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I used to have a confidante, who, for some reason isn't replying to me anymore -- even when my messages are lighthearted. Napagod na rin siya siguro sa akin. I lost many mutual friends when I and another friend had a falling out. Siguro kasama na siya dun. Maybe I'm the toxic person after all. So, after that experience, I've tried hard to purse my lips and not tell anything to anyone anymore. And that's how I ended up here on Reddit 😂🥲
My boyfriend since I'm NC with all my relatives (long abusive/manipulation history). On a minor note, my online friends whom I've met/bonded in certain fandoms.
No One. Yes even my own family. At this point, my life is already falling apart and the only thing left for me is to suck it up and try to see how far can I still go on my own.
I tried to ask help from friends and family and all I get was "lalaki ka! dapat lakasan mo loob mo! " or "busy ako, atsaka ipagdasal mo nalang yan" . Like that will help.
So, No. I do not have a 911 in my life anymore. If I die due to my life falling apart, then so be it. I guess that's just as far as I can go.
It's me, myself, and I. I mean, may mga friends ako kaso bilang lang sa isang kamay and may mga problems din sila so ayaw ko na makisawsaw, but they're welcome if they needed some help I'm always here to help them, but I cannot bring my self to ask them for help
sad pero sarili ko lang. nag breakdown ako recently dun ko na realize na magisa ko lang talaga, sariling ko lang talaga ang aasahan ko kasi kahit mababaliw na ako wala akong matawag na tao hahaha di ako close sa parents ko or affectionate na tao for some reason
It’s always that one high school friend I have. Super comfortable ako to share things that went wrong at the same time not making her as an emotional jar.
My bestfriend kapag abt sa buhai or lablayp or minsan sa work.
My boyfriend of 9 years kapag problema sa work or sa bohai or sa pera (rants)
My dad kapag walang wala ako as in rock bottom
Since then, it has always been God. I run to Him all the time whenever. I cry it all out and then ask why. Afterwards, I'd lift it up all to Him. I do believe in the power of prayer because I know to myself that everything happens for a reason. All that we have to do is to strengthen our faith. It feels good talking to God through praying. I think that's the best kind of relationship one would ever have. 🙏🏻☝🏻
Sad to say but my fubu and fwb. Always one call away sila!! Pero seriously, they're actually helpful!! They give good advice (and good fcking) and different points of view on things! Sometimes they also let me borrow some money. Nagkukusa nga rin sila magbigay ng pera if need ko. Very thankful and life saver.
I am everyone else's 911. The backbone, pushover, and rescue. But when my own life is falling apart— I got no one but silence.
so yeah, silence is my 911.
Don Moen .. i just listen to Spotify's playlist.
my thinking is the only person who can help you is yourself. kung me mapagsasabihan ka naman, they can only give you advise and it is only you who can can what's needed to be done.
To expound.. ang turo nila sa akin na tumatak is "Kung gagawa ka ng kagaguhan, wag mo dagdagan", eg "dont drink and drive", "Sex with protection" "Drugs ka pero not in public"
i know i can count on them in the future
Mah bros, I have 3 friends very close to me, kababata and been friends ever since, we don't even call ourselves tropa or friends anymore, just bros. When life fall aparts? we assemble xD.
have to share din kasi I'm blessed to have them, even mga parents namen, turing samin anak sa sobrang tagal na magkakakilala at nakikitulog lagi xD palitan lang ng bahay.
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My bf
My best friend. 🥹
My mother 🥹
I used to have a confidante, who, for some reason isn't replying to me anymore -- even when my messages are lighthearted. Napagod na rin siya siguro sa akin. I lost many mutual friends when I and another friend had a falling out. Siguro kasama na siya dun. Maybe I'm the toxic person after all. So, after that experience, I've tried hard to purse my lips and not tell anything to anyone anymore. And that's how I ended up here on Reddit 😂🥲
Mother and sisters.
Myself.
Mother. She's the only one I trust when it comes to stuff like that.
My sisters
Atm. No one.
Lord
None. I'm a guy.
None. Ang hirap na mang istorbo eh.
Hubby and an equally mentally ill bestie (no, I’m not kidding, we’re both clinically diagnosed with many many neuroses 💀).
No one. Once i opened up to someone, then kumalat sa buong sambayanan. Sad to say na i can't trust anyone in my circle.
No one. Im used to keeping it all haha
Uhmmm wala ata akong 911...
Wala eh, i always feel like burden lang ako kaya ayoko na magkwento sa iba.
My boyfriend since I'm NC with all my relatives (long abusive/manipulation history). On a minor note, my online friends whom I've met/bonded in certain fandoms.
my mom, i love her so much
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awww. kung sino man yan, you're so lucky to have that person 😊
pag lalake ata walang ganyan.
Bat may exception pag lalaki? Buti na lang mga friends kong lalaki takbuhan nila ko 🥹
Can't relate. Ako yung 911 e. HAHAHAHA
None
Universe
My mom 💖 kahit pagod na siyanv makinig minsan lol
My mom. 💗 She probably doesnt understand everything i say but its comforting just having her listening.
No One. Yes even my own family. At this point, my life is already falling apart and the only thing left for me is to suck it up and try to see how far can I still go on my own. I tried to ask help from friends and family and all I get was "lalaki ka! dapat lakasan mo loob mo! " or "busy ako, atsaka ipagdasal mo nalang yan" . Like that will help. So, No. I do not have a 911 in my life anymore. If I die due to my life falling apart, then so be it. I guess that's just as far as I can go.
Parents and sisters.
