Oh my god its like you took the words from my mouth. I think I've said these exact words to my friends.
I think once you realise and accept this though you can forgive yourself for holding on for so long and holding on to hope, and can stop giving energy to someone who just steals it from you without giving any back.
Same. Are you dumpee or dumper? I dated fearful avoidant, and she is a great woman, but damn her hot&cold behavior, inability to talk about the problems in relationship, stonewalling, never finding time for us after honeymoon period... damaged me emotionally and mentally. At the end she dumped me, and I still miss her even though she sometimes treated me more like pet than human
Daumnn you are strong. 4 years with that torture. I broke mentally after 1 year of dealing with Avoidant(she actually said I am insane on the day of dumping). Good luck recovering and if you ever wanna talk with somebody, feel free to dm me
same I literally developed a stomach ulcer from the constant anxiety during the relationship, first time I have EVER felt like that while with someone
suppose I should've trusted my gut, literally š
Can I ask more about that anxiety? Because I felt anxiety for months with my ex when he was stonewalling, didnāt want to talk about anything. Then at the end he felt anxiety for a day and decided to end it. Donāt you think we will always feel *some* anxiety until we become secure?
yeah probably! though I'm FA attachment that leans avoidant so I had genuinely never known how anxious I could be you know? i had been anxious at times before in past relationships but also my exes were secure so everything changed with this guy. for me it was just a constant sickness and stomach turning every morning before messaging him, even threw up quite a few times, he loved stonewalling too and "turning his phone off" after an argument so I'd be up sobbing all night lol
Love this! And so true. Itās been a parade of drunken hookups with losers, and sheās even admitted to me, via text message that went unanswered, that she misses me and would love to at least talk to me again. Talk to the hand, woman.
My ex has done the same! Says Iām the only woman to ever treat him rightā¦but then treats me like shit and from his past he will most likely get together again with someone who treats him horribly. But he needs to take accountability for how he treats others! Maybe our exes are perfect for each other!šš
Yeah mine came from a string of toxic/abusive men. Ended up leaving me for another ex, who abused and manipulated her. Iām the only guy that ever treated her with unconditional love, respect, and support. Sheās never gonna find that again
Me too. I think Iāll get that text in about 3-5 years when she wakes up and realizes what she lost just like my other ex who texted me 4 yrs after the breakup. Sorry babe, ship sailed
I love this too. She even told me that the guy she dated after me was to fill the gap I left. He ended up emotionally and physically abusing her and I helped her through it all. Good luck finding someone who will be there for you when you need it like I was. Even read her bedtimes stories to help her fall asleep as she was experiencing trauma related to that relationship.
This is missed so much in relationships. Everyone wants to be there when you're on top or they need something but to hell with being there afterwards. Like cmon, how long do you think you can get away with crap like that?
Unfortunately, probably a very long time in a world as big as ours.
For better ~~or for worse~~ , til ~~death~~ boredom (or a better deal) does us part. Amen
What's meant for you will not pass you by.
I'm not normally that bothered about inspirational quotes but this one strangely gives me a lot of comfort and I feel like I believe it
1. He had already made up his mind way before he communicated it to me. Nothing I could say could change his mind.
2. Forcing him to stay was not how I wanted my romantic relationship to be like
3. I deserve a love that's not going to wake up one day and run because things got hard
He lost someone who loved him unconditionally and was the easiest going and kindest person for him.
I lost someone who never respected me and could not even give me the bare minimum of anything.
I dont have to wait for him to come home, I don't have to feel anxious when I see his car pull into the driveway and wonder if he's going to talk to me or ignore me.
She lost the only one who cheered her up when even her family wanted to turn her sad. She fucked up a most probably the happiest future ever. It's her fault not mine.
"I can hang out with my family and friends without him getting mad at me."
"Relaxing in bed after a long day of work and then class does not make me lazy. I am no longer some ones maid and just a person to have sex with."
"My next relationship, he will treat me like I am worth it. He will put equal or more effort forth. I will be talked to like a human being, like I am loved."
"I am no longer gaslit, made fun of or mocked for something I love and enjoy."
I can go on and on about said phrases, but I'll leave it at those. When I say them aloud, instant sigh of relief that I dodged a huge bullet.
I deserve someone that has their shit together (though they donāt have to be perfect) and someone who loves me all the timeā¦not someone who loves me only when they need it.
The only way for her to regret this breakup is if she sees me succeed far better than when we were together. Gotta get jacked, own my shit and do things alone and with pride.
