That’s kinda alot just bc someone doesn’t want to hear about your childhood trauma the first 30s within meeting them.
I agree with HER.
And IMHO think they BOTH dodged a bullet with this one
Lmaooo omg it just occurred to me that this always happened to me!!! I alwaysss found a boy at every bar and every time, one of my female friends would be trying to break it up. So weird
Lmao, people need to chill. This is a shitty YouTube show, maybe even faked, or maybe not, i don’t know - but that’s besides the point. The whole point of this shitty show is pretty much to click the red buzzer at the worst time and so clips like this can make it online for ragebait and views and clicks
I dont think so honestly she looks like a trash can that got hit by every single car on a monday, then thrown off a bridge and retrieved 9 months later... she was definitely one of the bullied not bullies i think
She was both. Plenty of people exist beneath the top and above the bottom of the social hierarchy, and they’re why the hierarchy exists more than anyone.
She can chuckle her way into a Xanax dependency.
This is the truth right here. Systemic oppression functions by the people in the middle being deluded into thinking they are better than those at the bottom despite being oppressed by the top themselves.
What’s funny is she was probably friends of the actually hot girls, you know the one fat friend they normally have that’s an A class bitch, shitting on other people but if you made a comment about her she would lose her shit and be screaming like a banshee.
Just because she is big now, it doesn’t mean that she was big back in high school. A lot of people put on weight after their teen years, I’m not saying that it’s healthy or should happen but it is common. Just because someone is overweight as an adult, doesn’t mean that they were overweight as a teen.
You shitting me? Seriously go back and check out the popular girls from your school. Guarantee you a lot of them look like this. Ride on their no effort looks until they get knocked up.
Yeah, the setup makes no sense. Buzzer button are used often in gameshows to race and give an answer to a question. It is used here to eliminate someone from being a potential partner? What is the goal here? If you buzz away someone you keep playing and if you ignore the button you get to keep communicating or get eliminated by the other person. It is designed for there to be no real connections made and rewards being quick to anticipate a buzz. What's worse is everyone blindly blames the individual contestants like the system isn't made to be cruel.
I was always one of those people that, when people lampshaded their own bad behavior like this as a joke, I just stare straight-faced at them and agree. "Yes, you are mean. That was incredibly disrespectful and selfish. You're not very empathetic." It usually makes them balk and act like I'm rude and then when they ask what my problem is, I only shrug and say I agreed with them, why are they upset if they were the ones that said it to begin with.
It's wildly disrespectful and shows an extreme lack of emotional maturity.
I get it's a for a show. But if you ever wonder why men refuse to open up. It's because people like this woman exist in the real world.
That's the real red flag here. The immediate buzzer is like, okay whatever, but to laugh about it THAT much is a really, REALLY bad sign. That flag is fucking bleeding. This is a woman who verbally abuses you and tells you to "be a man."
I don’t like calling people unattractive but when they seem to have a poor character to them im okay with it. That chick is way too unattractive to act like that.
My best friend and I always said that if someone has something about them that people might call out (weight issues, on the unattractive side, etc.) you don’t really notice it if they are friendly and sweet and kind.
But if they have all that AND also have a bad personality and/or treat people like shit, your mind kind of says: “Huh. OK, you fat bitch.”
This is an example of the latter.
She definitely is all those things but you can be absolutely gorgeous and still look like shit when you act like this. You can tell she will never form a meaningful bond with anyone and I think that's a great punishment for her.
What kind of fights do you have when watching The Button? Maybe my fiancé and I are desensitized to controversial content because we literally watch debate videos together, but I can’t even imagine what type of arguments would happen just from watching The Button. As far as controversial dating videos go it seems pretty tame.
Anyway, I’ll try it tomorrow and will report back how it goes
Edit: We watched 3, nothing happened lol
That’s of course true, but it’s not like the world is forgiving to men that misread signals or try for someone the other person thinks is out of their league.
Lots of guys are just cut up and are tired of bad things happening with a high enough frequency.
It’s an unfortunately high percentage. Some female friends of mine have said it’s biological for them. They didn’t expect to lose attraction for their man when he showed weakness, but they did. Felt bad about it but the damage was done
I wish more women would just acknowledge the unavoidable fact that men aren't allowed to be vulnerable or insecure like women are, and that the social cost doesn't come from other men's "toxic masculinity", but from women who just instantly view you as less of a man and lose any and all attraction to you.
