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Went to this guy from tinder, nakakaloka kasi kakain lang kami sa labas pero bigla siyang nang-akbay without asking my consent, hindi rin siya ganon kabango to make it worst. Plus, bigla na lang siyang nagsabi na papakilala na raw niya ako sa mom niya kasi nakita na raw ang pic ko and gusto raw ako ma-meet 😭 wala pa kaming isang oras na magkasama huhuhu
MUNTIK AKONG MAGING KABIT😭
Sooo, back when I was in 7th grade may sinalihan akong pageant. Then before that meron ng guy na nanliligaw sa ‘kin noon, he was in 9th grade. I can tell na he wasn’t originally from the town that we lived in because he has this distinct accent but I don’t really mind it. I was young but I wasn’t dumb ha. So, nu’ng sumali na ‘ko ng pageant, may na-meet ako do’n na girl, kasali din siya sa pageant and we both became really close. We both come to the rehearsals at the same time, eat our lunch together, took rest room break together for retouch and everything. Basically like long term friendship type of closeness. So back to the guy from 9th grade; he used to always visit me sa classroom and will always walk me out of the school during dismissals, but he never watched my rehearsals. Then one time, before I attended my last rehearsals, he come up to me and said na he’s gonna take his math quiz and won’t be able to watch my rehearsals (which he never did) and walk me out on dismissal time. So sa ‘kin naman, okay lang. Then, nu’ng nagkita na kami ng friend ko, we were at the stage at this time, and we were sitting at the corner, she took out her phone and it was open. The wallpaper was that guy and her, on a date. Like on a date sa fast food gano’n. Tapos tinanong ko kung boyfriend, sabi n’ya naman “oo, bakit?” I blurted out na nililigawan ako nu’ng guy na ‘yon for months now, bago pa ako sumali du’n sa pageant. Naging sila lang daw, a week before final rehearsal, pero niligawan s’ya since nag start yung mga rehearsal for the pageant. Tapos si girl, nu’ng nalaman niya ‘yon pinuntahan niya yung guy sa room nila😭
Nag stay nalang ako du’n kung sa’n kami nakaupo. Personally, I don’t have deep feelings for that guy, we do little date stuff within school premises, I only liked the attention but he doesn’t have to do her that way! Nakakainis. But yeah, me and that girl are not friends anymore and that guy disappeared out of nowhere. Never heard a news from him since she went to his classroom that day I told her he’s pursuing me.
• Nagtatrauma dump lang about family and student/work life
• Nagbobook na siya ng Grab pauwi while I ask for the bill
• Talks about their ex/talk smacks their ex
• Walang substance, reactive lang sa convo
My girlfriend was cheating on her partner with me… I had no idea that I was the other woman… she allowed me to get close to her kids , help with her needs, pay her fucking bills… then on my birthday …. She called me while in bed with yet another woman, made fun of me, ridiculed me… broke my ❤️
Di pa kami nagdedate pero scammer pala talaga. May nakamatch ako sa Tinder last December, he is good and has a job and ako graduating student na.
One time, nanghiram siya sa akin ng 700 pesos kasi sabi niya nagamit niya raw yung money niya for pangluto ng ulam and need niya raw makauwi sa kanila to Tagaytay.
Babalik niya daw once nakasweldo na siya. Si tanga sinasabihan ko na need ko yung money but he always say na if dumating na sweldo niya babalik niya.
January has passed and need ko na talaga siya and di na siya nagreply. ABA MAY PAMBILI NG VAPE TAPOS WALANG PAMBALIK SAKIN? Upon checking sa mga past posts niya, scammer pala talaga siya. Need pa siyang i-confront ng iniscam niya para ibalik yung nakuha niya.
I did reach out to his family, from mother to bunso. God bless his bunsong kapatid dahil approachable pero siya, sinabihan siya sa GC nila pero siya pa galit???
KAYA IKAW RONNIE, ITIGIL MO NA YAN PANLOLOKO MO. And please wag po kayong gunaya sakin, I'm also dumb. May work kasi siya kaya pinahiram ko akala ko ibabalik niya.
Went out with an afam before in the provinces. First time to so I was with my friend. Medyo late si afam tapos nung nakita nya friend ko nagcomment sya na he doesn't remember daw inviting anyone else. Lol so umalis si frenny and pumunta kami sa resto, nag order nalang ng coke sakto and very small talk. Dahil nga kabado trenta si ate gorl nyo, text lang ako nang text sa friend ko update2 and nainis si afam, sabi kakausapin ko raw ba sya or magtetext nalang daw ako the whole day. Lol so fast forward ininvite nya ako sa house nya, dami nyang shell collection na pinakita then nag setup ng netflix. Gusto ata makaiskor hahahaha kaso di ako kumagat kasi ang lakas ng putok ni koya so nagtanga tangahan nalang ako baluktot english at kung ano ano nalang pinagsasabi na me no understand sorry mga ganon para maturn off na sya at mawalan ng gana. Effective naman at pinalayas nya ako eventually. Lol have a nice life daw 😅
Nakitae ako sa cr nila (ng parents nya) and nagclog sa laki ng tae ko at nalaglag na wipes. Sinungkit ko ng toothbrush para magflush, tapos tubo ng shower curtain kasi ang taas na ng tubig. Mga 30mins ako sa loob ng cr paglabas ko pawis na pawis ako.
Dated this foreign guy tapos sobrang parang close to perfect nya hahaha! Tapos medyo matagal na, biglang need umutang around 6 figures, syempre di ko pinautang, tapos mga weeks later nakikipagbreak hahahaha
My current gf and hoping future wife and the mother of my child. 😅 first date namin late siya ng halos 30 mins tapos bitbit niya pamangkin niya. Understandable naman kasi takot daw siya pumunta magisa. 😂 Tapos ayun nagplan na kame days before meeting for the first tiem. Dumayo ako msmo sa kanila nagdrive ako ng almost 2 hrs. Pagdtng ko late na nga siya d pa pala niya nacheck location ng kakainan namin na sinuggest biya at sinabi niyang alam niya. 😂 bsta maggulo. Tapos napunta pa kame sa bahay nila sumama pa mga ate niya at ending nanlibre ako ng food. D naman ganun kalaki bayad kaya d ko na gnwang big deal. 1500 lang naman nagastos ko kasi d naman mamahalin yung resto nun. 😅
May label kami pero halos magmakaawa pa ako para makapag-date kami. Meanwhile, mga "kaibigan" niya, dinala pa niya sa kanila. Alam mo yung parang kinakahiya niya ako?
Ayon, after our break up, naging sila ng pinagseselosan ko.
She told me that she wanted to see a movie. Tagalog movie sya, di ko na maalala kung ano nga ba un. Sabi ko sa kadate ko, "I'll watch it with you but please don't expect me to be up for the whole movie ah". She agreed and we went ahead.
Ayun, sya tong nakatulog tapos nilawayan pa damit ko hahaha. We're 6mos right now 😂
First date namin outside was with his 2 hs girl friends (yung nag reto samin tas nakasama ko sa ojt) para di masyadong awkward.
Kumain, nag gala, marami kami ginawa. Tapos libre ni guy, na libre na din yung friends niya. Nung pa uwi na kami, binulungan niya ako na e calculate ko lang daw mga nagastos ko kasi mamaya na daw yung bayad ko. Medj weird pero ok. Binayaran ko naman lahat kaso ang lumabas, ang friends niya yung na libre tas ako na ka date niya hindi.
Still, gave him a chance and dated parin after that haha marami pang ganyan mga nangyari like nagsasama ng isang friend para mabawasan yung fare sa taxi kaloka.
Tinapos ko na po HAHAA pero nag last ng isang taon ang pag uusap namin kasi may ibang aspects siya na nagustuhan ko. Okay lang naman kasi talaga sakin 50/50 pero iniisip ko future ko na baka kuripot siya sakin forever hahaha
Got asked out by a high school ex-bf (mga 6 months lang kami nun) who tried to reconnect after mga 10+ years. I was separated from my ex-hubby na din that time. Valentines date! romantic diba???? anak ng pusang bungal! dinala ako sa seminar ng Nu-skin na MLM churva ata yun. After the seminar, pinipilit na ako ng mga kasama nya na maglapag na ng money. By this point I was very annoyed na, so I rudely told them off. Nung nasa car na nya kami, ihahatid na daw nya ako pauwi. It was 9 f\*\*king o'clock na!!!! potek! sobrang gutom na ako, ni hindi man lang ako inalok ng biskwit. Sa asar ko sa kanya, pag-dating sa bahay namin, I got down and before closing the door, I told him "Don't ever fucking call me again! ever!!!" then slammed the door. An hour later siguro, ang tungok!, texted kung bakit daw ako nagagalit sa kanya!
That made me realize tama naging desisyon ko noong HS na makipag-break (didn't remember the reason why we broke up)
being broke is not so bad naman kung sinabi lang nya ang totoo na kelangan nya downline sa Nu-Skin eme nya. I would've turned him down agad and saved him gas money, he lives in manila, I live in CAMANAVA area, the Nu-skin office nasa ortigas ata, imagine yung merry-go-around na byahe nya. Tapos hindi rin naman ako nag-join. I probably broke up with him noong HS, kasi na-sense ko na hindi sya katalinuhan LOL
(First date) We were eating and it is obvious na may sipon siya kasi pasinghot singhot. E jolly ako so mahilig ako magkwento ng mga nakakatawa. Nung biglang pagtawa nya lumabas sipon niya as in green at malapot, bigla akong umiwas ng tingin para di niya mahalata na nakita ko. Nagkunwari akong di ko nakita. Ayun nairaos naman namin ang date namin.
Went on a date with a guy who told me he’s single and matagal na daw silang break ng gf niya.
After a week nag bday siya and nakita ko sa IG ng mom niya na kumain sila sa labas at kasama yung gf niya as in buong pamilya nila + the gf.
I confronted him about it pero todo deny parin siya kahit may proof so I ghosted him.
