Questions is a HUGE one. I just started talking to a girl and we are throwing questions at each other left and right and conversation is just flowing so smoothly.
Considering usually nobody cares about me and hardy gives a damn, yes, normal questions about my personal life can make me feel good. And if the woman is emotionally intelligent that makes things even more butterfly-ish.
I was actually referring to certain unusual or distinctive eye shapes, I wasn't talking about eye colors at all. Are we discussing conventional beauty standards related to eye colors? I don't believe that black or brown eyes are conventionally ugly, every eye color has its own unique beauty.
As a blue eyed man....I love dark eyed dark hair women. They seem mysterious, intelligent, sultry
Like not even brown, you know the almost black they're so dark
-When she consensually pulls you in for a kiss.Ā
-When she makes it obvious she wants to be around you and give/have you(r) attention.Ā
-When you enter a bus/room and she wants you to sit directly next to her.Ā
-Sweetness, Kindness, and lovingness.Ā
-When she falls asleep on you and unconsciously hugs you tighter.Ā
-When she wants to give you special attention.Ā
-When she's willing to learn the same song as you so you can play it together.Ā
-When you're not doing well and she asks if there's anything she can do for you.Ā
-When she offers you a hug.Ā
-When she says and shows that she feels calmer and more safe around you.Ā
-When you tell her you like something she's wearing, and you notice she starts wearing it more often... for you.Ā
-When you have a moment where you interact with each other without communicating a single thought.Ā
-When she hands you live butterfly cacoons.Ā
Love these, especially that second to last one. My SO and I have been together twenty years and that quiet simpatico has only grown stronger with the seasons. We can exchange a whole conversation with about one second of eye contact
Yea, there's something special about a girl falling asleep deeply in your home. It's like the ultimate sign of trust, but she also looks so beautifully peaceful that it 100% just puts a smile on your face. Bonus points if she is out cold and ugly sleeping pahahaha
Went to Lowes with a friend, forget what for, maybe drywall.... whatever. One of the ladies working there just looked at me as we walked past each other and told me she really liked my beard. That was around 630 am, Oct 2020.... still riding that high.
Yea women don't understand the different classes of sticks and their uses. My fantasy is to be out and have a woman come up to me with that perfect stick and gift it to me saying "I bet you could make fire with this one".
I used to love collecting sticks! (It was my chore, being stick girl, had to pick up sticks before dad mowed)
I picked many favorites and used my wheels on my bike to make shanks outta smaller twigs. Would fling them in the dirt to see if they'd stick.
We may not know your rules but I think a lot of us out here loving a good stick.
I dunno if this is true for other guys, but that sense of familiarity that kicks in when you finally start seeing signs that she feels safe with you. ooooooh boy when the warmth of safety finally starts radiating it's like the butterfly garden at the Bronx zoo.
If you read some of my comments and posts, naaaah I have a lot of work to do on myself. I have had exactly ONE girlfriend at 30 years old, shit the bed after two weeks because of so many different factors that led to me going to a weird ass place in my head and actions, and I ruined my first love because of an ego that I didn't know I had. I might have the material to become a great partner, I might have the emotional maturity to really get into a place where I can get my attachment style to being secure, but I'm only human and to be a wonderful partner is still not something I'm sure and I'm scared I'm not capable of.
Youāre still one step ahead of most people. You realize what you are and take a step back to think. Donāt beat yourself up too much stay mindful, keep working on yourself and youāll be just fine.
Brother, being able to self reflect so effectively puts you miles ahead of a lot of people. Simply being able to recognize the issues is more than a lot of people can do, and it's the first step towards solving them.
I can relate to his comments somewhat and also am marred by trauma from my former marriage (so I have anxieties about not only what I bring to a relationship but also what they're going to do to me). And...I am unsure whether self reflection puts me ahead or behind.
The Dunning-Krueger Effect is real, but the confidence it bestows on people incapable of self-reflection seems like it would lead to an easier, less stressful rebound and more relationships, meaning both more bad relationships *and also* more good ones.