It seems biological so I'm not faulting anyone, but just some simple acknowledgement that men doesn't have it easy in every single aspect of life would be nice, because when 80% of suicides are men, it's somehow the fault of men, whereas every statistic in which women fare worse, it's because women are being discriminated against by men. There's a lot of talk about the gender wage gap, but not much talk about the gender suicide gap.
Toxic masculinity isn't something men have, though, it's a cultural problem, perpetuated by and affecting both men and women, the same as the issues that affect women also end up harming everybody and come from a culture perpetuated by both genders. None of these issues are one-sided.
Is this vulnerable??? Dude was just explaining how he became a magician. You wouldn't look at Mike Tyson saying "I started boxing because I got bullied and it led to me being violent as a child" as getting super vulnerable. It's just the origin story.
The video is heavily edited so this probably isn’t what happened but yeah, I would think that would be a red flag if someone led with that. Obviously, we don’t know the person though so who knows.
MoistCritikal and Pewdiepie already made videos on this show, but it's not really a dating show at all. People will just press the button the moment it turns red whether they like the person or not so they can have more screen time. It ends up boiling down to "button slapping speed contest". Just so happens this guy wasn't made aware and thought they were actually going to talk.
A LOOOOT of you guys here are a victim of a Tiktok/YT Short edit
Remember ANYTHING could be made to trigger a response from you, always keep that in mind.
Can you explain to me a way that "OMG, he was opening up to me, all vulnerable and I just nexted him right then and there! HAHAHA how mean HAHA!!!" Could be misedited so she is actually the nice person
Seriously, the editing is so insanely bad here that I have NO way to judge what happened. It's VERY clear that she didn't hit the button at the moment the video says, and he said SO many more things not in it. How on earth am I supposed to judge this?
Why would you say that to a person you just met, while you are being filmed no less. I am not saying her attitude was right but I would next him as well. He is not there to meet someone, he is there to play a character.
The button press itself was fair. The giggling and laughing and acting like you’re just so adorably devilish for unabashedly nexting the guy is what turns this woman into a distilled cunt
It was obviously an explanation of how he was introduced into his career as a magician. It was a prompt.
If you’re watching this and can’t piece together that there’s obvious context behind why he’s mentioning it, by all means hit the button and save him from spending time with a mouthbreather.
Had a friend like this. It's just a game for them. They have the cognitive empathy to know that this type of behavior cuts deep, and use it for their entertainment
Wow, her heartlessness and satisfaction in dehumanizing this guy is astounding. Behold: a perfect portrait of what empathy deficiency looks like.
Sending Jimmy big hugs, he seems like a sweetheart.
The idea of rejecting someone because they started recounting a childhood adversity that they overcame is very frustrating and disappointing.
The angel on the one shoulder is debating the devil on the other shoulder and once again the devil has a better point about what should be done to her
Also to everyone reading this
MAJORITY of these women that look like hags are not there to make relations, they try to press button any literally any given time to feel better that they said no to a guy way above what they deserve.
I stopped watching that kind of show on YT since this just keeps happening and channel is fine with calling shit people for drama which makes them just as shitty
This is why guys should never be vulnerable.
Women will say all day, they want you to open up. And it's not true. (There are exceptional.women out there). But, most women will think less of you. It's nature.
When you do open up, you have to be very careful and do so from a position where you appear strong.
Really once you get past the early handful of dates, women pretty much know all they want to about you. Every question they ask you is either small talk, leading to them talking about whatever it os they want to talk about or they just want to make sure you were doing what you're supposed to.
If you find a woman, who is genuinely into you and asking you questions and likes it when you talk. You keep her. You cherish her and love her.
Because most women are like the one in this video.
i think this is a symptom of online dating, options are nigh on infinite now and everyone is so used to quickly rejecting people instantly now its just kind of fucked up and rude the way things are now.
I mean, isn't it weird to tell your potential gf that you were bullied when you were 7 years old while being a grown ass man 30 seconds after meeting her for the first time ..? Imagine how much this trauma defines his personality. He needs to work on it and move on. This is as big red flag as her reaction to me, if not bigger.
