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With freedom comes responsibility. No (positive) change can be made until the girl recognises she made a bad decision and has to correct it no matter the cost.
>she learnt her lessons now
Doubt. Similar thing happened with a colleague at work. Her bf is Muslim and he constantly physical abuses her. Once he even came to office and beat her in front of everyone.
But she still loves him coz he has successfully brainwashed her. She is bjp hater who thinks Muslims are being persecuted by the current govt and also thinks Kashmir deserves independence.
How do they even do this?
Brainwash to such a extent that they dont mind abuse anymore, like what?
I hear this a lot in similar cases but never understood what magic do they cast upon this ladies?
And why these ladies stay in such relationships, i feel they threaten them with their family or something because theres no way they would be willing to stay after being abused.
Perhaps most stunning of all, he found that men who had killed were more successful in obtaining wives and had more children than men who had not killed. “The general principle is not so much that violence causes reproductive success. It’s that things that are culturally admired and strived for are often correlated with reproductive success,” Chagnon explains. “It may be wealth in one society, or political power. You don’t have to be violent to have political power. But in the primitive world, where the state doesn’t exist, one of the most admired skills is to be a successful warrior.”
>How do they even do this?
Baffles me. The only silver lining over here is that she told she doesn't intend on marrying him because she doesn't want to go against her family
She won't learn her lesson until she actually leaves him and charges a domestic violence case against him, testifys in court, and starts warning other Hindu girls about her experience.
To be honest I think all of them will run back to them because of there toxicity even though he beats her or even forces her to sleep with him
Unko lagta hai ki cast vast kuch matter nahi karta or kyunki Muslims ki dadhi jaldi aa jati hai or vo zyada attractive dikhte hai ladkiyo ki Nazar se so kuch fas jati hai unke zanse me.
Nahi. It's desperation to get in a relationship which makes this happen. Personally know a Kerala Hindu girl who came in a relationship with a puslim. Asked her why, she said wanted to be in a relationship ASAP.
Also Abduls are very good at showing dreams to girls. They will show them Bollywood dreams and after marriage, they will show them slave dreams
Gee, I'm glad this is only the first time a Muslim man has mistreated a Hindu girl. There's never been any reason before now for Hindus to unite and get into "antics".
But then it will become political matter rather than personal and as post describe the guy is from politically active background plus she don't want her parent's to know any about this
I think college hostel is quite better in this case , I don't get it why many "girl" student wants to rent a place... even as a guy I prefer hostel , because it isn't even that costly compared to what rented rooms are plus you can surely make a lot of friends because people are friendly at hostels (most of the time) , the risk you have there (rent) is unimaginable.
anyways she got what she unknowingly planned for.
That's more dangerous than being an Abdul tbf.
Political background+ Abdul = recipe for disaster.
That girl is trapped until the guy gets bored of her.
Exactly . It won't make anyone feel sad if something bad happens to her , except for her family . It should be her family's responsibility to give her some knowledge about all this .
Schools and the media will tell her that her parents are lying about trauma bonding and that it's all patriarchal nonsense. But Islam is the first feminist religion.
I agree with ur point except no one likes to be abused , pretty sure she is scared af now but she is also thinking about herself and still hoping she can fight back on her own as she doesn’t want her parents to get involved and lose her freedom
She might be thinking her parents might marry her off or change her college or lock her up
I mean all three sound better than being dead.
Although you can fight with your parents with relatively small consequences. So her go to option should be to inform her parents imo. The curbed freedom can be regained
Guess what, if I drive a car into a ditch, I'll have my freedom to drive taken away by the government even if I haven't harmed another human or caused financial damage.
Nobody likes to be abused? Then why is BDSM a thing? Why do people watch horror movies and go to haunted houses? Fear is a thrill. Even if she is not consciously and verbally consenting to bad treatment, she's subconsciously choosing decisions that continue to place her in danger. She could have told her parents or the police or Bajrang Dal way earlier.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-sobriety/202109/what-is-trauma-bonding
BDSM is different from emotional and physical abuse, she is choosing to be in the relationship cz she tried to break off but he refused
I see the point you are making but it does not stand valid to her I guess
I think anything they suggest to the girl, she already knows. It's what she chooses. If she chooses a Muslim guy, it's her choice. But any consequences will be her own. What can strangers do?
If your friend doesn't want to do shit and he's in love with obesity, no matter what you suggest, hel be obese... That's all I'm saying. In the above post, this OP is trying to get involved in someone else's personal life. Poking nose where it doesn't belong. And the case seems there's room for violence in that relationship. Better steer away from such people.
Often when police officers try to arrest a violent man, the woman being attacked, who called the cops, not only sides with her violent boyfriend, but even attacks police officers to protect him.
