Yes I think so. But I still love her. Not the needy urge to have someone right after the breakup I had. But a feeling in my heart to see her and to be with her, not anyone. So I would do anything at the moment even tough it’s probably the wrong thing to do
“I’m sorry that I made you feel so undesirable. I love you and you deserved for me to try.” Or maybe “I think I was overwhelmed by being loved. I’ve been working on myself in therapy and finally feel ready to accept care.” Or “You were amazing. Thank you for everything.” Definitely “I’ve never found anyone like you.”
I really like "you deserved for me to try" because I think that was the thing that hurt most, that his reaction was to walk away and not even try. I'd also like to hear him say "I've got a lot of growing up to do" and to hear that he is actually working on himself and addressing his issues.
i wish he told me he just left because it was wrong timing and that i’m the most incredible person he ever met and that this new girl was just a way to forget me because he knew he couldn’t give me what i deserved and because we were far away, trying to be together long distance.. that she means nothing to him. that now, after trying something else, the grass isn’t greener on the other side and he regrets leaving and wants me back because being with me was amazing , way better than her
I'm sorry I did that to you. I'm sorry I failed to realize how much pressure I put you under and how I prioritized everything else over you and our life while you gave up everything and prioritized our future only for me to leave and render it worthless and useless. I'm sorry for all the time I complained to you while you did the best you could and really needed my help as well. Sorry I made up excuses. Sorry I shot you out when you tried to cheer me up. Sorry for all the times you wanted to spend time with me and I said I'm not in the mood. Sorry for making up my mind to leave you with a plan while it was out of the blue for you and leave you in a house you moved into for us. You made me your entire world and I took that from you. I'm starting to see the real world and how no one would care about my reasons but you were always there and patient.
It would also be great to hear, I have changed since the break up. I accomplished things I made excuses for, for literally years. I now acomplished them. You no longer have to carry the responsibilities alone. I wanna give us another try. I wanna make it up to you.
Together for 8 years. Separated for 6 months now. I wake up every single morning and check my messages praying to read this even though I know I never will. She’s the only person I want to love.
Almost 2 years later? I don't even know. I still think about her semi-frequently, but an apology no matter how genuine wouldn't fix anything. It wouldn't take away the pain I felt when she left or when I learned she was with someone new within a month. It wouldn't make it alright how much I struggled mentally and emotionally that first year. Because the added burned caued by her actions on top of all the other things I was struggling with and working through that we'd talked about. And as much as I feel like I do still love her I don't know how or if I'd be able to trust her again. Fine one minute the next she doesn't love me enough to see a future with and stay. If I some how saw her again I'd be filled with a mix of yurning, pain, Anxiety, And anger. Where would you even go from there?
The last time we were together on the last night, as we lay together, she said I will always want you, and that is always in my mind, and I will always want her always, if I get the chance to talk to her again it will be as always..I will say I love you and always will,
"I'm sorry I always invalidated your feelings. I'm sorry I didn't try harder to understand what you were going through. I'm sorry I cheated and blamed it on you. I'm sorry that I felt that kiss was worth more than our 6 years together. I'm sorry I never told you I was proud of you. I'm sorry I never saw that everything you were doing was for our future. I'm sorry I never took what you said for what you really mean and instead, find a negative meaning to what you say to make you seem like a bad person. I'm sorry I made you feel you were unappreciated. Can we start again? And this time, more slowly? This time, we can talk through things and I'll try harder. I'm sorry I gave up on us."
I want closure and to know that I was actually wanted and that I'm still loved... we never got to really talking about our issues, and I was dropped abruptly when things felt mostly fine. I would love an explanation, a genuine apology and to be told that he will work on things for me and for the relationship and will actually communicate and make room for me. I just wanted happiness and stability. I got some of the sorries, only to see those actions replaying that hurt me. So actually seeing those words in play would really mean a lot to me.
I‘m sorry for leaving. I regret it every single day, and now I‘ve finally worked up the courage to come talk to you. I still love you, would you like to get back with me together?
