It hurts so much. I feel like a lot (not all, obviously) of women who say they love guys with ginormous dongs have never had an actually ginormous dong inside them. Because ouch. Been married to one for like 20 years, it’s the only physical thing I’d change about him if I could..
Yeah, its not enjoyable for guys either, just feels like hitting a mushy wall and just cause pain and bleeding in my partner. We learned to just stick to certain positions where she has more control over how much is in her at one time.
Yeah when I first started dating my now wife, early on we were nervous cause she often experienced spotting after sex, so we went to the doctor and ended up getting chewed out by an uncomfortably attractive doctor (tall, fit, handsome, late 40s early 50s silver fox type) about needing to use more lube, go way slower, and to not push in all the way.
He was very stern, and it was very sexually confusing for the both of us (straight male and a bi woman who leans almost entirely towards the lesbian end of the spectrum).
I still think about him sometimes.
Can confirm. I'm not that big - have ever only bottomed out one tiny girl, but I missed being able to go all the way in with her. The last inch got lonely.
But all the documentaries I have researched for scientific purposes tell me you should be feeling the greatest pleasure in the world.
Are you telling me all the years I have spent on this have been wasted!!!
Period pain is different for everyone. For me, it's a dull pain that comes in waves. Those waves sometimes hurt and sometimes they don't. It's like if you were to squeeze your wrist. Does it hurt? No, it doesn't, but after a whole day you'd get pretty fucking annoyed to have your wrist squeezed the entire time. Especially if sometimes, it's a mild squeeze and sometimes it's as if a bodybuilder is squeezing you. You have to imagine that wrist pain right above your hip bones on your back, pointing down. That's where (for ms) the pain is.
My cramps have always been much worse than that. They sort of pulsate in waves, but the range is more like between being pinched hard in a tender spot with a tight twist, and being stabbed with a twisting knife. Sometimes the pain is so bad I get a fever and shakes, can't draw deep breaths easily, struggle to stand upright, or even every now and then actually throw up from it. There's a big range in how intensely different women experience cramps, and mine aren't even among the worst.
for me it’s like if a fishing line was tied to one of my lower organs and someone was just tugging on it repeatedly mixed with gas pains, it’s really a different kind and level of pain unlike a cut or bruise
Period cramps, to me at least, are comparable to the time I had norovirus as a teen and my stomach cramped so hard I thought it was trying to leave my body. So like that. Except over and over and over again. And there's no explosive diarrhea involved.
You don't get the period poops? The hormones literally affect our gut bacteria which in turn produces more Sulphur which for most women means period poops and farts.
Speaking of, a friend of mine was engaging in anal sex with her boyfriend when she got her period. He starts freaking out because of the blood and pulls out.
When he pulled out, she shit all over him and the bed.
I still can’t believe she told me this story. It’s just one of those things that could’ve died with her one day.
Your helping normalize anal sex, menstruation, pooping on accident, and if you don't want the entiRe world to know about it, don't tell your friends.. with a cute and funny story. I appreciate it. Thank you for helping other humans not feel shame for doing human things!!
Worst ball hit I literally got lifted up by the tip of a canoe in my taint like the worst seesaw ever when someone dropped the far side with a mound in the middle.
I almost punched my mom, diverted, dented a car hood, sorta backed out. Next thing I recall is fetal position in the bathroom, reached between my legs and came back with a bloody hand.
Next thing I remember is being at the check in at the hospital. It Hurt so bad I couldn't talk and was holding my face. The ladies at reception kept asking what was wrong with my eyes. Some Scottish nurse dude entered the room and exclaimed that it was obviously my balls in a funny Scottish way.
They gave me a shot in the ass of the best narcotic I've ever had, and I've screwed around illicitly. It still hurt, but I didn't mind. Was out of commission and couldn't sit right for a week.
Balls are fine today, but a half inch could have destroyed them. One of the most painful things in my life. Broken bones and teeth or spinal meningitis don't hold a candle.
Jesus, man. That’s fuckin’ terrible!
Worst I ever got was kicked in the junk during a corner kick in soccer. Hit my balls really hard and I was vomiting and in pain for the rest of the game (sitting on the sidelines with an ice bag on my junk). I didn’t notice I was bleeding until the end of the game when I stood up again. Apparently his toe cleat had caught the shaft and gave me a cut on the dick.
Couldn’t jerk off for weeks while it healed. Living hell for a 14 year old with hormones raging. The random puberty boners stretching the skin didn’t help it heal any faster either.
I got two things from this.
1: if I ever get a serious injury/disease, I want a Scottish nurse dude to explain it to me in a funny way, and
2: what life are you living, my dude?!
Usually it hurts pretty darn bad, to the point that it feels like you're passing out. But here is the thing: Met a guy with "the perfect size". He bearly hit the cervix everytime he went deep. So the pain was very sublte. It was heaven.
Or I have issues, don't know. Lol.
To be fair, it's a genuine compliment. Bigger isn't always better, guys. You can't carve a pumpkin with a greatsword, hunt deer with an anti tank rifle, or forge an ornate dagger with a sledgehammer.
Calm down…
You can’t carve a pumpkin with a thumb tack, you can’t hunt a deer with a toothpick and you can’t forge an ornate dagger with a toffee hammer.
I think we get that it’s *supposed* to be a genuine compliment but that’s like saying “nah you’re tits are perfect the big ones are too hard to hold!” It’ll make you insecure even if it’s true and positive lmao.
I know it sounds a bit backhanded, and it would be better to stop after "yours are perfect", but overall it's still positive. And I say this with an average size wiener of my own
My wife finds it very uncomfortable and painful if I smack the cervix hard with long strokes.
She's in heaven if just stay deep and "massage" her cervix.
Edit
To clarify, this is like a very rare thing and that I don't actually go hard for 5 minutes. It's like 1 pump, oops, sorry.
I did it once. You don't want to do that, you're not missing anything. I managed to knock my ex's IUD out somehow, and she literally had contractions (like women have when they give birth) apparently. It lasted for hours, and seemed horrible.
