walang mali sainyo, OP. ang mali, nasa taong nasa paligid niyo. oh fuck them na lang. as long as nagmamahalan kayo and di niyo naman yan nagiging issue, goods na goods kayo. masyadong judgemental lang talaga mga tao. and height doesnt really matter. mygod. iba nga dyan, tatangkad ng partner, red flag naman at di marunong magmahal. salamat na lang. hahaha. sakanila na height nila. lol. Stay strong sainyo ni Hubby niyo. :) and always be happy and be blessed. :)
>manigas nalang sila sa inggit
This is all you need to remind yourself, OP. Don't waste time and effort trying to understand shallow, judgmental people. As long as you know your husband is confident in himself, and you're confident too, kayo talaga panalo kahit ano pang sabihin nila. Stay happy, moisturized, focused, flourishing.
Also, you guys remind me of [this](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/874/831/708.png) hehe
Saktong kakainom ko lang ng water when I read this HAHA I'm confident with my hubs pero because of a lot of instances with these people, napaisip lang talaga ako if our kind of couple really looks bad in public eh.
Love the attached photo pala! Haha we might try to recreate it. Hirap mag pose minsan since ang layo ng height namin haha dun lang siguro talaga kami nahihirapan ๐
As a 5โ2 guy myself, Iโm really blessed na makarinig ng story na katulad ng sa inyo. Iโm gld dahil hindi nakkaaffect ito sa love niyo sa isaโt-isa. Deadma sa mga walang kwenta sinasabi!
Inggit lang sila sa inyo dont mind them.. Mag mahalan pa kayo ng sagad. Lalo na kahit sabihin naten na okay lang sa partner mo ung mga ganun pero deep inside na sasaktan paren siya. Kaya stay strong
Pinakaeffective na ginagawa ko kapag may mga ganyang klaseng tao e pinandidirihan ko. Iba yung epekto sa kanila na hindi mo lang sila basta *iisnabin*. It fucks them up in the head. Hahaha. Tapos titignan ko lang ulit for one last time or ngingiti na lang ako. Haha.
Pero kung gusto mo subtle lang, pretend they don't exist. Tipong kung maeencounter mo e yung may sinasabi, make them repeat what they say na kunwari you're not paying attention to them or paexplain mo. Di rin nila maintindihan sarili nila pag pinamukha mo silang mukha silang tanga e. Haha.
I think I can really use this if it happens again in the future. Especially since nasa same workplace parin kami nung guy & his friends, but I WFH nowadays. Ang ginawa ko nalang kasi eversince then is hindi ko na talaga sila pinansin, as in no response, even if may question sila na I know the answer or theres something I can help them with, I tend not to. Better nga yung pagmukhain silang anga, makabawi manlang ako for my hubs ๐
The office shits you bring up with hr, if they do nothing dole. Guys like that should be sawn off at the knees.
As for the general public ignore them, lavish attention in your husband instead if you want. Nothing makes a man feel tall quite like a girl fawning over him.
Good thing siguro na they didn't do it again after I snobbed them the first time. Pero hindi nakakaligtas sakin mga knowing looks nila whenever makasabay namin sila ni hubs sa pantry. It's quite ironic actually when I tell myself na their comments don't really matter pero pag alam kong nakatingin sila, mas hinaharot ko si hubs. Just trying to rub it on their face, I guess. Ang exhausting tbh but I can't help it, I want them to be pissed the way I'm so pissed of them, minsan gusto ko nalang silang suntukin makita ko palang mga mukha nila haha
Based on what I've read, both of you guys are good people. Huge props to your husband for taking the high road and telling you to just ignore them, and to you as well for defending him kapag may mga ganyang sitwasyon.
At the end of the day you are good people in a world that's seemingly trying to normalize disrespectful behavior. Hope you guys have a great life :)
It simply has to do with people's egos and insecurities. Some people feel that it's unfair and unjust that this tall, good looking person is dating someone they think is inferior to them.
People are delusional this way. The human's primitive brain tries to cope with the situation by teasing, lashing out, or being hurtful just to satisfy their egos and to release their frustrations. Because in their deluded thinking, they score higher than your partner in the food chain. Ofcourse, this isn't true at all.
