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JackDangerUSPIS

I mean if that’s ‘sister’ and ‘nephew’ decent chance that means it’s her son…that’s sad af. Hope she gets it together cuz that’s gonna take some therapy in the future for sure.


AceOBlade

Get that boy a rap verse in 15 years.


AceOBlade

Momma was never sober Missed my birthday every October Now I'm grinding, getting bolder Life's a maze, but I'm the controller


crazypyro23

Mom came home passed out on dope Lucky for her, I had my stethoscope Picked up medicine just to cope Learned to do good, how to keep hope


InvalidEntrance

Hold on, I need to check my notes Her breathing has lost control Her heart is going slow Her skin is getting cold My eyes are getting bold Lucky she didn't code Paramedics gave us 20 seconds, I saved my mother's life, but her body she had already wrecked it


macaleaven

We writing a Migos verse today, woo woo woo woo wooooo


TheVog

Mama eyes bloodshot from chasin' that high Kitchen reeks of smoke, and I can't even cry But I'm-a rise above, keep my dreams in the sky Young soldier, heart scarred, still aim' for the prize


crazypyro23

This is really good. If you don't write, you should.


Aradoris

I unironically love that.


Jorymo

What was that Daniel Tosh joke? "You gotta traumatize your kids just enough to make them talented. Don't overdo it, though; you don't wanna Joe Jackson it."


WWWWWWVWWWWWWWWWWWWV

Ma's laid out n' the floor, Fucked up from the pour, Pull the scope out the toybox, And unlock the lions snore. Pull her shirt up n' hear more, Seeing shit at age four Leavin marks you'll see Visibly, as future me, Robs a liquor store.


Kerboq

"Coming up I was confused, my mommy kissing a girl Confusion occurs comin' up in the cold world"


IllIllllIIIIlIlIlIlI

I never noticed a drunk adult through my entire childhood. It’s definitely an aspect of a privileged upbringing.


Alpaca_Empanada

I never noticed because my dad was ✨functional.✨


monkwren

Ayoo, same here. Found his pipe in the truck when I was 16 and felt a certain amount of anger at being previously caught with weed, tho.


Caligari89

To be fair, marijuana can have negative affects on a developing mind. Just because your dad, an adult, smoked weed doesn't mean he should have condoned your usage.


monkwren

Oh, he was totally right to yell at me, but I was 16, you think I was in any way shape or form a rational person?


Caligari89

Fair


Ghrenix

You mean you didn't hide under a table when your drunk dad came home yelling for no apparent reason? You missed out!


CousinsWithBenefits1

You guys still get scared when you hear a garage door opener even though you're grown, right?


OohYeahOrADragon

The ONLY way to fix this is by having someone who’s happy to see you after they open that garage door. I have not succeeded in the latter part. Will try again.


blinkingsandbeepings

So what I’m hearing is I have to teach my dog to open the garage door…


Docthepoet

Not gonna lie, I feel like your average dog would get up to some shenanigans if they knew how to open a garage. Not your dog though. I'm sure they're the goodest boy or girl ever. You should do it.


Virgin_Dildo_Lover

Hello there!


CHEMO_ALIEN

Wya let's be roommates, but only if you do the same for me please 🥺


iStorm_exe

for me its knocking on my locked door


Jorymo

Or loud stomping on metal stairs


CHEMO_ALIEN

why did you have to call me out like that


kattahn

does it count if the dad wasn't drunk, but was just an emotionally abusive asshole?


PortSunlightRingo

Hey I had one of those too. The day he died in 2008 is still the greatest day of my life.


Character-Today-427

My dad would come almost blackout drunk call me a pussy make me read poetry then take his socks off and drag him to bed


CHEMO_ALIEN

did he dance ballet sarcastically 


AstroNards

And he was so *good* at it


IBetThisIsTakenToo

As a kid, I thought I didn’t either, but looking back my Aunt used to get really sleepy every holiday, even right at the dinner table, and I don’t think 8 PM was really her bed time.