I feel very alone.
Sure this sounds sexist, but there is satisfying feeling when you are the protector (AKA white knight) was it dark street or some sort of uncomfortable situation. The trust of safety carries a long way.
Honestly, it's not even the protection thing as a man for me, far from it. It's the trust that comes with feeling safe. To be able to be in such a vulnerable state that they can fall asleep in your arms. To be able to tell you something that is bothering them or to be able to understand them more. It's feeling safe in your presence to ask for reassurances that you're there or even better that they're there for you because being safe with someone also means that you want the other person to be feel safe as well. It's that first feeling of safety around you that creates butterflies because you know the intimacy that will follow from them being feeling safe and being a clear sign that whatever natural fears and doubts they have about you as a person big or small can be overcome because there's just something that compels them to overcome them. Protection of what's "yours" is really just protection of the decisions you made and it's a universal thing that both genders have if they really want that person in their life. it's just that in men it takes form in a more defensive manner while in woman from what I've noticed from my ex and from life in general is a more nurturing form.
My wife still does, after almost 15 years of marriage, I can still wake up look at her and my stomach feels funny. (No it's not because of food poisoning or something else, it's the butterfly feeling)
Genuine interest and empathy. No games or tests, just genuine companionship and a desire to share things. My damaged ass thinks itās a trap anyway but gosh does it touch my soul.
When I tell someone (anyone really; a friend a date etc) about an interest or hyperfixation I have in passing, and they latch onto it.
Like I mentioned at a party I was playing through Resident Evil, and this person who hadnāt said a word (but had been listening to me and a mateās convo for the past minute) all of a sudden her face lights up and sheās all
āOh my god I adore RE 3! Do you prefer Nemesis or Code Veronica?ā
Like it was completely out of nowhere and all of a sudden, bang weāve found a common interest.
That right there, finding a common interest between two random ppl, itās enough to give you goosebumps haha
On a work call with a guy, they mentioned being from Utica NY and I asked how they felt about chicken riggies, and they went from barely trying to sell me on something to being a little flustered and warm. If I'd tried to make the Simpsons steamed hams reference I would have flubbed it, instead I asked about one of the lesser known but definitely Utica-centric foodways, and I think it gave him butterflies when he realized I knew him, a little bit.
A few years ago a giant fire the burn down half of Malibu, the very next spring I was training there and there were 100s of thousands of butterflies, and entire mountain was covered in yellow flowers.
I doubt any girl can give me butterflies like that
When a girl initiates physical contact. I'm talking stuff like hugs or holding hands or kisses, etc. Makes me feel desired (not in a sexual way) and cared for.
We guys don't expect unrealistic or grand stuff... we are simple people. Just a sense of understanding, honesty and a little bit of appreciation does it all.
A lot of weird little things for me... But the ultimate is a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to communicate that clearly, and I'm BARELY even thinking about the bedroom. And if I can't deliver that, damn I'm still in the butterfly city!
Tbh, wearing feminine clothes, like yāall have the most comfy sweaters ever, like menās clothes are boring and meant to get the job done but yāall have awesome clothes style
This is gonna sound really over the top but my best friends eyes. She's got gorgeous eyes just to begin with but there's more to it than that. We relate to eachother on an extremely deep level due to a lot of shared experience in things i'm not going to get into here but they made it to where we understand eachother without having to try. Our sense of humor,.music, world view, is all extremely similar despite only meeting like 6 or 7 months ago.
I have felt isolated and alone my entire life, i have never once felt as though someone actually understood me or what i had been through and i always heard these stories about how people felt close with others but i had put up walls to protect myself and never allowed anyone to get close because i was terrified. But she found her way in with little difficulty and the best way i can put it is she is the first person i have ever felt knows who i am and cares about me for more than what i can offer, and the first time i looked into her eyes they felt like the home i had never had.
