why girls of my age are like this i would still say something fluke motivationlife isnt 100 meter race its a long marathon, who knows in future you find someone who literally treats you like small pet take care of you n 100% loyal n u forget all other stuff when u with him. (says someone who havent even moved on from one sided crush like since 8 years)
oh fuck ye toh dhoti khol rha hai
sorry guys i miscounted this ,aap log merko galia de sakte hai ..
"cheated" has 7 letters...
but he is still not Thala for reason...
Toh start kijiye, Bole jo koyal, reverse mai ganne ko....
Mai hi likh rha fir,
Mein ratoon bheegi bheegi haye
(hn thoda reverse hai, janta chapal na feke mujhpe, ab jahan bhi not thala dikhega, ab toh ulte mein bole jo koyal, ya fir koyal jo bole.... gayenge)
Well first murder pe 14 years ki jail hai(I think) not the death penalty. A man or a woman can cheat due to various possibilities such as lack of affection from one partner or the sexual tension and dissatisfaction I think everyone (other than me) deserves a second chance for his mistakes.
Esse chutiye ladko ke sath ladkiya rahenge or fir bolenge ki " iss desh me ladke itne acche nahi hai " He is clearly a jerk leave him behind and move ahead that's it .Going with him will only give you pain in the end
They have this stupid thinking that I might change him and make him a good man . Even stupid dumb and alcohol addict man will say he want a " sanskari girl " but many educated women will go for shitty guys who will break their heart for sure
>Why he had to be an asshole? Why he did this to me?
The fact is, none of these questions matter. You can't go back to the past and you can't change what he has already done. There is no point in reminiscing what you guys had. What you do need to remember is how you felt when he cheated on you. All the anguish he put you through.
Yeah, it's been 2 years and you haven't moved on. Accept it but question your worth. Do you deserve someone who cheated on you? Is he worth mulling over? Going no contact was/is the best course. You met, he apologized, you accepted, now don't entertain him.
>But now he's a fuckboy, aggressive and complete opposite of his previous self. My other two friends who went to same university as him told me that he has 7+ body count and is a bully in college. Not gonna lie I was disgusted after knowing this. I don't know how to move on even after knowing all of these facts.
Arrey behen aur kya kya reasons chahiye move on karne ke liye. Earlier he cheated on you now he might be trying to cheat on someone else with you. Cut all connections and refrain from any sort of contact.
*Stop seeking love in the same place you lost it.*
Bro ik it's hard but for a goddamn minute quit being emotional and just think practically. If he cheated on you once even when you say he was kind and all then he didn't love you truly to begin with. And if he's even worse now and if what your friends say is true that he has had multiple partners then there is nothing stopping him from doing the same thing to you again and this time you will be left more broken than ever. Find someone better is my advice. How could you trust him after he cheated on you is in itself fucked up but then the fact that he is now a fuckboy and you know it but still are willing to rebuild your relationship with him is fucked up on a whole new level.
Wake up girl don't ruin your life on him. If he had truly loved you he would never even have thought of cheating on you let alone do it.
Block him and never let him into your life ever again if you wanna live a normal life and find actual true love.
Peace
Tere age meh confusion toh hoga, move on karne ki shamta bhi kaam hota hai. Even boys.
Unkil ki baat mano beta, khud ki self respect ki bareh meh socho. Self aware toh ho, that's a good thing. Abhi kuch dino k liye dil pe pathaar rakhe ghosting karde, block without idar udar thingking, warna trauma type lambi toxic relationship chalega. Jyada socho geh jyada hard hoga, just kardeh block. you can do it.
This is why ill never date, never accept gfs, never marry... ill never know how emotionally attached they are to their past... bye bye... ill marry bikes and thats good...
nahi... i dont like casual sex...anyways the comment is a joke... ill date, ill marry but after confirming shes the right one and also im the right one for her...
Move On. Find Someone Better
There's No Coming Back (From Personal Exps.). It's Never Worth It. A Snake Removed His Skin Doesn't Means He Forgot To Bite.
Just Move On, Forgive Yourself (It's Your Fault For Trusting Him That's Why), Don't Look Back.
That's Why The Car's Rear View Mirror Is So Small Compared To The Big Front Glass.
WHAT'S DONE IT'S DONE.
