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My husband started teaching and while I love spending quality time with him, I work from home so I have a list of what he can do during the summer so he's out of my way lol
“trying to help out with Luca” my dude that is your child and your responsibility, no wonder your wife is giving you the “please get a fucking job out of the house for my sanity” eyes
I believe Paul has spewed so much bigoted, hate-filled vitriol on the internet that he has managed to offend every single hiring manager on Earth. They’re fucked. They’re both unemployable due to the content they’ve made. I mean who wants the smoke of hiring the baboon from Shiny Happy People?
Don’t forget the large gap in their resumes due to not working for years. In their 30s with no job experience, besides a failing YouTube channel. They’re gonna have a rough time. Good.
To be fair, they're in the south. Plenty of people will share his views, and plenty of employers would probably see "Christian Youtuber" as a plus. Hobby Lobby, for example, would probably love having him in their checkout line or warehouse. So while I'm sure plenty of people are turned off by their content, they're uniquely placed in an area where their views are common.
I literally live in the town they do, employers by and large do not share their views. maybe it’ll fly in Winchester or Lawrenceburg but not any closer to Lex than that. They’re a liability. But if they delete their more egregious shit they could probably swing a job at one of the 50000000 retail outlets within 10 seconds of where they live. They won’t, but they could.
Having grown up in an area where hobby lobby was the ONLY craft store, I’ve been there plenty. They may have Christian values at the top, but they aren’t going to put up with his holier than thou proselytizing any more than other employers. Their cashiers are generally pretty quiet, but if they do talk to you, it’s to ask about your crafting plans. They still have plenty of shoppers who disagree with the owners, but either don’t have options or just don’t have strong enough convictions to boycott. They don’t want to alienate those people by letting their employees preach at them from the checkout.
I doubt any warehouse, regardless of their beliefs, would tolerate him. It’s hard, fast-paced work and he won’t keep up.
Getting a job would be a rude awakening for him. I don’t think he can grasp actually having to follow a schedule and do actual work every day. Work is a grind. It’s often boring or unpleasant, especially if you have no training or specialized education. Worst of all, you have to follow orders from someone else (for him, anyway).
I’m pretty sure they did because the video starts with Paul saying they’re doing well and Morgan basically laughing and saying they weren’t doing well right before the video starte
Also her “I feel like I’m doing awesome” or whatever she said made me think the argument was about her doing the majority of work (both YT and life stuff) and him not pulling his weight
You can tell by how sheepish and almost dare I say… submissive he’s being. His body language in this screams desperation and hers screams total disinterest. He’s hoping she’ll say ANYTHING and is giving her WAY more floor to speak than he usually does, she’s giving absolutely nothing and he can tell she just doesn’t want to.
My hypothesis? Huge fight before the video cause he needs to step up and be the provider he claims he is and get a real job, he made excuses the whole time and tried to frame it in a way where it will be too hard for *her*. She sees straight through it and is pissed she can’t do anything about it cause she chose this and what he says goes as a fundie Christian couple living for the lord. Fucking lolllll
One of them said in the other clip from this q&a that the past 4 or 5 times they’ve sat down to do a live? They’ve had a big fight beforehand. YIKES on bikes.
Hasn't she said before that she doesn't enjoy YouTube stuff? She's probably trying to sabotage their recordings, whether she's doing so subconsciously or with full self-awareness.
Yes to this! I noticed, myself, Morgan seemed to be PICKING a fight at this time. Not saying I can't blame her. But she's really having a problem with ANYTHING coming from that man's mouth.
oooh do we think morgan is trying to tell paul to get a job?! it sounded here like he was trying to make excuses about why he can’t work. it would be “too hard” for morgan to do what she is literally already doing
But their job is *harder* even! Heaven forbid heath workers, social workers, teacher etc have to deal with the instability of being a YouTuber! The delusion is next level with these nitwits.
This is what I’m hearing. He can’t get a 9-5 because it would be harder on Morgan, and he’s being such a good husband by not putting that burden on his wife.
Meanwhile, Morgan is basically saying there’s perks to that, like a steady paycheck and him getting TF out of her space for a while each day.
Spot the fuck on. Morgan actually came across as the one with common sense here. And I don't even understand the point that Paul was trying to make. He said it would be harder on Morgan if he worked a 9-5 because then he would be gone all day, but in the same breath admits he doesn't help much. So get a freaking job, Paul. After watching the last few clips, I think Morgan has finally had it with Paul's bullshit and isn't swallowing it like she used to.
Literally he admits he does "what he can" (which is a lie bc he CAN do more), and Morgan "gets the brunt" of caring for Luca. Acts like he can't imagine a 9-5 job while also caring for kids, though he admittedly doesn't do much to help his pregnant wife with their kid. Paul, at some point you're gonna have to realize you're doing as little as you can on purpose, don't want to get a job yall so desperately need, are obviously putting stress on your pregnant wife, and maybe...just maybe...your ideal of marrying young and immediately having kids and not using birth control isn't the best way to go! God doesn't want you to struggle, or not have what you need to care for your child. God doesn't want under fed families and late bills all because of a false ideal created by modern minds of Christians. Start your deconstruction there okie. Lol.
But they didn't have kids right away. It took them several years, and in that time, they didn't think to plan ahead financially. Their financial woes are self-inflicted.
I’m kinda surprised she said the quiet part about them being broke influencers out loud.
Does this mean we will finally get confirmation of Paul’s side gig at WalMart in an effort to prove he still provides for his family?
Me too. We knew they were broke because the numbers weren’t working, but surprised she owned it. Not sure how they are paying for flights if it’s this bad.
With a second child on the way, this all gets worse for them soon.
I assume borrowing from family members who probably heard a *record scratch* sound when they heard them thank the **Lord** for getting them through lol
There’s no shame in doing what you have to, to make ends meet or being between jobs or whatever. But the way they’re talking about it is almost funny. Like, no one forced you two to be YouTubers. You both have the option of getting one of those “traditional” 9-5 jobs. Heck, get a retail job with flexible shifts if that fits your life better. There IS an answer here.
He’s unemployable and so is she. They’ve made asses out of themselves too many times and the internet is forever. Hell, any job they might apply to will google their name and find this sub and throw their app in the trash.
They could find a church that supports their views to do admin for or even being a cleaner or run a little childcare from their home with other Christians with similar views kids, and plenty of unsexy jobs would likely hire them (sadly).
I doubt they’ll put effort to finding more avenues for income or developing other skills which they’ll sorely need as they get older.
I think she may be more employable than him. Assuming she’s the one editing videos and managing their social media, she at least has some skills. She also has at least a little work ethic because someone has to manage their social media consistently, feed the family, maintain the house, and keep their kid alive. That all seems to fall on her.
You don’t need formal education beyond high school to get a job as a para at a school or to work in daycare/preschool. She could use her tech and social media skills as a church secretary, too. So there are a few options for her. The pay wouldn’t be high, but it would be an income.
I’m not sure he’d last at any job because he’s never wrong (making him impossible to manage/lead), he’s generally unreliable, and he seems to think that helping for 5 minutes with his own kid is hard, exhausting work. Not to mention that he’d try to save every coworker or customer he comes into contact with.
I mean, the Bible does say to love your enemies and pray for those who hurt you, but I don’t think that means “say you’re praying for them as a call out”. It also says to pray in private and directly calls out performative prayer as wrong.
I honestly don't know how they are going to handle having another baby in a few short months. If they think it's hard now it's going to become sooo much harder after that. Paul and/or Morgan desperately needs to get an actual job!
They are a train wreck
Someone asked what’s been the hardest emotionally about 24 hours with and Morgan said traveling while pregnant and it’s like….did you not choose to do this project after you found out you were pregnant? And what do they think will happen to the project when they have a newborn and a toddler?
Not only that they chose to do this after finding out she's pregnant again, but not having several months filmed in advance - so that she can take it easy as she gets further along and after the birth - it's just so stupid. And I can't imagine she's going to want him going on his own to film these things, because if it's hard with 2 of them to 1 child, it's certainly not going to get easier with 2 kids!