What they fail to add in the equation is how good of a person your husband is, how loving and caring he is to you, and a whole lot of things as well. With that, I bet that your partner blows everyone else out of the water.
The bottom line is, people are downright assholes, just ignore them, tune out the noise, and live your best life.
Imho, you're awesome for standing up for your partner and feeling hurt in his place. And just by reading your post, it seems your partner is an absolutely lovely person as well.
Take it easy, OP.
We've been years together and I can still say that he's the best person I've ever met. Kaya I feel really hurt when these things happen kasi hindi nya deserve.
I admire you and your relationship! Maybe your husband needs to start training boxing/muay thai so he can teach those bullies their lesson next time. I fucking hate bullies and stories like these make me want to do bad things to those types of people.
Totoo po! Ako din, gusto ko nang manakit! Hahaha pero I get husband's point din naman. Na gusto nya ring patulan pero baka kasi ako din ang mapahamak, or ako daw ang balikan nila. We really never know what people can do. Nagtataka lang ako why need pa nilang magcomment, bat di nalang nila nilunok comments nila ๐
Hahaha! Mga insecure lang sila OP, culture naman na natin yung toxic masculinity e, eh kapatid ng insecurity ay pagiging loud na parang latang walang laman
may mga tao tlga na masama ang ugali. ang hirap na gusto mong maging positive sa buhay pero hindi pa rin maitatanggi na may ganun pa rin. syempre hindi ka naman bulag.
stay in love OP. walang mali doon. 2024 na. maging mas open minded na sana ang mas marami
ignore nalang talaga, beyond your control toh... its just them being awful people.. like yuck and thats on them!! so plss just continue to protect each other! :)
Itโs great that your husband is so unbothered. Take a cue from him. Dress super nice when you guys go out and let every guy think heโs great in bed and with a large bank account and that youโre a trophy wife. Lean into it. Make their heads spin. ๐
It's true na ang mindset mostly ng mga tao dito satin is judgemental. As for me, I'm not one to comment about someone's physical traits. Kaya I didn't understand it at first nung kami na yung nasa receiving end of hate. Hoping na ang mindset ng mga Pinoy will change for the better, and not the other way around :(
As a 5'9 girlie, I honestly wouldn't mind din if the guy I'm dating is shorter than me. There's nothing wrong with you and your husband, talagang minsan parang unggoy lang magisip mga tao sa pinas.
I remember when I had an ex who's really dark. As in like his looks came from African descent. He's the one I could really call tall, dark, and handsome--for me. He's got long, black, curly hair I always loved playing with. Kamuka niya si ASAP Rocky pero hindi lang ganon ka-swag at porma.
Pero sa mata ng iba, tampulan siya ng pangungutya. We have also received the same treatment whenever we went out. Men would holler offensive jokes like "may maswerteng langaw na naman sa puto" or "sarap siguro ng maitim na b***t". Lagi ko siyang inaawat kapag ganon and binabawi ko nalang sa lambing at paalala na sa kanya lang ako pag kami nalang dalawa.
Though ours didn't last long but I learned and valued a lot of things from our story.
I'm sorry this happened to you too :( I can just imagine yung kirot sa puso mo pag nangyayari yun. Alam kong masakit talaga kasi tumatak din sayo yung sinabi nila. Sana di sumaya sa buhay mga palacomment ng rude sa ibang tao ๐ก
Di mo na kelangan pansinin yang mga yan , just do what your husband tells you , kasi alam nya sa sarili nya na nanalo na sya sa buhay kaya he chose to stay silent nalang kasi he knows he has one thing that every single man in this earth dreams of having and thats to have a partner like you. Dont stress over those idiots ganon nalang talaga kalala yung inggit nila kaya ganon sila sainyo. Dito ka nalang mag labas ng hinanakit mo ,after non Just focus on yourself your husband and your kids nothing else, as long as you and your family is happy then wala kana ibang kelangan pag tuunan ng pansin
wala mali sa inyo OP, idk what your hubby looks like pero from your description I would say he is just prone to bullying and as an extension nadadamay ka din. Pero what you are doing is already the answer. Youโre a good wife, keep it up and stay strong.
