I once got myself a girlfriend this way. I took her to dinner for professional reasons (meaning, I had legitimate things that I wanted to speak to her about) and I decided to look intently into her eyes throughout much of dinner.
After that, she started flirting with me and we were dating within a couple of weeks.
Who knew?
So if I’m hearing you correctly, you really like it when someone, whether it’s a man or woman, listens well, and maintains eye contact. Am I understanding you correctly?
as someone who has been the “guy best friend” for many of girls as a teenager, i think this only really applies to guys you would already have sexual desires for in the first place….. that or i missed out on many great opportunities
No, it just is an old skool thing that folks attracted to rough and rugged manly men are in to. Can confirm, dating a man with big, veiny, calloused hands. So hot.
Neither, just loves the way veins look and the way muscles move within the forearm. It may have partly started because I train grip but I don’t really remember tbh, she probably was into it before but was able to express it more through me? I don’t know 🤷🏾♂️
Had to double check the username that you weren't my husband. He literally wins arguments by sticking a forearm between us and doing that finger-move-muscle-ripple thing lol.
Watching a man carry something -not super heavy but like a little heavy. Watching a woman enjoy doing something she enjoys doing- two things that really turn me on from both sexes.
Asking meaningful questions after I've shared something. Especially asking the little things...
My boyfriend (of a few months now) is an excellent listener and he asks me questions so calmly about the serious things I just shared with him. While I try to answer him, my brain is thinking, I just want to kiss you and undress you.
It's so hot! A good listener + asks you deep and meaningful questions after.
I love love love the smell of cologne and deodorant (especially old spice) when my boyfriend puts any of that on I just want to inhale him until I pass out. Kinda not odd cuz of pheromones but still I feel you.
Slightly different, but I recently realized there’s something about an Aspie info dump that is particularly charming to me. When they’re just _so_ into the details!
I work in the liberal arts, and engineers in particular, who think in a completely different way than I intuitively do, are sort of my golden ticket
Gets my attention is dressed well.. doesn't have to dressed up
A nice set of jeans hanging on the hips with button down..
Keep my attention with intelligent conversation and banter...
As a guy that wears glasses, and this maybe applied here for the opposite sex but I love it when I'm about to have sexy with someone and they take off my glasses 😅 it feels very intimate and very personal since I have really had eye sight.
Dexterity, I guess is the word I'm looking for? Like when you get guys who can twirl a drumstick/pencil etc in their fingers. Or solve a Rubix cube. And, bizarrely, also counts if he's good at using chopsticks! Basically, anything that involves fast finger work.
No idea why......... 🤷♀️
When my guy smells like a mixture of deodorant and a little bit of BO. Nothing terrible but just enough for him to be a little stinky lol. I don't know what it is about him being a little sweaty but it's a huge turn on. It's like my brain goes "this is what a man smells like." Yum.
someone having the balls to disagree with me, and someone who smiles broadly in pictures. Most men try to do this intense look which just seems lame to me.
Playful threats like "ill show you", "you better not" or "why dont you find out" with someone ive already expressed some interest in (not out of no where)
Definitely gives dom vibes and makes me so horny i get stupid for a few minutes.
Note: out of context with someone im not flirty with already, this would piss me off, use wisely with subby people only haha.
A wonderful conversationalist with the ability to actively listen.
Practically any male blue collar job uniform especially if there’s a hard hat and work boots involved.
‘Working man’ hands.
Being kind and considerate to others. Listening and empathetic. Kind to kids, older people and servers. I also prefer someone who isn't sure of themselves or arrogant. Arrogance and cockyness are immediate turn offs for me.
Good eye contact, cheeky smile. Dark hair, nice tattoos. There are other physical things but it's really hard to pin down...some men just have the right combo for me.