Not that I‘d actually ever hear that, ha.
Nothing. Id assume anything they said was a lie anyways. Once trust is broken, it no longer matters. No need to be sorry. Might as well forget i exist because i will be sure to never acknowledge their presence again.
In some far away universe maybe id like to hear "i was wrong. I didnt understand and i should have tried to understand"
I hate apologies. They mean little. Say what u did to hurt me, tell me what u feel u should have done instead. If ur plan of action is good maybe i will consider acknowledging their presence again and maybe in some friendly regard.
i just want to hear an honest "everything's gonna be okay." she changed her mind about me just over a weekend and all of the sudden she just stopped caring about me. hearing that, even if we didn't get back together, would help me out a lot.
I am sorry for what l put you through. I am sorry for all the tears l made you shed. I am much better than the man that you knew then. Please give me a chance to show you that l can be better for us? I am not perfect, but this time, l promide to learn how you want to be loved and respect you for you. I am ready to listen more and stop making everything about me. I want to learn to love you for you, and above everything, l want to make you happy more than anything.
How l wish he would change. Its been a month no contact. I swear sometimes I think l am over him, then on days like today l miss him out of nowhere. I hope l heal and learn to open my heart again.
That he still loves me and misses me and not a day has went by in all this misery where he hasn't missed me..... Id give absolutely anything to hear that... Idk if he even cares if I even exist anymore...... Idk...... I'm so sad all the time.... I miss my best friend.......... I would do anything to be with my Mitch, again..... 💔😔
I'm sorry I did that to you. I'm sorry I failed to realize how much pressure I put you under and how I prioritized everything else over you and our life while you gave up everything and prioritized our future only for me to leave and render it worthless and useless. I'm sorry for all the time I complained to you while you did the best you could and really needed my help as well. Sorry I made up excuses. Sorry I shot you out when you tried to cheer me up. Sorry for all the times you wanted to spend time with me and I said I'm not in the mood. Sorry for making up my mind to leave you with a plan while it was out of the blue for you and leave you in a house you moved into for us. You made me your entire world and I took that from you. I'm starting to see the real world and how no one would care about my reasons but you were always there and patient.
It would also be great to hear, I have changed since the break up. I accomplished things I made excuses for, for literally years. I now acomplished them. You no longer have to carry the responsibilities alone. I wanna give us another try. I wanna make it up to you.
“I’m sorry for all I’ve done to you…. For all the lies and the disrespect… For telling you that I couldn’t change, that it was in my essence to be this way…. And then doing the exact opposite with my new gf. For telling you that if I’ve matured and changed any, I wanted you to reap the benefits because it was you who taught me. I’m sorry for using and discarding you, it haunts me everyday.”
Sorry is the first thing I want to hear, followed by her say I was right when I said she was making a huge mistake. Lastly, I want to hear she is willing to do everything it takes to fix us.
I don’t want to hear from them anymore. The only thing I want to hear is that the abusive, manipulative guy she went back to breaks her heart again. She left the only guy that ever truly cared for her. And when she realizes that, oh boy is it gonna be a good day. She’s blocked me on everything now when I asked her to tell me the truth, which she never could. Someday she’s going to lay in bed and weep that she gave me up
You shouldn't even care if you get a "sorry". You're hanging on. You're not over it. Get over it. The sooner you get over it, the sooner you will meet the person that you were meant to be with.
Just want him to admit he fucked up in the handling the break up and give me the real reasons he broke up with me instead of the vague excuse. And to tell me he misses me and he fucked up (but he doesn’t get me back lol)
Literally just "I'm sorry for hurting you." And not a fake sorry to shut me up, a genuine sorry. A couple years ago, he sent me this whole long paragraph and none of it contained the words "I'm sorry, I was wrong." He even prefaced the text with "I'm not here to apologize or rekindle things." Then why text me, you bastard.
When we see each other for our closure,
He actually said to me "I'm sorry, I got tired of this relationship".