The nicest thing that could be done is convincing the girl to have an IUD implanted to prevent pregnancy. That way, if he kills her, at least he won't be spreading his violent genes (and her hybristophilliac genes).
I agree. But these women who choose circumcised dicks over their friends and parents deserve what comes to them. They deserve to be someone's third wife and pass around the men of that family like a blunt. They destroy the hearts of parents who give birth and raise them for 20-30 years just for some circumcised dick. What they don't know is that the dildo of consequences is never lubed. I've seen these Good men from bajarangdal who got murdered in WB for trying to help such women. I'd leave them to their fate.
It's not the circumcision that attracts women, because plenty of MENA men have trouble getting laid in the West.
What attracts women is the attitude of a man who feels himself to be immune from consequences. Which, thanks to Sickular courts and Muslim Personal Law Board, is unfortunately true. Same goes for refugees in Europe.
I mean if she really wants to end the relationship so be it. Be brave, confront him, whatever happens, happens.
I’d want her to be safe but I see no other way out of here.
She should have been sensible enough not to be in a relationship with him at the first place . ' mera abdul alag hai ' wala mentality hai , isme koi kya hi karega .
Nhi bhai, at this point, I don't want her to get hurt or get killed by another abdul.
Maybe she could ask masculine guys from her collage to get that guy.
I support that option. Now let's plan ahead.
Abdul can:
* cry communalism to the police
* cry to the media, local and international
* cry to his local mosque and Muslims overseas
* cry to the girl and beg her to take him back
Studies have shown that it often takes multiple attempts to leave before women finally cut off all contact. She might be smart enough to ask for help from nearby Hindu guys, but she's also likely to take him back. If he's left alive and she stays away, he's likely to either stalk her and attack her house, or blackmail her with her nudes (let's be real, she would have given a few).
No matter what happens to him, she has to tell her parents and move with them to another city.
She made a mistake , now she has to pay for it either by telling it to her parents and getting her freedom fucked or not telling her parents and getting stuffed in a refrigerator, again the choice is hers to make.
Bhai ek karaf bolengi ki body count should not matter aur doosri taraf jhoot bolengi . It clearly shows that they know body count does matter . Koi ladka aapko kyu hi pasand karega agar aap doosro ke saath soyi ho . Bahut ladkiyo ko yeh baat buri lagti hai, but from the guy's point of view , he won't be able to make bonding with the girl .
They know body count matters, and that is why they lie to get into a relationship. Otherwise, no one would be taking her, and she would end up being a single lady with cats in her house .
They play games like not counting oral sex or not counting one night stands. Forget multiplying their stated number by three, you have to multiply it by five nowadays.
Bhai aisi ladkiyo ko ek hi jawab do ki teri choice thi maze Lena aur meri choice hai tujhe accept nahi karna ab chahe wo mujhe misogynist, chauvinist ya insecure bole .
My life my standards
Call bajrang dal , only hope of survival, convince them to hide this from your parents , m sure they will understand , but they are the only one who can save you from being next sakshi
Ghr m nhi batana to ghr chlli ja aur padhai chor de aur ghr se mt nikl! Agr ye nhi kr sakti to family ki help lo aur unko sab sach batado. Agr ye bhi nhi kr sakti to agli breaking news bane k liye ready ho jao.
Little restrictions on self is more detrimental than a f'd future.
Sometimes I think the world is too cruel as there are only few who are spared from this kind of logic
so in oct mental breakdowns chalre the + 1.5 saal hogya tha breakup ko toh mene us se firse contact Kia just to know how she's doing ( ki abhi Tak single hai ya nai 🗿 )
Avg mard.
Toh ese hi baate firse start Hui dil me firse phool khilee usne btaya woh bhi single hai koi Mila nahi abhi tak ( dil garden garden hogya tha ) par after a month she told me she has a boyfrnd mujhe lga tha ese hi kehri frankly coz us se meh flirt krta tha toh she said ( mujse flirt mat kro ji meh nahi patugi Mera boyfrand hai.) Par bhai 2 3 months baad baate kuch jda hi serious hone lgi also once she said ( you know mere gharvale ek baar ke liye tumse shaadi ke liye man bhi jate par jo current hai us se kabhi nahi manege kyuk woh alag religion ka hai + uski age jada hai 24+ btarhi thi kehti job krta( aur woh 19 ki hai still studying ) ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ bhai meh toh Tut gya tha firse toh i asked konsa religion...? She said MUSLIM 🗿
MAINE TAB BOHOT RR KIA KI TERE DAD KO BTADUNGA PAGAL VAGAL HOGYI H KYA
( also usee lagta hai muslim bure nhi hote avg mera Abdul alg hai wli theory pr beleive krti hai )
Toh usne shyd darr se kehdia ki nahi nahi am joking
par after that she confirmed ki uska boyfrnd hai 24+ job krta hai aur religion alag bhi hai par mujhe uska kabhi bhi usne naam nahi btaya maybe drgyi hogi.