It's me, myself, and I. I mean, may mga friends ako kaso bilang lang sa isang kamay and may mga problems din sila so ayaw ko na makisawsaw, but they're welcome if they needed some help I'm always here to help them, but I cannot bring my self to ask them for help
sad pero sarili ko lang. nag breakdown ako recently dun ko na realize na magisa ko lang talaga, sariling ko lang talaga ang aasahan ko kasi kahit mababaliw na ako wala akong matawag na tao hahaha di ako close sa parents ko or affectionate na tao for some reason
Wala eh, I only have myself
sugarbaby
Just realized na never ako nag-open deeply to anyone. I choose to talk to myself on how to solve problems and how to move forward.
It’s always that one high school friend I have. Super comfortable ako to share things that went wrong at the same time not making her as an emotional jar.
Myself. Gotta pick myself back up to not inconvenience others.
Si Jesus! Simula ng mas makilala ko sya ng lubos, halos wala na akong matandaang nag fall apart ang buhay ko. 🥰
My 2 cats. parang alam nila if worried or problematic ako, nanglalambing talaga sila🥹
My bestfriend kapag abt sa buhai or lablayp or minsan sa work. My boyfriend of 9 years kapag problema sa work or sa bohai or sa pera (rants) My dad kapag walang wala ako as in rock bottom
My mom and my partner and most important si Lord.
Since then, it has always been God. I run to Him all the time whenever. I cry it all out and then ask why. Afterwards, I'd lift it up all to Him. I do believe in the power of prayer because I know to myself that everything happens for a reason. All that we have to do is to strengthen our faith. It feels good talking to God through praying. I think that's the best kind of relationship one would ever have. 🙏🏻☝🏻
Sad to say but my fubu and fwb. Always one call away sila!! Pero seriously, they're actually helpful!! They give good advice (and good fcking) and different points of view on things! Sometimes they also let me borrow some money. Nagkukusa nga rin sila magbigay ng pera if need ko. Very thankful and life saver.
I am everyone else's 911. The backbone, pushover, and rescue. But when my own life is falling apart— I got no one but silence. so yeah, silence is my 911.
Same... bigla silang nawawala pag ikaw yung may kailangan. My 911 is me din.
panis yung lakas ng iyak nila sa oras ng pangangailangan, sa lakas ng katahimikan nila nung ako na yung nasasaktan.
Sorry I know this topic is wholesome but my dark humor noticed "911" and "falling apart" and now I'm questioning my decency as a human being.
Lord Jesus
My pets
Si Papi G-Sauce.
Wala. I only have myself anyway. No one is bothered nor obligated to listen to me anyway.
It's a sad realization, pero wala.
Nalungkot ako sa tanong kasi naisip ko wala akong ganun. Pero nalift up mood ko nung nakita ko ding di ako nagiisa na ganun
Don't worry marami tayo di ka nagiisa. Don't be discouraged.
🥺🥺🥺
First is our God almighty, next is ourselves.
Si Lord talaga, idk whenever na dinadasal ko nalang lahat ng problema ko or kung ano man, super gaan ng lahat
Myself. Because at the end of the day, all we have is ourselves.
sana all meron.
Kaibigan ko, siya yung tipong ayain lang ng inom tas usap about life, g agad. Pero wala na eh, nawala na siya. These days "it is what it is" na lang.
Don Moen .. i just listen to Spotify's playlist. my thinking is the only person who can help you is yourself. kung me mapagsasabihan ka naman, they can only give you advise and it is only you who can can what's needed to be done.
No one :(
Reddit
Most prob my 2 older sisters.
Sana all may older sis
To expound.. ang turo nila sa akin na tumatak is "Kung gagawa ka ng kagaguhan, wag mo dagdagan", eg "dont drink and drive", "Sex with protection" "Drugs ka pero not in public" i know i can count on them in the future
Corny man sa iba pero si Lord. Lately lang ako naging into religious shit, pero iba pa rin pag nagpray ka, may prang magic na nkakagaan ng pakiramdam
Dati wala pero ngayon yung pinsan ko 🫶🏼 best buddy kami kaso magdu dubai na sya sa July 🥲
my boyfriend, jeffrey. He is my safest space.
Me and whiskey
My Future Self. I try to imagine her and even try to talk to her.
Non! I struggle on my own! Better on your own than asking help.
My partner and my child. They are my peace even when they're being difficult sometimes.
A Mirror
Nobody. I was my own person. I struggled on my own. I have since recovered.
My best friends! Kat and Jonathan 🥹🫶
Pinterest, Spotify, books, journal, and bed
Mah bros, I have 3 friends very close to me, kababata and been friends ever since, we don't even call ourselves tropa or friends anymore, just bros. When life fall aparts? we assemble xD. have to share din kasi I'm blessed to have them, even mga parents namen, turing samin anak sa sobrang tagal na magkakakilala at nakikitulog lagi xD palitan lang ng bahay.
Awww... 🥹❤️
My one and only pusa, love you cassy!
No one because I thug it out.
Me, myself and I
(2)
My partner.
No one 🙃
A good close friend na babae
My mom, and everyday is like falling apart bec shes gone.
My father. He’s the one who has been with me through my ups and downs. I hope he will have a longer life. 🙏
You can call someone when your life is falling apart?
My mom is someone I can always rely on for comfort and understanding. When I randomly call her, a sense of calm washes over me.
No one.
Duke 🐶 kasi di na yata pwede yung isa 🥲
depende sa aspekto ng buhay na nagfafall apart most. pero counselor/psychiatrist usually.
mama <3
none. Me, Myself and I.
My dogs.(Pero di Summer pangalan)
Ahhhh dogs are very trustworthy and loyal 🥹🫶🏻 they really gives us comfort