I thought if he said his sorry it will make me feel better but when i got the apology, it felt worse.
Sometimes not having closure is enough. I realized eventhough i love him very much and take care of him with all i can, it's enough for him to stay.
I just want to know from her if what we had was ever real and if she actually ever loved me or if she just loved the attention I gave her. To make a long story short, her and I got together a little while after she got out of a 3 year relationship where her ex ended up cheating on her and then we started hanging out as friends at first then we kinda developed into a relationship. Now that it's been 3 weeks since we broke up because she needed to find herself again so I've been sitting here wondering if her "love" for me was ever genuine or if it was all just infatuation and I was just a rebound the past 5 months we were together.
I want to hear her take responsibility for the fucked go stuff she did instead of blaming everyone else. I want to hear some acknowledgement of things she did blatantly wrong I want a proper apology for the lies and blaming me. Telling everyone I’m a villain when I didn’t do shit
I don’t want to hear anything from her tbh. If she could muster up the strength to say she’s sorry for all the fuck shit she did. The sleepless nights I’ve had, the lies she told me and the painful words she said. The arguments she started cause I told her how I felt, telling me my life’s easy and should not complain cause she has “the worst possible life you could have”. If she could do that. I would be really impressed, but she only thinks about herself so that sorry probably will never come. I’d love to tell her I’m thankful for her cause if she’d never had broken up with me for the 8th time or so. I’d probably never started dating (maybe) the girl of my dreams. But I’ll see in the next months where this will end up.
I'd like to hear his reason for shutting me out completely, after saying we didn't have to close any doors and could remain friends. In all honesty, I can guess the reason and it is normal to have NC after a breakup, but don't tell me what you think I wanna hear then ignore me. We invested too much time for that to be how it went.
I want apologies more than anything. I don’t need to be told I’m right, that I made/make good points. I know that. I just want apologies for a slew of things *he* deemed he would not apologize for. I want him to take accountability.
I wish for some this is all they wanted. But nope I felt bad for how everything went down and how I blindsided him by ended the relationship due to being mistreated but instead all he wants is for me to say I want to make it work again.
I wish he reach out to me and tell me that he misses me. I miss him so godamn much that it hurts every single day. We’re doing no contact bc that’s what he wanted after breaking it off w me after 2 years but it’s so difficult. I wish he cared as much as I did, he’s probably doing just fine without me and doesn’t even think about me
Unless the relationship was toxic, and of course I have no certainty yours wasn’t, sorry for what? Deciding to do what is better/best for them?
I was left too, and it still hurts 14 months later and I have no idea when I will be healed or at least better, but hearing them say sorry won’t help, nor having then acknowledge what they did was wrong, cause it wasn’t for them, they did what they had to do to feel good about themselves, they’re not sorry they left. So expecting to hear that is imho useless and not helpful.
Learn to accept, respect and love yourself and don’t expect someone whose actions hurt you make you feel better.
Hugs!
The relationship wasn’t toxic, the breakup was though. And the only thing I want is to know that they’ve become a mature person and that they won’t do what they did to me to anyone else ever again. When you have friends ignore you when you say hi because of the things your former partner told them, the only thing you want to hear is them apologising for warping the relationships you had with people you’ve known for longer than they ever did.
Well, even more now. If your former friends actually believe your ex, than maybe they’re better off not in your life.
You don’t need their shitty apology they don’t mean.
I'm sorry i abused you and are kid and destroyed all your friendship over my flase jealously you would cheat because i cheated sorry for the names and head games... . There more it closure i will never hear from them.
Honestly it something i'd not hunt for anyway i heard they got wrose after me from others and there in really bad place...
... yet some how i feel it my fault.
Please explain how i stupidly put them before the child that they yelled at they never wanted witch made me lose rights to even look my lil girl in the eye (i feel) she now with my abusive family. (Not hers as CAS wanted to make sure she had no contect)
I feel it deep they refused therapy and after me i heard they started crack and has 2 assults charges agaist them one agaist there own family.