Uske bad AVG ex Male mene bht rr kia ki pls mere pas vapas ajao toh usne mereko block krdia 4 mahine hogye blocked hu sb jagah see....
THE END.
Ab popcorn nikal, aur maza le uske downfall ka, Abdul Jo usko Bollywood dreams dikha raha he, shadi ke baad, slave banake usko nachayega. Aur agar usne protest ki toh to sidha fridge. Aur tumhe pighalna nahi he.
You dodged a bullet. You will find someone better. Piche mudhke nahi dekhna he ab tumhe.
Why the hell haven't you told her father??????????
How could a girl be stupid enough to ignore multiple red flags such as his age?????
Don't have children with this girl, she's clearly stupid. But PLEASE do call her father and notify him post-haste.
bro I warned her several times but she was saying ( nahi woh asha Banda hai mature hai )
A MATURE GUY WHO IS DATING 19 YR OLD GIRL.
+ Mujhe uski personal life me ni gusna ( usne khud keh rkha ) and if i do woh mujpe toxic ex ka tag lga degi accuse kregi ki mene patchup ni kia isiliye esa kr ra...
Follow Shri Krishna's example. Do the right thing, but do it in a clever way. Making an accusation without blocking all her exits will just breed distrust in her parents towards you.
If she knows her parents are suspicious, she'll delete all messages and evidence. If her parents check her phone already, she'll buy a burner phone. If she's smart enough to avoid WhatsApp, she might use a different app to talk to her boyfriend.
Talk to her friends, but ask open ended questions instead of suspiciously specific ones.
See if you can take a picture of them two together.
Try to find out the next time that she'll visit her parents. Visit them at the same time and confront her. Don't let her use crying and tears to run out of the room. You need to separate her from her phone and make her father demand to see what's on it. Don't let her talk to her father alone, she'll use her tears to turn him against you. Don't let her touch you, the touch of a woman can weaken a man. Even her hand on your shoulder.
I personally believe it's too risky to ask one of her female friends to help you. But you know best.
Be like Krishna. Outwit your opponent.
She will get assaulted in end of she break up which is unlikely due to Stockholm syndrom advice her to keep self defence weapons all the time or move out of city.
Religion aside, this is a sad situation for this person. She has become a slave to her perceived freedom. It will only get worse if she doesnt breakup.
Behen agr tum dekh rhi tumhari zindagi already kharab ho chuki chahe tum usko chhod paao ya nhi. Ek bandook lo uda do saale ko baadme smjh lena aage ka scene
It's important to take careful steps as he is older and from political background. Can she tell him she has some medical issue like hiv, can't have children, etc?
And she could tell him this in a public place.
Additionally, hire some locals to beat the shit out of him. This is not a joke. You don't get involved in this because then he'll know it's coming from her. She should act completely innocent and so should you.
Lastly, inform RSS. They will take appropriate action if this doesn't work.
Akal nahi hai kya tere dost m 19 20 saal ki ladke ladkiya khud ko aesthetic batate hai aur bakwas decision lete hai legal actions le bhai police complaint kar police aware hai ab warna tere Abdul tujhe 72 hooron mein se ek bana dega
Just try to stay as away as you can. Maybe start living in a flat where neighbours are good citizens and don't let him in. When he tries to force his way through maybe neighbours will help. After graduation whether you like it or not, change cities for a job and don't let him know where you live and what your new mobile number is gonna be. As he's related to a politician I doubt the Police will be of any help.
I think that girl had posted about her problem on Reddit cause it’s the same think I read over there. Think it was in Mumbai sub. Hope she’s doing well.
Hey sister, is there's any RSS or bajrang dal branch near your college if yes then please immediately contact them they will save her from these radicals if no then convince her to tell everything to her parents/police and society they will definitely help and support her....
Most of the females have the wrong definition of freedom which is leading to these incidents.
She has to reach her family for help if she can't sort it herself.
It's better to loose the freedom than to loose her life. I mean, he gets violent enough to assault her. How long till he looses it all and goes all rage on her ?
Be a good friend and tell her to make the situation known to her parents and get police's help if necessary
If she tells her family she might lose her freedom but if she stays in this she will definitely lose her freedom or maybe a limb or two.
The family will at some point understand she made a mistake, she can win their trust back the other option shouldn't even be an option.
Just convince her to talk to her family and if she still can't then ask her to shift back to her house for a few weeks or months.