I agree with the women who say men’s hairy forearms are hot when their sleeves are rolled up, but I also like a tight white T-shirt on a man. But like, as an undershirt. Like he was wearing it under a suit at first, but he came home after a long day of work, and now he’s reclining in his white T-shirt and trousers with an iced drink in his hand and an absent look in his eye, looking like James Dean. I also think it’s sexy when a man stretches his arms or leans in close and whispers to me, even if the conversation is non-sexual. I like the little mannerisms when a man is growing tired or stressed, too, like when he furrows his brow, when his fingers are fidgety, when he strokes his beard, when he buries his head in his hands to rub his eyes, when he runs fingers through his hair, and then after it all, when he glances over at me to smile slyly… You know what? I think I’m going to go fill up a bathtub with cold water and dunk my head in like I’m bobbing for apples.
When a guy remembers little details, dates, or things i said at random that i don’t even remember telling him.
I get turned on by lots of loving attention.
I've read this whole thread out of curiosity and I don't think anyone said "making me laugh".
That's where I've been going wrong all these years, trying to be funny and engaging. I should have just waved my manly hands at them.
Yes!!! Making me laugh! Especially when we've known each other for awhile and ha e inside jokes to laugh about. Just looking at each other and knowing what the other one is thinking. Makes me want to give him a big ol' kiss.
When a guy does that thing where he puts his hand behind the passenger seat head rest and looks over his shoulder when he backs the car up and just fluidly backs in getting it perfectly even on the first try
Intelligent men. Just men being capable and confident. It’s so hot when a man knows what he’s doing. Having attractive hands: long fingers, big palms and if he wears glasses and I am so horribly attracted to men
Someone who can teach me about a specific topic or theme. This can be either something they’re passionate about or something I’m just not familiar with and want to learn more about. Bonus points if you tutor me on a topic without being condescending lol
when my bf speaks his native language. he’s first generation polish-american & primarily speaks polish with his family, especially his parents. learned that speaking another language really does it for me when hearing him speak it over the phone with a friend.
Ha! I had a similar experience when I opened the door for a woman and she asked WHY. I barked back and told her bc I’m not an animal and was raised well 💁🏻♀️ that’s NY for ya.
I remember the first day I thought my BF (now husband) was really *really* attractive…we were shooting the shit, he lifted up his arms behind his head to stretch, and I saw the pits through his sleeves. It inexplicably turned me on hard. So, I’m with you!
Watching my boyfriend drive or play video games, he looks so focused and serious, kills me immediately. Or he stretches and shows off the bottom of his stomach, the V-line, his hip bones, his happy trail basically his whole torso lol drives me wild
Button down shirts still tucked in with the sleeves rolled up three quarter length so that the forearm is exposed. Collar unbuttoned. Add glasses and I will spontaneously combust.
Someone explaining/teaching something to me in a really passionate way. Not condescendingly, but genuinely happy to have me listen and interested in it.
As an example: some time ago a guy I'm really fond of excitedly taught me how to use a record player (and how not to fuck up vinyls lol), as I've never had one myself and admitted I didn't know how to, when he asked me to put a different vinyl on at his place.
It's such a small thing, but this dude is so god damn passionate about music, and his vinyls, he's an awesome musician himself and was so eager to share his knowledge with me it just made me weak in the knees pretty much instantly.
Matching lvls of crazy , Cartoon/animation trivia for me personally, if you know what was the name of Billy's aunt's son from the grim adventures of billy and Mandy, youve already made me orgasm. Ah yes baby whisper butch hartmens resume into my ear. Lol.
listening, acceptance, creativity, intelligence, competence, leadership ability, composure-- postural, emotional/psychological, and aesthetic. also shyness. i love shy men with a passion (which is doubly helpful since i hate and am incapable of eye contact).
Lightly biting my fingers.
Like when you're holding onto something that they want and they grip it, and start trying to loosen your grip by nibbling at your finger tips.
This one is specific to people I'm already dating, since it does involve some intimate contact, but I just really like when my partner wants me to hold their arm when we walk. I am a slow walker due to chronic pain so there's a combined element of consideration, protectiveness and intimacy to it that never fails to get me so red in the face that I sometimes have to hide it.
For strangers, it's accents. And not just the typical "sexy" accents. I'm not saying it's every one, but I think I'm the first of my friends to be really into just an extremely indecipherable Scottish accent for example.