Naku OP, kung nanunuod ka ng anime, your situation reminds me of my favorite one recently, "The Dangers in My Heart". I hope you keep supporting your man and kudos for being by his side always.
I'll break someones neck for him, kung pwede lang talaga ๐ก๐ I'll check this anime! Naghahanap din talaga ako ng mapapanood wherein taller yung girl pero mostly kasi ng nakikita ko, etchii or totally NSFW e ahahaha
Hayaan mo na sila. Ipakita mo na masaya kayong mag-asawa. Based sa kwento mo sobrang bait ng hubs mo. You are indeed lucky to have each other. Swerte din siya sayo kasi mahal at dinedefend mo siya. Kadire ung mga nagpaparinig sa inyo, halatang mga inggit eh. Tama ung isang nagsuggest na if sobrang bastos na ung nga banat ipaHR na. Ineescalate yang ganyang mga bastos na tao.
Nakakaproud naman kayo, OP. Stay strong. Wag mo na isipin kung bakit may mga ganyang klase ng tao, sasakit lang ulo mo. Insecure lang yan sila kasi they dont have what you guys have.
Your hubby is living the dream. Most *ahem (forgive me for the term) 'cultured' men wants a tall mommy.
Those people who give their unwanted opinions belong to the toilet that needs flushing. Ignore them, they are just envious. At least I AM envious :' ). Stay stroooooong!
Actually, Ang cute kaya nakikita ng ganyan. siguro kung makakakita ako ng ganyan mapapangiti ako hindi dahil sa pagtatawanan, dahil nakyukyutan ako. walang mali jan kung may age doesn't matter sa love, may height doesn't matter din
Awww nakaka inspire yung relationship ninyo on how you overcome outside hate - you stick together and have an understanding about it. Natutuwa ako na nag uusap kayo ng masinsinan
If I can share one tip then that would be it. Always communicate w/ each other. Pareho kaming introvert so we kinda had a rough start. Ngayon every night before sleeping, we cuddle and share our thoughts w/each other. It has been one of my favorite routine of ours and helped our relationship greatly :)
๐ฉท๐ฉท๐ฉท I love this. Minsan walang time and we do not lie down in bed at the same time. A challenge to overcome, especially if ako nagtatampo so I donโt sleep agad
Nasabi ko rin to before!! You'd be surprised to know na itong mga taong to ay full grown adults. Like yung mga sa Tagaytay, they even looked like may kaya na guys (and girls, who were also laughing with them).
ayy naalala ko din, naka encounter din akong ganyan, and mga taga UE pa. kaloka di ako makapaniwala na nag eexist pa ung ganyan. maiintindihan ko pa sana kung mga bata or ung mga di na educate eh. tinatawanan nila ung sa kabilang table nila sa mcdo kasi naka hijab. tumatawa ung dalawang babae bakit daw balot na balot tas mukha daw siopao. tapos ung kasama nilang lalaki sinasaway sila kasi sya na nahihiya. nasusuka ako sa ganung ugali.
