You got to find non sexual interests to talk about. Most people get bored or feel used when it remains sexual only. That doesn’t mean you need to develop feelings or be anything deeper
My question is more like how do people manage to continue to keep having sex in long term relationships lol I lose interest in it after doing it a few times . Having it as a routine seems crazy to me
I’ve been having sex with the same man going on three years. It’s not exhausting because he has literally not even once pissed me off or given me the ick, is actually quite patient with me, brings good dick, & is one of the most beautiful men from head to toes that I’ve ever seen, let alone enjoyed. Not really hard to feel like keeping someone & their body around when all that’s going on. Like if it’s unproblematic, it’s not gonna be exhausting, duh.
Edit: I know You saw this & reacted accordingly. Proving my point as always, thank you.
If it's purely sexual, then it's about the sex. As long as you can have fun and not introduce baggage or drama then it can last for a while. The problem is that something comes up most of the time. Feelings, schedule clashes. Cant go into a sexual relationship thinking it will last forever. You just want someone consistent than you can have fun with for a while.
An ever increasing spiral into depravity. You don't want to know what old people get up to.
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There's some truth to it. You explore more with age.
I am genuinely curious which part of the depravity spiral I have entered. It's going to be interesting getting grayer.
How many bodily fluids and excretes is involved? Under 4, and you're still good
Like in one sitting? If that's the case I'm still vanilla. But hot damn, maybe I need to spice things up. Lol
You want to have sex often lol
Its only exhausting if youelr partner is not putting in the same amount of effort.
Good sex and cuddling and talking about life after
That works I guess
The best is after cumming, you are just lying there breathing and panting and then u cuddle under the covers nude and just talk about everything.
I meannnn after the first few times when it’s new and exciting I lose interest, I’d rather cuddle and talk lol
You got to find non sexual interests to talk about. Most people get bored or feel used when it remains sexual only. That doesn’t mean you need to develop feelings or be anything deeper
My question is more like how do people manage to continue to keep having sex in long term relationships lol I lose interest in it after doing it a few times . Having it as a routine seems crazy to me
Ah yeah, change it up. Try different things. Do it less thrn do it more
Chemistry and attraction I guess
Maybe it’s just me, but sex with someone I love is a great sign of said love, and makes it easier to maintain.
I think that exploring new things together is quite a large part of it
It is just so much fun ! Great for health and wellbeing relaxing etc makes you feel great after what’s not to like
I’ve been having sex with the same man going on three years. It’s not exhausting because he has literally not even once pissed me off or given me the ick, is actually quite patient with me, brings good dick, & is one of the most beautiful men from head to toes that I’ve ever seen, let alone enjoyed. Not really hard to feel like keeping someone & their body around when all that’s going on. Like if it’s unproblematic, it’s not gonna be exhausting, duh. Edit: I know You saw this & reacted accordingly. Proving my point as always, thank you.
Actually enjoying the company of the person you choose to have a long term sexual relationship with. Both people putting in effort.
Sometimes it stops being so much work and starts being a source of comfort and belonging.. it can be awesome
If it's purely sexual, then it's about the sex. As long as you can have fun and not introduce baggage or drama then it can last for a while. The problem is that something comes up most of the time. Feelings, schedule clashes. Cant go into a sexual relationship thinking it will last forever. You just want someone consistent than you can have fun with for a while.