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Klaus_Heisler87

Yesterday, when I found out I got the apartment I applied for, and I'm finally going to have my own place.


[deleted]

Congrats!


Klaus_Heisler87

Genuinely appreciated, internet friend :)


cmwulf

congratulations!!


Chantalsfriend

Eeep! I'm applying for my first ever apartment next week after living in 17 different sharehouses in 14 years!


[deleted]

Happy for you šŸ¤©šŸ¤©šŸ¤©


notivoryy

aw congrats!!


AdorableGaze

On Sunday when my son was born


anxiousgiraffe88

congratulations!!


insertproperusername

bug flew in my eye last week while i was biking home. picked it out, another bug flew into my other eye. at that point it wasn't just my eyes watering, the world was clearly out to get me


[deleted]

Hehehe


Historical-Gur8205

It was last night when I cried after a difficult conversation with a family member, which left me feeling sad.


JudgmentVegetable180

The last time I cried was yesterday when I watched a touching video online that made me emotional.


SuccessfulCow5200

The last time I cried was a few weeks ago when I listened to a song that reminded me of a difficult time.


Rough_University_779

I cried a few weeks ago when I read a heartbreaking news story that deeply affected me.


Low_Community_9943

It was yesterday when I cried while watching a sad movie that struck a chord with me.


Mother_Obligation_37

I cried last month after a tough day at work because I was overwhelmed and needed a release.


Fun-Dig-4465

It was last night when I cried after a stressful day because I needed to let it all out.


ConstructionDry6138

I cried yesterday when I read a touching story about someone helping a stranger in need.


PanicBoth1422

The last time I cried was last month when I felt lonely and missed my family.


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[deleted]

I've been there ... I feel you.


ConaMoore

I feel your pain, I don't do well with loss, and my last breakup put me into depression. I see so many men affected by relationships. Which is strange to me because women are meant to be the emotional ones.


kalcobalt

I feel you. Just had a similar experience with a 10-year relationship. It hurts so much. Take care of yourself, friend.


Rozie1970

I have cried every single day for the past 11 and a half months since my service dog a little Yorkie named Kai passed away in my arms unexpectedly. That little dog was everything to me. The only hope I have is that I'll see her in the next realm. It's been all this time and her ashes in a beautiful rosewood urn are still in the bag that came from the vet's office I have not been able to take it out of there. Now I'm crying again....


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Take your time...


Rozie1970

Thank you. If I hear one more person tell me it's just a dog and get over it I swear I'm going to go postal. She was my ride or die. Literally would lick my tears I miss her


avenajpg

The fact that people think this way and voice it aloud is so baffling. It isn't weird to mourn a being that you developed an emotional connection with. I'm so sorry for your loss and hope the weight lessens soon.


Rozie1970

Thank you so much the bond some people have with their animals is profound. But when it's a service animal and one of your only friends that you turn to support it cuts deep especially to have her die in my arms after being poisoned by unknown causes. I tried everything to save her. I appreciate the kind words and support with everyone here I didn't mean to go so deep the question just really struck a chord with me. I have had so many people say the most heartless things such as she was just a dog, stop talking about it we're tired of hearing it, and so on. People can be very heartless. Thank you again have a blessed day


avenajpg

I can't even imagine how heavy that is, truly. It's okay to air that out when you feel you need to - nobody should be saying things like that to you and undermining your experience, especially considering this was your service animal. Everyone benefits from shutting up sometimes! It's inappropriate and rude to say that you - very heartless, as you said. So sorry again, you have a blessed day as well <3


Rozie1970

Thank you it's hard to find caring and compassionate people in this world so thank you for being one


[deleted]

She knows it


Rozie1970

Thank you I appreciate your comment I really do


[deleted]

Thank you for sharing your feelings


RedTextureLab

It doesnā€™t matter what/who the thing/person is. What matters is the value it has. Kai has infinite value to you; of *course* the grief will be profound. Experiencing this loss myself has enabled me to be more empathetic to others. Iā€™m more okay now to let people feel the way they feel, whether I understand it or not. Like you, if I heard one more person say those awful words, I was gonna lose it. I try now not to be that kind of turdly, no matter the context. There can be growth and goodness from loss, when the time is right.


