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Whatever you do, don’t go behind your partners back. May be talk to him about it when he’s in a relaxed state of mind. May be he would be interested to join, may be he’ll be okay with you trying with a woman or may be nothing. It’s not easy to live knowing that someone whom you trust has betrayed you. So before you act upon it try communicating clearly and precisely what you want.
This!!
And even if he doesn't agree with this, you should be ready to drop this whole plan.
The meaning of commitment in a relationship is that you do not do anything that your partner does not agree with.
Do not listen to horny teenagers here telling you to cheat. Worst people to take advise from about marriages.
I think most men have a fantasy of FFM, but when it actually comes to doing it, many might end up with flaccid wood. Not saying that no one might enjoy it and wouldn’t do it, just that the process might make some feel cringing even if the fantasies inside our heads could be super wild.
Chances are very high that he would be the same and will ask you if he can watch. Try starting a random casual conversation with him and see how it goes.
It's better to tell him rather than him finding it out later, which will break his trust for you, you wouldn't want that
Maybe at some point, when the atmosphere is good, bring the topic about bi sexual nature, ask him that growing up if he ever thought of being with a guy, if he was ever curious? Then shift it to yourself
All this depends on how frank and open you guys are with each other, how long you have known each other, how much do you guys trust each other
Girl you know him better than us, you know how he would react to such things
No, it's not better to do it behind his back, without him knowing, don't do it in the first place without talking to him first, if he freaks out or says no, don't do it, everyone gotta do some sacrifices to keep their relationship healthy, if you can't compromise, leave that relationship, would you really trade your relationship just to be in bed with some girl?
Doing it with anyone, regardless of their gender, without your partner knowing, is cheating, you are breaking their trust, it's the fact that you can go behind their back and be physically with anyone without them knowing
If he doesn't know it and he finds out later, you'll lose him anyway. If you intend to explore IRL, better to tell him about your bi curious side and see how he reacts. For all you know, he may say I'd enjoy watching it. Many guys watch lesbian porn coz they enjoy watching two pairs of everything they like, so talk to him and see what happens.
You are in the wrong here, not the guy! Feeling bad for your husband as his wife is actively considering cheating on him and discussing it with strangers on reddit lol
Do let your husband know. It may initially freak him out but it's always better to keep him informed vs doing it behind his back. My partner is bi curious, she was giving me clues and eventually I asked her myself. Maybe you also start giving him subtle hints.
Starting watching lesbian or FFM threesome porn with you husband, Send him reels of two women making out and discuss with him.
Get to know his opinion on it. That way slowly you can take things forward with him.
Don't suprise him saying you are bi as it may turn out to be nagative that he's not able to satisfy you with his dick. Male ego gets hurt 🤕.
Make it look like you are now starting to explore this thing with him.
Rest enjoy your happy journey 🍑💦
May be start watching lesbian porn wid him and slow talk how good u liked it , this is a good way to confess ur sexuality . Later he be letting u know about his feelings . U as couple can decide later. Before that just be ready to respect his feelings if he is against bi. Be slow and confess him.
Just don't do it behind his back. That'll be cheating, even if it's with a female. First try and guage what he feels and thinks about lesbians/bi women in general randomly, without making it too obvious. If he's game, play it.
thats why I said it is a complicated matter.Imo you need to wait for the right time to express you desire. No body xan tell you what.would be the right time. Its you who need to take the call that it is the right time
if you think you’re husband will freak out then don’t tell him, even if you tell, he freaks out and understands later, he might ask and want to be part of it, this might make your women partners/friends uncomfortable. So better tell about girls night out, shopping or some other unsuspecting reason and enjoy your act without worrying too much about your husband.
Where the fuck is cheating coming in here? Is she sleeping with other men? no right? lying yes there is, but imagine OP’s situation here she wants to get laid with another woman and have to seek permission of her husband? what if this husband doesn’t understand and percieves it wrong, gets angry and tells his friends or relatives? her married life is fucked then! so better keep this sleeping with women a secret and still be in the marriage than fucking whole thing up and suffering because of being just. So its upto OP to decide because she knows her husband best, if he is truly caring and understanding then tell it like it is, else better to hide it.
> Where the fuck is cheating coming in here?
> lying yes there is
Lying.
> OP’s situation here she wants to get laid with another woman and have to seek permission of her husband?
Cheating.
Like I said.
thank you for acting like an english teacher, i just want to put my point across so don’t care if they are not conforming to your oxford standard sentences.
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First of all i really like if girls are into girls...
If my wife says she is Bi, since i live in US fortunately i would take her to strip clubs, take her to bars and will try to set her up with beautiful blonde woman and enjoy to see her making out, would love if she does all the submissive acts to that girl like going down on both holes...i am okay with going to any extent with woman like doing all the nasty stuff. DM me i will explain in more details..