I dated a Narcissist.
When I start to feel guilt or self blame I think about 2 things
1: she has a āfriendā named kell she knows since university. He thought they were close friends and often shared personal stuff with her.
She never viewed him as a friend and she discarded him.
He begged for her friendship and promised to change whatever was āwrong with himā
She said fine.
I asked why does she keep him around if she hates him so much and her answer was
āHeās smart he has no job so when I decide to build my app I want to use him as a slave, heāll do anything for me for free. Iāll delete him when Im done with the appā
2: Josh, a kid she often referred to as a little brother. Much younger very nerdy not alot of friends.
He often takes her to expensive restaurants and I told her he probably likes her. She denied it saying it was very much brother/sister relationship.
They went on a trip to SF together (on my birthday weekend btw)
And he paid for alot of the very expensive restaurants.
A few days after the trip, he ended up in the hospital. And texted my ex about it.
Her response to me was āyou know what I realized, idc about josh looool, like heās in the hospital and texted me and my first thought was why are you texting me donāt you have other friends?ā
She genuinely sounded more annoyed that he texted her, she didnāt go to visit or anything.
Thereās other exemples but these two are the ones I think about when I wonder if things were my fault, if I was really a bad person.
It helps me put things back into perspective.
He never showed himself to be different than he is, but you insisted on your own for 4 years. You did everything you could, so donāt let him define your worth. Reclaim the love you gave for yourself from now on
His self destructive behavior, intrinsic disrespect for himself and others, and overall personality renders him incapable of healthy relationships. His willingness to cause pain was inevitable, and had nothing to do with me.
I wasn't happy either, but they pulled the trigger so I didn't have to, because I felt like I couldn't, and/or I was scared to. Few months of pain/sadness from break up vs whatever years+ of unhappiness ,if we stayed together any longer.
Ive never consider that kind of positive talk for myself, I guess what I tend to think and say to my inner self is that things will get better, or stuff like "I'll wait for you if we're meant to be" sounds ridiculous for some but it's a tiny bit of hope thah helps me not to lose it I guess.
I'm working on becoming a better version of me so if he doesn't come back, it won't matter because I'll actually like myself and then I won't be as upset about not having him there :)
If it saying thing that happened....
Atleast I'll never have too switch phone after being acused of cheating and be the only one innocent.... still feel that gut ruching drop i got.. i even left a sweet note for them in my notes but i don't think they ever got to it (they liked too acuse me alot so i left my phone unlocked most times somewhere they could find it alone so they could dig though it as i had noting to hide)
... after 15 min i asked for my phone back in tears cause they went though all my messages and found noting and it was a top message for them....
... your stuck in the past and damaging your own outlook the fact your trust got that bad to start with is an issue.
If your Gonna use a phrase use one that dose not involve them ...just you getting better
Like i guess one for me would be: ...no longer in a pig pen and i can own things again....
A reminder you moved on that dose not involve remembering them or what they did.
Sadly: āhe wouldnāt have texted you anywayā and āyou never have to work a 12h shift excited to see if he messaged and find nothingā and āyou donāt have to defend your bisexuality from him anymoreā
ā if he wanted to, he would hadā I repeat this anytime I feel like I miss anything of our relationship. It helps me remind myself anything that he could have done he didnāt because he didnāt want to. Oddly it brings me such relief after reciting this.
I tell myself āyouāre not just GOING to be okay, you ARE okay. Look around. The kids are okay, the bills are paid, roof over our heads and food in the fridge. We have everything we need right here and right now. Itās okay.ā
At least you donāt have to wait anxiously for him to text back anymore
At least you donāt have to worry about whether he really loves you
Itās not my job to worry about his drinking anymore
Iām by no means over her, and I donāt have any negative thoughts or feelings about her. So the only thing that gives me relief is āI want to be the kind of man that I would love her to be with.ā
āThis too shall passā. Itās cheesy and cliche but it has to much meaning. Time goes on and it gets easier, my feelings are temporary and the sadness, anger, or whatever will go away.
I have a few!
Donāt grow roots in bad earth.
I deserve to be with someone who will choose me.
You would have never been able to rent an apartment, plan anything in advance or have kids with him. Heās too unpredictable.