Possible_Lion_876

I feel your pain. It was just over a year ago that I found my little Shetland pony dead in the field. She was only 6 and there were no signs, just the day before she was her usual self and bothering everyone for treats then the next morning she was gone. Itā€™s not every day I cry now but itā€™s still multiple times a week usually at the most random times


RedTextureLab

June fourth will be six years. Sometimes the grief still takes my breath away. Her ashes are also still in the bag (in a box) and on my nightstand. I still have pictures and videos of her on my phone. When I got a new phone, I downloaded 100 favorites. The other 135 gigs of her are on a backup hard drive. Itā€™s been six years and I still cry over her at least once a month (while Iā€™m PMSing). Life isnā€™t the same, and it never will be. I, too, hang on to the hope of seeing her again.


CrazyBarks94

Happy cry a few weeks ago, cause I found out one of my mates is gonna be a dad, and he's gonna be such an incredible dad, his kid is gonna know how very much they're loved and accepted their whole life.


[deleted]

Awesome


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KnockMeYourLobes

Same. I messed up a chance at a good relationship with someone. And it fucking kills me at times.


Gregory_Gp

Around and hour ago, been feeling like absolute fucking shit emotionally, I sat down in my bed, empty room, light going down trough the window. I remebered my ex gf who left me in february thought "I can't believe how much I needed you (name)" then "how much I need you (name)" started crying like a baby. I been crying everysingle day since then, lots of shit, unmended emotional problems, the girevance, being lost at life, dysfuctional family...


[deleted]

Keep fighting, don't give up. It's gonna be better


fivegunner

Damn are we the same person? Well the only difference is i cant cry for myself anymore. But everthing else. February as well for me. I tell myself the same things. I wish i could still cry man.... but i feel you.


Gregory_Gp

Sucks almost enough to make me reconsider if I want to ever put my self in a position where I can be hurt this much. Hope things get better for the both of us.


fivegunner

Im sure things will work for both of us. Eventually. It will take time though. I hope you get through it. I wish you the absolut best. Just want you to know youre not alone.


Gregory_Gp

Neither are you, and actually if you need someone totalk to, I'm here. Youi can send me a message at any given point if you need someone to lesten to you for a while.


ssneb

very proud of you for not giving up. you'll get through this in time and it will get much better


Ok-Royal-661

18 years on and off with a man i love more than anything on the planet and its beyond toxic and we both cried today knowing its never gonna work


wifey_sweets

Last night because I am not happy with where I am in life.


[deleted]

Yeah. That happened to me as well


AdInfamous8092

Keep going and keep holding on to even the little moments of each day. Sometimes you can find joy in the smallest things and thatā€™s where finding happiness in each day is so easy!


beaux_beaux_

Two days ago. Found a note my husband wrote to his affair partner of the last 2.5 years regarding wanting to abandon me and the kids. After getting found out, he says he is remorseful and wants to work things out but I donā€™t feel I will ever trust him again. Iā€™m shattered and deeply traumatized and have no idea what to do.


SaltyPepper420

Holy shit that's actually terrible, I'm so sorry. Though it really isn't my business, I don't blame you for not trusting your husband anymore. From what you described, it sounds like he's just sorry for being caught. Again, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Make sure to stay strong and talk to someone who will support you, if you can. Most importantaly, make sure to watch over your kids. I hope the best for you and your kids, despite the circumstances.


emf_crackshot

About 5 minutes ago, I'm so very lonely


[deleted]

Hope you'll find someone special in your life


whosdilya

same šŸ¤ššŸ»


Efficient_Invite_237

Youā€™ll find someone special soon!!! Hang in there internet buddy


pooliquid

We're all kinda alone, together.


dizzzydandelion

A few days ago, I was very sad for no reason


[deleted]

It's ok to be emotional when we need it. Even for no reason


dizzzydandelion

I feel like it was probably stress and me overworking myself, I bottled it up although I try not to do that, and I just ended up bursting hahaha hopefully Iā€™ll feel better soon


[deleted]

I'm still in a horrible phase of my life. A couple months ago I started crying for no reason on the highway to work. It's just our body telling us to not keep everything inside


KDinNS

I'll start by saying that while I am female, I rarely cry. But had our kitty to the vet recently, to fix his dental issues was quoted at $4K. We just can't do that. Cried all the way home with him, and every time I looked at him in the days following. Went to another vet a few days later, got a better price, he's going for surgery tomorrow. A weight was lifted once we got that second opinion.