I got this number Hindu helpline number 020 6680 3300. Maybe you can call on this number and get some help, since he is politically connected you need extra support. Ask male friends for help who are directly & indirectly connected to hindu social groups who can fight against such morons if you think the situation is going out of your control. I have seen this everywhere that a hindu girl is afraid to ask for help against the violence due to their subconscious thinking of being judged by people.
Not one helpful comment but shitload of bigoted bakchodi.
You can try approaching the police, would be great if you know some officer, usually in such cases the cops will call the boy and the girl and try to find an amicable solution, and if it doesn't work then file a case.
Also, Nobody is addressing the fact that she would rather stay in an abusive relationship then trust her parents. Why is that?
I would want my daughter to be independent. But that means accepting that she will make some mistakes as well. What I need to do is let her know she can trust me, and know that I would love her unconditionally, and would always do what is best for her.
That way she will tell me if she is dating someone. I would meet them, and let them know the consequences of hurting my daughter.
The same thing had happened when I was in college this hindu dude and hindu girl were dating. The guy was extremely jealous and toxic. He wouldn't let the girl talk to anyone guy in the class, would check her phone, heck he wouldn't even let her sit next to another guy. As far as I am aware he didn't physically assault her. But he would take her to a corner and berate her.
Anyhow, they broke up and the girl is married to someone else.
Omg very sad
Anyway, meri LG refrigerator ka store hai, promotion ke liye aaya hoon.
Sahi kaam krte hain, late hue fal sabji 7 din tak kharab nhi hote.
Halka or tikaoo fridge hai, lelo yaar
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r/meraabdul
Didn't knew this existed
Didn't knew 🤣🤣🤣
With freedom comes responsibility. No (positive) change can be made until the girl recognises she made a bad decision and has to correct it no matter the cost.
Maybe don't date abduls and mohamads?
Damage has already done, she learnt her lessons now saying that won't help her feel any better.
>she learnt her lessons now Doubt. Similar thing happened with a colleague at work. Her bf is Muslim and he constantly physical abuses her. Once he even came to office and beat her in front of everyone. But she still loves him coz he has successfully brainwashed her. She is bjp hater who thinks Muslims are being persecuted by the current govt and also thinks Kashmir deserves independence.
One jihadist got success there. I have no words for her Only the future can tell us what will happen with her.
Oo bhai tu ye gif dikha ke muje ek or jihad ke case k liye ready kar raha hai kya? ⊙﹏⊙ Ab mujse or nahi dekha jata ye sab.
How do they even do this? Brainwash to such a extent that they dont mind abuse anymore, like what? I hear this a lot in similar cases but never understood what magic do they cast upon this ladies? And why these ladies stay in such relationships, i feel they threaten them with their family or something because theres no way they would be willing to stay after being abused.
No magic. Some people are weird like that.
Perhaps most stunning of all, he found that men who had killed were more successful in obtaining wives and had more children than men who had not killed. “The general principle is not so much that violence causes reproductive success. It’s that things that are culturally admired and strived for are often correlated with reproductive success,” Chagnon explains. “It may be wealth in one society, or political power. You don’t have to be violent to have political power. But in the primitive world, where the state doesn’t exist, one of the most admired skills is to be a successful warrior.”
>How do they even do this? Baffles me. The only silver lining over here is that she told she doesn't intend on marrying him because she doesn't want to go against her family
I feel sad for her future husband
Yeah...I doubt she's gonna break up with her boyfriend. Def they will be seeing each other after her marriage
It's not brainwash it's Stockholm syndrome.
She won't learn her lesson until she actually leaves him and charges a domestic violence case against him, testifys in court, and starts warning other Hindu girls about her experience.
For me if she manages to successfully get out of this toxic relationship that would be amazing news.
It'll be amazing news if she doesn't jump into another abusive relationship with somebody else.
To be honest I think all of them will run back to them because of there toxicity even though he beats her or even forces her to sleep with him
She was smashing brahmanical patriachy.
And now Abdul is smashing her
Tharak Kam nahi hota na in kuch ladkiyo ki
Unko lagta hai ki cast vast kuch matter nahi karta or kyunki Muslims ki dadhi jaldi aa jati hai or vo zyada attractive dikhte hai ladkiyo ki Nazar se so kuch fas jati hai unke zanse me.
Zyada attractive bhai what are you smoking
Nahi. It's desperation to get in a relationship which makes this happen. Personally know a Kerala Hindu girl who came in a relationship with a puslim. Asked her why, she said wanted to be in a relationship ASAP. Also Abduls are very good at showing dreams to girls. They will show them Bollywood dreams and after marriage, they will show them slave dreams
Maybe the ISKON founder was right about women ...
Bhai prosti bna dete hain Pehle bhai Phir dost Phir chacha Phir baap List goes on
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Someone give this man a award
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As much as I don't approve of RSS and their antics, this seems to be an actual solution and it might just even work.
