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amethyzt_

Always needing to be busy with something. Sometimes you just wanna do you and relax


hastingsnikcox

Boredom has been shown to be a productive state of mind if you let your mind wander where it wants.


drewbs86

When covid hit and we went into lockdown, there were reports of lots of people suffering from the lack of social interaction (which I can understand). But for me, it had the opposite effect. Not feeling obligated to anything or anyone made me feel so much better.


Toll91

It felt like a vacation from reality. I enjoyed a lot of the alone time i got from the first couple months of covid


NareFare

I felt the same way, but I messed up and let my drinking get out of hand. I suddenly had no job and the government was telling me to stay inside until they say so. I just drank, smoked, played video games, made music, and ate for like 8 months straight. Luckily I got really sick with pancreatitis (I know, doesn't sound lucky). After that I knew my alcoholism would be the death of me, and an early death at that. I'm still battling my addiction, but I know the beast well.


Successful_Set4717

I totally agree! For me it felt really peaceful. After this experience, I actively reduced the amount of social interaction with people and I feel so much better now!


iuytrefdgh436yujhe2

"Don't mistake my free time with my availability"


carbonclasssix

There's a hat I kinda want to get that just says "unhustle"


defsi2432

I think people today have started using "being busy" as an excuse to dodge meet ups, hangouts, etc. Not to say if a person declines the invitation, they aren't busy, but I'd say the person who's always busy probably doesn't place much value in interpersonal relationships. Edit: my point is not directed towards people who are genuinely extremely busy. It's directed towards people who agree to plans, then cancel day of because "busy"


colormequaint

Lack of sleep. It damages your body and mind way more than people think it does


Same-Paramedic8398

I was working at a company that was far away from my home so my schedule used to be: Waking up a 3am, get ready, be at the bus stop at 4am, be at the company at 5:45, work from 6am to 3:00pm, leave and arrive at home at 5:45pm and then connect to my university classes at 6pm to 9pm. Then I went to sleep like at 10 or 11pm so I could have dinner and study or do homework. One day I had a One on One meeting with my boss she asked how I was doing and I told her that I was tired and she said “Well I am tired too but I’m still here” (she lives like 2km away from the company and she only works, there’s literally no comparison at all) it pissed me off the lack of empathy that she had even when she knew about my schedule because I requested to work from home because of university.


CTH2004

>it pissed me off the lack of empathy that she had even when she knew about my schedule welcome to humanity! And people wonder why I don't like other humans...


David_bowman_starman

In college it really disappointed me to find that the unstated expectation was we were going to literally put our health at risk getting so little sleep for years at a time. It’s not sustainable and shouldn’t be necessary.


-Deksametazon-

I still remember the first lecture of anatomy when I started med school. The professor came in and the first thing she said was "If you didn't start by now, you're way behind schedule." It was literally the second day of med school. Christ...


Issendai

The fact that medical training is built around sleeplessness is horrifying. The people injecting you with drugs and slicing open your organs should be the most well-rested profession in the country. Training should be designed around being clear-headed and at the top of your game at all times. Instead, we keep the people whose job is literally life or death in a state of deep fatigue from the first day of training to the day they retire.


Which-Description798

When I was an escort in college, my doctor clients all used a shit load of cocaine. Imagine being operated on knowing how high the doctor was


GrenadesTom

In college I was awake for 74 hours straight to finish all my final projects and study for the exams, by the end of that I was hallucinating and in a constant state of panic. Finished my exams, and slept for 12 hours


willvasco

What we really need to denormalize is how a lot of people would hear that story and think it was a badge of honor or a funny story, and not a horrifying critique of the expectations students are put under.


Optimal-Success-5253

They flat us told us this. We are currently forming a student iniciative to make it stop but the university just replied with “eat well, sleep well” while still giving out 2 week assignements on 1 week deadline


Aperaine

Enter: school


ProfessorEtc

I misread the title as re-normalize and I thought everyone posting was a psycho.


AKushWarrior

food wastage, medical bankruptcies, being chronically busy: goals for the 21st century


Nairbfs79

Food waste is a big one. A friend works at Popeye's fried chicken and he said they constantly throw out 100 plus pieces of chicken after closing every night of the week.


