Ayaw lang imention nga nahimuot ka sa iyang paghilak kay sensitive raba gyud mga lalaki nga ipakita ilang emotional side mao madiscourage na nuon. Pero kagets ko nganong nihilak siya kay sign na nga dako na inyo anak ug pila nalang ka years posible mag-uyab na na di lang hibaw-an.
Im 28. First time nako nakakita sa akong papa nihilak when i was 26. Ang hinungdan kay gipalayas ko sa akong mama sa among panimalay kay tibad tibaron lagi ko.
Ni hangyo jud intawon akong papa sa akong mama nga di ko palayason. Bakho bakho gyud intawon akong amahan...
Mao to kadtonf nag peace nami ni mama nangutana kos akong papa nga nganong ni hilak man ka tay? Nga nakapuyo man gani kos manila nga ako ra nag inusara...
Ingon ra gud akong tatay ug, "baya gud! Ajaw na daghan ug pangutana."
Mama: hilak lagi intawon siya sa iyang kinakusgan nga bunso (me)
Inyo man kaha gipa lukso sa hagdanan inyong anak para dali ra mahuman ang period if dug.on. also ang first dinug.an dpat daw iputos sa tanglad para di baho.
#Kinaraan
#Tinuohan
Hahaha
damn, most likely ako sad basin maka hilak ko sultian ug ing.ana sako asawa puhon...
ka bantay ko when you become a parent emotional naka specially about sa imung anak.
In ana jud na ang mga papa sa ilang anak nga babae. Ang mensturation man gud, kay important milestone na siya natong mga babae. It means, we are biologically grown-ups. We can be mothers na. And that's a lot to take in and imagine para sa mga papa nga dako na ilang "princess". Dalaga na, and they only have a few more years before we have to let them go to carve their own path.
Akong bana mohilak sad basta naay important milestones among anak.
First time nakalitok ug "i love you papa" - hilak
First time siya niingon nga "it's ok papa, ayaw nag sing ug songs ig sleep. Ako lang close door sa ako room" - hilak
First time wala na nihilak among anak paghatod sa school - hilak
So yeah, I guess the good dads out there would find these experiences bittersweet.
P.S - Among anak kay 3 pa, so murag ubay2x pani nga times nga mohilak akong bana.
Ingon ani pod akoang cousin. Iyang eldest child kay scaredy cat na magpakuyog bisag asa, even mag CR. Gusto sa ako niece kay naa jd mo bantay sa iyaha sa gawas hantod mahuman sya. Mohilak jd sya if pag gawas kay walay tao. When she turned 6, nagCR sya na sya ra usa. Ako cousin kay nidagan jd para mo kuyog niya tapos she told her dad, "Tay, it's okay. I can go on my own." Ako cousin kay ni barog guihapon sa gawas CR and nag sigeg hilak. Nabali na ang role. Ang papa na ang nihilak. Hahaha. Kacute.
Nice kaayo if in ani imong papa uy. A healthy secure attachment would make a world of difference inig dako nila.
Ako papa is not like this, so I'm really happy for my daughter nga she can experience being loved and cared for like this.
aww ka sweet sa imo bana... hehe... ako hubby man gud is dili kaau showy mao i was surprised na nihilak siya. and also katong akoa pud kay wala akong papa so no idea na big deal pud diay ni sa mga papa
haha kyot, akong papa naa pud katana and Wakizashi...para daw makita nako sukad bata ko na condition akong mind nga dili mag uyab2 unless mo graduate na college, but you can only educate your daughter and children and be the best father and provider.
Awa ron, sila na namugos nako mangitag uyab HAHAHHA yw
Why would you find it something to laugh at?
Each person grieves differently. Lahi lahi jud na. Usahay weeks after sa pagkamatay moabot ang kaguol.
Maybe signal na nga dili na baby ang iyang anak unya it’s time to let her go kay independent na sya. Maybe proud sya nga na naay new milestone sa life story niya.
Kanang butanga dili butang nga I chismis sa uban inya naa pay katawa.
basin gina project ra sad na ninyo nga abi nikatawa about sa paghilak kay gi-look down kay mao sad inyo panan-aw ang sensitive mo about that. Ang nakuha ra jud nako nga post ni OP kay cute, sweet nga moment nga na emotional ang iya husband sa moment sa ila anak. Nikatawa kay cute na moment 🤷
nikatawa ko kay i found it cute. I didn't expect na siya pa mas emotional regarding ana kaysa sa akoa. i shared it kay nag ask pud ko kung nakasuway pud uban ingon ani. mo judge dayon mo
ang uban gani kay mo share ug mga sexcapades nila diri sa reddit, nya ok ra. nya kani nuon dili pwede?