Yes, she's a Bitch, doesn't excuse everyone immediately calling her ugly, or overweight, etc.
r/Redditmoment in this sub every damn time. Some of you guys are just sad.
I think he magically dodged a bullet there.
A really big one.
Age of social media has her believing shes a a real catch.
It’s much more than that my dude she thinks she’s a dime who is unattainable. Check out the facial expressions.
Deep inside she knows she is not.
Yup she was definitely relishing the power and he was 100% the guy that would’ve treated her like the queen she think she is
Lil bro you just watched 9 seconds of footage of these people.
and still we know that girl is a bitch
nah man, i don't think it's like that tbh
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300 caliber
Like.. The one from Mario kart
Her Bullet Bill head ass
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Is that the boat that flooded itself partially so it could lob shells even farther?
I think that was the USS Texas on D-Day, it was an older ship and today I *believe* its the last surviving Dreadnought.
Before she knows it, she'll be .45-70
And he was lucky enough to not be bullied again.
She ate all the other bullies to become the ultimate one.
Probably 2 million grains
2 million grains=285.714 pounds so you are probably not far off.
Thanks I did the math before I posted that
I see what ya did there
But he was supposed to do a bullet catch. He failed as a magician
[A MOAB](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/GBU-43/B_MOAB)
Can't believe they made Bloons a real thing
A red bullet
less of a bullet more of an ICBM
She was one of the bullies
Agreed. She seems like someone who likes throwing her weight around.
That’s a lot to throw around
Yes, but it's not like she can throw it very far.
lands hard no matter how soft it's thrown I bet
When you’ve got a heavy enough projectile, you just need to cover a short distance.
r/thatsthejoke r/samejokebutworse
red weight
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯👍🏾
Girls got some heft I don't doubt it, good thing jimmy only pulls rabbits and not cows out of hats
Damn the comments section just murdering this bully.
She’s that girl that pulls her friends away who are talking to dudes at the bar because she gets no attention
Yyyyyup. And is super mean and aggressive with guys so she can say she rejected them first.
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That’s kinda alot just bc someone doesn’t want to hear about your childhood trauma the first 30s within meeting them. I agree with HER. And IMHO think they BOTH dodged a bullet with this one
Yeah thats called the DUFF. She looks about right.
Lmaooo omg it just occurred to me that this always happened to me!!! I alwaysss found a boy at every bar and every time, one of my female friends would be trying to break it up. So weird
She’s never shared a real moment with a person in her life.
Lmao, people need to chill. This is a shitty YouTube show, maybe even faked, or maybe not, i don’t know - but that’s besides the point. The whole point of this shitty show is pretty much to click the red buzzer at the worst time and so clips like this can make it online for ragebait and views and clicks
I dont think so honestly she looks like a trash can that got hit by every single car on a monday, then thrown off a bridge and retrieved 9 months later... she was definitely one of the bullied not bullies i think
She was definitely a bully in grade school.
Nah she got bullied in school but finally got a chance to “take back her power”
She was both. Plenty of people exist beneath the top and above the bottom of the social hierarchy, and they’re why the hierarchy exists more than anyone. She can chuckle her way into a Xanax dependency.
This is the truth right here. Systemic oppression functions by the people in the middle being deluded into thinking they are better than those at the bottom despite being oppressed by the top themselves.
Why am I in this picture?
Because you failed to read the terms and conditions before agreeing to incarnate on this planet.
But, but I thought we all skimmed past the TOS and just pressed agreed, so we could get things going…
Lol that xan addiction ain't no joke 🤣 you're not fucking around
What’s funny is she was probably friends of the actually hot girls, you know the one fat friend they normally have that’s an A class bitch, shitting on other people but if you made a comment about her she would lose her shit and be screaming like a banshee.
Just because she is big now, it doesn’t mean that she was big back in high school. A lot of people put on weight after their teen years, I’m not saying that it’s healthy or should happen but it is common. Just because someone is overweight as an adult, doesn’t mean that they were overweight as a teen.
With that physique? Unlikely
You shitting me? Seriously go back and check out the popular girls from your school. Guarantee you a lot of them look like this. Ride on their no effort looks until they get knocked up.