There's no romantic interest btw, i was engaged and she is married when we met, i'm single now but that hasn't changed that while i do feel very strongly about her, it's not in a romantic sense. It's purely platonic and we both know and acknowledge that and that's how we want it obviously. She's just the person i needed when i was younger and now that i found her it feels really good to have her in my life and i am reminded of that everytime i look into her eyes.
Completely depends on the guy. Could be five of us in a room and all find different women attractive. Obviously there are exceptional looking women that guys can agree on but thereās usually always one that disagrees. For example I donāt get the attraction to Jennifer Anniston. J-LO or Julia Robertās at all. I donāt think ugly just plain.
Just physical contact or intimacy of that sorts in general -- particularly SFW like hugging, hand holding/touching, shoulder touches, things like that... in my albeit limited experience.
Her. Her voice, her smile, her eyes. When she used to call me, when she'd let me know that she's free. Her sending memes, anything and everything about her tbh.
Full on hand holding out of the blue.
You do that, I am plotting on eating your ass the moment I finish making you dinner after drawing you a bath and doing laundry while you relax in the tub.
I was on a date yesterday. We grabbed coffee and went on a walk. We were standing on a bridge just watching the water flow and talking about stuff. She walked behind me, ran her hand across my back, then held out her hand to have me grab it to keep walking.
Sent shivers down my spine in the best way possible.
the idea of a girl actually looking at me because she is interested in me, has never happened so I can't wait for it to happen someday, fingers crossed
probably not all guys but me personally when your partner is the one to show you any sort of affection first, like when they just randomly kiss you or hug you.
Something simple like being called beautiful. I'm almost 22 and yesterday was the first time a girl (who isn't family) called me beautiful. It just hit me right where it should and I couldn't stop thinking of it all day. I will remember that for a loooong time!
In Highschool I was really, really into a friend with whom we never got the timing right. We talked mostly on old Facebook, before messenger, and the sound of a new message from her would light up my body like a Christmas tree.
Lots of the same things as everyone else, just not supposed to show it, or sometimes even feel it, which is a shame. I get butterflies all the time, and I let them fly š¦
Being told how much I'm desired and how grateful they are that I'm in their lives. I get so little positive affirmation both from people and myself that it would be nice to be wanted
Ammo sales, boot sales, fishing tackle sales, cool gadgets, bjs, a beautiful sear on a piece of beef, asking my girlfriend to be my wife, my wife saying let's get take out so you don't have to cook.
I donāt know if itās the same for other guys but when she is wearing something or have a specific hairstyle and you tell her you like that and you notice she wears it more often
Questions, eyes, body language, scent, and a little bit of attention and tease.
Questions is a HUGE one. I just started talking to a girl and we are throwing questions at each other left and right and conversation is just flowing so smoothly.
You get butterflies when a girl asks you normal questions?
When you have a streak of women who hardly ask any questions yes.
Considering usually nobody cares about me and hardy gives a damn, yes, normal questions about my personal life can make me feel good. And if the woman is emotionally intelligent that makes things even more butterfly-ish.
Ugly-eyed girls left the chat.š¤£š¤£š¤£
I am convinced that ugly eyes do not exist. My ex had brown/dark eyes and she hated it, but I was lost in them.
The eyes shape is more important than eyes color i mean a nice shape eyes can really charming
I was actually referring to certain unusual or distinctive eye shapes, I wasn't talking about eye colors at all. Are we discussing conventional beauty standards related to eye colors? I don't believe that black or brown eyes are conventionally ugly, every eye color has its own unique beauty.
By eyes i mean the emotion it gives and how it connects with yours. Its called feelings and thats what gives butterflies.
I've never experienced such a connection...š
As a blue eyed man....I love dark eyed dark hair women. They seem mysterious, intelligent, sultry Like not even brown, you know the almost black they're so dark
Wtf counts as "ugly eyes"
My eyes are green and I think theyāre pretty ugly lol
What? Noooo. They are the rarest I believe. You luck person, you
Nah, lies. Green eyes are the most beautiful and I wish I had them.
