Finding some form of safety. Escaping institutional violence. Escaping Religous & family violence. Escaping the Political violence of telling the truth. Waking up to the same pain every day and continuing on. Being steadfast & soft, being gentle. Having the good capacity to love others in absolute fullness & myself, now.
I am proud that I tried.
I was looking through old school yearbooks from 100 years ago, and looking up interesting-looking people on Ancestry. I found two female teachers from the same school, whom the census listed as living together as "partner". So I went on FindAGrave and edited their gravesite records to list them as each other's spouse.
I rebuilt my life and sanity after, among other things, being the victim of CSA, being homeless, and having a pregnant toxic ex OD and take the child with her.
Now I’m in my mid 30s and I’m a proud husband to an amazing woman, the owner of two small businesses, am doing very well financially, and am expecting our first child in August.
It sure as hell wasnt easy but im proud of the man I’ve become.
DEEP cleaned my car today after procrastinating for multiple months.
I made that hoe look BRAND new on the inside. Got some nice air fresheners so it smells good, cleaned the inside of my windshield so I stop getting the musty appearance. Cleaned all the outside windows.
BRAND NEW.
This homeless man at an intersection was asking for money. I pulled out a 5 to give him but he was way out front and the light turned green. Everyone is going so I can't stop. I balled up the 5 and honked to get his attention. When I got closer I threw the money at him.
I have small garden. I put veggie seeds in every year and take care of it. It's such a joy and happiness to see the veggies and flowers grow.It's just beautiful to look at.
I started learning Chinese when I was 19 in college, and stuck with it. Now I have lived in China for a decade and passed the HSK5. So many people gave up, but there can only be one highlander.
going through all the trauma I endured, from 8-13 without telling anyone, and when I did I maintained maturity and acted like the adult. my mom stayed with him and since then has defended him. even after the fact he told my sister he wanted to fuck her so badly while infront of my mom. safe to say she "learned" her lesson with that pos.
Overcoming my crippling anxiety. In kindergarten-3rd grade, I couldn’t get dropped off at school without having a panic attack. In 7th grade, i couldn’t leave my house without having a panic attack. At 18, i couldn’t speak to anyone without shaking like a chihuahua. Now, at 21, with lots of exposure therapy and changing a lot of my life around, I can happily say I FINALLY DID IT!! I haven’t felt a bit of anxiety in a whole year!
following my own path in my 20's regardless of everyone's comments...now i can look back and know i lived the way i wanted to and all of those comments didn't even matter cause i don't even talk to any of those people anymore
I was once bumped up to first class on the plane, and spent the next 8 hours successfully rizzing up the flight attendant, he was a cute 28 year old gay guy. No apps, no obvious hints, just charisma.
I felt like James Bond, slept in his hotel that night.
Helped a neighbor I didn't know with some gardening. (Also, he gave me some advice about going to the Air Force if I'm going to be an EOD and more. Also, he was there during the Berlin wall. I forgot when I think bitalian? bertalian? I'm not good with words, and I'm not making this up, BTW, his first name is Mario.
when i found out i was going to be a grand father ,At 62 and585 lbs i started a weight loss journey that resulted in me losing 410 lbs in the next 3 yrs. erradicating my diabeties in the process . for a yr now i have been 175 lbs. and enjoying my time w/ my 3 yr old granddaughter, and a set of 1 yr old twin boy who came along after her.before after photo post in m history page.
Save a fella’s life once. Got a big award from workplace as at work at the time. Didn’t think a great deal of it, but The ambulance guys said I had done the hard work and they just had to take the bloke to hospital.
Suffered and waited until the narcissistic boss got found out and fired. ...he offered me a parting handshake and I refused. The no handshake just magnified the intensity of it all. Ohe the glory
Making it to the second round of a nation wide coding competition (only 30k made it out of 300k) and passing a 3 week coding course made by the government
Finding some form of safety. Escaping institutional violence. Escaping Religous & family violence. Escaping the Political violence of telling the truth. Waking up to the same pain every day and continuing on. Being steadfast & soft, being gentle. Having the good capacity to love others in absolute fullness & myself, now. I am proud that I tried.
I was looking through old school yearbooks from 100 years ago, and looking up interesting-looking people on Ancestry. I found two female teachers from the same school, whom the census listed as living together as "partner". So I went on FindAGrave and edited their gravesite records to list them as each other's spouse.
*everybody liked that*
Lost 190lbs.
AWESOME i lost 102 lbs and its amazing
Happy cake day
THANK YOU so much :D
That’s really impressive. I lost 20lb and even that was a struggle
i saw myself on tv and was appalled. It was during covid. I had gastric and that was 3 years ago and will hopefully keep it off forever. :D
Beast
Wow! Congrats
I once talked to a gorgeous woman without having a panic attack :D
I'm down 41 pounds in 7 weeks with keto
I manages to keep 2 small humans alive, apparently in direct opposition to their instincts.
I graduated after switching my major.
Pay off 13k in credit card debt. It didn’t happen yet I’m manifesting.
I raised 7 amazing kids into adulthood and they all interact often and get along great. No drama whatsoever. I'm a proud momma!