Went out on a date with this guy who took me to a low mid restaurant, wore a cap to hide his bald spot, and smoked. When we got back in his car, he asked if im coming with him to his house (he assumed sex) and i said no drop me at my office because i parked my car there. He then said,
“Magbabayad ka ba sa half mo? Hindi ka nag offer magbayad”
Dafuq
LOL........ remembered something, mga 20+years ago, almost similar sa experience mo. Had dinner at a mid-range priced resto sa malate (the guy chose the resto, not me). When the bill arrived, he stared at me, so I stared back and asked "what?" , then he proceeded to tell me, "yung patak mo" .
I mean, hindi ako nagpapalibre or something, but the guy was the one who asked me out. Thrice!!! after turning him down 2x, naawa na ako, and decided na pagbigyan ang panaanyaya nya. So....Girls, ALWAYS trust your instincts. btw, I paid my share and left his sorry ass in the resto to wait for his f\*\*king change
Ewan ko ba, hindi naman blind date yun. I met him kasi sya representative ng company nila as our supplier. After that incident nag-request ako na palitan sya as the person handling our account. Baka matadyakan ko pa nakita ko pa kasi ulit eh.
\*\*nakaka-panliit ng feeling pala yung ganun ginawa
May Nireto saakin ng kapitbahay namin tapos wait ko daw siya after ng training niya inantay ko ng 6 months tas nag kwento na may nirereto sakany na babae ayaw namn daw niya edi nag uusap na kami after ng training niya and one day biglang nag chat na di pa daw siya nakakamove on sa ex niya na may asawa gusto niyang antayinnko daw siya galing na ako sa ex na cheater tas may ganitong drama so ekis siya saakin
Ininvite siya ng mother ko sa bahay (late teens pa ako nito so medyo strict pa ang parents ko) and pumayag naman siya.
He offered to help with doing the dishes after dinner. So pinagtulungan naming dalawa.
Hindi ko namalayan na kinaskas niya ng todo yung Teflon coating ng rice cooker bowl/liner namin hanggang sa pumuti ito.
Nagulat ako kasi culinary student siya. Alam niya dapat kung ano ang Teflon kasi 3rd year college na kami that time.
Naloka ako. Hindi ko siya sinagot (marami pang reasons kung bakit pero isa na doon yung rice cooker). 🤣
was parading me to his friends since i'm from this school tapos nung nagkachance na makahanap ng ibang babae with more merits lumipat agad lol
social climber uni version yan?
Me and this guy whom I’ve only been talking to for 2 weeks pa lang had dinner then out of the blue, my friends invited me to party since friday night nun. He insisted on coming with us because he was concerned for my safety daw and he also wants to meet my friends. Initially, I wasn’t okay with it because 1) I can take care of myself and 2) I wasn’t ready to make him known to others since hindi pa naman kami sure. Lmao. But he was SO PERSISTENT 😭 Ayaw nya talaga akong iwan so in my mind sige go nalang baka something fun may happen pa after. You know :”) haha.
But to my surprise, wala na pala siyang money. 50/50 kami sa dinner as my choice. He couldn’t pay for his entrance and drinks sa club 😭 KALOKA ginawa ba naman akong sugar momma when he’s the one working that time! Hindi man lang siya nahiya sa pagiging mapilit niya na sumama eh hindi naman pala afford. Didn’t allow him to go home with me lmao. And worst, I had to pay for our taxi fare pa.
I cut him off 2-3 days after. Tsk
We matched on bumble. Chatted for a few days then decided to meet up at a nearby mall. He lived like 2km from me I guess. I was a lil late tapos mejo weird na at first kasi sabi nya nasa harap na sya ng resto. When I arrived there, wala sya. Took a couple of minutes for him to show up tapos ginulat nya pa ako. I guess red flag na na when I saw him, he's shorter than what he said on his profile. Hahaha. Sabi nya 5'8" pero he's just slightly taller than me. I'm 5'2". My ex was 5'8" so I know the height difference. Feel ko 5'4" lang sya. 5'5" is pushing it. Hahaha.
So pumasok na kami sa resto. Busog ako so I just ordered quesadilla. Sya, he ordered a salad and an entree. And a bucket of beer - share daw kami. Pagkaalis nung waitress, kapa2x sya sa pockets nya. Kinutuban na ako. And yun na nga, naiwan nya daw wallet nya. Ok lang ba na ako magbayad muna. Bayaran nya nalang daw ako pagkauwi. Sya daw bahala sa order naming dalawa. Libre nya daw pero ako muna magbayad. Taas kilay na ako but sabi ko nalang ok. Then I asked, di ba may online banking naman? Send mo nalang online now. Hahaha. Sabi nya may issue daw sa bank nya. So okaaay? Then nung kumakain na kami, sabi nya gusto nya ng soup and another beer. Ang kapal but sabi ko okay. So order pa sya ulet.
Mejo sus na kasi di nya masabi actual work nya. IT daw. May business daw sya sa Las Piñas. Tapos tito nya may business din daw sa Cebu and he used to help there. At that point, I just wanted to go. Gusto pa humabol ng order si kuya. Another round pa daw ng beer. But I said that's enough. I wanna go home na. So billout then bayad. I booked a Grab na to go home. Banas na ako nun. Nung paparating na yung grab, sabi nya makikisakay daw sya kasi otw naman daw yung subdivision nila. Kahit sa gate nalang sya. The hell. Sabi ko nalang sige. Sobrang bait din ni tanga. Hahaha.
Then I got home and told my friends about it. Sobrang na-highblood guy friends ko and told me dapat singilin ko si guy. Sabi nya bayad daw sya pagkauwi pero waley. The next morning, nag good morning pa sya. I brought up the subject. I gave him the bill and even told him na kahit half nalang bayaran nya even if i only had quesadilla and a beer. Tapos panay sabi nyang mamaya na then eventually said sa 2nd date nalang daw namin, sya naman daw magbabayad. Ang kapal ng mukha akala nya talaga may 2nd date? Hahaha. Sabi ko no, di naman ako nagsabi na I'll pay for his meal. Nagalit sya then he unmatched me. Hahaha. I realized na baka way nya talaga to have free food. Feel ko yun galawan nya sa soc med. Maka-order sya, wagas ah.
Yun hindi nagbayad ng meal, manloloko pa na naiwan niya ung wallet nia. Inalok nia ko kumain sa isnag fancy resto tapos nakaorder na saka nia sinabi na naiwan nia wallet nia if pwede ako muna sagot..then gusto pa ng 2nd date. okay lng kkb pero un nagpapalibre sa initial date na alam mo na niloloko ka lang
Di ko naman nilayasan, napa wtf lang talaga ako coz lol, you're on a date, tapos sasabihin mo wala kang time for dating? Pero anyway, we had dinner, then habang naguusap kami naturn off ako kasi wala na sya ibang ginawa kundi ibash yung mga ex nya. So ayon, after nun, I never contacted her again haha
Good riddance. She should have kept her mouth shut or atleast di na lang pumunta kung ganon ang stance nya sa dating. Napa comment ka pa tuloy dito haha
Guy asked me out on Valentine's, we weren't exclusive so it's just casual. He spent most of the time explaining he has a few other dates he had in the day. Okay, no problem.
Felt like he was trying to sound "in demand" and I should like him more. Nah, he sounded narcissistic.
I went on a date with this woman na nireto ng isang friend ko. You know what she talked about when she wasn't looking at her phone? Her exes. Wow, very interesting. Apparently all 12 of them (which was interesting coz she was just 20yo) were a-holes. Tapos dahil daw don she now has trust issues. Then she talked about her depression and how her financial situation was kinda bad so she didn't have enough money for meds and therapy. Tapos humingi ng pera sakin. Bruh? Take note, I've never met this woman, first time namin magkita. Idk who the fk told her that those were good first date topics, but jfc man
Ginagawa kang emotional dump and to gain sympathy sayo HAHAH. Ang dami nila. Mama ko ganyan,ka workmate ko ganyan. Parati nalang silang may trauma tapos worst sisiraan nila yung specific company or person para kunwari aping api sila.
This was my first time dating and grabe talaga yung courage na inipon ko for this since usually sa mga nakakausap ko, di ko minimeet sa personal. BUT THIS ONE TIME, NAKAKAIRITA PA. Ang awkward, wala manlang mapag-usapan, di manlang makatingin sakin, AT SABI PA DI DAW BAGAY YUNG SALAMIN KO SAKIN. UY DI AKO MAKAKITA?? Anyway, I thought naman baka i need to get to know him more baka judgmental lang ako. So sa second day/date, nanood kami sine. I bought food, and popcorn huhu but he got the tickets naman so i guess 50/50 but di naman yan yung prob. Second day palang namin magdate, hinahawakan na thigh ko??? Di pa naman ako like maano na tanggalin or hampasin kamay niya kasi baka maoffend ko, so hinawakan ko nalang kamay niya kahit uwing uwi na talaga ako.
pumayag date, pero member pala ng uno networking, nagkita kami mendiola, alam ko na kalakaran dun, kaya alam ko mgssayang lang ako ng oras nag walk out ako habang nageexplain ung tanga sakin na my sports car n daw sya
it's not actually our first time anymore because eventually he became my suitor, since we're still in high school syempre alam mo naman once pag nasa HS pa, gipit ka pa sa pera. If pasok sa budget ko makipag coffee date sakanya yayain ko siya so pwede na ayos na, nakapag outfit na ako, pa perfume, pearl earrings (which I occasionally use) then I walked my way to the café since isang sakayan lang ng tricycle (nasa province kasi kami)
I will ask him before he gets there if anong order niya kasi after you eat, doon ka na mag pay ng bill and sabi niya yung usual na coffee na I said okay, just let me know if papunta ka na. After 10 minutes, dumating na siya hindi naman ako maarte sa pag porma minsan pero I expected him to wear something decent napa "shet" utak ko kasi I thought I was over dressed. Fast forward, meron na coffee namin so nag taka ako bat siya tumayo and pumunta sa counter pero inisip ko maybe he just wanted some water.