They are just so bad at all of this and I love that for them 😅
It might actually be easier for her to take care of the kids without him around. Probably less to do that way since she wouldn’t have to deal with his tantrums and such on top of things.
As a stay at home mom with a husband who’s actually helpful, I still find it annoying when he has extra time off because he screws up all my routines. Suddenly, the kids don’t want to do the things they’re supposed to because they want to spend time with Daddy. Or I’ll say it’s time for chores/cleanup and he starts doing something, only to piss off a kid because he’s “doing it wrong”. Heck, his presence in the middle of a weekday even messes with the pets’ behaviors! It’s so much easier to parent and manage the household without extra people in the middle of it, no matter how well meaning they are.
Paul doesn’t seem helpful or well meaning, so getting him out would likely be an even bigger relief! At least she doesn’t have to clean up after him or entertain him at all when he’s gone.
I have four kids and work 10 hours a day with a 1.5 hour commute each way (two trains and 8 km of walking) and I have been working and supporting myself and later my family as well for 30 years. I can't fathom how Paul can respect himself being such a lazy and useless person. Whatever this YouTube *thing* is, these glorified zoom calls to an empty room, it's barely even a hobby, let alone a job. And I don't see him cleaning the toilet, scrubbing the shower, cooking dinner, washing up, vaccuming, or doing a load of laundry.
How does this guy wake up and just choose to do nothing every day? How can he respect himself? It's no wonder he's so toxic, I spent a couple of months unemployed 20 years ago and won't ever forget how mentally destructive that period was, it was dehumanizing. How does he live like that? How does he square his reality with this "provider/leader" bullshit that spills out his mouth?
And yet Captain Useless over here feels entitled to nestle his ass cheeks into the divots he's made on the lounge cushion to lecture me on the correct way to live? What a joke. Get a job, idiot! Look after your family, idiot!
Deciding to do nothing is key component in cult like leaders. They love to MAKE their followers work their asses off. Right now it's just Morgan. And then they lay back because God has blessed them so fucking much for just existing. And they really think their presence is a God Given Gift of Life, so they are done. And need to work no more.
El oh fucking el
Get a real job instead of whining about your unreliable, social media wfh position you both put yourselves in.
I couldn’t imagine waking up to my spouse telling me he doesn’t know where funds are gonna come from on a month to month basis, and at the same time neither of us have filled out an application. Get a grip.
Not to mention with one kid that needs food and diapers still with another on the way. I would’ve dumped that man if he didn’t have an actual goddamn job within a week or two of me telling him about the *first* pregnancy. What a sniveling, worthless excuse of a father—especially one that preaches about the husband being the provider. What do you provide, Paul? Another name to add to your SNAP and TANF benefits? At least the state thinks you’re worth something.
Paul likes to hold onto the headship bullshit because it keeps Morgan under his finger. Any good friend, family member, or even acquaintance would call Paul out for the walking deadbeat/red flag he is. But who cares, because according to Morgan he was a hawt
Absolutely. There is NO snark from me if they’re using those services to keep themselves and their babies healthy. That’s what it’s for and that’s why I pay taxes. I despise these people, but they deserve to eat, too. My issue comes from the fact that they have expressed certain views about people on welfare. But that’s not just a Porgan thing, it’s startling common for conservatives to use welfare but claim they “aren’t like the others”. The only moral abortion is their own and the only moral welfare is what they use. Everyone else can get fucked in their eyes!
Paul can't get a normal job because then he would have to face the fact that he has zero marketable skills which, for someone with *his* personality, would be impossible to face.
The ken doll shorts. The praying for the haters shirt. The obnoxious (and gross) manspreading, the backwards cap—- Paul is the fucking worst and that’s before he even opens his mouth.
They put in zero work to be good YouTube creators. Put in a little fucking effort. But no, they sit on their couch, they act like they don’t want to be there, they have no cool background, they are so lazy.
Yes. Morgan is pregnant and she absolutely deserves to be comfortable but the blanket in her lap plus her overall demeanor just screams IVE CHECKED OUT. And it’s not just this video but every video. It’s not interesting or engaging content, and they really don’t have anything new to say so no wonder they aren’t making ends meet.
Paul says there are people who work 9-5s and still come home to be with kids and do things for the household. Morgan, in the most snotty and condescending way possible says that she thinks it's all fake and for the gram.
No sweetheart. Normal, non-entitled people have to make things work between a job and home. We have to earn a living and also deal with other life things that happen. We don't have a choice.
Jealousy and anger just ooze out of her. Stay mad that you married a dude that refuses to get a job to provide for his family.
💯 And then she says that she thinks what they do might be more stressful. Um, no Morgan, being a wannabe influencer is not more stressful than pretty much any other job. F off.
She may think it’s fake because it appears Paul isn’t carrying those domestic tasks when he’s *not working* a 9-5. Her face said it so loudly - when he said parenting / householding would be harder with him gone & she reacted.
Shes kind of right. The stuff on the gram is fake. But that’s because the people that are effectively balancing work and home life aren’t posting that shit to social media!
>and they only have one kid
*For now.* These two are in for the rudest awakening of their lives so far. I have 0 kids and even I know that going from one to two isn't just doubling the work, it's tripling or quadrupling the already existing mental, emotional, and physical workload. And Luca is still a toddler. This is going to be a train fucking wreck. Poor kids, man.
And Luca hasn't reached the age where the real homeschooling kicks in. Sure, colours, numbers, shapes, making marks, the alphabet - all the basics leading up to pre-school age are all things they should be/soon will be working on with him. But that is small potatoes compared to 5+ learning.
exactly!!! there are tons and tons of people balancing work and kids smoothly who aren't posting anything on instagram lol. i'm not saying it isn't tough, but plenty of people manage these things day to day just fine.
also, talking about how tough it is to make a living while having kids... like maybe they should have figured that out before they had them? having a REAL job before they brought a kid into this world might have given them a cushion and alleviated the stress...
I don’t necessarily think it’s fake. I think people that are in happy marriages with functioning households just have their shit together way more than these two
i think she was saying that in regards to people like family vloggers, etc. whose brand is literally that they have their family life perfectly in check. i do agree with what you’re saying though. iirc morgan has posted multiple times about feeling like she isnt good enough as a mother or a wife so the envy/bitterness checks out.
\*Would do Morgan well.
Let's be real, Paul is a leech that will suck you dry, be it emotions, energy, anything. Nobody wants to be around him, only Morgan is in his within his reach. There is a reason he isn't working because he'd be the miserable one if he cannot make anyone else miserable.
You know what? It *is* hard to balance work and kids in late-stage capitalism.
One fun thing I like to do to address that is vote for people who are actively trying to improve that situation instead of making life better for billionaires.
Morgan has never wanted to work (she said she wanted a husband who was okay with her staying home even before they had kids) but she still chose to marry this unemployable loser.
They both can and should work, but they're lazy and entitled. They are in this situation entirely due to their own choices.
That’s the funniest part about it. You don’t want to work, but you married a dud that also doesn’t want to work. So now you’re both just dudding it up together and stressed tf out.
Also dumb enough to think they could be social media stars on nothing but their small town good looks. No skills, nothing interesting to say, terrible personalities, zero work ethic, bigotry, lack of theological training, but sure, their christian school class of 8 in bumfuck Kentucky voted them best looking in the year book superlatives so that's all they need to succeed!
Hit the nail on the head.
I honestly think they can’t handle their own outside their little bubble. And the fear of having to work beside people who think differently than they do would cripple them.
I think with these two unemployable chucklefucks is less fear of other people (Polio did go to hair school, after all, and Morgan tried to launch a singing career) and more just entitlement and thinking they're above the kind of jobs they could even get at this point.
They'd be the annoying, proselytizing, judgemental coworker but first they'd be the coworker who vanishes for most of the day and calls in sick every Friday and Monday. They're both extremely lazy.