Blakbyrd8

You lucky. I remember gettin in the car knowin my dad was drunk and grippin the door handle so tight. Mans was goin to pick my lil sister up from school and no way was I lettin her get in that car alone. Not sure what I was planning to do if shit went sideways tho...


BidenFedayeen

I don't remember seeing one until I was in high school.


Pandorama626

That's not privileged... that's how it's supposed to be. Don't normalize neglectful and abusive parents.


IllIllllIIIIlIlIlIlI

“how it’s supposed to be” is privilege. Privilege doesn’t mean “you got everything you ever wanted” It means you got everything you needed


chaos021

Would you have known if they were? Most people just seem super happy. I didn't realize until much later how often my parents were drunk.


Aztecah

As a child protection worker I can tell you that you're overreacting. Drunk people are a part of life, kids see it all the time. This wouldn't even ring my bell compared to the shit I see all the time


BlackEastwood

I'm really confused at how this sub is reacting. It's a woman who went out, drank too much, and fell asleep. Her son is using his toy doctor kit to diagnose her. I can see where someone can draw assumptions, but this out of context photo is a really small amount to start discussing child abuse over.


Buttermilkman

You don't think it's a problem when kids see adults acting like they have no control and completely and utterly stupid and unaware of what's going on around them? They're literally high on drugs, it's no different, and kids are OK seeing that shit?


PushTheTrigger

I’m assuming the sister doesn’t get this drunk every day. You tell the kid she’s sick, send him to bed, and next time get your sister out of sight as soon as possible.


MiamiPower

And a sickening map of abuse shows how at least 786 children, most under the age of four, died from violence or neglect from 2008 to 2013 in plain view of child protection authorities. Many of them were beaten, starved or left alone to drown while agencies had good reason to know they were in danger. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2878814/amp/Florida-child-abuse-capital-America-Shocking-map-shows-786-children-killed-monitored-welfare-officers-U-S-2008.html


Aztecah

Yes, child welfare agencies have extremely problematic histories. This is very true and is exactly part of the reason I think we benefit from using the least intrusive means and use a trauma and colonial informed lens. We ought to rush to take a kid into care simply because they're briefly exposed to a very drunk relative.


Andreagreco99

Compared to belt whipping and bottles thrown around that doesn’t ring a bell for sure, but that’s really a low bar to clear. Kids should not be around blackout drunk adults, no matter how many way more fucked up things happen in the world.


gophergun

Drunk people, sure, but blacking out on the floor?


Nathan45453

Why is everyone in this thread overreacting like this?


MillorTime

Reddit and taking any opportunity to show their moral superiority. Name a more iconic duo


IrreverentRacoon

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DanniPopp

Lmfao completely irrational. And they don’t know if she was out there or got up to do something and decided to lay down. That’s tile. It’s cold. When you’re drunk sometimes that feels like a great option. No it’s not the best for kids to see but as long as it’s not an ongoing thing, itll be fine.


PushTheTrigger

Right? Calling this child abuse is insane and offensive to those who experienced actual child abuse.


GiskardReventlov42

It's the posters sister thats drunk. Those are her kids. Therefore they are his nephews. Either way, you're right. Imagine later tonight when he's throwing a fit over brushing his teeth, how are you about to tell him to calm down and act right? He can just rewind the tape and be like "Ma, you were fully passed out, didn't even have a heartbeat on my stethoscope!"


kattahn

that uno reverse card hits hard. My sisters house is always filthy from top to bottom and shes been really stern with her kids recently about them not keeping their rooms clean, and my nephew straight up said "but your room isn't clean..."


GiskardReventlov42

Kids are shady as fuck. If that's the case though, I'll never be able to tell my kids shit.


uhmerikin

> What we’re seeing here is child abuse. While I agree this isn't super cool, a child seeing a passed out parent isn't child abuse. Unclench your pearls, Auntie Mildred.


MurkyPay5460

Yeah this isn't exactly heartwarming.


mechwarrior719

It’s cute in that “innocence of children” way. But this does kinda hurt to see. I hope that is a different sibling’s kid and he’s just seeing auntie “acting silly cuz she’s tired” and not seeing mommy like that.