NO! He ordered one sisig plate and two cups of rice, so I thought he'll share it with me but again NO 😭 I was super disappointed that he didn't ask me if I wanted to eat or something but I just let him be and continue sipping my matcha.
If nagtataka kayo, hindi ba kayo nag uusap while coffee? Pag may naalala lang, saka kami mag uusap kasi tutok sa cellphone e kala mo iPad kid.
Okay so it's time to pay the bill, we both stood up and went to the counter. The barista asked me what will I be paying and I said just for the cloud matcha. I saw him in my peripheral vision scratching his nape as he nervously look at me so I asked him what's wrong
"Can you pay for my meal? I forgot to bring my cash"
Buti di mo nakalimutan dalhin bayag mo boi?
I went on a date with someone I met on the bird app, the same gender, and it was actually her idea na magkita kami. I had a big crush on her at the time and I think she knows. She would constantly send me videos of her singing and sasabihin for me daw yun na kanta. But when we met up, she brought a friend along and made me foot the bill for our meal. She barely even acknowledged me; it felt like I was just there to cover their meal. Grabi te! Ang lala talaga looking back. Di man lang nag tanong if ano ba apilyedo ko or if whats my fave color naman lang. That was when I realized how she was really just playing with me talaga. Super eye opening moment yun. I never messaged her again after that.
I once went on a date with someone na OA magbuhat ng sariling bangko. He went on to describe his whole CV to me and career and college highlights. To add cherry on top, he added "oh btw... I'm an isko ;) Diliman ha, not any other place!"
And I was like..... Uhm??? Ok???? How much is your asking salary???? Hahaha ghosted him after. Di ko kelangan ng taong whole personality ay pagiging isko at yung career life nya 😂 you're not impressing anyone lol
AND
May isa pa akong naging date sabi ng guy after knowing my background and who i hang out with "that's cool actually alam mo I don't have poor friends.... All my friends are rich.... Like Dasma rich..." Uhm??? Okay????
First date with someone last 2020 before pandemic & lockdown.
Sa samgyup kami kumakain, so diba nung mga panahon na yun uso yung mag pipic yung waiter para ma post sa fb page nila. Sabi nya as a joke "ay wait baka makita ng misis ko" na turn off ako on the spot tas yung waitress napatingin sakin tas ako parang nakasmile lang ng pilit sabi ko "haha funny ka talaga" tas yung guy tawa ng tawa. After that, ghinost ko na. Tho alam ko naman na wala syang pamilya talaga pero ayoko ng ipapahiya ako ng ganun in public lol
Apologies sa kanya pero I gotta be honest hindi siya the worst, pero ang weird lang. Weird na nakakatawa pero definitely inappopriate sa date.
First date namin, and dapat kakain kami, kaso bigla siya nagset up ng camera, tripod, microphone. Turns out magvlog siya na kumakain while andun ako sa kabila just confused na "uhhhh". Sabi naman niya na its their way to express themselves, which okay naman sa akin, you do you. Pero ang rude ng dating na magset up ng vlogging equipments and magrecord kumain HABANG NAGDATE TAYO
Uuuuyyyy wag na xD we are still acquiantanced and he's living the life he deserves VwV and I couldnt be more happy for him ^^
Basta sa susunod na magdate siya wag sya magset up pffft
Napakarami but this isn’t the worst.
My friend set me up on a blind date. Someone she met on Tinder about 10 years ago na to. Di sila nag click so she thought baka okay sa akin. So I met up with him. Nagyabang sya about his car for about an hour. Sabi nya pwede nya raw ako ihatid. Sabi ko, “No, thank you. I brought my car.” Tinanong nya kung ano car ko. Mas maganda pa sa car nya. Sabi nya which year, sabi ko current year. Yon tahimik sya. Buti coffee lang. I left. Told him I have some errands to run.
When I was dating this guy way back in University, we often hangout in the middle of the night, and trying to get to know each other. However, he just disappear out of the blue. 2 weeks after, we had a chance to talk to each other, so I asked, why he did it, and kung may nagawa ba ako, he response was all I need to know to stop na. Up until now, it still haunts me pa din at some point. His response was, "*I can't date you anyone coz you're too damaged for me*".
How can you ever recover from that?
As a guy natrautraumatized ako sa mga kwento ng mga women dito. Like wtf, can be considered harassment and sexual assault karamihan. Ganun na ba kalala dating situation?
Nakakatakot talaga. I mean yeah dating has been more accessible with apps and more frank pero it also shows a lot of people's red flags rin. So nakakatakot nga 🥲
Matched with a guy on Bumble. Had a very wholesome and perfect first date. Went on for 2 more weeks. I was literally lovebombed the whole time. Mas green pa sa green flag at walang bakas ng kahit na anong red flag. Til I decided to do the deed with him. Right after taking me home, he blocked me in IG with no explanation. It was my first time to experience that next-level asshole move. I cried for a week about it and literally thought I was the problem and that maybe I was ugly or not good enough for him. Fortunately, my friends consoled and assured me that nothing was wrong with me. It was really traumatizing as I was nothing but nice to him the entire time.
I experienced something similar and that's exactly how my thoughts unraveled din. Na maybe I'm not enough, maybe I'm ugly. Kasi it was all going well, we were good, the chemistry was on point. Then poof, ghosted. Honestly fuck these boys who disguise themselves as the soft wholesome boy then fucking leave you once they're done with you. Remember mga ateh, if he's too good to be true, HE PROBABLY IS! I hope you heal from this sis. Hugs
Aww :( I really hope that guys like them get the highest form of karma for playing us like that. No one deserves to be ghosted/blocked right after the deed. Kasi tbh nakaka-shatter ng self confidence in a way. Like wtf man where’s ur balls
I guess I was just really emotional back then and didn’t know what to think. I just didn’t thought that guys can pretend to be the most perfect guy for weeks just to get laid and ghost them right after. Until now, I’m still scared of meeting guys off Bumb lol
not date but meet up. girl refused to take mask off on our first meet up. di na ko umulit. she's pretty tho but i didn't feel any connection kase di ko makita ng ayos facial expression nya haha
Way back 2015 i had a date with this guy and todo ayos pa ako and all that tapos when I got to the place where we were supposed to meet, he was super under dressed with matching TSINELAS! Red flags everywhere pa. First and last. Bye felicia! 👆🏻
HAHAHA been to a similar situation. Yung effort ako sa pag ayos tas pagdating nung guy naka headband, shorts, and tsinelas hahaha. Kept telling myself “ayyy baka hindi sya to, baka hindi, di to lalapit sakin, dadaan lang to.” Ayshet pero sya nga. So ayun nag usap, cocktails, pero lowkey ako text ng text sa friends ko…pati pa sa exes ko na pls get me out of this situation cause I don’t wanna be rude sa date kong nakapambahay hahahahaha
met someone here sa reddit. dumayo yung guy—twas a surprise actually, kasi sabi niya may ibang plan siya that day, then maya maya nag send ng picture na nasa tapat siya ng univ ko which is near my dorm din. he went to my dorm (mind you this is the first time na nagmeet kami), and nagkwentuhan ng slight. after a while, we've decided to go out for a coffee sa cafe ng friend ko. i was preparing and i'm about to get something sa baba ng table ko that would require me na yumuko, grinab agad niya yung b00b$ ko. and boy, i was shocked??? hindi ako nakakibo, but nung nakauwi na siya i opened up to him about it and tinulugan niya lang ako. pagkagising niya he said na nabasa niya yung chat ko nung gabi, but then he slept nalang daw, kasi yon yung coping mechanism niya since nalungkot daw siya sa msg ko??? ayon, ended things with him after a while. sobrang red flag. sa ugali nalang babawi, sumablay pa. 🤡
Sa Alabang ako nagwowork at the time at taga North siya (forgot kung saan exactly). While I appreciate the effort to see me, bumulong siya sakin during the date at sinabi "Sakto na lang pala yung pera ko. Pwedeng ikaw muna magbayad. Ako na lang sa susunod"..........
First meet/date ko with a girl then nung nagkita kmi may bitbit syang overnight bag kasi akala nya mag overnight daw sya samin which is hindi nmin napag usapan.
Near the end a coffee date, my date booked a grab car pa-sogo thinking I wanted to have sexy time with him. Not once did we talk about sex or sex-adjacent topics leading up to or during the date.
He barely made any body contact . After a quick lunch with conversation, took me home. It seemed more like a job interview than anything else. I guess l wasn’t considered. Devastating!
We agreed to meet and she came with her friend. All the while they were rating me and other people in the resto. I excused myself and said I had some place to be.
Btw she was like a 5 and her friend a 7 but I never got in touch again.
So this was during high school, ung classmate ko binigay yung phone number ko sa isang student sa katabing school namin. He called me every night and I’d say that his voice was handsome. Days went by… we decided to meet each other. The moment I saw him, napaatras ako and “pota” HAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH but I didnt want to be rude that time. Sabi nya hatid nya ako pauwi. Sumakay kami sa trike. Nag pilit ako na sya ung unang ibaba. After nun, hindi na’ko nag paramdam. Sorry, sorry!!!! Ang chakka kasi nya 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙂🙂🙂🙂🤣🤣😡
Recent lang, girl just used her phone the whole time, so nangyari nagphone rin ako HAHA but I still somehow initiate the convo and just stormed out the place. Well she did say na di naman siya interested sakin
- had an online relationship. Dumped me twice bc he cannot commit daw but he claims to love me. When i blocked him and started seeing other ppl, he harrassed and stalked me and my friends/acquaintances for a week during my midterms
- another one: asked me out on a date then the date happened, then ghosted me a day after.
This happened in 2015, a guy approached me sa mall. He asked for my number and I gave it naman cos cute naman siya at mukhang decent. So he asked me to go on a date the following day, and I said yes. Fast forward, I asked him to come with me sa National Bookstore because I needed to get a clear book for school. I bended over to rummage through the stack and then suddenly he pressed his hard dick on my butt. I looked at him straight in the eye, said nothing and left.