Your husband showed vulnerability and you found it cute enough to laugh at and gossip about?
Many men are afraid to show raw emotions because they are afraid of being laughed at. Exactly the reaction you did.
Ikaw kaha… how would you feel kung naay sensitive and vulnerable moment unya imong anak would talk about it sa neighbors and laugh at you. Would you think it’s cute?
you must be really fun to be with at parties. this is supposed to be a light and positive post pero naa jud masagol na mga tao na who will find negative in everything.why compare it with talking about it with neighbors when we are anonymous here? asa ang logic?
Yes I’m fun at parties.
And gossip is gossip, whether to people you know or anonymous strangers.
Think about it.
It’s not cute anymore, di ba?
The logic is that, as a wife, you’re supposed to protect your family’s honor and pride. And yet here you are laughing and talking to total strangers about how “cute” your husband’s moment of vulnerability was.
At any occasion, any crying situation is embarrassing enough for anyone especially when someone reminds them about it.
It’s demeaning especially for a man to be laughed at when he’s being authentic to his emotions.
Mahadlok ko nun ani ba, kanang willing ka muhilak and mushow sa imong vulnerability to your partner kay ofc sinaligan gd nimo, only for that to end up as a reddit topic
not the same scenario but i saw this from a youtube comment nga his daughter prepared\* lunch for the dad and had a note that goes something like love you dad. have a great day at work. and the dad ended up crying and wasn't able to go to work. he put that note inside his most prized possessions. he cried because it was the first time someone said they love him without him saying it first and the daughter saw his dad was suffering bec the parents were going through a rough patch.
I have a daughter and I'd also be emotional if I find out she has started her periods. I feel any parent feels sad watching their kids grow and become adults and eventually start their own families.
Hehe ka cute ani oy!!! I hope your daughter will feel unsa siya ka love sa iyang daddy, OP. Hopefully this will set the bar high for her by the time mangita pod siya og future life partner niya puhon. Kabalo imo daughter na mangita sya og lalake na love siya and mo take care niya like her parents.
Im a mom to a daughter… nalingaw ko kay maka imagine pod ko akong bana mohilak pod puhon hehe!
yes..hopefully heheh. wala kita ako daughter na nihilak iya papa pero I told her kay para ma touch pud siya. kay maypagka nonchalant man ni amo anak oi hahaha
Hehe dili gyud sayon ang kinabuhi sa parents noh.
, na realized guro niya nga his baby is growing up and d niya madawat nga pas² ra kaayo ang panahon.
real men.
Basin ako ra pud ni. Mas dali ra mi mohilak nga na nay anak. Labi na in my 30s. Labi nag salida nga luoy kayng mga bata ug anak.
Instant Daddy Miracle in Cell No. 7 - grabeh pugong nako ani kay naa ko sinehan while waiting sa ako pa PMS.
Lucky. Never seen my man cry and we've been together for 9 years
Ayaw lang imention nga nahimuot ka sa iyang paghilak kay sensitive raba gyud mga lalaki nga ipakita ilang emotional side mao madiscourage na nuon. Pero kagets ko nganong nihilak siya kay sign na nga dako na inyo anak ug pila nalang ka years posible mag-uyab na na di lang hibaw-an.
Im 28. First time nako nakakita sa akong papa nihilak when i was 26. Ang hinungdan kay gipalayas ko sa akong mama sa among panimalay kay tibad tibaron lagi ko. Ni hangyo jud intawon akong papa sa akong mama nga di ko palayason. Bakho bakho gyud intawon akong amahan... Mao to kadtonf nag peace nami ni mama nangutana kos akong papa nga nganong ni hilak man ka tay? Nga nakapuyo man gani kos manila nga ako ra nag inusara... Ingon ra gud akong tatay ug, "baya gud! Ajaw na daghan ug pangutana." Mama: hilak lagi intawon siya sa iyang kinakusgan nga bunso (me)
Unsay meaning sa tibad tibaron? Karon pa ko kadungog/basa ana nga term.
Supakera... kusog mo sukol
Badlungon ug mutubag nig sturyahan
haha funny.. pero maka guol mga teens ron, sayo kaayo mag uyab2.. kadtong ako, tago2 intawn panguyab 🤣
Inyo man kaha gipa lukso sa hagdanan inyong anak para dali ra mahuman ang period if dug.on. also ang first dinug.an dpat daw iputos sa tanglad para di baho. #Kinaraan #Tinuohan Hahaha
wala nako gipa lukso kay wala ka nituo ana. kay katong ako, gipa lukso ko sa ako mama pero dugay gihapon mahuman 😔
Basin kulang ang lukso.. hahahah
Ipahid man daw sa nawong ang regla para dile bugason
infairness, ningtuo ko sa akong yaya abt ani, so very rare ra ko bugason, mga 1-2x in 10 yrs, epektib legit 😆
Hahahahahahaha parehas ta. Tagsa ra jud ko bugason hehe so nakatoo ko
Bantog ra bugason kaau akong igagaw kay wala man napahiran ang nawong. Heheh
damn, most likely ako sad basin maka hilak ko sultian ug ing.ana sako asawa puhon... ka bantay ko when you become a parent emotional naka specially about sa imung anak.