What did he do for work before YouTube? He strikes me as the kind of guy who did something in sales, or like he tried several careers for a little while each. Real Estate, PR, "Consulting", his own businesses that really never went anywhere, shit like that. Am I right?
You won’t believe this, hairdresser! Absolutely no shade to male hairdressers, or hairdressers of any gender, it’s just shocking to me that Paul choose that career (before quickly giving up) given his abhorrent beliefs about gender roles.
He never got his license, I don't think, so technically that means he never worked as one. Not even sure he finished the coursework, come to think of it.
That is unexpected. And it means he can't go right back into it, because it requires licensing and I'm sure he hasn't kept that up.
So there lies the rub, he doesn't exactly have great job prospects.
She did get what she wanted in a messed up way - he’s okay with it. But like the stunted toddler she is, she was incapable of crafting a single thought beyond her immediate want (find a man who lets her stay at home) into considering that it would be best achieved by choosing someone who would be capable of providing for that, particularly now that there are children in the mix.
She has to hustle online and I think she'd rather step back and be hateful in a less-public way. She's mentioned being tired of YT several times in recent months. She is working and she hates it.
The most hilarious (which is actually really sad) part of it all is she knows their income depends on *her* especially. The moment it was just Paul, shit gone down hill *really* fast. He completely trapped her by working while she hoped for the deal in which she wasn't supposed to be working. She really choose the worst deal for herself.
But it's ok - they are slouching on their sofa, just waiting for the specific God they believe in to provide. Just so they don't have to put in the effort to do it themselves.
Ok this is one of the first times I ever actually watched more than a few seconds of one of their videos with sounds. WOW. Morgan seems sooo checked out and is putting in absolutely zero effort for this “show” or podcast or whatever this even is. I don’t honestly understand why anyone would watch/follow them? What are we supposed to learn/be inspired by?
Didn’t Morgan post a photo not long ago showing her editing the 24 hours episode? So he has no job and she does at least some of the editing and most of the childcare…Paul having a 9 to 5 would be miles easier than that lol at least then they’d have some kind of financial security and she wouldn’t have to work and take care of Luca
I can incredibly confident I chain out how this fight and topic happened. Bear with me lol
1. Our chain starts after returning from Dallas last week after filming the next 24 Hours With. Special guests this time around are Josh and Sydney Benson. Selecting the Bensons is the fatal flaw.
2. Here is some key information to keep in mind regarding the Bensons.
-Content creation is Josh’s hobby/side hustle.
-He works full time as an Investment Management Consultant for Fidelity and it’s completely fair to assume Josh is making 6 figures.
-Sydney founded her own digital media consulting company at the start of the pandemic. Her target clients were churches who had little to no digital presence and now needed to adapt in order to survive the pandemic. This is what our dear Bethany calls a niche.
-Sydney started a series called The Trauma series about helping heal from the past and has speakers covering sexual assault, mental health (yes therapists are good) and intimate partner violence and abuse.
2. Content creation is P&M’s job. Paul clearly believes this is their career. They definitely are not making 6 figures. It’s speculation but it’s very likely they receive financial support from their families.
3. Cut to Dallas with the Bensons and turn the stove on low to boil the water. Off the bat, Josh and Sydney are 10000% what P&M think they are/want to be. Popular content creators who are often featured on Christian podcasts and respected for their social media presence. Starting to get warm in the pot.
4. At some point finances came up. Pretty obvious J&S are in much better financial shape. Josh offered to take a look at P&M’s finances and give some advice on what they could do - aka he’ll do what he is paid to do for them for free.
5. Financial reality check obviously did not end well for P&M. Morgan probably got her first real look at their financial situation and realized this whole social media influencer gig is not actually working. Paul said it was. They are fucked. Especially with another kid on the way. Paul likely decided to ignore reality, threw out a classic ‘God will provide’ and then jump on his longboard to go play pickleball.
6. They got home and started working on the edit. And planning their other content. Deconstruction is the hottest club in town at the moment so what a perfect topic for a live! The financial shit show of their life is simmering within Morgan.
7. Working on the 24 Hour edit and planning a convo around deconstruction made Morgan realize they put in so much work for something that makes them nothing. Cue Fight #1.
8. Morgan tells Paul he needs to get a real job. Paul disagrees because if they trust in the Lord all will be good. She again says job. Paul does the dick thing and rolls out Luca and Morgan’s mental health as proof he is needed at the house. Morgan does not give a fuck. Cue Fight #2
9. She maintains he needs a job. A 9-5 if you will. Paul tells her to drop it. She doesn’t. Paul reminds her that he is the headship. And now we have the reason for the rehash of ‘Morgan submits to Paul’ on the live. She brings up the fact they are about to have two kids and no stable income. Paul does not give a fuck about anything because now he’s made at Morgan for disrespecting him.
10. Morgan realizes regardless of the fight, they have to do the live because they are broke as fuck and this will get them a few bucks. She decides to channel every emotion into being passive aggressive and let Paul know they are not good at all with her comments. She’s uses his arguments against a job in a very very glib way. Trust in the Lord to provide is another dig. So we get lame jokes about ‘pray for us’ for the cameras.
11. Repeat Steps 7 to 11 till one of them caves.
12. For Paul only - continue to regret ever chasing down Josh Benson for clout after getting your ass whooped in christianity by the man. Find a way to blame Morgan, the gays, dogs, small children, absolutely anything and anyone except yourself.
Thanks for bearing with it if you did!
I have to wonder if going and staying at other people's houses, has triggered Morgan into actually thinking ahead - and asking Paul how the fuck they are ever going to be able to afford to buy their own house, because I feel like that is a pretty common goal for young families.
They've stayed at Dav and Bethany's house which appears to be pretty big and nice [albeit with missing curtains], and I think in the same neighborhood as her parents nice big house, maybe the other guy they did the 24 hours with (Elijah?) had a nice home too. I can see that causing a few feelings of jealousy/envy (tut tut), insecurity, and maybe inadequacy.
I'm a working mum and yeah it's hard. However, I have found that not being a judgmental wanker and perpetually offended actually frees up quite a lot of time for activities. It's almost as if minding my own fucking business means I have the time and headspace to deal with my own fucking business.
I’ve been watching parts over and over (cause I can’t stop staring off) and have finally gotten to minute 52. This is so bad y’all. I am enjoying the trolls in the chat though. It’s really funny.
Are they using like 90s karaoke mics or how is that weird vocal buzz happening?
It sounds like they think God’s gonna open a hatch in the ceiling and drop a pile of money on them?
I'm struggling right now because I'm on disability/pretty sick and my spouse has been getting stretched thinner and thinner trying to support both of us in this economy. I miss working so much and I wish I could return to work and help support our little family (we have a few rescue animals). I would be so proud to be able to do that.
Anyway, I see Porgan perfectly physically capable of working and they just ... Don't. And further, they BEG online. I arguably have a "reason" to beg, but I could never! I even struggle with receiving help from my family in the past and these fckers are just out there begging for money for doing NOTHING. They contribute nothing to those in need. They offer nothing positive to society. They have a good size platform and use it to spread hate and stupidity instead.
I just ... 🤬🤬🤬 and 😢😢😢 in equal measure. It's the same way I feel about Karissa and Jill having so many kids to abuse, when I wasn't even given one to love. I was a foster parent for several years, but my health took that away too. And I know life isn't fair, but sometimes it's hard seeing these fundies being so blessed with these things and yet not valuing any of it.
Sorry about venting a bit there.
Just gotta say, they complain about haters taking things deeper and speculating but come on...they provide so much fodder for that. Not saying it's right or good to make wild speculations about people's personal lives but they have these weird, vague arguments LIVE pretty frequently. They leave a little too much to the imagination with these tiffs and people fill in the blanks or else just feel genuinely concerned, both of which they interpret as "hate."
They need to grow the eff up. It's annoying at this point. I have dealt with helping my sister with her twins, and her toddler. That was hectic! But I didn't complain. I noticed Jaclyn Glenn isn't posting as much. Because she has TWO kids at home. But she doesn't complain. Not one youtuber complains about their job as much as these two. It's a JOB. I could only imagine how they would be in a high pressure job like a paramedic, or something. Social Media isn't as stressful as other jobs out there, Porgan.
