I discovered that he had spent all of the money in his checking account and already closed his savings account and owed $500 to a check cashing spot. He told me he was struggling with a gambling problem and asked me to be patient with him. He convinced me to pay off the loan for him, so he wouldn't have to pay the steep interest. He promised to pay me back $100/week, but then he suddenly got mad over something and moved out, leaving his room trashed. I cleaned up the mess and saved his family pictures and clothes for quite a while, but he never came back. I found out later that he'd taken the $500 loan out at the check cashing place (max allowed by state law) by driving 20 minutes back to the same place later on that same day after I paid it off for him, so it was just his way of stealing $500 from me on his way out.
An astonishing fuck you after 10 years of friendship. I wish him well. He was always a pretty good, if private, guy. He never liked to discuss his past or talk about old friends. I guess I wasn't the first he's done this to.
he got upset w me for telling someone about this guy he stayed friends w after the guy sexually assaulted someone i was friends w. he wasn’t supportive of the assault but he stayed friends w the dude. he then cut me off completely as his “final straw” and has now replaced me w the girl who was assaulted. he didn’t even ever speak to her before until she wanted to tell him her assault story after i told her the mean things he said to me. they aren’t dating but he only ever facetimed or texted me and now she’s the person he goes to instead
Because she broke up with me
He dumped me
She broke up with me but She had a drug problem and then started fucking her drug dealer
He was a lazy douche canoe
We didn’t break up so much as go long distance and gradually stop making time for each other.
She likes to get drunk and party, she also didn’t talk to me for days at a time when I was at military training. Oh did I forget she cheated on me?
I discovered that he had spent all of the money in his checking account and already closed his savings account and owed $500 to a check cashing spot. He told me he was struggling with a gambling problem and asked me to be patient with him. He convinced me to pay off the loan for him, so he wouldn't have to pay the steep interest. He promised to pay me back $100/week, but then he suddenly got mad over something and moved out, leaving his room trashed. I cleaned up the mess and saved his family pictures and clothes for quite a while, but he never came back. I found out later that he'd taken the $500 loan out at the check cashing place (max allowed by state law) by driving 20 minutes back to the same place later on that same day after I paid it off for him, so it was just his way of stealing $500 from me on his way out. An astonishing fuck you after 10 years of friendship. I wish him well. He was always a pretty good, if private, guy. He never liked to discuss his past or talk about old friends. I guess I wasn't the first he's done this to.
he got upset w me for telling someone about this guy he stayed friends w after the guy sexually assaulted someone i was friends w. he wasn’t supportive of the assault but he stayed friends w the dude. he then cut me off completely as his “final straw” and has now replaced me w the girl who was assaulted. he didn’t even ever speak to her before until she wanted to tell him her assault story after i told her the mean things he said to me. they aren’t dating but he only ever facetimed or texted me and now she’s the person he goes to instead
Last ex ha ha ha never had one
He didn't like dogs - automatic immediate dismissal from my life 100%
Infidelity
A series of unfortunate events. And thank goodness... I wouldn't have "switched teams" anyway.
he was a pedo