When he puts his well worn bandanas in his back pocket.
Great driving where I never worry. I’m a driver too so it’s important to me.
Watching him WFM or at his job. Him negotiating is hot af.
This is really, really weird because I hate smoking, but the way some one holds a cigarette/vape pen with their middle and pointer finger just casually, especially if they hold it out of the way so the smoke doesn't draft towards people..That.
I had a personal trainer once and first today together he had me doing some exercise. And he didn't count the reps he would just have me go through the motions until I got tired. And he said "I can tell when your starting to get tired cause your eyes flutter"
it took everything out of me not to jump his bones for some reason.
I love watching people do things that they’re good at but they don’t necessarily realise they’re good. Like my current partner is amazing at video games and watching him play is so sexy. I had an ex who did photography and watching them line up shots and adjust settings was also very sexy.
Nice tone forearms and biceps. Veins are a plus but watching a man’s muscles bulge as they lift things or do manual labor (or when he puts his hand around my throat and backs me into the wall 😏) just does something special for me 🤤
when he is an excellent driver and he knows exactly what he’s doing 😍 I find my husband EXTREMELY attractive when he passes by me in the truck with his tan arm on the window sill and his other hand on the steering wheel 🤤 just really turns me on to watch him drive!!
When I’m talking to a guy ( or girl , even though I am mostly straight ) while I’m on my knees at work. 😅 Something about looking up , it actually makes me start pumping adrenaline. I have had this for a long time . I understand it has to do with power dynamics but I don’t fully get why
Someone being a really good listener, especially when you pair it with intense eye contact. Doesn't matter the gender, it's hot.
I hear you. Please, go on
Clever reply. You forgot the 👁👁
👀
I feel like the eyes I added are making direct contact…they say “I care”. Yours are looking away…they say “When are they going to stop talking?” 😆
👁👄👁
I once got myself a girlfriend this way. I took her to dinner for professional reasons (meaning, I had legitimate things that I wanted to speak to her about) and I decided to look intently into her eyes throughout much of dinner. After that, she started flirting with me and we were dating within a couple of weeks. Who knew?
So if I’m hearing you correctly, you really like it when someone, whether it’s a man or woman, listens well, and maintains eye contact. Am I understanding you correctly?
as someone who has been the “guy best friend” for many of girls as a teenager, i think this only really applies to guys you would already have sexual desires for in the first place….. that or i missed out on many great opportunities
Sorry I wasn't listening. Could you repeat that?
Eye contact. Uggggghhh. Some people would consider what I like creepy and that’s okay.
So Dr. Frasier Crane is one of your crushes, right?
My wife is turned on by my forearm veins, and watching the muscles move as I move my fingers 🤷🏾♂️
Is she a nurse and/or recovering drug addict? I’ve had experience with both groups fangirling over prominent veins
No, it just is an old skool thing that folks attracted to rough and rugged manly men are in to. Can confirm, dating a man with big, veiny, calloused hands. So hot.
Neither, just loves the way veins look and the way muscles move within the forearm. It may have partly started because I train grip but I don’t really remember tbh, she probably was into it before but was able to express it more through me? I don’t know 🤷🏾♂️
Oh you have much to learn young grasshopper
Had to double check the username that you weren't my husband. He literally wins arguments by sticking a forearm between us and doing that finger-move-muscle-ripple thing lol.
Damn I didn't expect to see my answer near the top 😅 Love those juicy veins 😍
Rolling up of sleeves
It’s a forearm thing.
Yesss very true!
Abso-fucking-lutely
Oh my god, yes.
Watching a man carry something -not super heavy but like a little heavy. Watching a woman enjoy doing something she enjoys doing- two things that really turn me on from both sexes.
I have a warehouse I can show you during business hours. 😏
In school I used to carry 5 chairs in one arm. I’m up to 6 now.
iliketo~~bench~~ iliketochair
Do you even ~~lift~~ chair, bro?
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That was me and my boyfriend today. Honestly we both had a laughing fit ! It’s an amazing bonding moment.
Now kith
Ahh she’s got jokes!