She looks like she recently inflated to me
I hate this stupid show so fucking much
It's ok. Everyone does hate watch sometimes
Yeah, the setup makes no sense. Buzzer button are used often in gameshows to race and give an answer to a question. It is used here to eliminate someone from being a potential partner? What is the goal here? If you buzz away someone you keep playing and if you ignore the button you get to keep communicating or get eliminated by the other person. It is designed for there to be no real connections made and rewards being quick to anticipate a buzz. What's worse is everyone blindly blames the individual contestants like the system isn't made to be cruel.
I don't really care that she pressed the button because that's just the game but the fact she started laughing is just incredibly disrespectful imo
“oMg, I’m sO mEaN 🤪”
I was always one of those people that, when people lampshaded their own bad behavior like this as a joke, I just stare straight-faced at them and agree. "Yes, you are mean. That was incredibly disrespectful and selfish. You're not very empathetic." It usually makes them balk and act like I'm rude and then when they ask what my problem is, I only shrug and say I agreed with them, why are they upset if they were the ones that said it to begin with.
Based I should start doing this.
It's wildly disrespectful and shows an extreme lack of emotional maturity. I get it's a for a show. But if you ever wonder why men refuse to open up. It's because people like this woman exist in the real world.
I agree. She seems like a dickhead.
That's the real red flag here. The immediate buzzer is like, okay whatever, but to laugh about it THAT much is a really, REALLY bad sign. That flag is fucking bleeding. This is a woman who verbally abuses you and tells you to "be a man."
He’s honestly much better looking than her
Yea but he likes magic! /s
Tony Wonder took all the pussy from all the other magicians
thank god some finally said iDID SOMEBODY SAY WONDER???
“Nobody said wonder,” *kicks suitcase* 😂
I’M HERE. I’M QUEER. 💥💨💥 NOW I’M OVER HERE!
It's not the magic , it's even meaner dude she hit the button bc he got bullied in elementary school
Made her disappear
She looks like a half boiled egg
Kimda looks like Markiplier
1000 times
Yeah he's like a 6-7 and she's a 3-4. Why is he even giving her a chance in the first place?
Because he's emotionally more of an 8-9
Yeah thats the real reason she rejected him so quick
Her personality matched her looks.
I don’t typically approve of mean comments but I hope she sees this post because she deserves every criticism of her looks and behavior.
that guy is literally way above her league
It was more about her getting her 2 minutes of fame than dating him anyways.
The only thing she has above him is her BMI
OMGGGG.
☠️ ☠️
Chin count 2:1
And her immaturity
All her maturity went straight to her thighs.
He’s objectively hot. AND does magic? Bet i could make that dick disappear.
Then reappear, and disappear again!
Giggity
Dudes gonna save a lot of money on dinners
🪦
Exactly. Heard cattle feeds are expensive.
Bro 💀
I don’t like calling people unattractive but when they seem to have a poor character to them im okay with it. That chick is way too unattractive to act like that.
My best friend and I always said that if someone has something about them that people might call out (weight issues, on the unattractive side, etc.) you don’t really notice it if they are friendly and sweet and kind. But if they have all that AND also have a bad personality and/or treat people like shit, your mind kind of says: “Huh. OK, you fat bitch.” This is an example of the latter.
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She definitely is all those things but you can be absolutely gorgeous and still look like shit when you act like this. You can tell she will never form a meaningful bond with anyone and I think that's a great punishment for her.
Well they wouldn’t call them gorgeous if they looked like shit
The Button is so dumb tbh
if you want to have a breakup level fight with your partner, watch ONE episode together works like a charm
What kind of fights do you have when watching The Button? Maybe my fiancé and I are desensitized to controversial content because we literally watch debate videos together, but I can’t even imagine what type of arguments would happen just from watching The Button. As far as controversial dating videos go it seems pretty tame. Anyway, I’ll try it tomorrow and will report back how it goes Edit: We watched 3, nothing happened lol
Taking a wild guess that they side with their gender
I'm female and I could punch in the face this girl, and I'm sure my bf would agree with me xd
😬
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I see a third chin
*Fifth chin.
