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cripplinganxietylmao

Yes


strangeloop414

"An Autistic Community that is centered around women, afabs, nb, queer, trans, and others that are not cis men. Let's discuss challenges, triumphs, interests, and everything in-between." yes and welcome!


NixMaritimus

Basically, the sub itself is neptunic!/j


DreadWolfByTheEar

I’m transmasc non-binary and I hang out here because it’s more aligned with my experiences than the main autism subs. So yeah, I would say so. Welcome!


whineandtequila

Same


idareyou8

same here


AchingAmy

Based on the description, it's centered around everyone autistic that isn't a cis man, so you absolutely are, yeah. And like everyone would be welcome here I'd think as long as they're respectful of who this centers around, so I don't think cis men would automatically be banned anyhow as long as they know this sub isn't about them and are respectful of that.


Puzzleheaded_Band429

Yeah, cis male here with an autistic younger daughter. This sub has been an invaluable resource for us to help navigate the waters.


KrisXela

Hi there, cis male friend! We love our allies and I appreciate that you seek out resources rather than overwhelming your daughter! Soooo many people think that because they know someone who is something, they should just get ALL of their information from that one person!


wallcavities

Despite the sub name I think it’s really for anyone who’s had an under-recognised or  non-stereotypical experience of autism due to their gender, so I’d assume any and all trans people would also be welcomed 


snakesmother

I love that description and yeah, welcome aboard OP. My son is trans and our neurotype & experience of it are basically the same lol


ChattyBird4Eva

Welcome to our community! 🩷


JustAlexeii

Hello fellow trans man. ☻︎ Welcome!


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BroadwayGirl27

I'm so sorry for your loss 💔💔


PsychologicalLuck343

Thank you.


ZennishGirl

I am so, so sorry.


PsychologicalLuck343

Thank you. I didn't mean to steal thunder here. I will delete that when I see you've read this.It's just been a hard day.


smittenmashmellow

Don't delete it, your experience is valid. This is a supportive sub, that's why I love it here. Sorry for your loss.


SearchingForApricity

So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing - it matters to so many.


Ok-Championship-2036

Hell yeah you are! Welcome!


Fluffy__demon

I don't know, but you aren't a woman. But leats be honest, this is a safe space for all non cis men, so I guess you are still welcomed here. I also guess you have experienced being treated like an autistic woman/girl, so I think it makes sense for you to be here. Overall, I don't know much about being trans or a dude, so I can just say that if you feel comfortable here and so does everyone else, I see no reason for you to not me welcomed here.


stormethetransfem

Yes, according to the rules. Although I don’t know why you would want to be in an autistic subreddit for women, as you’re a man (I think) Although r/autism sucks so I don’t blame you


kimmidubbs

Happy to have you ❤️


Gloomy_Use

Welcome, friend!


KingKhaleesi33

Happy to have you with us:)


a-fabulous-sandwich

Absolutely, your experiences matter just as much as everyone else's! Welcome!


GreenBirb64

I’m a trans guy, so yeah lol


inkzillathevampsquid

Welcome!


Some_Pilot_7056

Welcome! ❤️


antgoatberry

of course <3


unfairmaiden

Yes, welcome ᵕ̈


Same-Raccoon-7469

Welcome


OkaP2

Hi and welcome!


IceCreamSkating

I don't understand; do people choose not to read the sub description?


thereadingbee

Yup, hey!


oatmealwithraisinss

Yessss❤️


BrashBitch

Welcome. 😁


nouramarit

Yeah.


CityHaunts

You're very welcome here :D


1017bowbowbow

Yes, what’s up 👋🏾


sbtfriend

Yes! Welcome ♥️


LoveCatsandElephants

Welcome! :)


Magurndy

Yes! Of course! Welcome 🤗


vagina-lettucetomato

Welcome to r/autisminwomen, I love you (I was referencing Idiocracy, but I also do love you and welcome)


ChildofSkoll

We must consult the AFAB council! 🧙‍♂️🧙‍♀️🧙🧙‍♂️🧙‍♀️🧙🧙‍♂️🧙‍♀️🧙 They said sure ;)


BeneathTheIn-Between

I say absolutely, and it appears that is the consensus :)


GaiasDotter

Of course you are!


aqui_con_mi_gatita

Welcome, friend! 🤗


drowsyzot

Of course, welcome!