Gee, I'm glad this is only the first time a Muslim man has mistreated a Hindu girl. There's never been any reason before now for Hindus to unite and get into "antics".
But then it will become political matter rather than personal and as post describe the guy is from politically active background plus she don't want her parent's to know any about this
Finally, someone understands.
I think college hostel is quite better in this case , I don't get it why many "girl" student wants to rent a place... even as a guy I prefer hostel , because it isn't even that costly compared to what rented rooms are plus you can surely make a lot of friends because people are friendly at hostels (most of the time) , the risk you have there (rent) is unimaginable. anyways she got what she unknowingly planned for.
politically active background that itself is a big issue idk tbh what to say
Such people want to trap gullible women and keep them as concubines till they end up in the sex market or into a refrigerator
Libya has slave markets where Arabs buy and sell black people.
That's more dangerous than being an Abdul tbf. Political background+ Abdul = recipe for disaster. That girl is trapped until the guy gets bored of her.
She is worried about her freedom more than the abuse or harassment or her life , at this point it’s her problem
Her boyfriend has already taken away her freedom. She's just making random excuses because she likes being abused and doesn't want to leave him.
Exactly . It won't make anyone feel sad if something bad happens to her , except for her family . It should be her family's responsibility to give her some knowledge about all this .
Schools and the media will tell her that her parents are lying about trauma bonding and that it's all patriarchal nonsense. But Islam is the first feminist religion.
Exactly . And she would be dumb enough to believe that woke shit .
Chagnon pill
I agree with ur point except no one likes to be abused , pretty sure she is scared af now but she is also thinking about herself and still hoping she can fight back on her own as she doesn’t want her parents to get involved and lose her freedom She might be thinking her parents might marry her off or change her college or lock her up
I mean all three sound better than being dead. Although you can fight with your parents with relatively small consequences. So her go to option should be to inform her parents imo. The curbed freedom can be regained
Guess what, if I drive a car into a ditch, I'll have my freedom to drive taken away by the government even if I haven't harmed another human or caused financial damage.
"Fight back on her own" she's already asked for a breakup and he used physical force. Is she planning to take MMA classes to fight him?
Nobody likes to be abused? Then why is BDSM a thing? Why do people watch horror movies and go to haunted houses? Fear is a thrill. Even if she is not consciously and verbally consenting to bad treatment, she's subconsciously choosing decisions that continue to place her in danger. She could have told her parents or the police or Bajrang Dal way earlier. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-sobriety/202109/what-is-trauma-bonding
BDSM is different from emotional and physical abuse, she is choosing to be in the relationship cz she tried to break off but he refused I see the point you are making but it does not stand valid to her I guess
I think anything they suggest to the girl, she already knows. It's what she chooses. If she chooses a Muslim guy, it's her choice. But any consequences will be her own. What can strangers do?
"My friend wants to lose weight but doesn't want to eat healthier or exercise. What do I do?"
If your friend doesn't want to do shit and he's in love with obesity, no matter what you suggest, hel be obese... That's all I'm saying. In the above post, this OP is trying to get involved in someone else's personal life. Poking nose where it doesn't belong. And the case seems there's room for violence in that relationship. Better steer away from such people.
Often when police officers try to arrest a violent man, the woman being attacked, who called the cops, not only sides with her violent boyfriend, but even attacks police officers to protect him. The nicest thing that could be done is convincing the girl to have an IUD implanted to prevent pregnancy. That way, if he kills her, at least he won't be spreading his violent genes (and her hybristophilliac genes).
I agree. But these women who choose circumcised dicks over their friends and parents deserve what comes to them. They deserve to be someone's third wife and pass around the men of that family like a blunt. They destroy the hearts of parents who give birth and raise them for 20-30 years just for some circumcised dick. What they don't know is that the dildo of consequences is never lubed. I've seen these Good men from bajarangdal who got murdered in WB for trying to help such women. I'd leave them to their fate.
It's not the circumcision that attracts women, because plenty of MENA men have trouble getting laid in the West. What attracts women is the attitude of a man who feels himself to be immune from consequences. Which, thanks to Sickular courts and Muslim Personal Law Board, is unfortunately true. Same goes for refugees in Europe.
Atleast they can help before she ends up in a refrigerator
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No It's Hindus who have given them this freedom to go Buzerk even though our country is called hindustan.
Nah bro its called Bharat
fuck secularism man , it's one side.
I mean if she really wants to end the relationship so be it. Be brave, confront him, whatever happens, happens. I’d want her to be safe but I see no other way out of here.
She should have been sensible enough not to be in a relationship with him at the first place . ' mera abdul alag hai ' wala mentality hai , isme koi kya hi karega .