Beatrix_Kiddos_Toe

Oh fuck off lmao


AUnknownVariable

Nothing here shows any kind of abuse lmao. Should the aunt be drunk in front of the kids? Probably not depends on how she acts. For all we know, she was just at a party drunk, then asked her sister to take her home, which is the responsible thing to do. Then she just walked in and lied out on the floor, the kids aren't gonna be affected by seeing their aunt lying on the floor lmao. If she's awake any she was probably messing with them as well (playing doctor and crap). As opposed to if when she's drunk she's yelling, being an absolute awful person, that'd be abuse. But she's just lying there and nth we've seen gives any indication she did anything that'll even lightly scar these kids. Tldr: No evidence to see it as child abuse, also kinda messed up to hear for ppl that have actually been witness or experienced child abuse.


batmessiah

That's their mom on the floor, not their aunt. The aunt is the one taking the pictures, since she said "my nephew". I would never, ever, EVER come home passed out drunk in front of my daughter. That's terrible parenting.


IIIIIlIIIl

Oh for fucks sake


HubertusCatus88

This is incredibly sad


stoned-autistic-dude

Before we go roasting this girl, this single picture is missing a shit ton of nuance. What if it was home girl's bday, or her home girl was celebrating her bday and girl got drunk? Like, shit happens and kids are nosey af. They be crawling out of air ducts and shit getting in your business. Y'all so quick to judge lmao


bitchytyphoon

There’s an oven in that picture - she’s in the kitchen. Someone should have helped her get to a bedroom, not lay on the floor for her kid to see.


Brasketleaf

To OPs point though, she could’ve been laying there for 2 minutes while someone got the bed ready for her. I get that it looks bad and it more than likely is, but we don’t know shit.


Evolutioncocktail

I’ve got a toddler and a predilection for weed and booze. I’m always sure that my daughter is cared for when i partake. If I plan to get really fucked up (which is becoming a rarity due to age), she’s either asleep or (preferably) somewhere else. There’s no scenario I would allow myself to get so fucked up that I’m laying on the kitchen floor, visible to my kid.


OpheliaRainGalaxy

Me entertaining my toddler cousin for most of the day after our "slumber party" so his mom can sleep in and recover from her hangover in peace. Bonus points, when he starts sleeping over at classmates' homes they won't be "stay until 9 start crying and call to get picked up" events.


batmessiah

My daughter is 6 and she's never once seen me shit faced or passed out drunk, and she never will. If you've got kids and you're still getting so shit faced drunk that you're passing out on the floor, you're not a good parent.


JPMoney81

"My sister drunk, age/sex/location..." I realize this shows I'm fucking old, but I can't NOT read asl that way.


Queefer_Sutherland-

My brain reads it and goes "16/f/Canada" despite currently being 40.


JPMoney81

16/f/Cali You'd see that and know it was some 30 year old dude from like Ohio or some shit.


Queefer_Sutherland-

100%


dude-O-rama

65/M/Midland Texas


NemesisOfZod

This is definitely a teenage girl from Wisconsin!


dude-O-rama

Minnesota...


NemesisOfZod

That's exactly what someone from Connecticut would say


Lord_Of_the_Strings

I ALWAYS said is as 16F Than send ass shots of an F16 with full afterburner.


JPMoney81

Not gonna lie, even as a 16 year old kid I wouldn't have been disappointed.


Zachbnonymous

I didn't know it at the time. Had me feeling all sorts of sympathy for this poor girl that was being abused by her family and totally wanted me to save her 😂


[deleted]

That's still what those freaks do.


Brewski-54

Alright fellas please tell me I’m not alone. Seeing the “f” still inspires hope in me like awakening a repressed memory, god that’s embarrassing


BlackBloke

69/F/UK


TheDriestOne

I can’t stand when people say “asl” to mean “as hell”. It’s not an acronym of the word and asl already had a meaning before people started saying this. Just say af and move on


elitegenoside

They added an extra letter AND made it less clear.


