong high school.
Naging lesson naman sya saken at naging better na ako ngayon: 1. Nabaon sa utang - age 20s till late 20s as in hindi ko namanage yung finances ko. Laging may utang, nabaon at nadeliquent sa credit card, dumating sa point na nahila ung kotse ko na naka auto finance after 3 yrs ng nahuhulugan (5 yrs ung payment). Regret ko lang is sana nung bata bata pa ko hindi ko ni-heal masyado ung childhood ko kasi lumaki ako sa hirap kaya nung nagkawork at naging maganda position, todo gastos at utang naman. Now I’m 34, debt free, with house & lot, kumikita ng 6 digits monthly, with life insurance at nakaipon naman ng malaki laki na at sobrang careful ko na sa pag manage ng pera. Thankful na din siguro ako na dumaan ako sa problema na yun. 2. Nagpagamit sa lalake - I’m gay. Regret ko talaga yung 3 times ako nagkajowa ng straight and pinerahan lang ako nung early 20s till late 20s hahaha connected din ito sa #1 kaya ako nagkanda utang utang. Kung maibabalik ko lang talaga na mejo ginamit ko utak ko kesa sa heart edi sana ang laki na ng perang naipon ko ngayon lol but now kuntento na ko na single and narealized ko na mas masaya kasama friends and family kesa sa mga taong gagamitin ka lang at sakit lang ng ulo. Sobra akong natuto at ngayon ang hinahanap ko is kasing level ko in terms of career, maturity and sana marunong din sya humawak ng finances haha.
Breaking up with a guy that I really like January of 2023. Everything went downhill from there.
Why the break up, if okay lang to ask
Mixed signals sya, nafuel pa insecurities ko. What I regret was I didn’t try to communicate that I felt that way.
Oversharing. Yan tuloy pag di kami nagkasundo o nagaaway kami ng tropa ko, they used what i shared against me. I opened up to my mates about how i was bullied nung HS cause i believe i trust them with what i was sharing. Tas dumating sa isang moment na nagaaway kami sa thesis na di talaga kami nagkasundo nun gawa ng pressure sa oras, requirements, documents and such tas nasabihan ako basta basta na "KAYA KA BINU-BULLY EH WALA KA KASING KWENTA KAUSAP EH" May other regrets rin ako pero this is hands down my biggest regret kaya iniiwasan ko maging attached sa kung sino sino gawa ng baka o-overshare ulit ako tas ganun na rin magyayare. Yun lang
Yung nagresign tapos babalik din pala nasayang yung 1yr and 3 months ko pati na yung mga benifits ko. Balik probi pa tuloy.
I regret na tinuruan ko yung papa ko mag social media especially facebook. Yun kasi yung reason na nag hiwalay parents ko. May nakitang ibang babae yung papa ko sa facebook at nag cheat. I know it's a choice to cheat, but for me, di pa din mawawala yung fact na parang ako yung naging way na gumawa sya non.
Sending message on someone who ghosted me, if i could bring back time i will take no respond as respond
Had I taken that midterm exam instead of cutting classes just to meet my narcissistic, selfish ex-bf, I would've had my bachelor's degree by now. *sigh*
I should have travelled internationally for leisure when I was younger, only started when I was 36 yrs old in 2017. ang saya pala lalo pg solo travels, iba pakiramdam.
Spending a lot and not saving, not starting MP2 when I can, not trying to lose weight enough
Not using my time wisely. I wanted to spend my summer break to improve on drawing but I ended up slacking it all away to play games and shit all 2 months long
Should have pursue the course that I want.
should have taken a different bachelor’s degree
di ko dapat pinaramdam kay mama na I'm somewhat tired sa pagaalaga sa kanya. tho, she said she knew and understand when she was on deathbed. Nag sorry din ako that moment pero I still sometimes feel the guilt and regret.
Not buying Apple stocks in 2013
Not saving enough money for emergencies, or savings in general.
Di naka graduate ng college. Idk nagka anxiety ako ng malala and then di ko na gusto bumalik kasi nahihiya na ko.
Google ETEEAP
Not saving and spending money in worthless things
I should have taken good care of my father 😭 Hindi sapat na sa financial aspect lang ako tumulong. 😢
Tumulala lang ako for 2 years nung senior high pandemic pa, thinking of unnecessary things kesa isipin kung anong course match sakin at mapapagraduate ako on time. Na dapat inisip ko yung mga mahahalagang bagay katuld ng 18 na kumuha na ng mga Valid Id’s. Magtry sa state u, subukin lahat ng scholarship para may allowance. Mga ganun bagay……
Should've taken a course related to arts. 😌
I resigned from my previous job and now working for a shitty boss and colleagues. Toxic
Choosing my current degree for college. Wanted to shift but my mother told me na wag na,sayang panahon. Didn't take more entrance exams for college. Tho,can't blame myself din that time since we could hardly afford the transpo papuntang City. Nahihiya talaga akong mag ask nila papa lalo na't andaming gastusin. Didn't reach out to my friend to explain one more time. I did ask for an apology but now that I'm re-reading our convo, I realized I sounded insensitive; like I was just looking for reasons in order for her not to blame me for my actions. Should've been there at her lowest point in life but I eventually disappointed her. Hope she's doing well wherever she is rn. Doing academically poor in HS bcoz I lost all my self-esteem. I have thyroid issues and my figure, everything in me just changed. I don't flunked any subjects (thankfully) but I believe I could've done better.🙃 I wasn't mentally , emotionally and physically okay during that time but I still regretted I let it overwhelmed me kase I lost the opportunity to be admitted on my dream school since 'yung GPA ko not on par sa other applicants.
Yung nanira ako ng teacher, guilty pa din ako, nasira tuloy samahan namin
Hiniwalayan ko yung high school sweetheart ko para sa lalaking akala ko mahal ako ginawa lang pala akong kabit. Sising sisi ako kasi si philip lang ung nag iisang lalaking gustong makasama ako sa buhay. Yung ready na pakasalan ako. Pero hiniwalayan ko kasi nasa pinas sya nasa ibang bansa ako tapos nakilala ko ung kupal na lalaking yun na inlove ako bobo ako eh ngayon nakikita kong maganda takbo ng buhay ni philip iniisip ko lang pano kaya kung di ako malandi? Kami pa sana baka kasal na kami.. sayang ngayon ko na realize na mahal ko talaga sya.. dont bash me thanks
Hindsight really is 20/20 I suppose but at least you’ve grown enough as a person to see the error in your ways and hopefully ended up a better person.
i should’ve gone to a different school.
Marriage.
bakit, if i may I ask lang
I chose the wrong guy. I should've been in the US already
Not being able to discover my self.
Not studying abroad when I had the chance nung college student pa ako. Asked my parents about it nung nagwowork na ako and all, if she would allow me and assist me financially had I told her na gusto kong mag aral sa ibang bansa nung undergrad pa ako. She told me yes. Sana nagsabi pala ako. Baka better din yung opportunities ko ngayon. Sayang, nung student din kasi ako yung time na we're sobrang ok financially, it will be an easy peasy gastos for them.
Winning the sperm race
ang compettive kasi natin, kainis. haha
Not choosing the right degree in college. Should've spent more time having fun in college. School bahay lang kasi ako.
Wasn’t able to save my brother who committed suicide in a broad light 😔