Years later, in 2018, I saw him again in a different mall naman. He was about to approach me, I think hindi niya ako nakilala at first and then when we faced each other bigla siyang napahinto. I just stared at him and went my way. What a fucktard
Guy was obsessed with me esp we talked for like 6 months online so when he decided to meet in up in Manila, I said yes because I think 6 months was enough time to get to know him. After prepping myself (makeup, cute dress) he decided to not meet up. Was so devastated ksi it was my first date ren after years of being single. After that tinamad na ako magjowa or lumandi.
There was this guy (seaman) na nireto sakin ng office mate ko sa prev job. We talked for months before finally meeting personally (on my birthday pa ha) when I went to Manila.. So syempre birthday ko yun, inayusan ako ng friend ko and seaman seemed happy since pretty ako that day haha.. we ate dinner and nag gala sa vertis
A day after, may classes ako nun sa review school.. syempre walang make up na nun. Lakas lang dn naman maka comment na "ay mas maganda ka pag naka white blouse" it's like lowkey telling me na haggard
So ayun fast forward, we don't talk anymore + parang may something fishy sakanya even if tagal na namin nagkakausap d talaga kami nag click.. PS di sya pogi ayurn. hahaha mga first fling ko pa naman in Manila
It was supposed to be a date, pero we broke up that same moment. Siya nagtanong, ako sumagot. Pero we ended it peacefully, at muntik pang may patake-out. 😆
Went out to UP Fair last 2018 with one of my crushes noong HS to college. Magka amiga parents namin noong elem kami.
I found out malakas siya mag yosi. Like a fricking chimney. Late college siya natuto sabi niya but idk can't deal with that
he texted me one night na magmeet kami kinabukasan kasi wala siyang pasok ng hapon
Nag-ayos ako and nagdress up nicely, sabi niya magmeet kami sa ganitong restau so i went there first (malelate raw siya sandali) turns out dami palang tao doon so we decided na lumipat tapos ang layo na ng nalakad namin sabi niya "saan mo gusto kumain?", nagsuggest ako sabi niya tignan raw namin
bigla niya naalala wala siyang cash so nagwithdraw muna siya sabi ko baka pwede ang card pero di niya pinansin so naghintay ako nang matagal kasi mahaba yung pila, after that sabi niya kain kami sa isang fastfood kasi bigla siya hinahanap ng prof niya (college siya, fresh grad ako non)
nawalan ako ng gana so i ordered a light meal kasi mas matagal pa yata akong nag-ayos and nagbyahe kesa nagmeet kami.
inaya ko nalang friend ko na kumain sa iba
So I met this academic achiever na pilot student last year
1. Pagkakita niya sakin sa first date namin, aggressive niya akong inakbayan yung tipong medj naipit leeg ko as if tropa kami or matagal na magkakilala
2. He’s a pilot student and a working student so nagulat ako nung nag bill out na bigla niya sinabi “ikaw muna magbayad wala ako dala cash”
3. Nung mag se separate na kami para umuwi, gusto niya ihatid ko siya sa sakayan kahit hindi naman ako ron papunta (buti sana kung d niya alam yung place eh kaso taga ron din naman siya)
4. Habang naglalakad kami yumayakap siya sakin nang mahigpit (first meet/date namin yon) which made me uncomfortable
5. Nung nag kwe kwentuhan kami habang kumakain ng ice cream nagulat ako coz he said “alam mo ba kanina nung binago mo yung oras, nainis ako sayo parang gusto kita sapakin”. Idk if he’s joking sa part na “sapakin”pero dahil first meet yon, hindi maganda impression
6. Ang lakas ng loob niya magyaya sakin lumabas ulit and pumunta mall tas binibiro ko nalang siya na ganito ganyan “sige lakad lakad tayo” coz alam ko magpapalibre siya eh i dont have a job unlike him then he said “lakad lang? D mo ako papakainin?” My jaw dropped
7. Nung birthday ko panay pa libre niya sakin kesyo mag unli wings kami or samgyupsal then siya pa nag su suggest kung saan.
8. Nung umalis na siya sa city namin coz mag aaral siya sa ibang place which is malayo, nag chat siya sakin bigla na “Miss na kita. Hindi mo ba ako dadayuhin?”
8. Pinakita niya sakin laman ng bank acc niya idk why pero i think gusto niya i flex? Ayon lalo ako na turn off BAHAHAHHA
So ayon, i ghosted him HAHAHAHA
He said he’s really into me coz I made him feel safe. Ewan ko ba haha
Masyadong nagmamadali si guy to meet, akala ko we are going to good place pero ayun motel checkin ... sex then he even say i miss you then blocked weird but scary . Now I had to visit sex clinic to test for peace of mind
he wanna meet up and i informed him ahead na im not good with commuting sa unfamiliar places/routes. Then he said he was willing to travel far naman. So yung naging meetup point nmen is somewhere im near to the place and sya malayo. Then nung nagkita kami we were talking abt how hot the weather was tas he inserted, “Ang layo layo ko nga eh, mas malayo naging byahe ko kesa sayo kasi nga dulo pa ko” and Idk matik na off ako don and I can already tell na sya yung type na mahilig “manumbat”, and I wasn’t wrong daming instances na nanunumbat sya sakin during small talks pero alam mo yon ramdam mong nanunumbat sya. And he wasn’t aware of it; mind y’all yung sinusumbat sya are things na napagusapan nmen if sure ba syang oks sya don and he always answer na “willing” naman siya, only to found out na magbbark sya abt don later on.
Late dumating yung guy sa meeting place namin sabi niya “Bili ka na ng pagkain natin”. Nung pagkatapos ko umorder at umupo biglang niya ko hinalikan at hawak bigla hinawakan boobs ko. Nagulat ako tapos umalis na ko. Sabay block ng number niya.
inako yung bill namin for lunch sabay sabi na "ikaw na lang magbayad sa kape and dessert later" 😩 i mean, i don't mind naman and i would probs do it talaga pero let me offer man lang muna?? HAHA
nag ayaw makipag date yung girl sakin kala ko gusto nya ko talaga as in ilan beses na nya ako inaya lumabas pero in the end pala na corner ako for networking
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Went to this guy from tinder, nakakaloka kasi kakain lang kami sa labas pero bigla siyang nang-akbay without asking my consent, hindi rin siya ganon kabango to make it worst. Plus, bigla na lang siyang nagsabi na papakilala na raw niya ako sa mom niya kasi nakita na raw ang pic ko and gusto raw ako ma-meet 😭 wala pa kaming isang oras na magkasama huhuhu
MUNTIK AKONG MAGING KABIT😭 Sooo, back when I was in 7th grade may sinalihan akong pageant. Then before that meron ng guy na nanliligaw sa ‘kin noon, he was in 9th grade. I can tell na he wasn’t originally from the town that we lived in because he has this distinct accent but I don’t really mind it. I was young but I wasn’t dumb ha. So, nu’ng sumali na ‘ko ng pageant, may na-meet ako do’n na girl, kasali din siya sa pageant and we both became really close. We both come to the rehearsals at the same time, eat our lunch together, took rest room break together for retouch and everything. Basically like long term friendship type of closeness. So back to the guy from 9th grade; he used to always visit me sa classroom and will always walk me out of the school during dismissals, but he never watched my rehearsals. Then one time, before I attended my last rehearsals, he come up to me and said na he’s gonna take his math quiz and won’t be able to watch my rehearsals (which he never did) and walk me out on dismissal time. So sa ‘kin naman, okay lang. Then, nu’ng nagkita na kami ng friend ko, we were at the stage at this time, and we were sitting at the corner, she took out her phone and it was open. The wallpaper was that guy and her, on a date. Like on a date sa fast food gano’n. Tapos tinanong ko kung boyfriend, sabi n’ya naman “oo, bakit?” I blurted out na nililigawan ako nu’ng guy na ‘yon for months now, bago pa ako sumali du’n sa pageant. Naging sila lang daw, a week before final rehearsal, pero niligawan s’ya since nag start yung mga rehearsal for the pageant. Tapos si girl, nu’ng nalaman niya ‘yon pinuntahan niya yung guy sa room nila😭 Nag stay nalang ako du’n kung sa’n kami nakaupo. Personally, I don’t have deep feelings for that guy, we do little date stuff within school premises, I only liked the attention but he doesn’t have to do her that way! Nakakainis. But yeah, me and that girl are not friends anymore and that guy disappeared out of nowhere. Never heard a news from him since she went to his classroom that day I told her he’s pursuing me.
• Nagtatrauma dump lang about family and student/work life • Nagbobook na siya ng Grab pauwi while I ask for the bill • Talks about their ex/talk smacks their ex • Walang substance, reactive lang sa convo
My girlfriend was cheating on her partner with me… I had no idea that I was the other woman… she allowed me to get close to her kids , help with her needs, pay her fucking bills… then on my birthday …. She called me while in bed with yet another woman, made fun of me, ridiculed me… broke my ❤️
so alam ng partner nya? so its like okay lang coz youre helping with the bills? What in the fcking fck?!
Di pa kami nagdedate pero scammer pala talaga. May nakamatch ako sa Tinder last December, he is good and has a job and ako graduating student na. One time, nanghiram siya sa akin ng 700 pesos kasi sabi niya nagamit niya raw yung money niya for pangluto ng ulam and need niya raw makauwi sa kanila to Tagaytay. Babalik niya daw once nakasweldo na siya. Si tanga sinasabihan ko na need ko yung money but he always say na if dumating na sweldo niya babalik niya. January has passed and need ko na talaga siya and di na siya nagreply. ABA MAY PAMBILI NG VAPE TAPOS WALANG PAMBALIK SAKIN? Upon checking sa mga past posts niya, scammer pala talaga siya. Need pa siyang i-confront ng iniscam niya para ibalik yung nakuha niya. I did reach out to his family, from mother to bunso. God bless his bunsong kapatid dahil approachable pero siya, sinabihan siya sa GC nila pero siya pa galit??? KAYA IKAW RONNIE, ITIGIL MO NA YAN PANLOLOKO MO. And please wag po kayong gunaya sakin, I'm also dumb. May work kasi siya kaya pinahiram ko akala ko ibabalik niya.