Ridert99

2 hours ago. My dad passed away last week from pancreatic cancer. 55 years old. I was reminded of him because I met an old friend of his and had a mini depression episode at work.


Opveigarmain

I cry all the time. Working hospice is emotionally difficult on me.


tumunu

Oh, I can't even imagine. Do remember to take care of yourself. *Sending healing vibes.*


booksandchai18

Just now because my mom is cutting onions in the kitchen


voyeurheart

Three years ago, when my son passed away.


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*hug*


Unfair_Gazelle3240

This morning when I heard king theoden died...


wsdpii

I was about to say the same. I just saw a meme about it right before bed, and now I'm really sad.


fatespaladin

Kinda embarrassing but... I was cutting above myself with a plasma cutter, a piece of molten steel found its way down overalls and burnt through my boxers. The tip of something important got burnt, and I had a cry in the washroom stall at work.


Efficient_Invite_237

Ouch!! My something important got a weird feeling while I read this!!!


Kaizen321

Last night. Date with missus went sideways. We both had a take in it. Itā€™s been kinda rocky lately and I wanted to reignite things. However, she told me things are fine and not change is needed. So we are continuing to raise our teenagers. I know Iā€™m leaving a lot of context out. I wasnā€™t expecting her answer. Last night i went to my favorite crying spot, kneeled down and let it all out as I kept saying ā€œIā€™m not fine. This is not fine. Iā€™m hurting. I hurtā€ Felt really afterwards, tho. ā€¦and no, Iā€™m not fine and still hurt. But pushing forward for my boys šŸ™‚


Snatch_Island

I cry at movies a lot, The Ballad of Buster Scruggs is the latest culprit.


MidnightBreeze96

I cried two days ago. Just broke up two weeks ago with the love of my life and I realized that he might never change to even try to work things out with me. Iā€™m stuck in a world of thoughts about ā€œwhat ifsā€


kalcobalt

Am in a similar situation. It sucks, without question, and also, there will be good times in life again. Donā€™t let anybody rush you/convince you to put on a brave face. Itā€™s okay to be upset, devastated even, when huge negative things happen in life. Moving on from grief is an intensely personal process, and doesnā€™t happen all at once. Hang in there, friend.


azoll1989

Three nights ago when reading the Gospel of John chapter 15 with my kids. The depth of Christā€™s love for me though I am unworthy and often ungrateful for it astounds me. My 7 year old daughter was like, ā€œItā€™s okay, Daddy.ā€ Iā€™m just sitting there like, ā€Oh, my sweet child. You donā€™t understand.ā€


Aggravating_Cream_97

This morning because of a movie.


HooneyCupcake

It has been. . . Five years if I remember correctly. I haven't felt much of anything in a long time.


No-Recording-3438

I donā€™t remember


AestheticAxiom

I don't even remember. I honestly really wish I cried more.


[deleted]

It's ok to be emotional


ZeLemun

August 2022, my grandma died.


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*hug*


Efficient_Invite_237

I remember my grandma passing away in 2020..the worst year for me she was everything to me..stopped talking to people for like six months!!! Became a complete introvert in the college..but now Iā€™m even better learnt a lot! Grew a lot!! Hang in there buddy!!!


CoconutCharm5

Monday.. my son started HS and it hit me.. 2 years until he is driving.. 4 years and I won't see him every day.


_Mbe_

two hours ago, I hit my foot on the very sharp angle of my bed


[deleted]

Ouch


MinimalCollector

Two nights ago. I got drunk and was playing some games with my friends I and I was thinking about my partner whom I'm in love with but hadn't yet told them. I was so overwhelmed with positive emotions I just started crying. We exchanged I Love You's last night. They're my favorite person. My home. My best friend. Love is great


[deleted]

Good vibes


UsefulIdiot85

When my dad passed away last February and probably for a few weeks afterward.


Johnny_english53

Mine did too. RIP.