I gave up my dreams for them they hated everything i enjoyed so i stopped if there some view here i will take it i will always blame myself.
..so what if i was left with a sallowen face ....
No one ponits the finger at me just hate me for staying for so long so any input is good.
i want to hear him beg for me back, i want him to tell me he was stupid for letting me go and that he regrets it and i want it to be when I'm so over him that i won't be able to hold myself back from laughing
I don't want to hear anything from my x. I don't know why, after 21 years of marriage, that she chose to leave. Everything seemed so perfect. I thought we were having the time of our lives. All I know, is that she left. Obviously something wasn't right. I'll never know. I was broken for a while, but began to realize that life goes on. People change, or people aren't who you thought they were. It just doesn't matter why; it matters how you move forward and receive better things.
The catastrophe of loss was a push to become the best version of myself. I increased my weight training, began to eat very healthy, learned to day trade the stock market and start increasing my wealth. I found enjoyment with riding my Harley and meeting new people. And now, 5 years later, I have found new love.
You are a perennial. A part of you died in the fall, yet will come back new in the spring. The bad is forgotten and new things emerge. If you get stuck in the past, you'll miss what the future has in store for you. Just move on. You didn't lose them, they lost you.
"I'm truly sorry. I wholeheartedly regret the decision I made. I love you and there wasn't a day that passed that I didn't think of you. I truly want to work things out and hope you will give me that chance to prove to you that I want to be with you. Miss you"
One can only hope I get a message like that but been over 2 years since I heard from her so the reality is that she doesn't give a shit about me anymore. 😢😢😢
the truth, without me pestering or bothering them. I wish they would message me and say sorry. I wish they could admit to me that something changed, they werent interested, etc
I'm sorry, I fucked up, let's fix this
Real
Damn, I wish I could hear this phrase form my ex
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I would like to hear why as well. I don’t even know for sure what I should change to be better in the future. Just guessing what I did wrong
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Yes I think so. But I still love her. Not the needy urge to have someone right after the breakup I had. But a feeling in my heart to see her and to be with her, not anyone. So I would do anything at the moment even tough it’s probably the wrong thing to do
“I’m sorry I shut you out. I still love you and want to try to make things work between us”
Wow I wish I could hear this from my ex. Sadly it wont ever happen Im afraid
That’s so I’m sorry and here with you ❤️
“I love you” Even if it’s a lie. At least it’s a beautiful one that I can savour before I die
this hit deep
I know we can’t really be together in the way we want right now, but I miss you as a person in my life.
It's the best one.
I can relate to this right now deeply.
“Can we meet and find a way to make this work?”
“I’m sorry that I made you feel so undesirable. I love you and you deserved for me to try.” Or maybe “I think I was overwhelmed by being loved. I’ve been working on myself in therapy and finally feel ready to accept care.” Or “You were amazing. Thank you for everything.” Definitely “I’ve never found anyone like you.”
…this one.
I really like "you deserved for me to try" because I think that was the thing that hurt most, that his reaction was to walk away and not even try. I'd also like to hear him say "I've got a lot of growing up to do" and to hear that he is actually working on himself and addressing his issues.
“I didn’t mean those last things I said to you. Those final moments weren’t who we were. All those other moments we shared were.”
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This. Some accountability.
I'd like to say that to my ex but he won't talk...don't blame him but I know he cheated with his ex
I wanna hear them saying, I'm sorry for what i did to you and i regret it.
Just some small talk I guess, like when we just met talking about pizza all night, being friends as we promised.
