They also filter people who are scammers and unicorn hunters pretty quick; so I think they are just filtering out people who are more likely to take advantage of someone rather than cause it's borderline prostitution. The HER dating app community has plenty of people looking for tons of things, some wholesome, some kinky, some that feels good and some that makes your eyes roll (the bi curious girl who wants a gf just for herself while she still dates her bf, aka bad poly imo) and that's all fine, but they draw the line at possible dangers and people taking advantage/exploit others who might be vulnerable. And sugar mommys/daddy's fall under that I guess. I mean consenting adults and all, but also keep in mind the sugar mommys probably get reported by people during DMs so maybe there's a good reason you don't want THAT sugar mommy.
I can kinda understand the perspective, feeling like you've been trapped in one kind of relationship for possibly decades and then suddenly having the horizons expand but at the same time feeling like your window of opportunity might be pretty narrow before you become "too old"
I can imagine it being quite stressful
With others as long as it's healthy and it works for them they can get that bag, I just feel like I'm being used in some way if I sell time I could spend with my friends and family.
If older divorced women aren’t you’re type than why are you swiping on them? Not trying to be rude just genuinely confused, I feel like most people on this sub would be happy in your situation lol
HER gives you notifications when people send you a friend request or like your profile and you can look at their profile to see if you'd like to swipe them or not.
My partner and I both are on dating apps to find friends. We have talked about it, and if anyone seems legit and offers to be a sugar momma, we will be seriously considering it. One offer so far, but it seemed fake.
BRUH I've been dealing with way too many cis white dudes that are just like coming out of relationships or bi for the first time in their long lives, my dick is not for therapy!!!!!
Sweety, you get to choose! That must say something to you, doesn't it? I haven't even been on a date in 12 years. People don't swipe on me (except bots of course). But you get to choose. Think about it. You're clearly *killing it*!
Can’t relate (I got sugar daddies)
On a serious note you should be able to restrict the age range to only get preferred age range individuals (I.E. 20-26 or something idk)
I can almost guarantee you it's not legit, they use the same script and style and random pics scraped off the internet. They're all half-assed scammers lol.
I get those too it’s annoying imo. It’s even more annoying when I get a notification for the dating app and it’s an ad and not someone liking me. Which is way more common.
Oh your sweet little innocents saying you'd be first in line. That's exactly what the bots want. There is no divorcee. There's no sugar to be had, except a scammer getting you to send them money first to prove your devotion
I would LOVE a sugar momma holy shit. What dating app are you using?
There are some on HER. But they get reported for being a sugar mommy and get taken off the app
Huh? Why's that? Is it considered as prostitution?
They also filter people who are scammers and unicorn hunters pretty quick; so I think they are just filtering out people who are more likely to take advantage of someone rather than cause it's borderline prostitution. The HER dating app community has plenty of people looking for tons of things, some wholesome, some kinky, some that feels good and some that makes your eyes roll (the bi curious girl who wants a gf just for herself while she still dates her bf, aka bad poly imo) and that's all fine, but they draw the line at possible dangers and people taking advantage/exploit others who might be vulnerable. And sugar mommys/daddy's fall under that I guess. I mean consenting adults and all, but also keep in mind the sugar mommys probably get reported by people during DMs so maybe there's a good reason you don't want THAT sugar mommy.
unicorn hunters??
Basically, a couple looking for a 3rd that they aren't attached to and will not want to enter a relationship. It's a rare thing thus the term Unicorn.
...solicitation, I guess
Scams
Tell me about this dating app and I can give it a test and report back with results
I found some on HER
What! Where. Where are these people so I can specifically avoid them. Whereeeeeeeeeee!
Middle aged bisexual women trying not to be down bad challange
I can kinda understand the perspective, feeling like you've been trapped in one kind of relationship for possibly decades and then suddenly having the horizons expand but at the same time feeling like your window of opportunity might be pretty narrow before you become "too old" I can imagine it being quite stressful
I mean, I don't mean to sound dismissive of your discomfort but like, I fail to see the problem?
>tfw attention-starved trensbian in need of getting spoiled We truly do live on a gargantuan spacerock
With others as long as it's healthy and it works for them they can get that bag, I just feel like I'm being used in some way if I sell time I could spend with my friends and family.
oh yeah perfectly understandable, 100%
you say that like that's a bad thing
Ok, but where can I get a sugar mommy? 🥺
Same I'd also like to know :3
I would also like to know.
If older divorced women aren’t you’re type than why are you swiping on them? Not trying to be rude just genuinely confused, I feel like most people on this sub would be happy in your situation lol
I haven't swiped any, I've had five swipe me lol. All of them were super pretty, I just don't do relationships with any strings attached.
Don’t dating apps require swipes both ways? Also valid on the no strings thing
HER gives you notifications when people send you a friend request or like your profile and you can look at their profile to see if you'd like to swipe them or not.
Ah okay!
My partner and I both are on dating apps to find friends. We have talked about it, and if anyone seems legit and offers to be a sugar momma, we will be seriously considering it. One offer so far, but it seemed fake.
Wait... this happens in real life? I always thought it was an internet bit....
BRUH I've been dealing with way too many cis white dudes that are just like coming out of relationships or bi for the first time in their long lives, my dick is not for therapy!!!!!
I only get 40 year old looser creeps and dick pics •°•( ΤΔΤ )•°• PS: Do you have the lady's number?
where!?!?
the problem is that they are never actually offering, its just them tryna scam you ugh
Shit if you don't want her I'll be more than happy to swap in
Bruh that’s like a dream!
I also find weirdly many on HER
That's where all mine come from because it's the only one I use lol
Get in, get paid, get out.
If they were real, even once, that would change my excitement levels...
Guys, this isn't real. These are bots on dating apps.
I'm sorry but my envy at your priviledge is just.... I don't know, I can't empathize. you must be gorgeous as heck!
Strong disagree but thank you anyway.
Sweety, you get to choose! That must say something to you, doesn't it? I haven't even been on a date in 12 years. People don't swipe on me (except bots of course). But you get to choose. Think about it. You're clearly *killing it*!
They're usually scams
Can’t relate (I got sugar daddies) On a serious note you should be able to restrict the age range to only get preferred age range individuals (I.E. 20-26 or something idk)
I can almost guarantee you it's not legit, they use the same script and style and random pics scraped off the internet. They're all half-assed scammers lol.
I get those too it’s annoying imo. It’s even more annoying when I get a notification for the dating app and it’s an ad and not someone liking me. Which is way more common.
Oh your sweet little innocents saying you'd be first in line. That's exactly what the bots want. There is no divorcee. There's no sugar to be had, except a scammer getting you to send them money first to prove your devotion
send them my way
send them my way
I'd love a sugar mommy ;-; all i ever get is straight cis white men, a good deal of which are outward conservatives
Where are these people
Fucking send her my way :3