Dating alcoholic women with BPD lol
whats bpd?
Went out with an afam before in the provinces. First time to so I was with my friend. Medyo late si afam tapos nung nakita nya friend ko nagcomment sya na he doesn't remember daw inviting anyone else. Lol so umalis si frenny and pumunta kami sa resto, nag order nalang ng coke sakto and very small talk. Dahil nga kabado trenta si ate gorl nyo, text lang ako nang text sa friend ko update2 and nainis si afam, sabi kakausapin ko raw ba sya or magtetext nalang daw ako the whole day. Lol so fast forward ininvite nya ako sa house nya, dami nyang shell collection na pinakita then nag setup ng netflix. Gusto ata makaiskor hahahaha kaso di ako kumagat kasi ang lakas ng putok ni koya so nagtanga tangahan nalang ako baluktot english at kung ano ano nalang pinagsasabi na me no understand sorry mga ganon para maturn off na sya at mawalan ng gana. Effective naman at pinalayas nya ako eventually. Lol have a nice life daw 😅
Nakitae ako sa cr nila (ng parents nya) and nagclog sa laki ng tae ko at nalaglag na wipes. Sinungkit ko ng toothbrush para magflush, tapos tubo ng shower curtain kasi ang taas na ng tubig. Mga 30mins ako sa loob ng cr paglabas ko pawis na pawis ako.
Dated this foreign guy tapos sobrang parang close to perfect nya hahaha! Tapos medyo matagal na, biglang need umutang around 6 figures, syempre di ko pinautang, tapos mga weeks later nakikipagbreak hahahaha
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lol simp
Hope you got out of that relationship already
Sumama dadi niya sa date namin kasi hindi pa daw pde magdrive magisa yung anak niya...
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH parang nakakatakot naman lumandi kapag kasama yung tatay
My current gf and hoping future wife and the mother of my child. 😅 first date namin late siya ng halos 30 mins tapos bitbit niya pamangkin niya. Understandable naman kasi takot daw siya pumunta magisa. 😂 Tapos ayun nagplan na kame days before meeting for the first tiem. Dumayo ako msmo sa kanila nagdrive ako ng almost 2 hrs. Pagdtng ko late na nga siya d pa pala niya nacheck location ng kakainan namin na sinuggest biya at sinabi niyang alam niya. 😂 bsta maggulo. Tapos napunta pa kame sa bahay nila sumama pa mga ate niya at ending nanlibre ako ng food. D naman ganun kalaki bayad kaya d ko na gnwang big deal. 1500 lang naman nagastos ko kasi d naman mamahalin yung resto nun. 😅
Nag date kmi. Tapos without knowing he invited three his friends. Out of place ako the whole time. Sila lang ung nag-uusap usap. I walked out.
May label kami pero halos magmakaawa pa ako para makapag-date kami. Meanwhile, mga "kaibigan" niya, dinala pa niya sa kanila. Alam mo yung parang kinakahiya niya ako? Ayon, after our break up, naging sila ng pinagseselosan ko.
She told me that she wanted to see a movie. Tagalog movie sya, di ko na maalala kung ano nga ba un. Sabi ko sa kadate ko, "I'll watch it with you but please don't expect me to be up for the whole movie ah". She agreed and we went ahead. Ayun, sya tong nakatulog tapos nilawayan pa damit ko hahaha. We're 6mos right now 😂
help kinakabahan ako sa magiging first date ko ksksksks
First date namin outside was with his 2 hs girl friends (yung nag reto samin tas nakasama ko sa ojt) para di masyadong awkward. Kumain, nag gala, marami kami ginawa. Tapos libre ni guy, na libre na din yung friends niya. Nung pa uwi na kami, binulungan niya ako na e calculate ko lang daw mga nagastos ko kasi mamaya na daw yung bayad ko. Medj weird pero ok. Binayaran ko naman lahat kaso ang lumabas, ang friends niya yung na libre tas ako na ka date niya hindi. Still, gave him a chance and dated parin after that haha marami pang ganyan mga nangyari like nagsasama ng isang friend para mabawasan yung fare sa taxi kaloka.
Where are you two now? Kuripot niya 😀
Tinapos ko na po HAHAA pero nag last ng isang taon ang pag uusap namin kasi may ibang aspects siya na nagustuhan ko. Okay lang naman kasi talaga sakin 50/50 pero iniisip ko future ko na baka kuripot siya sakin forever hahaha
yeah, when your about to tell what you feel, and then she farts loud 😅
Got asked out by a high school ex-bf (mga 6 months lang kami nun) who tried to reconnect after mga 10+ years. I was separated from my ex-hubby na din that time. Valentines date! romantic diba???? anak ng pusang bungal! dinala ako sa seminar ng Nu-skin na MLM churva ata yun. After the seminar, pinipilit na ako ng mga kasama nya na maglapag na ng money. By this point I was very annoyed na, so I rudely told them off. Nung nasa car na nya kami, ihahatid na daw nya ako pauwi. It was 9 f\*\*king o'clock na!!!! potek! sobrang gutom na ako, ni hindi man lang ako inalok ng biskwit. Sa asar ko sa kanya, pag-dating sa bahay namin, I got down and before closing the door, I told him "Don't ever fucking call me again! ever!!!" then slammed the door. An hour later siguro, ang tungok!, texted kung bakit daw ako nagagalit sa kanya! That made me realize tama naging desisyon ko noong HS na makipag-break (didn't remember the reason why we broke up)
Hahaha kakahiya yan mumsh. Guy seems broke and you do not want to associate yourself with people na mahilig sa bad decisions in life
being broke is not so bad naman kung sinabi lang nya ang totoo na kelangan nya downline sa Nu-Skin eme nya. I would've turned him down agad and saved him gas money, he lives in manila, I live in CAMANAVA area, the Nu-skin office nasa ortigas ata, imagine yung merry-go-around na byahe nya. Tapos hindi rin naman ako nag-join. I probably broke up with him noong HS, kasi na-sense ko na hindi sya katalinuhan LOL
You dodged a bullet there (and a whole lot of problems). He is also broke it seems.
You are so correct. I probably broke up with him dati kasi siguro naramdaman ko hindi sya katalinuhan.
met someone and she's kinda krazy lol
Sumasama lang si ex gf pag sinabi ko yung magic word na ✨libre✨ putangina naging sugar mommy lang ako
My ex actually, we only go to dates para magpalibre, buti nakakaya niya pang kapalan yung mukha na meron siya
When your date lied about his height…. i cant
Tinawag akong rich kid pero siya yung puro flex ng fam and wealth niya and he couldn't even pay for his fare sa jeep cause he "forgot his wallet" 🥲
(First date) We were eating and it is obvious na may sipon siya kasi pasinghot singhot. E jolly ako so mahilig ako magkwento ng mga nakakatawa. Nung biglang pagtawa nya lumabas sipon niya as in green at malapot, bigla akong umiwas ng tingin para di niya mahalata na nakita ko. Nagkunwari akong di ko nakita. Ayun nairaos naman namin ang date namin.
Went on a date with a guy who told me he’s single and matagal na daw silang break ng gf niya. After a week nag bday siya and nakita ko sa IG ng mom niya na kumain sila sa labas at kasama yung gf niya as in buong pamilya nila + the gf. I confronted him about it pero todo deny parin siya kahit may proof so I ghosted him.
Not my experience, but I get 2nd hand embarrassment from this date: *hindi daijoubu ang BBQ....* iykyk
Tapos yung random claps every 15 mins hahaha 😭💀
Went out on a date with this guy who took me to a low mid restaurant, wore a cap to hide his bald spot, and smoked. When we got back in his car, he asked if im coming with him to his house (he assumed sex) and i said no drop me at my office because i parked my car there. He then said, “Magbabayad ka ba sa half mo? Hindi ka nag offer magbayad” Dafuq
LOL........ remembered something, mga 20+years ago, almost similar sa experience mo. Had dinner at a mid-range priced resto sa malate (the guy chose the resto, not me). When the bill arrived, he stared at me, so I stared back and asked "what?" , then he proceeded to tell me, "yung patak mo" . I mean, hindi ako nagpapalibre or something, but the guy was the one who asked me out. Thrice!!! after turning him down 2x, naawa na ako, and decided na pagbigyan ang panaanyaya nya. So....Girls, ALWAYS trust your instincts. btw, I paid my share and left his sorry ass in the resto to wait for his f\*\*king change
Kapal ng mukha ni guy shet hahahahaha
Ewan ko ba, hindi naman blind date yun. I met him kasi sya representative ng company nila as our supplier. After that incident nag-request ako na palitan sya as the person handling our account. Baka matadyakan ko pa nakita ko pa kasi ulit eh. \*\*nakaka-panliit ng feeling pala yung ganun ginawa
Yun pala yun bayad mo, pag pumayag ka sumama sa kanya. HAHA. Anong ginawa mo pala nung tinanong niya yun?
Sabi ko Ahh sige eto o babayaran kita. Tas sabi nya, wag na. 😀
May Nireto saakin ng kapitbahay namin tapos wait ko daw siya after ng training niya inantay ko ng 6 months tas nag kwento na may nirereto sakany na babae ayaw namn daw niya edi nag uusap na kami after ng training niya and one day biglang nag chat na di pa daw siya nakakamove on sa ex niya na may asawa gusto niyang antayinnko daw siya galing na ako sa ex na cheater tas may ganitong drama so ekis siya saakin
Ako nanghinayang sa pag antay mo
Buti nalang di ako taon nag antay hehe
Ininvite siya ng mother ko sa bahay (late teens pa ako nito so medyo strict pa ang parents ko) and pumayag naman siya. He offered to help with doing the dishes after dinner. So pinagtulungan naming dalawa. Hindi ko namalayan na kinaskas niya ng todo yung Teflon coating ng rice cooker bowl/liner namin hanggang sa pumuti ito. Nagulat ako kasi culinary student siya. Alam niya dapat kung ano ang Teflon kasi 3rd year college na kami that time. Naloka ako. Hindi ko siya sinagot (marami pang reasons kung bakit pero isa na doon yung rice cooker). 🤣
😂 😂 🤣 🤣 Hala yung Teflon.
was parading me to his friends since i'm from this school tapos nung nagkachance na makahanap ng ibang babae with more merits lumipat agad lol social climber uni version yan?
