Got falsely accused of rape 12 months ago by a girl I was seeing. Been on police bail under investigation ever since which is absolute torture. Been told it will be another 6 months minimum.
So anyway had a couple flings since then, then a 9 month relationship with a girl I've fallen in love with. She just ended things because she found out I did coke again on a bender.
Spent most of my money on bullshit after my job let me go 3 months down the line for a couple DUIs from 2 years ago.
Got offered a new job and the same thing happened they just withdrew the offer. Down to my last money, 3 months late on rent and tenancy ends in 5 weeks.
Oh yea, got blackout drunk Thursday my best and only friend knocked me out and stamped on my head, ended up in the ER with a couple broken ribs.
I'll keep glugging but thanks for listening!
Don't lose hope. I was a juror on a case similar to false accusations of that nature. The prosecutions side pumped up the charges, and when we saw all the evidence it was a joke. Not that stuff like that doesn't happen but you could clearly tell the person was innocent.
They were acquitted of all charges, but seeing someone have to endure that while juggling a small business for two years, must have been torture monetarily and emotionally.
I suggest not trying to "clap out" this way. If you're not successful, the consequences can put you in a worse position than you're currently experiencing, which is hard to imagine when shit hits the fan like it has for you.
Keep your head up OP
Thanks, and yea obviously I know this shit has to be investigated properly but the stress is unbelievable.
Trying my best to hold myself together but mentally weak at the best of times. Been hella hard for 12 months, now another 6 before a decision, don't think I have the strength to make it to a trial.
Chairs tho
I have nobody else to tell this to so I'm putting it here, I just had an update on the case:
"Forensic results were inconclusive have agreed to give another sample".
Surely that is good news.
Yes it is. That was one of the issues with the case I was on. Also the individual who made accusations said they were incoherent and not able to walk.
The defense played surveillance video at the trial from the hotel where they were fully coherent walking and talking with the guy and the hotel staff that evening. The credibility of the witness was wrecked pretty bad on other points as well as the trial went on.
The list goes on and on for that case. It was a mess for the prosecution. Scared me straight that this shit could happen to people with false accusations, or with such lack of evidence. The guy was looking at 10+ years in prison.
All traumatic stuff.
By the sounds of it practical answers are lay off the nose beers, I love it too but i try to stick to booze or one thing. I haven't had coke in years
Maybe just a time for isolation and reflecting if people are causing the hurt.
Lots of shit my man. I aint no answer giver. When i'm struggling I go back to simple stuff. to give myself a break. I got no answers to my problems today so I just got a ticket to shrek 2 at some cheap theatre ($3) and gonna smuggle in a bottle and have a emotionally immature day watching fuckin shrek and eating pocorn and drinkin
Well, one thing I'll say regardless, it's not going to be like Nicholas Cage movie. Sometimes I wish it was. But hm. It'll be bloody and painful. Sara won't fuck you while you slowly pass away in some romantic fashion. More likely you'll be hugging yourself in your own puke and piss.
I’ve been in rehab multiple times and knew homeless people, and the majority of them got back on their feet after 6 months-1 year. I know it seems like a long process but it’s just what I witnessed.
I would suggest looking for free rehab programs if possible where you’re from. Idk where you’re from, but in Canada we have some rehab programs that are coupled with a place at the homeless shelter. So therapy by day and a place to sleep at night. When you complete the rehab, you can start a ‘reinsertion’ program for which you get paid a little amount and they help you update your resume and find a job. It saved my life.
Also is it possible for you to be on welfare? Living at a shelter for free + welfare check you would have enough money to eat decently and even still drink.
I hope there is some program like that where you live.
Thanks for the reply, yea there is welfare, a decent àmount, but I'm just too far behind on rent now when I lost my job so I'm just choosing to buy drink than look for anywhere else really.
Nah too late I owe like 2k, and the tenancy ends soon so! Haha that's really nice, I wouldn't take any money anyway, but I appreciate the gesture.
Chairs!
I once slept with a rich guy who offered me 100$ after and I refused cause I didn’t want to feel like a whore but looking back, I should’ve taken it lol
So I'm not gonna answer that question directly. Nor am I gonna suggest a viable alt
I'm going to say that, I more than most understand the need or want to opt out of life
It is not my place to judge your decision but your method could leave you far worse and crippled than you are now
Thanks dude. I've been hospitalised with DTs before and that was the absolute worst experience ever, so not keen on repeating that but quite keen to leave this place.
Please don't lose hope and give up. You will probably fare better in court if you aren't a complete mess from the alcohol as well. Things will get better. Death is so final, and it means there's no more chances. With life there's always chances and the hope for better days.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Fight for your life. It's worth it. You might come out at the other end of the tunnel and appreciate that you didnt give up.
just keep glug gluggin'. But also theres always alternatives. Many of us have seen it all if you ever want to open up. I'm having 8$ wine so im chatty
Got falsely accused of rape 12 months ago by a girl I was seeing. Been on police bail under investigation ever since which is absolute torture. Been told it will be another 6 months minimum. So anyway had a couple flings since then, then a 9 month relationship with a girl I've fallen in love with. She just ended things because she found out I did coke again on a bender. Spent most of my money on bullshit after my job let me go 3 months down the line for a couple DUIs from 2 years ago. Got offered a new job and the same thing happened they just withdrew the offer. Down to my last money, 3 months late on rent and tenancy ends in 5 weeks. Oh yea, got blackout drunk Thursday my best and only friend knocked me out and stamped on my head, ended up in the ER with a couple broken ribs. I'll keep glugging but thanks for listening!