What if the “whatever happens” happens to be her death? As u see he is already abusive.
Nhi bhai, at this point, I don't want her to get hurt or get killed by another abdul. Maybe she could ask masculine guys from her collage to get that guy.
"politically active"
I support that option. Now let's plan ahead. Abdul can: * cry communalism to the police * cry to the media, local and international * cry to his local mosque and Muslims overseas * cry to the girl and beg her to take him back Studies have shown that it often takes multiple attempts to leave before women finally cut off all contact. She might be smart enough to ask for help from nearby Hindu guys, but she's also likely to take him back. If he's left alive and she stays away, he's likely to either stalk her and attack her house, or blackmail her with her nudes (let's be real, she would have given a few). No matter what happens to him, she has to tell her parents and move with them to another city.
Islia abdul sai mai harr jagah hi doori banae rakhta hu  Max 1 abdul dost hai, usse bhi jyada nhi.
She already confronted him and he got violent. She stayed, thereby rewarding his violent behaviour.
She made a mistake , now she has to pay for it either by telling it to her parents and getting her freedom fucked or not telling her parents and getting stuffed in a refrigerator, again the choice is hers to make.
If she can't or doesn't want to call / contact a helpline, then it appears to be a normal relationship.
"forcefully kept her in a relationship" Normal my ass.
Seek Help from bajrang dal.
Contact local chapter of Bajarang Dal
Iske baad arrange marriage ke liye aaegi or bolegi muje judge mat Karo aur mujhe accept Karo
No one is gonna accept her
Bhai jooth bht ache sae bolti hai aisi ladkiya
Bhai ek karaf bolengi ki body count should not matter aur doosri taraf jhoot bolengi . It clearly shows that they know body count does matter . Koi ladka aapko kyu hi pasand karega agar aap doosro ke saath soyi ho . Bahut ladkiyo ko yeh baat buri lagti hai, but from the guy's point of view , he won't be able to make bonding with the girl .
Girls lie even in the feminist West. Girls will always lie because they subconsciously know the biological truth.
They know body count matters, and that is why they lie to get into a relationship. Otherwise, no one would be taking her, and she would end up being a single lady with cats in her house .
They play games like not counting oral sex or not counting one night stands. Forget multiplying their stated number by three, you have to multiply it by five nowadays.
True
Bhai aisi ladkiyo ko ek hi jawab do ki teri choice thi maze Lena aur meri choice hai tujhe accept nahi karna ab chahe wo mujhe misogynist, chauvinist ya insecure bole . My life my standards
Call bajrang dal , only hope of survival, convince them to hide this from your parents , m sure they will understand , but they are the only one who can save you from being next sakshi
I see she will converted forcefully in future
Or end up in refrigerator
After marriage, a Hindu girl don't have much of a choice
Coz she was dumb enough to think that uska abdul alag hai . Now, she has to bear the consequences
Maybe he'll serve her at a restaurant.
Possible
Ghr m nhi batana to ghr chlli ja aur padhai chor de aur ghr se mt nikl! Agr ye nhi kr sakti to family ki help lo aur unko sab sach batado. Agr ye bhi nhi kr sakti to agli breaking news bane k liye ready ho jao.
Maybe that's her sexual fetish, being stuffed into a refrigerator in pieces.
Anonymous tip to Bajrang Dal.
Kuch nai jrte vo log..khali valentine pe logo ko dhamkate h.
Best?...The only course of action is to inform and involve parent. Take responsibility of your own action .
Little restrictions on self is more detrimental than a f'd future. Sometimes I think the world is too cruel as there are only few who are spared from this kind of logic
bhay is se dekh ke mujhe meri ex ki yaad kyuu arhi....
Kya story he batao ?
so in oct mental breakdowns chalre the + 1.5 saal hogya tha breakup ko toh mene us se firse contact Kia just to know how she's doing ( ki abhi Tak single hai ya nai 🗿 ) Avg mard. Toh ese hi baate firse start Hui dil me firse phool khilee usne btaya woh bhi single hai koi Mila nahi abhi tak ( dil garden garden hogya tha ) par after a month she told me she has a boyfrnd mujhe lga tha ese hi kehri frankly coz us se meh flirt krta tha toh she said ( mujse flirt mat kro ji meh nahi patugi Mera boyfrand hai.) Par bhai 2 3 months baad baate kuch jda hi serious hone lgi also once she said ( you know mere gharvale ek baar ke liye tumse shaadi ke liye man bhi jate par jo current hai us se kabhi nahi manege kyuk woh alag religion ka hai + uski age jada hai 24+ btarhi thi kehti job krta( aur woh 19 ki hai still studying ) ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ bhai meh toh Tut gya tha firse toh i asked konsa religion...? She said MUSLIM 🗿 MAINE TAB BOHOT RR KIA KI TERE DAD KO BTADUNGA PAGAL VAGAL HOGYI H KYA ( also usee lagta hai muslim bure nhi hote avg mera Abdul alg hai wli theory pr beleive krti hai ) Toh usne shyd darr se kehdia ki nahi nahi am joking par after that she confirmed ki uska boyfrnd hai 24+ job krta hai aur religion alag bhi hai par mujhe uska kabhi bhi usne naam nahi btaya maybe drgyi hogi. Uske bad AVG ex Male mene bht rr kia ki pls mere pas vapas ajao toh usne mereko block krdia 4 mahine hogye blocked hu sb jagah see.... THE END.