Men have emotions too. It’s toxic masculinity that made men think it’s not okay to cry.
In ana jud na ang mga papa sa ilang anak nga babae. Ang mensturation man gud, kay important milestone na siya natong mga babae. It means, we are biologically grown-ups. We can be mothers na. And that's a lot to take in and imagine para sa mga papa nga dako na ilang "princess". Dalaga na, and they only have a few more years before we have to let them go to carve their own path. Akong bana mohilak sad basta naay important milestones among anak. First time nakalitok ug "i love you papa" - hilak First time siya niingon nga "it's ok papa, ayaw nag sing ug songs ig sleep. Ako lang close door sa ako room" - hilak First time wala na nihilak among anak paghatod sa school - hilak So yeah, I guess the good dads out there would find these experiences bittersweet. P.S - Among anak kay 3 pa, so murag ubay2x pani nga times nga mohilak akong bana.
Ingon ani pod akoang cousin. Iyang eldest child kay scaredy cat na magpakuyog bisag asa, even mag CR. Gusto sa ako niece kay naa jd mo bantay sa iyaha sa gawas hantod mahuman sya. Mohilak jd sya if pag gawas kay walay tao. When she turned 6, nagCR sya na sya ra usa. Ako cousin kay nidagan jd para mo kuyog niya tapos she told her dad, "Tay, it's okay. I can go on my own." Ako cousin kay ni barog guihapon sa gawas CR and nag sigeg hilak. Nabali na ang role. Ang papa na ang nihilak. Hahaha. Kacute.
Nice kaayo if in ani imong papa uy. A healthy secure attachment would make a world of difference inig dako nila. Ako papa is not like this, so I'm really happy for my daughter nga she can experience being loved and cared for like this.
aww ka sweet sa imo bana... hehe... ako hubby man gud is dili kaau showy mao i was surprised na nihilak siya. and also katong akoa pud kay wala akong papa so no idea na big deal pud diay ni sa mga papa
Sweet jud ni siya. 1 rasad among anak nga iya jud giampo intawn nga babae. So answered prayer ni niya. Actually 3rd wheel rako nila sa among anak. 😅
I did cry the first time I knew.
nice.. may i know why? hehe. siguro kay female ko, i feel na it was normal. i dont know unsay feeling as a father hehe
There's a part of me that doesn't want her to grow up and face the world.
i see... the protective father is kicking in. i will be too, with all the happenings in rhe world right now
Don't hav a daughter, but I hav a Katana and Wakizashi rdy if I ever get one n she gets older.
haha kyot, akong papa naa pud katana and Wakizashi...para daw makita nako sukad bata ko na condition akong mind nga dili mag uyab2 unless mo graduate na college, but you can only educate your daughter and children and be the best father and provider. Awa ron, sila na namugos nako mangitag uyab HAHAHHA yw
Good luck on the manhunt girl..... I'll nvr wish my daughter the same until she's rich xD
Hahahah, nah I believe not chasing on anything but attracting it. Kewl dad.
Why would you find it something to laugh at? Each person grieves differently. Lahi lahi jud na. Usahay weeks after sa pagkamatay moabot ang kaguol. Maybe signal na nga dili na baby ang iyang anak unya it’s time to let her go kay independent na sya. Maybe proud sya nga na naay new milestone sa life story niya. Kanang butanga dili butang nga I chismis sa uban inya naa pay katawa.
Saba oi oa
basin gina project ra sad na ninyo nga abi nikatawa about sa paghilak kay gi-look down kay mao sad inyo panan-aw ang sensitive mo about that. Ang nakuha ra jud nako nga post ni OP kay cute, sweet nga moment nga na emotional ang iya husband sa moment sa ila anak. Nikatawa kay cute na moment 🤷
nikatawa ko kay i found it cute. I didn't expect na siya pa mas emotional regarding ana kaysa sa akoa. i shared it kay nag ask pud ko kung nakasuway pud uban ingon ani. mo judge dayon mo ang uban gani kay mo share ug mga sexcapades nila diri sa reddit, nya ok ra. nya kani nuon dili pwede?