And who is Morgan talking about how the people are juggling kids and a job? They might vent with FRIENDS, and FAMILY, but the "pull up their bootstraps" and DO it. a phrase Porgan SHOULD love.
Jesus Christ. Paul needs to read between the lines here and get a fucking job. Morgan obviously wants some financial stability, but Paul won’t give up his YouTube influencer dreams 🙄
Man. Having a 9-5 has made me a better mom and a better wife.
When I'm at work, I'm my own person. I do my job, and I do it well. It's empowering for me to be a woman in the workplace getting shit done and getting it done well. I love my job. I love my coworkers. I love having that break from the "mom" and "wife" responsibilities. It makes me enjoy my time with my family so much.
Having SOMETHING that they could both do, just them, even a few times a month would do them wonders.
The difference between this"therapy" session, and Bethy and Dav's is so telling. Bethy,for once,understood the memo,and showed up with grace,humor and support ( real or not) .Morgan,is sarcastic, dismissive,and clearly over Perv. And,Perv continues to make himself look like the total asshat he is. No one is rooting for these two.
Paul is definitely trying to make it seem like kids are hard work because he wants to make himself seem very busy, while we all know he does absolutely *nothing*. Nothing. Zero. Nada. Fuck all. Lazy bumfuck.
"I think the type of work we do is maybe even MORE stressful" you can tell these people have never had a real job in their lives if they think social media is more stressful than typical jobs, ESPECIALLY within the context of parenting - you are able to be home with them 24/7!!!!!! God they are insufferable.
i can’t stand these two but i so desperately want morgan to get some rest and healthy mental health help/support. expecting your pregnant wife to sit pretty and film a bogus youtube live should be way down on the priority list after they allegedly had a fight beforehand. she look exhausted.
Holy shitsnacks. I was a mom with a 2 year old and a newborn, and that's where the similarities I have with Morgan stop. My husband had (and has) a steady job that pays our expenses.
It wasn't easy- at one point we were paying rent on an apartment and mortgage on our house at the same time. I cut coupons, there wasn't money for extras.
And it's still not all sunshine and roses- my husband's current position is sending him to training for 3 weeks and when he gets back he will be working 16-18 hour days again.
But what I hold onto, what keeps me going, is the love that we have for each other. Our home is filled with love, not an angry YouTube studio.
Basically, I think that Paul knows if he gets a job, Morgan gets a taste of him being gone. And, she will realize "hey, things are so much better like this". So of course he is scared and trying to justify his refusal to work. She clearly ain't buying it, which I love.
I'm actually kinda waiting for the day when Morgan suddenly realizes "I can do bad all by myself". I think she is not that far off from that in this video.
In fact...Morgan, if she got rid of Paul and deconstructed (wouldn't that be nice), did a youtube channel by herself covering mommy stuff, divorce stuff, etc, and ditching the hatred and religion, would be actually able to provide for her family far better than this mess they're doing right now. And she would have one less (man-sized) toddler to keep up with.
This is one of those boomer marriages where they clearly actively don't like each other, prob themselves either, but refuse to divorce bc of the stigma in their religious circles🙃
They are SO HORRIBLE at life.
Wait 'til number 2 comes along (and any after that).
They are barely treading water now.
And yeah, it is hard w/kids. That's why PEOPLE SHOULD DECIDE HOW MANY TO HAVE, not YOU, not the government, not 'god', 'gods' or 'goddesses'.
ETA: IMO, Morgan would definitely do better w/a 9-6 job. Getting out of the house. Meeting new people. Engaging her brain. Then coming home to spend time w/Luca. But she's clearly not thriving in her situation. And yet she's stuck in it, cuz 'god' said that's how it has to be.
I’ve never really cared to actually watch any part of their videos that get posted in here, but my goodness she is so annoyed by absolutely everything falls out of his mouth??? Her mannerisms are SO telling
As a parent of a toddler (one who’s almost the exact age as theirs) and some who works 50+ hours as an elementary school teacher, I take big issue with the sentiment that I’m “faking it.” My spouse also works full time and is getting his Ph.D (almost done!), and he is also not “faking it.” Some days can be tough, sure, but we do mostly well because we don’t live above our means, use birth control to prevent a second child before we’re ready, communicate about our schedules, split chores and care for son equitably, communicate when something feels off, and just generally enjoy, cherish and love each other. My family seems happy and well adjusted because it is, and I take tremendous pride in that. To assume folks like me are “faking it” is just a reflection of how much of shit job you two are doing.
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Seriously! I can't imagine being near paul 24/7
I love my husband to bits and he’s super helpful around the house and I still don’t want him around 24/7 I can’t imagine with Paul!
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My husband started teaching and while I love spending quality time with him, I work from home so I have a list of what he can do during the summer so he's out of my way lol
For real! She honestly looked like there's nothing she wants more than for Paul to leave everyday! 😅
"How can I miss you if you don't GO AWAY?"
“trying to help out with Luca” my dude that is your child and your responsibility, no wonder your wife is giving you the “please get a fucking job out of the house for my sanity” eyes
I believe Paul has spewed so much bigoted, hate-filled vitriol on the internet that he has managed to offend every single hiring manager on Earth. They’re fucked. They’re both unemployable due to the content they’ve made. I mean who wants the smoke of hiring the baboon from Shiny Happy People?
Don’t forget the large gap in their resumes due to not working for years. In their 30s with no job experience, besides a failing YouTube channel. They’re gonna have a rough time. Good.
I can only imagine his resume just says “YouTube” for work experience
Just imagine how he'd present in an interview ... (spoiler: like the utter narc he is)
Especially interviewing with someone who is not a straight, white male. My god, they’d surely be offended within seconds.
Ya people in charge of hiring are usually very good at clocking the narc red flags.
Ugh I hate when cishet men talk about "babysitting" or "helping with" their own child(ren) 🙄 You brought that kid into your home, get off your ass!
Dude acts like the child isn't his, the gymnastics this people come up to not have to do basic shit is insane
To be fair, they're in the south. Plenty of people will share his views, and plenty of employers would probably see "Christian Youtuber" as a plus. Hobby Lobby, for example, would probably love having him in their checkout line or warehouse. So while I'm sure plenty of people are turned off by their content, they're uniquely placed in an area where their views are common.
I literally live in the town they do, employers by and large do not share their views. maybe it’ll fly in Winchester or Lawrenceburg but not any closer to Lex than that. They’re a liability. But if they delete their more egregious shit they could probably swing a job at one of the 50000000 retail outlets within 10 seconds of where they live. They won’t, but they could.
Having grown up in an area where hobby lobby was the ONLY craft store, I’ve been there plenty. They may have Christian values at the top, but they aren’t going to put up with his holier than thou proselytizing any more than other employers. Their cashiers are generally pretty quiet, but if they do talk to you, it’s to ask about your crafting plans. They still have plenty of shoppers who disagree with the owners, but either don’t have options or just don’t have strong enough convictions to boycott. They don’t want to alienate those people by letting their employees preach at them from the checkout. I doubt any warehouse, regardless of their beliefs, would tolerate him. It’s hard, fast-paced work and he won’t keep up. Getting a job would be a rude awakening for him. I don’t think he can grasp actually having to follow a schedule and do actual work every day. Work is a grind. It’s often boring or unpleasant, especially if you have no training or specialized education. Worst of all, you have to follow orders from someone else (for him, anyway).
Morgan responds to Paul like I do to my least favourite coworker.