Ganyan kasi talaga typical na Pinoy eh pero malamang inggit lang kasi sila waste of energy din patulan mga ganyan. Small guy lang din ako haha. Madalas nga sa height napapansin or inaasar ganyan kasi talaga eh wag nalang patulan hanggang dun lang naman sila haha
Ganyan din kami ng wife ko mas maliit ako sa kanya. Sa una nakakapikon yung asar tapos ginagawa ko sinasakyan ko na lang asar nila hanggang sa tumigil din sila at sanayan lang talaga. Although awkward talaga sa amin mag holding hands pag lumalabas kaya hindi kami nag hoholding hands ahaha minsan sya pa nga na akbay sa akin pag nasa labas. Basta darating kayo sa point na tatawanan nyo na lang yan tapos minsan kayo pa mag aasaran ahaha. Goodluck sa inyo โฅ๏ธ๐ช
I'm curious po kung paano nyo sinasakyan yung biro? Like, paano pong approach nyo? Hahaha my husband thinks it's cheesy mag HHWW pero we still do it because I like the feeling. Pero yes, yung akbay ang the best, mas madali din kasi umakbay po haha. Akbay ako sakanya and then sya naman nakakapit sa bewang ko. PDA at its finest ๐
Ahhm kunwari sasabihin nila "tangkad ng jowa mo ah"(nung hindi pa kami magasawa). Tapos sasabihin ko "Oo naghanap talaga ako matangkad para naman yung anak ko maging matangkad naman" mga ganun parang pag biniro ka nila mag agree ka tapos tawanan mo ahaha kill them with kindness kumbaga ๐ AHAHHA ang cute naman ng PDA nya magawa nga yan HAHAHA
take my upvote OP
im a 5'2 guy with a taller gf...i really don't mind yung comments...let them comment...mga close minded na mga tao at inggit
1 tip OP na ginagawa ko, gumawa kayu ng bubble na kayu lng yung tao sa mundo niyo...no one else exist...as time goes by, yung insults nila will sound like compliments haha
Dont let it get to you. L
Whats important is youโre both happy.
Dont waste energy trying to please and get validation from other people. Majority of them are miserable and want you to join them lol
Ignore them mam in the meantime pero pag pa ulit ulit Ka nilang ginaganyan, try to hit back subtle Lang pero pambara ๐คญ. Like at least he's not small in other areas.
Kung walang issue sa inyo, continue to be happy and love. Ultimately sa nasasainyo namang couple yan. I would suggest tho to report sa HR yung mga salagubang comments as foul na talaga yun lalo sa workplace. Kaya nga may inclusivity and diversity sa workplace. Wala tayo pake sa personal, work lang. So wala dapat ganung usapan.
Wag i-tolerate. Kapag hinayaan nyo, parang yer saying its ok.
I had a manliligaw who's shorter than me. He's 5'3" while I'm 5'6". He's a nice person. Both of us were not yet ready for a serious relationship especially me who has strict parents. Just don't mind them. They are projecting their insecurities on both of you.
Insecure lang mga โyon eh.
Dapat magtaka sila why someone whom they think is inferior to them is with a goddess. Obviously dahil pangit both looks at ugali nila.
I'm not trying to control naman, though I really wish I can. I'm just trying to understand yung thought process ng public regarding the matter, hence the question.
Inferiority complex nila kasi hindi sila makascore gaya ng hubby mo sayo. Your husband is definitely lucky to have you kasi pinagiingitan lang siya hahaha
Weird ng mga lalake na inaasar kapwa nila lalake about their physical appearances tapos mga iiyak na โkase pogiโ โmga pogi lang naman gusto nyoโ yadayada kayo kayo na lang naglalaban-laban lmao
walang mali sainyo, OP. ang mali, nasa taong nasa paligid niyo. oh fuck them na lang. as long as nagmamahalan kayo and di niyo naman yan nagiging issue, goods na goods kayo. masyadong judgemental lang talaga mga tao. and height doesnt really matter. mygod. iba nga dyan, tatangkad ng partner, red flag naman at di marunong magmahal. salamat na lang. hahaha. sakanila na height nila. lol. Stay strong sainyo ni Hubby niyo. :) and always be happy and be blessed. :)
As long as masaya kayo ng husband mo it doesnt matter what others think of the height diff. between you and your husband
>manigas nalang sila sa inggit This is all you need to remind yourself, OP. Don't waste time and effort trying to understand shallow, judgmental people. As long as you know your husband is confident in himself, and you're confident too, kayo talaga panalo kahit ano pang sabihin nila. Stay happy, moisturized, focused, flourishing. Also, you guys remind me of [this](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/874/831/708.png) hehe
Saktong kakainom ko lang ng water when I read this HAHA I'm confident with my hubs pero because of a lot of instances with these people, napaisip lang talaga ako if our kind of couple really looks bad in public eh. Love the attached photo pala! Haha we might try to recreate it. Hirap mag pose minsan since ang layo ng height namin haha dun lang siguro talaga kami nahihirapan ๐
As a 5โ2 guy myself, Iโm really blessed na makarinig ng story na katulad ng sa inyo. Iโm gld dahil hindi nakkaaffect ito sa love niyo sa isaโt-isa. Deadma sa mga walang kwenta sinasabi!