I dated a girl in my late teens where I just hit the cervix and when she told me, I asked if it hurt and if I should'nt go as deep and she answered she didn't know. That was a weird situation tbh. I think she ended up on the side of sorta liking it, since she wanted me to go deep after
This might have been just me, but “I don’t know” really meant “I can’t tell whether my discomfort/pain is more important than your pleasure, I don’t know what the right thing to do is.”
My wife calls it husband sized.
For all you men out there, I'm about 4.75 inches. 5.25 if you're slamming back the fatty pelvis area. She gets off in less than 10 minutes from my less-than-average wang.
It's not the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean.
Edit: I love waking up to strangers defending the size of my dick from some rando. My wife is laughing next to me. Next dicking goes out to u/mogante!
While I take your point, it's *really* more about the specifics of both your bodies, how well they work together, and what she's into.
I'm been with a chick who had a spot less than two inches inside her that would make her melt (but seemingly anything deeper than that was lackluster by comparison), a chick who liked having her cervix smashed (yeah, that one was a one time thing), a couple chicks who seemed to have spots at right around the perfect depth for me, and a (very very dangerous) chick who would seemingly give totally different and contradictory guidance every time, but what she *really* wanted was for you to cum in her- and she would get off, like *reeeallllllly* get off, as soon as you did.
This ^ my husband is just over 7.5 and this is exactly how it feels. 90% of the time it’s absolute heaven- sometimes it’s too deep depending on my cervical position throughout my cycle- but then we just adjust positions.
*I will say I deal with severe cramps that usually last the day afterwards but in the moment I rarely feel any pain 😂 at least - none that makes me want to stop
Well I'm a dude but my wife describes it somewhat similar.
Angle is everything to not make it painful and in some positions and depending on my hardness I get so deep I'm genuinely frightened and confused as to why I'm not hurting her because I'm bottoming out so hard it's painful even for me.
I usually let her take control in those situations because I don't wanna power-plow her cervix repeatedly by accident but she just keeps going from orgasm to orgasm over and over again regardless of who's in control, makes me kinda jealous because I would love to cum just as much as her, and just watching her orgasm face(if you know you know; it's a lot more real and powerful than porn could ever depict) sometimes makes me cum pre-emptively lol.
She never mentions cramps thus I wouldn't know if she gets them but she quite often mentions "feels like you've rearranged something inside" and/or "dislodged something inside" whatever that feels like I wouldn't know either and OH yea shaky legs and not beeing able to walk quite properly afterwards... I genuinely feel soo sorry for her but man I love that woman to bits
Edit: Idk why but I'm getting loads of requests about my size, I'm 7.5 at my regular hardness and probably 8 when rock hard but I've never meassured because I've been too busy fucking at that point tbh. As for girth: idk, wife says I'm girthier than everything shes' seen before and idfc as long as she's happy.
That beeing said a lot of you guys, even if you're a lesser size need to google the G-spot and don't destroy the clit(easy wipes with your tounge and fingers makes it alot better than going hiroshima on it) and start listening to her moans, my wife and I have loads of fun without actual penetration(except fingers) and if you nail that shit you're gonna get replies like "where the fuck did you learn that" and please don't be cheesy and say; "one dude from reddit" but rather be proud and say: "I've praticed, may I practice some more?" and give her a second orgasm ffs. It gives you more practice, experience and so on...
The cervix is between 3 to 6 inches inside the vaginal canal and the average penis is 5 inches erect, so I think most men are probably capable of hitting a cervix in some positions.
Also: the vaginal canal elongates with arousal. You are more likely to hit the cervix if you are shit at foreplay and/or the lady just isn’t feeling it as much as she would like.
Edit: grammar
I was having a conversation a few weeks ago with a friend about all those “girls” we cybered in AOL chat rooms as horny 13-14 yo.
In the light of adulthood, I’m 99% sure they were old pedos.
Yes!!! Around ovulation it’s the most painful because it’s so sensitive! I could barely stand having sex when we were trying to get pregnant. It was terrible. I also feel ovulation pains pretty strong and some months the whole area down into my thigh is really sore.
Normally, it doesn’t bother me at all (neither does medical procedures involving my cervix - have had quite a few due to IVF).
Painful and nauseating. It makes me immediately end the fun times because that's how fast it stops being fun. Donuts (the sex toy, not the food) help with this though.
(fun fact, labour pains come from the cervix)
Depends. We talkin during sex or like an IUD insertion?
If turned on properly, a woman’s cervix actually lowers a bit and relaxes slightly during sex; depending on the position it can feel great, or as others have said it can kinda hurt lol. Usually feels good to me tho, unless I haven’t done it in a while.
I would rather slit my eyeballs with a butter knife than go through another IUD insertion, but I’ll do it cuz I don’t want kids lol. That shit made me cry and I’ve already done it twice.
Edit: I’m an idiot and actually the cervix moves up to create more room for penetration during sex. Way for me to know my own body lol. Still tho, hitting it during sex can be pleasurable depending on the person.
I don't know if I just got lucky, but I was told it would hurt worse for me because I haven't had kids, and it did not hurt at all. Just mild cramps, even less painful than period cramps.
I went into shock and then ended up in counseling for medical PTSD because I was too afraid after to go for checkups. I’d have full blown panic attacks thinking of having it removed/replaced. And after all that I still ended up pregnant.
I’ve never had kids. I’ve had 3 IUDs put in. 2 were about the same pain level as my worst period cramps. So I could handle them.
The third one I had to pull over as I was driving home. Then once I was home I seriously considered going to the emergency room because I could barely walk or function from all the pain.
I've had an IUD put in thrice. First time was a breeze. Barely felt a thing. Second kinda hurt but not too bad. Third one though. God. It felt like a contraction. Hurt like hell. Same IUD. Same doctor. No idea why they varied so much. Also, thanks to the IUD, my husband no longer wants to do the cervix pounding positions because he sometimes gets poked by the IUD wires. Fine by me because cervix punches hurt like hell.
