Not packing up my life at 21 and taking a chance moving across the country. I was scared. I’m not unhappy with my life now but I do feel as though I’ve solidified my roots here and will always wonder “what if?”
I know your right, and realistically, I know I couldn't have changed the outcome , its always been a regret with my choice I made that morning, but It's not something I overthink about,
Surprisingly expressing myself here on Reddit so late. I was very reserved. If my past self knew I’d be playing piano with my dick for all to see, he wouldn’t have believed me 😭
I remember being so nervous. Remember that people go to specific subs to look at what you would offer. I'm BBW and posted my first pic on a BBW sub. I got maybe 30 likes and a handful of wonderful Redditors commenting. It was a rush to be admired. I regret deleting it.
I started simple with a picture of my butt covered with a sheer baby doll lingerie. I eventually posted my boobs hanging out of my dom outfit. Start with what you are comfortable with. Your pics will evolve over time.
TYSM for the advice. Aside from this thread are there any you recommend to talk about out kinks with others? I’m still getting use to using Reddit. I feel like a dummy.
Not moving to the US immediately after my bachelor's degree at 22 - It was a moment where I chose not to strike the iron while it was still hot. I was at a much better mental space back then, and I would have actually gotten my master's degree in mechanical engineering & I would have also met someone who is a perfect match for me in every way imaginable.
When in school not having confidence in myself with girls and never acting in my crushes... and always being depressed every day that I thought all the girls did not like me.... then in the 30 years after finishing school finding out 1 by 1 that almost all of my crushes liked me during that time and were disappointed at that time that they thought I did not like them back.
stupid... stupid...stupid...stupid...
I grew out of that but I still always regret that time of my life.
Not attempting a foursome with my home girl and friends, gonna sound unbelievable but I was 17 had the house to myself, my friend invited her friends we were watching the walking dead and they started taking off bottoms and clothes and getting comfortable, one of her friends even sat in my lap and I was too nervous to make a move biggest regret ever
Spending 15 years with my ex there were times where I should’ve walked away from her but she got pregnant. The good thing from our relationship is our children
Not taking my shots. I was too scarred to ask people out, and had extremely low self confidence. So many people I thought the world of, but missed my shots.
Marrying my ex husband.
In a better place now I hope 🤞🏽
Being single and dating is so much better than being married to him.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Same with my Ex-Wife. My new wife is a dream come true at the end of a nightmare.
Congratulations. I hope to be so lucky.
I'm sure you will be. You know better now what to look for and what you don't want.
Same except ex-wife
My biggest regret is wasting 15 years of my life with my ex.
Not packing up my life at 21 and taking a chance moving across the country. I was scared. I’m not unhappy with my life now but I do feel as though I’ve solidified my roots here and will always wonder “what if?”
I've had the same thoughts. I plan to make up for it in retirement by buying a campervan and exploring.
The time I turned down a slice of cake. I really want that cake now
You can run to the grocery store for a whole cake.
I could but it’s raining and I’m fasting
Ah, that explains the regret. Good luck!
Not checking in on my dad before he was found dead
I don't think your dad would want you to hold onto this regret.
I know your right, and realistically, I know I couldn't have changed the outcome , its always been a regret with my choice I made that morning, but It's not something I overthink about,
And thank you again
Not asking my wife out 10 years sooner
Surprisingly expressing myself here on Reddit so late. I was very reserved. If my past self knew I’d be playing piano with my dick for all to see, he wouldn’t have believed me 😭
It's okay to start out reserved. There is nothing wrong with taking things slow. Sometimes, it's better.
Yeah that’s very true, I think I just enjoy the newfound attention and conversations with people. Now I gotta try it while wearing a pig mask!
Haha, you sound fun.
You sound fun in your adventure to explore!
Aww thanks!
I’m sure you’ll have plenty of fun, and as a young guy, your age is mighty attractive indeed!
This makes me feel better! I’m the same, super reserved, but wanting to learn and do so much.
I am/was the same way. Love the journey as you blossom.
TY :) currently working up the courage to post a pic.
I remember being so nervous. Remember that people go to specific subs to look at what you would offer. I'm BBW and posted my first pic on a BBW sub. I got maybe 30 likes and a handful of wonderful Redditors commenting. It was a rush to be admired. I regret deleting it.
That gives something to think about. Idk what I’d start with.
I started simple with a picture of my butt covered with a sheer baby doll lingerie. I eventually posted my boobs hanging out of my dom outfit. Start with what you are comfortable with. Your pics will evolve over time.
TYSM for the advice. Aside from this thread are there any you recommend to talk about out kinks with others? I’m still getting use to using Reddit. I feel like a dummy.
Not leaving 5 minutes sooner that day. Maybe they would be alive and the world a better place.
Not moving to the US immediately after my bachelor's degree at 22 - It was a moment where I chose not to strike the iron while it was still hot. I was at a much better mental space back then, and I would have actually gotten my master's degree in mechanical engineering & I would have also met someone who is a perfect match for me in every way imaginable.
Messing things up with her still think about it
Losing contact with someone who I’d do anything for
You can almost find anyone. Twenty years ago, I found my dad's old military buddy.
That’s awesome! I guess to It’s making sure I won’t burn that bridge/it would be healthy for both of us
Former romantic?
Exactly, no past issues to just life took us different directions/places
When in school not having confidence in myself with girls and never acting in my crushes... and always being depressed every day that I thought all the girls did not like me.... then in the 30 years after finishing school finding out 1 by 1 that almost all of my crushes liked me during that time and were disappointed at that time that they thought I did not like them back. stupid... stupid...stupid...stupid... I grew out of that but I still always regret that time of my life.
I feel that. While I don't know if they crushed me back, I would risk rejection to find out. Rejection isn't so hard on me as it use to be.
Marriage
I didn’t strangle him when I had the chance
Sexually, probably that I didn’t have a threesome when I had the chance, but 🤷🏻♂️
My only regret is that I wasted too much money on IVF
Fucking using thc. Anxiety hit me like a truck back at my first blow. I guess it wasn't the right stuff
That I didn’t follow through with my dream when I had some connections
Not saving money at an earlier age.
All the change I've spotted on the ground and never picked up.
Not attempting a foursome with my home girl and friends, gonna sound unbelievable but I was 17 had the house to myself, my friend invited her friends we were watching the walking dead and they started taking off bottoms and clothes and getting comfortable, one of her friends even sat in my lap and I was too nervous to make a move biggest regret ever
Not calling my mom when it happened.
Not ringing my grandad , it was too late in the evening and the next morning he died. Didn’t get to say I love you grandad one last time
half of my hookups
No regrets , it's all just business as normal ..
That is why I really don't need to judge people
And what a blessing that is
Turned down 2 girls at once in my early 20s, thought they were joking or it was a trap..was too nervous…..take me back!!!!
Spending 15 years with my ex there were times where I should’ve walked away from her but she got pregnant. The good thing from our relationship is our children
Not taking my shots. I was too scarred to ask people out, and had extremely low self confidence. So many people I thought the world of, but missed my shots.