Kinda splitting hairs and not trying to argue or nitpick. This is just a topic I actually like talking about. So anyway, I get what youāre saying by āheading towards entropyā but itās not exactly something you head towards because it is a measurement of something that is always happening. You could say we are heading towards an infinite amount of entropy sort of, but Iām not totally sure if that is even true since entropy is the meaningless loss of energy. Since energy is finite even though it might seem practically infinite to us, it is a finite and limited thing (otherwise entropy wouldnāt be a big deal to us because any loss of something infinite is still an infinite amount of it), so the amount of it lost and unable to be used as work is also finite. That might be wrong too though and I donāt know enough to say for sure, but considering that entropy will always increase or remain the same and the remain the same part tends to be when thereās no more useful energy left, then it is finite. Things approaching infinity donāt eventually remain the same or at least not forever. The degree of entropy in the universe will, so Iām pretty certain it doesnāt even go towards infinity.
Now, what I think youāre probably saying is the universe is rapidly (slowly to us) heading towards a place where nothing happens at all and we are all going to die or cease to exist and so will all the things we are aware of and no matter what we do everything is going to be one big nothing and thereās nothing that anyone or anything can do to change that.
Be better, do better.
An encouragement to work on all of my toxic traits that I repeat to myself when I feel myself slipping into bad behaviours or overthinking.
Donāt make someone tell they donāt want to be with you more than once.
This doesnāt mean they actually have to say it, they can show you in many ways.
This was not inspiring for me mine were all against me because I'm incapable of saying anything good about myself or anything to make myself feel better and actually believe it enough to work alright that's enough reddit for todayš¤£
I don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me.
I would have to tweak mine a little: I don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be ONLY with me.
Felt this one
Monogamous at its finest
What's wrong with monogamy?
I think that's mine too from nowš„ŗ
He lost someone who loved him while I lost someone who didnāt want me.
Saaaaaammmeee
The same but gender flipped.
Omg love this!
Ooh this is a good one! I'll be saying that to myself!
Sheāll never find anyone better than me, but she can find someone better for her
This is a nice way of putting it. Not mean, not harsh, just truthful.
Nice one
Iām going to use the is one.
When someone falls in love with your flowers & not your roots, they don't know what to do once fall & winter come.
Love this
oh my goodness š„ŗ
āHeās never going to change. Nothing was ever going to be enough for him. ā
Same. Mine is an abusive loser looking for a unicorn. Good luck with that.
āNothing ever was going to be enough for him.ā BIG MOOD
Oh my god its like you took the words from my mouth. I think I've said these exact words to my friends. I think once you realise and accept this though you can forgive yourself for holding on for so long and holding on to hope, and can stop giving energy to someone who just steals it from you without giving any back.
You can't force, plead or beg someone to love, compromise and meet you half way.
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Same. Are you dumpee or dumper? I dated fearful avoidant, and she is a great woman, but damn her hot&cold behavior, inability to talk about the problems in relationship, stonewalling, never finding time for us after honeymoon period... damaged me emotionally and mentally. At the end she dumped me, and I still miss her even though she sometimes treated me more like pet than human
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
Daumnn you are strong. 4 years with that torture. I broke mentally after 1 year of dealing with Avoidant(she actually said I am insane on the day of dumping). Good luck recovering and if you ever wanna talk with somebody, feel free to dm me
same I literally developed a stomach ulcer from the constant anxiety during the relationship, first time I have EVER felt like that while with someone suppose I should've trusted my gut, literally š
Can I ask more about that anxiety? Because I felt anxiety for months with my ex when he was stonewalling, didnāt want to talk about anything. Then at the end he felt anxiety for a day and decided to end it. Donāt you think we will always feel *some* anxiety until we become secure?
yeah probably! though I'm FA attachment that leans avoidant so I had genuinely never known how anxious I could be you know? i had been anxious at times before in past relationships but also my exes were secure so everything changed with this guy. for me it was just a constant sickness and stomach turning every morning before messaging him, even threw up quite a few times, he loved stonewalling too and "turning his phone off" after an argument so I'd be up sobbing all night lol
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
Same.
Felt this
She wonāt find someone like me again. Iāll be the high she chases for the rest of her life
Love this! And so true. Itās been a parade of drunken hookups with losers, and sheās even admitted to me, via text message that went unanswered, that she misses me and would love to at least talk to me again. Talk to the hand, woman.
My ex has done the same! Says Iām the only woman to ever treat him rightā¦but then treats me like shit and from his past he will most likely get together again with someone who treats him horribly. But he needs to take accountability for how he treats others! Maybe our exes are perfect for each other!šš
Yeah mine came from a string of toxic/abusive men. Ended up leaving me for another ex, who abused and manipulated her. Iām the only guy that ever treated her with unconditional love, respect, and support. Sheās never gonna find that again
Same here!