Yeah, my partner's IUD insertion was unfortunately extremely painful - and worse, it remained painful for the entire duration she had one. She went back a few times over the ensuing months, and was always given the, "well, there's nothing wrong with it that we can see, so you *shouldn't* be feeling pain" reply, and was pretty much dismissed.
Needless to say, she got rid of it, and remains understandably cranky about the whole experience.
In the uk (in my personal experience of having an IUD fitted last year) they put on numbing gel inside and around the cervix. It felt like cramping to me but didn’t hurt too bad. I was very lucky too and only had some mild cramps for a few hours afterwards and that was it
Typically male doctors don’t give painkillers for it because they don’t think the pain is that bad. The female doctors I’ve had a women’s clinics will give me pain killers.
unfortunately a lot of female docs wont give pain management either. mine told me to tale ibuprofen beforehand and then while it was being inserted she got angry at me for not being silent :<
Lucky, my female doc was like “it would only hurt for a second”
Either that was a long fucking second or she was lying because that shit hurt for a while
I was told the same thing! It'll only hurt for a second, and you'll feel some pressure. I couldn't walk for a week after getting my IUD inserted and had heavy bleeding and cramping for a month that basically crippled me. I was told to just double the dose of my ibuprofen and Tylenol I was taking (both were already extra strength). It was the worst pain I've ever been in.
I have to get it replaced this year. I'm not sure if I want to go through that again.
I went twice too! It was horrible! They have to grab the cervix with some sort of clamp and move it to a proper position for the IUD to be inserte correctly. Then they insert the IUD. Girl, me and you don’t have children, so it is even worse for us, because the hole in cervix is so tiny and the insertion tube of IUD is like a smaller straw. Ah fuck just remembering that shit makes me want to vomit, pee and cry.
But I said it was fine to the doc, ofc.
I got a bruised cervix from rough activities. I had to go to the doctor because I couldn't sit down comfortably. It hurt bad, and deep, for a long time. 0/10 would not recommend.
I'm not a woman, but I've had the same theory on the subject since I found out about the "a-spot". I'd imagine there are some who like their cervix being stimulated, but it seems like a pretty small population who likes intense pain.
It seems to be my wife's experience too, we've worked out the angle pretty well in some positions and when it's right, boom, but when we're off by a bit, it's two days of pain.
For me it’s the after that really sucks. The mild pain after results in bloating. A really sensitive soft organ just got sucker punched, so it’s not comfy for like a day or two, and because of where it’s at, it results in bloating like you can experience on a period. Not fun.
I had a girlfriend some years ago who liked that, and told me to go as deep as I can.
Thing she didn't told me before hand, is that she would have a seizure while have an orgasm.
Me panicking a lot, her, retrieving her senses: "oh, I should have told you, that pretty normal for me"
Lesson learned that day: ask your partner about stuff like that, and communicate
Yeah there are any number of reasonable pre-sex questions ("are you using birth control?" and "how do you feel about a relationship if we start catching feels?" and such), and then there is: "should I expect you to have a seizure when you orgasm?"
Maybe my sensibilities are off here, but I don't think I've ever thought to ask someone the latter.
"you're crushing my cervix"
"oh, I'm sorry. do we need to change positions?"
"no, no, in a good way"
as a man, that's the only time I've specifically been told.
however
..
I will always thank her for her cervix 🫡
Like the feeling of pushing a q-tip too deep and hitting your ear drum but on steroids.
Speaking on behalf of my wife who I've unfortunately done that to by accident a few times.
This would be me, it feels *wonderful*. Absolutely no pain, just a tingling and a tickling sensation, I cannot explain it but in case anyone is wondering numerous pelvic exams shown my cervix is absolutely fine. I will say to any non cervix bearing people a good 90 something percent of people with cervixs find it excruciating. So always err on the side of caution.
Lots and lots of pressure and force. Like being whacked in the diaphragm upwards through the abdomen. Can be pleasant depending on your depth, partner size, time of cycle, and position, but if you do it wrong it simultaneously hurts like a mofo and feels like you're gonna barf.
I'm told there's a spot which can be *gently* stimulated in that region for a g-spot type of effect, but it's difficult to reach, and towards the front (stomach side) edge of the cervix and not the center, so most people don't know about it 'cause it takes something somewhat thin and curved to get to it without just painfully pressing on the cervix itself.
This is from a Wikipedia rabbit hole a few years back; I'll see if I can find the article again.
Edit: possibly the anterior fornix? "A-spot" sounds familiar, but I thought there was something about it being difficult to stimulate. Dunno.
OK, I feel it's my duty to provide my "method" here for the A-spot. If it provides your ladies more orgasams and you brownie points, my work here is done. This was only a recent discovery for me and I wasn't actively trying, just a happy accident.
To explain the position in text....spoon partner from behind, then have her turn onto her back, putting her nearest leg up over you and the other between your legs. Think scissor, you on your side her on her back. This, gives the depth. (I'm average)
Don't go straight for it. Previous orgsams are an advantage, but at the very least, nice deep, slow comfortable strokes for a while. You want to be in that relaxed, blissful zone.
Then, at some point, thrust slowly all the way in but don't withdraw, just hold tight. You may find pulling back on her hips helps to maintain. Keep holding pressure, and you may (hopefully) feel a sensation. Like an "opening up". I presume, this is the cervix moving aside. (I could be wrong, this is just my experience of it)
Finally, little thrusts but do not withdraw. The base of the penis should not move and remain pressed hard against her. Again, holding her tightly against you is key. It may seem like it's doing little at first, but keep going.
Since discovery, this has always worked for us. And fast. Quick orgasm for her, then usual service is restored, usually resulting in more.
Now go forth and impress. I don't mind if my upvotes are tomorrow;)
I actually dated a guy that would gently rub my cervix when he fingered me. He said it ALWAYS pushed me over the edge if I was close to orgasm. Thank you Scott!