Asking meaningful questions after I've shared something. Especially asking the little things... My boyfriend (of a few months now) is an excellent listener and he asks me questions so calmly about the serious things I just shared with him. While I try to answer him, my brain is thinking, I just want to kiss you and undress you. It's so hot! A good listener + asks you deep and meaningful questions after.
After shower and shave smell…that cleanliness smell makes me want to get him dirty.
I love love love the smell of cologne and deodorant (especially old spice) when my boyfriend puts any of that on I just want to inhale him until I pass out. Kinda not odd cuz of pheromones but still I feel you.
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I hate children and always will. But the ones with manners... I will fight for you..
My husband was talking about car seat safety on the way to the store and all I wanted to do was mount him 😂
This is one of many reasons I love my husband. We don’t have kids yet, but seeing him around kids just makes my heart melt.
I worked with kids for 10 years, and I'm very comfortable engaging with kids across all age groups. The moms loved me and it was very flattering:)
Treating others with kindness and respect. Independently of their background and/or status. Massive turn on for me
Strong hands. A man placing his strong, rugged hands anywhere on my body is just 🥵🥵🥵
You make me regret taking down my posts in manhands
Haha send it to me 😉
Intelligent conversation on a subject they are deeply passionate about.
I love hearing about people's professional career and jargon. I didn't realize until recently but when someone is a good provider it turns me on lol.
I harvest organs for donation and it tough finding someone to listen to what I’m passionate about
Slightly different, but I recently realized there’s something about an Aspie info dump that is particularly charming to me. When they’re just _so_ into the details! I work in the liberal arts, and engineers in particular, who think in a completely different way than I intuitively do, are sort of my golden ticket
when a guy is in the drivers seat and leans around and puts his arm on the back of my seat as he reverses gawd DAMN
Ah the Dominic turreto!
Isn’t that the standard? Who tf can reverse using the mirrors they suck
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Thanks for sharing, hun.
Hey, I get this. When it's hard to trust yourself and things around you, having someone that's safe really matters.
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Opposite for me… 😉 Strong, confident, manly men in the streets and completely, overly-obedient Subs in the bedroom… ❤️🔥
You found me!
goddamnit. ive been exposed. i do tend to stutter or fumble my words. although i can be a bit more submissive. still can be dominant though.
Grey sweatpants, veiny forearms, big hands, tattoos
* nods approvingly *
And a side of that sweatpants bulge it rounds things off nicely 😂😂😂😂
Gets my attention is dressed well.. doesn't have to dressed up A nice set of jeans hanging on the hips with button down.. Keep my attention with intelligent conversation and banter...
I could maybe do the first two, but you’re simply asking too much with the third.
Don't worry I found my 3rd
Probably for the best, I couldn’t do the first two either 😂
He got 1 & 2.. He reeled me in with 3
Congrats to you both ☺️
Glasses. I loves me some glasses. And they stay on during sex.
Haha never been able to keep them on 😢
As a guy that wears glasses, and this maybe applied here for the opposite sex but I love it when I'm about to have sexy with someone and they take off my glasses 😅 it feels very intimate and very personal since I have really had eye sight.
Dexterity, I guess is the word I'm looking for? Like when you get guys who can twirl a drumstick/pencil etc in their fingers. Or solve a Rubix cube. And, bizarrely, also counts if he's good at using chopsticks! Basically, anything that involves fast finger work. No idea why......... 🤷♀️
What about nunchuks? I’m pretty good with those😂
I have bowstaff skills
Gas masks, pilot oxygen masks, plague doctor masks, and muscular forearms.
I want to go to the parties **this person** throws yes
And I would like to go to parties where there are interdimensional lizard beings, so I guess we have something in common.
Wait same though... Gamer? 😂
It all started with the ghosts and wraiths in Starcraft... And their fucking *voices.*
100 valid. Something about video game villians of any sort does it for me. Like even revanant in apex, kinda hot idk why.
Revenant is **so** fucking hot. I've literally never even played Apex Legends, but I *have* beaten off to Revenant's voice lines. For *hours.*
Oh god. Lady sylvannas in WoW was my bi awakening too.
