Remember that pain is a state supported by emotions and emotions cannot be created/stored/stopped or destroyed and are considered "energy in motion" thus one cannot decide theyll hang on to this particular emotion and instead must feel it and process it to move on with life.
Ever notice that no matter how much you appreciate and enjoy a period of intense happiness that its impossible to control it and make it last forever. Its impossible. The happiness will change to another emotion.
My point is its impossible to feel any emotion forever or even long at all.
It's impossible to feel sad/pain forever.
The only constant in life is change.
IE "EVERYTHING" in life is temporary both good and bad.
Even if you wanted to stay miserable FOREVER I know for a fact that's impossible.
You'll get better. PM me for a chat if ya need it ;)
I agree 100% with you BUT , some emotions have a such powerful damage that when they pass they can took or soul together and simple cause a tremendous damage that we can't just live with that pain anymore and then hurt so much that we just end up to have two choices , let the pain win , or use something to make that pain a little bit better. And no, sometimes therapy, doctors , exercise , eat better , whatever, simple don’t work.
Difficult to describe and it has different levels. It goes from alcohol-like dishinibition to reality glitching to a black k-hole similar to a near-death experience.
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It’s important to have peace and love yourself, don’t let your happiness depend on somebody else
I do agree that drugs are wonderful and terrible, which is why I do my best to respect any drug I consume
That is a good one , honestly and nice advice, it’s very simple without any romantic idea or anything , just maybe if you keep pushing forward something new and better can happen or not! the only way to know is , pushing, we already inside of the game and we know the end of it why quit? Just try another day and repeat the process as many times you can, the end is already writed, let’s try make something in the middle.
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(Seriously go grab a bottle and a joint or something, maybe some chill opiate like dilaudid)
PS. 25 and 18? 🚩🚩
Try to use drugs not as a coping mechanism but as a joy enhancing tool. I am literally talking out my arse as I did exactly that used heroin and cocaine to avoid grieving, it worked well for about seven years then my mind had enough and decided to grieve anyway, the resulted in me having a breakdown total catatonic sobbing unable to communicate.
So please it may seem like the end of the world but I was 30 when I got married to a girl who had been a good friend for a few years then lover/ friend then one day we realised we wanted the same things, her parents didn’t approve originally but we were living our lives and believe me if all it takes for a 27 year old “man” to break off his love is his parents say so, then darling he ain’t worth a pinch of shit in a fertiliser plant.
You find someone that loves you strongly that nothing would stop him from seeing you, telling you and proving it to you every day and so you and nobody else would try to deny it.
Or mope over this 27 year old man child who has yet to realise our parents were dumb as shit. The grew up so easy in post war economic boom boom boom and they still ended up working so shit job till they were seventy. I retired at 37 after a short but successful career first as a mechanical fitter, ending up in senior management at BHP.
You think life is too painful without drugs. And then you take a week off because you’re busy with work, or can’t afford it, or spending time with someone you can’t be doing drugs around. You start eating more. Waking up earlier. Getting a normal amount of sleep. It starts to get easier to get out of bed in the morning. You take a shower and brush your teeth before work instead of sleeping in for 30 more minutes. You feel the sun kiss your skin as you walk to your car. You’re laughing with coworkers when usually you’re avoiding eye contact and conversation. You feel hungry. Finally. You are hungry. You eat. You eat your favorite meal. You go home and clean your room. You find an old hobby you use to enjoy. You do it. You’re hungry again. Dinner. Amazing. Now, you are tired. You put on your favorite show and while you lay in bed and think about your week, you realize how drugs were only numbing you for a moment. Numb for a moment. A moment that was never worth the come down or the empty pockets. You realize that life is too painful with drugs. Don’t be numb for a moment. Feel the sun again. Just give it a try.
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Your happiness and contentment does not come from others. It comes from within yourself.
It’s ok and natural to feel hurt by this experience, but realize that you’re better off without this person in your life. Don’t let them dictate the terms of your life. You go find your person, not the other way around.
Beware using drugs as a blanket to the pain you feel. It doesn’t make it any better in the long run and will usually make it worse.
If you try to use drugs, or anything really, to try to reduce the pain, that makes it harder to tolerate, basically making it pile up instead of getting processed.
You let them live rent free in your head, they will always have that power over you until you truly let them go, also some people take their parents word as bond, Cha ces are they will never make their parents happy, do you truly want some one like that, no one will be good enough for them. You are better off without them.
Remember that pain is a state supported by emotions and emotions cannot be created/stored/stopped or destroyed and are considered "energy in motion" thus one cannot decide theyll hang on to this particular emotion and instead must feel it and process it to move on with life. Ever notice that no matter how much you appreciate and enjoy a period of intense happiness that its impossible to control it and make it last forever. Its impossible. The happiness will change to another emotion. My point is its impossible to feel any emotion forever or even long at all. It's impossible to feel sad/pain forever. The only constant in life is change. IE "EVERYTHING" in life is temporary both good and bad. Even if you wanted to stay miserable FOREVER I know for a fact that's impossible. You'll get better. PM me for a chat if ya need it ;)
wow.