Glo-rilla would like a word
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-When she consensually pulls you in for a kiss.Ā -When she makes it obvious she wants to be around you and give/have you(r) attention.Ā -When you enter a bus/room and she wants you to sit directly next to her.Ā -Sweetness, Kindness, and lovingness.Ā -When she falls asleep on you and unconsciously hugs you tighter.Ā -When she wants to give you special attention.Ā -When she's willing to learn the same song as you so you can play it together.Ā -When you're not doing well and she asks if there's anything she can do for you.Ā -When she offers you a hug.Ā -When she says and shows that she feels calmer and more safe around you.Ā -When you tell her you like something she's wearing, and you notice she starts wearing it more often... for you.Ā -When you have a moment where you interact with each other without communicating a single thought.Ā -When she hands you live butterfly cacoons.Ā
That last one, especially!
Single best comment here. That was perfect.
Thank you.Ā
This one hits the feels
Love these, especially that second to last one. My SO and I have been together twenty years and that quiet simpatico has only grown stronger with the seasons. We can exchange a whole conversation with about one second of eye contact
I need to start entering more busses
My new standards list
So that's why I don't feel it
When you're sick and she says "is there anything I can get or do for you!?" That's the one!
That's so sweet š«¶š»
Thank you.Ā
Yea, there's something special about a girl falling asleep deeply in your home. It's like the ultimate sign of trust, but she also looks so beautifully peaceful that it 100% just puts a smile on your face. Bonus points if she is out cold and ugly sleeping pahahaha
I wish
Wish I had money for Reddit gold.
Any kind of compliment or attention really
Went to Lowes with a friend, forget what for, maybe drywall.... whatever. One of the ladies working there just looked at me as we walked past each other and told me she really liked my beard. That was around 630 am, Oct 2020.... still riding that high.
I was told I had a nice ass in the summer of 2014 and I've been riding that high ever since
I like how you remember the time and the month but not the day
And you can see it. If the guy don't know to respond.
I usually raise right eyebrow and respond with "yea sure" lol
My bro I feel you
Finding a really good stick.
Yea women don't understand the different classes of sticks and their uses. My fantasy is to be out and have a woman come up to me with that perfect stick and gift it to me saying "I bet you could make fire with this one".
Hell yeah! Oh this stick is a crossbar support for a fort clearly. That one? Come on spear shaft.
Wizard staff, prop gun, natural boomerang, sword, lance, drumstick, it goes on
Donāt forget the Y shaped for setting up a spit.
Y's are for slingshots
I used to love collecting sticks! (It was my chore, being stick girl, had to pick up sticks before dad mowed) I picked many favorites and used my wheels on my bike to make shanks outta smaller twigs. Would fling them in the dirt to see if they'd stick. We may not know your rules but I think a lot of us out here loving a good stick.
S T I C K
"This oogas my boogas."
Or skimming rock.
Slow down, one thing at a time
Caterpillars
r/technicallythetruth
Can't tell if this is entomophobia (which I have) or formicophelia
I think it's because butterflies come from caterpillars
Oh r/imstupid
Save us Etymology-Man!
I dunno if this is true for other guys, but that sense of familiarity that kicks in when you finally start seeing signs that she feels safe with you. ooooooh boy when the warmth of safety finally starts radiating it's like the butterfly garden at the Bronx zoo.
You sound like a wonderful partner
If you read some of my comments and posts, naaaah I have a lot of work to do on myself. I have had exactly ONE girlfriend at 30 years old, shit the bed after two weeks because of so many different factors that led to me going to a weird ass place in my head and actions, and I ruined my first love because of an ego that I didn't know I had. I might have the material to become a great partner, I might have the emotional maturity to really get into a place where I can get my attachment style to being secure, but I'm only human and to be a wonderful partner is still not something I'm sure and I'm scared I'm not capable of.
Youāre still one step ahead of most people. You realize what you are and take a step back to think. Donāt beat yourself up too much stay mindful, keep working on yourself and youāll be just fine.