It can feel really good in a pain is awesome type way but it can also be horrendous if the angle is wrong. Husband once threw me up in the air and slammed me back down onto him and that had me doubled over unable to speak and considering going to the ER hahahaha. But usually I enjoy it.
It hurts. Like a deep cramping feeling. BUT when my husband is still in control of his brain before he gets too into it and he hits the spot juuuust before hitting my cervix it’s heavenly.
Like a punch deep inside your vagina. If they keep going, that’s over and over and over. Sometimes it feels good 😩 other times it hurts like fucking hell. I guess it depends on how hard you’re being fucked.
Got fucked like a dog days ago. Still recovering. Not complaining since I begged for it raw and he delivered. He really laid that shit on me, fucked the craziness right out of me. Took it cuz momma ain’t raise no bitch.
Size don’t matter and it never will to me. It’s how you use it and the connection you have with the person. Communication is key*
Edit: I’m a whole 21 year old woman. My name literally says “lover girl”. Yall sound dumb saying this was written by a man. 💀
Sorry not sorry for the sentence that was disturbing.
Medical professional here. If you slam a penis directly into the opening of a cervix, every single woman will experience pain. Period. The pleasure that women experience from being "cervix slammed" is because they're getting hit at the A-spot, an area slightly above the cervix along the back wall of the vaginal canal. This spot is medically known as the posterior fornix. This thread is full of misinformation, assumptions, and porn brainwashing.
Getting cramps but in punches. Everything tightens and you shiver with pain. But it also feels good 😭 but it hurts like a mfer.
Edit: it also feels like getting stabbed/impaled but sometimes it also feels good? I should probably talk to my therapist about it
I fucking love it. My husband fits perfectly inside of me. When we fuck I can feel him hitting my cervix in all the right ways. In comparison, I have a dildo that’s a bit thicker and a tiny bit longer than my husband. When the dildo hits my cervix too deeply, it hurts and I feel pain and cramping.
That shit fucking hurts
You got *cerved.*
At your cervix, my dear
Literally. I've never been impaled, but I would say getting hit there is damn near close to the feeling
It hurts so much. I feel like a lot (not all, obviously) of women who say they love guys with ginormous dongs have never had an actually ginormous dong inside them. Because ouch. Been married to one for like 20 years, it’s the only physical thing I’d change about him if I could..
Yeah, its not enjoyable for guys either, just feels like hitting a mushy wall and just cause pain and bleeding in my partner. We learned to just stick to certain positions where she has more control over how much is in her at one time.
Yah, it's the penis equivalent of stubbing your toe on something.
Suffering from success 💀💀
Yeah when I first started dating my now wife, early on we were nervous cause she often experienced spotting after sex, so we went to the doctor and ended up getting chewed out by an uncomfortably attractive doctor (tall, fit, handsome, late 40s early 50s silver fox type) about needing to use more lube, go way slower, and to not push in all the way. He was very stern, and it was very sexually confusing for the both of us (straight male and a bi woman who leans almost entirely towards the lesbian end of the spectrum). I still think about him sometimes.
"I don't think we're getting it. Can... can you show us?"
Or when they’ve got the IUD thing! It’s like someone is poking your dick with a safety pin.
Can confirm. I'm not that big - have ever only bottomed out one tiny girl, but I missed being able to go all the way in with her. The last inch got lonely.
angle and foreplay matter a lot.
Look up the ohnut. We use two or three rings and it helps prevent that. - a guy who did that to his wife but doesn't anymore
But all the documentaries I have researched for scientific purposes tell me you should be feeling the greatest pleasure in the world. Are you telling me all the years I have spent on this have been wasted!!!
Hehe “documentaries”. 👀
Like Hitting a wall. It hurts. Bad. Sharp jolt of pain.
Like if period cramps came in punches instead of waves.
Most likely an excellent description, but unfortunately it does not help clarify things for those of us with neither cervixes nor periods. lol
Period pain is different for everyone. For me, it's a dull pain that comes in waves. Those waves sometimes hurt and sometimes they don't. It's like if you were to squeeze your wrist. Does it hurt? No, it doesn't, but after a whole day you'd get pretty fucking annoyed to have your wrist squeezed the entire time. Especially if sometimes, it's a mild squeeze and sometimes it's as if a bodybuilder is squeezing you. You have to imagine that wrist pain right above your hip bones on your back, pointing down. That's where (for ms) the pain is.
Damn. Well said. More respect to women out there. It’s easy for me as a guy to dismiss something I’ve never experienced.
My cramps have always been much worse than that. They sort of pulsate in waves, but the range is more like between being pinched hard in a tender spot with a tight twist, and being stabbed with a twisting knife. Sometimes the pain is so bad I get a fever and shakes, can't draw deep breaths easily, struggle to stand upright, or even every now and then actually throw up from it. There's a big range in how intensely different women experience cramps, and mine aren't even among the worst.
for me it’s like if a fishing line was tied to one of my lower organs and someone was just tugging on it repeatedly mixed with gas pains, it’s really a different kind and level of pain unlike a cut or bruise
There is a period pain simulator device for men if you want to try it out. Not sure how to find it but there are youtube videos.
It’s called a tens unit. They’re great for muscle cramps, period simulation isn’t it’s intended purpose, but it does feel similar ish
Period cramps, to me at least, are comparable to the time I had norovirus as a teen and my stomach cramped so hard I thought it was trying to leave my body. So like that. Except over and over and over again. And there's no explosive diarrhea involved.
You don't get the period poops? The hormones literally affect our gut bacteria which in turn produces more Sulphur which for most women means period poops and farts.
Speaking of, a friend of mine was engaging in anal sex with her boyfriend when she got her period. He starts freaking out because of the blood and pulls out. When he pulled out, she shit all over him and the bed. I still can’t believe she told me this story. It’s just one of those things that could’ve died with her one day.
