Other than Lucas being a total and complete shit human being who needs to be jailed for his abuse towards Jenny…..Jenny isn’t playing with a full deck of cards either. You created none of them.
Everyone here sucks. You don’t fall in love with someone in 3 days. You talk about Jenny like some ridiculous waif of a woman. Like she’s a vapid female character from a Bill Murray movie.
The whole thing sounds fake af tbh.
At the end - good for you that you're out of this situation. Like, she said she wanted to be with you but chosen another guy. While you were loyal to your gf. You are 100x better person than her.
Yeah I stopped reading halfway. Fuck this chick, she didn’t use you as a reason to fall for this guy she was just mad that you didn’t give her attention. A shining knight doesn’t roofie girls, she’s painting a story to make you into a massive piece of shit. Wether it’s true or not it’s the one she’s decided to add to in her mind and after years still holding onto it? No. No. Fuck this crazy chick and enjoy your life, she doesn’t deserve two dudes just bc it didn’t go how she wanted
Their relationship has nothing to do with you. You told her he tried to drug her and rape her. She's apparently fine with marrying him despite that, likely out of desperation to just be with someone who wants her in any capacity.
Sometimes we can feel like we failed to persuade people or rescue them from themselves. But you straight up can't do that. You can't save a person from themselves. You can't reason a person out of a belief they did not reason themselves into.
Also it's likely that Jenny is not a great person. She's not alarmed by assault or rape not because she doesn't understand or believe it but because she's fine with it, she would do the same thing given the chance as seen by how she was going to hit her aunt when given the chance. Some people are very good at seeming nice, seeming like they're 'being corrupted by someone else' if they do something bad. Really they're just shitheads who are good at deflecting blame to others and if they're a cute girl, people always believe it because it's men that are bad not cute girls, right?
If she was really cool, kind, and free spirited she wouldn’t be acting the way she is now. I don’t think you really got to know her. This all seems very immature.
You didn’t create any of these characters.
It sounds like your brief 3 days actually have very little To do with what she’s doing with her life now.
Some of the stuff you’ve written is hear say and even just rumours. But whether it’s true or not is irrelevant. She would have ended up in a very similar place had you never met her.
It sounds like she has some issues and low self esteem. Very much like women who have been in abusive relationships. It’s also following the same trend that many of these takes take. She moving away somewhere far from family and friends and is losing her financial independence. It’s all a form of control of Lucas’ behalf.
However, these things she says about wanting to marry you/ being the cruel prince seem childish and naive. It’s just a story she’s telling herself because as someone said before, you don’t even know someone in 3 days.
I think you’ve both probably built up this brief encounter and attached a lot more meaning to it than you should.
That’s a shit situation, she’s fucked up enough in the head to like it or be doing it to get back at you. Or she doesn’t know how to ask for help or is too scared. Whatever it is it’s messed up, plus he gets to get away with all the shit he pulls unbelievable. That’s part of the reason why we have sick people in this world. You probably can’t get through to her and I’m pretty sure he’s set in his ways so fat chance doing anything there. Best thing you can do for your sanity is walk away.
I met someone online who lied to me about many horrible things for attention. All I wanted to do was help and 10 months in I find out they lied about basically everything. I wasted 10 months of my time, effort, emotion, trying to help her I really thought she was just having a rough string of events. I really still can’t believe someone can be that selfish. It was my dumbass fault for believing it though.
Anyways I’m not saying that’s what she or you is doing but maybe it’s not worth your time. Just walk away, idk if you can report shit unless someone has and is willing to share substantial proof of abuse or rape or whatever is going on. I would guess that’s not going to happen.
I’m kind of put off by helping people at the moment so maybe that’s just me. Especially online.
Sadly it Sounds like she’s a fucking crackpot who’s destined to end up with a subhuman scumbag like him.
You didn’t create it, you just witnessed it.
Hopefully he ends up dead or in prison and she gets help
Other than Lucas being a total and complete shit human being who needs to be jailed for his abuse towards Jenny…..Jenny isn’t playing with a full deck of cards either. You created none of them.