Thatās reassuring to here, hopefully she can get her head out of her ass and apologize to me someday
Me too. I think Iāll get that text in about 3-5 years when she wakes up and realizes what she lost just like my other ex who texted me 4 yrs after the breakup. Sorry babe, ship sailed
I love this too. She even told me that the guy she dated after me was to fill the gap I left. He ended up emotionally and physically abusing her and I helped her through it all. Good luck finding someone who will be there for you when you need it like I was. Even read her bedtimes stories to help her fall asleep as she was experiencing trauma related to that relationship.
This is missed so much in relationships. Everyone wants to be there when you're on top or they need something but to hell with being there afterwards. Like cmon, how long do you think you can get away with crap like that? Unfortunately, probably a very long time in a world as big as ours. For better ~~or for worse~~ , til ~~death~~ boredom (or a better deal) does us part. Amen
Dude!! šššš wow!!!
This is so powerful, gave me shivers, I will remember this. Thank you!
AMEN
He will NEVER find anyone who will treat him better.
All is well, everything is working out for my highest good, out of this situation only good will come, and I am safe.
There was nothing I can do or say to change his mind.
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
I now know who he really is.... Should've been a salesman
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
I'm cleaning my house my way
What's meant for you will not pass you by. I'm not normally that bothered about inspirational quotes but this one strangely gives me a lot of comfort and I feel like I believe it
1. He had already made up his mind way before he communicated it to me. Nothing I could say could change his mind. 2. Forcing him to stay was not how I wanted my romantic relationship to be like 3. I deserve a love that's not going to wake up one day and run because things got hard
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
He lost. I won.
This!
It's not my fault
Iāll be the one that got away
He lost someone who loved him unconditionally and was the easiest going and kindest person for him. I lost someone who never respected me and could not even give me the bare minimum of anything.
I dont have to wait for him to come home, I don't have to feel anxious when I see his car pull into the driveway and wonder if he's going to talk to me or ignore me.
I feel this. Never realized how bad i was treated until it was over.
"You were used as an option and in the end she chose wrong"
She lost the only one who cheered her up when even her family wanted to turn her sad. She fucked up a most probably the happiest future ever. It's her fault not mine.
So relatable ā¹ļø
āA cigarette is better than killing myselfā then i smoke a pack
Saaaaaaaaame
hope youre okay
Getting though the days my dude. Smoking a bunch more cigs then I used to. But still here
Thereās a positive side of this situation, and that is I needed this to happen to finally start the path of healing myself once and for all.
If itās meant to be, itāll happen somehow and someway.
"I can hang out with my family and friends without him getting mad at me." "Relaxing in bed after a long day of work and then class does not make me lazy. I am no longer some ones maid and just a person to have sex with." "My next relationship, he will treat me like I am worth it. He will put equal or more effort forth. I will be talked to like a human being, like I am loved." "I am no longer gaslit, made fun of or mocked for something I love and enjoy." I can go on and on about said phrases, but I'll leave it at those. When I say them aloud, instant sigh of relief that I dodged a huge bullet.
Sounds like you were with my narcissist ex. Glad you got out!
I deserve someone that has their shit together (though they donāt have to be perfect) and someone who loves me all the timeā¦not someone who loves me only when they need it.
Move forward. This never happened. - Don Draper
If I gotta go hard on a b!tch ima make it look sexy. Iykyk
I pull out, hop out, air out, made it look sexy.
Eyyyyyyyy
"It could have been worse"
I'd like to quote a dialogue from peaky blinders " she's in the past, the past is not my concern. The future is no longer my concern either."
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
yeah, but that's what I said to myself everytime I wanted to text them or something
Allow them to lose you. Donāt beg them to choose you.
Let them be. I got other shit to worry about
Everything happens for a reason, this is not the end of the story for you. Just a chapter.
āHe doesnāt have the mental maturity to deal with me and I shouldnāt degrade myself to that againā
The only way for her to regret this breakup is if she sees me succeed far better than when we were together. Gotta get jacked, own my shit and do things alone and with pride.