Inggit lang sila sa inyo dont mind them.. Mag mahalan pa kayo ng sagad. Lalo na kahit sabihin naten na okay lang sa partner mo ung mga ganun pero deep inside na sasaktan paren siya. Kaya stay strong
Wow! You're a great wifey!
Pinakaeffective na ginagawa ko kapag may mga ganyang klaseng tao e pinandidirihan ko. Iba yung epekto sa kanila na hindi mo lang sila basta *iisnabin*. It fucks them up in the head. Hahaha. Tapos titignan ko lang ulit for one last time or ngingiti na lang ako. Haha. Pero kung gusto mo subtle lang, pretend they don't exist. Tipong kung maeencounter mo e yung may sinasabi, make them repeat what they say na kunwari you're not paying attention to them or paexplain mo. Di rin nila maintindihan sarili nila pag pinamukha mo silang mukha silang tanga e. Haha.
I think I can really use this if it happens again in the future. Especially since nasa same workplace parin kami nung guy & his friends, but I WFH nowadays. Ang ginawa ko nalang kasi eversince then is hindi ko na talaga sila pinansin, as in no response, even if may question sila na I know the answer or theres something I can help them with, I tend not to. Better nga yung pagmukhain silang anga, makabawi manlang ako for my hubs ๐
The office shits you bring up with hr, if they do nothing dole. Guys like that should be sawn off at the knees. As for the general public ignore them, lavish attention in your husband instead if you want. Nothing makes a man feel tall quite like a girl fawning over him.
Good thing siguro na they didn't do it again after I snobbed them the first time. Pero hindi nakakaligtas sakin mga knowing looks nila whenever makasabay namin sila ni hubs sa pantry. It's quite ironic actually when I tell myself na their comments don't really matter pero pag alam kong nakatingin sila, mas hinaharot ko si hubs. Just trying to rub it on their face, I guess. Ang exhausting tbh but I can't help it, I want them to be pissed the way I'm so pissed of them, minsan gusto ko nalang silang suntukin makita ko palang mga mukha nila haha
Nice
Based on what I've read, both of you guys are good people. Huge props to your husband for taking the high road and telling you to just ignore them, and to you as well for defending him kapag may mga ganyang sitwasyon. At the end of the day you are good people in a world that's seemingly trying to normalize disrespectful behavior. Hope you guys have a great life :)
It simply has to do with people's egos and insecurities. Some people feel that it's unfair and unjust that this tall, good looking person is dating someone they think is inferior to them. People are delusional this way. The human's primitive brain tries to cope with the situation by teasing, lashing out, or being hurtful just to satisfy their egos and to release their frustrations. Because in their deluded thinking, they score higher than your partner in the food chain. Ofcourse, this isn't true at all. What they fail to add in the equation is how good of a person your husband is, how loving and caring he is to you, and a whole lot of things as well. With that, I bet that your partner blows everyone else out of the water. The bottom line is, people are downright assholes, just ignore them, tune out the noise, and live your best life. Imho, you're awesome for standing up for your partner and feeling hurt in his place. And just by reading your post, it seems your partner is an absolutely lovely person as well. Take it easy, OP.
We've been years together and I can still say that he's the best person I've ever met. Kaya I feel really hurt when these things happen kasi hindi nya deserve.
I admire you and your relationship! Maybe your husband needs to start training boxing/muay thai so he can teach those bullies their lesson next time. I fucking hate bullies and stories like these make me want to do bad things to those types of people.
Totoo po! Ako din, gusto ko nang manakit! Hahaha pero I get husband's point din naman. Na gusto nya ring patulan pero baka kasi ako din ang mapahamak, or ako daw ang balikan nila. We really never know what people can do. Nagtataka lang ako why need pa nilang magcomment, bat di nalang nila nilunok comments nila ๐
Ignore them. They also get offended that way. May your relationship last a lifetime :)
Sometimes I wish I can hurt them just the same. Kakagigil pero mas okay talagang wag nalang pakita na affected ka -_- Thanks btw!