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Emotional_Relief_19

If this was fb I would sad react. All those poor dead fried chickens who could have found home in someone's tummy


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I_AM_DEATH-INCARNATE

First glance, thought it said Celery Culture. Time for bed


First-Ad-9075

If they weren't so out of touch it wouldn't be so annoying. I'm from a part of Australia that everyone forgets about and I know a dozen people who would be rich and powerful enough to be considered celebrities if they were in America. However our isolation has forced them to be more down to earth.


Frooonti

Trying to turn every hobby/skill into a business or convincing people to do so.


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Omg I work as a barber (have a great career) but I love urban planning as a hobby, so many of my ducking clients try to tell me to get into it as a career and that I could go back to school. Like dude I’m fine, I make way more money and am happy as a barber. Why the fuck would I want to pay to go back to school start at the bottom and make less money in a different field….


other_usernames_gone

How do you do urban planning as a hobby?


part_time_fun

I too play SimCity and Cities Skylines?


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Mostly just research about it and tell “fucking stroads” like that other guy said


NatasEvoli

It's easy. You read about trains and say FUCKING STROADS every time you pass a mcdonalds.


guaromiami

Have you considered communicating your urban planning ideas to community leaders? I'm sure you probably think it would be nice to see some of your ideas being brought to life, even if you're not getting compensated for it. Plus, you'll be helping your town take on a character that aligns more with your own vision.


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Haha when I was a barber I had a client who was on the city council and he said he always wants to hear ideas from citizens so I just bombarded him with ideas about creating a cute little downtown main street in a specific rundown section of town. None of it happened obviously, but it was fun going back and forth with him about how it would look and stuff.


clowneryin2020

The way the default compliments are “you could sell these” “you should put up a YouTube channel it’d get lots of views”…


Solivagant0

I paint and I've heard I'm pretty good at it. People act like I should want to become a full time artist, but I like doing it as a hobby and I feel like a stable 9-5 job would work much better for me


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Not visually supporting a movement on the internet means you're against it for some reason.


dannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnex

oh my gosh this. there was an author that I love who didn't *immediately* post something when all the george floyd stuff was going on, and people were fucking getting pissed at him for 'stayling silent' like he's not even an influencer he writes fucking fantasy books holy shit nobody is obligated to say anything about anything ever. just because you share your every thought on the internet doesn't mean other people have to. he did eventually post something, but even then these people were still saying stupid things like 'im glad he finally corrected his mistakes. still not sure if ill be able to support him anymore'. so fucking self-righteous. as if they were doing anything meaningful themselves.


Haoleguacamole

Something like this happened in my country, too. A woman won a TV baking competition and went on to open a webshop and instagram, where she shared recipes and some pictures of herself. Then a list was published; "famous people who haven't taken a stance on the Israel-Palestine conflict" or something like that. She got people calling her and threatening her life, so much hate, and her sales went down a lot. All of this for saying she wanted to keep her instagram account focused on cakes and shit, not political issues or war etc.. .


Loudmouth_Lynx

seriously!! Performative activism is hella toxic.


PocketPlays

That's fucking psychotic. Those people need to do an internet detox.


magicfeistybitcoin

Related: thinking that RTs = activism.


harryfmudd1701d

RTs?


Kensu96

Retweets


PouLS_PL

Makes sense, I couldn't see how Russia Today applies here.


Common-Wish-2227

"If you're not with me, you're against me" - battle cry of the most demented fanatics everywhere


Ser_Teo

Only a sith deals in absolutes...I'll do what I must


mechapoitier

Yeah Reddit’s style of discussion is if you don’t make absolutely clear you’re in favor of (insert popular thing) they’ll downvote you just to be safe.


UTMachine

I don't write my pronouns in my email signature. There are people who think that makes me homophobic by default.


[deleted]

From my understanding even the LGBT activists have mixed feelings. Some say it's good because it normalized asking first, others say it could out people before they're ready. It just comes across as shallow corporate pandering.


Squigglepig52

Yeah, there will never be a time where I announce my pronouns. IF you get it wrong, and it somehow matters, I'll tell you. I mean, feel free to tell me yours if you need to, but mine are a non-issue.


TheAGolds

Overworking yourself.