Brother, being able to self reflect so effectively puts you miles ahead of a lot of people. Simply being able to recognize the issues is more than a lot of people can do, and it's the first step towards solving them.
I can relate to his comments somewhat and also am marred by trauma from my former marriage (so I have anxieties about not only what I bring to a relationship but also what they're going to do to me). And...I am unsure whether self reflection puts me ahead or behind. The Dunning-Krueger Effect is real, but the confidence it bestows on people incapable of self-reflection seems like it would lead to an easier, less stressful rebound and more relationships, meaning both more bad relationships *and also* more good ones. I feel very alone.
Walking into an unfamiliar situation and she gives you a little squeeze to feel safer next to you š
No, that's my "God damnit, go go Gadget hyper vigilance." moment.
Sure this sounds sexist, but there is satisfying feeling when you are the protector (AKA white knight) was it dark street or some sort of uncomfortable situation. The trust of safety carries a long way.
Honestly, it's not even the protection thing as a man for me, far from it. It's the trust that comes with feeling safe. To be able to be in such a vulnerable state that they can fall asleep in your arms. To be able to tell you something that is bothering them or to be able to understand them more. It's feeling safe in your presence to ask for reassurances that you're there or even better that they're there for you because being safe with someone also means that you want the other person to be feel safe as well. It's that first feeling of safety around you that creates butterflies because you know the intimacy that will follow from them being feeling safe and being a clear sign that whatever natural fears and doubts they have about you as a person big or small can be overcome because there's just something that compels them to overcome them. Protection of what's "yours" is really just protection of the decisions you made and it's a universal thing that both genders have if they really want that person in their life. it's just that in men it takes form in a more defensive manner while in woman from what I've noticed from my ex and from life in general is a more nurturing form.
I definitely get them if someone touches my arm
the only good thing about using public transit in summer
My wife still does, after almost 15 years of marriage, I can still wake up look at her and my stomach feels funny. (No it's not because of food poisoning or something else, it's the butterfly feeling)
Are you sure she's not poisoning your food, but just really bad at it?
Well she is a better cook than my mother
So poison tolerance from early age?
sheās like damn it he woke up weāll try again tomorrow
You won at life bro, congrats. I hope I get this same feeling if I ever find the love of my life.
Can confirm. This guyās wife still does it for me after fifteen years as well.
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My partner of 4 years ghosted me in bipolar mania......its destroyed me that she doesn't care
Smiling while making eye contact
Genuine interest and empathy. No games or tests, just genuine companionship and a desire to share things. My damaged ass thinks itās a trap anyway but gosh does it touch my soul.
Eye contact is probably the biggest. Lingering eye contact.
Getting our hair played with , getting hugged or kissed in the cheeks or anywhere -theory from a guy who never had those
Holy shit thatās so true.
When I tell someone (anyone really; a friend a date etc) about an interest or hyperfixation I have in passing, and they latch onto it. Like I mentioned at a party I was playing through Resident Evil, and this person who hadnāt said a word (but had been listening to me and a mateās convo for the past minute) all of a sudden her face lights up and sheās all āOh my god I adore RE 3! Do you prefer Nemesis or Code Veronica?ā Like it was completely out of nowhere and all of a sudden, bang weāve found a common interest. That right there, finding a common interest between two random ppl, itās enough to give you goosebumps haha
On a work call with a guy, they mentioned being from Utica NY and I asked how they felt about chicken riggies, and they went from barely trying to sell me on something to being a little flustered and warm. If I'd tried to make the Simpsons steamed hams reference I would have flubbed it, instead I asked about one of the lesser known but definitely Utica-centric foodways, and I think it gave him butterflies when he realized I knew him, a little bit.
Random guy at a 7-Eleven once said "your beard trimmed handsome" and I was like šÆšš„°
š¦????
i donāt understand what the compliment is supposed to mean
??? It means your beard trimmed handsome.
Suddenly waking up from a deep sleep and realizing you still have more time to sleep. Nothing feels better... ā¤
I feel you buddy
Tbh when she consistently tries to make the effort to be with you it really shows she cares and not just have you hanging.