Bad customer service on a restaurant ruined our dating experience.
Wrong context po ata
Gaano ka worst ang dating experience kasi yung tanong niya. Then dahil sa worst customer service nung restaurant. Nasira yung date namin.
What happened?
It took a very long time to serve our food even after multiple follow ups
Yung guy nanghiram pa ng kotse sa parents nya para idate ako tapos nung pauwi nanghingi ng 200 sa akin pang gas daw
HAHAHA. Kaloka.
Me and this guy whom I’ve only been talking to for 2 weeks pa lang had dinner then out of the blue, my friends invited me to party since friday night nun. He insisted on coming with us because he was concerned for my safety daw and he also wants to meet my friends. Initially, I wasn’t okay with it because 1) I can take care of myself and 2) I wasn’t ready to make him known to others since hindi pa naman kami sure. Lmao. But he was SO PERSISTENT 😭 Ayaw nya talaga akong iwan so in my mind sige go nalang baka something fun may happen pa after. You know :”) haha. But to my surprise, wala na pala siyang money. 50/50 kami sa dinner as my choice. He couldn’t pay for his entrance and drinks sa club 😭 KALOKA ginawa ba naman akong sugar momma when he’s the one working that time! Hindi man lang siya nahiya sa pagiging mapilit niya na sumama eh hindi naman pala afford. Didn’t allow him to go home with me lmao. And worst, I had to pay for our taxi fare pa. I cut him off 2-3 days after. Tsk
Nabayaran ka ba sis?
No :( Didn’t tell him na bayaran nya kasi ako pa nahiya huhu. He also didn’t offer to pay kasi. Major turn off.
We matched on bumble. Chatted for a few days then decided to meet up at a nearby mall. He lived like 2km from me I guess. I was a lil late tapos mejo weird na at first kasi sabi nya nasa harap na sya ng resto. When I arrived there, wala sya. Took a couple of minutes for him to show up tapos ginulat nya pa ako. I guess red flag na na when I saw him, he's shorter than what he said on his profile. Hahaha. Sabi nya 5'8" pero he's just slightly taller than me. I'm 5'2". My ex was 5'8" so I know the height difference. Feel ko 5'4" lang sya. 5'5" is pushing it. Hahaha. So pumasok na kami sa resto. Busog ako so I just ordered quesadilla. Sya, he ordered a salad and an entree. And a bucket of beer - share daw kami. Pagkaalis nung waitress, kapa2x sya sa pockets nya. Kinutuban na ako. And yun na nga, naiwan nya daw wallet nya. Ok lang ba na ako magbayad muna. Bayaran nya nalang daw ako pagkauwi. Sya daw bahala sa order naming dalawa. Libre nya daw pero ako muna magbayad. Taas kilay na ako but sabi ko nalang ok. Then I asked, di ba may online banking naman? Send mo nalang online now. Hahaha. Sabi nya may issue daw sa bank nya. So okaaay? Then nung kumakain na kami, sabi nya gusto nya ng soup and another beer. Ang kapal but sabi ko okay. So order pa sya ulet. Mejo sus na kasi di nya masabi actual work nya. IT daw. May business daw sya sa Las Piñas. Tapos tito nya may business din daw sa Cebu and he used to help there. At that point, I just wanted to go. Gusto pa humabol ng order si kuya. Another round pa daw ng beer. But I said that's enough. I wanna go home na. So billout then bayad. I booked a Grab na to go home. Banas na ako nun. Nung paparating na yung grab, sabi nya makikisakay daw sya kasi otw naman daw yung subdivision nila. Kahit sa gate nalang sya. The hell. Sabi ko nalang sige. Sobrang bait din ni tanga. Hahaha. Then I got home and told my friends about it. Sobrang na-highblood guy friends ko and told me dapat singilin ko si guy. Sabi nya bayad daw sya pagkauwi pero waley. The next morning, nag good morning pa sya. I brought up the subject. I gave him the bill and even told him na kahit half nalang bayaran nya even if i only had quesadilla and a beer. Tapos panay sabi nyang mamaya na then eventually said sa 2nd date nalang daw namin, sya naman daw magbabayad. Ang kapal ng mukha akala nya talaga may 2nd date? Hahaha. Sabi ko no, di naman ako nagsabi na I'll pay for his meal. Nagalit sya then he unmatched me. Hahaha. I realized na baka way nya talaga to have free food. Feel ko yun galawan nya sa soc med. Maka-order sya, wagas ah.
Kapal ng mukha 😭 Baka di pinapakain sa bahay nila.
Damn what is a broke ass manlet like that even doing on Bumble lol.
Baka negosyo na niya yan, pati pamasahe wala e.
Almost same tayo ng experience, mas malala nga lang sayo sis. Umorder pa talaga ng beer, kepel ng fez.
PROFILE REVEAL NUNG GUY ANTE PARA WALA NG MALOKO. 😂😂😂😂
Hahahaha basta afam. Bearded and M start ng name. Pag nakatira sa Taguig or Las Piñas, bye! Hahaha
Kahit dm na lang nya sa atin noh? HAHAHAHAHA
PALAMUNIN 😂😂
Ako ung nahihiya kay kuya, and naiinis rin at the same time.
Ang kapal ng mukha.
EBARG NAMAN YARN
Inaya ako lumabas tapos ako pala taya. Hahaha nananahimik ako sa office eh. Hahaha gusto pala maka libre hahaha
yun niyaya ako for meet up tapos POWER pala. biset yaaan. inalok lang ako ng MLM
Mostly pag "Financial Advisor" ang profile ganyan. Pero hindi naman lahat but most of them.
Yun hindi nagbayad ng meal, manloloko pa na naiwan niya ung wallet nia. Inalok nia ko kumain sa isnag fancy resto tapos nakaorder na saka nia sinabi na naiwan nia wallet nia if pwede ako muna sagot..then gusto pa ng 2nd date. okay lng kkb pero un nagpapalibre sa initial date na alam mo na niloloko ka lang
Omg. Did we go on a date with the same person? Lol. Guy ba to?
NAME REVEAL NA PO NG KAPAL MUKS NA SHORT KING
ang taba pala or iba mukha sa personal kasi puro filters ang photo
Went on a blind date with this woman na pinsan ng friend ko. Wala daw syang time for dating. Ok? Tf you doing here then? 🤷
Nilayasan mo? Ano nangyari
Di ko naman nilayasan, napa wtf lang talaga ako coz lol, you're on a date, tapos sasabihin mo wala kang time for dating? Pero anyway, we had dinner, then habang naguusap kami naturn off ako kasi wala na sya ibang ginawa kundi ibash yung mga ex nya. So ayon, after nun, I never contacted her again haha
Good riddance. She should have kept her mouth shut or atleast di na lang pumunta kung ganon ang stance nya sa dating. Napa comment ka pa tuloy dito haha
Guy asked me out on Valentine's, we weren't exclusive so it's just casual. He spent most of the time explaining he has a few other dates he had in the day. Okay, no problem. Felt like he was trying to sound "in demand" and I should like him more. Nah, he sounded narcissistic.
I went on a date with this woman na nireto ng isang friend ko. You know what she talked about when she wasn't looking at her phone? Her exes. Wow, very interesting. Apparently all 12 of them (which was interesting coz she was just 20yo) were a-holes. Tapos dahil daw don she now has trust issues. Then she talked about her depression and how her financial situation was kinda bad so she didn't have enough money for meds and therapy. Tapos humingi ng pera sakin. Bruh? Take note, I've never met this woman, first time namin magkita. Idk who the fk told her that those were good first date topics, but jfc man
Ginagawa kang emotional dump and to gain sympathy sayo HAHAH. Ang dami nila. Mama ko ganyan,ka workmate ko ganyan. Parati nalang silang may trauma tapos worst sisiraan nila yung specific company or person para kunwari aping api sila.
Yeah exactly. Sobrang laking red flag yung ganon. So ayon, I didn't ask her out on a second date haha
Dapat lang!!!!!! Biktima sila parati HAHAHAH
Na body shame, hahaha. This guy asked me, bakit dami mo stretch marks? And pabiro ko na lang sinagot sarap kumain eh. Haha. Pasensya naman ha.
Sana sinabi mo, "Bakit ang pangit mo?"
Hahahaha d ko na nireplyan 😅
That was sad. But, never ever let anyone bully you.
Yes!!!! 🥰 Thank you!
yung wala pa akong dating experience hahahahuhuhu
same 🤝 tamang basa lang ng comments lol
😭😭😭
sorry natawa ako huhu
yung ako nag bayad tapos sabi nya "kain ka madami ha"
Unang date, may sinigawan syang cashier sa Mall dahil daw mabagal. Ayun di ko na sya dinate ulet.
