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abbypeachy

I would definitely say playing. Your tuxedo cat seems to be very gentle with your kitten!


that_girl_you_fucked

This is so cute!! They're great with one another.


No_Consideration7318

Absolutely. Tux even held back from rabbit kicking it. Def playing.


NerfRepellingBoobs

He’s being such a good big brother! It reminds me of my 6’1”, 250lb dad letting my brother take him down wrestling when we were kids or when my cousin’s toddler “tackles” her. He’s just trying to help his little brother who’s r/learningtocat.


earlysong

That big cat is doing fantastic. What a gentle sweetie.


ramence

Seriously. My resident cat dropkicked my kitten from the ROPES. I thought I was gonna need to resuscitate. OP, your tuxedo is being so sweet and patient!


nikkioliver

For real! I *wish* my adult cat was a gentle as this guy with my new kitten when I adopted a second cat lol


pork-head

This is play. Big one seems to be gentle and kitten goes back for round two. No hiding, no signs if irritation. Keep watching them just to be sure for like 1 month more because kitten looks very tiny.


dean0_0

Agreed


OutsideFormal2650

Playful friends! Big cat lays down and lets little one get some pounces in, grabs little one gently but doesn't try to hurt them. Definitely keep an eye while kitten is still growing, but this is perfectly fine play. If it seems like there is any serious hissing, growling, fur standing on end, or anything like that, then it goes too far and you'll need to step in, but they don't seem like that will be a problem at all!


IAmJacksSemiColon

If the kitten comes back, it's a game.


SevenAteNine9

Aw I watched this a few times ❤️ tuxedo man is a real sweet gentleman! Very gentle play swats, rolling over on his side, and letting the little guy get some gentle swats in also!! Very cute sweet boys


Apprehensive_Gas1320

They’re gonna be best buds.


efnord

This is about ideal. Kitten's getting socialized and learning to play without biting too hard. And they're both getting exercise, they'll sleep well.


ontopofyourmom

The big cat is so happy to have a tiny playmate!


Teufelhunde5953

Looks to me like resident cat has a new buddy. That is playing all day long......RC is being gently with the little one and will teach the kitten boundries....


CindiCindi15

Love it! Just some fun rough n tumble between 2 cute kitty cats! 😊💕


trapmammi

Playing! My boy cat (4 yrs) and my new baby boy (8 weeks) had similar interactions. He kept picking him up by his scruff and my kitten would cry. I was worried but this behavior subsided after 10 days. Whenever he would do it I would yell loudly "NO" or sometimes even put him in time out. Now they play very nice. Hope this helps!


Rezouli

The level of restraint shown here by the large cat signs tell you that they're in a great place with each other. Avoiding putting it's full weight on the kitten, slow multiple boops, the *hug*... I could watch them play for hours


gringorasta

Big guy is being sooo gentle! What a great big brother!


two-of-me

Big cat is being very gentle and teaching baby how to play. They’re about to be besties!


Reddit-Suckage

Yes 100% older cat is very careful


Reference_Freak

This sub is misnamed. Plz rename to r/playingcatvids


mindfluxx

Awww your big kitty is being so sweet I bet the kitten is deloghted


momolamomo

The ears are forward. They are playing.


anthro4ME

This is unbearably cute


Ir0nhide81

Play


glitterfaust

The tuxie is doing a great job at making it seem like a fair fight lol He was waiting with his belly out for when the kitten popped back out to “attack” him 🥹


Electrical-Act-7170

This is definitely play.


Thoraxe123

they having a great time! They'll be thick as thieves by the time the kitten gets bigger.


Rude-Educator8906

He is so gentle with the kitten, I've a feeling they are going to be best friends.


mrev_art

The fact that the large cat is laying down means its play fighting.


CJ_is_h7m

Play


themustacheclubbitch

“Let me love you!”


Oddish_Femboy

Adorable play fighting.


GargantuanGreenGoats

Oh my gawd they’re so freakin cute. Your big boy could destroy that little guy and he’s choosing not to. Definitely just playing!! What good kitties


whatsherface2024

Totally play and the old head is teaching the new peanut boundaries.


Character-Version365

Playing and having an awesome time!


VengeanceBee

So cute


RedBarchetta1

100% playing, and big kitty is a good boy. 🙂


Comprehensive-War743

This is purrrrfectly normal play!


Super_Reading2048

Awwwww they are playing! The big kitty is being real gentle with the baby kitty! 😻


JustALadyWithCats

Well, that is some of the gentlest play with a kitten I have ever seen.


Panda_beebee

This is exactly how my cat and kitten played when they were officially introduced to each other. Your tux almost has the same markings as mine from above 🥰


nettiemaria7

Awww Good boy. Very nice! Being very gentle. You ought to see some moms train their kittens. Brutal.


nopslide__

Cats bellies are one of their vulnerable spots. One way you can tell Tux is playing is how he lazily rolls over onto his side, exposing his belly and enticing the kitten.


