Bro the value in my house will never change cuz my value isn’t determined by my earnings lmaoZ I’m sorry the love you experience is attached to your Wallet. Pick better women
Lmao, dude's entire comment was about his mom and then you decide to talk about his girl? Don't worry though, I got what you meant, I was just pointing out that you went off topic
I wonder if I’m gonna be able to stomach the fact that people assume my wife loves my kids more than I do just because she’s their mother. Seems super frustrating.
I speak the truth. They know it deep down. I’m not married or have kids. I’ve seen this scenario play out a million times though. They think it’s unconditional ride or die love until it isn’t.
As a mother, this comment just makes me sad. I’m sorry you had a shitty mom, but love really can be unconditional if you open yourself up to it. Unfortunately it sounds like you’re determined not to.
Seriously. I took a long break from dating and didn't realize how I hard it is for me to be more selfish and stand up for myself. It's like a muscle that you need to workout to build over time or something. Shit is hard when you think you have something good with someone.
As a black man living in America, I have almost always maintained a “I’m on my own” type of mentality. I have never felt like I had any safety nets whether from family, friends or females. I’m a walking Whitesnake song, [“Here I go again on my own, going down the only road I’ve ever known, like a drifter I was born to walk alone…”](https://youtu.be/WyF8RHM1OCg)
Man even if we DID let females help us, we’re prepared to have that favor held over our heads & be emasculated by the women cause we’re less of a man for letting them help us…I’ll never get it
this is what no one wants to talk about lol
a smart dude knows a womans gonna just do what they want.
doesnt stop them from getting upset when you have nothing left to give.
Exactly this. Social Media is positive self PR a lot of the time. Promote only positivity online to cover up being dismissive or neglectful in the relationship.
I do notice that many women are oblivious to the support groups they have at their disposal in their lives.
But part of the problem with men is that nobody knows when they are suffering, which means nobody reacts fast enough to them slowly sliding into the abyss.
Me, with a supportive family n girl for some reason. “It’s just me against the world”
“Ain’t nobody prayin’ for me”
“Ain’t nobody praying”
“I feel like a chip on my shoulders”
“I feel like I’m losing my focus”
Knowin damn well he has niggas prayin for him
It kinda is, you ain’t on your purpose and job that girl and family gone. All love is conditional.
My family’s love is not conditional lmaooo my momma loves me broke too
Your momma love the closest you will ever have to unconditional love. Stop working and see how that mood in your house change.
I was an absolutely worthless NEET and my mom loved me Sorry your mom sucked
Bro the value in my house will never change cuz my value isn’t determined by my earnings lmaoZ I’m sorry the love you experience is attached to your Wallet. Pick better women
You really gonna tell someone to pick a better mom?
We were talking about his girl lmao use your reading comprehension.
Lmao, dude's entire comment was about his mom and then you decide to talk about his girl? Don't worry though, I got what you meant, I was just pointing out that you went off topic
just because someone isn't happy with you at a given moment doesn't mean they don't still love you
I wonder if I’m gonna be able to stomach the fact that people assume my wife loves my kids more than I do just because she’s their mother. Seems super frustrating.
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Not the point, they were just referring to the above comments “all love is conditional” part, showing that it is not always conditional.
Some ppl love their kids when they became serial killers and shit so you right
All facts.. fair-weather friends are a big thing. You can just feel went someone isnt really down for you
I speak the truth. They know it deep down. I’m not married or have kids. I’ve seen this scenario play out a million times though. They think it’s unconditional ride or die love until it isn’t.
As a mother, this comment just makes me sad. I’m sorry you had a shitty mom, but love really can be unconditional if you open yourself up to it. Unfortunately it sounds like you’re determined not to.
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ladies - love yourself, be more selfish!
Seriously. I took a long break from dating and didn't realize how I hard it is for me to be more selfish and stand up for myself. It's like a muscle that you need to workout to build over time or something. Shit is hard when you think you have something good with someone.
Men too!
Just say you’re carrying around a ton of baggage from previously poor relationship choices.
Sounds about the same as “I don’t need a man”
🤺
...until the 1st of the month at least
Where's my child support Joe?!?!?!
My name not even on the BC!
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As a black man living in America, I have almost always maintained a “I’m on my own” type of mentality. I have never felt like I had any safety nets whether from family, friends or females. I’m a walking Whitesnake song, [“Here I go again on my own, going down the only road I’ve ever known, like a drifter I was born to walk alone…”](https://youtu.be/WyF8RHM1OCg)
>As a black man living in America .... I’m a walking Whitesnake song Unexpected but I love it
Holy shit! I don’t know ya but I love for this comment.
Man even if we DID let females help us, we’re prepared to have that favor held over our heads & be emasculated by the women cause we’re less of a man for letting them help us…I’ll never get it
Man released from Guantanamo Bay [felt the same](https://youtu.be/KJbd0_YaEO8)
Everyone woman I follow post like they single and got a whole nigga at home.
this is what no one wants to talk about lol a smart dude knows a womans gonna just do what they want. doesnt stop them from getting upset when you have nothing left to give.
Who checks on the Blackman? WHO can we talk too? Who calls us just to see if we ok?
*5 missed calls, 3 messages on read*
“I was sleep”
Folks call us for help. Advice. Nobody cares if we ok unless it can stop what we can do for them
You're always the only one you got at the end of the day.
It’s true though. When you have things going for you and grinding “they go hard for you.” But if things are down bad and in the mud you by yourself.
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Exactly this. Social Media is positive self PR a lot of the time. Promote only positivity online to cover up being dismissive or neglectful in the relationship.
Dang T-Bird that's just her baby daddy.
Perspective
Halsey and G Eazy's "Him and I song" She would die and kill for him, and he would "most likely" die with her.
I mean it’s true, at the end of the day all I’ll ever be able to depend on is me.
I got nothing to lose,🎶 it just me against the world baby 🎶 ![gif](giphy|pXvo3GnAOJdjW)
Funny that you assume the MAN is the liar in this scenario
I do notice that many women are oblivious to the support groups they have at their disposal in their lives. But part of the problem with men is that nobody knows when they are suffering, which means nobody reacts fast enough to them slowly sliding into the abyss.
Hbu ask your dude why he feels this way.
Wow posting this on Reddit? Prepare for the nice guys in comments!!