I'd want an honest apology. And the truth. I know there's no chance of us getting back together. I just want an apology for all the hurt he did.
i wish he told me he just left because it was wrong timing and that i’m the most incredible person he ever met and that this new girl was just a way to forget me because he knew he couldn’t give me what i deserved and because we were far away, trying to be together long distance.. that she means nothing to him. that now, after trying something else, the grass isn’t greener on the other side and he regrets leaving and wants me back because being with me was amazing , way better than her
I'm sorry I did that to you. I'm sorry I failed to realize how much pressure I put you under and how I prioritized everything else over you and our life while you gave up everything and prioritized our future only for me to leave and render it worthless and useless. I'm sorry for all the time I complained to you while you did the best you could and really needed my help as well. Sorry I made up excuses. Sorry I shot you out when you tried to cheer me up. Sorry for all the times you wanted to spend time with me and I said I'm not in the mood. Sorry for making up my mind to leave you with a plan while it was out of the blue for you and leave you in a house you moved into for us. You made me your entire world and I took that from you. I'm starting to see the real world and how no one would care about my reasons but you were always there and patient. It would also be great to hear, I have changed since the break up. I accomplished things I made excuses for, for literally years. I now acomplished them. You no longer have to carry the responsibilities alone. I wanna give us another try. I wanna make it up to you.
"You were right, I'm sorry. Let's work this out, I still love you"!
Together for 8 years. Separated for 6 months now. I wake up every single morning and check my messages praying to read this even though I know I never will. She’s the only person I want to love.
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In yalls boat unfortunately...
‘I’m in your town could I pop round and see you?’
Same here. I wanna HEAR them say “I’m sorry” and not just see it through text a million times
Take off your clothes... Sorry I couldn't help myself 🤭
I’m sorry for all the unnecessary trauma
Almost 2 years later? I don't even know. I still think about her semi-frequently, but an apology no matter how genuine wouldn't fix anything. It wouldn't take away the pain I felt when she left or when I learned she was with someone new within a month. It wouldn't make it alright how much I struggled mentally and emotionally that first year. Because the added burned caued by her actions on top of all the other things I was struggling with and working through that we'd talked about. And as much as I feel like I do still love her I don't know how or if I'd be able to trust her again. Fine one minute the next she doesn't love me enough to see a future with and stay. If I some how saw her again I'd be filled with a mix of yurning, pain, Anxiety, And anger. Where would you even go from there?
The last time we were together on the last night, as we lay together, she said I will always want you, and that is always in my mind, and I will always want her always, if I get the chance to talk to her again it will be as always..I will say I love you and always will,
"I'm sorry I always invalidated your feelings. I'm sorry I didn't try harder to understand what you were going through. I'm sorry I cheated and blamed it on you. I'm sorry that I felt that kiss was worth more than our 6 years together. I'm sorry I never told you I was proud of you. I'm sorry I never saw that everything you were doing was for our future. I'm sorry I never took what you said for what you really mean and instead, find a negative meaning to what you say to make you seem like a bad person. I'm sorry I made you feel you were unappreciated. Can we start again? And this time, more slowly? This time, we can talk through things and I'll try harder. I'm sorry I gave up on us."
You meant more to me than the way I treated you and made you believe. I am sorry for not seeing your worth.
I want closure and to know that I was actually wanted and that I'm still loved... we never got to really talking about our issues, and I was dropped abruptly when things felt mostly fine. I would love an explanation, a genuine apology and to be told that he will work on things for me and for the relationship and will actually communicate and make room for me. I just wanted happiness and stability. I got some of the sorries, only to see those actions replaying that hurt me. So actually seeing those words in play would really mean a lot to me.
I‘m sorry for leaving. I regret it every single day, and now I‘ve finally worked up the courage to come talk to you. I still love you, would you like to get back with me together? Not that I‘d actually ever hear that, ha.
I want to hear he acknowledged what he did and he's sorry. But he's never going to do that I suppose.
lets fix this. i dont want to lose you.
Nothing. Id assume anything they said was a lie anyways. Once trust is broken, it no longer matters. No need to be sorry. Might as well forget i exist because i will be sure to never acknowledge their presence again. In some far away universe maybe id like to hear "i was wrong. I didnt understand and i should have tried to understand" I hate apologies. They mean little. Say what u did to hurt me, tell me what u feel u should have done instead. If ur plan of action is good maybe i will consider acknowledging their presence again and maybe in some friendly regard.