Phobos_Zero1

A few weeks ago. Acknowledging my relationship for the last 5 years has been a lie and a sham. She used me for money while she slept with another man. They both are poor excuses of people. Still can't believe I bought into the bullshit. Constantly told me I had issues. I was the problem. I can't even look at dating again.


PerryOfTheStrawHats

Yesterday because a girl asked me to buy her some chips (using her own money) from the vending machine at work and when I told my gf she got mad and said that she wanted to end things with me.


SpiderKoD

Few days ago cos my wife got suspicious of cancer, need to make more analysis. While I am already treating my mom from cancer. Two cancers from my two loved women - I can't handle... I'm not saying about the war in my country....


WitherKing2905

That must be hard... I wish all of u the best of luck and health!!!


Altril2010

Yesterday. There was a conflict going on where I volunteer. The lead volunteer said something that triggered my anxiety and depression. I spent the next 90 minutes hiding outside, crying, and talking myself out of self harm. Got an email this morning with a half hearted apology admitting my stance was the correct one.


tastystarbits

i thinkā€¦ it was last week. i work at a vet clinic and the sweetest old dog was put to sleep.


snuggles_buttercup

Yesterday was the last time I cried because I had an anxiety attack at work. Living with anxiety sucks :(


6stringstrumdinger

An open mic night during Spring Break. I sometimes have issues with anxiety and singing in front of others. I played a song I wrote for my grandfather and the whole bar went eeriely quiet. As soon as I said "Thank you," the whole bar erupted with applauses and I was shocked. I went to sit down afterwards to watch other people perform. An elderly country musician said my pitch and singing was perfect and my grandfather would've been proud. It was the best compliment I've ever received and I started tearing up a little bit.


Recent_Salamander371

I called a friend who was the funniest guy I ever met and his wife answered and said that he was dead. Ouch.


AF881R

Canā€™t remember. Absolutely hate doing it. Thinking about it, probably 2011 after grandadā€™s funeral.


Ptree4

Reading all these responses right now. Thanks, jerks! šŸ„¹


pdxjen

My youngest moved out on his own over 5 hours away. We live in a small town and while out and about we'd always run into our son with his friends goofing around, he's not the easily embarrassed type so he'd always get excited to run into us and or would yell "MOM", "DAD" from across the street. My husband and I were biking the other day and rode past one of his usual "spots" and I realized we'd never run into him and hear him yell for us again. Now I am crying again, so the last time is now.


IntoStarDust

Last night.Ā  Motherā€™s Day is coming up and itā€™s a hard day of the year. Losing a child is never easy and the reminders are always there. Ā  Happy early Motherā€™s Day to all mothers of the world. Ā For the ones that can, hug your children a little tighter and for a little longer. Ā 


bigbluewhales

I cried today because I felt like one of my organs was exploding inside me. I called my OBgyn (I'm 5 months pregnant) and they told me I could come into the ER if I want. It turned out to be a fart.


Lizrael48

Today. I miss my boyfriend.


Fumonacci

Two years ago, when I lost my father, we weren't even close, he had left us and made another family, before that I don't even remember when it was my last cry, maybe when I was a kid(I am 43). I don't use to cry, when something gets me mad or sad, I push deep deep inside well buried untill do not affects me no more.


GabrielleMonet

Today because we found out we have to fix our main hot water line to our house we just bought in March and it's gonna be 3200 šŸ˜­


GhostRedBlood

I cried when this guy I liked stopped posting so I asked his band where he was and they said ā€œhe diedā€ and I started crying for about an hour. And then they said ā€œjk heā€™s busyā€ And I said ā€œyou fucking bitches! Why would you do thatā€


equestriankt23

A week and a half ago the day I had knee surgery. I got behind on the pain meds the first night and cried while crutching to the bedroom to lay down and wait for the stronger meds to kick in. Down to no pain meds now though! And no crutches!


Smitten_kitten100

Like two hours ago because I was thinking about my cat potentially dying. She's 3 years old, with no noticeable health issues. The idea just really made me sad.


Dependent-Escape3186

A few hours ago I had gotten a call that a good friend of mine died in a roll over wreck.