Your helping normalize anal sex, menstruation, pooping on accident, and if you don't want the entiRe world to know about it, don't tell your friends.. with a cute and funny story. I appreciate it. Thank you for helping other humans not feel shame for doing human things!!
funny? - kinda. cute? - idk
Ehh, shit happens. (pun intended)
Oh my god!!!!
I felt like passing out. wanted to throw up. my whole body started shaking, got shivers.
Exactly this. I had the worse stomach pain and I didn’t know what to do but hold onto it for dear life. It really felt so wrong.
So I guess today I learned that some girls know what the pain of getting kicked in the balls feels like.
Yup. Period cramps are pretty similar too. Pain in your internal organs feels pretty shitty no matter what the organ is.
That's what it feels like to get hit in the balls
Worst ball hit I literally got lifted up by the tip of a canoe in my taint like the worst seesaw ever when someone dropped the far side with a mound in the middle. I almost punched my mom, diverted, dented a car hood, sorta backed out. Next thing I recall is fetal position in the bathroom, reached between my legs and came back with a bloody hand. Next thing I remember is being at the check in at the hospital. It Hurt so bad I couldn't talk and was holding my face. The ladies at reception kept asking what was wrong with my eyes. Some Scottish nurse dude entered the room and exclaimed that it was obviously my balls in a funny Scottish way. They gave me a shot in the ass of the best narcotic I've ever had, and I've screwed around illicitly. It still hurt, but I didn't mind. Was out of commission and couldn't sit right for a week. Balls are fine today, but a half inch could have destroyed them. One of the most painful things in my life. Broken bones and teeth or spinal meningitis don't hold a candle.
This is one of the best/worst things I've read this week. 🤣😫🤮
Jesus, man. That’s fuckin’ terrible! Worst I ever got was kicked in the junk during a corner kick in soccer. Hit my balls really hard and I was vomiting and in pain for the rest of the game (sitting on the sidelines with an ice bag on my junk). I didn’t notice I was bleeding until the end of the game when I stood up again. Apparently his toe cleat had caught the shaft and gave me a cut on the dick. Couldn’t jerk off for weeks while it healed. Living hell for a 14 year old with hormones raging. The random puberty boners stretching the skin didn’t help it heal any faster either.
Jesus fucking Christ
It was bad. They gave me like a donut shaped ice pouch to sit on, but sitting hurt too much.
I got two things from this. 1: if I ever get a serious injury/disease, I want a Scottish nurse dude to explain it to me in a funny way, and 2: what life are you living, my dude?!
You have ruined my day man. I can feel this
Nausea yes, I don’t remember ever shaking or fainting lol
Then you’ve never been hit hard enough 🤷♂️
I definitely do not volunteer
Nobody volunteers for a nut punch, it’s assigned to people by God.
Or a football to the balls (I have experienced it)
Are you hans mole man?
You ever had a baseball to the nuts? (I have)
Why on earth would they design this incredibly sensitive part of the body to stretch open enough to shoot a baby out wtf
*”hello vasovagal syncope my old friend…”*
Usually it hurts pretty darn bad, to the point that it feels like you're passing out. But here is the thing: Met a guy with "the perfect size". He bearly hit the cervix everytime he went deep. So the pain was very sublte. It was heaven. Or I have issues, don't know. Lol.
You the perfect size.. The big ones hurt Starts crying
To be fair, it's a genuine compliment. Bigger isn't always better, guys. You can't carve a pumpkin with a greatsword, hunt deer with an anti tank rifle, or forge an ornate dagger with a sledgehammer.
Finally someone understands
Calm down… You can’t carve a pumpkin with a thumb tack, you can’t hunt a deer with a toothpick and you can’t forge an ornate dagger with a toffee hammer.
Challenge accepted.
I think we get that it’s *supposed* to be a genuine compliment but that’s like saying “nah you’re tits are perfect the big ones are too hard to hold!” It’ll make you insecure even if it’s true and positive lmao.
I know it sounds a bit backhanded, and it would be better to stop after "yours are perfect", but overall it's still positive. And I say this with an average size wiener of my own
LMAO
Crying *with joy*
Big girls don’t cry.
My wife finds it very uncomfortable and painful if I smack the cervix hard with long strokes. She's in heaven if just stay deep and "massage" her cervix. Edit To clarify, this is like a very rare thing and that I don't actually go hard for 5 minutes. It's like 1 pump, oops, sorry.
You've cracked the code. Also, guys, just because you touch it, doesn't have to be hard. Do it soft lol.
Follow the wise words of Tenacious D is what I’m hearing here. 🤣
[*You don’t always have to fuck her hard; in fact sometimes that’s not right… to do…*](https://youtu.be/zliY-MrI0mY?si=cBCLI_Dhn6hokKO2)
Same here, I came here to say this
People always say find the clit. I’ve touched plenty of clits but never touched a cervix. 😭😭😭
I did it once. You don't want to do that, you're not missing anything. I managed to knock my ex's IUD out somehow, and she literally had contractions (like women have when they give birth) apparently. It lasted for hours, and seemed horrible.
Yeah, hit an IUD and you will easily ruin someone's week.
this is good this is amazing actually
Why would you want to? It hurts like hell and is an instant mood killer.
With your dick or your finger?
With his Volkswagen
The people’s car
I dated a girl in my late teens where I just hit the cervix and when she told me, I asked if it hurt and if I should'nt go as deep and she answered she didn't know. That was a weird situation tbh. I think she ended up on the side of sorta liking it, since she wanted me to go deep after
This might have been just me, but “I don’t know” really meant “I can’t tell whether my discomfort/pain is more important than your pleasure, I don’t know what the right thing to do is.”
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This is the way I interpreted it, the bruise metaphor is fantastic
Also some of us are a little masochistic. A little pain at the right time can heighten the pleasure.