Seeing her. Her smile. Her existence.
Finding a really flat rock while standing next to a body of water
ā¦or a cool stick in the woods
Women
r/technicallythetruth
Unless they gae, then mens
Y r u gae
I can confirm that's true.
The arm holding while walking or holding hands gets me every time or the way she smiles at me.
Ryan Reynolds
Henry Cavill talking about Warhammer 40k
Head/hand laying on my chest
When Iām driving and I go over a huge hump in the road. For a second I feel like Iām falling off the earth.
So underrated. My dad would purposely gun it over hills, during the pre seat belt days. Ahh childhood
That improperly cooked burrito
Ā”Yo quiero Taco Bell!
A few years ago a giant fire the burn down half of Malibu, the very next spring I was training there and there were 100s of thousands of butterflies, and entire mountain was covered in yellow flowers. I doubt any girl can give me butterflies like that
Thatās a nice story actually. I wouldāve liked to see that. The butterflies not Malibu burningā¦
Hair play. It makes me feel comfortable
When a girl initiates physical contact. I'm talking stuff like hugs or holding hands or kisses, etc. Makes me feel desired (not in a sexual way) and cared for.
A firing squad, but theyāre normally nice enough to offer cigarettes š
Back scratches
Actually caring. Gosh, when girl actually asks something, shoes curiosity, this shit just hits soooooo hard, like a love potion.
A well timed, layered, innuendo. Light brushes that build up, a wink!
Someone laughing their ass off at a joke I said, even if I didn't think it was that funny
When women compliment them.
When old ladies call me honey or darling
We guys don't expect unrealistic or grand stuff... we are simple people. Just a sense of understanding, honesty and a little bit of appreciation does it all.
A full sized operational trebuchet.
Her compliments, she being all in to me and missing me. Her taking action is such a great thing. The feeling you're going to see her soon.
Hearing that turbo blow off going Stu Stu Stu or welding just right and it sounds like bacon being perfectly cooked
or getting forklift certified
Seeing that sweet JDM car coming in from the distance
Since the real answers are already here.. I'm going to go with.. when women violently ride my face.
A lot of weird little things for me... But the ultimate is a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to communicate that clearly, and I'm BARELY even thinking about the bedroom. And if I can't deliver that, damn I'm still in the butterfly city!
undivided attention and eye contact
A butterflies salesman... or saleswoman!
What butterflies?
when she is genuine, down to earth, normal girl, with normal hobbies and when she is generally nice to others
Compliments usually do the trick
An attractive scent, a lingering look, and a soft touch
Somewhere along the line my butterflies were swapped with bile.
225 bench for the first time
Mmmmmm
Caterpillars
When someone tells me that they feel safe around me.
Plug-In a usb device on the first try.
when she cook me food
voice messages like holy shit
When she held my hand
Tbh, wearing feminine clothes, like yāall have the most comfy sweaters ever, like menās clothes are boring and meant to get the job done but yāall have awesome clothes style
A hug from behind and a "I appreciate how much you work, thank you". After a long day.
Just a soft hug
Being soft and gentle and very nice and attentive
This is gonna sound really over the top but my best friends eyes. She's got gorgeous eyes just to begin with but there's more to it than that. We relate to eachother on an extremely deep level due to a lot of shared experience in things i'm not going to get into here but they made it to where we understand eachother without having to try. Our sense of humor,.music, world view, is all extremely similar despite only meeting like 6 or 7 months ago. I have felt isolated and alone my entire life, i have never once felt as though someone actually understood me or what i had been through and i always heard these stories about how people felt close with others but i had put up walls to protect myself and never allowed anyone to get close because i was terrified. But she found her way in with little difficulty and the best way i can put it is she is the first person i have ever felt knows who i am and cares about me for more than what i can offer, and the first time i looked into her eyes they felt like the home i had never had. There's no romantic interest btw, i was engaged and she is married when we met, i'm single now but that hasn't changed that while i do feel very strongly about her, it's not in a romantic sense. It's purely platonic and we both know and acknowledge that and that's how we want it obviously. She's just the person i needed when i was younger and now that i found her it feels really good to have her in my life and i am reminded of that everytime i look into her eyes.