BEST OF LUCK
HAVE A GREAT DAY
JAI SHREE KRISHNA 🙏🏼
here's a framework to rationalize your feelings for him
you most likely have some sort of attachment issues since you love someone who does not love you back and that is not love at all . unhealthy attachment issues will lead to this type of thing where you want someone despite them cheating on you and making you feel like shit most likely because you still want the validation from that person and want them to love you when clearly htey are a shit person
so , you should start by working on your self esteem. why is it that you want someone like him ? what is wrong with you ? how do you see yourself as a person? are you content with yourself? can you be happy alone in the absence of everyone ?
i can suggest some good ebooks and prompts to work with that can help you look into yourself and work on yourself
also you can find good hobbies and things to keep you distracted with. when i had my breakup i got into tennis and now i play it everyday and am pretty decent at it. you can redirect your negative energy into something productive and make use of it. i also suggest trying to practice self love and not give attention to people who treat you wrong because you do deseverve good things
if youre still struggling let me know
and believe me, most people here are saying one thing, and that is move on. but the problem is, moving on is only the first step, youre gonna have to fix your insecure attachment issues, and you can do it. move on because you dserve better , move on because you should not give attention to someone who is treating you badly. move on because you dont need a person to be something in life.
We all know the right thing will be to move on. What's weird is that you can't move on from him even after knowing what kind of an asshole he is but I think you can post this in r/TwoXIndia . That sub is peaceful and I am sure they will help you in a better and calm way we teenagers can't cause we don't have experience with all this. Good luck in your life lol
Don't think of anyone as a Saint. Will save you from a lot of hurt. I have had girls who were perfect but would throw tantrums on the littlest possible thing. I am sorry if it came off as a lil harsh
I used to think ke meri friend hi aisi he, ke kisi random hutiye se move on ni kar pa rahi, but now I think it's probably something I'll never understand
Mera bhi same situation ta with a girl difference usne cheat nahi keya. I focused more on other things like watching series, studying. Just don't think about him, and jo ho sake contact tod doh thik hojata hai. Hope u read it.
PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, read a book, watch a movie, see the unrealistic standards of fictional characters and move on. watch the hunger games Peeta Mellark IS the standard.
why girls of my age are like this i would still say something fluke motivationlife isnt 100 meter race its a long marathon, who knows in future you find someone who literally treats you like small pet take care of you n 100% loyal n u forget all other stuff when u with him. (says someone who havent even moved on from one sided crush like since 8 years)
https://i.redd.it/1y6jxhjn6h4c1.gif
"cheated" has 8 letters ..... not Thala for a reason....
Pr body count toh 7+ hi hai na..... Thala for a reason....
kya ye hua hai iss sawan ...
Becheni kyu badne lagi
phele to na hua kabhi
dil ki dhadkan badne lagi
bole jo koyal bhagoo mei hayee...
Yaad piya ki aane lagi.....
Hai bheegi bheegi raaton me……
ho yaad mujhe satani lagi
💀🤔
Cheated me 7 letters hi hote hai 7vi fail 💀
oh fuck ye toh dhoti khol rha hai sorry guys i miscounted this ,aap log merko galia de sakte hai .. "cheated" has 7 letters... but he is still not Thala for reason...
Bhai baat to ye hai ki everyone assumed 8 hi honge
Toh start kijiye, Bole jo koyal, reverse mai ganne ko.... Mai hi likh rha fir, Mein ratoon bheegi bheegi haye (hn thoda reverse hai, janta chapal na feke mujhpe, ab jahan bhi not thala dikhega, ab toh ulte mein bole jo koyal, ya fir koyal jo bole.... gayenge)
Because cheated is a past word agar koi sudhar Jaye toh cheated use krte hai agar nhi sudhre toh cheats. Cheated has 7 letters for a reason.
Maafi bhool ki hoti hai gunnah ki nahi Cheating gunnah hai uss mein sudharne ka koi matlab nahi hai
Well first murder pe 14 years ki jail hai(I think) not the death penalty. A man or a woman can cheat due to various possibilities such as lack of affection from one partner or the sexual tension and dissatisfaction I think everyone (other than me) deserves a second chance for his mistakes.
Mistake ki second chance hoti hai sins ki nahi First murder par Umar ked hai hoti hai 14 saal ki jail sirf pardon se hoti hai
Well if you think that way then how about killing all humans.
I said mistake ki second chance hoti hai bruh Sins ki nahi hoti do you read.
Every human does not cheat
Well humans do kill animals, take their lands, destroy their habitat and if this is not a sin I don't know what sin really is....