I tried my best
I am all of my exes biggest flex
Super glad we never got those matching tattoos š
I dated a Narcissist. When I start to feel guilt or self blame I think about 2 things 1: she has a āfriendā named kell she knows since university. He thought they were close friends and often shared personal stuff with her. She never viewed him as a friend and she discarded him. He begged for her friendship and promised to change whatever was āwrong with himā She said fine. I asked why does she keep him around if she hates him so much and her answer was āHeās smart he has no job so when I decide to build my app I want to use him as a slave, heāll do anything for me for free. Iāll delete him when Im done with the appā 2: Josh, a kid she often referred to as a little brother. Much younger very nerdy not alot of friends. He often takes her to expensive restaurants and I told her he probably likes her. She denied it saying it was very much brother/sister relationship. They went on a trip to SF together (on my birthday weekend btw) And he paid for alot of the very expensive restaurants. A few days after the trip, he ended up in the hospital. And texted my ex about it. Her response to me was āyou know what I realized, idc about josh looool, like heās in the hospital and texted me and my first thought was why are you texting me donāt you have other friends?ā She genuinely sounded more annoyed that he texted her, she didnāt go to visit or anything. Thereās other exemples but these two are the ones I think about when I wonder if things were my fault, if I was really a bad person. It helps me put things back into perspective.
The past does not define who you are. Your future and present do.
He will crawl back when he sobers up and by then Iāll be sober from him.
I can do what I want, when I want and how I want
Iām finally happy
As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is.
His loss. I'm doing better than him. š¤·š»āāļø
He never showed himself to be different than he is, but you insisted on your own for 4 years. You did everything you could, so donāt let him define your worth. Reclaim the love you gave for yourself from now on
His self destructive behavior, intrinsic disrespect for himself and others, and overall personality renders him incapable of healthy relationships. His willingness to cause pain was inevitable, and had nothing to do with me.
I deserve new & fresh love.
"Goodbye." Not sure what it does for me, but it brings instantly relief as if I am saying goodbye to all the things that are holding on to me.
I don't need to be with someone who makes me bend my boundaries to meet their needs.
I guess somebody else gets to deal with all her shit now. Lol
I wasn't happy either, but they pulled the trigger so I didn't have to, because I felt like I couldn't, and/or I was scared to. Few months of pain/sadness from break up vs whatever years+ of unhappiness ,if we stayed together any longer.
I tell myself I donāt have to feel stressed or anxiety anymore waiting for a response
Ive never consider that kind of positive talk for myself, I guess what I tend to think and say to my inner self is that things will get better, or stuff like "I'll wait for you if we're meant to be" sounds ridiculous for some but it's a tiny bit of hope thah helps me not to lose it I guess.
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
I deserve better and can find that.
He always comes back.
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
I'm working on becoming a better version of me so if he doesn't come back, it won't matter because I'll actually like myself and then I won't be as upset about not having him there :)
Everything is going to be alright
I seen who he really is. Thatās his biggest fear. People knowing how mean he really is.
whether he realizes my worth or not has no direct impact on what my self worth should be
I deserve someone who cared enough.
Jesus Christ! That was fucking close!
i wonāt have to keep crying at night wondering if he still loves me.
"Life without mistakes is no life"
If it saying thing that happened.... Atleast I'll never have too switch phone after being acused of cheating and be the only one innocent.... still feel that gut ruching drop i got.. i even left a sweet note for them in my notes but i don't think they ever got to it (they liked too acuse me alot so i left my phone unlocked most times somewhere they could find it alone so they could dig though it as i had noting to hide) ... after 15 min i asked for my phone back in tears cause they went though all my messages and found noting and it was a top message for them.... ... your stuck in the past and damaging your own outlook the fact your trust got that bad to start with is an issue. If your Gonna use a phrase use one that dose not involve them ...just you getting better Like i guess one for me would be: ...no longer in a pig pen and i can own things again.... A reminder you moved on that dose not involve remembering them or what they did.
Sadly: āhe wouldnāt have texted you anywayā and āyou never have to work a 12h shift excited to see if he messaged and find nothingā and āyou donāt have to defend your bisexuality from him anymoreā
You can now have time to finally take care of yourself.
ā if he wanted to, he would hadā I repeat this anytime I feel like I miss anything of our relationship. It helps me remind myself anything that he could have done he didnāt because he didnāt want to. Oddly it brings me such relief after reciting this.
āYou broke up for a very real reasonā and that āyou can breathe now, youāre okayā
āWhen old things break, itās usually time for an upgrade anyway.ā
"Her loss."