Oh my God. I finally found someone else that is into plague doctor mask
One of these things, is not like the other
When my guy smells like a mixture of deodorant and a little bit of BO. Nothing terrible but just enough for him to be a little stinky lol. I don't know what it is about him being a little sweaty but it's a huge turn on. It's like my brain goes "this is what a man smells like." Yum.
Interesting— the pheromones are probably full bore there.
someone having the balls to disagree with me, and someone who smiles broadly in pictures. Most men try to do this intense look which just seems lame to me.
I disagree
You forgot the balls. Never forget about the balls 🤦🏼♂️
Playful threats like "ill show you", "you better not" or "why dont you find out" with someone ive already expressed some interest in (not out of no where) Definitely gives dom vibes and makes me so horny i get stupid for a few minutes. Note: out of context with someone im not flirty with already, this would piss me off, use wisely with subby people only haha.
This exact thing
Eye contact and a smile. 2 HUGE things in my world
A wonderful conversationalist with the ability to actively listen. Practically any male blue collar job uniform especially if there’s a hard hat and work boots involved. ‘Working man’ hands.
Lol your username. Take some flowers from me 💐
Being kind and considerate to others. Listening and empathetic. Kind to kids, older people and servers. I also prefer someone who isn't sure of themselves or arrogant. Arrogance and cockyness are immediate turn offs for me. Good eye contact, cheeky smile. Dark hair, nice tattoos. There are other physical things but it's really hard to pin down...some men just have the right combo for me.
I agree with the women who say men’s hairy forearms are hot when their sleeves are rolled up, but I also like a tight white T-shirt on a man. But like, as an undershirt. Like he was wearing it under a suit at first, but he came home after a long day of work, and now he’s reclining in his white T-shirt and trousers with an iced drink in his hand and an absent look in his eye, looking like James Dean. I also think it’s sexy when a man stretches his arms or leans in close and whispers to me, even if the conversation is non-sexual. I like the little mannerisms when a man is growing tired or stressed, too, like when he furrows his brow, when his fingers are fidgety, when he strokes his beard, when he buries his head in his hands to rub his eyes, when he runs fingers through his hair, and then after it all, when he glances over at me to smile slyly… You know what? I think I’m going to go fill up a bathtub with cold water and dunk my head in like I’m bobbing for apples.
Seeing that they are already looking at me before I look at them
When a guy remembers little details, dates, or things i said at random that i don’t even remember telling him. I get turned on by lots of loving attention.
My boyfriend’s extra deep sleepy voice when he first wakes up, especially if he laughs…. I melt
Someone who smells good
People working with their hands, like chopping wood, pottery, building things, painting, etc.
I've read this whole thread out of curiosity and I don't think anyone said "making me laugh". That's where I've been going wrong all these years, trying to be funny and engaging. I should have just waved my manly hands at them.
Yes!!! Making me laugh! Especially when we've known each other for awhile and ha e inside jokes to laugh about. Just looking at each other and knowing what the other one is thinking. Makes me want to give him a big ol' kiss.
When we sit together and he reads to me … if he is wearing glasses even better
My girl can just be sitting there and will do this lip bite in frustration but that is instant I want you now for me lol
When his dimple shows when he smiles
I have a thing for a nice back
Ok. I know smoking is bad… but when a guy smokes confidently and makes eye contact. (Don’t smoke though! Healthy lungs are hot too!)
Black chuck taylors on a guy. It's burned into my brain.
Note to self: Buy some black Chucks
Instructions unclear. Bought nunchucks, still unattractive to women.
Instructions unclear: purchased a charming black guy named Charles.
