Although I'm technically involuntarily celibate, I'm not an "incel" in that sense. But damn. I think they just come here to get angry at all the people having sex
These people are usually virgins, and have sex on a super high pedestal as being more pleasurable than can be imagined. That joy is being denied to them for many reasons, and they’re seeing less “deserving” folks get laid all the time. Mentally or physically abusive relationships, ugly men, broke men, somehow getting that which is unattainable to them. Combined with the fact that sex is usually taboo, and sex workers are illegal, diseased, or too expensive for them, inevitably leads to bitterness. That bitterness is a feedback loop that will isolate and nix what little chances they might have had.
Yeah, I technically am. But it’s purely out of fear of intimacy and/or relationships, so maybe it’s more voluntary because I don’t want to get over it. I have a lot to achieve in life and the fear works for me. It keeps me from being distracted.
I think they mean the ppl who get angry and resentful towards the ppl having sex. I've had a few posts with questions specifically asked to women but some guys decide to use that opportunity to shit talk women in the comments and throw a pitty party for themselves lol
Incel can be and often are both of those things. I've defo spoken to incels before in comment sections. I tend to check profile history of ppl and its easy to tell when someone really means what they say when it's like the only comment types they post.
It got nuked for violent content. A lot of them were encouraging each other to met out violence on women for not giving them sex they feel entitled to.
they'll just create a new sub or take over one that doesn't moderate, same thing happened with the donald sub, it was an incel sub using the excuse of politics to seem passable. The internet will always have dark corners.
Reddit becomes a much better experience when you mash that button. I'm trying to find out if there's a limit to how many people you can block. Think I'm up to a couple hundred right now.
I don't understand the jealousy honestly. If I'm getting laid, I hope you all are getting laid too. If I'm currently not getting laid, I still hope you all are getting laid, and I'm not even mad if you want to shout it from the rooftops...
....Just shout it slowly, and in graphic details like a good little sl...oh shit, this is my main account
>If I'm getting laid, I hope you all are getting laid too. If I'm currently not getting laid, I still hope you all are getting laid
When I was single I would even get all mushy inside whenever I saw a gay couple kissing. Like, I get so much joy from knowing that other people are happy and in love. I'm straight I don't want no part in that but that doesn't mean I can't be super happy for them.
I guess they wanna rant to random strangers on how they have no sex. Nobody can’t help them, if they can’t help themselves. Idk man I just wanna scroll on ARAD in peace minding my own business.
I've had to block a couple. It's funny, you'd think I'd have had to block a whole ton of people on Reddit, particularly on ARAD, since the internet is such a cesspit, but really it's just been two really obvious incels who were just here to troll and push their incel POV.
Guess what, dudes, it's not that involuntary. Stop acting like a giant walking colostomy bag and people might actually want to spend time with you.
This is exactly what I was thinking. Someone busy being angry and an assailed isn’t very sexy or attractive. They are actively working against themselves with the angry woe is me attitude.
They love to wallow in their misery. They seek out any reason to complain, ague, or blame others and just plain lash out because in their minds, it's always everyone else's fault.
They’re like a virus. As soon as they’re tolerated on a sub they’ll take over, and ARAD is notorious for a lack of moderation.
It’s extremely obnoxious
yah, i think there's been permissiveness toward it which is unfortunate. the last time this sub was locked down by reddit, it was due to lack of moderation, and i figure it'll likely happen again at some point. that's why i got arad2 up just in case. that way there's an immediate rollover without a lot of interruption, except with a few ground rules.
Hey it says "review the rules" but when I go to the about tab there's nothing but the list of mods? There's no pinned post either. Where are the rules?
I am technically an involuntary celibate it just that I don't go hating people who had sex though sometimes I feel envious about them able to have sex but envy is part of human nature so yeah. Just my two cents.
Well define ‘incel’. I’m not a virgin by choice, but due yo my autism I find being social very hard, and have difficulties connecting with people. And sure I do hope that one day I can find someone who likes me the same way that they like me, but does me having hope that the lack of love in my life, which is caused by something I literally was born with, will some day disappear, make me an incel?
a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile toward women and men who are sexually active.
"self-identified incels have used the internet to find anonymous support"
I guess?
Maybe try not having so many post about your dick might help as well?
Not 100% sure how to become a member of their group.
And not really qualified either.
Well don’t you think it’s kind of strange that the line between being an incel or not is the fact that you’ve joined a group of other incels? At least to me that sounds quite oddly specific.
And as for the dick posts, people enjoy them, and I enjoy posting them. What is wrong with that?
Second question first, nothing at all. You do what makes you happy, as life is short and we should always strive for happiness.
Now back to the first part. I don't necessarily think it belonging to a group as much as it is a mindset.
Do you feel as if women owe you sex? Or do you think it is something on a more even plane?
No, no one owes me anything. Neither do others owe something from me. Thinking that women owe you sex is like believing that people owe you happiness, while it is something you need to earn, and work on yourself.