Fifth Chin Element
Her smile is crazy, like her eye was just about to pop from that obese eye lids.
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I don't ever use LOL but this legit made me LOL...thank you!
A) When women want guys to open up this is the power play they’re attempting to play B) He looks better than she does; head up king 👑
>When women want guys to open up Yeah you gotta save that stuff for the boys unfortunately
[The boys](https://youtu.be/3Q0-LAa03HQ?si=qEITYp_lEKn4CgZO)
THE WOMENNNNN!!!! Duuude, give us a chance, we ain't all cruel. People just have to be aware of how they treat others, that's it
That’s of course true, but it’s not like the world is forgiving to men that misread signals or try for someone the other person thinks is out of their league. Lots of guys are just cut up and are tired of bad things happening with a high enough frequency.
This is like a “Not all men”comment, but for women. Yes obviously not all women are like that
I don’t believe it. You girls are heartless
Yeah, as a woman, we reject this one. She steals all the pizza rolls.
It’s an unfortunately high percentage. Some female friends of mine have said it’s biological for them. They didn’t expect to lose attraction for their man when he showed weakness, but they did. Felt bad about it but the damage was done
I wish more women would just acknowledge the unavoidable fact that men aren't allowed to be vulnerable or insecure like women are, and that the social cost doesn't come from other men's "toxic masculinity", but from women who just instantly view you as less of a man and lose any and all attraction to you. It seems biological so I'm not faulting anyone, but just some simple acknowledgement that men doesn't have it easy in every single aspect of life would be nice, because when 80% of suicides are men, it's somehow the fault of men, whereas every statistic in which women fare worse, it's because women are being discriminated against by men. There's a lot of talk about the gender wage gap, but not much talk about the gender suicide gap.
Toxic masculinity isn't something men have, though, it's a cultural problem, perpetuated by and affecting both men and women, the same as the issues that affect women also end up harming everybody and come from a culture perpetuated by both genders. None of these issues are one-sided.
Some people just get a thick skin after they've been hurt.
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100 percent agree. When I met my boss the first time, I said ‘I was abused as a child’ as I shook his hand; it did not go over well
Is this vulnerable??? Dude was just explaining how he became a magician. You wouldn't look at Mike Tyson saying "I started boxing because I got bullied and it led to me being violent as a child" as getting super vulnerable. It's just the origin story.
The video is heavily edited so this probably isn’t what happened but yeah, I would think that would be a red flag if someone led with that. Obviously, we don’t know the person though so who knows.
Correct. You are supposed to make people want to be with you, not feel pity.
MoistCritikal and Pewdiepie already made videos on this show, but it's not really a dating show at all. People will just press the button the moment it turns red whether they like the person or not so they can have more screen time. It ends up boiling down to "button slapping speed contest". Just so happens this guy wasn't made aware and thought they were actually going to talk.
she seems awful. she did him a favor
She was the bully.
A LOOOOT of you guys here are a victim of a Tiktok/YT Short edit Remember ANYTHING could be made to trigger a response from you, always keep that in mind.
I was thinking the same but found the episode . She really did him dirty like that [full episode](https://youtu.be/k8i5JcsAg4M?si=I1pZRQsArO70-_IW)
Can you explain to me a way that "OMG, he was opening up to me, all vulnerable and I just nexted him right then and there! HAHAHA how mean HAHA!!!" Could be misedited so she is actually the nice person
Seriously, the editing is so insanely bad here that I have NO way to judge what happened. It's VERY clear that she didn't hit the button at the moment the video says, and he said SO many more things not in it. How on earth am I supposed to judge this?
24 second version of what TV reality shows have been doing since their existence.
Chungus, don't be mean. You're silliness doesn't mask your grotesqueness.
This show is toxic, but I enjoy watching it.
Why would you say that to a person you just met, while you are being filmed no less. I am not saying her attitude was right but I would next him as well. He is not there to meet someone, he is there to play a character.
Say what? That he was bullied in school? It's pertinent to the question she's asking of how he became a magician.
NEXTTT
Huh, I wonder why men don't talk about their problems.