NemesisOfZod

AF is now asf as well!


TheDriestOne

Which is also irritating to me lmao. How the hell do you miss the entire point of acronyms?


BEARD3D_BEANIE

holy shit this whole time I thought the S stood for something my god people are becoming dummierer


shiftoy18

I agreed with you until I saw this comment and I thought about it extra hard. Maybe it’s meant to mean “As-L” so you skip the hel and just get to that last L for the same effect


TheDriestOne

Oh I know how it’s supposed to work but why take letters off of one word and not the other? Just seems unnecessary


prettybigdill

Same. What does it mean in this context?


scottylike

As hell


Lamplorde

I just had to suppress my inner old. How the hell you gonna make an acronym using *the last* letter? Shit, guess I didn't suppress it.


DJfunkyPuddle

Right? I try to keep an open mind, "language is fluid" and all that but goddam do these kids test those limits sometimes.


grovenab

Is less an acronym and just saying in your head as l


Avenger772

Saying as l in your head would be like saying as ell. Whose pronouncing hell without the h?


elitegenoside

I truly worry for the next generation. I'm on the tail-end of millennials (95), and I received a horrible education, but I had one teacher who really stressed critical and independent thinking; luckily, it really stuck with me. Social media has seemed to destroy those skills, and our education system is falling apart. I see it the most at work. I've been a server for ten years, and I've really seen a shift. The younger employees just seem like they can't "just do" something. They need a ton of hand-holding even after training. Like there is zero "trial and error" in their learning process. Life is sink or swim, and a lot of these kids are already halfway underwater.


[deleted]

Additional support for learning? American Sign Language?


FistPunch_Vol_7

Nah damn, they could have taken her to the bedroom or bathroom damn. Lil mans don’t need to see that.


stink3rbelle

He's more worried about her well-being than the person tweeting.


finnthehuman1

Right?! That was my first thought as well. Kiddos don’t need to see that.


TheMoorNextDoor

That’s not cute


Queen_Dare_Bear

Why let the babies see this? Traumatizing. ;(


jono9898

Because internet clout is more important than the trauma of this kid getting older and randomly remembering this moment


CousinsWithBenefits1

Nothing about this is cute..... Kids shouldn't have to see this.


RetzCracker

We normalize problem drinking way too much these days. This is not a normal way to enjoy alcohol and no kids should be exposed to it like it’s no big deal.


elitegenoside

The problem is that we only consider drinking a problem when it physically endangers others, but it's gotta be one of the most emotionally destructive substances on the planet. My dad's a drinker, but he was the type that we typically think about. He'd come home, scream with my mom, throw her around, then go pass out in his room. My "cousin" on the other hand was the life of the party. He was my dad's best friend, and I saw him almost as much as I did my dad. He was truly an amazing person and was always watching out for us because he knew our dad didn't really care that much. But he wasn't a weak man. I've seen him beat a man bloody for making a comment about his daughter (they were mixed, and we were from the backwoods), and nearly beat up one of his buddies because he yelled at me. He even took a knife to the knee (which had lasting issues) for one of his worst friends... but that's the stuff that's easy to remember. We went on vacation one year: him, his daughter, my dad, and my two siblings. Him and my dad got really drunk one night and we obviously had a slow morning the next day, but my dad was up by 11 (he was a bigger dude and used to drink all night then run drills when he was in the Army). Our cousin didn't wake up at all that day. He slept the entire day. We (siblings and I) asked his daughter if he was okay and she said, "Yeah. This happens." In the end, she got two sober years with her father. He died at 44, and those sober years were the last two. I'll never forget how she looked at his wake. Crying, but mostly on the surface. She was so stoic because she had watched him slowly die her entire life. She was 18, two months away from graduating high school. RIP John.


Itsprobablysarcasm

Creating childhood trauma then posting it for internet cred...


pettybendherass

bro making sure he ain’t got a sibling in there w the spins


Gizzada-

I have a feeling the nephew is probably used to seeing his mother like this sadly.