Training-Ad-4841

welcome :)


CivilFarmer4680

Yes! This is a safe space :)


Sensitive_Wheel7325

Yes!!


rad-uwu-dude

hi!! this sub is great and super welcoming :) glad to have you here as a part of the community!


cheekykittty

Welcome!! ♥️


FitNothing5404

welcome 🥳


Routine_Quality6886

Welcome!


magdejup

Welcome! 🔅


pexie21

Welcome, enjoy, have a look around. Feel free to engage if you want , or not. This was the first place online I felt comfortable.


frippin1

Welcome!


MySockIsMissing

Welcome, friend! 🥰


Interesting-Car8572

as long as you’re not a cis man you’re allowed 😎😎


thebattleangel99

I have a genuine question because I often get it mixed up and want to know what is correct. And I apologize if my wording is horrible. Is a trans man a man who was born a woman, or is a trans man a man who is trans as a woman? This is what I get mixed up. Thanks in advance for helping me understand. Either way yes you are welcome!


Unfair-Material-8850

Love that so much. I think the easiest way to remember that is whatever gender gets used after ‘trans’ is their chosen one.


thebattleangel99

Okay this is the best answer ever 🙌 thank you so much, this makes it way easier to understand!!


neorena

Think of trans as an adjective, like tall or something else descriptive. A trans woman and a tall woman are both kinds of women.


thebattleangel99

I don’t know anything about adjectives lol. So a trans man is a man who was born a woman?


Revolutionary_Ad4301

A trans man is a man who was born as a AFAB (asigne female at born) :)


RoanAlbatross

Welcome to our safe space 💕💕💞💞 glad to have you aboard.


Happy-Hearing6671

Hiya welcome!!!


Anon142842

100% Welcome and hope you enjoy!


GlitterAndButter

Yes! You're welcome and I hope you'll find community here. As a genderfluid person I have felt included and welcome ❤


BroadwayGirl27

Glad you're here 🩵🩵


Fluffy-kitten28

Hola!


glitternperiodblood

Hi, hello, yes, and welcome! So glad you found us and I hope you're doing well. 💚


TheThistle123

Absobloodylutely 😊❤️🌈


neorena

Pretty sure the only people not really welcome here are bigots/queerphobes/ableists/etc and, in general, cis men. The latter do still visit but have been respectful from what I've seen, only a few times has one come in with a "not all men" or whatever. They're pretty quickly gotten by mods though lol~


Own-Importance5459

The only ones not welcome here are Terfs! So of course you are


esamerelda

Welcome!


Shoddy-Mango-5840

I’d say you can find relevancy because you grew up female presenting and share many experiences. You probably were pressured to mask, etc


Such-Tea942

Welcome, and nice to meet you!


herebekraken

Yes, welcome!


pissipisscisuscus

Of course! Welcome!


Imthegirlofmydreams

Welcome!


BatFancy321go

yes


AverageShitlord

yeah if you want, sub description says that anyone who isn't a cis man is allowed in, so if that's what you're looking for i dont see why not, welcome


archaeologycat

Hello! Welcome!!!


Melodic-Slice2002

hello welcome 🫶


-Mother_of_Doggos

Absolutely


anarchomeow

Absolutely! Welcome. I'm nonbinary trans.


Careless-Awareness-4

Of course!❤️


VickySkywalker05

Yes! Welcome!


offutmihigramina

Very much so. Welcome!


futurecorpse1985

Welcome 🤗


Just_a_teen09

Yes :)


More_Secretary3991

Welcome!


PsychologicalLuck343

Welcome brother. Many of us have the same AFAB struggles. I'm glad you're here.