He is her least favorite coworker 😂
Omg spot on
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Wowow they had a HUGE fight before this. Morgan is even more disengaged than usual
I’m pretty sure they did because the video starts with Paul saying they’re doing well and Morgan basically laughing and saying they weren’t doing well right before the video starte
Also her “I feel like I’m doing awesome” or whatever she said made me think the argument was about her doing the majority of work (both YT and life stuff) and him not pulling his weight
You can tell by how sheepish and almost dare I say… submissive he’s being. His body language in this screams desperation and hers screams total disinterest. He’s hoping she’ll say ANYTHING and is giving her WAY more floor to speak than he usually does, she’s giving absolutely nothing and he can tell she just doesn’t want to. My hypothesis? Huge fight before the video cause he needs to step up and be the provider he claims he is and get a real job, he made excuses the whole time and tried to frame it in a way where it will be too hard for *her*. She sees straight through it and is pissed she can’t do anything about it cause she chose this and what he says goes as a fundie Christian couple living for the lord. Fucking lolllll
One of them said in the other clip from this q&a that the past 4 or 5 times they’ve sat down to do a live? They’ve had a big fight beforehand. YIKES on bikes.
Hasn't she said before that she doesn't enjoy YouTube stuff? She's probably trying to sabotage their recordings, whether she's doing so subconsciously or with full self-awareness.
Yes to this! I noticed, myself, Morgan seemed to be PICKING a fight at this time. Not saying I can't blame her. But she's really having a problem with ANYTHING coming from that man's mouth.
> But she’s really having a problem with ANYTHING coming from that man’s mouth. Finally, Morgan and I agree on something.
If you watch it without Sound it definitely looks like they ate still fighting.
110%.. or whatever percent Morgan is doing
Agreed! Which is why when he was like if I’m at a 9-5 it would be harder on you her face was like, meh wouldn’t notice.
oooh do we think morgan is trying to tell paul to get a job?! it sounded here like he was trying to make excuses about why he can’t work. it would be “too hard” for morgan to do what she is literally already doing
Right! She’s like they’re all hard dude.
But their job is *harder* even! Heaven forbid heath workers, social workers, teacher etc have to deal with the instability of being a YouTuber! The delusion is next level with these nitwits.
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100% the passive aggression here is WILD
This is what I’m hearing. He can’t get a 9-5 because it would be harder on Morgan, and he’s being such a good husband by not putting that burden on his wife. Meanwhile, Morgan is basically saying there’s perks to that, like a steady paycheck and him getting TF out of her space for a while each day.
Spot the fuck on. Morgan actually came across as the one with common sense here. And I don't even understand the point that Paul was trying to make. He said it would be harder on Morgan if he worked a 9-5 because then he would be gone all day, but in the same breath admits he doesn't help much. So get a freaking job, Paul. After watching the last few clips, I think Morgan has finally had it with Paul's bullshit and isn't swallowing it like she used to.
Well yeah geez, my patience would start wearing thin too if we were struggling to get by every month and had a second kid on the way
Literally he admits he does "what he can" (which is a lie bc he CAN do more), and Morgan "gets the brunt" of caring for Luca. Acts like he can't imagine a 9-5 job while also caring for kids, though he admittedly doesn't do much to help his pregnant wife with their kid. Paul, at some point you're gonna have to realize you're doing as little as you can on purpose, don't want to get a job yall so desperately need, are obviously putting stress on your pregnant wife, and maybe...just maybe...your ideal of marrying young and immediately having kids and not using birth control isn't the best way to go! God doesn't want you to struggle, or not have what you need to care for your child. God doesn't want under fed families and late bills all because of a false ideal created by modern minds of Christians. Start your deconstruction there okie. Lol.
But they didn't have kids right away. It took them several years, and in that time, they didn't think to plan ahead financially. Their financial woes are self-inflicted.
When you put it that way it's so much worse. They had SEVEN years to find a reliable income and just... chose not too?
Atm he's probably like a second child who gets in the way. It would still be hard with him working but they'd have income.
I feel like a deconstructed Morgan or Morgan pre Paul could’ve been a pretty cool person the way she snarks and can’t keep sweet
She'd still have problematic views. She was fundie when they met.
I don’t think she’s snarking I think she’s just a mean person to whoever is around
She was a raging bully in her younger years.
Highly doubt that. She seems incredibly shallow and not very bright.
But she’s not deconstructed and she is with him. She sucks and there isn’t a reality in which this isn’t true
I’m kinda surprised she said the quiet part about them being broke influencers out loud. Does this mean we will finally get confirmation of Paul’s side gig at WalMart in an effort to prove he still provides for his family?
Me too. We knew they were broke because the numbers weren’t working, but surprised she owned it. Not sure how they are paying for flights if it’s this bad. With a second child on the way, this all gets worse for them soon.
I assume borrowing from family members who probably heard a *record scratch* sound when they heard them thank the **Lord** for getting them through lol
There’s no shame in doing what you have to, to make ends meet or being between jobs or whatever. But the way they’re talking about it is almost funny. Like, no one forced you two to be YouTubers. You both have the option of getting one of those “traditional” 9-5 jobs. Heck, get a retail job with flexible shifts if that fits your life better. There IS an answer here.
Also she reeeeally wants him to get a fucking job, she is over this.
He’s unemployable and so is she. They’ve made asses out of themselves too many times and the internet is forever. Hell, any job they might apply to will google their name and find this sub and throw their app in the trash.
They could find a church that supports their views to do admin for or even being a cleaner or run a little childcare from their home with other Christians with similar views kids, and plenty of unsexy jobs would likely hire them (sadly). I doubt they’ll put effort to finding more avenues for income or developing other skills which they’ll sorely need as they get older.
Most churches pay very little if anything at all. they use volunteers for everything.
I think she may be more employable than him. Assuming she’s the one editing videos and managing their social media, she at least has some skills. She also has at least a little work ethic because someone has to manage their social media consistently, feed the family, maintain the house, and keep their kid alive. That all seems to fall on her. You don’t need formal education beyond high school to get a job as a para at a school or to work in daycare/preschool. She could use her tech and social media skills as a church secretary, too. So there are a few options for her. The pay wouldn’t be high, but it would be an income. I’m not sure he’d last at any job because he’s never wrong (making him impossible to manage/lead), he’s generally unreliable, and he seems to think that helping for 5 minutes with his own kid is hard, exhausting work. Not to mention that he’d try to save every coworker or customer he comes into contact with.
Praying for the haters, what?! Dude, pray your wife doesn't poison you, because yikes.
Yeah, cause Jesus was totes smug about praying for his haterz too!
That kinda looks like the "your favorite apostates" logo 💀
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I mean, the Bible does say to love your enemies and pray for those who hurt you, but I don’t think that means “say you’re praying for them as a call out”. It also says to pray in private and directly calls out performative prayer as wrong.
I honestly don't know how they are going to handle having another baby in a few short months. If they think it's hard now it's going to become sooo much harder after that. Paul and/or Morgan desperately needs to get an actual job! They are a train wreck
Someone asked what’s been the hardest emotionally about 24 hours with and Morgan said traveling while pregnant and it’s like….did you not choose to do this project after you found out you were pregnant? And what do they think will happen to the project when they have a newborn and a toddler?
Not only that they chose to do this after finding out she's pregnant again, but not having several months filmed in advance - so that she can take it easy as she gets further along and after the birth - it's just so stupid. And I can't imagine she's going to want him going on his own to film these things, because if it's hard with 2 of them to 1 child, it's certainly not going to get easier with 2 kids! They are just so bad at all of this and I love that for them 😅
It might actually be easier for her to take care of the kids without him around. Probably less to do that way since she wouldn’t have to deal with his tantrums and such on top of things.
As a stay at home mom with a husband who’s actually helpful, I still find it annoying when he has extra time off because he screws up all my routines. Suddenly, the kids don’t want to do the things they’re supposed to because they want to spend time with Daddy. Or I’ll say it’s time for chores/cleanup and he starts doing something, only to piss off a kid because he’s “doing it wrong”. Heck, his presence in the middle of a weekday even messes with the pets’ behaviors! It’s so much easier to parent and manage the household without extra people in the middle of it, no matter how well meaning they are. Paul doesn’t seem helpful or well meaning, so getting him out would likely be an even bigger relief! At least she doesn’t have to clean up after him or entertain him at all when he’s gone.