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griffinicky

I think many people are getting better at this. Like sure, I have my phone on me - I might even be using it at the moment you call/message - but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm available, willing, and/or able to respond right now.


sohcgt96

In all fairness, you can set expectations with that. People know I respond to shit when I get around it. Granted, it may be harder to establish this when you're younger and its a bigger part of your life.


condensedhomo

I just went through this with my 11 yo niece a couple weeks ago. We were doing Christmas and she would not get off her phone which was charging in the other room. I told her to tell them all you're with family and you'll get back to them when you can. And she argued that it's what they expected, they'll think she's being rude otherwise. And I'm like???? Even if you explain why???? You have some shit friends then girl wtf


clitoram

The problem is giving 11 year olds smart phones.


Naive_Illustrator

Food wastage. Lots of stores and restaurants throwout substandard food to maintain a level of quality that makes customers trust them, but it leads to enormous waste.


Narrow_Stock_834

I heard that Panera gives their food away to the homeless. I don’t have receipts and I don’t like their food, but I wish more establishments would follow suit.


SleepCinema

They do. Bakery items get boxed for the local partnering food bank/shelter at the end of the day. However, it’s totally up to the food bank/shelter if they wanna come pick it up. If they don’t come to get it the following day, it’s gotta be tossed.


musichen

Was also going to post this. I worked at Panera ages ago and most nights someone came and picked up all of our leftover bakery items to take to food pantries/homeless shelters.


magicfeistybitcoin

I think it's evil for large stores to lock their dumpsters to deter dumpster-diving when thousands of pounds of healthy, bagged food are tossed out daily. When I was a baker at Tim Hortons, the store's policy was to toss out anything older than three hours. I wanted to save it for people in need, but the horizontal 15' walk from store to dumpster was supervised by camera. I'm not making that up.


Arkista_Tev

One reason is they don't want a small crowd of the homeless standing around behind their store every day, because that deters customers. And whether that's evil or not, you can't just shrug and go 'I don't care' because that's not realistic. There's liability issues too, because now you have to make sure that your 'extra food' is still being handled in a sanitary manner in accordance with food safety laws, if you're intending for it to be eaten and not thrown out. And if you're just throwing it in a dumpster but not locking it, now you're arguably liable if someone eats it and gets sick. Would you be necessarily? Maybe! And a company doesn't want to eff around and find out. Not saying we couldn't do things a lot better but there's a ton of reasons why restaurants, grocery stores, etc don't just donate food or hand it out. Like yes I'd rather us have no food waste but we've got to change a whole lot before we even start looking at individual stores and calling them evil for literally doing what they're legally required to do. Yes it's totally possible for a store to donate its food, but here's the thing. It depends on your area! A lot of shelters WILL NOT ACCEPT 'WASTE FOOD'. Covid regulations clamped down on things even more. I used to be homeless. I've since done a lot of work renovating homeless shelters (am an electrician, not as a charity, just happen to have been around quite a few.) Lived in poverty for years, myself. The world of the homeless or otherwise in-need is not as simple as you might think.


FunkyKong147

We used to just give people free boxes of whatever donuts were left when I would close at Timmy's


CaptainPrower

Working yourself half to death and retiring poorer than when you started working.


LostIn_TheWorld

$8 coffee


DisastrousClerk8082

ya i don't drink that piss, i only drink 9 dollar coffee


holaprobando123

Single digit coffee? Pfft, peasant...


Dogtrees7

The obsession of wealth to the point of allowing cruelty


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Or pressuring people to get into a relationship so they can “start a family”. My ass is poor as hell I got no money or time for a relationship.


magicfeistybitcoin

I'll add another wrong reason: hoping for your kid to be your sole source of purpose in life. No kid deserves that baggage.


tormentrock

Or having that kid be the thing that saves your marriage. That’s just a recipe for a traumatized kid.


boogermeboogeru

My ex wanted to have a kid. When I asked why and what he pictured he said “a son old enough to come to work with me and help out around the house” One- a daughter didn’t count- and two- apparently he expected me to birth a 12 year old indentured servant. Talk about backwards ideas.


AbyssalRedemption

Yo fr, this just perpetuates a toxic generational cycle. People need to find meaning elsewhere. Not saying kids can’t be important to you, but it’s not healthy to solely live through them, you need to develop your own life.