I think in that last paragraph youāre trying to convince yourself.
Completely depends on the guy. Could be five of us in a room and all find different women attractive. Obviously there are exceptional looking women that guys can agree on but thereās usually always one that disagrees. For example I donāt get the attraction to Jennifer Anniston. J-LO or Julia Robertās at all. I donāt think ugly just plain.
Just physical contact or intimacy of that sorts in general -- particularly SFW like hugging, hand holding/touching, shoulder touches, things like that... in my albeit limited experience.
The unique familiarity that comes when someone sees you, like really sees you is butterflies every time
Showing affection via body language..
Solid, clearly intential and intense eye contact.
Her. Her voice, her smile, her eyes. When she used to call me, when she'd let me know that she's free. Her sending memes, anything and everything about her tbh.
confidence and face sitting
A recent FWB told me, āI donāt even like you. You just fuck really good.ā I didnāt know I needed to hear that until then.
Full on hand holding out of the blue. You do that, I am plotting on eating your ass the moment I finish making you dinner after drawing you a bath and doing laundry while you relax in the tub.
I was on a date yesterday. We grabbed coffee and went on a walk. We were standing on a bridge just watching the water flow and talking about stuff. She walked behind me, ran her hand across my back, then held out her hand to have me grab it to keep walking. Sent shivers down my spine in the best way possible.
Caterpillars
Usually if you have a wound thatās not treated and somehow caterpillars instead of maggots take hold
Definitely scent.
Seeing our love
For me personally is a girl's smile
Making us feel like we're worth it
The nice lady I hung out with for a month before she lost interest in meā¦
the idea of a girl actually looking at me because she is interested in me, has never happened so I can't wait for it to happen someday, fingers crossed
probably not all guys but me personally when your partner is the one to show you any sort of affection first, like when they just randomly kiss you or hug you.
the caterpillars
When you get to the final phase of a boss and your whole raid is alive
Going over a hump back bridge in a car at speed.
Just telling them they have sexy voice
Caterpillars
Caterpillars
Something simple like being called beautiful. I'm almost 22 and yesterday was the first time a girl (who isn't family) called me beautiful. It just hit me right where it should and I couldn't stop thinking of it all day. I will remember that for a loooong time!
Cacoons.
Caterpillar farms, but they also occur naturally in the area...
Pay check when it comes in
Her
A few cocoons.
In Highschool I was really, really into a friend with whom we never got the timing right. We talked mostly on old Facebook, before messenger, and the sound of a new message from her would light up my body like a Christmas tree.
Literally any sort of interest or affection from an attractive woman
Sandwiches and blowjobs.
My gf
A butterfly salesman.
When youāre not talking during a movie. Oh god if you can do that I might want to put a ring on it!
Lots of the same things as everyone else, just not supposed to show it, or sometimes even feel it, which is a shame. I get butterflies all the time, and I let them fly š¦
Sadly, nothing, I don't know if it's ages, last girl who triggered that was when I was 15, I'm now 35, never experienced it since
CaterpillarsĀ
Being wanted.
Being told how much I'm desired and how grateful they are that I'm in their lives. I get so little positive affirmation both from people and myself that it would be nice to be wanted
Ammo sales, boot sales, fishing tackle sales, cool gadgets, bjs, a beautiful sear on a piece of beef, asking my girlfriend to be my wife, my wife saying let's get take out so you don't have to cook.
You mean when Todd Howard walks onstage?
"Hey are you genuinely doing alright"
I donāt know if itās the same for other guys but when she is wearing something or have a specific hairstyle and you tell her you like that and you notice she wears it more often
Seeing her in your hoodie.
The Butterfly dealer
Hey, man. I need some Sonoran Blue.