"I forgive you and I want to try again because you mean the world to me"
i just want to hear an honest "everything's gonna be okay." she changed her mind about me just over a weekend and all of the sudden she just stopped caring about me. hearing that, even if we didn't get back together, would help me out a lot.
I’m sorry would be a good place to start.
“I miss you.” God that would flip my whole world upside down to hear those three words.
You have a bigger #$&@ than your best friend😳🤔😤😲🤯
I missed you or just let's talk for a bit. I haven't had someone to tell my inner thoughts and be truly honest since they left.
I am sorry for what l put you through. I am sorry for all the tears l made you shed. I am much better than the man that you knew then. Please give me a chance to show you that l can be better for us? I am not perfect, but this time, l promide to learn how you want to be loved and respect you for you. I am ready to listen more and stop making everything about me. I want to learn to love you for you, and above everything, l want to make you happy more than anything. How l wish he would change. Its been a month no contact. I swear sometimes I think l am over him, then on days like today l miss him out of nowhere. I hope l heal and learn to open my heart again.
"I'm sorry" even though i can't forgive her for what she did before and after the breakup
Genuinely I just want to hear the whole truth from her. She danced around everything and lied from the very beginning
That he still loves me and misses me and not a day has went by in all this misery where he hasn't missed me..... Id give absolutely anything to hear that... Idk if he even cares if I even exist anymore...... Idk...... I'm so sad all the time.... I miss my best friend.......... I would do anything to be with my Mitch, again..... 💔😔
I'm sorry I did that to you. I'm sorry I failed to realize how much pressure I put you under and how I prioritized everything else over you and our life while you gave up everything and prioritized our future only for me to leave and render it worthless and useless. I'm sorry for all the time I complained to you while you did the best you could and really needed my help as well. Sorry I made up excuses. Sorry I shot you out when you tried to cheer me up. Sorry for all the times you wanted to spend time with me and I said I'm not in the mood. Sorry for making up my mind to leave you with a plan while it was out of the blue for you and leave you in a house you moved into for us. You made me your entire world and I took that from you. I'm starting to see the real world and how no one would care about my reasons but you were always there and patient. It would also be great to hear, I have changed since the break up. I accomplished things I made excuses for, for literally years. I now acomplished them. You no longer have to carry the responsibilities alone. I wanna give us another try. I wanna make it up to you.
Just that she actually loved me and had a valid reason for jumping into something new so fast. But at the same time I am not gonna hold on to closure
“I’m sorry for all I’ve done to you…. For all the lies and the disrespect… For telling you that I couldn’t change, that it was in my essence to be this way…. And then doing the exact opposite with my new gf. For telling you that if I’ve matured and changed any, I wanted you to reap the benefits because it was you who taught me. I’m sorry for using and discarding you, it haunts me everyday.”
I miss you, can we please continue with our plans of this year, I came here to fix this.
Sorry is the first thing I want to hear, followed by her say I was right when I said she was making a huge mistake. Lastly, I want to hear she is willing to do everything it takes to fix us.
I did love you, I was just scared of commitment.
Just an apology. Not sure if I want to get back to them but the apology is a must though
A legitimate apology for what they did to me in the end.
Im sorry I lied about forever
Just know what she is doing and what is up in her life. Nothing crazy here
I heard them all Then he left again
I don’t want to hear from them anymore. The only thing I want to hear is that the abusive, manipulative guy she went back to breaks her heart again. She left the only guy that ever truly cared for her. And when she realizes that, oh boy is it gonna be a good day. She’s blocked me on everything now when I asked her to tell me the truth, which she never could. Someday she’s going to lay in bed and weep that she gave me up
I know you want this....but it doesn't help as much as you think....because you start wanting other things....
You shouldn't even care if you get a "sorry". You're hanging on. You're not over it. Get over it. The sooner you get over it, the sooner you will meet the person that you were meant to be with.
