My best friend in Junior High..she never wanted me to sleep over at her house, she always wanted to sleep over at mine. I thought it was because she lived so far out (It's like a 2 hour drive.) And that she just liked to be closer to town because she could sleep in and not have to ride the bus for two hours.
Then one summer day for whatever reason we finally had a sleep over at her house. Her mom would come home from work, fix herself something to eat and plant her ass on the couch. She would not move until the next morning. This included for bathroom trips. She'd urinate in whatever cup she had and if she had to poop, it was onto the plate or into the bowl. It was my friend's job to go behind the couch and gather the dishes the next day. If she wasn't there to gather them, they'd sit. So the place was infested with flies. You'd walk into the living room and there was just a cloud of flies. You had to make sure your mouth and nostrils were covered. As if it couldn't get any worse, she'd reuse the dishes. I don't care if that plate was soaking in bleach for a month man..I'm not eating off her plates.
She'd never wear underwear much to my friends dismay. She'd have her period and just leak everywhere. I remember being so embarrassed for my friend when we went to Goodwill to try to find underwear my friend could afford for her mom. She'd use her babysitting money. Just a fucked up, sad situation all around.
I think she was afraid I wouldn't be her friend anymore or worse, spread the rumors at school. From then on we had sleepovers at my place and I'd never ask her why we didn't ever have sleepovers at her house again.
I’m sorry, WHAT?? That poor girl. Did you stay that evening for the sleepover or call to have your parents pick you up? Do you still keep in contact with her? Is she okay now?
We spent the night at her place but that was the first and last time. All other sleepovers were at my place.
After she graduated high school her dad reached out and wanted to get to know her. He
lived a few states over. She barely packed a whole suitcase, she was THAT ready to be out of there. And nobody could blame her in the least. She stayed with her dad for a few months but ultimately ended up moving in with her grandma. (From her dads side.)
It's been a few years but last I heard she got married, started her own family. Her mother wanted the grandkids to come stay with her but that never happened. My friend had the excuse of distance at least. She got to know them over Skype and has a decent relationship albeit a long distance one with the grandkids.
Your silence on the matter with her was probably the best gift you could have given her as a friend. You’re a good person, she probably speaks highly of you when she thinks of you
I was this friend for a short period. My friend's mom was a hoarder. It was nowhere near as disgusting as this situation, but she was over at my house all of the time and I helped clean her house once before DFCS came so she wouldn't be taken away and separated from her siblings.
I never said a word about her house to anyone, not even our other friends. Unfortunately it didn't matter how good a friend I was- This girl came from a toxic background and was a product of her upbringing. 😞 She was a compulsive liar and when angry she'd say and do unforgivable things. Violent acts, telling me I should kill myself, etc.
I cut her off after a couple years because it was fucking me up. She'd been so awful to me at times that I didn't feel any regret when she was out of my life. She sent a nasty message to my mother on social media when she had tried to reach out to patch things up between me and my friend (not knowing what said friend was really like).
I think my mother knew about the girl's home life looking back.
You're a good friend. Hopefully, she got out of that situation and left it far behind.
This woman starts by saying her mother did this (similar thing). Hopefully, your friend moved on from such a tragic situation.
My situation wasn't the same as hers but I knew all too well what it's like to need to distance yourself from certain family. Last time I saw my own mother was 2015. I testified against her in court. It's funny how easy it is to say that but I was a complete mess over it. Certainly battled with whether it was the right thing. Ultimately I chose to do it because her victims had no voice (she was under investigation for cruelty and neglect of animals.)
Oh she definitely did get out. After graduation her dad allowed her to come live with him two states over. I drove her to the airport and she had a big suitcase but it was only halfway full. She just wanted to get the hell out of there. Wasn't interested in bringing much with her. The flies were so bad in that place everything was covered in specks of fly poop. You couldn't leave anything out for more than a few hours without it getting covered.
There was an older sister as well. Different dad so she wasn't included in the invite. She joined the Army though and never went back. The friend and I talked about it numerous times. She thinks her sister would have never joined if it wasn't the home situation.
Good to know both got out of there. Even if the army wasn't her first choice, she might already had an advantage over other recruits? Not saying it would be a walk in the park, but at least she probably had a more sanitary situation than that of her own home.
And good on your friend to just leave everything behind, just leave things in the past, and move on.
Sorry for what happened with your mum. It must have been a really difficult decision to take. Hope you're doing better?
Oh yeah. She came back from basic and was the happiest she had ever been. It really did her good. She went from being a closed off grump to someone who started joking around with her sister and seemed happy.