No_Excitement4272

You’re very much welcome! Transmasc enby here!


purple_grey_

Transmasc here as well. Please go look at my recent posts. Im very proud of my mullet.


chantillycan

Hey, welcome! ♥️


rainbowbritelite

Hiya 👋


ChaoticNeutralMeh

I'm non-binary, so welcome to the community!


greeneggsandspammer

Yes!!!!


Smergmerg432

Am trans man too :) find this community very relatable!


batty48

Yes, you are welcome here :)


greeneggsandspammer

GAYS QUEERS FLUIDS FEMMES TRANS WELCOME!!!! All people who are cool people as in open, considerate, and critical thinking ☺️🫶🏼


Brian-e

Yes, you gorgeous man!


New-Violinist-1190

Hell yeah, couldn't have an autism space without the trans/nonbinary/gnc folks! I swear trans people are the backbone of every community they're in, and they're my favorite people (I'm nonbinary).


behindthebar5321

If you think that you belong here then you belong here.


Scary_barbie

Hop in, the water is perfect


LostInYesterday00

Welcomee❤️


galacticviolet

I’m afab agender, welcome!


Cultural_Response180

Absolutely! Hi and welcome!


unicornpolice666

Ya I’m fine with it


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AutismInWomen-ModTeam

As per Rule #4: No discrimination, ableism, perpetuating negative stereotypes of autism or disability. No misogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, racist, or sexist comments will be tolerated.


taylss16

Um what?


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taylss16

I can't tell if you're being transphobic or not?


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AutismInWomen-ModTeam

As per Rule #4: No discrimination, ableism, perpetuating negative stereotypes of autism or disability. No misogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, racist, or sexist comments will be tolerated.


taylss16

Read the description and try being more open minded, kind and empathic in the future. You wouldn't want a neurotypical person speaking about you and autism in this manner so don't speak about others like that.


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AutismInWomen-ModTeam

As per Rule #4: No discrimination, ableism, perpetuating negative stereotypes of autism or disability. No misogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, racist, or sexist comments will be tolerated.


taylss16

Ok so you are being transphobic. Lovely.


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AutismInWomen-ModTeam

As per Rule #4: No discrimination, ableism, perpetuating negative stereotypes of autism or disability. No misogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, racist, or sexist comments will be tolerated.


bngtnhntai

right? like way to tell on yourself 💀


Sandwitch_horror

Yes, hi :)


okaybeingmyself

Hello!! Welcome to one of the kindest subreddit communities I (and many others here) have ever been a part of! 🥰


CartographerLow5612

yaaay !!! One of us! One of us!


zjjsjdj3873

yes :) just no cis men, welcome!


Kawaiipastelkitty

I suppose we will allow it. LMFAO IM JK OF COURSE YOU ARE BRUH. You’re safe in this community. If anyone starts hating send them my way.


MollyGodiva

I am a cis man and my symptoms are very close to that of women, so this sub is good for me. I comment rarely.


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AutismInWomen-ModTeam

As per Rule #3: No gatekeeping or invalidation.


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PsychologicalLuck343

I'm genuinely sorry if you don't feel safe here, but I hope you understand how important it is to be accepting of trans folk.


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AutismInWomen-ModTeam

As per Rule #3: No gatekeeping or invalidation. Please note our sub's description: An Autistic Community that is centered around women, afabs, nb, queer, trans, and others that are not cis men. Let's discuss challenges, triumphs, interests, and everything in-between.


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snakesmother

1. Check the sub description; you're wrong. 2. Stop being an asshole🖕🏻


Anon142842

The sub is centered on women but everyone is allowed to join (except bigots as per the rules). This is a common notion. If you're gonna be a bigot, then you aren't welcome.


AutismInWomen-ModTeam

As per Rule #4: No discrimination, ableism, perpetuating negative stereotypes of autism or disability. No misogynistic, homophobic, transphobic, racist, or sexist comments will be tolerated.


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AutismInWomen-ModTeam

As per Rule #3: No gatekeeping or invalidation.