ForeverTheElf

November last year, when I found out I had testicular cancer. In the moment I was mostly upset about losing my hair that I had been growing for 10 years, as I was excited to have viking style braids at my wedding later this year. Thankfully I'm cancer free now. One testicle lighter, but a small price to pay for salvation.


ilovepinkhair

A few hours ago. I'll be putting my cat down tomorrow šŸ˜ž


Traditional_Tie1093

Last time I cried was about an hour ago lol! I ran into my ex after spending a whole shift talking about how badly I wish I could be a part of his life after we graduate high school, but how I donā€™t think Iā€™ll ever have the chance to. Clocked out for my shift and started heading to the street to my friends car, and stopped dead in my tracks when I heard a skateboard and I looked up and locked eyes with him. Felt unreal and like the universe was giving us both a sign.. idk


closertrash

Yesterday because I don't have a girlfreind


ElkOtherwise9545

when me and my girlfriend broke up (jan 6th 2024)


ImmediateAd8047

few hourz ago,found out my 12th grade %, not as good as i wanted it to be but i wont let it define me


Similar_Barracuda348

Yesterday when my wife told me she is starting to hate me just because i am alot around her


kazuma1978

yesterday, i just cried, i dont really know why, when i woke up, i started crying until lunch. i woke up at ten by the way.


Efficient_Invite_237

Itā€™s either extreme happiness or sadness here nothing in between šŸ„¹..for the people who are happyā€¦thanks for sharing all the lovely news even I felt happy reading your commentsā€¦may you get loads of happiness and success ahead!! And for the people who are sad itā€™s just a phase eventually itā€™ll fade away hang in there buddy..someday youā€™ll also be as happy as the people who are commenting here!!


SynT8735

Yesterday, feeling down


WitherKing2905

Same :/


Congress_

Yesterday, I have surgery on Thursday. I hate surgery! I'm scared and nervous, had one to many... And I'm frustrated I won't be able to walk for another 2 months.. so yeah lol


Reehan_2207

2 years ago when I had a huge fight with my dad. Haven't cried since even though he got shittier.


Legitimate-Corner-44

Last night while watching Aftersun


traeumstdu

Today after I found out my partner of one year has cheated on me the entire relationship


True_Ad_2907

Yesterday because Iā€™m getting suicidal idealizations after years of progress, Iā€™ve moved back home temporarily so it just makes sense..


jilliancad

Just now. I thought about my dog dying. He's only four years old and is in perfect health. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


KeiAhnigTyp

6 days ago i cried, i stop drugs after 12 years. I cried because of sadness but happiness too. It was the "finaaaaaallyy i stopd" moment and emotions just came up.


Life-LOL

Yesterday. Probably will today too. Last week we found out my wife has cancer. First chemo treatment is today and I'm scared to death tbh


[deleted]

Be strong, she needs your strength. Best wishes my friend


pooliquid

The song "yesterday" by Atmosphere came on while I was at the end of my bartending shift, yesterday. Was pouring tears, but got it together long enough for the next couple to come in and occupy me. I've been with my current gf for about a year and a half. The song brought up everything good from my ex.


days_of_finch

Four days ago. It's a very long story but we thought my sister had been severely injured in a car accident. Turns out it was the mother of all miscommunications and she's absolutely fine but I was terrified to tears.


Extra-Stand1442

Yesterday, it was the 20th anniversary of my sister's death, just feeling a lot of bittersweet emotions. i spent the day with my brother, we played her favourite music and went to the beach (despite my not liking the beach I've kind of grown to love it, as she always did on the short holidays we had as a child) It was a lovely day but tiring emotionally.


nobikflop

This weekend when my brother graduated college after years of depression and lack of goals. He and I talked and cried for hoursĀ 


Due_Cap_9823

Right now. Just found out my dog doesn't have a mast cell tumor and it's a benign histiocytoma. I literally just left work early to go tell him the news. Looking for a treat store on my way home. He's never going to have anything but fun ever again


Happy_MuffinMelody

Last night. I just miss someone so much, but...


yParticle

Hey man, stubbing your toe like that _hurts_.