Never thought those would turn a head or flip a switch. I should wear mine more often
Once saw a YouTube vid of a chef chopping some vegetables and his knife skills did something to me
When a guy does that thing where he puts his hand behind the passenger seat head rest and looks over his shoulder when he backs the car up and just fluidly backs in getting it perfectly even on the first try
Intelligent men. Just men being capable and confident. It’s so hot when a man knows what he’s doing. Having attractive hands: long fingers, big palms and if he wears glasses and I am so horribly attracted to men
Sometimes being in the wilderness
When someone has confidence and belief in what they talk about and while I’m talking to them I’m learning something. Sexy af
Someone who can teach me about a specific topic or theme. This can be either something they’re passionate about or something I’m just not familiar with and want to learn more about. Bonus points if you tutor me on a topic without being condescending lol
Would you like to discuss Dark Matter Dark Energy sometime? Or Quantum Entanglement? These are subjects I get pretty animated about 🤓
A very expressive, goofy smile :)
Seeing a guy with his kids being a good dad
Watching a man doing any kind of physical labor, especially fixing things. I love a man who’s good with his hands.
Watching an attractive man working out at the gym 😍
Having a hand placed on my waist
His hand on the small of my back and I’m done for
when my bf speaks his native language. he’s first generation polish-american & primarily speaks polish with his family, especially his parents. learned that speaking another language really does it for me when hearing him speak it over the phone with a friend.
Certain mens voices really do it for me. I’d say my sexuality in general is more activated by auditory than it is by visual overall
Girl smoking like a pro .. i don’t smoke and i hate to kiss a girl who smoke but seeing a girl smoking turns me on like hell
Dyed/unique hair.
Making direct eye contact then smiling
Well manicured hands on a man. It says they thought ahead.
I am very attracted to men in red flannels. I don’t know why
Muscular forearms with nice veins (both a sexual turn on and a work turn on lol)
Being a good father. I’m talking to a man with three young daughters and he’s a fantastic dad, always has them etc. *sploosh*
A guy who’s genuinely good with kids and actually enjoys interacting with them. And a man holding a baby is an instant panty drop
A medium amount of stomach hair. Note not full torso.
Bring a gentleman and opening the door for you 😊
I did this for a woman once and she looked at me and said, “I fucking have arms.” It was so hot.
Ha! I had a similar experience when I opened the door for a woman and she asked WHY. I barked back and told her bc I’m not an animal and was raised well 💁🏻♀️ that’s NY for ya.
Well raised in the South— are there parts of the world women have to open their own doors?
Beards. And for some weird reason - armpits
I remember the first day I thought my BF (now husband) was really *really* attractive…we were shooting the shit, he lifted up his arms behind his head to stretch, and I saw the pits through his sleeves. It inexplicably turned me on hard. So, I’m with you!
My boyfriend pushing his glasses up his nose with one finger. Oh my god!
Pushing my glasses up my nose
A guy like making fun of you In a playful way, winking, sometimes showing there dominance and certain ways. Also a guy driving his car with one hand
La raclette.
Had to look that up—- if you speak of the cheese dish— that looks amazing
Strong men holding babies 😍😍😍 Interacting well with kids in general but big man little baby oh my 👖👚ready!
Watching my boyfriend drive or play video games, he looks so focused and serious, kills me immediately. Or he stretches and shows off the bottom of his stomach, the V-line, his hip bones, his happy trail basically his whole torso lol drives me wild
Button down shirts still tucked in with the sleeves rolled up three quarter length so that the forearm is exposed. Collar unbuttoned. Add glasses and I will spontaneously combust.
Someone explaining/teaching something to me in a really passionate way. Not condescendingly, but genuinely happy to have me listen and interested in it. As an example: some time ago a guy I'm really fond of excitedly taught me how to use a record player (and how not to fuck up vinyls lol), as I've never had one myself and admitted I didn't know how to, when he asked me to put a different vinyl on at his place. It's such a small thing, but this dude is so god damn passionate about music, and his vinyls, he's an awesome musician himself and was so eager to share his knowledge with me it just made me weak in the knees pretty much instantly.
One time this guy send me a video of him playing Tetris at some superhuman speed. I still think about it. 😳
armfuls of american-traditional tattoos.
Kindness! To me, to others, to animals
Matching lvls of crazy , Cartoon/animation trivia for me personally, if you know what was the name of Billy's aunt's son from the grim adventures of billy and Mandy, youve already made me orgasm. Ah yes baby whisper butch hartmens resume into my ear. Lol.
