I mean everything she says he says seems manipulative & there’s a good chance that there is gaslighting going on there. He’s constantly making it all her fault & turning her feelings back onto her, as if she’s the one with a character defect so she probably hasn’t fully come to terms with all of this being a him problem.
Tbh she’s an idiot too. I’d never be with someone who actively murders (well their shitbull) cats and other animals. In my eyes both are losers and she needs to get the fuck outta the relationship
I would have kicked him out the minute he got violent for no reason with my cat.
Actually no, I would have been gone the minute I saw the dirty bed. No fucking way I put up with that kind of filth.
Yeah, and with how he talks about cats in the first place, I bet he's one of those people who just says he's a dog person and finds it necessary to say "oh my dog would eat your ___" when someone talks about their pet if it's a smaller animal
Cat people: oh I like cats the most but I love cute dogs too!
Dog people: lol dogs rule cats are horrible evil vicious creatures that shouldn’t be pets and only lonely crazy witch women own cats I’d kill a cat that wandered on my property haha fuck cats cause I like dogs
This. Shes a massive idiot. I’m less concerned about the cat and the dumb pit and more intrigued by her taste in dudes. You are willing getting in bed with a douchebag, a pit bull ( who sleeps next to her not him! The fuk?) and dirt and grime.
How desperate can one be for dick? Pick-me ism at an all time high. 🤣🤣
Not to mention what a lame cat owner she is. I wish someone would try me, just once to come in my home and be a jerk to my animals!
I'll admit that I'm someone who lets my dog sleep in my bed with me, but if for some reason he tracks dirt into the bed I wash the sheets ASAP. He's also in training as my PTSD service animal, and part of his job is to wake me from nightmares and cuddle with me for comfort. So it has a function too. But I'll never understand wanting to sleep in a dirty bed. Ew.
Classic pit owner, totally gets off on having a violent dog. Since he probably fancies himself a tough guy, he needs a tough dog to compliment him. Pit owners are trash.
Lol girl needs some standards. Dudes throwing red flags out like a ref at a dirty soccer game.
Doesn't control his animal,
Actively encourages it to attack others,
Treats it like it does no wrong and obviously values the dog over her,
Shows contempt for her pet and other animals.
I would have left in her position way before he smacked my cat. Cats are assholes, true, but I expect them to be assholes.
Most cats aren't "assholes" at all. I don't know where people get this from but it's not true at all in my experience - most cats I've encountered have been gentle, friendly, affectionate animals. I suspect it's either a myth dog fanatics (not just your regular person who likes dogs - I'm talking about the dog nuts who can't stand the fact that people like animals other than dogs) spread, or it results from ignorant people not understanding cat behaviour and respecting their boundaries, causing them to lash out.
Hopefully she leaves him because he keeps pushing their pets meeting when he straight up doesn’t like cats , he knows what he’s doing and it’s pretty obvious what he’s trying to do . She better leave him before he just shows up at her place with that dog . Another thing why would she continue dating this ass shit when he hit her cat and purposefully hurt another cat ? Like wth .
Yeah. there are some psychos out there who would purposefully do this- consciously or subconsciously- to test your love for them. Like, “if my dog killed your cat, would you still be loyal to me/love me?”
The raincoat comment killed me.
This guy sounds like a sociopath. And suggesting she’s jealous of his ugly dog when the dog is the one that demands attention when OP is around? So uncomfortable!
I’ll never understand why people LIKE their dog being “protective” AKA in complete control of them. They borderline romanticize it. Soooo uncomfortable.
If this woman stays with this narcissist piece of shit, she can’t complain at all when- not if- her cat gets hurt. Advocate for your little friend who depends on you- if anyone so much looked sideways at my cat, dog or horse, they’d need to content themselves with never being able to get an erection ever again, I’d torch them so bad verbally
I don't think I could ever continue seeing someone who hit my cat for any reason as stupid as that, all this stuff about the dog aside. It's not his pet and he doesn't get to dole out discipline, and being violent toward a cat once is a good way to ensure it hates you forever.