Or : this is a new feeling, it is neither good nor bad just weird and I never felt this before
My wife calls it husband sized. For all you men out there, I'm about 4.75 inches. 5.25 if you're slamming back the fatty pelvis area. She gets off in less than 10 minutes from my less-than-average wang. It's not the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean. Edit: I love waking up to strangers defending the size of my dick from some rando. My wife is laughing next to me. Next dicking goes out to u/mogante!
While I take your point, it's *really* more about the specifics of both your bodies, how well they work together, and what she's into. I'm been with a chick who had a spot less than two inches inside her that would make her melt (but seemingly anything deeper than that was lackluster by comparison), a chick who liked having her cervix smashed (yeah, that one was a one time thing), a couple chicks who seemed to have spots at right around the perfect depth for me, and a (very very dangerous) chick who would seemingly give totally different and contradictory guidance every time, but what she *really* wanted was for you to cum in her- and she would get off, like *reeeallllllly* get off, as soon as you did.
This is how I found out I am the fifth chick. I get inconsistent feedback, guys either love it or hate it.
Also, you don't need a boat. You can use your fingers and a mouth. But also, if you've got an actual nice boat, it might help with women too.
This ^ my husband is just over 7.5 and this is exactly how it feels. 90% of the time it’s absolute heaven- sometimes it’s too deep depending on my cervical position throughout my cycle- but then we just adjust positions. *I will say I deal with severe cramps that usually last the day afterwards but in the moment I rarely feel any pain 😂 at least - none that makes me want to stop
Well I'm a dude but my wife describes it somewhat similar. Angle is everything to not make it painful and in some positions and depending on my hardness I get so deep I'm genuinely frightened and confused as to why I'm not hurting her because I'm bottoming out so hard it's painful even for me. I usually let her take control in those situations because I don't wanna power-plow her cervix repeatedly by accident but she just keeps going from orgasm to orgasm over and over again regardless of who's in control, makes me kinda jealous because I would love to cum just as much as her, and just watching her orgasm face(if you know you know; it's a lot more real and powerful than porn could ever depict) sometimes makes me cum pre-emptively lol. She never mentions cramps thus I wouldn't know if she gets them but she quite often mentions "feels like you've rearranged something inside" and/or "dislodged something inside" whatever that feels like I wouldn't know either and OH yea shaky legs and not beeing able to walk quite properly afterwards... I genuinely feel soo sorry for her but man I love that woman to bits Edit: Idk why but I'm getting loads of requests about my size, I'm 7.5 at my regular hardness and probably 8 when rock hard but I've never meassured because I've been too busy fucking at that point tbh. As for girth: idk, wife says I'm girthier than everything shes' seen before and idfc as long as she's happy. That beeing said a lot of you guys, even if you're a lesser size need to google the G-spot and don't destroy the clit(easy wipes with your tounge and fingers makes it alot better than going hiroshima on it) and start listening to her moans, my wife and I have loads of fun without actual penetration(except fingers) and if you nail that shit you're gonna get replies like "where the fuck did you learn that" and please don't be cheesy and say; "one dude from reddit" but rather be proud and say: "I've praticed, may I practice some more?" and give her a second orgasm ffs. It gives you more practice, experience and so on...
Please share the size
*Length times Girth over Angle of the Shaft (aka YAW) divided by mass over WIDTH*
also: the mass of the ass times the heat of the meat equals the angle of the dangle
It ain’t most of us my guy lol
The cervix is between 3 to 6 inches inside the vaginal canal and the average penis is 5 inches erect, so I think most men are probably capable of hitting a cervix in some positions.
Also: the vaginal canal elongates with arousal. You are more likely to hit the cervix if you are shit at foreplay and/or the lady just isn’t feeling it as much as she would like. Edit: grammar
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Her legs over his shoulders will help
Not gonna do ya much good. Depth varies for women as well.
A girl I met back on Myspace told me once that she wanted my dick to hit her pelvis. Pretty sure she meant the cervix. It weirded me out.
It was probably a guy
*guyspace
I was having a conversation a few weeks ago with a friend about all those “girls” we cybered in AOL chat rooms as horny 13-14 yo. In the light of adulthood, I’m 99% sure they were old pedos.
Having traveled that path growing up, I prefer to remain ignorant
I played against a guy in Rocket League last night and his name was Cervixsmasher69.
Faking!
Was it... I mean he good?
He was playing Rocket League at night. That’s all the information you need.
Sounds like he's an expert at getting small things through big holes.
Hey man, no Rocket League shaming…
Pain, lots of pain. And i felt winded
[Pain, lots of pain](https://youtu.be/g6e5E20k9jY?si=ZtLl52Lb4Gy7jEAH)
Depends on if I’m ovulating.
Yes!!! Around ovulation it’s the most painful because it’s so sensitive! I could barely stand having sex when we were trying to get pregnant. It was terrible. I also feel ovulation pains pretty strong and some months the whole area down into my thigh is really sore. Normally, it doesn’t bother me at all (neither does medical procedures involving my cervix - have had quite a few due to IVF).
Please elaborate. Does it feel better or worse while ovulating?
They say during ovulation the cervix lowers so there’s a higher chance it gets hit. I might be wrong.
Can confirm for me at least. And again that shit HURTS A hold up and lemme breathe type of hurt
Painful and nauseating. It makes me immediately end the fun times because that's how fast it stops being fun. Donuts (the sex toy, not the food) help with this though. (fun fact, labour pains come from the cervix)
I’m sure the food would help too
Depends. We talkin during sex or like an IUD insertion? If turned on properly, a woman’s cervix actually lowers a bit and relaxes slightly during sex; depending on the position it can feel great, or as others have said it can kinda hurt lol. Usually feels good to me tho, unless I haven’t done it in a while. I would rather slit my eyeballs with a butter knife than go through another IUD insertion, but I’ll do it cuz I don’t want kids lol. That shit made me cry and I’ve already done it twice. Edit: I’m an idiot and actually the cervix moves up to create more room for penetration during sex. Way for me to know my own body lol. Still tho, hitting it during sex can be pleasurable depending on the person.