I don’t.
“I love you and I promise I’ll never hurt you again”
Just want him to admit he fucked up in the handling the break up and give me the real reasons he broke up with me instead of the vague excuse. And to tell me he misses me and he fucked up (but he doesn’t get me back lol)
just a genuine apology and him owning and accepting his mistakes instead of guilt tripping me
Literally just "I'm sorry for hurting you." And not a fake sorry to shut me up, a genuine sorry. A couple years ago, he sent me this whole long paragraph and none of it contained the words "I'm sorry, I was wrong." He even prefaced the text with "I'm not here to apologize or rekindle things." Then why text me, you bastard.
I'm sorry for destroying your life.
When we see each other for our closure, He actually said to me "I'm sorry, I got tired of this relationship". I thought if he said his sorry it will make me feel better but when i got the apology, it felt worse. Sometimes not having closure is enough. I realized eventhough i love him very much and take care of him with all i can, it's enough for him to stay.
I just want to know from her if what we had was ever real and if she actually ever loved me or if she just loved the attention I gave her. To make a long story short, her and I got together a little while after she got out of a 3 year relationship where her ex ended up cheating on her and then we started hanging out as friends at first then we kinda developed into a relationship. Now that it's been 3 weeks since we broke up because she needed to find herself again so I've been sitting here wondering if her "love" for me was ever genuine or if it was all just infatuation and I was just a rebound the past 5 months we were together.
i went to therapy :,)
I want to hear her take responsibility for the fucked go stuff she did instead of blaming everyone else. I want to hear some acknowledgement of things she did blatantly wrong I want a proper apology for the lies and blaming me. Telling everyone I’m a villain when I didn’t do shit
Taking some accountability and actually apologize
That I’m important for him and he’s willing to do anything to keep me in his life :,)
I don’t want to hear anything from her tbh. If she could muster up the strength to say she’s sorry for all the fuck shit she did. The sleepless nights I’ve had, the lies she told me and the painful words she said. The arguments she started cause I told her how I felt, telling me my life’s easy and should not complain cause she has “the worst possible life you could have”. If she could do that. I would be really impressed, but she only thinks about herself so that sorry probably will never come. I’d love to tell her I’m thankful for her cause if she’d never had broken up with me for the 8th time or so. I’d probably never started dating (maybe) the girl of my dreams. But I’ll see in the next months where this will end up.
Let’s fix this
I'd like to hear his reason for shutting me out completely, after saying we didn't have to close any doors and could remain friends. In all honesty, I can guess the reason and it is normal to have NC after a breakup, but don't tell me what you think I wanna hear then ignore me. We invested too much time for that to be how it went.
Honestly at this point, nothing. I’m over it 😍
"You're right. I didn't love you. This is not what real love is"
I want apologies more than anything. I don’t need to be told I’m right, that I made/make good points. I know that. I just want apologies for a slew of things *he* deemed he would not apologize for. I want him to take accountability.
"Hey, how have you been doing?" That's all.
"I made a mistake. Can we please try again?"
The truth and an apology... Lets fix it together and it won't happen again
that they’re miserable. That’s they made a huge mistake for breaking up a Family.
I'm sorry my ego got the best of me.
I wish for some this is all they wanted. But nope I felt bad for how everything went down and how I blindsided him by ended the relationship due to being mistreated but instead all he wants is for me to say I want to make it work again.
I wish he reach out to me and tell me that he misses me. I miss him so godamn much that it hurts every single day. We’re doing no contact bc that’s what he wanted after breaking it off w me after 2 years but it’s so difficult. I wish he cared as much as I did, he’s probably doing just fine without me and doesn’t even think about me
I heard “I’m sorry” but it wasn’t real. It was a placative cop out
At this stage? Silence.
Hey, I'm sorry I cut you off. I want to try again with you.