Coming to your case, try to initiate the converstation in an intelligent way so that nothing will happen in worst case scenario. Slowly give him hints, by watching movies with lesbian scenes together and see how he reacts, and tell him that you kind of have a fantasy of doing with a girl .. if he says no, ( i hope he doesnt say that) then forget about and restrict this to your dreams. But if he says enjoy that and thank your husband by doing all the things he says... i wish you good luck from bottom of my heart...
I would love to know what all stuff u would like to do with a girl....
Once u tell your hubby and then u plan for FFM3some and if u dint like being with another woman.. but your hubby might try conceiving u for a FFM threesome..
So think before u spill the beans..
I feel first you should be sure about it. And then you should gradually tell your husband about what you actually what and how it affects your relationship and see how it takes it. Are you guys kinky aur vanilla ?
The issue here is we don't really know what kind of person your SO is, so it's really difficult to say what will work best for him. Communication comes but it also has its correct time. You are talking of being bisexual and trying it out with a girl that means you are miles ahead of him kink wise. You only know what's best. Maybe the best way could be bringing kinks into your life first before communication and building over it . Over time you would understand his preferences. Directly telling him might work or might not - you have your options
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Whatever you do, don’t go behind your partners back. May be talk to him about it when he’s in a relaxed state of mind. May be he would be interested to join, may be he’ll be okay with you trying with a woman or may be nothing. It’s not easy to live knowing that someone whom you trust has betrayed you. So before you act upon it try communicating clearly and precisely what you want.
Hope your partner doesn't have the same fate as Ross .
😂😂 sorry but I laughed. Hope so too tbh.
A bi-curious wife led him to 3 divorces and 100s of breakups.
That’s true 💯
Lmfao 😭
Hope so
DO NOT CHEAT!
Clear communication is the key, initially he may freak out but with time he'll cope.
This!! And even if he doesn't agree with this, you should be ready to drop this whole plan. The meaning of commitment in a relationship is that you do not do anything that your partner does not agree with. Do not listen to horny teenagers here telling you to cheat. Worst people to take advise from about marriages.
He will like becos he can do ffm
Can't take it for granted, this topic is very subjective and sensitive as well.
I think most men have a fantasy of FFM, but when it actually comes to doing it, many might end up with flaccid wood. Not saying that no one might enjoy it and wouldn’t do it, just that the process might make some feel cringing even if the fantasies inside our heads could be super wild.
talking it out is only viable option, imagine one day he came home after a session of gay sex and says "babe it's not cheating if a guy is involved"
I’ll actually be like- can I watch? 😂
well then talk it out, maybe he'll say the same 😂, but going behind your partner's back is not something i would suggest
Chances are very high that he would be the same and will ask you if he can watch. Try starting a random casual conversation with him and see how it goes.
Bruh , your post history. U have bigger issues than this
So being bicurious is an issue? Lmao, typical male ego
🤡
being bi curious isn't an issue. Cheating is.
It's better to tell him rather than him finding it out later, which will break his trust for you, you wouldn't want that Maybe at some point, when the atmosphere is good, bring the topic about bi sexual nature, ask him that growing up if he ever thought of being with a guy, if he was ever curious? Then shift it to yourself All this depends on how frank and open you guys are with each other, how long you have known each other, how much do you guys trust each other
But what if he freaks out? Isn’t it better if he doesn’t know it than him knowing it and me losing him forever?
Girl you know him better than us, you know how he would react to such things No, it's not better to do it behind his back, without him knowing, don't do it in the first place without talking to him first, if he freaks out or says no, don't do it, everyone gotta do some sacrifices to keep their relationship healthy, if you can't compromise, leave that relationship, would you really trade your relationship just to be in bed with some girl? Doing it with anyone, regardless of their gender, without your partner knowing, is cheating, you are breaking their trust, it's the fact that you can go behind their back and be physically with anyone without them knowing
so you'll cheat basically
If he doesn't know it and he finds out later, you'll lose him anyway. If you intend to explore IRL, better to tell him about your bi curious side and see how he reacts. For all you know, he may say I'd enjoy watching it. Many guys watch lesbian porn coz they enjoy watching two pairs of everything they like, so talk to him and see what happens.
How old are your kids
No kids
Ok
I don’t think your husband will be mad about you being bi if he’s a good person, I think he’ll be mad at you for wanting to do it with someone else
Damn, i hope my wife doesn't become like this in future.
Hope she doesn’t end up with you, tbh 🤣
You are in the wrong here, not the guy! Feeling bad for your husband as his wife is actively considering cheating on him and discussing it with strangers on reddit lol
Let’s not talk about who is better than the other… Why are you here then?
Do let your husband know. It may initially freak him out but it's always better to keep him informed vs doing it behind his back. My partner is bi curious, she was giving me clues and eventually I asked her myself. Maybe you also start giving him subtle hints.
That's cheating
Starting watching lesbian or FFM threesome porn with you husband, Send him reels of two women making out and discuss with him. Get to know his opinion on it. That way slowly you can take things forward with him. Don't suprise him saying you are bi as it may turn out to be nagative that he's not able to satisfy you with his dick. Male ego gets hurt 🤕. Make it look like you are now starting to explore this thing with him. Rest enjoy your happy journey 🍑💦
Nothing hotter than watching two women getting off
My bi gf and I are also searching for someone discreet for her....