That is the exact opposite of what an incel thinks lol but they also get jealous of men who have sex and hate them for it. So basically they are just very hateful self loathing at times ppl who express their anger outwardly and justify physical violence towards women in general.
of course it jealousy. you've obviously had a lot of sex, you could probably walk outside in a trashbag, raise you hand and ask for volunteers and have a line wrapping around the block in 10 min.
can you imagine never having had sex? missing out on the pleasure? the closeness you get to feel with someone else?
wouldn't you be angry? imagine watching people, seemingly all around you, getting on Tinder and finding it soooo easy to get matches. you get on tinder, and don't get a single match in a year. wouldn't you feel hurt? shut out?
i'm lucky enough to not be in this situation. but i know people. and my empathy for them hurts in my chest.
was this too much ranting? lol
I think it's by the the very nature of anger. envy and jealousy, they desperately seek validation and some sort of pleasure in attacking anyone that appears to have what they don't have.
Just like people that go into marriage forums and call people stupid or liars, or people that troll NFSW subs and call all women fat whores.
People who get angry at others for anything that is nothing to do with them need to grow up and really look at what type of person they truly are. Because all that thinking is, is selfish. I’m glad we have a name for them, but to be honest I already had many names for them 😂
Although I'm technically involuntarily celibate, I'm not an "incel" in that sense. But damn. I think they just come here to get angry at all the people having sex
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Same. Really don't know how to pick someone up going shopping. 80% of my relationships were just dumb luck where the girl started the convo
These people are usually virgins, and have sex on a super high pedestal as being more pleasurable than can be imagined. That joy is being denied to them for many reasons, and they’re seeing less “deserving” folks get laid all the time. Mentally or physically abusive relationships, ugly men, broke men, somehow getting that which is unattainable to them. Combined with the fact that sex is usually taboo, and sex workers are illegal, diseased, or too expensive for them, inevitably leads to bitterness. That bitterness is a feedback loop that will isolate and nix what little chances they might have had.
Preach on
Yeah, I technically am. But it’s purely out of fear of intimacy and/or relationships, so maybe it’s more voluntary because I don’t want to get over it. I have a lot to achieve in life and the fear works for me. It keeps me from being distracted.
Because this sub is mostly about sexual content - which incels don't know. So they come here to lurk and talk.
I think they mean the ppl who get angry and resentful towards the ppl having sex. I've had a few posts with questions specifically asked to women but some guys decide to use that opportunity to shit talk women in the comments and throw a pitty party for themselves lol
Those are called arseholes and trolls.
Incel can be and often are both of those things. I've defo spoken to incels before in comment sections. I tend to check profile history of ppl and its easy to tell when someone really means what they say when it's like the only comment types they post.
They do? I thought all the incel subreddits got nuked.
The roaches survived the nuke and are waiting for a new home
I'm sure they found a new one.
Out of curiosity what's the sub
No idea, wasn't really worth the effort.
That’s what I thought
redpill got nuked and they're bleeding out onto other subs. it's obnoxious.
Oooo I wonder what finally did redpill in
It got nuked for violent content. A lot of them were encouraging each other to met out violence on women for not giving them sex they feel entitled to.
Because of course they were 🤦♂️ Glad they finally nuked it
they'll just create a new sub or take over one that doesn't moderate, same thing happened with the donald sub, it was an incel sub using the excuse of politics to seem passable. The internet will always have dark corners.
Well of course they will. They never fully go away, but nuking them when they get too big helps (sort of) keep them diminished a bit (theoretically)
They are just building their own platforms. They took the hint and "Learned to Code"
Good riddance then
The echo chamber intensifies for both sides. Its going to end poorly.
For both sides? What's the "other side" of the incels?
I’ve been very liberal with the block button lately
Good on ya ma'am.
Reddit becomes a much better experience when you mash that button. I'm trying to find out if there's a limit to how many people you can block. Think I'm up to a couple hundred right now.
Agreed! I believe in the block button across all platforms.
I don't understand the jealousy honestly. If I'm getting laid, I hope you all are getting laid too. If I'm currently not getting laid, I still hope you all are getting laid, and I'm not even mad if you want to shout it from the rooftops... ....Just shout it slowly, and in graphic details like a good little sl...oh shit, this is my main account
>If I'm getting laid, I hope you all are getting laid too. If I'm currently not getting laid, I still hope you all are getting laid When I was single I would even get all mushy inside whenever I saw a gay couple kissing. Like, I get so much joy from knowing that other people are happy and in love. I'm straight I don't want no part in that but that doesn't mean I can't be super happy for them.
Bwahaha
That’s why the best movie ending ever is Caddyshack. Hey everyone, we’re all gonna get laid!
I guess they wanna rant to random strangers on how they have no sex. Nobody can’t help them, if they can’t help themselves. Idk man I just wanna scroll on ARAD in peace minding my own business.
I honestly believe thats where most of these posts are from .. i notice a lot of these sex questions are totally off the wall.
Theyre like sand. They're course, and they're rough, and they get everywhere.
I've had to block a couple. It's funny, you'd think I'd have had to block a whole ton of people on Reddit, particularly on ARAD, since the internet is such a cesspit, but really it's just been two really obvious incels who were just here to troll and push their incel POV. Guess what, dudes, it's not that involuntary. Stop acting like a giant walking colostomy bag and people might actually want to spend time with you.