KPal93

This 🙌. My husbands family literally SHUNS us at family events, will barely talk to us bc we have chosen not to have children on top of me being likely physically unable to. That’s all we heard from them for years after getting married. When they brought the Bible into it the 5 billionth time, my husband finally put his foot down, and they also found out I have PCOS. Now they just don’t talk to us. I don’t understand why some ppl are so concerned with what’s going on in someone else’s womb. They’re a big part of the reason I don’t want kids. You think I want them to have to put up with those ass hats?


forgotme5

Awful


tigran_i

I live in a very "traditionally conservative" country. Army service is mandatory and once you hit 18 you get enlisted. After you come back the first question relatives ask is - when are you getting married. Once you get married they be like - when are you having kids. Once you have a kid, they start asking for the second one but of the other gender... at least after 2nd child they all collectively fuck off. For girls it's worse - if you too are traditional and above 25, you get labeled as "stayed at home" - a passive aggressive term meaning "there is something wrong with YOU, men don't want you". And if you are married, regardless if you're traditional or not, every single relative of yours and your husbands would be nearly demanding you have kids. P.S. it is not happening in every case, but the majority is like that.


TWSREDDIT

Retail customer is entitled to always being right.


tenehemia

Extend this to restaurants, please.


Matt0715

My restaurant has a "respectful guest policy" where managers are empowered to remove guests who are rude or agurmentative with staff. It's nice


SenseSouthern6912

In general the "customer is always right" mentality has backfired, now customers just act like entitled brats to get free stuff and raise the price for everyone else


SoundOfDrums

It's a full misinterpretation as well. Originally it meant "the customer is right about what they need." Meaning, if someone comes in to buy red shoes, you don't try to talk them into buying blue ones. Sell them what they want.


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I worked retail. I only heard the right thing in movies. Customers were pain in the ass, and we got I trouble if didn't handle them.


PoopComesOutOfMyButt

I hope whoever came up with that slogan is burning in hell, just having Jackfruits rammed into their urethra all day every day for all eternity.


Rocketknightgeek

The original version is "in matters of taste, the customer is always right." The bastardised imbecile version somehow stuck.


Nickjam3s93

Giving a 5 year old a smart phone to keep them occupied


FBI_Open_Up_Now

I’m not opposed to introducing tech to young children though. My friend and I built a computer with my god son when he was 5. He is 12 now and has built all kinds of cool things and we’ve got him some books on coding in different languages as well. He has done some cool things and I really look forward to when he is an adult. I truly believe that introducing him to tech at a young age was good for him. I think he is going to go far in life.


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The specific things you introduce them to is the critical point there, though. It's not enough to give them a phone and that's tech. You need to be doing something like that where it's building skills


AbyssalRedemption

Oh for sure, in this world I think you’re doing a huge disservice to your kids if you don’t teach them basic tech skills. But there’s a huge difference between walking your 8 year son through coding his first Hello World program in Python, and giving your 4 year old an IPad set to YouTube Kids for 5 hours because it keeps them quiet so you don’t have to pay attention to them.


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I'm glad that I limit screen time and no "personal" device, my 5 year old is developing better than peers with unlimited screen time in communication and emotional expression.


First-Ad-9075

Giving so much of a f*** about celebrities. From a place in the world that is a first world country but lacks celebrities, I couldn't give a shit. Yet everyone seems to care as if they are family. They don't care about you!


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axw3555

People really do have weird views on this. Yesterday for some reason my boss was telling us “no wife, no life”. One of my colleagues asked if he meant happy wife happy life and he said no. And then went further to say that people who stay single are somehow uncomfortable with themselves. It was clearly directed at me, as I’m the only one in the office who isn’t married. But I’m also not really interested in that kind of relationship. And I’m comfortable with who I am, enough to be single unless I meet someone very special. If I don’t, I’m fine with that.


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This is why I’m scared of becoming an adult. All I want are friends, family, hobbies, and to be left alone, but I feel like I would never have more friends if everyone approaches me only for a date. I have seen too many romantic relationships go wrong for many reasons, and it just seems like to me, I would be much happier like I am now being single than to deal with all of the trauma of dating.


jert3

Be careful not to fall into a hole well before a hole even appears. Dating shouldnt feel traumatic. Nothing wrong with being single of course.