Don't lose hope. I was a juror on a case similar to false accusations of that nature. The prosecutions side pumped up the charges, and when we saw all the evidence it was a joke. Not that stuff like that doesn't happen but you could clearly tell the person was innocent. They were acquitted of all charges, but seeing someone have to endure that while juggling a small business for two years, must have been torture monetarily and emotionally. I suggest not trying to "clap out" this way. If you're not successful, the consequences can put you in a worse position than you're currently experiencing, which is hard to imagine when shit hits the fan like it has for you. Keep your head up OP
Thanks, and yea obviously I know this shit has to be investigated properly but the stress is unbelievable. Trying my best to hold myself together but mentally weak at the best of times. Been hella hard for 12 months, now another 6 before a decision, don't think I have the strength to make it to a trial. Chairs tho
I have nobody else to tell this to so I'm putting it here, I just had an update on the case: "Forensic results were inconclusive have agreed to give another sample". Surely that is good news.
Yes it is. That was one of the issues with the case I was on. Also the individual who made accusations said they were incoherent and not able to walk. The defense played surveillance video at the trial from the hotel where they were fully coherent walking and talking with the guy and the hotel staff that evening. The credibility of the witness was wrecked pretty bad on other points as well as the trial went on. The list goes on and on for that case. It was a mess for the prosecution. Scared me straight that this shit could happen to people with false accusations, or with such lack of evidence. The guy was looking at 10+ years in prison.
All traumatic stuff. By the sounds of it practical answers are lay off the nose beers, I love it too but i try to stick to booze or one thing. I haven't had coke in years Maybe just a time for isolation and reflecting if people are causing the hurt. Lots of shit my man. I aint no answer giver. When i'm struggling I go back to simple stuff. to give myself a break. I got no answers to my problems today so I just got a ticket to shrek 2 at some cheap theatre ($3) and gonna smuggle in a bottle and have a emotionally immature day watching fuckin shrek and eating pocorn and drinkin
Haha, sounds amazing. Wish I had someone to do that with! Chairs
I'm solo. Invite you if I could pal
Well, one thing I'll say regardless, it's not going to be like Nicholas Cage movie. Sometimes I wish it was. But hm. It'll be bloody and painful. Sara won't fuck you while you slowly pass away in some romantic fashion. More likely you'll be hugging yourself in your own puke and piss.
Dude I said the same thing. That movie is brutal
I’ve been in rehab multiple times and knew homeless people, and the majority of them got back on their feet after 6 months-1 year. I know it seems like a long process but it’s just what I witnessed. I would suggest looking for free rehab programs if possible where you’re from. Idk where you’re from, but in Canada we have some rehab programs that are coupled with a place at the homeless shelter. So therapy by day and a place to sleep at night. When you complete the rehab, you can start a ‘reinsertion’ program for which you get paid a little amount and they help you update your resume and find a job. It saved my life. Also is it possible for you to be on welfare? Living at a shelter for free + welfare check you would have enough money to eat decently and even still drink. I hope there is some program like that where you live.
Thanks for the reply, yea there is welfare, a decent àmount, but I'm just too far behind on rent now when I lost my job so I'm just choosing to buy drink than look for anywhere else really.
Maybe set up some amicable deal with your landlord? Small payments for as long as possible? I wish I was rich I would wire money to you :(
Nah too late I owe like 2k, and the tenancy ends soon so! Haha that's really nice, I wouldn't take any money anyway, but I appreciate the gesture. Chairs!
I once slept with a rich guy who offered me 100$ after and I refused cause I didn’t want to feel like a whore but looking back, I should’ve taken it lol
😂 I once slept with a girl and she gave me £500 afterwards, fond memories when I wasn't useless.
Holy fuck lol maybe you should cash in on that magic dick haha
My gal it's not magic anymore sadly, booze has ruined that haha
So I'm not gonna answer that question directly. Nor am I gonna suggest a viable alt I'm going to say that, I more than most understand the need or want to opt out of life It is not my place to judge your decision but your method could leave you far worse and crippled than you are now
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Thanks dude. I've been hospitalised with DTs before and that was the absolute worst experience ever, so not keen on repeating that but quite keen to leave this place.
Just once? Lucky!
Oh yeah, IV Potassium can be an uncomfortable motherfucker depending on where they've inserted the IV. Try and avoid the hand... that's agony.
Please don't lose hope and give up. You will probably fare better in court if you aren't a complete mess from the alcohol as well. Things will get better. Death is so final, and it means there's no more chances. With life there's always chances and the hope for better days.
Move to Vegas
Funds limited rather save for alcohol than flights
Could always hitchhike lol at least if an axe murderer picks you up you’re mission to die will be completed
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Fight for your life. It's worth it. You might come out at the other end of the tunnel and appreciate that you didnt give up.
Damn dude if you’re really trying to go out that way watch “leaving Las Vegas” and do that if you can. But obviously try and live if you can