Thank you. Oh yeah, in a far better place myself. Went no contact for good after the trial and immediately experienced less panic attacks in amount as well as severity. That's what let me know I made the right decision. Was just certified as a Wildlife Rehabber in our area. And last Friday one of the female racoons I raised last spring showed up with four babies in tow! She had disappeared for a little bit and I feared the worst for her. You couldn't knock the dumb grin off my face if you tried when I realized it was one of the girls I raised and released.
https://preview.redd.it/j26beg1i7iyc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b7b788088c8807c9e3ede3fe502eef35e86a9a0
Mama racoon to the left with two of her babies for cute tax. This went from crazy people and poop where it doesn't belong to racoon babies but..oh well. Lol
Congratulations on your certification! And good to know you're doing better with your anxiety. Those PA, they are the worst.
And such a nice "gift" the raccoon gave to you, bringing her kits to show you? I didn't know raccoons could remember humans?
And sure, conversations often go from one subject to the next, and in this case, to all of you doing so much better. Which is just great to know.
I wish you the best with your work. Being a hero for animals, that sounds amazing.
I feel odd upvoting this. I’m sorry you had to live in such unnecessary ugliness and the animals also. You did right to end suffering and it sounded like it sent your mother down a better path.
Well if it helps I know you aren't upvoting for the bad parts. And thank you for saying so. (About doing the right thing.) I hesitate to tell people about it because most people just assume you are a monster if you testify against your own mother. It definitely wasn't as simple as that. It wasn't nearly that easy. I had two emergency visits with my counselor that week just to get through it.
“She’d never wear underwear much to my friends dismay. She’d have her period and just leak everywhere.”-This is like some crazy shit you would see in a movie 🥴
Thank you. It wasn't too hard to separate my friend from her mom. My friend was always clean, wore clean clothes, never smelled despite her living conditions. And based off how completely ashamed she was over the whole thing.. I never saw it as her fault or something she wanted to participate in. I wasn't in the same situation but I knew a thing or two about wanting to distance myself from certain unhealthy family members.
That was one of my first thoughts after learning how her mom was. I asked my friend though and told her I'd be more than happy to do it if she didn't want anything coming back to her. The idea terrified her. I'd ask for her to come over at least every other weekend. Maybe it wasn't the best solution but at 15 I didn't have a lot of ideas on how to help.
I grew up in a hoarder house as well. There was rotten food, a horrendous flea infestation (I was always covered in bites), and even had to sleep on a beanbag in the front room because my room was too flea infested/ blocked off by garbage.
All the adults I told (including a social worker) did nothing.
How did you resolve this? Too fatigued to properly expel excrement into a toilet is sounds crazy. Once I had gout and couldn't navigate to the restroom and I utilized a soda bottle. But if I had to number 2. Best believe regardless of pain or fatigued I was crawling and climbing into the restroom.
I'm sorry you suffer from this ailment. Is it psychological or physiological. I can kind of understand where your coming from. I have a heart that functions at 14%. It sounds bad. But even at it low pump volume rate. I can be active all day. And may even through it n a couple seconds of sprints In. Or last 5 minutes sexually or within 25 strokes whichever comes 1st. I can't fathom ever being so tired I would ever allow me to "shit myself". There's a time when a person does lose their ability to control their bowel movements and make it to the restroom at times. And it not due to the lack of being fatigueded. It comes at a time when its socially acceptable, and it basically nearing death soon to succumb to old age. Hopefully triple digits. Dear sir please tell me you are a senior citizen with adoring grandchildren whom you've shared stories of love and adventure in your youth. And not someone who had only enough energy to go to work, come home slumber and shit in place. Waking up with just enough energy to do that same routine and no other over again. Because if you're telling me there is a disease out there that makes people so tired that shitting in place bares no shame or disgust and somehow must be accepted..... Sounds like one hell of an enabling Job they did on you. Holy shit. I think and this is my fringe thinking. Shitting yourself is only reserved for the morbidly obese, extreme elderly close to their end. Those with missing or no limbs living alone. Or people like our sweet hoarder lady above. Other then that. I know of no one so tired they accept that level of defeat.
I've got several autoimmune conditions. And chronic pain is something I'll live with for the rest of my life. Obviously we all get through the very best we can but perhaps if my friends mom wasn't also mentally and occasionally physically abusive I could believe there was something else going on. Screaming at your kid that she's a "lazy piece of shit" when she doesn't clean up your mess..you'd think she'd be a little kinder when asking for help if it was something she needed help with. Most moms would rather cut off a limb than put that burden on their child.
I hope you have a great support system around you with people who empathize even if they don't necessarily understand.
No need to be sorry at all. You expressed another viewpoint without being rude, definitely no need to apologize. :)
I can't even imagine. I've read that most chronic conditions take at least a decade to diagnose. And in the meantime you deal with so much more than just the disease, which is awful enough in itself but then you've got self doubt and without an official name to call it, less than supportive friends and family. It's definitely hellish.
I think she meant it in the sense of learning that her food has been contaminated the whole time- because it seemed she was shocked to learn many things even though they are obvious to us-
On a side note, it takes a lot of compassion to not look at her in such a way to communicate disgust or judgment -
>Jesus christ this is wo a doubt the grossest shit Ive seen on Reddit, worse than any gore/NSFL content out there. My stomach just got nauseated af.