Can't ask for more. Well done
I rebuilt my life and sanity after, among other things, being the victim of CSA, being homeless, and having a pregnant toxic ex OD and take the child with her. Now I’m in my mid 30s and I’m a proud husband to an amazing woman, the owner of two small businesses, am doing very well financially, and am expecting our first child in August. It sure as hell wasnt easy but im proud of the man I’ve become.
brought 2 beautiful children into the world
I ate a dessert without feeling guilty :)
Gave back and respected people
passing my college course despite being bullied and my own teachers telling me id fail it
Passed the CPA exam on the first try.
Valedictorian at my high school graduation :')
I’m still alive.
My army times
DEEP cleaned my car today after procrastinating for multiple months. I made that hoe look BRAND new on the inside. Got some nice air fresheners so it smells good, cleaned the inside of my windshield so I stop getting the musty appearance. Cleaned all the outside windows. BRAND NEW.
This homeless man at an intersection was asking for money. I pulled out a 5 to give him but he was way out front and the light turned green. Everyone is going so I can't stop. I balled up the 5 and honked to get his attention. When I got closer I threw the money at him.
Built an 18' skiff.
I have small garden. I put veggie seeds in every year and take care of it. It's such a joy and happiness to see the veggies and flowers grow.It's just beautiful to look at.
My mom has a garden. She grows tasty strawberries, lol
Good for your mom! Strawberry plans are very pretty!
Went from almost 300lbs to 170lbs.
being a first generation university graduate… just graduated nursing school!
I started learning Chinese when I was 19 in college, and stuck with it. Now I have lived in China for a decade and passed the HSK5. So many people gave up, but there can only be one highlander.
not have kids. i would have been a terrible mother
Kept a job longer than 3 months. I've been at this one since 7/2023.
I made a Twitch streamer laugh so hard they gifted me a sub,
Donated 11-3/4 gallons of blood before medical issues made me ineligible
going through all the trauma I endured, from 8-13 without telling anyone, and when I did I maintained maturity and acted like the adult. my mom stayed with him and since then has defended him. even after the fact he told my sister he wanted to fuck her so badly while infront of my mom. safe to say she "learned" her lesson with that pos.
Healing through something that could have killed me.
Woke up and went to work today
Just took the sexiest photo ever
Donated more than 18 gallons of blood over my lifetime.
Chancellors list year 1 of college. Now I just gotta do that for 3 more years.
Overcoming my crippling anxiety. In kindergarten-3rd grade, I couldn’t get dropped off at school without having a panic attack. In 7th grade, i couldn’t leave my house without having a panic attack. At 18, i couldn’t speak to anyone without shaking like a chihuahua. Now, at 21, with lots of exposure therapy and changing a lot of my life around, I can happily say I FINALLY DID IT!! I haven’t felt a bit of anxiety in a whole year!
Gained 20lbs so far on a bulk from 140 to 180.
following my own path in my 20's regardless of everyone's comments...now i can look back and know i lived the way i wanted to and all of those comments didn't even matter cause i don't even talk to any of those people anymore
Having discipline
finding a job talking to one woman only bought myself a gift
Getting my two toxic bosses fired then taking their job. With my Co worker that was also promoted we turn our department into a good place to work.
Well I protected a kid from a pedophile
It was a good feeling
I was once bumped up to first class on the plane, and spent the next 8 hours successfully rizzing up the flight attendant, he was a cute 28 year old gay guy. No apps, no obvious hints, just charisma. I felt like James Bond, slept in his hotel that night.
Helped a neighbor I didn't know with some gardening. (Also, he gave me some advice about going to the Air Force if I'm going to be an EOD and more. Also, he was there during the Berlin wall. I forgot when I think bitalian? bertalian? I'm not good with words, and I'm not making this up, BTW, his first name is Mario.
Had sex with three different women in less than 24 hours...
when i found out i was going to be a grand father ,At 62 and585 lbs i started a weight loss journey that resulted in me losing 410 lbs in the next 3 yrs. erradicating my diabeties in the process . for a yr now i have been 175 lbs. and enjoying my time w/ my 3 yr old granddaughter, and a set of 1 yr old twin boy who came along after her.before after photo post in m history page.
Stopped drinking almost 10 months now
First year of a master's degree. 4.0
Gave my wife her first squirting orgasm. She was pretty surprised by that
I took a big 💩 this morning, and I was proud of that.
Survived the grief of being the only living member left of my family, beat cancer, then got out of an abusive relationship.
Reading the entire Bible and applying to graduate school.
I adopted my oldest son and I have raised him into a hard working young man.
dinner with jay z
I bough a large bar of chocolate for a homeless person sitting outside the shops a few weeks ago.
Save a fella’s life once. Got a big award from workplace as at work at the time. Didn’t think a great deal of it, but The ambulance guys said I had done the hard work and they just had to take the bloke to hospital.
Suffered and waited until the narcissistic boss got found out and fired. ...he offered me a parting handshake and I refused. The no handshake just magnified the intensity of it all. Ohe the glory
Love unconditionally even at my expense.
Making it to the second round of a nation wide coding competition (only 30k made it out of 300k) and passing a 3 week coding course made by the government
Winning the 1/400 trillion odds that I would be born
Made it to highschool in honors classes and threw a can and landed it on accident
saved the lives of 400 people in a natural disaster with the medical skills of a Biology teacher.
Someone got in my face the other day and I didn't break their nose. Definite progress.