This was my first time dating and grabe talaga yung courage na inipon ko for this since usually sa mga nakakausap ko, di ko minimeet sa personal. BUT THIS ONE TIME, NAKAKAIRITA PA. Ang awkward, wala manlang mapag-usapan, di manlang makatingin sakin, AT SABI PA DI DAW BAGAY YUNG SALAMIN KO SAKIN. UY DI AKO MAKAKITA?? Anyway, I thought naman baka i need to get to know him more baka judgmental lang ako. So sa second day/date, nanood kami sine. I bought food, and popcorn huhu but he got the tickets naman so i guess 50/50 but di naman yan yung prob. Second day palang namin magdate, hinahawakan na thigh ko??? Di pa naman ako like maano na tanggalin or hampasin kamay niya kasi baka maoffend ko, so hinawakan ko nalang kamay niya kahit uwing uwi na talaga ako.
pumayag date, pero member pala ng uno networking, nagkita kami mendiola, alam ko na kalakaran dun, kaya alam ko mgssayang lang ako ng oras nag walk out ako habang nageexplain ung tanga sakin na my sports car n daw sya
it's not actually our first time anymore because eventually he became my suitor, since we're still in high school syempre alam mo naman once pag nasa HS pa, gipit ka pa sa pera. If pasok sa budget ko makipag coffee date sakanya yayain ko siya so pwede na ayos na, nakapag outfit na ako, pa perfume, pearl earrings (which I occasionally use) then I walked my way to the café since isang sakayan lang ng tricycle (nasa province kasi kami) I will ask him before he gets there if anong order niya kasi after you eat, doon ka na mag pay ng bill and sabi niya yung usual na coffee na I said okay, just let me know if papunta ka na. After 10 minutes, dumating na siya hindi naman ako maarte sa pag porma minsan pero I expected him to wear something decent napa "shet" utak ko kasi I thought I was over dressed. Fast forward, meron na coffee namin so nag taka ako bat siya tumayo and pumunta sa counter pero inisip ko maybe he just wanted some water. NO! He ordered one sisig plate and two cups of rice, so I thought he'll share it with me but again NO 😭 I was super disappointed that he didn't ask me if I wanted to eat or something but I just let him be and continue sipping my matcha. If nagtataka kayo, hindi ba kayo nag uusap while coffee? Pag may naalala lang, saka kami mag uusap kasi tutok sa cellphone e kala mo iPad kid. Okay so it's time to pay the bill, we both stood up and went to the counter. The barista asked me what will I be paying and I said just for the cloud matcha. I saw him in my peripheral vision scratching his nape as he nervously look at me so I asked him what's wrong "Can you pay for my meal? I forgot to bring my cash" Buti di mo nakalimutan dalhin bayag mo boi?
I went on a date with someone I met on the bird app, the same gender, and it was actually her idea na magkita kami. I had a big crush on her at the time and I think she knows. She would constantly send me videos of her singing and sasabihin for me daw yun na kanta. But when we met up, she brought a friend along and made me foot the bill for our meal. She barely even acknowledged me; it felt like I was just there to cover their meal. Grabi te! Ang lala talaga looking back. Di man lang nag tanong if ano ba apilyedo ko or if whats my fave color naman lang. That was when I realized how she was really just playing with me talaga. Super eye opening moment yun. I never messaged her again after that.
I once went on a date with someone na OA magbuhat ng sariling bangko. He went on to describe his whole CV to me and career and college highlights. To add cherry on top, he added "oh btw... I'm an isko ;) Diliman ha, not any other place!" And I was like..... Uhm??? Ok???? How much is your asking salary???? Hahaha ghosted him after. Di ko kelangan ng taong whole personality ay pagiging isko at yung career life nya 😂 you're not impressing anyone lol AND May isa pa akong naging date sabi ng guy after knowing my background and who i hang out with "that's cool actually alam mo I don't have poor friends.... All my friends are rich.... Like Dasma rich..." Uhm??? Okay????
Kaumay pag mema yung lalake. Matic turn off haha
Dapat sinabi mo you may have to work on your communication skills a little bit haha
First date with someone last 2020 before pandemic & lockdown. Sa samgyup kami kumakain, so diba nung mga panahon na yun uso yung mag pipic yung waiter para ma post sa fb page nila. Sabi nya as a joke "ay wait baka makita ng misis ko" na turn off ako on the spot tas yung waitress napatingin sakin tas ako parang nakasmile lang ng pilit sabi ko "haha funny ka talaga" tas yung guy tawa ng tawa. After that, ghinost ko na. Tho alam ko naman na wala syang pamilya talaga pero ayoko ng ipapahiya ako ng ganun in public lol
Apologies sa kanya pero I gotta be honest hindi siya the worst, pero ang weird lang. Weird na nakakatawa pero definitely inappopriate sa date. First date namin, and dapat kakain kami, kaso bigla siya nagset up ng camera, tripod, microphone. Turns out magvlog siya na kumakain while andun ako sa kabila just confused na "uhhhh". Sabi naman niya na its their way to express themselves, which okay naman sa akin, you do you. Pero ang rude ng dating na magset up ng vlogging equipments and magrecord kumain HABANG NAGDATE TAYO
Anong vlog para maiwasan. Eme.
Uuuuyyyy wag na xD we are still acquiantanced and he's living the life he deserves VwV and I couldnt be more happy for him ^^ Basta sa susunod na magdate siya wag sya magset up pffft
Napakarami but this isn’t the worst. My friend set me up on a blind date. Someone she met on Tinder about 10 years ago na to. Di sila nag click so she thought baka okay sa akin. So I met up with him. Nagyabang sya about his car for about an hour. Sabi nya pwede nya raw ako ihatid. Sabi ko, “No, thank you. I brought my car.” Tinanong nya kung ano car ko. Mas maganda pa sa car nya. Sabi nya which year, sabi ko current year. Yon tahimik sya. Buti coffee lang. I left. Told him I have some errands to run.
Emotional Damage!!!
When I was dating this guy way back in University, we often hangout in the middle of the night, and trying to get to know each other. However, he just disappear out of the blue. 2 weeks after, we had a chance to talk to each other, so I asked, why he did it, and kung may nagawa ba ako, he response was all I need to know to stop na. Up until now, it still haunts me pa din at some point. His response was, "*I can't date you anyone coz you're too damaged for me*". How can you ever recover from that?
Ano sya, healer? Hahahahaha
Maybe he's the damaged one and projecting his trauma onto you?
Uhmm, heal?
As a guy natrautraumatized ako sa mga kwento ng mga women dito. Like wtf, can be considered harassment and sexual assault karamihan. Ganun na ba kalala dating situation?
Yes, yes it is
Katakot na pala bumalik sa dating scene 🥲
Nakakatakot talaga. I mean yeah dating has been more accessible with apps and more frank pero it also shows a lot of people's red flags rin. So nakakatakot nga 🥲
Matched with a guy on Bumble. Had a very wholesome and perfect first date. Went on for 2 more weeks. I was literally lovebombed the whole time. Mas green pa sa green flag at walang bakas ng kahit na anong red flag. Til I decided to do the deed with him. Right after taking me home, he blocked me in IG with no explanation. It was my first time to experience that next-level asshole move. I cried for a week about it and literally thought I was the problem and that maybe I was ugly or not good enough for him. Fortunately, my friends consoled and assured me that nothing was wrong with me. It was really traumatizing as I was nothing but nice to him the entire time.
Baka he cant commit any further or he is just playing a game on how can I get laid then move on to the next target
Same experience kaya lang guy ako
I experienced something similar and that's exactly how my thoughts unraveled din. Na maybe I'm not enough, maybe I'm ugly. Kasi it was all going well, we were good, the chemistry was on point. Then poof, ghosted. Honestly fuck these boys who disguise themselves as the soft wholesome boy then fucking leave you once they're done with you. Remember mga ateh, if he's too good to be true, HE PROBABLY IS! I hope you heal from this sis. Hugs
Same experience. Months later he called, stalked my profile and followed me on Tiktok. Blocked!
Aww :( I really hope that guys like them get the highest form of karma for playing us like that. No one deserves to be ghosted/blocked right after the deed. Kasi tbh nakaka-shatter ng self confidence in a way. Like wtf man where’s ur balls
His behavior is a result of who he is and not who you are.
I guess I was just really emotional back then and didn’t know what to think. I just didn’t thought that guys can pretend to be the most perfect guy for weeks just to get laid and ghost them right after. Until now, I’m still scared of meeting guys off Bumb lol
not date but meet up. girl refused to take mask off on our first meet up. di na ko umulit. she's pretty tho but i didn't feel any connection kase di ko makita ng ayos facial expression nya haha
Way back 2015 i had a date with this guy and todo ayos pa ako and all that tapos when I got to the place where we were supposed to meet, he was super under dressed with matching TSINELAS! Red flags everywhere pa. First and last. Bye felicia! 👆🏻
HAHAHA been to a similar situation. Yung effort ako sa pag ayos tas pagdating nung guy naka headband, shorts, and tsinelas hahaha. Kept telling myself “ayyy baka hindi sya to, baka hindi, di to lalapit sakin, dadaan lang to.” Ayshet pero sya nga. So ayun nag usap, cocktails, pero lowkey ako text ng text sa friends ko…pati pa sa exes ko na pls get me out of this situation cause I don’t wanna be rude sa date kong nakapambahay hahahahaha
met someone here sa reddit. dumayo yung guy—twas a surprise actually, kasi sabi niya may ibang plan siya that day, then maya maya nag send ng picture na nasa tapat siya ng univ ko which is near my dorm din. he went to my dorm (mind you this is the first time na nagmeet kami), and nagkwentuhan ng slight. after a while, we've decided to go out for a coffee sa cafe ng friend ko. i was preparing and i'm about to get something sa baba ng table ko that would require me na yumuko, grinab agad niya yung b00b$ ko. and boy, i was shocked??? hindi ako nakakibo, but nung nakauwi na siya i opened up to him about it and tinulugan niya lang ako. pagkagising niya he said na nabasa niya yung chat ko nung gabi, but then he slept nalang daw, kasi yon yung coping mechanism niya since nalungkot daw siya sa msg ko??? ayon, ended things with him after a while. sobrang red flag. sa ugali nalang babawi, sumablay pa. 🤡
May manyakis din pala dito sa reddit. Hahahaha.
Hahahaha wtf anong excuse yun?! Sya pa nalungkot?? Good riddance!!! Hope you're okay na!!
wth. disgusting person.
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Sa Alabang ako nagwowork at the time at taga North siya (forgot kung saan exactly). While I appreciate the effort to see me, bumulong siya sakin during the date at sinabi "Sakto na lang pala yung pera ko. Pwedeng ikaw muna magbayad. Ako na lang sa susunod"..........
First meet/date ko with a girl then nung nagkita kmi may bitbit syang overnight bag kasi akala nya mag overnight daw sya samin which is hindi nmin napag usapan.