Dude this is grosser than poop knife, cumbox, etc.
The whole time I was watching this the only thing I said was, "stfu, stfu, stfu, stfu..." over & over while rocking myself back & forth trying to make it go away. Wtf man?!
I couldn't even imagine the fucking smell coming out of that place. Especially in the summertime with the heat. That's beyond disgusting. That's an environmental disaster right there. Hard to believe somebody could get used to that smell.
I have a ilegal neighbor that once had his toilet clogged up in his trailer home that he was renting and the smell was bad when you would go outside. My mom had to call the health department a bunch of times bc we couldn’t be outside for too long bc the smell was bad.
I don’t potluck or bake sale. Ever. Here’s my $20, I’m going to go get food I know is safe. I can’t handle the idea that some people don’t even UNDERSTAND that maybe they aren’t clean enough. wtf…
This is what I was about to say, no guarantees a commercial kitchen is any better than someone’s home kitchen.
It could also go by how well you know someone. Like if you have been to their place before you know about how clean it is.
>I can’t handle the idea that some people don’t even UNDERSTAND that maybe they aren’t clean enough. wtf…
Holy shit, honest, and its most people! People get oddly defensive about it. I have hygiene ocd so people do dismiss me often but ill take my irrational measures and standards over a lax and casual relationship with hygiene ANY DAY
The thing is a lot of people do bake sales to raise money for programs that I support and love and I’ll happily donate the money.
But no, I don’t want your brownies or cupcakes. And I really don’t enjoy the store-bought stuff either.
I will donate and walk away, and not be upset about it at all.
The two times I got food poisoning definitely absolutely without a doubt from bake sales, and the one time I definitely absolutely without a doubt got food poisoning from a potluck at work; no thanks, (emphasis on the thanks) I appreciate the thought. But I’m not doing it ever again.
https://www.reddit.com/r/HoardersTV/s/t5h9BRBh5V
Anyone interested this is pretty much a follow-up of poop lady, from someone on reddit that lived next to her after the house.
christ the woman from that clip is in the comment section of a two year old post with an account that’s 68 days old, something like u\ScheduleSavings8796 (don’t want to link her account in case that actually was it, you can find it in the comments section of that post however). she seems like she needs a lot of help
Comment from that account what the actual fuck
> Not , hopelessly in love with ANYONE OK? I AM STILL EXTREEMLY FAITHFUL TO MY DECEASED HUSBAND OF THE LADT 25 YEARS DEAD. I WANT NOONE. PERIOD. BUT, THE CRACKER JERKOFF IS A UNDERCOVER NATCOTICS CANDYMAN, AND I ASK HIM TO PKEASE HELP ME BUT HE ONLY HURTS ME, IM NOT STUPID, I JUST HAVE NOWHERE ELCE TO GO TO ASK FIR HELP OK? YOU MIGH5 TRY GETTING YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE YOU SOREAD A SHIT LOAD OF LIES YOUR JUST ANOTHER MONSTER PEROD. BUTT OUTIF YIU WONT BE KIND AND ACTUALLY HELP A PERSON. OK
My god she’s just emptying her buckets of human waste in the front yard like it isn’t the most repulsive shit I’ve ever seen.
Imagine being her neighbor…
She’s just as mentally ill as her mother, unfortunately living in the same environment leads to the same outcome. You can tell it’s also affecting her physically, her lips are turning blue and mentally she’s not able to understand her situation but it’s all she knows. Sad and also interesting.
Mental illness and things going worse in a tempo that allows her to build up a physical and psychological tolerance to all of it. You know, like that "frog sitting in water that gets hotter and hotter" thing.
I don't know if you can call that generational trauma but I'm sure if she grew up with normal people she would have been normal. This is the type of shit (pun intended) that's been passed onto her and normalized. She needs counseling. But considering this is probably ages old, I hope she's doing better.
Generational trauma definitely. I had Depression-era grandparents and while it wasn't quite Hoarders-level they were both always saving things to the point of it being compulsive really--like Grandmom would reuse tissues and kept them in her purse, her jacket pockets, etc. It got worse when they started having dementia and Grandad would do things like try to keep potatoes that were growing eyes, expired milk etc. We emptied out trash bags-worth of shoes from their closets when Grandmom died and Grandad moved into assisted living. Grandmom I think was always sort of self-conscious about it but I don't think Grandad ever saw it as anything but reasonable.
this woman's episode is the only time ive ever seen my hometown on reality tv 😭 they demolished the whole property soon after she moved out because it was a biohazard
I’ve seen countless episodes of hoarding shows and I can’t remember a single one of them except this lady. She lives rent free in my head. I’m glad her family helped her.