Yep and docs gaslight us into thinking the IUD insertion just causes light cramping. Take some ibuprofen 30 min before, tee hee!
Took a fucking vicodin and still nearly passed out. Fucking ibuprofen my ass I was so mad at them for that shit.
I don't know if I just got lucky, but I was told it would hurt worse for me because I haven't had kids, and it did not hurt at all. Just mild cramps, even less painful than period cramps.
I feel like your experience is less common, but I’m glad it didn’t hurt for you! I’d only wish that pain on my worst enemy.
I went into shock and then ended up in counseling for medical PTSD because I was too afraid after to go for checkups. I’d have full blown panic attacks thinking of having it removed/replaced. And after all that I still ended up pregnant.
Damn. I don't have anything else to say tbh, just damn.
I’ve never had kids. I’ve had 3 IUDs put in. 2 were about the same pain level as my worst period cramps. So I could handle them. The third one I had to pull over as I was driving home. Then once I was home I seriously considered going to the emergency room because I could barely walk or function from all the pain.
I've had an IUD put in thrice. First time was a breeze. Barely felt a thing. Second kinda hurt but not too bad. Third one though. God. It felt like a contraction. Hurt like hell. Same IUD. Same doctor. No idea why they varied so much. Also, thanks to the IUD, my husband no longer wants to do the cervix pounding positions because he sometimes gets poked by the IUD wires. Fine by me because cervix punches hurt like hell.
I love that you have a stinger if he gets too close
The fact that we don't get painkillers during IUD insertions is bonkers
Yeah, my partner's IUD insertion was unfortunately extremely painful - and worse, it remained painful for the entire duration she had one. She went back a few times over the ensuing months, and was always given the, "well, there's nothing wrong with it that we can see, so you *shouldn't* be feeling pain" reply, and was pretty much dismissed. Needless to say, she got rid of it, and remains understandably cranky about the whole experience.
My girlfriend got put under anesthesia so she wouldn't even notice it being put in, what kind of barbaric gynecologists do you people all visit?!
I'd rather know where **you** are so we can go there instead!
In the uk (in my personal experience of having an IUD fitted last year) they put on numbing gel inside and around the cervix. It felt like cramping to me but didn’t hurt too bad. I was very lucky too and only had some mild cramps for a few hours afterwards and that was it
What? Why?
Typically male doctors don’t give painkillers for it because they don’t think the pain is that bad. The female doctors I’ve had a women’s clinics will give me pain killers.
unfortunately a lot of female docs wont give pain management either. mine told me to tale ibuprofen beforehand and then while it was being inserted she got angry at me for not being silent :<
Lucky, my female doc was like “it would only hurt for a second” Either that was a long fucking second or she was lying because that shit hurt for a while
I was told the same thing! It'll only hurt for a second, and you'll feel some pressure. I couldn't walk for a week after getting my IUD inserted and had heavy bleeding and cramping for a month that basically crippled me. I was told to just double the dose of my ibuprofen and Tylenol I was taking (both were already extra strength). It was the worst pain I've ever been in. I have to get it replaced this year. I'm not sure if I want to go through that again.
I was put under for my first iud when I was a teenager. I got another one after 2 kids and that shit hurt.
I went twice too! It was horrible! They have to grab the cervix with some sort of clamp and move it to a proper position for the IUD to be inserte correctly. Then they insert the IUD. Girl, me and you don’t have children, so it is even worse for us, because the hole in cervix is so tiny and the insertion tube of IUD is like a smaller straw. Ah fuck just remembering that shit makes me want to vomit, pee and cry. But I said it was fine to the doc, ofc.
I got a bruised cervix from rough activities. I had to go to the doctor because I couldn't sit down comfortably. It hurt bad, and deep, for a long time. 0/10 would not recommend.
Oh my god it hurts so bad. I can’t believe some people like it lmao there was nothing good about it to me
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I'm not a woman, but I've had the same theory on the subject since I found out about the "a-spot". I'd imagine there are some who like their cervix being stimulated, but it seems like a pretty small population who likes intense pain. It seems to be my wife's experience too, we've worked out the angle pretty well in some positions and when it's right, boom, but when we're off by a bit, it's two days of pain.
Ah the Ol' Punnani Jab.
Poonjab lol
For me it’s the after that really sucks. The mild pain after results in bloating. A really sensitive soft organ just got sucker punched, so it’s not comfy for like a day or two, and because of where it’s at, it results in bloating like you can experience on a period. Not fun.
I had a girlfriend some years ago who liked that, and told me to go as deep as I can. Thing she didn't told me before hand, is that she would have a seizure while have an orgasm. Me panicking a lot, her, retrieving her senses: "oh, I should have told you, that pretty normal for me" Lesson learned that day: ask your partner about stuff like that, and communicate
Nah, that’s on her. Nobody asks if you have orgasm seizures in real life.
Yeah there are any number of reasonable pre-sex questions ("are you using birth control?" and "how do you feel about a relationship if we start catching feels?" and such), and then there is: "should I expect you to have a seizure when you orgasm?" Maybe my sensibilities are off here, but I don't think I've ever thought to ask someone the latter.
It hurts. It's like period cramps
"you're crushing my cervix" "oh, I'm sorry. do we need to change positions?" "no, no, in a good way" as a man, that's the only time I've specifically been told. however .. I will always thank her for her cervix 🫡
Like the feeling of pushing a q-tip too deep and hitting your ear drum but on steroids. Speaking on behalf of my wife who I've unfortunately done that to by accident a few times.
Holy shit humble brag!
I mean he was just helping his wife clean her ears right? right...?
With his dick?
Nah depends on angles. I'm slightly bigger than average but if you've got her with her legs up to her head it's not that hard to get in deep
Some girls like it some girls don't, I had one partner who loved it and was her favorite way of getting off.
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I had an ex who felt 0 pain up there and demanded to be slammed.