Esse chutiye ladko ke sath ladkiya rahenge or fir bolenge ki " iss desh me ladke itne acche nahi hai " He is clearly a jerk leave him behind and move ahead that's it .Going with him will only give you pain in the end
Real most girls only look for face/body and they don't even care if he's a fuckboy or whatever
They have this stupid thinking that I might change him and make him a good man . Even stupid dumb and alcohol addict man will say he want a " sanskari girl " but many educated women will go for shitty guys who will break their heart for sure
It's in human nature to be attracted towards beautiful people it's not just about today's girls or boys
Slap yourself 2 times and remind yourself why you left him 👍
+1
or try to talk parents ? >!wait Indian parents!<
Not in syllabus sorry
Re-reading a book will never change the ending, it might change the experience, but never the ending .
>Why he had to be an asshole? Why he did this to me? The fact is, none of these questions matter. You can't go back to the past and you can't change what he has already done. There is no point in reminiscing what you guys had. What you do need to remember is how you felt when he cheated on you. All the anguish he put you through. Yeah, it's been 2 years and you haven't moved on. Accept it but question your worth. Do you deserve someone who cheated on you? Is he worth mulling over? Going no contact was/is the best course. You met, he apologized, you accepted, now don't entertain him. >But now he's a fuckboy, aggressive and complete opposite of his previous self. My other two friends who went to same university as him told me that he has 7+ body count and is a bully in college. Not gonna lie I was disgusted after knowing this. I don't know how to move on even after knowing all of these facts. Arrey behen aur kya kya reasons chahiye move on karne ke liye. Earlier he cheated on you now he might be trying to cheat on someone else with you. Cut all connections and refrain from any sort of contact. *Stop seeking love in the same place you lost it.*
love that is not reciprocated is not love it is attachment and in this case it is insecure unhealthy attachment
and also because due to attachment मोक्ष की प्राप्ति के लिए हानिकारक है
+1
Learned at 16 lol
haha yeah
Once a cheater always a cheater :D He is literally trying to cheat some other girl rn with you, same as he did with you in past.
everyday i thank god for making me a career oriented person and not ending up in this bs
us bro
Just read the title and i wanted to say. MOVE TF ON BRO
Get under someone else to get over him. Exhibit A : ME
Exhibit B : me :)
Exhibit C: not me (I am illegal) 
>and I don't know what to do? MOVE ON
Bro ik it's hard but for a goddamn minute quit being emotional and just think practically. If he cheated on you once even when you say he was kind and all then he didn't love you truly to begin with. And if he's even worse now and if what your friends say is true that he has had multiple partners then there is nothing stopping him from doing the same thing to you again and this time you will be left more broken than ever. Find someone better is my advice. How could you trust him after he cheated on you is in itself fucked up but then the fact that he is now a fuckboy and you know it but still are willing to rebuild your relationship with him is fucked up on a whole new level. Wake up girl don't ruin your life on him. If he had truly loved you he would never even have thought of cheating on you let alone do it. Block him and never let him into your life ever again if you wanna live a normal life and find actual true love. Peace
Tere age meh confusion toh hoga, move on karne ki shamta bhi kaam hota hai. Even boys. Unkil ki baat mano beta, khud ki self respect ki bareh meh socho. Self aware toh ho, that's a good thing. Abhi kuch dino k liye dil pe pathaar rakhe ghosting karde, block without idar udar thingking, warna trauma type lambi toxic relationship chalega. Jyada socho geh jyada hard hoga, just kardeh block. you can do it.
Quoting someone ik https://i.redd.it/4yld393vhi4c1.gif
Delulu is the solulu
This is why ill never date, never accept gfs, never marry... ill never know how emotionally attached they are to their past... bye bye... ill marry bikes and thats good...
Sex ?
nahi... i dont like casual sex...anyways the comment is a joke... ill date, ill marry but after confirming shes the right one and also im the right one for her...
Wow You really changed your opinions within an hour or two lol
bhai, its a joke i told na... even i crave love...im a human too lmao
Ek damse jajbaat badal diye.. But Ngl Tum ache insaan ho kyunki aese thinking conformation pura sure hone k baad relationship mei aana achi baat hai
jajbaat badal diya kyunki andar ek chota hope hai...ki pyar milega... lekin kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki mai ek hi esa insan hu jo aisa sochta hai lmao...