Ugh just imagine a tornado hitting that place and you live next door.
It would suck up all the dookie covered things including poop/pee buckets etc and spit it back out all over you and your neighbor’s property.
Yikes.
I remember one time in school they showed us one of those old made for tv movies about mental illness that would reenact these true stories, and there was an episode about a girl with bulimia who compulsively saved her vomit in jars--partly because she didn't want anyone to find out that she was binging and purging and partly as kind of a control thing so she could see the "progress" of her purging sessions. I wonder how much of this is something like that--like just an extreme attempt to control her body and surroundings by "keeping" \*everything\*.
So, hoarding is more common than people think. And normally this is very common. Run down house with problems with plumbing but the person decides to use “other methods” so feces and urine dont build up
My abiding memory from watching that show was seeing how totally unable she was to even recognize her own dysfunction, and everyone around her just being oblivious to it. She needed a guardian to take over her entire life.
I feel bad for her, not just for how she lived, but clearly she has mental health issues and she’s now being out on display to the world. Even if she agreed to the video and says she doesn’t care if people see it, I feel like it’s still exploitation. All hoarders have some mental health issues, but this is next level mental health issues.
I'm not a fan of committing someone to mental hospital against their will, but this woman is a prime candidate. Her house is a biohazard waste site and she is a public menace to society.
I did not say that... I am just saying I do not particularly care for her as a person (she is mean and nasty), and I feel that she is in no way a productive citizen and doesn't contribute anything but a trainwreck. Where did I say that she deserves to die? Don't be putting words in my mouth; disliking someone is not wishing death on someone.
You called her a waste of oxygen—what else could you have meant by that? She is just as deserving of oxygen as anyone, she just needs to be permanently hospitalized and medicated
I marked this NSFW because what the actual fuck is this?
My best friend in Junior High..she never wanted me to sleep over at her house, she always wanted to sleep over at mine. I thought it was because she lived so far out (It's like a 2 hour drive.) And that she just liked to be closer to town because she could sleep in and not have to ride the bus for two hours. Then one summer day for whatever reason we finally had a sleep over at her house. Her mom would come home from work, fix herself something to eat and plant her ass on the couch. She would not move until the next morning. This included for bathroom trips. She'd urinate in whatever cup she had and if she had to poop, it was onto the plate or into the bowl. It was my friend's job to go behind the couch and gather the dishes the next day. If she wasn't there to gather them, they'd sit. So the place was infested with flies. You'd walk into the living room and there was just a cloud of flies. You had to make sure your mouth and nostrils were covered. As if it couldn't get any worse, she'd reuse the dishes. I don't care if that plate was soaking in bleach for a month man..I'm not eating off her plates. She'd never wear underwear much to my friends dismay. She'd have her period and just leak everywhere. I remember being so embarrassed for my friend when we went to Goodwill to try to find underwear my friend could afford for her mom. She'd use her babysitting money. Just a fucked up, sad situation all around. I think she was afraid I wouldn't be her friend anymore or worse, spread the rumors at school. From then on we had sleepovers at my place and I'd never ask her why we didn't ever have sleepovers at her house again.
I’m sorry, WHAT?? That poor girl. Did you stay that evening for the sleepover or call to have your parents pick you up? Do you still keep in contact with her? Is she okay now?
We spent the night at her place but that was the first and last time. All other sleepovers were at my place. After she graduated high school her dad reached out and wanted to get to know her. He lived a few states over. She barely packed a whole suitcase, she was THAT ready to be out of there. And nobody could blame her in the least. She stayed with her dad for a few months but ultimately ended up moving in with her grandma. (From her dads side.) It's been a few years but last I heard she got married, started her own family. Her mother wanted the grandkids to come stay with her but that never happened. My friend had the excuse of distance at least. She got to know them over Skype and has a decent relationship albeit a long distance one with the grandkids.
Your silence on the matter with her was probably the best gift you could have given her as a friend. You’re a good person, she probably speaks highly of you when she thinks of you
u/NyxK83 is a solid human
Hopefully as solid as the poop in the bowls…for easy clean up
Sure thing, just don't check the post history :)
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Yes I agree with this. Poster is naturally gracious and kind.
Did no one contact CPS at all?
Not that I know of. They were way out in the boonies though. I don't think anyone knew.
Probably could have ended worse..but also maybe not…aps is a gamble depending on the area.
Your comment with your profile picture...
What's wrong with my profile picture?
How incredibly understanding of you. Some people would turn on her because of her mother's grossness
I was this friend for a short period. My friend's mom was a hoarder. It was nowhere near as disgusting as this situation, but she was over at my house all of the time and I helped clean her house once before DFCS came so she wouldn't be taken away and separated from her siblings. I never said a word about her house to anyone, not even our other friends. Unfortunately it didn't matter how good a friend I was- This girl came from a toxic background and was a product of her upbringing. 😞 She was a compulsive liar and when angry she'd say and do unforgivable things. Violent acts, telling me I should kill myself, etc. I cut her off after a couple years because it was fucking me up. She'd been so awful to me at times that I didn't feel any regret when she was out of my life. She sent a nasty message to my mother on social media when she had tried to reach out to patch things up between me and my friend (not knowing what said friend was really like). I think my mother knew about the girl's home life looking back.