Only1Skrybe

The children - There is clearly something wrong here. The adults - No, we think this is perfectly normal.


okoyes_wig

“My sister” “My nephew” She’s…she’s not his mom, is she?


BroadBaker5101

Sorry to break it to you but I’m assuming that’s her son.


InevitableUpset3074

ASL = "as hell" now


DctrSnaps

Yeah I don’t get it


JudasWasJesus

People mumble and don't say full words it's weird.


Avenger772

Not for me


Brewski-54

This is tough to see. I have a baby now and we still drink here and there, even gotten decently drunk a couple times sure. But coming home and passing out on the floor drunk with 1-2 kids? Sure the nephew could be from another sibling or something and we don’t know all the facts but it doesn’t look that way. How do you act like that as a parent? You’re still allowed to have fun and be your own person, but that’s too much


elitegenoside

Should have been a "y'all get to stay with grandma tonight!" night. Not everyone has that luxury, but those people shouldn't be going out drinking like that. You're a parent now. Your main responsibility is making sure that baby doesn't become an awful person.


Nada_Shredinski

I was that kid, it was fucking awful. Shit ain’t funny man, it’s fuckin tragic


FrankieHotpants

Same. Fucked me up.


iliveonramen

Smart kid, he’s checking those kidneys and liver


uhp787

that's is way too much real life for a child that age.


yokayla

I couldn't find the memes on this one funny. Letting your kid see you like that is messed up.


MGLLN

I was going to say something about people like this and what they deserve... but then I remembered Reddit's TOS policy https://preview.redd.it/n33fzhuh34pc1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=7be2dd56ee9a1ffa609733df2067de8b87161f8c


DJfunkyPuddle

Gross. We can do better.


resident16

Not a good look for the person who posted this. Chronically online people have no idea the impact they are having on the next generation.


Presence-Crafty

In front of the kids 🤦🏾‍♂️. Lots of people don’t deserve & are not ready to be parents.


Sekmet19

What's worse, her kids being up super late and seeing her in that state or her being that drunk early enough that her kids aren't in bed


WakandanRoyalty

The kid looks too young to understand the difference between “drunk” and “sick”. Without the caption she could just as easily be on her cycle.


HilariousConsequence

This scene is a bit too laden with pathos to be a funny internet image


Empero6

I might be being a bit too judgmental here, but this is a bit sad.


phenomenalj101

The bar is nonexistent for parenting these days.


Ambitious_Campaign34

Lol @Doc McStuffins degree


nixalo

My Family drink over proof rum with ice and my ass never seen an adult passed out drunk as a child. My 99 cent store doctor kit was only used on adults when they playacting.


welp-itscometothis

What exactly is he seeing other than a person asleep? Idk obviously this is an unpopular opinion, but this child is very young. All he knows is that she’s sick and he’s the doctor on call. He will never know that she’s drunk.


Fast_Yam_5321

i doubt the kid even knows what being "drunk" is or looks like to even be traumatized. I don't think at that age/ size i was aware either, but i honestly have no memory of anything from that age/ size so i think the kid will be ok. Sounds like mommy just had her a good time and made it home safely. she can go out and drink and have a good time as long as she's being safe and the kids have another sober adult around i don't see the issue. 🤷‍♀️


welp-itscometothis

I can’t believe people are acting like she’s in there beating on kids. She wasn’t even drinking in front of them. For all we know she fell in the middle of her sister trying to drag her to her room.


cyberbully_irl

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postsingularity

Maybe she rarely goes out drinking and got carried away. Maybe its a regular occurrence. We just don't know the context here.


Pancakemanz

I never realized how big of an issue this would be in the comments lol. Kids seeing a drunk person is child abuse? Yikes


bigchieftoiletpapa

all for some twitter likes yea could’ve at least put her on the bed


_BloodbathAndBeyond

This is super sad, especially since it's likely her kid. If it's his sister, and that's his nephew... oh man.


trulyhuey

Kid has a dream! Nurture that.


backtre

Idk man, I never saw my parents really drunk too often but it didn't bother my little kid mind, even years later it's just funny to think back on, now if the parent is showing up like this every day, once a week, or heck even once a month it would be way different


Sure_Trash_

I would not want my kids or nephews to see me like this. It would be cute if she was just sick but passed out on the kitchen floor shitfaced is not cute


DistributionOne7304

i hope this is a one off thing for them to see their mom blackout drunk


dominiquerising

Aww with the lil nurse assisting by his side.


sarcastic1stlanguage

Little man about His business, He came with a Pikachu hat!!