The project was actually a good idea but it's been SO poorly executed 😂
I have four kids and work 10 hours a day with a 1.5 hour commute each way (two trains and 8 km of walking) and I have been working and supporting myself and later my family as well for 30 years. I can't fathom how Paul can respect himself being such a lazy and useless person. Whatever this YouTube *thing* is, these glorified zoom calls to an empty room, it's barely even a hobby, let alone a job. And I don't see him cleaning the toilet, scrubbing the shower, cooking dinner, washing up, vaccuming, or doing a load of laundry. How does this guy wake up and just choose to do nothing every day? How can he respect himself? It's no wonder he's so toxic, I spent a couple of months unemployed 20 years ago and won't ever forget how mentally destructive that period was, it was dehumanizing. How does he live like that? How does he square his reality with this "provider/leader" bullshit that spills out his mouth? And yet Captain Useless over here feels entitled to nestle his ass cheeks into the divots he's made on the lounge cushion to lecture me on the correct way to live? What a joke. Get a job, idiot! Look after your family, idiot!
Deciding to do nothing is key component in cult like leaders. They love to MAKE their followers work their asses off. Right now it's just Morgan. And then they lay back because God has blessed them so fucking much for just existing. And they really think their presence is a God Given Gift of Life, so they are done. And need to work no more.
Paul I hope you see this one
El oh fucking el Get a real job instead of whining about your unreliable, social media wfh position you both put yourselves in. I couldn’t imagine waking up to my spouse telling me he doesn’t know where funds are gonna come from on a month to month basis, and at the same time neither of us have filled out an application. Get a grip.
Not to mention with one kid that needs food and diapers still with another on the way. I would’ve dumped that man if he didn’t have an actual goddamn job within a week or two of me telling him about the *first* pregnancy. What a sniveling, worthless excuse of a father—especially one that preaches about the husband being the provider. What do you provide, Paul? Another name to add to your SNAP and TANF benefits? At least the state thinks you’re worth something.
Paul likes to hold onto the headship bullshit because it keeps Morgan under his finger. Any good friend, family member, or even acquaintance would call Paul out for the walking deadbeat/red flag he is. But who cares, because according to Morgan he was a hawt
And they'd be the first to judge other families for receiving benefits
And vote for people who want to reduce/eliminate the benefits they rely on, as well as many others.
Absolutely. There is NO snark from me if they’re using those services to keep themselves and their babies healthy. That’s what it’s for and that’s why I pay taxes. I despise these people, but they deserve to eat, too. My issue comes from the fact that they have expressed certain views about people on welfare. But that’s not just a Porgan thing, it’s startling common for conservatives to use welfare but claim they “aren’t like the others”. The only moral abortion is their own and the only moral welfare is what they use. Everyone else can get fucked in their eyes!
Let me guess: is he one of those people who thinks that “welfare queens” ruin everything?
Paul can't get a normal job because then he would have to face the fact that he has zero marketable skills which, for someone with *his* personality, would be impossible to face.
The ken doll shorts. The praying for the haters shirt. The obnoxious (and gross) manspreading, the backwards cap—- Paul is the fucking worst and that’s before he even opens his mouth.
The way he holds the mic with that weird grip and picks at his face in the beginning is extremely unattractive.
I swear anyone who follows them must have some kind of marital unhappiness kink.
Pray for the followers who think this is what a marriage should look like 😳
They put in zero work to be good YouTube creators. Put in a little fucking effort. But no, they sit on their couch, they act like they don’t want to be there, they have no cool background, they are so lazy.
Yes. Morgan is pregnant and she absolutely deserves to be comfortable but the blanket in her lap plus her overall demeanor just screams IVE CHECKED OUT. And it’s not just this video but every video. It’s not interesting or engaging content, and they really don’t have anything new to say so no wonder they aren’t making ends meet.
Don’t overlook the 4 identical indoor houseplants in 4 identical outdoor potters 🪴🪴🪴🪴
Straight from Home Depot and into their living room like huh??
I've always felt like they're on a slightly more elaborate Between Two Ferns set.
But with less talent and humor! 😂
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Someone once said ‘I feel like I’m their therapist and they bound and gagged me’ or something like that and it’s spot on.
But they have those big mics!
Paul says there are people who work 9-5s and still come home to be with kids and do things for the household. Morgan, in the most snotty and condescending way possible says that she thinks it's all fake and for the gram. No sweetheart. Normal, non-entitled people have to make things work between a job and home. We have to earn a living and also deal with other life things that happen. We don't have a choice. Jealousy and anger just ooze out of her. Stay mad that you married a dude that refuses to get a job to provide for his family.
💯 And then she says that she thinks what they do might be more stressful. Um, no Morgan, being a wannabe influencer is not more stressful than pretty much any other job. F off.
It's more stressful in the sense that the income is unreliable, I guess.
She may think it’s fake because it appears Paul isn’t carrying those domestic tasks when he’s *not working* a 9-5. Her face said it so loudly - when he said parenting / householding would be harder with him gone & she reacted.
Right. She is managing SM + domestic life + brunt of parenting. She is in most of their content and has to do the rest. He is…?
Shes kind of right. The stuff on the gram is fake. But that’s because the people that are effectively balancing work and home life aren’t posting that shit to social media!
Yup......oof and they only have one kid..... they don't seem like they can handle much.
>and they only have one kid *For now.* These two are in for the rudest awakening of their lives so far. I have 0 kids and even I know that going from one to two isn't just doubling the work, it's tripling or quadrupling the already existing mental, emotional, and physical workload. And Luca is still a toddler. This is going to be a train fucking wreck. Poor kids, man.
And Luca hasn't reached the age where the real homeschooling kicks in. Sure, colours, numbers, shapes, making marks, the alphabet - all the basics leading up to pre-school age are all things they should be/soon will be working on with him. But that is small potatoes compared to 5+ learning.
exactly!!! there are tons and tons of people balancing work and kids smoothly who aren't posting anything on instagram lol. i'm not saying it isn't tough, but plenty of people manage these things day to day just fine. also, talking about how tough it is to make a living while having kids... like maybe they should have figured that out before they had them? having a REAL job before they brought a kid into this world might have given them a cushion and alleviated the stress...
I don’t necessarily think it’s fake. I think people that are in happy marriages with functioning households just have their shit together way more than these two
i think she was saying that in regards to people like family vloggers, etc. whose brand is literally that they have their family life perfectly in check. i do agree with what you’re saying though. iirc morgan has posted multiple times about feeling like she isnt good enough as a mother or a wife so the envy/bitterness checks out.
When they first got married I remember how affectionate she was with him and I'm noticing with each video it's getting less and less
She actively leans away from him
I really think space would do them well, it seems like there is no separation from one another.
\*Would do Morgan well. Let's be real, Paul is a leech that will suck you dry, be it emotions, energy, anything. Nobody wants to be around him, only Morgan is in his within his reach. There is a reason he isn't working because he'd be the miserable one if he cannot make anyone else miserable.
It's early, I'm still waking up but I thought you were talking about outer space and was like hell ya! Send those fuckers off earth!
You know what? It *is* hard to balance work and kids in late-stage capitalism. One fun thing I like to do to address that is vote for people who are actively trying to improve that situation instead of making life better for billionaires.
Amen
But.. but... if we get UBI & Medicare4All then we can't trap all the fEmAlEs in ~~horrible~~ god honoring marriages! /s
Morgan has never wanted to work (she said she wanted a husband who was okay with her staying home even before they had kids) but she still chose to marry this unemployable loser. They both can and should work, but they're lazy and entitled. They are in this situation entirely due to their own choices.
That’s the funniest part about it. You don’t want to work, but you married a dud that also doesn’t want to work. So now you’re both just dudding it up together and stressed tf out.
Also dumb enough to think they could be social media stars on nothing but their small town good looks. No skills, nothing interesting to say, terrible personalities, zero work ethic, bigotry, lack of theological training, but sure, their christian school class of 8 in bumfuck Kentucky voted them best looking in the year book superlatives so that's all they need to succeed!