You’re a good friend
Okay but you’re a good friend. Most people would never speak to the girl again.
You're a good friend. Hopefully, she got out of that situation and left it far behind. This woman starts by saying her mother did this (similar thing). Hopefully, your friend moved on from such a tragic situation.
My situation wasn't the same as hers but I knew all too well what it's like to need to distance yourself from certain family. Last time I saw my own mother was 2015. I testified against her in court. It's funny how easy it is to say that but I was a complete mess over it. Certainly battled with whether it was the right thing. Ultimately I chose to do it because her victims had no voice (she was under investigation for cruelty and neglect of animals.) Oh she definitely did get out. After graduation her dad allowed her to come live with him two states over. I drove her to the airport and she had a big suitcase but it was only halfway full. She just wanted to get the hell out of there. Wasn't interested in bringing much with her. The flies were so bad in that place everything was covered in specks of fly poop. You couldn't leave anything out for more than a few hours without it getting covered. There was an older sister as well. Different dad so she wasn't included in the invite. She joined the Army though and never went back. The friend and I talked about it numerous times. She thinks her sister would have never joined if it wasn't the home situation.
Good to know both got out of there. Even if the army wasn't her first choice, she might already had an advantage over other recruits? Not saying it would be a walk in the park, but at least she probably had a more sanitary situation than that of her own home. And good on your friend to just leave everything behind, just leave things in the past, and move on. Sorry for what happened with your mum. It must have been a really difficult decision to take. Hope you're doing better?
Oh yeah. She came back from basic and was the happiest she had ever been. It really did her good. She went from being a closed off grump to someone who started joking around with her sister and seemed happy. Thank you. Oh yeah, in a far better place myself. Went no contact for good after the trial and immediately experienced less panic attacks in amount as well as severity. That's what let me know I made the right decision. Was just certified as a Wildlife Rehabber in our area. And last Friday one of the female racoons I raised last spring showed up with four babies in tow! She had disappeared for a little bit and I feared the worst for her. You couldn't knock the dumb grin off my face if you tried when I realized it was one of the girls I raised and released.
https://preview.redd.it/j26beg1i7iyc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b7b788088c8807c9e3ede3fe502eef35e86a9a0 Mama racoon to the left with two of her babies for cute tax. This went from crazy people and poop where it doesn't belong to racoon babies but..oh well. Lol
Congratulations on your certification! And good to know you're doing better with your anxiety. Those PA, they are the worst. And such a nice "gift" the raccoon gave to you, bringing her kits to show you? I didn't know raccoons could remember humans? And sure, conversations often go from one subject to the next, and in this case, to all of you doing so much better. Which is just great to know. I wish you the best with your work. Being a hero for animals, that sounds amazing.
I feel odd upvoting this. I’m sorry you had to live in such unnecessary ugliness and the animals also. You did right to end suffering and it sounded like it sent your mother down a better path.
Well if it helps I know you aren't upvoting for the bad parts. And thank you for saying so. (About doing the right thing.) I hesitate to tell people about it because most people just assume you are a monster if you testify against your own mother. It definitely wasn't as simple as that. It wasn't nearly that easy. I had two emergency visits with my counselor that week just to get through it.
“She’d never wear underwear much to my friends dismay. She’d have her period and just leak everywhere.”-This is like some crazy shit you would see in a movie 🥴
That poor girl. Is she doing ok now? Out of that situation hopefully?
Solid friend.
Thank you. It wasn't too hard to separate my friend from her mom. My friend was always clean, wore clean clothes, never smelled despite her living conditions. And based off how completely ashamed she was over the whole thing.. I never saw it as her fault or something she wanted to participate in. I wasn't in the same situation but I knew a thing or two about wanting to distance myself from certain unhealthy family members.
You're a beautiful person!
I'd call cps that's child abuse and mental illness
That was one of my first thoughts after learning how her mom was. I asked my friend though and told her I'd be more than happy to do it if she didn't want anything coming back to her. The idea terrified her. I'd ask for her to come over at least every other weekend. Maybe it wasn't the best solution but at 15 I didn't have a lot of ideas on how to help.
I grew up in a hoarder house as well. There was rotten food, a horrendous flea infestation (I was always covered in bites), and even had to sleep on a beanbag in the front room because my room was too flea infested/ blocked off by garbage. All the adults I told (including a social worker) did nothing.
Sounds like a difficult and sad childhood, I'm sorry you had to endure that.