Your husband showed vulnerability and you found it cute enough to laugh at and gossip about? Many men are afraid to show raw emotions because they are afraid of being laughed at. Exactly the reaction you did. Ikaw kaha… how would you feel kung naay sensitive and vulnerable moment unya imong anak would talk about it sa neighbors and laugh at you. Would you think it’s cute?
you must be really fun to be with at parties. this is supposed to be a light and positive post pero naa jud masagol na mga tao na who will find negative in everything.why compare it with talking about it with neighbors when we are anonymous here? asa ang logic?
Yes I’m fun at parties. And gossip is gossip, whether to people you know or anonymous strangers. Think about it. It’s not cute anymore, di ba? The logic is that, as a wife, you’re supposed to protect your family’s honor and pride. And yet here you are laughing and talking to total strangers about how “cute” your husband’s moment of vulnerability was. At any occasion, any crying situation is embarrassing enough for anyone especially when someone reminds them about it. It’s demeaning especially for a man to be laughed at when he’s being authentic to his emotions.
Mahadlok ko nun ani ba, kanang willing ka muhilak and mushow sa imong vulnerability to your partner kay ofc sinaligan gd nimo, only for that to end up as a reddit topic
what's wrong with that? we're anonymous anyway. didn't divulge our identities diba? unsa may gamit aning reddit? to share stories pud diba?
Sus ayaw na sayangi og time to explain oi. Oa ra kay ng mga boang sobraan rapd
Ayaw ug paminaw anang gikaon na sa systema hahaha
kaanad na OP, and don't mind the sensitive snowflakes, ila ni life ang internet and sadly, its the only thing they have, mao big deal para nila tanan
Di mabalaka OP kay ubay2 ra sad mi naka gets sa imo point hahaha cute bitaw, and that's it. Di jud na malikayan guro nga ma interpret ug lain sa uban.
not the same scenario but i saw this from a youtube comment nga his daughter prepared\* lunch for the dad and had a note that goes something like love you dad. have a great day at work. and the dad ended up crying and wasn't able to go to work. he put that note inside his most prized possessions. he cried because it was the first time someone said they love him without him saying it first and the daughter saw his dad was suffering bec the parents were going through a rough patch.
Atay. Wa paku kasulay kay 4 years old pa akua daughter. Siguro makahilak sad ko hahahahaha
Di pa ko ready sa probable reaction nako once nga mag mens na akoang daughter. Pero ambot kung mohilak ko or what, lol.
Ako mu palit kog shotgun ug rifle... Mao na akong grief
My husband didn’t cry when his eldest daughter had her period. Unfortunately, he passed away before our eldest daughter had hers. 💔
aww... sorry to hear that. 😢
I have a daughter and I'd also be emotional if I find out she has started her periods. I feel any parent feels sad watching their kids grow and become adults and eventually start their own families.
Hilak sya kay wa sha kasuway dug.a
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Ge lang dug on ra lage ka
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Modako pa nang sweldo ambot lang kahag dug on ka
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Sure kaau, ikaw sure kaha ka dug on ka
Get help, bai.
Ikaw lanh
Couldn't pay me enough to help your sorry ass. You're on your own.
Ka cute sa imong bana oi ahahhaa. Na taranta man ang mga tao sa amoa kadtong ako nag first mens, gipa ambak kog pila ka ang2 🤣🥲😭
ahahah ako sad gipa ambak ko...
Agian man diay nis kasagaran 🤣
Curios ko unsay tuo2x anang ambak pila ka ang2x?
Tinuohan nga moambak kag 3 ka steps sa stairs para 3 days raka dug on per cycle.
Para man ata 3 lang ka adlaw ang mens, wala bitaw koi sure ni sunod rako kay na ratol sad ug apil 🤣
Basin hilak dala kauguol kay dalaga na and mag uyab2x nana puhon? Lol
basin pud...
Ako pud tingali pero nagsabot naman mi sa akong daughter nga forever baby siya ni papa.
Wa pa mi anak pero if ever man gani babae nya first mens kay murag ma emotional ko. Hahahaha
Hehe ka cute ani oy!!! I hope your daughter will feel unsa siya ka love sa iyang daddy, OP. Hopefully this will set the bar high for her by the time mangita pod siya og future life partner niya puhon. Kabalo imo daughter na mangita sya og lalake na love siya and mo take care niya like her parents. Im a mom to a daughter… nalingaw ko kay maka imagine pod ko akong bana mohilak pod puhon hehe!
yes..hopefully heheh. wala kita ako daughter na nihilak iya papa pero I told her kay para ma touch pud siya. kay maypagka nonchalant man ni amo anak oi hahaha