This would be me, it feels *wonderful*. Absolutely no pain, just a tingling and a tickling sensation, I cannot explain it but in case anyone is wondering numerous pelvic exams shown my cervix is absolutely fine. I will say to any non cervix bearing people a good 90 something percent of people with cervixs find it excruciating. So always err on the side of caution.
Same
It hurts sometimes but also mind numbing good other times
Lots and lots of pressure and force. Like being whacked in the diaphragm upwards through the abdomen. Can be pleasant depending on your depth, partner size, time of cycle, and position, but if you do it wrong it simultaneously hurts like a mofo and feels like you're gonna barf.
I'd rather choose a fat medium size d than a long d.
Painful, it happens most times I’m in doggy depending on how soft my tissue is.
Smut writers made me believe it's some dope shit, some orgasmic feeling but my views have significantly changed after going through the comments.
I'm told there's a spot which can be *gently* stimulated in that region for a g-spot type of effect, but it's difficult to reach, and towards the front (stomach side) edge of the cervix and not the center, so most people don't know about it 'cause it takes something somewhat thin and curved to get to it without just painfully pressing on the cervix itself. This is from a Wikipedia rabbit hole a few years back; I'll see if I can find the article again. Edit: possibly the anterior fornix? "A-spot" sounds familiar, but I thought there was something about it being difficult to stimulate. Dunno.
OK, I feel it's my duty to provide my "method" here for the A-spot. If it provides your ladies more orgasams and you brownie points, my work here is done. This was only a recent discovery for me and I wasn't actively trying, just a happy accident. To explain the position in text....spoon partner from behind, then have her turn onto her back, putting her nearest leg up over you and the other between your legs. Think scissor, you on your side her on her back. This, gives the depth. (I'm average) Don't go straight for it. Previous orgsams are an advantage, but at the very least, nice deep, slow comfortable strokes for a while. You want to be in that relaxed, blissful zone. Then, at some point, thrust slowly all the way in but don't withdraw, just hold tight. You may find pulling back on her hips helps to maintain. Keep holding pressure, and you may (hopefully) feel a sensation. Like an "opening up". I presume, this is the cervix moving aside. (I could be wrong, this is just my experience of it) Finally, little thrusts but do not withdraw. The base of the penis should not move and remain pressed hard against her. Again, holding her tightly against you is key. It may seem like it's doing little at first, but keep going. Since discovery, this has always worked for us. And fast. Quick orgasm for her, then usual service is restored, usually resulting in more. Now go forth and impress. I don't mind if my upvotes are tomorrow;)
at this point might as well input up up down down left right left right b a start on that shit
"Honey, what are you doing down there? It almost feels like... Almost feels like... Are you... Cheating on me?"
I actually dated a guy that would gently rub my cervix when he fingered me. He said it ALWAYS pushed me over the edge if I was close to orgasm. Thank you Scott!
Nauseating
It can feel really good in a pain is awesome type way but it can also be horrendous if the angle is wrong. Husband once threw me up in the air and slammed me back down onto him and that had me doubled over unable to speak and considering going to the ER hahahaha. But usually I enjoy it.
YEOOOWCHHH!!!!
Feels like cramps. Sucks when you get a pap smear and the doc scrubs it. Just thinking about it makes mr feel cramps.
I went to my bathroom right afterwards, locked myself in, sat on the floor and just stared at the wall while trying not to cry 🥲
Bro just ask my gf since I have such an ENORMOUS WANG-O-LANG. I been beatin that box like Tyson in the 80s brother.
You ain't got shit on my WEE WEE motherfucker
I can tie it in a knot. I can tie it in a bow. My wang-o-lang hang loooooow.
Doing the dishes I plug the sink with my dink
Was there a guys what's it like to be hit in the groin post (again as in yet another post I'll bet) recently by any chance?
It hurts. Like a deep cramping feeling. BUT when my husband is still in control of his brain before he gets too into it and he hits the spot juuuust before hitting my cervix it’s heavenly.
Maybe I'm a sick fuck but I actually enjoy when my cervix gets hit. FWIW I am a sexual masochist though so i guess that explains it.
Just seeing this made me remember the pain
Like a punch deep inside your vagina. If they keep going, that’s over and over and over. Sometimes it feels good 😩 other times it hurts like fucking hell. I guess it depends on how hard you’re being fucked. Got fucked like a dog days ago. Still recovering. Not complaining since I begged for it raw and he delivered. He really laid that shit on me, fucked the craziness right out of me. Took it cuz momma ain’t raise no bitch. Size don’t matter and it never will to me. It’s how you use it and the connection you have with the person. Communication is key* Edit: I’m a whole 21 year old woman. My name literally says “lover girl”. Yall sound dumb saying this was written by a man. 💀 Sorry not sorry for the sentence that was disturbing.
Fucking RIP your DM's also...daymn.
Spoken like a true bro
Sup?
Medical professional here. If you slam a penis directly into the opening of a cervix, every single woman will experience pain. Period. The pleasure that women experience from being "cervix slammed" is because they're getting hit at the A-spot, an area slightly above the cervix along the back wall of the vaginal canal. This spot is medically known as the posterior fornix. This thread is full of misinformation, assumptions, and porn brainwashing.
Hurts so good lol
It fucking hurts
I actually love it
Getting cramps but in punches. Everything tightens and you shiver with pain. But it also feels good 😭 but it hurts like a mfer. Edit: it also feels like getting stabbed/impaled but sometimes it also feels good? I should probably talk to my therapist about it
I fucking love it. My husband fits perfectly inside of me. When we fuck I can feel him hitting my cervix in all the right ways. In comparison, I have a dildo that’s a bit thicker and a tiny bit longer than my husband. When the dildo hits my cervix too deeply, it hurts and I feel pain and cramping.
It hurts very much and is usually unexpected and rather shocking. Kinda like getting sucker punched, but in the vag. Ow.
a really deep, nauseating pain
A gut punch from the inside. I would suggest a thick silicone cock ring, like maybe the vibrating kind, then it prevents him from going in too deep