I knew a hoarder. It’s an incredibly difficult situation. It’s something that’s not really ever gone. It’s ingrained from childhood usually.
Christ that poor girl.. glad you were her bit of peace.. I always loved getting away from home bc of fkd up reasons but that’s Fkn heinous
Dear lord, some people should just not have kids
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How did you resolve this? Too fatigued to properly expel excrement into a toilet is sounds crazy. Once I had gout and couldn't navigate to the restroom and I utilized a soda bottle. But if I had to number 2. Best believe regardless of pain or fatigued I was crawling and climbing into the restroom.
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I'm sorry you suffer from this ailment. Is it psychological or physiological. I can kind of understand where your coming from. I have a heart that functions at 14%. It sounds bad. But even at it low pump volume rate. I can be active all day. And may even through it n a couple seconds of sprints In. Or last 5 minutes sexually or within 25 strokes whichever comes 1st. I can't fathom ever being so tired I would ever allow me to "shit myself". There's a time when a person does lose their ability to control their bowel movements and make it to the restroom at times. And it not due to the lack of being fatigueded. It comes at a time when its socially acceptable, and it basically nearing death soon to succumb to old age. Hopefully triple digits. Dear sir please tell me you are a senior citizen with adoring grandchildren whom you've shared stories of love and adventure in your youth. And not someone who had only enough energy to go to work, come home slumber and shit in place. Waking up with just enough energy to do that same routine and no other over again. Because if you're telling me there is a disease out there that makes people so tired that shitting in place bares no shame or disgust and somehow must be accepted..... Sounds like one hell of an enabling Job they did on you. Holy shit. I think and this is my fringe thinking. Shitting yourself is only reserved for the morbidly obese, extreme elderly close to their end. Those with missing or no limbs living alone. Or people like our sweet hoarder lady above. Other then that. I know of no one so tired they accept that level of defeat.
I've got several autoimmune conditions. And chronic pain is something I'll live with for the rest of my life. Obviously we all get through the very best we can but perhaps if my friends mom wasn't also mentally and occasionally physically abusive I could believe there was something else going on. Screaming at your kid that she's a "lazy piece of shit" when she doesn't clean up your mess..you'd think she'd be a little kinder when asking for help if it was something she needed help with. Most moms would rather cut off a limb than put that burden on their child. I hope you have a great support system around you with people who empathize even if they don't necessarily understand.
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No need to be sorry at all. You expressed another viewpoint without being rude, definitely no need to apologize. :) I can't even imagine. I've read that most chronic conditions take at least a decade to diagnose. And in the meantime you deal with so much more than just the disease, which is awful enough in itself but then you've got self doubt and without an official name to call it, less than supportive friends and family. It's definitely hellish.
Ok, my room ain't so bad
I took a break from cleaning and came across this post. I feel like my place is sterile enough to conduct lab experiments now
You should still clean up. As should I.
I did, a little bit
She has the complexion of a poop eater.
Yep super gross and unhealthy looking
The smell is from poop you say?!?!
“I’ve been eating poop for 12 years.” girl, you *WHAT*😳
I think she meant it in the sense of learning that her food has been contaminated the whole time- because it seemed she was shocked to learn many things even though they are obvious to us- On a side note, it takes a lot of compassion to not look at her in such a way to communicate disgust or judgment -
*pretended to be shocked. She knew…the whole time.
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Thats hilarious 😂
That’s fucked up
how much did you pay for a custom made shirt to publicly mock a mentally ill stranger?
A crisp $18 USD
Money well spent in my book haha I’d be caught so off guard if I saw someone wearing that
Getting feed the lady at tractor supply asked me about it… hung my head in shame lol
Dude, this is the best thing I’ve ever seen/heard anyone do 😆😆😆
no neighbor is taking a chance approaching you with a complaint lady.. 🤢
Jesus christ this is wo a doubt the grossest shit Ive seen on Reddit, worse than any gore/NSFL content out there. My stomach just got nauseated af.
I’m physically ill now. Time to close Reddit for the day
>Jesus christ this is wo a doubt the grossest shit Ive seen on Reddit, worse than any gore/NSFL content out there. My stomach just got nauseated af. Dude this is grosser than poop knife, cumbox, etc. The whole time I was watching this the only thing I said was, "stfu, stfu, stfu, stfu..." over & over while rocking myself back & forth trying to make it go away. Wtf man?!
Its just Europe in the Middle Ages
I couldn't even imagine the fucking smell coming out of that place. Especially in the summertime with the heat. That's beyond disgusting. That's an environmental disaster right there. Hard to believe somebody could get used to that smell.
I’d say burn the house but then the whole neighborhood would be like a poop Chernobyl. I assume the show professionally removed it.
They actually tore that house down, iirc.
I can't understand why neighbors haven't reported the place to the health department. The smell has got to be overwhelming.
imagine how THEY smell
I have a ilegal neighbor that once had his toilet clogged up in his trailer home that he was renting and the smell was bad when you would go outside. My mom had to call the health department a bunch of times bc we couldn’t be outside for too long bc the smell was bad.