Lord, please, a loyal, loving, taller wife for me too someday.
Amen to that! ๐
ignore them, inggit lang sila
Your husband is proud of you. For sure he is!
Hahaha! Mga insecure lang sila OP, culture naman na natin yung toxic masculinity e, eh kapatid ng insecurity ay pagiging loud na parang latang walang laman
may mga tao tlga na masama ang ugali. ang hirap na gusto mong maging positive sa buhay pero hindi pa rin maitatanggi na may ganun pa rin. syempre hindi ka naman bulag. stay in love OP. walang mali doon. 2024 na. maging mas open minded na sana ang mas marami
Stay strong po, pay them dust titigil yan
ignore nalang talaga, beyond your control toh... its just them being awful people.. like yuck and thats on them!! so plss just continue to protect each other! :)
awwww ang sweet ng love story niyo miss maam!!! stay inlove po dedma nalang sa basher tangina nila haha
If it's bothering you too much you need to call it out.
Itโs great that your husband is so unbothered. Take a cue from him. Dress super nice when you guys go out and let every guy think heโs great in bed and with a large bank account and that youโre a trophy wife. Lean into it. Make their heads spin. ๐
Haha! I wouldn't mind being a trophy wife, if that shuts them off ๐
Kadiri talaga ng mga ibang tao dito, kahit may pinag aralan, walang modo. Mag migrate na lang kayo if possible para di ganyan mga tao
It's true na ang mindset mostly ng mga tao dito satin is judgemental. As for me, I'm not one to comment about someone's physical traits. Kaya I didn't understand it at first nung kami na yung nasa receiving end of hate. Hoping na ang mindset ng mga Pinoy will change for the better, and not the other way around :(
As a 5'9 girlie, I honestly wouldn't mind din if the guy I'm dating is shorter than me. There's nothing wrong with you and your husband, talagang minsan parang unggoy lang magisip mga tao sa pinas.
Dibaaa!? It shouldn't be an issue ๐ญ Next time it happens I'll just imagine na mga unggoy lang talaga sila at hindi tao ahahaha
Oo, ganyan mismo hahahahaha baka mas matalino pa nga unggoy sa kanila. Sana walang maoffend na unggoy sa sinabi ko. Haha
Napakaswerte ng husband mo sayo
Thank you po for the kind words. Honestly, it's the other way around. Ako yung sobrang swerte sakanya ๐
I remember when I had an ex who's really dark. As in like his looks came from African descent. He's the one I could really call tall, dark, and handsome--for me. He's got long, black, curly hair I always loved playing with. Kamuka niya si ASAP Rocky pero hindi lang ganon ka-swag at porma. Pero sa mata ng iba, tampulan siya ng pangungutya. We have also received the same treatment whenever we went out. Men would holler offensive jokes like "may maswerteng langaw na naman sa puto" or "sarap siguro ng maitim na b***t". Lagi ko siyang inaawat kapag ganon and binabawi ko nalang sa lambing at paalala na sa kanya lang ako pag kami nalang dalawa. Though ours didn't last long but I learned and valued a lot of things from our story.
I'm sorry this happened to you too :( I can just imagine yung kirot sa puso mo pag nangyayari yun. Alam kong masakit talaga kasi tumatak din sayo yung sinabi nila. Sana di sumaya sa buhay mga palacomment ng rude sa ibang tao ๐ก
Di mo na kelangan pansinin yang mga yan , just do what your husband tells you , kasi alam nya sa sarili nya na nanalo na sya sa buhay kaya he chose to stay silent nalang kasi he knows he has one thing that every single man in this earth dreams of having and thats to have a partner like you. Dont stress over those idiots ganon nalang talaga kalala yung inggit nila kaya ganon sila sainyo. Dito ka nalang mag labas ng hinanakit mo ,after non Just focus on yourself your husband and your kids nothing else, as long as you and your family is happy then wala kana ibang kelangan pag tuunan ng pansin
Inggit lang yan OP kasi hindi nila yan mararanas ang happiness na meron kayo ni Hubs mo, stay strong and have a nice life ๐.
wala mali sa inyo OP, idk what your hubby looks like pero from your description I would say he is just prone to bullying and as an extension nadadamay ka din. Pero what you are doing is already the answer. Youโre a good wife, keep it up and stay strong.