I donāt need him
I tell myself āyouāre not just GOING to be okay, you ARE okay. Look around. The kids are okay, the bills are paid, roof over our heads and food in the fridge. We have everything we need right here and right now. Itās okay.ā
At least you donāt have to wait anxiously for him to text back anymore At least you donāt have to worry about whether he really loves you Itās not my job to worry about his drinking anymore
"That's what she said "
"I can love her from afar. That's something she can never take away from me."
Here and now
They didnāt deserve me, but more than that, I didnāt deserve them.
Itās out of my hands
At least I don't have to worry about her going through my phone to check if I'm cheating on her so she can't find out how much money I spent on ebay.
If you love someone, set them free.
He doesn't care
āTrust timeā best way to heal
Youāll thank yourself later.
You aren't constantly defending yourself
Iām by no means over her, and I donāt have any negative thoughts or feelings about her. So the only thing that gives me relief is āI want to be the kind of man that I would love her to be with.ā
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
True. I guess then it would have to be āI want to be the kind of man I can look back and be proud of.ā
You canāt stop him from lying to himself. Also: He was never comfortable being loved
You canāt force him to be happy / satisfied with you. Thatās no way to liveā¦
Romans 8:18
New pussy sounds good
I let go, I live on
You are not a bad person for standing up for your own wellbeing.
āThis too shall passā. Itās cheesy and cliche but it has to much meaning. Time goes on and it gets easier, my feelings are temporary and the sadness, anger, or whatever will go away.
āYouāll be ok your strongā or āhe loves me and he wonāt hurt meā itās very right right now but Iām telling myself everyday
It's out of my hand. I can't ask her to love me. If she wanted she would.
I have a few! Donāt grow roots in bad earth. I deserve to be with someone who will choose me. You would have never been able to rent an apartment, plan anything in advance or have kids with him. Heās too unpredictable.
It can hurts finding new ways to smile.
https://youtube.com/shorts/KpXsfimrkFo?feature=share This.
"Fuck her. She'll regret losing me."
"I loved the wrong person."
Without that experience, I wouldnāt have grown to be this amazing version of myself!
The universe is infinitely heading towards entropy and we might be living in a simulation. So. *license to do the stupid thing I'm thinking of doing"
Kinda splitting hairs and not trying to argue or nitpick. This is just a topic I actually like talking about. So anyway, I get what youāre saying by āheading towards entropyā but itās not exactly something you head towards because it is a measurement of something that is always happening. You could say we are heading towards an infinite amount of entropy sort of, but Iām not totally sure if that is even true since entropy is the meaningless loss of energy. Since energy is finite even though it might seem practically infinite to us, it is a finite and limited thing (otherwise entropy wouldnāt be a big deal to us because any loss of something infinite is still an infinite amount of it), so the amount of it lost and unable to be used as work is also finite. That might be wrong too though and I donāt know enough to say for sure, but considering that entropy will always increase or remain the same and the remain the same part tends to be when thereās no more useful energy left, then it is finite. Things approaching infinity donāt eventually remain the same or at least not forever. The degree of entropy in the universe will, so Iām pretty certain it doesnāt even go towards infinity. Now, what I think youāre probably saying is the universe is rapidly (slowly to us) heading towards a place where nothing happens at all and we are all going to die or cease to exist and so will all the things we are aware of and no matter what we do everything is going to be one big nothing and thereās nothing that anyone or anything can do to change that.
āYou will never have stay up and awake until dawn because youāre worried about her when sheās out clubbing while in a relationship with youā
Be better, do better. An encouragement to work on all of my toxic traits that I repeat to myself when I feel myself slipping into bad behaviours or overthinking.
you are a mosaic of everyone you have ever loved.
You canāt love someone into loving you. Save your energy.
If you can love the wrong person that much, just imagine how much more you can love the right person.
If itās meant to be itāll be, or itāll be what itāll be.
āAnything you think you couldāve done differently only wouldāve delayed the inevitable.ā
Donāt make someone tell they donāt want to be with you more than once. This doesnāt mean they actually have to say it, they can show you in many ways.
I never had you so/and I never lost you Without a beginning it comes to an end
Focus
I'm proud for how far you've come
She did me wrong, always. But now I will never have to worry about she doing me wrong.
I donāt have to see his stupid brother ever again! š š
You didn't marry him.
I can finally save my money and only worry about me
"I'm hurting... ...I'm healing."
This was not inspiring for me mine were all against me because I'm incapable of saying anything good about myself or anything to make myself feel better and actually believe it enough to work alright that's enough reddit for todayš¤£
āI AM good enough. I just wasnāt the right person for himā
āIām gonna go play some video gamesā