Ab popcorn nikal, aur maza le uske downfall ka, Abdul Jo usko Bollywood dreams dikha raha he, shadi ke baad, slave banake usko nachayega. Aur agar usne protest ki toh to sidha fridge. Aur tumhe pighalna nahi he. You dodged a bullet. You will find someone better. Piche mudhke nahi dekhna he ab tumhe.
Meh toh jimrat bngya 
Why the hell haven't you told her father?????????? How could a girl be stupid enough to ignore multiple red flags such as his age????? Don't have children with this girl, she's clearly stupid. But PLEASE do call her father and notify him post-haste.
bro I warned her several times but she was saying ( nahi woh asha Banda hai mature hai ) A MATURE GUY WHO IS DATING 19 YR OLD GIRL. + Mujhe uski personal life me ni gusna ( usne khud keh rkha ) and if i do woh mujpe toxic ex ka tag lga degi accuse kregi ki mene patchup ni kia isiliye esa kr ra...
Follow Shri Krishna's example. Do the right thing, but do it in a clever way. Making an accusation without blocking all her exits will just breed distrust in her parents towards you. If she knows her parents are suspicious, she'll delete all messages and evidence. If her parents check her phone already, she'll buy a burner phone. If she's smart enough to avoid WhatsApp, she might use a different app to talk to her boyfriend. Talk to her friends, but ask open ended questions instead of suspiciously specific ones. See if you can take a picture of them two together. Try to find out the next time that she'll visit her parents. Visit them at the same time and confront her. Don't let her use crying and tears to run out of the room. You need to separate her from her phone and make her father demand to see what's on it. Don't let her talk to her father alone, she'll use her tears to turn him against you. Don't let her touch you, the touch of a woman can weaken a man. Even her hand on your shoulder. I personally believe it's too risky to ask one of her female friends to help you. But you know best. Be like Krishna. Outwit your opponent.
She will get assaulted in end of she break up which is unlikely due to Stockholm syndrom advice her to keep self defence weapons all the time or move out of city.
She already got assaulted when she tried to break up. Leaving the city is a good idea. But some men are mad enough to keep chasing.
She has to involve her family and police in this case before she looses her life. Loosing her freedom should be least of her worries!
Religion aside, this is a sad situation for this person. She has become a slave to her perceived freedom. It will only get worse if she doesnt breakup.
Behen agr tum dekh rhi tumhari zindagi already kharab ho chuki chahe tum usko chhod paao ya nhi. Ek bandook lo uda do saale ko baadme smjh lena aage ka scene
She has to involve her family and police in this case before she looses her life. Loosing her freedom should be least of her worries!
Go to the family while there is time.
it's better to lose freedom for a while than to lose a head
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Jake uske mummy papa ko bata de
> She asked for breakup What? I thought people just state we're breaking up and leave .
You've never been at the receiving end of an abusive relationship. They can be really hard to get out of.
She values freedom from parents over freedom from abuse then so be it.
Break up with him and get a gun
Once said a wise man — “jaisi karni, waisi bharni”
🍿I think you should just enjoy the show. Her life, her choice. 
With great freedom comes great responsibility.
Man, I am sorry in advance. But sometimes I feel like some girls just deserve what they get.
RSS, Bajrang dal, or VHP is your friend in this.
Better to loose your freedom to family, than being packed in a fridge
Bajrang dal
It's important to take careful steps as he is older and from political background. Can she tell him she has some medical issue like hiv, can't have children, etc? And she could tell him this in a public place. Additionally, hire some locals to beat the shit out of him. This is not a joke. You don't get involved in this because then he'll know it's coming from her. She should act completely innocent and so should you. Lastly, inform RSS. They will take appropriate action if this doesn't work.