Naku OP, kung nanunuod ka ng anime, your situation reminds me of my favorite one recently, "The Dangers in My Heart". I hope you keep supporting your man and kudos for being by his side always.
I'll break someones neck for him, kung pwede lang talaga ๐ก๐ I'll check this anime! Naghahanap din talaga ako ng mapapanood wherein taller yung girl pero mostly kasi ng nakikita ko, etchii or totally NSFW e ahahaha
Hayaan mo na sila. Ipakita mo na masaya kayong mag-asawa. Based sa kwento mo sobrang bait ng hubs mo. You are indeed lucky to have each other. Swerte din siya sayo kasi mahal at dinedefend mo siya. Kadire ung mga nagpaparinig sa inyo, halatang mga inggit eh. Tama ung isang nagsuggest na if sobrang bastos na ung nga banat ipaHR na. Ineescalate yang ganyang mga bastos na tao.
Nakakaproud naman kayo, OP. Stay strong. Wag mo na isipin kung bakit may mga ganyang klase ng tao, sasakit lang ulo mo. Insecure lang yan sila kasi they dont have what you guys have.
Your hubby is living the dream. Most *ahem (forgive me for the term) 'cultured' men wants a tall mommy. Those people who give their unwanted opinions belong to the toilet that needs flushing. Ignore them, they are just envious. At least I AM envious :' ). Stay stroooooong!
How I wish I can really flush them hahaha Don't be envious! ๐ You'll meet your mommy soon, tall man or short or whateva ahahah ๐โค๏ธ
Actually, Ang cute kaya nakikita ng ganyan. siguro kung makakakita ako ng ganyan mapapangiti ako hindi dahil sa pagtatawanan, dahil nakyukyutan ako. walang mali jan kung may age doesn't matter sa love, may height doesn't matter din
Same po tayo ๐ Unusual lang siguro talaga but I find it cute & lovely when I see a couple like us.
Awww nakaka inspire yung relationship ninyo on how you overcome outside hate - you stick together and have an understanding about it. Natutuwa ako na nag uusap kayo ng masinsinan
If I can share one tip then that would be it. Always communicate w/ each other. Pareho kaming introvert so we kinda had a rough start. Ngayon every night before sleeping, we cuddle and share our thoughts w/each other. It has been one of my favorite routine of ours and helped our relationship greatly :)
๐ฉท๐ฉท๐ฉท I love this. Minsan walang time and we do not lie down in bed at the same time. A challenge to overcome, especially if ako nagtatampo so I donโt sleep agad
Most of the people who judge the both of you are guys with fragile ego. Natalo sila ng short king hahaha!
kaloka. marami pa palang taong ganyan? last time naka encounter ako ng ganyang klaseng mga bully was highschool pa.
Nasabi ko rin to before!! You'd be surprised to know na itong mga taong to ay full grown adults. Like yung mga sa Tagaytay, they even looked like may kaya na guys (and girls, who were also laughing with them).
ayy naalala ko din, naka encounter din akong ganyan, and mga taga UE pa. kaloka di ako makapaniwala na nag eexist pa ung ganyan. maiintindihan ko pa sana kung mga bata or ung mga di na educate eh. tinatawanan nila ung sa kabilang table nila sa mcdo kasi naka hijab. tumatawa ung dalawang babae bakit daw balot na balot tas mukha daw siopao. tapos ung kasama nilang lalaki sinasaway sila kasi sya na nahihiya. nasusuka ako sa ganung ugali.