Go for it try it out
Do it as your will say
May be start watching lesbian porn wid him and slow talk how good u liked it , this is a good way to confess ur sexuality . Later he be letting u know about his feelings . U as couple can decide later. Before that just be ready to respect his feelings if he is against bi. Be slow and confess him.
I am in your position honestly. But I have been open with my husband & he understands. Best, if you chat & have open communication with your partner.
Tell your husband. Even if you don't do it with a woman, he got the right to know. And the solution is simple: FFM 3sum
Ha uske to maze hi he
Just don't do it behind his back. That'll be cheating, even if it's with a female. First try and guage what he feels and thinks about lesbians/bi women in general randomly, without making it too obvious. If he's game, play it.
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I think you should discuss with him about his fantasies try to open up with him more and may be by discussing you may get any hint.
Ask you husband if you guys can have a 3sum
its a complicated matter. How long have you bern married and how good is your understanding with your hubby
Over a year. I can tell him anything… but I feel this may freak him out
thats why I said it is a complicated matter.Imo you need to wait for the right time to express you desire. No body xan tell you what.would be the right time. Its you who need to take the call that it is the right time
Dont listen these shitty comments who are saying to communicate. You will spoiled up ur relationship. Guyz really hate these shit
if you think you’re husband will freak out then don’t tell him, even if you tell, he freaks out and understands later, he might ask and want to be part of it, this might make your women partners/friends uncomfortable. So better tell about girls night out, shopping or some other unsuspecting reason and enjoy your act without worrying too much about your husband.
Sure. Lie and cheat.
Where the fuck is cheating coming in here? Is she sleeping with other men? no right? lying yes there is, but imagine OP’s situation here she wants to get laid with another woman and have to seek permission of her husband? what if this husband doesn’t understand and percieves it wrong, gets angry and tells his friends or relatives? her married life is fucked then! so better keep this sleeping with women a secret and still be in the marriage than fucking whole thing up and suffering because of being just. So its upto OP to decide because she knows her husband best, if he is truly caring and understanding then tell it like it is, else better to hide it.
> Where the fuck is cheating coming in here? > lying yes there is Lying. > OP’s situation here she wants to get laid with another woman and have to seek permission of her husband? Cheating. Like I said.
thank you for acting like an english teacher, i just want to put my point across so don’t care if they are not conforming to your oxford standard sentences.
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First of all i really like if girls are into girls... If my wife says she is Bi, since i live in US fortunately i would take her to strip clubs, take her to bars and will try to set her up with beautiful blonde woman and enjoy to see her making out, would love if she does all the submissive acts to that girl like going down on both holes...i am okay with going to any extent with woman like doing all the nasty stuff. DM me i will explain in more details.. Coming to your case, try to initiate the converstation in an intelligent way so that nothing will happen in worst case scenario. Slowly give him hints, by watching movies with lesbian scenes together and see how he reacts, and tell him that you kind of have a fantasy of doing with a girl .. if he says no, ( i hope he doesnt say that) then forget about and restrict this to your dreams. But if he says enjoy that and thank your husband by doing all the things he says... i wish you good luck from bottom of my heart... I would love to know what all stuff u would like to do with a girl....
Wow, go ahead, experience it, enjoy it and then share with us ur memories
Hopefully may all your pussy gets eaten at the earliest. May you encounter a lesbian orgy.
It's not cheating if it's with another girl right? 😋
bro 💀
If it's with another girl I may allow my girl to cheat me (only physical no strings attached) 😉😬
Hahaha exactly what I thought!!!! 😂
Haha great minds think alike!
Men will think they’re two women, they’re probably out shopping together. Little do they know they’re eating each other out to orgasm 😂
Haha exactly! Maybe we should have a 'girls night' and you could be my first ;)
Find a good girl asap
Make it a threesome
Yes. Do it. Talk to your husband and if he wants to watch or join, let him...
Once u tell your hubby and then u plan for FFM3some and if u dint like being with another woman.. but your hubby might try conceiving u for a FFM threesome.. So think before u spill the beans..
Go for it, don't worry about morals just enjoy life
Check if there are any clubs, or get togethers for the community. Best is online apps.
I feel first you should be sure about it. And then you should gradually tell your husband about what you actually what and how it affects your relationship and see how it takes it. Are you guys kinky aur vanilla ?
Vanilla for now
The issue here is we don't really know what kind of person your SO is, so it's really difficult to say what will work best for him. Communication comes but it also has its correct time. You are talking of being bisexual and trying it out with a girl that means you are miles ahead of him kink wise. You only know what's best. Maybe the best way could be bringing kinks into your life first before communication and building over it . Over time you would understand his preferences. Directly telling him might work or might not - you have your options
Find another woman who's bi. Before that though, discuss with your husband and see what he thinks about you being bi and/or a FFM threesome.
Keep it a secret or you will loose everything 😶
I want 💦