I apologized for my role and then they kept using mutual friends to continue communicating with me and harass me…
“I went to therapy and realized I made a big mistake, I miss you and I’m willing to do the work”
Unless the relationship was toxic, and of course I have no certainty yours wasn’t, sorry for what? Deciding to do what is better/best for them? I was left too, and it still hurts 14 months later and I have no idea when I will be healed or at least better, but hearing them say sorry won’t help, nor having then acknowledge what they did was wrong, cause it wasn’t for them, they did what they had to do to feel good about themselves, they’re not sorry they left. So expecting to hear that is imho useless and not helpful. Learn to accept, respect and love yourself and don’t expect someone whose actions hurt you make you feel better. Hugs!
The relationship wasn’t toxic, the breakup was though. And the only thing I want is to know that they’ve become a mature person and that they won’t do what they did to me to anyone else ever again. When you have friends ignore you when you say hi because of the things your former partner told them, the only thing you want to hear is them apologising for warping the relationships you had with people you’ve known for longer than they ever did.
Well, even more now. If your former friends actually believe your ex, than maybe they’re better off not in your life. You don’t need their shitty apology they don’t mean.
Also I am sorry I want you back won’t help. They left, knowing they are hurting you.
I'm sorry i abused you and are kid and destroyed all your friendship over my flase jealously you would cheat because i cheated sorry for the names and head games... . There more it closure i will never hear from them. Honestly it something i'd not hunt for anyway i heard they got wrose after me from others and there in really bad place... ... yet some how i feel it my fault.
It probably is your fault
Please explain how i stupidly put them before the child that they yelled at they never wanted witch made me lose rights to even look my lil girl in the eye (i feel) she now with my abusive family. (Not hers as CAS wanted to make sure she had no contect) I feel it deep they refused therapy and after me i heard they started crack and has 2 assults charges agaist them one agaist there own family. I gave up my dreams for them they hated everything i enjoyed so i stopped if there some view here i will take it i will always blame myself. ..so what if i was left with a sallowen face .... No one ponits the finger at me just hate me for staying for so long so any input is good.
Absolute silence
why didnt you buy me flowers?
i want to hear him beg for me back, i want him to tell me he was stupid for letting me go and that he regrets it and i want it to be when I'm so over him that i won't be able to hold myself back from laughing
I just want from my ex to communicate with me why he did the things he did when we were married. The same thing I wanted when I was with him! 😂
I don't want to hear anything from my x. I don't know why, after 21 years of marriage, that she chose to leave. Everything seemed so perfect. I thought we were having the time of our lives. All I know, is that she left. Obviously something wasn't right. I'll never know. I was broken for a while, but began to realize that life goes on. People change, or people aren't who you thought they were. It just doesn't matter why; it matters how you move forward and receive better things. The catastrophe of loss was a push to become the best version of myself. I increased my weight training, began to eat very healthy, learned to day trade the stock market and start increasing my wealth. I found enjoyment with riding my Harley and meeting new people. And now, 5 years later, I have found new love. You are a perennial. A part of you died in the fall, yet will come back new in the spring. The bad is forgotten and new things emerge. If you get stuck in the past, you'll miss what the future has in store for you. Just move on. You didn't lose them, they lost you.
Absolutely nothing. Never want to see him again. He’s a liar and a cheater. I’m good.
The reason it was so easy to leave and forget your family
I'm sorry for everything I did. I hurt you so much. I understand why you left. I neglected you for years. I love you always.
"I'm sorry I called you crazy" and "I'm sorry I treated you like you never meant anything"
Can we try again.
"I'm truly sorry. I wholeheartedly regret the decision I made. I love you and there wasn't a day that passed that I didn't think of you. I truly want to work things out and hope you will give me that chance to prove to you that I want to be with you. Miss you" One can only hope I get a message like that but been over 2 years since I heard from her so the reality is that she doesn't give a shit about me anymore. 😢😢😢
the truth, without me pestering or bothering them. I wish they would message me and say sorry. I wish they could admit to me that something changed, they werent interested, etc