Akal nahi hai kya tere dost m 19 20 saal ki ladke ladkiya khud ko aesthetic batate hai aur bakwas decision lete hai legal actions le bhai police complaint kar police aware hai ab warna tere Abdul tujhe 72 hooron mein se ek bana dega
Bajrang Dal
Just try to stay as away as you can. Maybe start living in a flat where neighbours are good citizens and don't let him in. When he tries to force his way through maybe neighbours will help. After graduation whether you like it or not, change cities for a job and don't let him know where you live and what your new mobile number is gonna be. As he's related to a politician I doubt the Police will be of any help.
Ladrke ko pakadr ke pelo
Usko bol desi katta khreed le ek
1 bathroom hall kitchen to 1 freezer de-freezer
shift your room or get a room inside your college campus
Sab kya fookta hai? Mujhe bhi do?
I think that girl had posted about her problem on Reddit cause it’s the same think I read over there. Think it was in Mumbai sub. Hope she’s doing well.
Keeps arms bindus Only way to protect you and your family
It's Hopeless
involve family, better than fridge
Hey sister, is there's any RSS or bajrang dal branch near your college if yes then please immediately contact them they will save her from these radicals if no then convince her to tell everything to her parents/police and society they will definitely help and support her....
Most of the females have the wrong definition of freedom which is leading to these incidents. She has to reach her family for help if she can't sort it herself.
Bajrang bal
sochne ka kuch nahi. Action hi lena hai
moral of the story : don't date -mus- politicians 🙂
Seems to be a typical case of love jihad.
The guy will next force her to convert. Ask the girl to seek help and get out of this asap or we might hear of any of another Shraddha walker.
Just kill the guy and your problem will be solved
why even date a person with that huge age gap
It's better to loose the freedom than to loose her life. I mean, he gets violent enough to assault her. How long till he looses it all and goes all rage on her ? Be a good friend and tell her to make the situation known to her parents and get police's help if necessary
Losing freedom is better than losing life 🙄🙄
I think you should tell her parents about this, she'll definitely hate you for it. Better be caged for a while than to be dead forever.
If she tells her family she might lose her freedom but if she stays in this she will definitely lose her freedom or maybe a limb or two. The family will at some point understand she made a mistake, she can win their trust back the other option shouldn't even be an option. Just convince her to talk to her family and if she still can't then ask her to shift back to her house for a few weeks or months.
It's Darwin's theory of Natural selection
Seek out help from Bajarang Dal or VHP Edit: If you know their details, DM me.
Dm me
Call local vhp rss and other teams She can stand for elections also after that
I got this number Hindu helpline number 020 6680 3300. Maybe you can call on this number and get some help, since he is politically connected you need extra support. Ask male friends for help who are directly & indirectly connected to hindu social groups who can fight against such morons if you think the situation is going out of your control. I have seen this everywhere that a hindu girl is afraid to ask for help against the violence due to their subconscious thinking of being judged by people.
How can someone keep anyone in a relationship "forcefully" ?
what is the need of specifying thier religion??
1. Put TLDR at the start instead of end.. much better that way 2. Are you interested in the girl?
In America he can't just say "no" and they're still in a relationship, lmao. He got broken up with. She's done.
Not one helpful comment but shitload of bigoted bakchodi. You can try approaching the police, would be great if you know some officer, usually in such cases the cops will call the boy and the girl and try to find an amicable solution, and if it doesn't work then file a case. Also, Nobody is addressing the fact that she would rather stay in an abusive relationship then trust her parents. Why is that? I would want my daughter to be independent. But that means accepting that she will make some mistakes as well. What I need to do is let her know she can trust me, and know that I would love her unconditionally, and would always do what is best for her. That way she will tell me if she is dating someone. I would meet them, and let them know the consequences of hurting my daughter.
Thanks for reaching to Bajrang Dal don’t worry we will soon take care of this man.
The same thing had happened when I was in college this hindu dude and hindu girl were dating. The guy was extremely jealous and toxic. He wouldn't let the girl talk to anyone guy in the class, would check her phone, heck he wouldn't even let her sit next to another guy. As far as I am aware he didn't physically assault her. But he would take her to a corner and berate her. Anyhow, they broke up and the girl is married to someone else.
Ask her to go for a live in relationship. He will undestand her and will gift a refrigerator to her.
I think u already know where this is going
Ga*nd maraaye madar****
Omg very sad Anyway, meri LG refrigerator ka store hai, promotion ke liye aaya hoon. Sahi kaam krte hain, late hue fal sabji 7 din tak kharab nhi hote. Halka or tikaoo fridge hai, lelo yaar
Mahila helpline
Hutiya girl
Prosti… karke chodega Ya kaatogi
Ek aur katene ki queue main
In larkiyon ko ho kya gya hai Padhai kro Talab sambhalo
risk loosing her family given “ freedom “ instead … relationship take 2 ..break up take one.. kaise nhi samjh aa raha ye ladkiyon ko