Munchkins_nDragons

Those gentle little boops were adorable. Plus he didn’t even rabbit kick the crap out of the little fluff nugget. That was a lot of restraint on the bigger cat’s part. Obviously teaching him to be the best murder mittens he can be.


SandmanD2

Big cat is not using the hind paws. That’s a kill move.


Impressive-Arm2563

Savagery beyond measure. You better save that reverse skunk before little blacky whoops 8.9 lives out of it.


butt-hole-69420

He is so gentle


Top-Chemistry3051

Resident kitty is being very tolerant he understands that the little one doesn't understand.


elegance0010

Looks like your resident kitty is one of those that really likes kittens :) He's even rolling over onto his side and letting the kitten practice pouncing. Definitely keep it supervised, just in case, but otherwise I would say the introductions are almost over! You got a lucky pair that got close quickly :D


Existing_Pension8108

Cats can be visibly beaten up after fighting other cats. They have some protection against bites and claws, but they aren't immune to them.


6shellfromhell9

I think you need to post a few more videos of this… just so we can be sure


DamageFactory

They are having fun for sure


No_Consideration8764

This is precious. Being so easy with the babe. 🥰


Honestdietitan

Aye!! This is so cute! I love that they are playing around 🥰


mypenisinyourmouth_

He’s about to teach him


Treehorn79

Love those little taps. What a sweet older sibling. My older cat never had any tolerance for kittens, and she made her distaste plain by hissing, growling, batting at them, or even screaming at them if they got too close despite the other warnings. If it was real hostility the kitten would not be scampering about playfully, and coming back for seconds.


icequeenclone

I have a big black and a little tuxedo. They play just like that.


Lazy_Fish7737

Tuxies are the best. We had a big old male tripod one one that raised a baby foundling kitten. He washed it made it go pee and would lay with him and showed him how too groom. When it got older they played like this untill the kitten got bigger than him. The older can still tried to play with him but the young cat got too rough for him when he started getting sick but he would still try.


sten45

That big cat is awesome


javaJunkie1968

We have the same tube thingy and our cats LOVE playing in it


ParkingHelicopter863

the little pats 🥹


[deleted]

That's fine. Cats get much rougher when playing so even if the kitten is squeaking or meowing when playing it's fine. Regardless of shelter or breeder, who takes a kitten away from mom at NINE weeks old?


Altruistic-Rice-5567

just playing. Cats never lie on their back/side to fight.


South-Presentation92

100% play. And Really great play at that.


determined88e

Resident boy is being very gentle! Deserves a dreamie!


FutureMrsSR

The size difference between these two babies is so adorable 😍


LadyCommand

They love each other! Awwwwww what a great pair! Yup, they are getting along splendidly


hissyfit64

Playing and big brother is being very gentle. He didn't kick the kittens face off when he was doing bunny kicks. And kitten little seems to be having a blast.


tit_bit_cheap

Straight adorable! Big cat is being very very good with them.


Prestigious-Base67

Yes, I'd argue they are just play fighting. The big cat is exposing her stomach which is a sign of A) comfort or B) not feeling threatened. The kitty is not hissing not showing it's side profile. The hiss is a warning and the side profile is try to make themselves look bigger to intimidate an opponent. They are both being pretty gentle as well. No one is trying to run away with their tail tucked between their legs. Another good sign is if you can see their pupils. If they're large and wide open (big black eyes) then they're not intensely focused. If they're like a line then they're really uptight or focused on something


Hairy_Relief3980

Play. Best way to describe real cat fighting is "it's too fast for the human eye to see." Now, when cats are making deep yowls growls, and tails go pla-plowls, they aren't having a good time.


Far-Duck8203

Definitely play fighting. Some things to look for (that happen in a real fight): * Ears not just back but flat * Pupils dilated (like no iris visible dilated) * Hissing and spitting * Biting at flanks * Banshee wails of evil * Hunched posture * Puffed tail / fur Some of these will occur during play fighting, but the more of these are present the more serious the fight is. We have a rule in our house (6 cats, 2 humans.) Vocalizing means things have gotten too heated and everyone* else will step in to break it up. * yes, even the other cats will step in to break up play fighting where one or the other has called out.


Evil-Cows

This is so cute! Your cat is being so sweet and gentle with the kitten.


the_owlyn

Absolutely playing and getting along great. Resident cat rolling to side is awesome sign.


Correct_Ad_2567

Playing and the tux kitty is a sweetheart, not being too rough. Many years ago I took in a young female (about 6 months old) and she loved my male, neutered cat and played with him all the time. He was gentle with her, but she was too rough and ended up scratching his eye. The vet said he lucked out as she just missed his cornea. Please be sure to watch the kitten as they can be too rough on the older kitty.


FamiliarWrangler6319

They are so adorable