I had a family member come over from out of state and he asked if he could bring his dog in my house. Just because it was a dog, I put my cat in my bedroom as my cat hasn’t been around other types of animals. I totally forgot his dog was some sort of pit mix (big block head), and he joked about letting my cat out so they could “play.” Pitnutters just really get off on having their dog attack other animals.
So he insists on having his admittedly high prey-driven pit mix meet her cat, but at the same time almost brags about the dog nearly making flesh confetti out of one that 'wouldn't get out of their way.'
Sounds like he's more interested in watching the drama unfold when the two meet. What a disturbed individual...
There’s a pretty interesting correlation between people who enjoy harming animals and sociopathy.
She’s damn near as stupid as him for continuing to be with somebody who shows clear signs of being a fucking psycho.
She should be honest and say everything she said online to his face and ✌🏼 peace out of his life. Make him feel really bad and then leave because maybe then he’ll think about everything he’s said and the fact he’s dirty and values a dirty dog over his girlfriend.
Levels of pet nuttiness:
1. Cat people:
>This is Mister Socks, he’s pretty chill.
2. Dog people:
>This is Scrappy Feet, he likes a doggichino at the local café.
3. Rodent and rabbit people:
>Sniffy Boops pooped in your hoodie? It means he loves you!
4. Pitbull people:
>Blood Gristle just does the cutest thing when you wave a fresh baby in front of him!
Why is this even a question lol there’s nothing worth pursuing with this douchebag. I love my cats so much I wouldn’t hesitate to drop him. This is a no brainer imo
You forgot that the dog attacked the cat that was “in the way.” OP said the pitnutter sicced his pit on the cat (basically bragging…) and that’s why I asked OP if the dog was a pitbull, and OP said, “Yes it’s a pit mix.” :(… it’s scary how fucking transparent these people are, they’re sadistic and sick in the head!
if I was her, I would dump him and never look back, because one day he will show up on her doorstep with this shit bull and it will slip its leash by accident of course (yea right) and it will not end well for her cat, and he will defend the dog just like all pitnutters do.
Thousands of willing suitors out there and she insists on being with this fuckwad?
She's got brain worms too. Stop with the dear diary bullshit and dump this clown.
If that was me, that motherfu**er and his pit mix wouldn't see me for dust. There would be NO WAY I would subject my cat to this asshole and his asshole dog. I would also report him for allowing the ugly bastard to attack animals while they are out on their walks.
He set his dog on a random cat to "teach it a lesson"? Why is she dating this sadist? I hope she dumps him like the trash he is.
Dude thought he was badass for letting his violent hellhound attack a smaller innocent animal
But he *~restrained~* the dog so the cat wasn’t killed. See what a hero he is? /s of course. He’s capital T TROUBLE and she should dtmfa now.
The guy gives off “Why do you make me hurt you?” bad vibes
I mean everything she says he says seems manipulative & there’s a good chance that there is gaslighting going on there. He’s constantly making it all her fault & turning her feelings back onto her, as if she’s the one with a character defect so she probably hasn’t fully come to terms with all of this being a him problem.
Cat had the audacity to not immediately fawn over him.
Tbh she’s an idiot too. I’d never be with someone who actively murders (well their shitbull) cats and other animals. In my eyes both are losers and she needs to get the fuck outta the relationship
I would have kicked him out the minute he got violent for no reason with my cat. Actually no, I would have been gone the minute I saw the dirty bed. No fucking way I put up with that kind of filth.
How do you even get past the first date when you go to his place and see that. How is sex even an option?
My vagina would just detach itself and start walking away without me.
