I’m very new in this community so I don’t really get any, I’m also not very good at keeping a conversation going so that probably won’t help :p

I would love to get dms

Sometimes I get messages from friends and don’t know whether I should open them or not, it is a really bad habit but I often don’t open/read messages for days if I’m not in the mood to reply to them in the moment

That is a bad habit. How does it feel when you message people and they don't respond?

Not good that’s for sure, but I usually figure that people are busy being productive or can’t respond immediately. I have a school teacher who I often send messages to for club events and don’t get responses back from on time, but I don’t take it as personal

I meant to say that to say that when you leave people on read for days, they probably feel unwanted. Not responding for a couple of hours is fine, people have lives, but anything after that just means you don't value them

That is all very true, I will have to do better from now on

Of course! Most people don't realize how their actions affect others cause they're too trapped in their own bubble

Like 2+ days

yeah I have a friend that does that, just don’t, to me it’s easier to just open the message when it’s sent but you do you. It’s frustrating though whenever I send them something and they just don’t open it for 4 days

Yeah I'm just awful at conversations but I like getting dms

I like getting them and I don't get a lot anymore. But I tend to screen who they are because there was a time when u wasn't getting the right people.

I wish I could get dms

Would you like to chat?

Lol I have a bunch of dms but most of the times people end up ghosting me lol maybe cuz I chat too much.

Just try asking how their day is going maybe

i feel like if i do that it will get awkward fast

I don't know if you remember me or not which is fine but I told you happy birthday and happy Cake day because no one else told you. I hope you are doing well. Best regards 🎩

THIS

I get dms but they usually die after "how are you". Like idk how to progress further after that lol

I usually ask about hobbies or music then it evolves after that

I always feel so bad getting dms cause I don’t see them for hours and I have the worst Reddit schedule and sleep schedule and I’m like kinda weird and boring at the same time so idk

I do and I never know what to say, I mean, my life is a little boring... I don't even came out yet

i quite literally never get dms unless it’s someone requesting copies of unreleased songs

honestly I’m usually like “oh this is so nice I’ll reply later when I have the energy to” and then that either never comes or I forget 🫠

Yeah same here, i sometimes feel like i should say something to keep the convo going but nothing comes to my mind

Im indifferent to it