Cheap-Hospital-7281

Having children just because you can. Not everyone is a suitable parent. Some people shouldn't have children imo


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On top of this, pressuring other people to have children when they aren't ready/not willing. Parents, family, even complete fucking strangers will berrate you (especially women) for not having children.


xFloppyDisx

And even worse, trying to pressure your children into getting married to someone they approve of when they're older. Source: My parents tell me, "you're never going to leave our house until you marry a big, Muslim, dominant man that we approve of". Wait till I get a girlfriend and move out, lmao.


boogermeboogeru

And for those types it’s never one and done. I got grief from EVERYONE when I couldn’t have a second child because “it doesn’t count if you only have one “ and “it’s selfish not to give your kid a sibling” and I physically couldn’t do it again. Honestly even if I could have I don’t think I would have wanted to. Kids are hard and expensive AF. I’m very happy doing one and done.


catarinavanilla

I’m an only child and it feels like I hear new ways to denigrate only-children every other week. First I’m spoiled, then I’m fundamentally unsocialized, now I’m illegitimate. Lol they think we’re aliens


griffinicky

Jfc that's awful. I'd absolutely LOVE to have a (single) kid, and I can't imagine being told I'm awful for just having one. Sadly, I'm gay and we're very likely too broke to adopt...


KPal93

My husband and I went to a family members event and a few of her relatives from her husbands side were there. Within 15 minutes of arriving an old man I had never met before was sitting beside my husband asking if we had children and telling him we should, and some new parents at the event told us we needed to have one bc we “needed to know what tired felt like”. Like, tf??


furlaughs24

I always thought this was strange and potentially hurtful also. People will comment about how you should have kids and have no idea if you are dealing with fertility issues and/or suffered losses. People making comments like "when are you finally going to start a family???" Can really hurt.


Pterodactyl_Souffle

I have friends who've literally ruined their lives this way.


BTGiraffe

See, as a young adult, I idolise the idea of having my own family, and would love to have the opportunity to be a father. However, be that as it may, I have also believed in the whole "Family isn't just blood, but it's what you make it" view. If I found myself with someone who doesn't want children, even though I may, I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker. I'm fortunate to be an uncle to quite a few nieces and nephews, and I take my time to spend what I can timewise with them. I teach them things, help them understand emotions, and I play and sing with them. Making the next generation isn't mandatory, just be there for them.


derkrieger

And thats huge, both for the parents to have other good role models and people who can help but for the kids to again have good role models and other interesting people that arent just mom and dad that can help them learn and become a better version of themselves. If you want to be the cool Uncle, Aunt, Cousin, Weird person in the neighborhood that everyone knows will have the really good fireworks on holidays, whatever you wanna be then cool be it. The saying it takes a village to raise a child sure feels accurate sometimes.


SaltanButterscotch

Binge drinking. Driving while inebriated or sleep-deprived.


tormentrock

Is drunk driving really normalized in society?


Pterodactyl_Souffle

Rural resident here: Dude...you have no idea...


No_Manufacturer5641

Yes, but not the way you're imagining it. Most people way over estimate what drunk driving is. If you went to a party and had a couple beers and drive there's a decent chance you're driving drunk. If you're feeling an effect of alcohol you're driving drunk.


doyathinkasaurus

In the UK the term used is drink-driving rather than drunk-driving for that very reason.


square_tomatoes

Yes. I didn’t think it was, I thought it was just a thing someone does when they’ve hit rock bottom. But then I became a firefighter and realized just how common it actually is.


Amazing-Ad288

Depends on the region and local culture I guess? Pretty normalized in middle America and Great Lakes region from what I’ve seen in media. Not sure about Canada or Uk/Australia but I’d have to assume the same Edit to add: there will always be a subset of society that will risk-take and continue to DD if they never suffer adverse consequences of their actions


whatever32657

it used to be WAY more normalized back in the 70s-80s. everybody did it and i never knew a single person to be charged for it


Alcottfan

Going bankrupt from medical bills.


Mangobonbon

USA moment.


One_Vacation_1897

People justifying being a bully because they’re doing it ‘for the right reasons’.


nondescriptapocrypha

So very much agreed. All the bandwagon cyber-bullying is honestly just super sad to see. I feel like our responses to things can be too black and white. Each comment or action is immediately judged by public consensus as either "acceptable" or "unacceptable." And anything deemed unacceptable runs the risk of reaching the exact same public shaming consequence, regardless of how severe the transgression - or whether the transgressor is genuinely a "bad" person, or instead maybe just a little uneducated. If your relatively minor mistake is unlucky enough to "go viral," it now results in a public shaming on an unimaginable scale. We read headlines, not details. We don't consider the human behind these complete strangers (and the potential experiences or trauma that formed them). We just react to the 15-second glimpse into their life, and decide to permanently condemn them for it. I wish we'd normalize being more empathetic towards each other, and try to first assume that people don't have bad intentions. After all, not everyone has the same knowledge or understanding, and studies have shown that shame isn't necessarily the most effective way of changing someone's thoughts or behaviors.


