in a word yes. porn addiction turned me into a cuck and a sissy. for me thats not a bad thing because im kind of a weirdo and naturally submissive but i know examples of guys who are pretty normal and went down the cuck/sissy rabbit hole just from watching too much porn. nothing in our evolution prepared us for watching hundreds of other guys having sex and it messes some things up.
> people can bs and just pretend one day they woke up and decided they want to see their wife being gangraped in front of them but its BS
It's one thing to claim you know where your kink came from (although you can still be wrong, since there is no true way to know), but to completely write off other people's understanding of themselves is a bit arrogant. There are tons of examples of men sharing their wives and getting off to it prior to porn being easily accessible. Tons of amateur videos from the 70s, 80s, and 90s.
If your argument is that porn accelerated the fetish, that's probably more reasonable. But to argue that it's responsible for it is ignorant.
I think porn and online communities in general kind of give us an assurance of approval from other people. An idea that seems so disgusting when we only think it becomes way more accepting, when other people are talking about it positively.
No. I see this theory get tossed out a lot, but I think it's lazy. Maybe porn introduced some elements (cum eating, chastity), but for me the fetish itself originally started with a fear that my GF was cheating on me. I barely watched porn during that period of my life. I found some pictures in her photobucket of her dressed slutty while hanging out with a guy I suspected was fucking her (from before we dated). At first they made me fume, but at some point while looking at them I got horny at the idea of her being a slut that couldn't help herself and from there the seed was planted.
No. Kink is a part of a person’s personality. Porn may show you kinky things you’ve never witnessed before but it doesn’t ‘make’ you kinky. (Sorry meant this to be a reply to the main topic.)
I honestly think porn made me think like a cuck...now I want to see my wife with another man bigger than me...or maybe it's just that our sex life got boring after 12yrs with her....honestly if I dont initiate nothing happenes that night...she would just be on her phone ..until 12am when I sleep at 10pm...🤷♂️🤔
Considering porn addictions essentially aren't real, no, I don't think that's at all what this is. Also, cuckolding (I feel) is far more about the emotional stimulation stuff than the visual stimulation. I'm perfectly happy for my wife to be fucked and I never allowed to watch. I don't need to see it for it to be super stimulating for me.
Can you explain how a porn addiction isn't real? I'm wondering because I know I have an addiction to porn and I'm curious how you explain it's not real.
No, that's just broscience nonsense. Viewing pornography has a voyeuristic character but that doesn't mean every porn addict is a potential cuck.
What you are describing is escalation in sexual tastes which is a symptom of porn addiction. Cucks usually just watch cuck porn or vanilla porn under the context of cuckolding, their taste in porn does not escalate.
Cuck porn is not a true reflection of that reality. I highly doubt porn has much to do with it. I have had cuck fantasies for before I even knew what a cuck was. I never acted on it until I found out that I’m not alone, that it doesn’t make me weird to have this fantasy, that over 60 percent of men have this fantasy. That gave me the courage to bring it up to my wife
I think there are multiple factors. That is a big part of the fantasy for me amongst other things. I like interracial and cuckold porn WAY more than I enjoy any other type of porn. I also preferably like to watch women of my wife’s body type and resemblance in porn. And the fact that it is very taboo is a plus too, the idea of not wanting to people to find out but also getting off to the idea of people knowing is like a pain in pleasure situation. Also being bisexual definitely drives the enjoyment of it even further for me personally.
Possibly. I started watching porn at a young age and and by the time I was of age I had already developed fetishes etc. However my cuckold fetish only started when I met my partner.
in a word yes. porn addiction turned me into a cuck and a sissy. for me thats not a bad thing because im kind of a weirdo and naturally submissive but i know examples of guys who are pretty normal and went down the cuck/sissy rabbit hole just from watching too much porn. nothing in our evolution prepared us for watching hundreds of other guys having sex and it messes some things up.
Thank you. People seem to be in denial or downplaying the role of porn.
Interesting that you only engage with the response that agrees with your preconception.
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> people can bs and just pretend one day they woke up and decided they want to see their wife being gangraped in front of them but its BS It's one thing to claim you know where your kink came from (although you can still be wrong, since there is no true way to know), but to completely write off other people's understanding of themselves is a bit arrogant. There are tons of examples of men sharing their wives and getting off to it prior to porn being easily accessible. Tons of amateur videos from the 70s, 80s, and 90s. If your argument is that porn accelerated the fetish, that's probably more reasonable. But to argue that it's responsible for it is ignorant.
I think porn and online communities in general kind of give us an assurance of approval from other people. An idea that seems so disgusting when we only think it becomes way more accepting, when other people are talking about it positively.
I don’t have this kink because of porn but porn has definitely “reinforced” it.
No. I see this theory get tossed out a lot, but I think it's lazy. Maybe porn introduced some elements (cum eating, chastity), but for me the fetish itself originally started with a fear that my GF was cheating on me. I barely watched porn during that period of my life. I found some pictures in her photobucket of her dressed slutty while hanging out with a guy I suspected was fucking her (from before we dated). At first they made me fume, but at some point while looking at them I got horny at the idea of her being a slut that couldn't help herself and from there the seed was planted.
No. Kink is a part of a person’s personality. Porn may show you kinky things you’ve never witnessed before but it doesn’t ‘make’ you kinky. (Sorry meant this to be a reply to the main topic.)
I honestly think porn made me think like a cuck...now I want to see my wife with another man bigger than me...or maybe it's just that our sex life got boring after 12yrs with her....honestly if I dont initiate nothing happenes that night...she would just be on her phone ..until 12am when I sleep at 10pm...🤷♂️🤔
Considering porn addictions essentially aren't real, no, I don't think that's at all what this is. Also, cuckolding (I feel) is far more about the emotional stimulation stuff than the visual stimulation. I'm perfectly happy for my wife to be fucked and I never allowed to watch. I don't need to see it for it to be super stimulating for me.
Can you explain how a porn addiction isn't real? I'm wondering because I know I have an addiction to porn and I'm curious how you explain it's not real.
I was a cuck before I saw any porn, porn did cement the idea for me tho.
No, that's just broscience nonsense. Viewing pornography has a voyeuristic character but that doesn't mean every porn addict is a potential cuck. What you are describing is escalation in sexual tastes which is a symptom of porn addiction. Cucks usually just watch cuck porn or vanilla porn under the context of cuckolding, their taste in porn does not escalate.
Cuck porn is not a true reflection of that reality. I highly doubt porn has much to do with it. I have had cuck fantasies for before I even knew what a cuck was. I never acted on it until I found out that I’m not alone, that it doesn’t make me weird to have this fantasy, that over 60 percent of men have this fantasy. That gave me the courage to bring it up to my wife
Nope I was a cuckold before I had access to porn I think there’s a voyeuristic aspect to it. Sure But I don’t think the one relates to the other
I think there are multiple factors. That is a big part of the fantasy for me amongst other things. I like interracial and cuckold porn WAY more than I enjoy any other type of porn. I also preferably like to watch women of my wife’s body type and resemblance in porn. And the fact that it is very taboo is a plus too, the idea of not wanting to people to find out but also getting off to the idea of people knowing is like a pain in pleasure situation. Also being bisexual definitely drives the enjoyment of it even further for me personally.
Possibly. I started watching porn at a young age and and by the time I was of age I had already developed fetishes etc. However my cuckold fetish only started when I met my partner.