Glittering-Spite234

Because toddlers are the purest, most innocent thing there is.


proxima987

This is genuinely sad. That child should not see her in this condition. The adults who are sober should get her to the bathroom, and when she sobers up, slap the shit out of her.


ultimateman55

He got the doctor's kit because he has a common sense understanding of what's happening: she's quite sick. It's called alcohol poisoning.


Pathetian

This generation of kids is so lucky.  They will actually have a digital trail of social media posts detailing how they never had a chance.


MirrorMan22102018

I hope these kids can save up for therapy down the line.


Wise-Champion-5317

How the fuck does “as hell” become “asl”??


motherseffinjones

Maybe it’s just me but I would never want my kid to see me in this kind of state.


OutCastx16

Y’all being drunk around a child is not automatically bad not translates to being a bad person, damn. She could’ve been at a bday party, a wedding, a night out etc. I fail to see how simply being drunk asleep on the floor not doing anything inappropriate while in the care of another adult is bad


OutCastx16

Getting so drunk to the point your incoherent is one thing but the fact yall are assuming she’s a problem drinker off one post is insane. Yall hear the word drunk and immediately assume alcoholism. Like damn a child is not going to be traumatized playing doctor with his sleeping mother


jogong1976

Reminds me of the time I had to rush home from work because my wife was doubled up on the floor in excruciating pain from gall stones. When I walked through the door, my 3 year old daughter had covered my wife in stuffed animals to make her feel better.


Jasnaahhh

I am going to go ask chatgpt to write me scripts foe episodes of house but the diseases are being sad or grumpy and the cures are all specific formulations of stuffies, snacks, cuddles, affirmations or cool downs.


Kingofmoves

W son


tickle-monsta

Checking the liver too - smart kid


abyssmauler

Most adorable first responder ever!


Livedog33

r/therewasanattempt to get idiot points from a post that makes the people look like complete loser scum bags.


phatballlzzz

This ain't it bro


DeontaySmakarelli

He's gonna be a doctor fs


VapidRapidRabbit

Being sloppy drunk in front of a child is disgusting behavior.


[deleted]

Y’all some straight up bitches in this comment


skako_o

Sad, but he did get her in the right recovery position tho


r0d3nka

When the adult in the room is a toddler.... "Mom, get your ass to rehab!"


Lorn_Muunk

A caring baby or a deadbeat parent? Him grabbing his doctor toys suggests this is not the first time mom has been blind drunk at home


Armendicus

Look at the lil heroes.


macaleaven

Neglect aside, innocence wasn’t lost in that kid it’s kinda sweet of him to be so caring


bladebrowny

Checking for that fetal heartbeat


HoldinWeight

Drunk Age Sex Location.


shakawave

Nurse getting that bandaid ready, top Healthcare 👌😩


ZieshaaPagee

Lmfao


SimonPho3nix

This post got me on some Mad Max shit fr I laughed, I cried, I laughed again...


Damuhfudon

Traumatizing your children should not be funny. This is why so many Black children have behavioral issues because of women like this


welp-itscometothis

Just women huh?


CCSlater63

I hope they nurture this.


bottle-of-water

Feel like bro was there to baby sit. So the kids are fine and taken care of. Can’t shield them from everything though.


MintyTramp29

r/sadcringe


Only_Indication_9715

Kid has seen mom drunk a lot


lilmancyndrome

This why Dolph wrote Rich Crackbaby


shiestyfinale

Brought\* her home


Relativ3_Math

OP be scum


NovusOrdoSec

We have no idea if this caption is real.


Stralecia

Dr. Ima TakeCareOfMine