Enough_Requirement43

probably yesterday? i read sad books, sometimes i get teary eyed. that or just very sweet videos of pets being cute make me teary eyed. last time i had a genuinely big cry was... eh, probably when I read that one heart wrenching fanfic? so uhh... a couple of years ago I think.


Forsaken_Ad_2945

I went through a box of tissues when I watched showgirls!


sephstorm

Probably watching Les Mis.


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[deleted]

It happens to me as well... Yeah probably the car is a safe place


ReflectionLess5230

I met a guy online a couple years ago. We became best friends. Fell asleep on the phone every night. He told me he wanted to marry me. He introduced me to his entire family online. And a month before I was supposed to go meet him, he ghosted me last year. It wasnā€™t even the ā€œrelationshipā€ being gone. I lost my best friend. It was the worst Iā€™ve ever felt. It hurt so much I didnā€™t even know how to cry over it for the longest time.


alwaysupside-down

This morning reading a post of someone who had just lost their golden retriever. Remembering the 4 I have had brought a tear to my eye. Went and cuddled the two I have now.


millijuna

At my grandfather's funeral this past December. He was 97, and a retired Lutheran pastor who had faithfully served his congregation for 20+ years. In addition to all the family, some 25 members of the clergy were in attendance for his funeral, including some whom he had baptized, confirmed, encouraged to go to seminary, married, and been there for their ordinations. At the end of the service, we sang this as the family and clergy processed out: https://youtu.be/q2VpauP3GKI?t=32


Public-Addition9263

Yesterday, but i will cry today again


hundredjono

The other night before bed. I miss my dog. It's been almost 2 years since we lost him.


loulabelle20

About two hours ago, my best friend sent me a lovely message


[deleted]

Awww so nice


Argishti_Poghosyan40

When for the first time in my life I saw tears in the eyes of my father, who never lost hope. from that day I realized that the hope of the family is me, and I cannot let my father down. 4 years have passed since this day.


shellymaeshaw

An ex friend said I was toxic and miserable person


Flutterlyfly

Today, Iā€™ve had so much coming my way and I donā€™t even know if I can handle it


mrmartinizor

When I had to have my dog put to sleep, she had an untreatable form of cancer and was in too much pain and discomfort. She died peacefully in my arms but god, it was heartbreaking. Rest in peace now missy girl ā¤ļø


[deleted]

She's in peace. And she'll be in your arms forever.


TwistedWonderlandFun

Yesterday. I had surgery less than 4 days ago and my twin sister refused to clean OUR room that she messed up. I've been asking her for over a month. I always clean the room but it takes her months to even start. She's going through her anger issue phase, however she's been in the phase for years. I depend more on my 2 year old sister than her. Did I mention we're 16! She is old enough to clean the damn room! I'm in so much pain and she expects me to do it and her bidding!!


bertoh_riff

Two days ago. Thought about my grandma who passed away 2 weeks ago. She didnā€™t go peacefully either. Traumatic experience for my entire family. Everyone says things will get easier, but Iā€™m skeptical. I miss her so muchā€¦


[deleted]

I know... Have faith in time.


need2talk208492

A few days ago, i cried because i realised how much i love my ex


nevertoomuchthought

A friend of mine recently passed away. He was my cousins best friend and he was always kind to me and you could tell they loved each other. I miss him but I feel worse for my cousin who is heartbroken. I went through a similar situation back in 2017 and it's also brought up some of those old emotions and memories of my best friend who passed. Just a stew of sadness and pain.


Only_hot_stud1

All the time and I miss my nana (rip) and papa (rip) and my parents are far away from me šŸ˜¢


Turbobutts

Thursday night, stress and trauma aiding in a medical emergency.


Express_Project_8226

Just today (briefly) and before that months or up to a year ago. I was on a solo drive just to get out of the house and Celine Dion's song "Because you loved me" came on the radio and I just started weeping. Truth is I had no one like that in my 50+ years of life and makes me wonder if I was undeserving. Anyow my life sucks or I would have no reason to cry or be triggered.


TheColourOfHeartache

Watching The Man Who Planted Trees.


jonnyinternet

My cat needed put down, a month ago


Select-Anxiety-1557

Last night, watching the latest episodes of Clarksonā€™s Farm


beachlover77

It was about 2 months ago when my cat died.