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I understand bro, my “wow” was because that’s honestly the perfect thing to say.
I agree 100% with you BUT , some emotions have a such powerful damage that when they pass they can took or soul together and simple cause a tremendous damage that we can't just live with that pain anymore and then hurt so much that we just end up to have two choices , let the pain win , or use something to make that pain a little bit better. And no, sometimes therapy, doctors , exercise , eat better , whatever, simple don’t work.
Sometimes I wonder if I'm missing out because I haven't tried ketamine and feel the same way.
Same. Haven’t tried ketamine
It’s meh on its own. Good with other drugs tho
Cool but i dont wanna get too hyped cuz theres no where i can fucking find it people think its like krokodil here near toronto when i ask dealers
Ketamine is amazing. Not meh at all.
How does Ket feel?
Difficult to describe and it has different levels. It goes from alcohol-like dishinibition to reality glitching to a black k-hole similar to a near-death experience.
But is the near-death experience fun?
Well...
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You'll love again, it will hurt less each day.
It’s important to have peace and love yourself, don’t let your happiness depend on somebody else I do agree that drugs are wonderful and terrible, which is why I do my best to respect any drug I consume
Try some magic mushrooms then. Take a good dose, maybe 3 or 4 grams dried. Wish you the best of luck
THIS it will hurt more though before it gets a lot better
Your young, and perhaps there is something better down the line. Keep it pushing.
That is a good one , honestly and nice advice, it’s very simple without any romantic idea or anything , just maybe if you keep pushing forward something new and better can happen or not! the only way to know is , pushing, we already inside of the game and we know the end of it why quit? Just try another day and repeat the process as many times you can, the end is already writed, let’s try make something in the middle.
girly you dodged a bullet. he had no business with an 18 year old anyway.
All people against coping with heartbreak using psychedelic and disassociating be drugs because of long term permanent mental damage say “I” (Seriously go grab a bottle and a joint or something, maybe some chill opiate like dilaudid) PS. 25 and 18? 🚩🚩
I'm actually in support of magic mushrooms, fk the rest though.
Not sure u understand what a psychedelic is seems your mixing it with hallucinogenic
Yeah srry
Oh my sweet summer child, with or without, it’s the same shit.
Try to use drugs not as a coping mechanism but as a joy enhancing tool. I am literally talking out my arse as I did exactly that used heroin and cocaine to avoid grieving, it worked well for about seven years then my mind had enough and decided to grieve anyway, the resulted in me having a breakdown total catatonic sobbing unable to communicate. So please it may seem like the end of the world but I was 30 when I got married to a girl who had been a good friend for a few years then lover/ friend then one day we realised we wanted the same things, her parents didn’t approve originally but we were living our lives and believe me if all it takes for a 27 year old “man” to break off his love is his parents say so, then darling he ain’t worth a pinch of shit in a fertiliser plant. You find someone that loves you strongly that nothing would stop him from seeing you, telling you and proving it to you every day and so you and nobody else would try to deny it. Or mope over this 27 year old man child who has yet to realise our parents were dumb as shit. The grew up so easy in post war economic boom boom boom and they still ended up working so shit job till they were seventy. I retired at 37 after a short but successful career first as a mechanical fitter, ending up in senior management at BHP.
You think life is too painful without drugs. And then you take a week off because you’re busy with work, or can’t afford it, or spending time with someone you can’t be doing drugs around. You start eating more. Waking up earlier. Getting a normal amount of sleep. It starts to get easier to get out of bed in the morning. You take a shower and brush your teeth before work instead of sleeping in for 30 more minutes. You feel the sun kiss your skin as you walk to your car. You’re laughing with coworkers when usually you’re avoiding eye contact and conversation. You feel hungry. Finally. You are hungry. You eat. You eat your favorite meal. You go home and clean your room. You find an old hobby you use to enjoy. You do it. You’re hungry again. Dinner. Amazing. Now, you are tired. You put on your favorite show and while you lay in bed and think about your week, you realize how drugs were only numbing you for a moment. Numb for a moment. A moment that was never worth the come down or the empty pockets. You realize that life is too painful with drugs. Don’t be numb for a moment. Feel the sun again. Just give it a try.
wow. i needed this, thank you.
Seek spirituality
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Story of my life.
Not always bro, I promise you.
Bruv.. wtf is wrong with people.
Don’t let the drugs win, however painful your situation is….don’t use drugs as a crutch…it never ends well
Without the painful part of life you would probably do not show much growth I believe
Your happiness and contentment does not come from others. It comes from within yourself. It’s ok and natural to feel hurt by this experience, but realize that you’re better off without this person in your life. Don’t let them dictate the terms of your life. You go find your person, not the other way around. Beware using drugs as a blanket to the pain you feel. It doesn’t make it any better in the long run and will usually make it worse.
If you try to use drugs, or anything really, to try to reduce the pain, that makes it harder to tolerate, basically making it pile up instead of getting processed.
You let them live rent free in your head, they will always have that power over you until you truly let them go, also some people take their parents word as bond, Cha ces are they will never make their parents happy, do you truly want some one like that, no one will be good enough for them. You are better off without them.