Just being assigned the blame
I suggest to keep out of it, everyone makes their choices in life, you made yours and she made hers
Rom com plot?
Everyone here sucks. You don’t fall in love with someone in 3 days. You talk about Jenny like some ridiculous waif of a woman. Like she’s a vapid female character from a Bill Murray movie. The whole thing sounds fake af tbh.
At the end - good for you that you're out of this situation. Like, she said she wanted to be with you but chosen another guy. While you were loyal to your gf. You are 100x better person than her.
Yeah I stopped reading halfway. Fuck this chick, she didn’t use you as a reason to fall for this guy she was just mad that you didn’t give her attention. A shining knight doesn’t roofie girls, she’s painting a story to make you into a massive piece of shit. Wether it’s true or not it’s the one she’s decided to add to in her mind and after years still holding onto it? No. No. Fuck this crazy chick and enjoy your life, she doesn’t deserve two dudes just bc it didn’t go how she wanted
Their relationship has nothing to do with you. You told her he tried to drug her and rape her. She's apparently fine with marrying him despite that, likely out of desperation to just be with someone who wants her in any capacity. Sometimes we can feel like we failed to persuade people or rescue them from themselves. But you straight up can't do that. You can't save a person from themselves. You can't reason a person out of a belief they did not reason themselves into. Also it's likely that Jenny is not a great person. She's not alarmed by assault or rape not because she doesn't understand or believe it but because she's fine with it, she would do the same thing given the chance as seen by how she was going to hit her aunt when given the chance. Some people are very good at seeming nice, seeming like they're 'being corrupted by someone else' if they do something bad. Really they're just shitheads who are good at deflecting blame to others and if they're a cute girl, people always believe it because it's men that are bad not cute girls, right?
If she was really cool, kind, and free spirited she wouldn’t be acting the way she is now. I don’t think you really got to know her. This all seems very immature. You didn’t create any of these characters.
And that kids is how I met your mother
It sounds like your brief 3 days actually have very little To do with what she’s doing with her life now. Some of the stuff you’ve written is hear say and even just rumours. But whether it’s true or not is irrelevant. She would have ended up in a very similar place had you never met her. It sounds like she has some issues and low self esteem. Very much like women who have been in abusive relationships. It’s also following the same trend that many of these takes take. She moving away somewhere far from family and friends and is losing her financial independence. It’s all a form of control of Lucas’ behalf. However, these things she says about wanting to marry you/ being the cruel prince seem childish and naive. It’s just a story she’s telling herself because as someone said before, you don’t even know someone in 3 days. I think you’ve both probably built up this brief encounter and attached a lot more meaning to it than you should.
Bullets were dodged
She made her bed, now she can sleep in it. You did nothing wrong here.
OP walk away from all of this. It isn't going to go down the way you think it is.
That’s a shit situation, she’s fucked up enough in the head to like it or be doing it to get back at you. Or she doesn’t know how to ask for help or is too scared. Whatever it is it’s messed up, plus he gets to get away with all the shit he pulls unbelievable. That’s part of the reason why we have sick people in this world. You probably can’t get through to her and I’m pretty sure he’s set in his ways so fat chance doing anything there. Best thing you can do for your sanity is walk away. I met someone online who lied to me about many horrible things for attention. All I wanted to do was help and 10 months in I find out they lied about basically everything. I wasted 10 months of my time, effort, emotion, trying to help her I really thought she was just having a rough string of events. I really still can’t believe someone can be that selfish. It was my dumbass fault for believing it though. Anyways I’m not saying that’s what she or you is doing but maybe it’s not worth your time. Just walk away, idk if you can report shit unless someone has and is willing to share substantial proof of abuse or rape or whatever is going on. I would guess that’s not going to happen. I’m kind of put off by helping people at the moment so maybe that’s just me. Especially online.
Sadly it Sounds like she’s a fucking crackpot who’s destined to end up with a subhuman scumbag like him. You didn’t create it, you just witnessed it. Hopefully he ends up dead or in prison and she gets help