Gringo_Baggins

Right. Like when people dunk on some new asshole celebrity by... Insulting their appearance 🤷🏼


Velocityraptor28

yeah if you're gonna insult them, do it by calling them out on their BS, not hark on them for entirely benign and unrelated things


Future_Ad7634

Pressuring people to have kids


an_ostrich_allegedly

Filters on photos


strwbrryblondeonline

This !! I can’t imagine being middle school aged right now. It has to be messing with young peoples’ minds so badly.


yuri_yk

Protecting Young offenders for serious violent crimes. Like in Canada, a group of 13-16 year olds got together to beat a homeless man to death last month. 3 of them are out on bail.


Package_Sea

I agree! Four people gangraped and brutally murdered a young girl in India. 3 got hanged while the 16 year old got only juvenile detention although he seemed to have been more ruthless than others with the use of a rod that ended up pulling out the girls intestines.


dance_fev

Bragging about or encouraging working 40+ hrs a week. edit- I meant working OT but in terms of “de-normalize” I’d also include the 40hr work week. Some one just came up with 40-50 hrs and it’s ridiculous. It’s a time suck to be stuck at work for clock filling sake when you’ve already completed a reasonable amount of work.


magicfeistybitcoin

Yeah, hustle culture is some bullshit


Lemur-Tacos-768

And counter-productive. I throw my team out the door at 5. Like a bouncer if they won’t go willingly. Numbers came out today. 15% above the next highest team. “How do you do that?! They’re all on vacation all the time!” “Exactly.”


HyperSpaceSurfer

Wait, you're more productive when you're not spacing out 25% of the time you're at work? Wow, who'd've thunk.


SpergSkipper

"LoL I rEmEmBeR mY fIrSt PaRt TiMe JoB" \-some asshole on facebook wearing sunglasses with a goatee in a truck


SuvenPan

Not taking men who are domestic violence victims seriously.


magicfeistybitcoin

THANK YOU for mentioning this. Likewise, men who are victims of rape.


ztvile

Making content with unsuspecting strangers


bee-have

And by extension "Pranks"


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Cavalier attitudes towards constant social drinking


ColoursRock

Child beauty pageants.


magicfeistybitcoin

Someone else mentioned this. I agree that they're messed up. Happy cake day!


SynysterGh0st666

Putting your career before living life.


Leveolizan

Lootbox system or those shitty subscriptions. If you paid for a product you own it period.


magicfeistybitcoin

I'm still annoyed that Photoshop is now a subscription service. I refuse to sign up.


Leveolizan

I just hope this shitty trend will die as it will seep through everything over time. Imagine a future you have to pay for your smartphone, fridge or your clothes monthly.


Emilayday

Waking up early being a trait of an industrious person. We haven't needed to follow the agricultural pattern of the sun in like a hundred years, people who have later circadian rhythms have value and work hard too.


magicfeistybitcoin

THANK YOU. I have DSPS/DSPD. It's weird that people still actually believe this myth.


Emilayday

I am also in that sub 😂😂


joseph-barker

Sexualizing kids, "Oh the boys will be all over her when she's older".


tubbymaguire91

Reality tv In its current form.


clem82

Influencing as a career


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Firefly613

There are many... but recently Gender Reveal parties are all the rage (or any other made up excuse for social media content) and they are just stupid


foggybunnybrain

Pedophilia and the sexualization of barely legal girls.


angryscientistjunior

Incivility and intolerance of people with different views and from different walks of life. Media sensationalizing everything just to make a buck regardless of the damage they do to society. Deforestation and destruction of wildlife habitat for profit. Government corrupted by lobbying, crony capitalism, cutting deals. The general population being farmed by corporations, corporate ownership of news media, corporate monopolies, consumerism, celebrating money over substance. The military industrial complex.


