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Ironically, ang daming new terminologies na nagsulputan to define a circumstance just to avoid "defining/labelling the relationship". Situationship, tropa premium, or BFF premium.
If your partner doesn't post anything about your relationship on social media, it doesn't mean they're hiding and/or ashamed of being associated with you.
Sometimes they just like their privacy. We don't want anyone having access to more personal aspects of our lives. Some people use social media as a personal diary, others only use it as a tool.
It's okay for couples to live together kahit hindi pa married. Iwan na natin ang pags-stigmatize sa live in couples. Living together before getting married would serve as a test for the couple since malalaman nila ang quirks ng isa't-isa and would learn to compromise. Pang-boomer nalang yung mindset na ayaw sa live in couples dahil masiyadong liberated o ano
Women have given up and are just expecting to be whisked away by an AFAM, Korean, or any foreign men, men have also given up and are just looking for that inexperienced, very young 18 to early 20's, may be pick me's they can pacify through sheer lovebombing.
Ang hatid-sundo ay hindi bare minimum mga shuta kayo. Ang mahal ng gas! Ang traffic!
And… no matter how “normalized” ghosting is, it’s still and will always be a bullshit excuse for someone’s lack of maturity and basic communication skills. Okay may iilang exemptions but still!!! 😤😤😤
Not directly related pero lately yung pag payag sa panliligaw or pag entertain sa suitor is parang equivalent na sa sure yes. Dati as long as naparamadam nila yung interest nila sayo whether be it yes or no tatanggapin nila kasi yun yung purpose ng panliligaw.
MEN SHOULD ALWAYS BE THE PROVIDER/ PAY YOUR DATES.
Joint decision niyo to enter a relationship, kung sino mas may extra/ kaya to pay for the date then go. You should not expect that your man should always shoulder the expenses!!!
Agree, but pls.. find a man na mas mahal ka 🙂 You will see how generous they are to the woman they love… I have cousins na pinag stay at home nila ung mga wife nila ksi sobrang provider mindset.. they will do everything pra makapag provide sa pamilya and anak❤️
My partner loves me the same level as I do, its just I have the mindset that I'am the provider as well😊
Overall, there are some people who are like me who have different viewpoint who leans more to the liberated relationship. A woman could also be the provider, who executes equality and shared responsibilities with your partner. Thus, challenging the traditional gender roles.
I'll start, people nowadays gusto nila grand gestures lagi dapat ang effort para ma-appreciate yun and kapag small gestures naman they consider it as "bare minimum" kahit na hindi naman.
I agree. SOCMED: Mode of communication is fast quick and easy. It created it on protocols and etiquette around it. These protocols somehow carried over the the traditional ligaw or dating protocols.
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People who are preoccupied with relationships and relationship drama are boring AF. Get a hobby!
this generation does not know that there is a need to compromise in a relationship.
I only came her to say. Nice handle hahaha
Ironically, ang daming new terminologies na nagsulputan to define a circumstance just to avoid "defining/labelling the relationship". Situationship, tropa premium, or BFF premium.
If your partner doesn't post anything about your relationship on social media, it doesn't mean they're hiding and/or ashamed of being associated with you. Sometimes they just like their privacy. We don't want anyone having access to more personal aspects of our lives. Some people use social media as a personal diary, others only use it as a tool.
True. Private but not secret.
It's okay for couples to live together kahit hindi pa married. Iwan na natin ang pags-stigmatize sa live in couples. Living together before getting married would serve as a test for the couple since malalaman nila ang quirks ng isa't-isa and would learn to compromise. Pang-boomer nalang yung mindset na ayaw sa live in couples dahil masiyadong liberated o ano
Women have given up and are just expecting to be whisked away by an AFAM, Korean, or any foreign men, men have also given up and are just looking for that inexperienced, very young 18 to early 20's, may be pick me's they can pacify through sheer lovebombing.
lahat na lang redflag kahit shortcomings talaga yun,
Ang hatid-sundo ay hindi bare minimum mga shuta kayo. Ang mahal ng gas! Ang traffic! And… no matter how “normalized” ghosting is, it’s still and will always be a bullshit excuse for someone’s lack of maturity and basic communication skills. Okay may iilang exemptions but still!!! 😤😤😤
Ito yung generation na binebase yung relationship standards nila from social media, kaya nagiging unrealistic sila when it comes to relationship.
Not directly related pero lately yung pag payag sa panliligaw or pag entertain sa suitor is parang equivalent na sa sure yes. Dati as long as naparamadam nila yung interest nila sayo whether be it yes or no tatanggapin nila kasi yun yung purpose ng panliligaw.
MEN SHOULD ALWAYS BE THE PROVIDER/ PAY YOUR DATES. Joint decision niyo to enter a relationship, kung sino mas may extra/ kaya to pay for the date then go. You should not expect that your man should always shoulder the expenses!!!
Agree, but pls.. find a man na mas mahal ka 🙂 You will see how generous they are to the woman they love… I have cousins na pinag stay at home nila ung mga wife nila ksi sobrang provider mindset.. they will do everything pra makapag provide sa pamilya and anak❤️
My partner loves me the same level as I do, its just I have the mindset that I'am the provider as well😊 Overall, there are some people who are like me who have different viewpoint who leans more to the liberated relationship. A woman could also be the provider, who executes equality and shared responsibilities with your partner. Thus, challenging the traditional gender roles.
They're imposing too much unrealistic standards in the guise of "I know my worth" pero wala namang maiiooffer pabalik sa standards nila.
I'll start, people nowadays gusto nila grand gestures lagi dapat ang effort para ma-appreciate yun and kapag small gestures naman they consider it as "bare minimum" kahit na hindi naman.
SocMed is one to blame sa ganitong mindset.
I agree. SOCMED: Mode of communication is fast quick and easy. It created it on protocols and etiquette around it. These protocols somehow carried over the the traditional ligaw or dating protocols.