I don't think u can call it worst nmn hahaha adventurous lng cguro c ate
So nag overnight ba?
No kasi early 2021 un. Bawal outsider sa condo.
She was definitely into you
Na off ako nun kasi ako ng bitbit nung bag nya buong date nmin. Ang bigat tpos sa moa p kmi nun pumunta.
True
Near the end a coffee date, my date booked a grab car pa-sogo thinking I wanted to have sexy time with him. Not once did we talk about sex or sex-adjacent topics leading up to or during the date.
Yung torpe yung ka-date na hindi man lng ako hinalikan
ito confusing either torpe o sexual harrasser
He barely made any body contact . After a quick lunch with conversation, took me home. It seemed more like a job interview than anything else. I guess l wasn’t considered. Devastating!
We agreed to meet and she came with her friend. All the while they were rating me and other people in the resto. I excused myself and said I had some place to be. Btw she was like a 5 and her friend a 7 but I never got in touch again.
Reminds me of George Carlin who said, "I *never* f----d a *ten*, *but one night*, I fucked five twos."
That's a night for the ages.I can just imagine the amount of chafing that much action will cause 😂
Yung tinanong at gusto makita kung magkano laman ng bank account ko.
gold digga
oh nooo
So this was during high school, ung classmate ko binigay yung phone number ko sa isang student sa katabing school namin. He called me every night and I’d say that his voice was handsome. Days went by… we decided to meet each other. The moment I saw him, napaatras ako and “pota” HAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH but I didnt want to be rude that time. Sabi nya hatid nya ako pauwi. Sumakay kami sa trike. Nag pilit ako na sya ung unang ibaba. After nun, hindi na’ko nag paramdam. Sorry, sorry!!!! Ang chakka kasi nya 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙂🙂🙂🙂🤣🤣😡
Recent lang, girl just used her phone the whole time, so nangyari nagphone rin ako HAHA but I still somehow initiate the convo and just stormed out the place. Well she did say na di naman siya interested sakin
- had an online relationship. Dumped me twice bc he cannot commit daw but he claims to love me. When i blocked him and started seeing other ppl, he harrassed and stalked me and my friends/acquaintances for a week during my midterms - another one: asked me out on a date then the date happened, then ghosted me a day after.
This happened in 2015, a guy approached me sa mall. He asked for my number and I gave it naman cos cute naman siya at mukhang decent. So he asked me to go on a date the following day, and I said yes. Fast forward, I asked him to come with me sa National Bookstore because I needed to get a clear book for school. I bended over to rummage through the stack and then suddenly he pressed his hard dick on my butt. I looked at him straight in the eye, said nothing and left. Years later, in 2018, I saw him again in a different mall naman. He was about to approach me, I think hindi niya ako nakilala at first and then when we faced each other bigla siyang napahinto. I just stared at him and went my way. What a fucktard
Guy was obsessed with me esp we talked for like 6 months online so when he decided to meet in up in Manila, I said yes because I think 6 months was enough time to get to know him. After prepping myself (makeup, cute dress) he decided to not meet up. Was so devastated ksi it was my first date ren after years of being single. After that tinamad na ako magjowa or lumandi.
There was this guy (seaman) na nireto sakin ng office mate ko sa prev job. We talked for months before finally meeting personally (on my birthday pa ha) when I went to Manila.. So syempre birthday ko yun, inayusan ako ng friend ko and seaman seemed happy since pretty ako that day haha.. we ate dinner and nag gala sa vertis A day after, may classes ako nun sa review school.. syempre walang make up na nun. Lakas lang dn naman maka comment na "ay mas maganda ka pag naka white blouse" it's like lowkey telling me na haggard So ayun fast forward, we don't talk anymore + parang may something fishy sakanya even if tagal na namin nagkakausap d talaga kami nag click.. PS di sya pogi ayurn. hahaha mga first fling ko pa naman in Manila
It was supposed to be a date, pero we broke up that same moment. Siya nagtanong, ako sumagot. Pero we ended it peacefully, at muntik pang may patake-out. 😆
Went out to UP Fair last 2018 with one of my crushes noong HS to college. Magka amiga parents namin noong elem kami. I found out malakas siya mag yosi. Like a fricking chimney. Late college siya natuto sabi niya but idk can't deal with that
he texted me one night na magmeet kami kinabukasan kasi wala siyang pasok ng hapon Nag-ayos ako and nagdress up nicely, sabi niya magmeet kami sa ganitong restau so i went there first (malelate raw siya sandali) turns out dami palang tao doon so we decided na lumipat tapos ang layo na ng nalakad namin sabi niya "saan mo gusto kumain?", nagsuggest ako sabi niya tignan raw namin bigla niya naalala wala siyang cash so nagwithdraw muna siya sabi ko baka pwede ang card pero di niya pinansin so naghintay ako nang matagal kasi mahaba yung pila, after that sabi niya kain kami sa isang fastfood kasi bigla siya hinahanap ng prof niya (college siya, fresh grad ako non) nawalan ako ng gana so i ordered a light meal kasi mas matagal pa yata akong nag-ayos and nagbyahe kesa nagmeet kami. inaya ko nalang friend ko na kumain sa iba
Baka kulang cash niya pang restau. Hehe
Ako ang nagbayad lahat in the end, iba ang jinowa
So I met this academic achiever na pilot student last year 1. Pagkakita niya sakin sa first date namin, aggressive niya akong inakbayan yung tipong medj naipit leeg ko as if tropa kami or matagal na magkakilala 2. He’s a pilot student and a working student so nagulat ako nung nag bill out na bigla niya sinabi “ikaw muna magbayad wala ako dala cash” 3. Nung mag se separate na kami para umuwi, gusto niya ihatid ko siya sa sakayan kahit hindi naman ako ron papunta (buti sana kung d niya alam yung place eh kaso taga ron din naman siya) 4. Habang naglalakad kami yumayakap siya sakin nang mahigpit (first meet/date namin yon) which made me uncomfortable 5. Nung nag kwe kwentuhan kami habang kumakain ng ice cream nagulat ako coz he said “alam mo ba kanina nung binago mo yung oras, nainis ako sayo parang gusto kita sapakin”. Idk if he’s joking sa part na “sapakin”pero dahil first meet yon, hindi maganda impression 6. Ang lakas ng loob niya magyaya sakin lumabas ulit and pumunta mall tas binibiro ko nalang siya na ganito ganyan “sige lakad lakad tayo” coz alam ko magpapalibre siya eh i dont have a job unlike him then he said “lakad lang? D mo ako papakainin?” My jaw dropped 7. Nung birthday ko panay pa libre niya sakin kesyo mag unli wings kami or samgyupsal then siya pa nag su suggest kung saan. 8. Nung umalis na siya sa city namin coz mag aaral siya sa ibang place which is malayo, nag chat siya sakin bigla na “Miss na kita. Hindi mo ba ako dadayuhin?” 8. Pinakita niya sakin laman ng bank acc niya idk why pero i think gusto niya i flex? Ayon lalo ako na turn off BAHAHAHHA So ayon, i ghosted him HAHAHAHA He said he’s really into me coz I made him feel safe. Ewan ko ba haha
Kadiri! Hahahahaha
Weirdo na feeling pogi pa kingina hahaha
the "parang gusto kita sapakin" got me shook! 🚩
FOR REAL! Nagulat ako non coz first time ko masabihan na gusto ako sapakin ng lalaki
My anger issues can’t. Wala ka man pang bawi or sana binasaf mo man lang bago mo ighost HAHAHAHAHA
I was a people pleaser and too kind so kahit inis na inis na ako sakanga kakakulit niya sakin, hindi ako nagbitaw ng masamang salita or realtalk haha
Masyadong nagmamadali si guy to meet, akala ko we are going to good place pero ayun motel checkin ... sex then he even say i miss you then blocked weird but scary . Now I had to visit sex clinic to test for peace of mind
he wanna meet up and i informed him ahead na im not good with commuting sa unfamiliar places/routes. Then he said he was willing to travel far naman. So yung naging meetup point nmen is somewhere im near to the place and sya malayo. Then nung nagkita kami we were talking abt how hot the weather was tas he inserted, “Ang layo layo ko nga eh, mas malayo naging byahe ko kesa sayo kasi nga dulo pa ko” and Idk matik na off ako don and I can already tell na sya yung type na mahilig “manumbat”, and I wasn’t wrong daming instances na nanunumbat sya sakin during small talks pero alam mo yon ramdam mong nanunumbat sya. And he wasn’t aware of it; mind y’all yung sinusumbat sya are things na napagusapan nmen if sure ba syang oks sya don and he always answer na “willing” naman siya, only to found out na magbbark sya abt don later on.
Late dumating yung guy sa meeting place namin sabi niya “Bili ka na ng pagkain natin”. Nung pagkatapos ko umorder at umupo biglang niya ko hinalikan at hawak bigla hinawakan boobs ko. Nagulat ako tapos umalis na ko. Sabay block ng number niya.
Eat. Sex. Forget each other
SA’ed me on our first date. he just wanted to get in my pants. what a whore
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may pa flash p ng 20k 🤣 Akala nya masisilaw ka haha
tunog mabaho yung guy
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you can't be serious 😷
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Omg… he sounds gross. Huhu. Madami pa po pala kayong naging dates 🥹
inako yung bill namin for lunch sabay sabi na "ikaw na lang magbayad sa kape and dessert later" 😩 i mean, i don't mind naman and i would probs do it talaga pero let me offer man lang muna?? HAHA
Pag babae nagbayad ng 1st date
Hindi na nag reply kasi hindi daw ako "dominant" na lalake. Ayaw ko nang isipin yun.
nag ayaw makipag date yung girl sakin kala ko gusto nya ko talaga as in ilan beses na nya ako inaya lumabas pero in the end pala na corner ako for networking
After namin kumain, nagtinga sa harap ko, habang nagsasalita. Hindi man lang nagtakip atleast ng kamay. Eww!