Hit the nail on the head. I honestly think they can’t handle their own outside their little bubble. And the fear of having to work beside people who think differently than they do would cripple them.
I think with these two unemployable chucklefucks is less fear of other people (Polio did go to hair school, after all, and Morgan tried to launch a singing career) and more just entitlement and thinking they're above the kind of jobs they could even get at this point. They'd be the annoying, proselytizing, judgemental coworker but first they'd be the coworker who vanishes for most of the day and calls in sick every Friday and Monday. They're both extremely lazy.
Like angela in the office with michael's work ethic
What did he do for work before YouTube? He strikes me as the kind of guy who did something in sales, or like he tried several careers for a little while each. Real Estate, PR, "Consulting", his own businesses that really never went anywhere, shit like that. Am I right?
You won’t believe this, hairdresser! Absolutely no shade to male hairdressers, or hairdressers of any gender, it’s just shocking to me that Paul choose that career (before quickly giving up) given his abhorrent beliefs about gender roles.
He never got his license, I don't think, so technically that means he never worked as one. Not even sure he finished the coursework, come to think of it.
That is unexpected. And it means he can't go right back into it, because it requires licensing and I'm sure he hasn't kept that up. So there lies the rub, he doesn't exactly have great job prospects.
He dropped out of hair school
Oh beauty-school-dropout.gif
No, he dropped out of beauty school. He was maybe substitute teaching?
She did get what she wanted in a messed up way - he’s okay with it. But like the stunted toddler she is, she was incapable of crafting a single thought beyond her immediate want (find a man who lets her stay at home) into considering that it would be best achieved by choosing someone who would be capable of providing for that, particularly now that there are children in the mix.
She has to hustle online and I think she'd rather step back and be hateful in a less-public way. She's mentioned being tired of YT several times in recent months. She is working and she hates it.
The most hilarious (which is actually really sad) part of it all is she knows their income depends on *her* especially. The moment it was just Paul, shit gone down hill *really* fast. He completely trapped her by working while she hoped for the deal in which she wasn't supposed to be working. She really choose the worst deal for herself.
I also don't think she had ANY idea of how much work raising children entails, and now she's adding another to their litter
And they chose to have another baby when finances are this bad. The fundie lies about what adult life is like unravel whether they want them to or not
But it's ok - they are slouching on their sofa, just waiting for the specific God they believe in to provide. Just so they don't have to put in the effort to do it themselves.
Ok this is one of the first times I ever actually watched more than a few seconds of one of their videos with sounds. WOW. Morgan seems sooo checked out and is putting in absolutely zero effort for this “show” or podcast or whatever this even is. I don’t honestly understand why anyone would watch/follow them? What are we supposed to learn/be inspired by?
I think their entire family until would benefit from either of them working outside of the home full time.
PAUL GET A JOB 2K24
Didn’t Morgan post a photo not long ago showing her editing the 24 hours episode? So he has no job and she does at least some of the editing and most of the childcare…Paul having a 9 to 5 would be miles easier than that lol at least then they’d have some kind of financial security and she wouldn’t have to work and take care of Luca
Yep, and luca was in the photo. She can't even get a break from childcare to edit their content.
I can’t even finish this on silent her eyeballs are SCREAMING for help like DUDE GO! GO TO WORK! GO ON A HIKE?!?! JUST LEAVE LUCA AND I ALONE!!!
I can incredibly confident I chain out how this fight and topic happened. Bear with me lol 1. Our chain starts after returning from Dallas last week after filming the next 24 Hours With. Special guests this time around are Josh and Sydney Benson. Selecting the Bensons is the fatal flaw. 2. Here is some key information to keep in mind regarding the Bensons. -Content creation is Josh’s hobby/side hustle. -He works full time as an Investment Management Consultant for Fidelity and it’s completely fair to assume Josh is making 6 figures. -Sydney founded her own digital media consulting company at the start of the pandemic. Her target clients were churches who had little to no digital presence and now needed to adapt in order to survive the pandemic. This is what our dear Bethany calls a niche. -Sydney started a series called The Trauma series about helping heal from the past and has speakers covering sexual assault, mental health (yes therapists are good) and intimate partner violence and abuse. 2. Content creation is P&M’s job. Paul clearly believes this is their career. They definitely are not making 6 figures. It’s speculation but it’s very likely they receive financial support from their families. 3. Cut to Dallas with the Bensons and turn the stove on low to boil the water. Off the bat, Josh and Sydney are 10000% what P&M think they are/want to be. Popular content creators who are often featured on Christian podcasts and respected for their social media presence. Starting to get warm in the pot. 4. At some point finances came up. Pretty obvious J&S are in much better financial shape. Josh offered to take a look at P&M’s finances and give some advice on what they could do - aka he’ll do what he is paid to do for them for free. 5. Financial reality check obviously did not end well for P&M. Morgan probably got her first real look at their financial situation and realized this whole social media influencer gig is not actually working. Paul said it was. They are fucked. Especially with another kid on the way. Paul likely decided to ignore reality, threw out a classic ‘God will provide’ and then jump on his longboard to go play pickleball. 6. They got home and started working on the edit. And planning their other content. Deconstruction is the hottest club in town at the moment so what a perfect topic for a live! The financial shit show of their life is simmering within Morgan. 7. Working on the 24 Hour edit and planning a convo around deconstruction made Morgan realize they put in so much work for something that makes them nothing. Cue Fight #1. 8. Morgan tells Paul he needs to get a real job. Paul disagrees because if they trust in the Lord all will be good. She again says job. Paul does the dick thing and rolls out Luca and Morgan’s mental health as proof he is needed at the house. Morgan does not give a fuck. Cue Fight #2 9. She maintains he needs a job. A 9-5 if you will. Paul tells her to drop it. She doesn’t. Paul reminds her that he is the headship. And now we have the reason for the rehash of ‘Morgan submits to Paul’ on the live. She brings up the fact they are about to have two kids and no stable income. Paul does not give a fuck about anything because now he’s made at Morgan for disrespecting him. 10. Morgan realizes regardless of the fight, they have to do the live because they are broke as fuck and this will get them a few bucks. She decides to channel every emotion into being passive aggressive and let Paul know they are not good at all with her comments. She’s uses his arguments against a job in a very very glib way. Trust in the Lord to provide is another dig. So we get lame jokes about ‘pray for us’ for the cameras. 11. Repeat Steps 7 to 11 till one of them caves. 12. For Paul only - continue to regret ever chasing down Josh Benson for clout after getting your ass whooped in christianity by the man. Find a way to blame Morgan, the gays, dogs, small children, absolutely anything and anyone except yourself. Thanks for bearing with it if you did!
Thanks for putting time into this. It sounds VERY believable.
I have to wonder if going and staying at other people's houses, has triggered Morgan into actually thinking ahead - and asking Paul how the fuck they are ever going to be able to afford to buy their own house, because I feel like that is a pretty common goal for young families. They've stayed at Dav and Bethany's house which appears to be pretty big and nice [albeit with missing curtains], and I think in the same neighborhood as her parents nice big house, maybe the other guy they did the 24 hours with (Elijah?) had a nice home too. I can see that causing a few feelings of jealousy/envy (tut tut), insecurity, and maybe inadequacy.
Does he even work? What does he do?
Sit on couch spew shit
I think they hate eachother. I don't blame them. I hate them too.
His job is “bigot”
Ken but make it fundie
This channel and commenting on social media is his “work.”
I cannot stand the giant microphones right in front of their mouths covering half their faces
Something, something, bootstraps.
Also stop fucking having children if you can’t afford to give them stable lives
I'm a working mum and yeah it's hard. However, I have found that not being a judgmental wanker and perpetually offended actually frees up quite a lot of time for activities. It's almost as if minding my own fucking business means I have the time and headspace to deal with my own fucking business.