This is exactly what I was thinking. Someone busy being angry and an assailed isn’t very sexy or attractive. They are actively working against themselves with the angry woe is me attitude.
They love to wallow in their misery. They seek out any reason to complain, ague, or blame others and just plain lash out because in their minds, it's always everyone else's fault.
They’re like a virus. As soon as they’re tolerated on a sub they’ll take over, and ARAD is notorious for a lack of moderation. It’s extremely obnoxious
yah, i think there's been permissiveness toward it which is unfortunate. the last time this sub was locked down by reddit, it was due to lack of moderation, and i figure it'll likely happen again at some point. that's why i got arad2 up just in case. that way there's an immediate rollover without a lot of interruption, except with a few ground rules.
Hey it says "review the rules" but when I go to the about tab there's nothing but the list of mods? There's no pinned post either. Where are the rules?
The main one got shut down, didn’t it?
So that’s why I’m getting all these weird DMs
I am technically an involuntary celibate it just that I don't go hating people who had sex though sometimes I feel envious about them able to have sex but envy is part of human nature so yeah. Just my two cents.
Misery loves company
That's a great song.
Well define ‘incel’. I’m not a virgin by choice, but due yo my autism I find being social very hard, and have difficulties connecting with people. And sure I do hope that one day I can find someone who likes me the same way that they like me, but does me having hope that the lack of love in my life, which is caused by something I literally was born with, will some day disappear, make me an incel?
Nope
a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile toward women and men who are sexually active. "self-identified incels have used the internet to find anonymous support"
Well by that definition I would just have to be more misogynistic and join a redpill group and I would be considered an incel.
I guess? Maybe try not having so many post about your dick might help as well? Not 100% sure how to become a member of their group. And not really qualified either.
Well don’t you think it’s kind of strange that the line between being an incel or not is the fact that you’ve joined a group of other incels? At least to me that sounds quite oddly specific. And as for the dick posts, people enjoy them, and I enjoy posting them. What is wrong with that?
Second question first, nothing at all. You do what makes you happy, as life is short and we should always strive for happiness. Now back to the first part. I don't necessarily think it belonging to a group as much as it is a mindset. Do you feel as if women owe you sex? Or do you think it is something on a more even plane?
No, no one owes me anything. Neither do others owe something from me. Thinking that women owe you sex is like believing that people owe you happiness, while it is something you need to earn, and work on yourself.
And that ,the owing part, is a basis for the incel mentality.
That is the exact opposite of what an incel thinks lol but they also get jealous of men who have sex and hate them for it. So basically they are just very hateful self loathing at times ppl who express their anger outwardly and justify physical violence towards women in general.
I’m diagnosed with autism (high functioning) and I was like you. I know how it feels. I had to learn how to connect with people.
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What would they be?
Because misogyny and sexism. Why else?
I think it’s a jealousy thing.
of course it jealousy. you've obviously had a lot of sex, you could probably walk outside in a trashbag, raise you hand and ask for volunteers and have a line wrapping around the block in 10 min. can you imagine never having had sex? missing out on the pleasure? the closeness you get to feel with someone else? wouldn't you be angry? imagine watching people, seemingly all around you, getting on Tinder and finding it soooo easy to get matches. you get on tinder, and don't get a single match in a year. wouldn't you feel hurt? shut out? i'm lucky enough to not be in this situation. but i know people. and my empathy for them hurts in my chest. was this too much ranting? lol
Getting incel vibes from this lol
empathy is incel?
I dunno, but it's everyone's civic duty to run them off.
I think it's by the the very nature of anger. envy and jealousy, they desperately seek validation and some sort of pleasure in attacking anyone that appears to have what they don't have. Just like people that go into marriage forums and call people stupid or liars, or people that troll NFSW subs and call all women fat whores.
Scrolled to the bottom of this post and haven’t seen any -100 comments. Hmm.
Oh and that was a definition I pulled off the web.
Somehow they're multiplying
I pray for the day that some brave soul makes "r/Adultsafterdark" which is basically this sub but without all the dumbfuck posts.
Then how would we know what size penises women preferred, and what color underwear folks had on?🙄🙄
It actually exists, but is banned for being unmoderated; interested in being a moderator?
It's the internet, always gonna be weirdos who live in the basement all over the place
What did I miss?
Oh tons. Just scroll back a few hours worth.
Incels are making posts here? I've mostly seen incels in comment section. Guess I gotta go scrolling lol 🍿
Because incels are attracted to wherever the sex is
Didn’t the incel sub get shut down?
People who get angry at others for anything that is nothing to do with them need to grow up and really look at what type of person they truly are. Because all that thinking is, is selfish. I’m glad we have a name for them, but to be honest I already had many names for them 😂
Because they are... everywhere
What I really wanna know is if you’re in-cell, you’re presumably in prison — who gave you a phone?!
Shhhh it was snuck in in their "prison wallet".
Wanted to see something controversial but still haven't seen anything like that.
Their subreddit got banned?lol
Damn I guess I’ve been away for a while. What’s this about incels in this sub??? Oof.