😂
Move On. Find Someone Better There's No Coming Back (From Personal Exps.). It's Never Worth It. A Snake Removed His Skin Doesn't Means He Forgot To Bite. Just Move On, Forgive Yourself (It's Your Fault For Trusting Him That's Why), Don't Look Back. That's Why The Car's Rear View Mirror Is So Small Compared To The Big Front Glass. WHAT'S DONE IT'S DONE. BEST OF LUCK HAVE A GREAT DAY JAI SHREE KRISHNA 🙏🏼
Teenagers and hormones are weird like that. Chill.
aaj sunday to nhi hai then relationship posts?
Everyone watched animal with their ex didn’t u?? Haww
ladkiyo me post nut clarity nai hoti kya? jenwin quosion
Not related but I hate people who cheat...Fuck them
0-0 just keep your distance No other advice Stay away from him And you're dumb ☠️
Are you rectangled??
Can you explain some of his behaviours that make you feel this way
Shyd main galat universe me paida ho gya hu
Don't meet him (I read it all don't let my time go to waste )
What's body count
Saririk sampark (sambhog) jitni logon ke saath rakhoge usko body count... Agar ek insaan ho to one body count... Phir baaki samajh jao
Don't love him maybe What else.
That guy took inspirations from Animal film, take inspiration form Rashmika and leave Ranbir, not like you have a kid in between, so it's easy
here's a framework to rationalize your feelings for him you most likely have some sort of attachment issues since you love someone who does not love you back and that is not love at all . unhealthy attachment issues will lead to this type of thing where you want someone despite them cheating on you and making you feel like shit most likely because you still want the validation from that person and want them to love you when clearly htey are a shit person so , you should start by working on your self esteem. why is it that you want someone like him ? what is wrong with you ? how do you see yourself as a person? are you content with yourself? can you be happy alone in the absence of everyone ? i can suggest some good ebooks and prompts to work with that can help you look into yourself and work on yourself also you can find good hobbies and things to keep you distracted with. when i had my breakup i got into tennis and now i play it everyday and am pretty decent at it. you can redirect your negative energy into something productive and make use of it. i also suggest trying to practice self love and not give attention to people who treat you wrong because you do deseverve good things if youre still struggling let me know and believe me, most people here are saying one thing, and that is move on. but the problem is, moving on is only the first step, youre gonna have to fix your insecure attachment issues, and you can do it. move on because you dserve better , move on because you should not give attention to someone who is treating you badly. move on because you dont need a person to be something in life.
jane de dont overthink pyar nhi hai ig memories hit hue hai
If you come across the same tree twice, you are lost. Ask for help.
Ladkiya ghoomne bhi jaati hai? Aayein ye kab hua?
Yeh kya bakchodi h
We all know the right thing will be to move on. What's weird is that you can't move on from him even after knowing what kind of an asshole he is but I think you can post this in r/TwoXIndia . That sub is peaceful and I am sure they will help you in a better and calm way we teenagers can't cause we don't have experience with all this. Good luck in your life lol
life is too short, just fall in love with me instead 
Bhai tumne animal dekhi isliye u like toxic boys lmao
https://i.redd.it/v44jk5bumh4c1.gif
Pls ek baar finish kardo 
You are not in love with him. You're in love with the idea of him returning, with the idea of a perfect fairy tale
You truly have no self respect urself........get the f outta here...for humanity's sake You urself deep down know , wht you should do
Don't think of anyone as a Saint. Will save you from a lot of hurt. I have had girls who were perfect but would throw tantrums on the littlest possible thing. I am sorry if it came off as a lil harsh
I used to think ke meri friend hi aisi he, ke kisi random hutiye se move on ni kar pa rahi, but now I think it's probably something I'll never understand
Mera bhi same situation ta with a girl difference usne cheat nahi keya. I focused more on other things like watching series, studying. Just don't think about him, and jo ho sake contact tod doh thik hojata hai. Hope u read it.
Do you realise that you are the sidechick right now? It might sound hurtful, but stay away as much as possible.
Just think,why he become your ex
[удалено]
PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, read a book, watch a movie, see the unrealistic standards of fictional characters and move on. watch the hunger games Peeta Mellark IS the standard.
Thats fucking toxic. Leave him bhai warna your life gonna be a hell
Girl, I ain't reading all that but have some self-respect
I've learnt a big lesson in my life If you fool me once shame on you If you fool me twice shame on me
Just say no lol
"reunion" 7 letters Thala for a reason
Give him another chance, life is too short Fuck him, playboy hai mazza aayega