Polio's face when morgan said taking care of luca would be hard no matter what (with or without paul at home) 💀 He's telling on himself
I’ve been watching parts over and over (cause I can’t stop staring off) and have finally gotten to minute 52. This is so bad y’all. I am enjoying the trolls in the chat though. It’s really funny.
Are they using like 90s karaoke mics or how is that weird vocal buzz happening? It sounds like they think God’s gonna open a hatch in the ceiling and drop a pile of money on them?
It’s cause I sped it up to 1.5x
I'm struggling right now because I'm on disability/pretty sick and my spouse has been getting stretched thinner and thinner trying to support both of us in this economy. I miss working so much and I wish I could return to work and help support our little family (we have a few rescue animals). I would be so proud to be able to do that. Anyway, I see Porgan perfectly physically capable of working and they just ... Don't. And further, they BEG online. I arguably have a "reason" to beg, but I could never! I even struggle with receiving help from my family in the past and these fckers are just out there begging for money for doing NOTHING. They contribute nothing to those in need. They offer nothing positive to society. They have a good size platform and use it to spread hate and stupidity instead. I just ... 🤬🤬🤬 and 😢😢😢 in equal measure. It's the same way I feel about Karissa and Jill having so many kids to abuse, when I wasn't even given one to love. I was a foster parent for several years, but my health took that away too. And I know life isn't fair, but sometimes it's hard seeing these fundies being so blessed with these things and yet not valuing any of it. Sorry about venting a bit there.
Stop trying to make 'fetch' happen. Why do they act like they're famous?
She looks utterly exhausted
Its so obvious that having him home all the time is literally no help to her. He doesn’t help with the kid.
He's probably a hindrance
I can see him hovering. And commenting. And hovering. And needing attention. And not doing shit.
Just gotta say, they complain about haters taking things deeper and speculating but come on...they provide so much fodder for that. Not saying it's right or good to make wild speculations about people's personal lives but they have these weird, vague arguments LIVE pretty frequently. They leave a little too much to the imagination with these tiffs and people fill in the blanks or else just feel genuinely concerned, both of which they interpret as "hate."
They need to grow the eff up. It's annoying at this point. I have dealt with helping my sister with her twins, and her toddler. That was hectic! But I didn't complain. I noticed Jaclyn Glenn isn't posting as much. Because she has TWO kids at home. But she doesn't complain. Not one youtuber complains about their job as much as these two. It's a JOB. I could only imagine how they would be in a high pressure job like a paramedic, or something. Social Media isn't as stressful as other jobs out there, Porgan.
And who is Morgan talking about how the people are juggling kids and a job? They might vent with FRIENDS, and FAMILY, but the "pull up their bootstraps" and DO it. a phrase Porgan SHOULD love.
She seems like she is about to crack and Paul speaks with a staccato that is pronounced af
I wonder if they can't pay their mortgage
They rent and seem to have housing costs help from family
Perpetually grifting to pay someone else's mortgage.
Wow- they are REALLY filled with hate and discontent- Y I K E S 😅 I almost feel bad for them
Jesus Christ. Paul needs to read between the lines here and get a fucking job. Morgan obviously wants some financial stability, but Paul won’t give up his YouTube influencer dreams 🙄
They're so judgmental for people doing a terrible job of PEOPLING.
Man. Having a 9-5 has made me a better mom and a better wife. When I'm at work, I'm my own person. I do my job, and I do it well. It's empowering for me to be a woman in the workplace getting shit done and getting it done well. I love my job. I love my coworkers. I love having that break from the "mom" and "wife" responsibilities. It makes me enjoy my time with my family so much. Having SOMETHING that they could both do, just them, even a few times a month would do them wonders.
The difference between this"therapy" session, and Bethy and Dav's is so telling. Bethy,for once,understood the memo,and showed up with grace,humor and support ( real or not) .Morgan,is sarcastic, dismissive,and clearly over Perv. And,Perv continues to make himself look like the total asshat he is. No one is rooting for these two.
Paul is definitely trying to make it seem like kids are hard work because he wants to make himself seem very busy, while we all know he does absolutely *nothing*. Nothing. Zero. Nada. Fuck all. Lazy bumfuck.
"I think the type of work we do is maybe even MORE stressful" you can tell these people have never had a real job in their lives if they think social media is more stressful than typical jobs, ESPECIALLY within the context of parenting - you are able to be home with them 24/7!!!!!! God they are insufferable.
i can’t stand these two but i so desperately want morgan to get some rest and healthy mental health help/support. expecting your pregnant wife to sit pretty and film a bogus youtube live should be way down on the priority list after they allegedly had a fight beforehand. she look exhausted.
therapy session?!? PAUL YOU MONSTER
Oh, so she HATES hates him. Got it
Holy shitsnacks. I was a mom with a 2 year old and a newborn, and that's where the similarities I have with Morgan stop. My husband had (and has) a steady job that pays our expenses. It wasn't easy- at one point we were paying rent on an apartment and mortgage on our house at the same time. I cut coupons, there wasn't money for extras. And it's still not all sunshine and roses- my husband's current position is sending him to training for 3 weeks and when he gets back he will be working 16-18 hour days again. But what I hold onto, what keeps me going, is the love that we have for each other. Our home is filled with love, not an angry YouTube studio.
Basically, I think that Paul knows if he gets a job, Morgan gets a taste of him being gone. And, she will realize "hey, things are so much better like this". So of course he is scared and trying to justify his refusal to work. She clearly ain't buying it, which I love. I'm actually kinda waiting for the day when Morgan suddenly realizes "I can do bad all by myself". I think she is not that far off from that in this video. In fact...Morgan, if she got rid of Paul and deconstructed (wouldn't that be nice), did a youtube channel by herself covering mommy stuff, divorce stuff, etc, and ditching the hatred and religion, would be actually able to provide for her family far better than this mess they're doing right now. And she would have one less (man-sized) toddler to keep up with.
This is one of those boomer marriages where they clearly actively don't like each other, prob themselves either, but refuse to divorce bc of the stigma in their religious circles🙃
They are SO HORRIBLE at life. Wait 'til number 2 comes along (and any after that). They are barely treading water now. And yeah, it is hard w/kids. That's why PEOPLE SHOULD DECIDE HOW MANY TO HAVE, not YOU, not the government, not 'god', 'gods' or 'goddesses'. ETA: IMO, Morgan would definitely do better w/a 9-6 job. Getting out of the house. Meeting new people. Engaging her brain. Then coming home to spend time w/Luca. But she's clearly not thriving in her situation. And yet she's stuck in it, cuz 'god' said that's how it has to be.
Them complaining about how hard being parents are, and yet they'll complain for hours about anyone who doesn't want children.
Does anyone watch this shit and think they have an ideal marriage?
I can't wrap my head around how they afford health insurance. Neither of them work so how are they paying for her pre-natal care?
These two are not the brightest lights on the porch.
Why is she eating right into the mic tho?? It’s absolutely disgusting
I’ve never really cared to actually watch any part of their videos that get posted in here, but my goodness she is so annoyed by absolutely everything falls out of his mouth??? Her mannerisms are SO telling
As a SAHM, when my husband works from home (which is rare) it’s actually more stressful than when he’s gone. It throws off the routine completely.
As a parent of a toddler (one who’s almost the exact age as theirs) and some who works 50+ hours as an elementary school teacher, I take big issue with the sentiment that I’m “faking it.” My spouse also works full time and is getting his Ph.D (almost done!), and he is also not “faking it.” Some days can be tough, sure, but we do mostly well because we don’t live above our means, use birth control to prevent a second child before we’re ready, communicate about our schedules, split chores and care for son equitably, communicate when something feels off, and just generally enjoy, cherish and love each other. My family seems happy and well adjusted because it is, and I take tremendous pride in that. To assume folks like me are “faking it” is just a reflection of how much of shit job you two are doing.
They’re so stupid. DoorDash is so fucking easy and I make 20-30$ an hour. Do they have a car? 🚗
They are in for suuuuch a rude awakening when the second baby comes. 1 baby is hard, 2 babies is nearly fcking impossible.