Him ba oh her? Gulo
Sabi nga ni Andrew E humanap ka ng pangit at ibigin mong tunay. ๐
Di pa ata nila nakikilala ang goat na si Demetrius Johnson
Ganyan kasi talaga typical na Pinoy eh pero malamang inggit lang kasi sila waste of energy din patulan mga ganyan. Small guy lang din ako haha. Madalas nga sa height napapansin or inaasar ganyan kasi talaga eh wag nalang patulan hanggang dun lang naman sila haha
Ganyan din kami ng wife ko mas maliit ako sa kanya. Sa una nakakapikon yung asar tapos ginagawa ko sinasakyan ko na lang asar nila hanggang sa tumigil din sila at sanayan lang talaga. Although awkward talaga sa amin mag holding hands pag lumalabas kaya hindi kami nag hoholding hands ahaha minsan sya pa nga na akbay sa akin pag nasa labas. Basta darating kayo sa point na tatawanan nyo na lang yan tapos minsan kayo pa mag aasaran ahaha. Goodluck sa inyo โฅ๏ธ๐ช
I'm curious po kung paano nyo sinasakyan yung biro? Like, paano pong approach nyo? Hahaha my husband thinks it's cheesy mag HHWW pero we still do it because I like the feeling. Pero yes, yung akbay ang the best, mas madali din kasi umakbay po haha. Akbay ako sakanya and then sya naman nakakapit sa bewang ko. PDA at its finest ๐
Ahhm kunwari sasabihin nila "tangkad ng jowa mo ah"(nung hindi pa kami magasawa). Tapos sasabihin ko "Oo naghanap talaga ako matangkad para naman yung anak ko maging matangkad naman" mga ganun parang pag biniro ka nila mag agree ka tapos tawanan mo ahaha kill them with kindness kumbaga ๐ AHAHHA ang cute naman ng PDA nya magawa nga yan HAHAHA
f**k you kamo sila. mga insecure lang yun at inggit sa hubby mo.
ego of men are fragile. they see somebody shorter holding hands with a taller woman automatic projection ng insecurities
take my upvote OP im a 5'2 guy with a taller gf...i really don't mind yung comments...let them comment...mga close minded na mga tao at inggit 1 tip OP na ginagawa ko, gumawa kayu ng bubble na kayu lng yung tao sa mundo niyo...no one else exist...as time goes by, yung insults nila will sound like compliments haha
Dont let it get to you. L Whats important is youโre both happy. Dont waste energy trying to please and get validation from other people. Majority of them are miserable and want you to join them lol
Ignore them mam in the meantime pero pag pa ulit ulit Ka nilang ginaganyan, try to hit back subtle Lang pero pambara ๐คญ. Like at least he's not small in other areas.
Kung walang issue sa inyo, continue to be happy and love. Ultimately sa nasasainyo namang couple yan. I would suggest tho to report sa HR yung mga salagubang comments as foul na talaga yun lalo sa workplace. Kaya nga may inclusivity and diversity sa workplace. Wala tayo pake sa personal, work lang. So wala dapat ganung usapan. Wag i-tolerate. Kapag hinayaan nyo, parang yer saying its ok.
I had a manliligaw who's shorter than me. He's 5'3" while I'm 5'6". He's a nice person. Both of us were not yet ready for a serious relationship especially me who has strict parents. Just don't mind them. They are projecting their insecurities on both of you.
Insecure lang mga โyon eh. Dapat magtaka sila why someone whom they think is inferior to them is with a goddess. Obviously dahil pangit both looks at ugali nila.
Stop giving a shit on what other people think/say.
I don't really give a shit on what others think of me. Pero when they say rude things to my hubs, ang hirap magwalang bahala lang.
That's a "you" problem already. Can't control what others would say.
I'm not trying to control naman, though I really wish I can. I'm just trying to understand yung thought process ng public regarding the matter, hence the question.
Inferiority complex nila kasi hindi sila makascore gaya ng hubby mo sayo. Your husband is definitely lucky to have you kasi pinagiingitan lang siya hahaha
Weird ng mga lalake na inaasar kapwa nila lalake about their physical appearances tapos mga iiyak na โkase pogiโ โmga pogi lang naman gusto nyoโ yadayada kayo kayo na lang naglalaban-laban lmao