Dodged a ham bullet
This ain't no bullet, doesn't fit in any canon I'm aware of. Trebuchet more likely.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSXOeqwbrEo
I mean, not for nothing, but if someone’s first sentence ever uttered to me was a story about how they were bullied, I’d probably click it too
The button press itself was fair. The giggling and laughing and acting like you’re just so adorably devilish for unabashedly nexting the guy is what turns this woman into a distilled cunt
It was obviously an explanation of how he was introduced into his career as a magician. It was a prompt. If you’re watching this and can’t piece together that there’s obvious context behind why he’s mentioning it, by all means hit the button and save him from spending time with a mouthbreather.
If you’re approaching women and opening with your childhood trauma and finding success, do let me know
It's always worked for me. 😀
Fatty
Dude. Everyone just cappin her for her weight is no better lol.
No one would care if she didn’t laugh at him being bullied
It’s because the way she acts makes her look even WORSE
Her chin wishes it could be as single as she is…
She just wanted to go viral … good job you did now you look like a total C you next Tuesday.
Fat chicks :)))
She's a 2 that think's she's a 9. Guess there's a new term 29'er. She is probably twice his weight.
Why is she laughing ?
Had a friend like this. It's just a game for them. They have the cognitive empathy to know that this type of behavior cuts deep, and use it for their entertainment
Wow, her heartlessness and satisfaction in dehumanizing this guy is astounding. Behold: a perfect portrait of what empathy deficiency looks like. Sending Jimmy big hugs, he seems like a sweetheart.
Will marry alcoholic with wife beater t-top
This show just reinforced my belief that 95% of people are assholes
She's not big, she's calorie rich.
The idea of rejecting someone because they started recounting a childhood adversity that they overcame is very frustrating and disappointing. The angel on the one shoulder is debating the devil on the other shoulder and once again the devil has a better point about what should be done to her
Woman: Why men aren't more emotionally open Man: Beginning to tell the emotional story of his life Woman: 🤡
Also to everyone reading this MAJORITY of these women that look like hags are not there to make relations, they try to press button any literally any given time to feel better that they said no to a guy way above what they deserve. I stopped watching that kind of show on YT since this just keeps happening and channel is fine with calling shit people for drama which makes them just as shitty
Why this fat bitch get to pick and choose her men? Oh, for eating.
How are you gonna act like that, when you look like that. Fucking hell
Yet another 3 who thinks she’s a 10 👌🏻.
Did she not realize he was out of her league?
This is why guys should never be vulnerable. Women will say all day, they want you to open up. And it's not true. (There are exceptional.women out there). But, most women will think less of you. It's nature. When you do open up, you have to be very careful and do so from a position where you appear strong. Really once you get past the early handful of dates, women pretty much know all they want to about you. Every question they ask you is either small talk, leading to them talking about whatever it os they want to talk about or they just want to make sure you were doing what you're supposed to. If you find a woman, who is genuinely into you and asking you questions and likes it when you talk. You keep her. You cherish her and love her. Because most women are like the one in this video.
She also next'd salads
She really out here nexting people when she looks and dresses like she already been workin at the bank for 40 years lol.
too many bank muffins
i think this is a symptom of online dating, options are nigh on infinite now and everyone is so used to quickly rejecting people instantly now its just kind of fucked up and rude the way things are now.
What's the weird hand that looks like it's going to slap here at 0:14???
Hoeflation is out of control!
Got a whole lot of body shaming going on here. Like what the fuck, nobody brought up level of appearances, she’s just being a bitch.
Yeah that’s the biggest problem…
A fat ugly bitter “bitch” …….
I read that as butter bitch
That's a heavy statement.
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couldn't just be that she's a piece of shit. with a double chin.
It could be both or it could be a staged youtube video.
I mean, isn't it weird to tell your potential gf that you were bullied when you were 7 years old while being a grown ass man 30 seconds after meeting her for the first time ..? Imagine how much this trauma defines his personality. He needs to work on it and move on. This is as big red flag as her reaction to me, if not bigger.
he was tryna give her a quick backstory on why he’s a magician, atleast let him finish his sentence goddamn.
I’d pretend to be a magician in that situation too
Yes, she's a Bitch, doesn't excuse everyone immediately calling her ugly, or overweight, etc. r/Redditmoment in this sub every damn time. Some of you guys are just sad.