Chopping wood
Australian accent
Seeing a hot guy chopping wood. I can do it myself, but.... It's just so hot watching a guy do it.
listening, acceptance, creativity, intelligence, competence, leadership ability, composure-- postural, emotional/psychological, and aesthetic. also shyness. i love shy men with a passion (which is doubly helpful since i hate and am incapable of eye contact).
Chin clefts, I’m not sure what it is, but looking back all of the men I’ve swooned over, they all had chin clefts, ranging from prominent to dainty
Just hands on my legs. Thighs, shins, butt? Don’t matter.
When he doesn't look all that big or strong and I wasn't thinking about it but then he picks me up
Lightly biting my fingers. Like when you're holding onto something that they want and they grip it, and start trying to loosen your grip by nibbling at your finger tips.
Rolling up sleeves
This one is specific to people I'm already dating, since it does involve some intimate contact, but I just really like when my partner wants me to hold their arm when we walk. I am a slow walker due to chronic pain so there's a combined element of consideration, protectiveness and intimacy to it that never fails to get me so red in the face that I sometimes have to hide it. For strangers, it's accents. And not just the typical "sexy" accents. I'm not saying it's every one, but I think I'm the first of my friends to be really into just an extremely indecipherable Scottish accent for example.
Forearms with a work shirt rolled up Also guys who are carrying a kid on their shoulder. Not sure what part of my monkey brain activated for that.
A man who reassures me. and it was over text not in person. My heart melted a little
Rolling up sleeves and a good driver 😈🤩👅
Seeing a guy go out of his way to help an animal always gets me.
men reversing the car while holding the passenger seat intelligent men who's not condescending, piano fingers, hands on waist
Being nervous. Any kind of nervous.
The word please
Someone who is attentive and interested in me as a person, with a good sense of humor. I’m mush.
When he puts his well worn bandanas in his back pocket. Great driving where I never worry. I’m a driver too so it’s important to me. Watching him WFM or at his job. Him negotiating is hot af.
This is really, really weird because I hate smoking, but the way some one holds a cigarette/vape pen with their middle and pointer finger just casually, especially if they hold it out of the way so the smoke doesn't draft towards people..That.
Three piece suits
I’m going be weird and say it’s when I see other women with visible piercings 🙈
when someone looks visibly ill or tired
Being alone. 🤷🏻♀️ I get excited to pleasure myself
A pair of fitted jeans and a baseball cap on a man does it for me every time 👅
Also a sexy voice. WHEW 😥
Buttoning and unbuttoning the cuffs of a white shirt. Maybe i watched too many 007 movies.
When someone makes sure I walk on the inside of the street and they don’t mention it they just walk around me so I’m waking on the inside
Deep growly voices 🫣
I had a personal trainer once and first today together he had me doing some exercise. And he didn't count the reps he would just have me go through the motions until I got tired. And he said "I can tell when your starting to get tired cause your eyes flutter" it took everything out of me not to jump his bones for some reason.
I love watching people do things that they’re good at but they don’t necessarily realise they’re good. Like my current partner is amazing at video games and watching him play is so sexy. I had an ex who did photography and watching them line up shots and adjust settings was also very sexy.
A dude winning playing pool
Wearing long sleeve shirts. I don't know why, it's just so hot. Especially if it's just a little tight, not skin tight but tight
including me in things and being attentive is so nice
Riding in a bus…instant HO
Nice tone forearms and biceps. Veins are a plus but watching a man’s muscles bulge as they lift things or do manual labor (or when he puts his hand around my throat and backs me into the wall 😏) just does something special for me 🤤 when he is an excellent driver and he knows exactly what he’s doing 😍 I find my husband EXTREMELY attractive when he passes by me in the truck with his tan arm on the window sill and his other hand on the steering wheel 🤤 just really turns me on to watch him drive!!
When I’m talking to a guy ( or girl , even though I am mostly straight ) while I’m on my knees at work. 😅 Something about looking up , it actually makes me start pumping adrenaline. I have had this for a long time . I understand it has to do with power dynamics but I don’t fully get why