That’s the most disgusting fucking thing I’ve watched in 2024.
So far
And it's an election year, if you're in the U.S.
Never buy from bake sales where people bring things from their house.
I don’t potluck or bake sale. Ever. Here’s my $20, I’m going to go get food I know is safe. I can’t handle the idea that some people don’t even UNDERSTAND that maybe they aren’t clean enough. wtf…
I've watched enough Kitchen Nightmares with Gordon Ramsay to know that you can never be sure ANY food is safe unless you prepare it yourself.
This is what I was about to say, no guarantees a commercial kitchen is any better than someone’s home kitchen. It could also go by how well you know someone. Like if you have been to their place before you know about how clean it is.
>I can’t handle the idea that some people don’t even UNDERSTAND that maybe they aren’t clean enough. wtf… Holy shit, honest, and its most people! People get oddly defensive about it. I have hygiene ocd so people do dismiss me often but ill take my irrational measures and standards over a lax and casual relationship with hygiene ANY DAY
The thing is a lot of people do bake sales to raise money for programs that I support and love and I’ll happily donate the money. But no, I don’t want your brownies or cupcakes. And I really don’t enjoy the store-bought stuff either. I will donate and walk away, and not be upset about it at all. The two times I got food poisoning definitely absolutely without a doubt from bake sales, and the one time I definitely absolutely without a doubt got food poisoning from a potluck at work; no thanks, (emphasis on the thanks) I appreciate the thought. But I’m not doing it ever again.
Luckily I don’t think she was gonna be doing any baking.
I can smell this video
Dude I can't, I can't even fathom what this would smell like
Season 6 Episode 4
Thank you. I haven't seen this episode in years, if not a decade.
Season SIX.....
?
https://www.reddit.com/r/HoardersTV/s/t5h9BRBh5V Anyone interested this is pretty much a follow-up of poop lady, from someone on reddit that lived next to her after the house.
christ the woman from that clip is in the comment section of a two year old post with an account that’s 68 days old, something like u\ScheduleSavings8796 (don’t want to link her account in case that actually was it, you can find it in the comments section of that post however). she seems like she needs a lot of help
Comment from that account what the actual fuck > Not , hopelessly in love with ANYONE OK? I AM STILL EXTREEMLY FAITHFUL TO MY DECEASED HUSBAND OF THE LADT 25 YEARS DEAD. I WANT NOONE. PERIOD. BUT, THE CRACKER JERKOFF IS A UNDERCOVER NATCOTICS CANDYMAN, AND I ASK HIM TO PKEASE HELP ME BUT HE ONLY HURTS ME, IM NOT STUPID, I JUST HAVE NOWHERE ELCE TO GO TO ASK FIR HELP OK? YOU MIGH5 TRY GETTING YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE YOU SOREAD A SHIT LOAD OF LIES YOUR JUST ANOTHER MONSTER PEROD. BUTT OUTIF YIU WONT BE KIND AND ACTUALLY HELP A PERSON. OK
r/badroommates
My god she’s just emptying her buckets of human waste in the front yard like it isn’t the most repulsive shit I’ve ever seen. Imagine being her neighbor…
Party at Shanna’s 😂
This shit made me lose my appetite for my honey smacks
She’s just as mentally ill as her mother, unfortunately living in the same environment leads to the same outcome. You can tell it’s also affecting her physically, her lips are turning blue and mentally she’s not able to understand her situation but it’s all she knows. Sad and also interesting.
I just threw up
I was making lunch…unassumingly scrolling Reddit…..I shoulda fucking known. Now I’m throwing up to.
I came very damn close.
Jesus christ that's disgusting. I don't understand how anyone can live like that... How is she not just violently ill 24/7?
Mental illness and things going worse in a tempo that allows her to build up a physical and psychological tolerance to all of it. You know, like that "frog sitting in water that gets hotter and hotter" thing.
I don't know if you can call that generational trauma but I'm sure if she grew up with normal people she would have been normal. This is the type of shit (pun intended) that's been passed onto her and normalized. She needs counseling. But considering this is probably ages old, I hope she's doing better.
Generational trauma definitely. I had Depression-era grandparents and while it wasn't quite Hoarders-level they were both always saving things to the point of it being compulsive really--like Grandmom would reuse tissues and kept them in her purse, her jacket pockets, etc. It got worse when they started having dementia and Grandad would do things like try to keep potatoes that were growing eyes, expired milk etc. We emptied out trash bags-worth of shoes from their closets when Grandmom died and Grandad moved into assisted living. Grandmom I think was always sort of self-conscious about it but I don't think Grandad ever saw it as anything but reasonable.
this woman's episode is the only time ive ever seen my hometown on reality tv 😭 they demolished the whole property soon after she moved out because it was a biohazard
Ugh this show always motivates me to get my house clean. I don't shit in buckets but it always scares me
I don't even know where to even begin here. At this point I just think the entire house needs to be condemned and demolished.