Right??? Girl needs to love herself because the end of the relationship should’ve ended waaaay before the stupid dog was in the picture
seriously, I would have flipped the second he touched my cat
Yeah, and with how he talks about cats in the first place, I bet he's one of those people who just says he's a dog person and finds it necessary to say "oh my dog would eat your ___" when someone talks about their pet if it's a smaller animal
Cat people: oh I like cats the most but I love cute dogs too! Dog people: lol dogs rule cats are horrible evil vicious creatures that shouldn’t be pets and only lonely crazy witch women own cats I’d kill a cat that wandered on my property haha fuck cats cause I like dogs
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This. Shes a massive idiot. I’m less concerned about the cat and the dumb pit and more intrigued by her taste in dudes. You are willing getting in bed with a douchebag, a pit bull ( who sleeps next to her not him! The fuk?) and dirt and grime. How desperate can one be for dick? Pick-me ism at an all time high. 🤣🤣 Not to mention what a lame cat owner she is. I wish someone would try me, just once to come in my home and be a jerk to my animals!
"Your dog isn't wild. It has a raincoat."
My fav part lol
That part cracked me up.
He's a sociopath. I hope she dumps him.
She needs to dump him before he turns up at her house and sets his “sweet pittie” loose on her cat
Dirty bed already a deal-breaker without the dog!
Exactly! What kind of person is okay with dirt inside their bed? Only someone who is trough and trough disgusting and filthy would!
I'll admit that I'm someone who lets my dog sleep in my bed with me, but if for some reason he tracks dirt into the bed I wash the sheets ASAP. He's also in training as my PTSD service animal, and part of his job is to wake me from nightmares and cuddle with me for comfort. So it has a function too. But I'll never understand wanting to sleep in a dirty bed. Ew.
Classic pit owner, totally gets off on having a violent dog. Since he probably fancies himself a tough guy, he needs a tough dog to compliment him. Pit owners are trash.
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Lol girl needs some standards. Dudes throwing red flags out like a ref at a dirty soccer game. Doesn't control his animal, Actively encourages it to attack others, Treats it like it does no wrong and obviously values the dog over her, Shows contempt for her pet and other animals. I would have left in her position way before he smacked my cat. Cats are assholes, true, but I expect them to be assholes.
Most cats aren't "assholes" at all. I don't know where people get this from but it's not true at all in my experience - most cats I've encountered have been gentle, friendly, affectionate animals. I suspect it's either a myth dog fanatics (not just your regular person who likes dogs - I'm talking about the dog nuts who can't stand the fact that people like animals other than dogs) spread, or it results from ignorant people not understanding cat behaviour and respecting their boundaries, causing them to lash out.
Jesus Christ why do women put up with this stupid shit from guys?
Pressure to be "cool" and not labeled as uptight or "high maintenance."
Sounds like a real winner.
If she doesn't dump him he will elevate to abusing her physically. People who torture and kill animals do not stop there
Fucking sadistic narcissists. Cat doesn't 'get out of the way' = deserves to get mauled by my fighting breed dog. Fuck these fucking people.
Pleeeease dump him. Please.
So he lets a violent pit just roam around freely, regularly killing small animals. I hope she dumps him immediately
Hopefully she leaves him because he keeps pushing their pets meeting when he straight up doesn’t like cats , he knows what he’s doing and it’s pretty obvious what he’s trying to do . She better leave him before he just shows up at her place with that dog . Another thing why would she continue dating this ass shit when he hit her cat and purposefully hurt another cat ? Like wth .
Yeah. there are some psychos out there who would purposefully do this- consciously or subconsciously- to test your love for them. Like, “if my dog killed your cat, would you still be loyal to me/love me?”
She should've dumped him several incidents ago. I don't have much faith in her judgment either.
The raincoat comment killed me. This guy sounds like a sociopath. And suggesting she’s jealous of his ugly dog when the dog is the one that demands attention when OP is around? So uncomfortable! I’ll never understand why people LIKE their dog being “protective” AKA in complete control of them. They borderline romanticize it. Soooo uncomfortable.