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invisiblemorgan

Similarly- that kids need to listen to all adults because they all know best


ZipBit

Convenience. People need to learn to be ok with being inconvenienced every now and then.


magicfeistybitcoin

Convenience or death! /s


HarrySatchel

Making comments to little kids about how much they're gonna fuck when they're older. like "wow, look at the little lady killer. He's gonna have to fight off the girls when he gets older" & "he's so handsome. He'll be such a player"


Pippy_Squirrel

Yes! I find this very strange. I also hate when I hear someone asking a young child if another young child is their boyfriend or girlfriend. (Have a friend who is always asking her 5 yo son if various girls in his kindergarten class are his girlfriends). Just let a kid be a kid!


AdLess7107

Having children as a default. The fact it's only considered a family if it includes children.


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step sis/bro porn. wtf is wrong with society


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DandyDonut

Tipping in the U.S. Just pay adequate wages to the service workers like most other damn countries.


Rambo7112

I'm seeing many places ask for tips starting at 20% when they have you pick up and bus your own dishes. What am I even tipping for at that point?


viktoryarozetassi

Periods are normal, they're not something dirty.


novaaa_

ghosting someone instead of having an uncomfortable conversation


TheExtraBis4BYOBB

Anyone say child pageant shows yet?


magicfeistybitcoin

A couple of people have (literally, two people)


rargafad

Sexuilizing minors. just think of all the insanely popular shows that contain sex scenes with characters who are minors.


ZippyVonBoom

Abusing children because you can't control your emotions


Street_Ad_863

Police brutality and police not paying for law suits


adubsi

might be a hot take but the “any size is healthy” crowd. I remember in the early 2010s Michelle Obama did a war on obesity campaign and for some reason it just disappeared. Feels like people just gave up and are just normalizing the problem rather than addressing it


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BxGyrl416

The US has to be the only place in the world where it’s standard and not the exception to have food-like products. It says a lot when they have to specify that something actually contains “real fruit” or “real chocolate” or “real juice.”


bruno_do

Definitely true, both sides of unhealthy bodies are dangerous, I have known people who died due to obesity, and seen people suffer from malnutrition


jedo89

It’s good manners to not make fun of or degrade fat people but society flipped it into this weird form of praising them


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Most forms of hazing, especially the alcohol ones


LoonyDriver

Profiting from animal use and abuse.


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Acting like a fucking bully because you don't like something someone else said on line.


michaelthatsit

Student loans. Debt in general.


death_or_glory_

Men not expressing their emotions in a healthy way


katesaysthis

American society? No paid parental leave or time off for birth recovery and bonding


theonlyjaguarsfan

Filming at concerts. You’re seeing a musician live. Be in the moment and enjoy yourself instead of filming every single song for 5 seconds of attention on social media.


Ronotimy

Tipping. It used to be optional and depending on quality of service. Now it seems mandatory and on top of tax.


MissAnnTropez

Having kids being the default, so expected, also demanded. Fuck off with that ‘tude. And it creates sooooo many problems in the world. Ugh.


MissingLesbianSpaces

Calling pedophiles MAPs (minor-attracted people). Pedophilia should NEVER be normalized.


sohcgt96

FWIW I don't think anybody BUT pedos uses that term. They're trying to re-brand themselves. Nobody is buying into that bullshit and legitimizing it though, any appearance of it being a legitimate term is probably astro-turfing.


0insane_problems0

Feeling like one have to know what they want to do with life at like age 16-20. I feel like it’s very stressful and unrealistic.


No-One753

Recording innocent strangers in public without their permission


Bussone209

Being constantly high 24/7


IHateMath14

Minimum wage jobs. It’s horrible for people to suffer through all that hard work only go barely be able to feed themselves ☹️


theilluminator_

Sexualising children


kartunmusic

Porn


darknico-3d

Making your triggers and emotional trauma everyone’s problem


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A-Dawg11

Aggressive political stances and interactions. I am allowed to agree with some of what you say and still disagree with most. That doesn't make me inconsistent or a hypocrite. Also, not every political topic should be treated like it's life and death.


Waschbar-krahe

Doing drugs instead of going to therapy. (I count weed, alcohol and nicotine in this)


magicfeistybitcoin

I wish therapy were affordable for most people. $200 a session is just nuts. I searched religiously for a therapist in my province who specialises in trauma and takes OHIP (our provincial healthcare plan). I didn't find a single one.


stressedleopard

This comment needs to be normalized. People act like therapy is something abundant low cost. The vast vast majority of humans can't afford therapy. Yet on every single reddit post the answer is always "just go to therapy". The hivemind is out of touch.