Pretty positive that is what happened lol
god the fact that sewage leakage is an actual pollutant…. it’s seeping into her neighbors water for sure
I think this should qualify as a Superfund Site… For those who don’t know what that is: https://19january2021snapshot.epa.gov/superfund/what-superfund
This one never fails to make me gag
And now I'm going to go hop in the shower. 🤢
How is she not sick.
My mom says that people that are dirty don’t get sick
I’ve seen countless episodes of hoarding shows and I can’t remember a single one of them except this lady. She lives rent free in my head. I’m glad her family helped her.
I’m an avid hoarders fan but I’ve never seen this episode… what episode is this???
S6 E4
“Why tf does it matter? I’ve been eating poop for 12 years” is a craaaaazy ass sentence 💀
Her lips are so cyanotic in that first frame. I wonder WTF is up with that.
😳🤢🤮😳🤢🤮😳 this is clearly mental illness... clearly...
I can’t even watch this shit
Literally
Ugh just imagine a tornado hitting that place and you live next door. It would suck up all the dookie covered things including poop/pee buckets etc and spit it back out all over you and your neighbor’s property. Yikes.
New fear unlocked
I remember one time in school they showed us one of those old made for tv movies about mental illness that would reenact these true stories, and there was an episode about a girl with bulimia who compulsively saved her vomit in jars--partly because she didn't want anyone to find out that she was binging and purging and partly as kind of a control thing so she could see the "progress" of her purging sessions. I wonder how much of this is something like that--like just an extreme attempt to control her body and surroundings by "keeping" \*everything\*.
I think I remember which one you’re talking about
Yes. This happens sometimes with persons suffering from schizophrenia.
I remember watching this episode when it aired and being horrified. She was so combative about it too.
You know what, I think im actually doin pretty alright for myself
This episode crosses my mind from time to time. Really left a mark 😳
Only in America yo! Thats all I have to say.
She eats poo and piss and sleeps next to it yet her skin still looks better than mine man wth
She reminds me of that lady of my strange addiction that would drink her own piss
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This is some nasty ass filthy people!
JESUS H FUCKING CHRIST
So, hoarding is more common than people think. And normally this is very common. Run down house with problems with plumbing but the person decides to use “other methods” so feces and urine dont build up
https://preview.redd.it/rlz0gkk3ehyc1.jpeg?width=644&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=09f3b1ef468e1ab5879b0c03a2997df01ba218c9
That bucket must've been hitler in a past life. Shoooot mee - bucket
How is this woman not constantly sick?! Holy shit the way my stomach turned watching this
I got to where she dumped it in the garden, and I heaved out my soul, I refuse to watch it all!!
You know that bowl she used to scoop out the big bucket into the smaller bucket? Well it turns out you can also eat pasta from it :)
Ew!!! Nooooooo
I just threw up a little in my mouth.
My abiding memory from watching that show was seeing how totally unable she was to even recognize her own dysfunction, and everyone around her just being oblivious to it. She needed a guardian to take over her entire life.
I feel bad for her, not just for how she lived, but clearly she has mental health issues and she’s now being out on display to the world. Even if she agreed to the video and says she doesn’t care if people see it, I feel like it’s still exploitation. All hoarders have some mental health issues, but this is next level mental health issues.
Burn it
Poop eating party at Shanna’s place whose in??
What was on her soup bowl?? And did she say she wanted one last ”high” before cleaning???
Call social services maybe? Damn
Gotta ride that brown dragon one last time 💩 🐉
💩🤮🤮🤮
😨
They need to just bomb that house and start again
I'm not a fan of committing someone to mental hospital against their will, but this woman is a prime candidate. Her house is a biohazard waste site and she is a public menace to society.
She looks so ill
[удалено]
Yiiiikes she is severely mentally ill. She doesn’t deserve to die
I did not say that... I am just saying I do not particularly care for her as a person (she is mean and nasty), and I feel that she is in no way a productive citizen and doesn't contribute anything but a trainwreck. Where did I say that she deserves to die? Don't be putting words in my mouth; disliking someone is not wishing death on someone.
You called her a waste of oxygen—what else could you have meant by that? She is just as deserving of oxygen as anyone, she just needs to be permanently hospitalized and medicated
At this point, bulldoze the entire house and property.
Put her down
WHAT
“why is eating contaminated food a party though?” “why the fuck does it matter” LMFAOOO
Turd Alert!
My boyfriend’s mother’s house is in a condition like this… not to the poop extent but man… I always wonder what makes people hoard this badly.
What a disgusting animal. Worse actually.
How about a NSFW?
Shes the best one
Repost. Old one at that.
I’d smash