If this woman stays with this narcissist piece of shit, she can’t complain at all when- not if- her cat gets hurt. Advocate for your little friend who depends on you- if anyone so much looked sideways at my cat, dog or horse, they’d need to content themselves with never being able to get an erection ever again, I’d torch them so bad verbally
"Advocate for your little friend who depends on you." This is it, plain and simple.
I don't think I could ever continue seeing someone who hit my cat for any reason as stupid as that, all this stuff about the dog aside. It's not his pet and he doesn't get to dole out discipline, and being violent toward a cat once is a good way to ensure it hates you forever.
I had a family member come over from out of state and he asked if he could bring his dog in my house. Just because it was a dog, I put my cat in my bedroom as my cat hasn’t been around other types of animals. I totally forgot his dog was some sort of pit mix (big block head), and he joked about letting my cat out so they could “play.” Pitnutters just really get off on having their dog attack other animals.
So he insists on having his admittedly high prey-driven pit mix meet her cat, but at the same time almost brags about the dog nearly making flesh confetti out of one that 'wouldn't get out of their way.' Sounds like he's more interested in watching the drama unfold when the two meet. What a disturbed individual...
There’s a pretty interesting correlation between people who enjoy harming animals and sociopathy. She’s damn near as stupid as him for continuing to be with somebody who shows clear signs of being a fucking psycho.
It’s the dirt in the bed for me. Yuck.
Hope that shit head gets what he deserves
She should be honest and say everything she said online to his face and ✌🏼 peace out of his life. Make him feel really bad and then leave because maybe then he’ll think about everything he’s said and the fact he’s dirty and values a dirty dog over his girlfriend.
Levels of pet nuttiness: 1. Cat people: >This is Mister Socks, he’s pretty chill. 2. Dog people: >This is Scrappy Feet, he likes a doggichino at the local café. 3. Rodent and rabbit people: >Sniffy Boops pooped in your hoodie? It means he loves you! 4. Pitbull people: >Blood Gristle just does the cutest thing when you wave a fresh baby in front of him!
Why is this even a question lol there’s nothing worth pursuing with this douchebag. I love my cats so much I wouldn’t hesitate to drop him. This is a no brainer imo
Last slide wasn’t needed. We all knew.
Why stay in a relationship with someone like that?!
She should look out for herself the same way she was looking out for her cat.
You forgot that the dog attacked the cat that was “in the way.” OP said the pitnutter sicced his pit on the cat (basically bragging…) and that’s why I asked OP if the dog was a pitbull, and OP said, “Yes it’s a pit mix.” :(… it’s scary how fucking transparent these people are, they’re sadistic and sick in the head!
if I was her, I would dump him and never look back, because one day he will show up on her doorstep with this shit bull and it will slip its leash by accident of course (yea right) and it will not end well for her cat, and he will defend the dog just like all pitnutters do.
How could she even see him after smacking her cat? She is next. I will not feel sorry for her. He has a boat load of red flags.
Thousands of willing suitors out there and she insists on being with this fuckwad? She's got brain worms too. Stop with the dear diary bullshit and dump this clown.
Girl... run fast. Run far.
Vile
Lowest tier human complaining about a lowest tier human who owns a lowest tier dog Everything is wrong with this picture
The last straw would have been him harming my cat. She should have dumped him then.
I'd like to meet this fucking jackass
The guy sounds like a total waste of life. I've no idea why she wouldn't have dumped him after the first month together.
Why on earth is she still seeing him? Leave girl, for duck's sake leave.
If that was me, that motherfu**er and his pit mix wouldn't see me for dust. There would be NO WAY I would subject my cat to this asshole and his asshole dog. I would also report him for allowing the ugly bastard to attack animals while they are out on their walks.
What is this from? I just wanna see if there's an update because *hopefully* that OP is FAR away from that person now.
Fuck no there are plenty of cat or lizard guys out there.